Why I don't fear death (and you shouldn't either)

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[@CritterMom]

The last words my dad said to me were” Oh Sandy…….it’s SO beautiful” I can still hear him 26 years later💙

[@davidpalmer7175]

Nobody can ask for a more perfect experience in closure.

[@kathyinwonderlandl.a.8934]

Wow you’re so lucky to have caught those words and feelings 🌟

[@Avery_4272]

Thank you for sharing this.

[@gobsmacked230]

68 here and lost my fear years ago. I fear losing my loved ones and pets (still recovering from the loss of my beloved 19 year old cat 6 months ago), pain and financial challenges making life more difficult... but dying? The older I get the less I fear it. If a lot of us dare to admit it I think many look forward to the end of the hardships and suffering in this world. I'm not suicidal...my health is good and I'll plug away here until it's my time. Nurse Julie is truly heaven sent.

[@user-zp8ee8oy7m]

@@gobsmacked230 78 & SO TRUE NO FEAR THE ONLY FEAR I HAVE IS A TOO LONG DEATH OF LIFE

[@BeechHouse]

My mother's last coherent words before she would die a few days later, were "Everyone is here!". She smiled consistently til the end.

[@shawnbruce6934]

Wow!

[@cakozmo1]

That's what my mom said too. I knew she was about to Pasa when she said she saw my deceased dad and sister. 😢 I miss her..

[@josephschaller2972]

Last words my daughter said to me was daddy am i dying? I said i dont know but we all die someday. I said i do see jesus by your shoulder thou. She whispered thats good and she passed. I miss het every minute of rvery day and vant wait till we meet again. The lord allowed me to have my special angel and i know her father in heaven is taking good care of her now.

[@Gilyslas]

My mom said exactly the same thing.

[@philipwood8776]

I dont fear death...I fear leaving my children behind in this crazy world once I'm gone

[@derekfagerwold4024]

That's exactly how I feel. I pray to God that he's able to become an adult and move on with his life before I go.

[@npwarr2651]

Same!

[@Gernot66]

Haven't you made it?

[@philipwood8776]

@@Gernot66 Yes, but the world wasn't as crazy when I was growing up

[@Gernot66]

@@philipwood8776 You won :(

[@janetomdebenedetto837]

I am 74, I sure hope that when my time comes that there is someone like you there. You are a treasure.

[@aliaschannel8877]

Jesus will carry you through if you put your trust in Jesus

[@peteblum2143]

74 years old also and totally agree with you

[@Everything-mh4bp]

@@janetomdebenedetto837 as a 19 year old if I make it to 74 I don’t think I’m going to forget this comment

[@Everything-mh4bp]

@@peteblum2143or yours either

[@hd4100]

I don’t fear dying. I just fear suffering miserably right before I die.

[@bobgreenfield9158]

What about missing out on what you want to do?

[@bluzedogg]

If my quality of life gets that bad, there's a nice High Bridge right down the road.

[@YvonneDupuis]

Yes I did too! However now hearing from Nurse Julie the natural process of a body shutting down makes sense to me as I also watched my father pass away and though he was on pain killers he did go in peace, but before he passed he opened his eyes in astonishment stated his deceased daughter (my sister) and husband by name as if he was actually seeing them waiting for him at the end of his hospice bed! I truly believe in GOD, JESUS, and The HOLY SPIRIT for an eternal LIFE! ✝✝❤❤🙏🙏

[@blazeboyblazeboy4470]

Most.likely if we mostly all go to hell it won't be good....

[@Insert.anger50]

Yeh because we're not all going to die in a hospital bed loaded up on morphine

[@marywilson1948]

Hospice caregivers are truly ANGELS!! Thank you!

[@kiwioffgrid2437]

They can be, there are also some who are pure evil. An Australian documentary with hidden camera footage showed some horrific happenings. Spitting in their mouth, wiping their bottom then rubbing it on their faces...truely horrendous. And these nurses although being fired, and sanctioned (imprisoned) will, after serving a few years disqualification, he able to work as carers once again.

[@AlmostReady504]

"Fascinating and comforting" .... and terrifying

[@soilmanted]

I am sure some are angels, but my hospice team refused to supply me with any pain relief. Before I signed with them, they said don't worry, we will provide you with adequate pain relief. Then after I I am under their care, they say sorry, we can't provide any pain relief.

[@brucesteele3052]

I don't fear death, I fear the process.

[@FullTimePatient37]

Yes.. I think most of us..

[@rickyricochet5393]

My father passed and was revived, he Said God waved his hand and was pushed back because of there is more life to live on earth. Dad said it's the most peaceful experience in his 75 year life !! My dad said he was kind of disappointed to be back here, but was definitely going back to God when the time comes. He lasted another 10 years as his body wore out.!! RIP DAD!! LOVE U HAPPY FATHER'S DAY EVERYDAY SEE YOU AGAIN.!! YOU'RE # 2 SON RICKY.!!😢

[@AnnDaly-lt7sb]

Thought I would share my story from the other side, had an NDE at 3 years of age while being brutally assaulted by my stepfather. My soul left my body, quite quickly once it started, I was floating towards the ceiling but then the best thing happened, I did not get as far as heaven, I was being hugged by Jesus for some minutes, I looked down on my body, still under attack, Jesus said "dont look at her" and hugged me tighter. It was the most peace, love, serenity, safety and lack of pain I ever had alive. He has the kindest eyes the sweetest smile and He is literally Love. He had a beautiful gold tinged light emanating from him. He must have sent me back for a reason, maybe this testimony, but I did not want to leave Him.

[@rokyericksonroks]

@@rickyricochet5393 Good story. Thnx for posting.

[@jasonrios1324]

Thank you so much for sharing that!

[@allencollins6031]

Wow ...such hope there.

[@danielleung3961]

@@AnnDaly-lt7sb I believe you. That's just how He is. Thank you for sharing that.

[@davemathews7890]

I don't fear death. I fear a prolonged illness that turns me into a burden on my family.

[@snowbird6855]

In Canada we have MAID ;)

[@Anubis424242]

I'm also terrified of the possibility of ending up trapped in my body and being a prisoner inside it too.

[@snowbird6855]

@@Anubis424242 That's an extremely rare condition. Heart disease and cancer are not. Take plenty of vitamin C and D, get serum D checked yearly. Avoid carbs and alcohol.

[@ohmy4275]

It's not a burden to take care of a family member in need. It's not easy. It may be even frustrating. It can set your plans back or affect your own life. But it's not a burden. To ease a loved person's life is a different kind of fulfilment. It's as serious as it gets. You take care of someone like that you acquire a different kind of strength.

[@Anubis424242]

@@snowbird6855 No it isn't a rare condition. This could happen to anyone from an injury or illness very easily.

[@hots4jc]

Thank you Julie for these videos. As a person who has about 2 more months to live, I will MAKE SURE that I know. God is love and I want to make sure He knows me. 😄

[@ElephantsRock19]

🫂🕊️🙏❤️🕯️🫂

[@marlenea.6465]

Praying that you feel God's love throughout your journey.❤

[@frenchustube]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@louiseanderson1505]

You'll be just fine, I know it. God bless ♥️

[@krispyasfck]

I hope there's are a million beautiful Great Danes up there waiting to greet you.

[@josephschuster1494]

As a hospital pharmacist, I can truly appreciate all of the mental, emotional, and physical demands placed on hospice care colleagues. Thank you for fulfilling the difficult role of end-of-life patient care. ❤

[@phumeoli]

When my grandmother was about to die, she said the gates of Heaven are beautiful beyond description.

[@SynfullyWkd67]

Mine when I was 13 was dying from pancreatic cancer, and we went the day before Christmas Eve to see her as we always went every day, told me that the steak in heaven was the best steak ever and that she couldn't truly describe it.

[@balticstain7150]

Is there such a place it's only in our imagination..

[@rufusbayne2230]

I suffered from mental illness most of my life. Not long after my Dad passed I found myself at the end of my rope. I was cycling through mania and depression and drinking heavily. I even attempted suicide. One afternoon I passed out on my bed and had a dream that changed my life. In it my Dad came to me and said in the most gentle way "I've come to take you home". It was strange because I had never dreamed about him before. After years of trying to prove I was okay I gave up my home, my job, everything. I came home and found the help I needed. That was 20 years ago and now I'm living my best life. I don't tell many people about it. In life my Dad and I had a strained relationship it's amazing that after his death he saved me. It makes me not fear death because I know it's not the end.

[@PS-qn4oz]

What a beautiful story, thank you for sharing that. Hope you are well.

[@dawnricherson2604]

Jesus.❤

[@LindaKayHolevas]

Beautiful ❤ I am proud of you for your sobriety. Stay well. 😊

[@Laura-tp8wz]

Thank you. Beautiful post.

[@LarryLarpwell]

God loves you so much its not even measurable

[@BoulderJR]

Our 34 year old son died 16 months ago after struggling with depression and addiction since his teens. We did everything possible to help Alex. I pray that Julie is right.

[@natb636]

May God give you comfort, conformation and understanding

[@Anonymous-lq2bs]

I feel the same way everyday the justice system has me by the balls to. I’ve attempted it over 15 times and failed. If I can’t even unalive myself right then what’s this life for?

[@annafantastic1]

@@Anonymous-lq2bs I want to reach out to you but all I can offer is friendship. I don't know the answer to such suffering you're going through but Anonymous I'm thinking of you ♥️

[@jacqueslee2592]

Wow. So sad. I am that age as well.

[@midalysfarrat3817]

My condolences to you and your family. I pray God provides the strength and peace you need 🙏🏻❤️✨

[@caracie30]

One of the last things my dad said to my mom was, "I wish you could see all these colors." I know he was seeing heaven, and I'm so glad he was able to share it with my mom.

[@greggtrubee9565]

Beautiful

[@danadamson1709]

Julie my mom passed two weeks ago in a hospice, her body shut down and we could see it. Julie you described my moms ending perfectly, she slept 20 yrs a day for a few days at the end , we got to say good bye and the nurses made her comfortable with meds and she passed 10 hrs later with zero pain at any point. Thank you for what you and your staff do.

[@spilledcoffee2284]

May your mom rest in peace ❤

[@RiceaRoni354]

I don’t fear death. I fear suffering.

[@claritytruth445]

Quite! 💛

[@deenugent473]

Same! I hope when my time comes, it will be quick.

[@jeffreykalb9752]

Coward.

[@brunoheggli2888]

The whole life is suffering!

[@debrandw246]

Same here

[@jumpingjacks5558]

Working as a critical care flight nurse, one the patient we were transporting was dying. She was an elderly female. She opened her eyes and had a big smile on her face and asked me "Do you see them?" I said what do you see? and she looked around still with this beautiful smile and said, "All the angels around us" I was amazed and truly believed her. She looked so peaceful and accepting what was happening to her. Meanwhile we are at 3,000 ' I admit, I felt her peace. When you fly in a helicopter it can be noisy in the cab. But it seemed to silence the sounds and I felt like I was being hugged by those angels. She definitely felt the same way. It's one transport I will never forget. Even thinking about it gives me peace.

[@madelynhernandez7453]

Do you know if she was of a particular religion and what it was?

[@jumpingjacks5558]

@@madelynhernandez7453 I don't. Sorry

[@AccidentalAss]

​@@madelynhernandez7453I was thinking the same thing because having been a critical care flight paramedic as well as ground paramedic I have seen people die as well and it seems that people of faith have a better go of it

[@greggtrubee9565]

Nice story. Thanks for sharing it.

​@madelynhernandez7453 the one that matters jesus!

[@TheWakeUpChannel]

My dad died when I was 18. He came to me a few days later and sat next to me. I wasn't afraid and he talked to me telepathically about how wonderful it was and the secret to everything was love. I sometimes want to tell myself it didn't happen but the memory never faded. He touched me at the end and showed me a glimpse

[@johnduffy6546]

OMG... You will never know how powerful this video is. After 26 years in healthcare, like you, I have seen the good, the bad and the ugly. A Hospice nurse reigns supreme IMO as Angels among us! Your smile alone conveys the joy and heartfelt compassion you have in your line of work. Nurses are truly undervalued. You are the front-line in healthcare!...GOD bless you and, thank you for sharing this video. Love, smiles and gratitude to you

[@masteryourpiece]

I can SO relate. when my sister passed away in August of 2022, I felt the same assurance. My husband of 35 years and I were climbing a large mountain in the dark, pulling a camper...it felt like slow motion. I had just lost my sister a few hours before. As we ascended this large hill, the BIGGEST, BRIGHTEST shooting star flew across the sky. We both saw it and both burst into tears. With that flash we both heard her say she was OK, and that the other side was amazing. Epic. Lots of people made comments like "lots of shooting stars that time of year" etc,trying to diminish what we experienced. Truly epic. It was NOT just a shooting star.❤💦

[@robbrown4621]

My mom passed away just after 7AM on March 1st of this year. When I came home a few hours later from the rehab facility, her hibiscus plant had nine huge yellow flowers that had bloomed. That plant never had more than a few flowers ever bloom at one time. I was awestruck...

[@thomasdeebel6695]

It was a sign, I'm not a very superstitious person and I might not ascribe the same meaning but If you say it is a sign I will accept that. Plenty of people say similar things, and who am I to judge. BTW, my father passed on 5/20/24 at 12:40 am. My wife woke up right around that time, I did also but I'm more of a restless sleeper. She believes it was a sign. Me? I believe he's OK for other reasons. For me it's a more assessment thing, but too me it's just a different way of seeing things.

[@robbrown4621]

@@thomasdeebel6695 I agree with you. Knowing my mom, it was her way of sending me a message. We used to talk about that plant and we both used to admire its beauty. One thing I think about now, after almost three months have passed, what happens to that energy? Does it dissipate? The hibiscus has returned to its normal pattern. I get the feeling that it was a parting message...

[@abcdefzhij]

NOGGY SHOOTING STAR!!! HAHAHAHAHAHA

[@markreed2576]

My father died suddenly from a heart attack in 1978. Everyone was in shock. That night I heard his voice clearly say I’m alright take care of your mother. My mother died in 2021. The hospital called me to tell me. As I hung up the phone I clearly heard her voice saying I’m alright I am with dad and we are at peace. I saw them both in my minds eye sitting by their favorite lake shoreline. I’m at peace with them and death.

[@papadwarf6762]

Do you often hear voices?

[@chrismathis4162]

It’s funny my dad died at 49 when I was 20 and I didn’t hear or see a damn thing.

[@papadwarf6762]

@@chrismathis4162 some people are gifted with the ability to hear voices inside their head

[@oparazzi53]

It's how we(our brain) cope with the death of our loved ones. It's not actually messages.

[@TheXone7]

God gave you that gift. Do whatever you can to walk the path to Heaven. Help others get there as well. God bless you.

[@mikeg.5233]

I agree with Nurse Julie, I was with my Father when he passed , he was ready to go and had a relaxed smile. He indicated, “they were waiting for him” not long after he let out his last breath and passed. It was a peaceful moment.

[@Artificialintelligentle]

That relaxed smile wasn't what he voluntarily did, it was his organs shutting down. An old woman with tons of wrinkles turns skin smooth right before she dies. A hundred yr old lady skin looks like a 15 yr olds skin when they die.

[@threeofive9401]

As a person who has from time to time had a fear of death, I can say that it isn't about the act of dying and what the body goes through during the period right before death. The fear of death is about what is beyond this life when it ends, if anything. It is about leaving behind milk shakes, orgasms, sunsets, roller coasters, and of course loved ones for a (possible) trip into the unknown.

[@oneseeker2]

For you... Can't speak for others

[@threeofive9401]

@@oneseeker2 The video's title was "Fear of Death" but most of the video spoke of a fear of dying. The two are not the same thing.

[@scottlepore7613]

I totes agree 3o5ninethousandfourtyone. My biggest fear is about what's next. Who wants to leave behind milkshakes, orgasms and all those other cool things you mentioned. What FREAKS me out the most is the thought that there is NOTHING after life. If you think about it long enough, it is scary and bizarre (at least to me). What if there is nothing. What if there had never been anything. The mind cannot comprehend it.

[@threeofive9401]

@@scottlepore7613 You hit the nail on the head. I don't know a way around that. If it is really a problem in that it is constantly on the mind and effects the quality of life, there is something called "exposure therapy" where a person would dwell on the scariest prospects of death. Eventually they become more accepted, cognitively, and less scary.

[@chrismaxwell1624]

That's only because you're not ready yet. I saw my grandmother in hospice, she mid 80s and dying just like video said. The shutdown, lot of sleep. and they it was over. Before that day she told us all she was done. My other grandmother didn't go like that, she went on her own term. She wasn''t sleeping she just gathered the family for one last time. I left and said my mother the grandma was be dead in the morning and this was her saying good bye. That night she passed away in her bed alone, that's how she wanted it.

[@starletsatori8933]

Nurse Julie!! My neighbor died in hospice. The day she left I asked her if she would try to let me know what it was like. She told me she would and she would also visit her grandson George. The next morning I was planting a tree and she was hovering above it in her little blue nightgown, she was so happy as she imparted her joy to me and telepathically said "this is good." George came over later that day. He said "you are the only person that will believe me but Nan came to me today in her little blue nightgown. " I told him that she visited me too and.......we hugged forever and cried such tears of joy and love for my dear friend and George's sweet Nan. ❤

[@AlexandertheGreat99]

That's such a beautiful story! 💕

[@FriendofDorothy]

If we are spirits after we die why would we have need of clothing? Why would she need a blue nightgown if the physical body is dead and the spirit is alive? Perhaps for the sake of recognition? I don't doubt your story but I think my question is legit.

[@AlexandertheGreat99]

@@FriendofDorothy I've read that when spirits appear to people, they appear how they looked in real life, but at any age and any outfit they choose. Who wants to see a naked ghost? 😱

[@starletsatori8933]

@@FriendofDorothy if you find someone that has the answer - let us know.

[@steelearmstrong9616]

@@FriendofDorothy Ghost clothes do exist

[@BaadleaBeedleBop]

As a hospice music therapist I had the privilege of treating a patient who left me a beautiful gift. Mr. R was lingering. He would say to me, “I don’t know why God hasn’t taken me yet.” We’d laugh about it together. We’d say our goodbyes, and the next week, there he was. I’d say, “Wait a minute, we said goodbye twice already!” He was so weak, but still he’d smile and laugh. One of my visits he told me that when he slept, the angels let him see where he was headed. He told me there aren’t words to describe it, that it was similar to here but beautiful. He spoke urgently and said, “God sent me back to tell everyone…we have to LOVE EACH OTHER. It’s more important than anything else. LOVE each other.” I don’t fear death, either. ❤

[@panamafloyd1469]

@BaadleaBeeleBop , "hospice music therapist":? I like the sound of that. I'm still capable of living independently, but I love music. Actually started my career as an 'old-school' DJ ("..here's a little tune you might like..") before I even graduated high school. Wasn't the best musician in the world (drummer in a Punk/New Wave 'cover' hobby band), but I still love it. Music is such a source for solace. I've loved the videos I've seen of dementia patients having moments of clarity when their favorite old tunes are played. Thanks for your work, I hope there's someone like you at where I end up when I'm not independent anymore.

[@RemAtmos]

Reminds me of the movie Astral City. Such a beautiful depiction of what happens after thus

[@carlschnier4089]

It’s perfectly normal for people to fear going to a place they have never been before. If you have never been in an airplane trip and to a strangely new place, it’s okay to be fearful. Once the trip begins, the trip becomes comfortable. We are all just passing through.

[@johnrodonis4186]

The heartwarming service this video is providing to so many in desperate need of such a message is near Biblical in proportion.

[@carolmcintosh5066]

I fear disability and pain, not death.

[@laurab391]

Yes, same here. It's not the actual death part, it's the possibility of pain, suffering and agony to that point.

[@LaurieMarian]

I fear losing my mind. My mother had Alzheimer’s.

[@ermv]

Same here. My dad (big guy) was paralyzed from the chest down for three months before passing away (metastatic prostate cancer). Very very tough situation. I'm so afraid of the same situation happening with me.

[@RuralCoast2024]

Me too.

[@PS-qn4oz]

I just fear leaving my children behind. I grew up motherless for the most part. I don't want that for them.

[@moomintroll6392]

Hi Julie, I have stage 4 breast cancer. Recurrence after 7 yrs, came back in my lungs and bones this time. Diagnosed Aug 23. I'm on targeted therapy which is keeping me stable for now. I find your videos very comforting, been a widow for 5 yrs and I asked my husband on his death bed to come and get me when it's my time. I have asked to pass in hospice not at home, feel it's less messy lol. I am living my best life at the mo, social life has never been better. As I'm from the UK we don't have to worry about the cost of hospice care either.love from Devon uk🇬🇧❤️

[@bordereau1]

Prayers for you.......

[@nmelgar74]

Prayers for you from me too. I got breast cancer and just had my mastectomy and breast reconstruction. They said I’m now cancer free but still need radiation. Recurrence is my biggest fear but I’m learning to live life without thinking negatively. Hope the best for you in your journey

[@M4nvrs]

I am so sorry to hear this! Bless you! Please, please start taking turkeytail mushrooms ASAP! They will help. I know people with different cancers who it has helped. It was featured in the Netflix documentary, "Fantastic Fungi".

[@nmelgar74]

I will look into it

[@M4nvrs]

@@nmelgar74 I'm glad to hear that. I wish you the best.

[@denisesargent1440]

I love that beautiful and spiritual explanation of slipping into death. And I truly believe it. I lost my lovely daughter, 35yo,10/30/21. I was totally distraught with unimaginable grief and trying to discover where she went, until I came across a book “Proof of Heaven “, written by Dr. Eben Alexander, a neurosurgeon and Neuro scientist. He also experienced this beautiful phenomenon. After reading this and watching several interviews, my mind and my heart were completely at ease knowing that my sweet daughter was in the most beautiful and loving place ever imaginable. Thank you Nurse Julie for sharing your story. ❤️

[@Paulohlsson7]

Hi Denise, how's your day going with you?

[@livenfree]

When I was holding my mom's hand as she was dying in the hospital, I was crying so hard. & I heard what I believe was either an angel or the voice of God ... The voice said, "Get a hold of yourself you're not doing your mother any good".... I calmed myself down and I kept hearing in my spirit....tell my mom you're going to meet God today Mom! During this time I was telling her this the doctors and nurses were telling us that she wasn't dying so it was a witness to my sister that I had heard from God. Then after she died I fell on my knees crying and feeling guilty because the day before I had stormed out of the room angry at my uncle and hit her feet which hurt her cuz she was in a lot of pain already from the tumors cancer had caused throughout her body. But when I fell to my knees after she passed away I heard her above me telling me she forgave me. She was speaking to me in my spirit or telepathically just like you described.

[@spilledcoffee2284]

I can promise in her final moments, she thought about how much she loved you, may she rest in peace ❤

[@livenfree]

@@spilledcoffee2284 Thank you

[@donnas.1075]

I understand exactly what you are describing when you said you heard that gentleman's voice in your head. When my 21 year old son died, there were many, many days and nights I cried and cried and cried. One night, I was sitting at my kitchen table...just bawling... and almost could "feel" a hand on my shoulder and then "heard" my son who passed on say, almost sternly, "MOM, IT'S ALRIGHT!". I quickly turned around thinking he was behind me, that is how real it was. This has always stayed with me and the realness of it made me 100% believe he used all his spiritual energy to communicate with me. I needed that so desperately and it has helped me so much these past 22 years since his death. 💞 Reuniting with loved ones is also helpful to not fear death.

[@marianclaassen8127]

When I was a teen, an older friend told the story of her son dying in a tractor accident and she was in prayer and weeping and she heard her son’s voice say, “Mom, it’s so beautiful here.” Thinking of you.

[@donnas.1075]

@marianclaassen8127 thank you for sharing that. 💞 It is very comforting knowing others have had similar experiences.

[@Jules21567]

I too lost my 22-year-old son 12 years ago...A few weeks after he passed I was lying down, but not asleep yet and I felt as if someone was hugging me...I should back up, the night before I was thinking how much I missed him and especially his hugs and said something to the effect of how much I wished I could have one more hug from him...Anyway, back to the hug the next day...I wasn't sure what I was feeling or if I was imagining the hug, but a few seconds after it ended I heard my son's voice say my name...It was so real and distinct, I'll never forget it...And then something made me turn over and I saw my son sitting in a chair in my bedroom and I said, "It's you, it was you"!! and he just smiled and then faded away...I've never experienced anything more real in my life and I'll also note that I was home alone and hearing, feeling, and seeing him, did not scare or startle me in any way ( as you might think it would )...I think that's another reason I knew it was real...I haven't shared that with too many people ( for obvious reasons ), but from one mother to another I have no doubt what we experienced was our boys reaching out to us.

[@donnas.1075]

@Jules21567 that is beautiful, and I completely believe what you saw and heard. I also know what you mean when you said you weren't scared at all and the realness of it. I really appreciate you sharing your story. It helps so much. 💞

[@user-pp4ve6qo1b]

Nonsense.

[@ssa8479]

My mother lived for six weeks after her stage four lung cancer diagnosis. She passed away at home under hospice care with her four children, two grandchildren and two nephews by her bedside. She lived with us for 15 years till she passed, and loved sitting out on the patio near a jasmine bush because she enjoyed the smell of the flowers. After her funeral in another city, when we got back home, there was a strong smell of the flowers in the house even though there no flowers in the house. Left us with a tingling feeling and a sense of comfort that she was in a good place.

[@lylux4985]

She gave you a gift.❤️🌺

[@cindybucholtz9642]

If you don't know Jesus. Then you need to fear death

[@MrRazorblade999]

​@@cindybucholtz9642 Superstitious nonsense

[@ronaldcanter2044]

@@cindybucholtz9642 Don't be arrogant & obnoxious. You don't "need Jesus" to not fear death.

[@DOA011970]

@@cindybucholtz9642, 100% correct! It's so amazing that there are so many people who claim to have no fear of death and are only afraid of the pain they have to suffer before dying. These people have absolutely no idea that their worst fear is coming true. They really don't know what fear is when they meet the demons who know their fears better than they do. They ended up in a real party and there is no escape. The souls of these wicked people will be punished forever, suffering forever and why? because the people were so wicked, stubborn and haughty to reject the Savior of the world: The Lord Jesus Christ, Who died for the sins of all men on the cross on Calvary. His sacrifice is free for all people and yet billions of people reject His Grace and Salvation. Incomprehensible!

[@GregSr]

My father said, "I'm not afraid of dying, I just don't want to be there when it happens". He died peacefully in his sleep in the middle of the night.

[@butasthouwilt]

My mother died at home while on Hospice. She had head and neck CA. Cancer of the right tonsil to be specific. She required only minimal amount of Morphine during the entire ordeal. During her last 2 months she was what "appeared" to be semi comatose. During that time she often with her eyes closed moved her lips as if she was talking to someone. My sister asked her, "Mama who are you talking to?" She answered, " Jesus." She passed away a few weeks later. On the day of her death she quietly and peacefully took her last breath, her eyelashes were "blown" all the way back and the expression on her face looked as if she had seen something spectacular! We believe that she be held our Lord. When the mortuary came to pick up her body the technician told us," I've seen a lot of people die of this type of cancer and this is the first time I've seen someone look so peaceful and in awe at their death." 2 Corinthians 5:8 Amplified Bible 8 we are [as I was saying] of good courage and confident hope, and prefer rather to be absent from the body and to be at home with the Lord.

[@Nnmtes]

Having worked as a Nurse in Hospice, we KNOW that death is nothing to fear. We see death often and the peace often achieved prior to death, and seeing dying people respond to and reach out for others we can't see, but are spirit come to accompany the person into the next realm. I have zero fear of death. 😊 Thanks Julie for the education you provide to so many, so that they won't be in any fear. 🙏

[@andrewmaher1181]

My mum passed away in a hospice. As I held her . Just before she passed she reached out and pointed to something / someone I couldn't see . Thank you for mentioning this I now no what she was doing bless her ❤️

[@joanneford356]

My son Michael died from Oesophageal cancer aged 36 in Trinity Hospice London UK. 8th September 2018. His care was above and beyond anything I could have wished for. A month or two before Michael died and before he went to the hospice he bought two budgies! Just because he could.. he named them Swift and Bold, after his Green Jackets motto ( he served in the British Army ) The hospice actually allowed him to have the birds in his room and he cared for them until he no longer could.. Whilst he slept the birds twittered and did whatever budgies do. He went into eternal sleep on 6th September ( his sisters birthday ) and died two days later. He never regained consciousness. Before he died I whispered in his ear that he was about to go on an amazing journey and I was saying goodbye. I hope he heard me 💔

[@nolagirl9144]

I'm so so sorry for the loss of your dear son. And I just know he heard you.

[@linzieloo1]

Keeping budges in cages is cruel

[@susanmcguinness5611]

Sept 8th is Jesus’ mom’s birthday. Very holy day.

[@lillired857]

@@linzieloo1 letting them go in a country where they are not from us even worse

[@smegmadelhomme8551]

@@joanneford356 I think Michael would have heard you, hearing is the last sense to go.

[@aidans666]

My 80 year grandmother was just diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer. This video is comforting. The dr gave her 6-9 months. Praying she makes it much longer

[@31Alden]

Dear Julie, My beloved brother, my twin soul and best friend, passed away on April 26, 2024 leaving me with a shattered heart. I appreciate this video more than I can express as it has given me a modicum of peace. This is the kind of death I hope my brother experienced, as over a thousand miles separated us when he passed. Thank you again, Julie. I deeply honor your special calling as a hospice nurse.

[@liberty-matrix]

“I'm not afraid of death, I just don't want to be there when it happens.” ~Woody Allen

[@_Arugula_Salad_]

Loser

[@davemathews7890]

@@PankZhanna What exactly has he done?

[@styphlynne8253]

I wish USA taught these concepts in their man made religions & CULTures!

[@ericdiaz6568]

oh come one anything coming out of Woody Allen is pathetic.

[@redblade8160]

@todor7906 She looks like death warmed up!

[@koufax174]

No fear here. I’ve witnessed the end of life for every family member, my sweet partner, many friends. My life is lived fully conscious my end is coming with no denial and I’m living a bold life that scares the hell out of most. Grateful to have been there for many when they needed me and no one else showed up 🙏🏼

[@teresaf4251]

I wanna be you when I grow up. 🙌🏻

[@linzieloo1]

What is so bold about your life please share it with us

[@morbid.curiosity]

I had to confront my anxiety about death in September of 2023, when I almost passed away from a bilateral pulmonary embolism and a clot in my heart. I was experiencing heart failure. The weeks before going to the hospital were so incredibly painful. When I finally let myself go to the hospital, I had less than a day left. Both teams of doctors at both hospitals told me that I needed to say my goodbyes because I wasn't going to make it. It's scary to think about now, now that I'm not knocking on deaths door.. but at the time.. the peace that came over me was so, so delightful. It was like I could finally let go and stop fighting because it was just out of my hands at that point. They were going to save me or not, and if not, there was nothing that I could do. I couldn't buy my way out of it. I couldn't argue my way back to life. I couldn't beat death up and make it go home.. I was so tired. I hadn't been able to sleep in weeks at that point, aside from the times when I was able to literally pass out from exhaustion. But knowing that the pain was going to end one way or another.. gosh.. I'm so grateful to be here. But I hope that peace can revisit me when it's time for me to have my last visitor. I know that it was terrifying for the people around me, I know that what I experienced wasn't anything like what my loved ones experienced watching me in the ICU.. but for once.. at last... I could let go, and nothing mattered anymore. I didn't want to go, but knowing that it would be (very likely) over in a few hours and I could finally rest my mind, body and soul forever. I don't know why I'm sharing this.. but.. it's cathartic to share. There's a video about my experience on my channel from earlier this year if you're interested in hearing more about what I went through and what it was like, but it is very sad. Don't fear the end. Every good story needs an end - just make sure you enjoy your story while it's being written. Much Love to Julie & All, JZ

[@AtHomeWithZaneR]

I spent many years working in hospice as an administrator for a hospice agency and the work the nurses, caregivers, home health aides do is truly incredible. I don’t fear death, I fear leaving the people I love. Any time I worry about illness and death, I think “but I’ll miss my life.” They may sound strange.

[@bubbles4905]

I'm from a Christian family, and my dad had cancer and was only 6 weeks away from dying of it, when we all found out he had it. He died in hospice and a couple of hours after he died, (he was a caretaker and groundskeeper at 2 churches), my sister heard him saying to her, "you should see the flowers up here. The colors are so bright." We believe he's in heaven.

[@hopemuro]

Wow, I stopped crying so much after my mother coming to me in a dream after she passed, and told me to stop crying because she said it's so beautiful and the flowers are beautiful and that she was ok😢😢😢

[@M896]

@IHaveNoLife-nc8wj They are not real though

[@andrewpeers1726]

I lost my mum to cancer in January 2016. She was in a local hospice. She told me that somebody came for her in her subconscious state. She asked my mum to go with her but my mum was scared and turned back. Yes,I know that she would have been on drugs, etc, and this can cause hallucinations, etc. At my mum's wake, her best friend told me something bizarre. She told me that she got up in the night to get a drink from the fridge. She turned around, and there was my mum beautifully dressed with makeup on and looked so healthy and young. My mum lost a lot of weight because of her cancer and she looked very ill. My mum's friend asked her if she'd gone and my mum answered 'not yet.' It wasn't all of my mum's body. My mum lost her fight the following day. Now, I truly believe that somebody comes for you, but it's your 'guardian angel.' They then take you to see your loved ones who have crossed over. Thank you.

[@M896]

@IHaveNoLife-nc8wj Evidence? Basic common sense for a starter. Maybe you try explain the principles of how people can talk to you after they have died. High level overview will do.

[@JesusIsLord105]

❤ “Eye has not seen, nor ear heard, Nor have entered into the heart of man The things which God has prepared for those who love Him.” 1 Corinthians 2:9 "I am the way, the truth and the life, no man comes to the Father but by me" John 14:6

[@Satans.asshol3]

My grandma wanted to die on her own while on hospice from her colon cancer. It spread through her body, and led to her demise. She faced death head on and it's something I respect and hope she isn't hurting anymire

[@janicespears8054]

I can't even imagine her pain.

[@algie-t2w]

I have heard hospice professionals say that with modern medicine no one should die in pain. Yet I hear time and again that loved ones have suffered pain over a prolonged period of time. This contradiction causes concern.

[@Satans.asshol3]

@@algie-t2w thankfully the hospice nurses put her on morphine the last couple weeks she was alive. She wasn't as coherent but she was only taking Tylenol majority of the 7 months she was hospitalized

[@jasonrodgers9063]

I firmly believe she is now at peace and PAIN FREE.

[@Leavetheguntakethecannoli]

I understand exactly what you mean. My dad passed first and he was the youngest of my grandmothers children, we believe she gave up after having lost my grandfather 50 years earlier in her lifetime and losing her only son, she was heartbroken. But she requested to be at home in the house my grandfather and great uncle built in the 1940s, where they raised their family. She died at 100 years old, slowly but gracefully in her hospice bed in February of 2022. When we celebrated her birthday in June of 2021 my fiancé told her we would see her for Christmas and she told us we wouldn’t, that she was ready to die. She was bedridden by December of that year and passed two months later. My aunt told us before her passing she would often reach her hands up and say Albert, my fathers name. I couldn’t imagine a more fitting person to come whisk her away than my dad. Her death really changed my perspective of the transition.

[@6ewrst]

I wasn’t there when my dad died at the hospital. Until the last moment I was sure he’s going to make it. I was shocked when my mom called 30 minutes after I left to tell me that he’s gone. I was flooded with tears. The same night I had a dream he called me and told me to stop crying because he’s fine now, that he feels no pain and it’s so good there. It made me feel better for a bit, but even after 12 years I miss him so much…

[@Anne_Onymous]

I had a shared death experience with my grandmother. She unexpectedly died from a reaction to IV contrast. They brought her back but she started going downhill within hours. That night I had my first and only lucid dream. We were sitting in a white empty space, facing each other. We could telepathically communicate without talking. We smiled, "said" I love you, then stood up and hugged goodbye. I closed my eyes during the hug and felt the embrace of her love. Maybe a half hour later I was woken up by my mother's cell phone. It was the hospital calling to say she passed. I'm forever grateful for her giving me one last chance to hug her and say bye. ❤️

[@flozink]

I ABSOLUTElY LOVE that story.!! My DADDY died at 36 years old, I was 10…… He came to me in my bedroom to say goodbye! I woke up to a lot of my MOMs friends in the house and I knew before they told me that he died! ❤❤❤

[@missfittrr]

Very similar to me my dad died when I was 9 .. a few yrs later he stood at the end of my bed…

[@angelagardner5230]

death is part of life. Im from uk and have looked into death. I lost my son few years ago. my dad followed 2 yrs after. My mom is 98 and thought when lost son and dad that my mom would follow. She is still here and looks so young.

[@KMC1367]

So sorry to hear, thank you for sharing ❤️

[@realone4341]

God has a plan for us all Angela.

[@angelagardner5230]

@@realone4341 i know

[@ricciwilson588]

Sorry for your losses and happy you still have your mom I lost my mom a few months ago

[@angelagardner5230]

@@ricciwilson588 so sorry ive got nobody now only my son after my mom goes

[@67polara]

You hospice nurses are amazing. The team gave us a sheet when my Grandpa at 96 was on hospice for a couple weeks. I'm a man of faith and was surprised to see things like 'will be talking to people you can't see and not making sense' and then 'they will have one really good day' then you know death is soon. I spent the last week of his life with him helping Mom and goodness it was just like y'all said. Exactly. The shared thing sounds wonderful and makes sense as I know beyond any doubt that we are met by all our near and dear loved ones in a joyous reunion. You're very right not to fear death this is assuredly just the beginning for each of us.

[@67polara]

Mom was just taken in May and didn't suffer at all. At 84 her heart just quit the Lord plucked her right out. Sooo grateful.

[@danhouseholder6784]

Because of a situation beyond her control, my wife had to leave the hospital the day her mom died. It sucked that her mom died before she could get back to the hospital, but the fact that a wonderful nurse was there with my mother-in-law when she died helped my wife deal with it.

[@Kristbjorg-Nymann]

My beautiful cousin just died less than an hour ago. She had cancer spread throughout her entire body. She was young and a mother one 1, and stepmother of 3. She was like a sister to me, and I LOVED her so much. She was one of my fave people on this Earth. She was AMAZING, and the strongest woman I knew. I want to be with my family, but they are in another country whilst my other family is 9 hours away. I can't get a plane ticket yet, but will be there via flight for her service which is being planned now. She will be cremated. I can't believe I'll never see or speak to my cousin again. She did not suffer. Thank you, Hospice Nurse Julie. I really needed you. 💜

[@Kristbjorg-Nymann]

@@jm7804 I don't have any family here. And my cousin's body is 9 hours away. In between waiting for calls from my aunt, I'm online looking at helpful videos. Btw, *THIS* is said with utmost DIGUST as I know troll ppl like you love it. You have absolutely NO BUSINESS saying what you said to me to ANYONE. Kindly F & O.

[@Kristbjorg-Nymann]

@@jm7804 Please get off the internet. My family is 9 hrs away, and I have no family near me; in addition usually people who've lost a loved one come to places like this for healing.

[@Kristbjorg-Nymann]

Anyone reading this: *please report* @jm7804 for the deplorable harassment of me, and my cousin who passed away today. Thank you.

[@nick.caffrey]

Just so that you know. She is safe now.

[@deniseblackburn33]

I’m sorry

[@davidtifft66]

All of your videos have been wonderfully informative and even comforting. I am an old nurse (68) still working. But i never worked with dying patients. Never too old to learn something new about the human body and spirit. Thank you so much.

[@PimpLenin]

I don’t fear death. A little nervous about the process, sure. But not fearful. I have so many loved ones who have passed that I look forward to seeing them again.

[@koda5173]

Wow. What a genuinely beautiful story. Never before have I felt such peace and contentment when thinking about death. For context, I am an agnostic, with no firmly held beliefs regarding death nor the afterlife. But listening to this account and the first-hand stories of you wonderful people in the comment section, I feel as if I could cry. Not of existential fear this time but of joy and surreal contentment. I now see the beauty in this process, the way the body gently prepares itself to pass on, and how the mind eases itself into the transition. How lucky it would be to die in the company of those you love and in a natural way. To those who have lost someone dear to you - I do truly hope this video has brought you the comfort it has brought me, and if it hasn’t, I know you will find peace, whether in this lifetime or the next. Thank you for your video, Nurse Julie!

[@anneinstance737]

Many many years ago my ex husband's grandmother passed. I was very close to her. A few months after she passed, I dreamt that we were meeting for lunch. I asked her what it was like on the other side and she said, "pet, people worry their whole life about dying, if only they realized it was another phase of life. " To this day this dream gives me comfort.

[@Kurstie-C]

Wow I absolutely love that, thank you!

[@Kurstie-C]

Wow I absolutely love that, thank you!

[@roadboat9216]

Wonderful. My late wife was a hospice nurse. She stayed home with me as she gradually died fairly peacefully at home from Alzheimers. I was her caretaker. She had taken care of so many and wanted to stay home.

[@JD-dg8lu]

Thank you Julie. I sat by dad’s bedside 5 years ago today when he passed away. The shared ‘death experience’ was profound and made me happy for my dad. I will think of him today …lifting off to the heavens imagining my mom there embracing him!! ❤

[@SB-zl6im]

Julie, your channel is so helpful. I was a long term care social worker for years and we often had Hospice patients in our facility. I was somewhat fearful of death, pain and the whole experience so tended to spend less time with these cases and more time with the other non-terminal residents. I didn’t like this about myself but couldn’t help it. I often envied the Hospice workers because I felt they had a special “something “ that I wished I had. You are so kind and informative with your channel and I am sure many others appreciate you sharing your experiences with them too.😇

[@kyhl6159]

While I don't fear death, I DO fear getting older, and losing my independence; there's no family to even take care of me, so I'll most likely end up wandering the streets when I can't work anymore.

[@hots4jc]

Oh honey don’t believe that. There is nothing that God can’t do! He loves you and wants to take care of you, if you will let Him and trust Him for it. 🙏🙏🙏❤️

[@KMC1367]

I can tell you not to worry. I’m in that situation, 9 cancer surgeries, 2 spinal fusions, and a few other misc in between. I couldn’t go back to my job of 28 years, no longer allowed to drive. I lost both parents to cancer and my brother. I was a non stop human, active always, liked my job and then my life changed. I have had a lot of help via home nurses, I’ve had deliveries for my everyday needs and have made friends with some of the sweet delivery workers that they actually check to see if I need anything and have picked up my meds for me. It was hard the first year, but I’ve adapted and after all that I found such a peace to have this time for myself to heal. This goes out to anyone ready these posts, you are not alone in life. Please reach out if you are struggling 🩷🩷🩷

[@coolbreeze5683]

It's not good to fear the future. Things are exponentially worse in your mind than what they might be in reality. In your mind, it's likely you feel helpless and hopeless about what might happen. In reality, your fears might not actually happen. Even if they do, you have much more control over your situation when it's actually happening.

[@geddon436]

I will be in the exact same situation Edit: I am in pain from previous injuries. Two bulging disc in my back and neck, scatica in my leg, rotator cuff surgery.............haven't worked in over year, after my mother dies, probably within the next 5 years, I will probably end myself

[@scm731]

Thank you Julie. You are such a breath of fresh air. Love you sister, thanks again.💖🤗🌻✝️

[@nuplanner5345]

My beloved dog of 19 years shared his death with me a year and a half later. He wanted to reassure me he was ok so I wouldn’t be so sad. It helped me quite a bit.

[@missfittrr]

When my old girl went I used to sing her song ( one I made up for her) and I would just FEEL her beside me

[@nuplanner5345]

@@missfittrr ❤️

[@rachellicee2380]

When my mother and I were at the vet's , unexpectedly putting my dog out of suffering, we watched in our minds eye's (at the same moment) my dog running excitedly to my husband who is in heaven. ;)

[@nmelgar74]

My cat found me too and told me how he passed too. I thought I was weird for even talking about that to others cuz they all think I’m crazy. So glad to see someone else has had the same experience. I loved my cat like my baby but had to give him to my neighbor cuz my toddler tormented him and he would run off to the neighbor’s who grew to love him. When they moved to Arkansas they begged me to let them take him. About a year later I was in bed when I felt something jump onto my bed. It was him. He lay on my belly and I was in shock but so happy all at once. I rubbed him and fell asleep. He was gone when I woke up but I knew it was his spirit and that he had passed. I couldn’t believe he found me. I moved and he never saw where I moved. But he found me. I can’t believe it. Then recently I got diagnosed with cancer and started treatment. His spirit found me again (in a new home now) and actually talked to me. He told me how he passed and said it was peaceful. Man how I loved that cat. When my dad died my daughter was four. My daughter said my dad’s spirit came to her and told her he had found Kittyboy where he had gone and that they played fetch. I know she wasn’t making it up because she knew nothing of my cat especially that he played fetch like a dog. How many cats do that?

[@heather1985october]

@@rachellicee2380 I thought that the Bible says that pets don't go to Heaven...

[@tericollier7839]

I don't fear death. I fear the process of getting there!

[@hairyreasoner]

I absolutely love your empathy, kindness and intelligence. I don't agree with your interpretations of your experiences, but quite respect your obviously sincere expressions of them. It's all a mystery, and I haven't made up my mind about it, but I I appreciate you expressing your individual view of things. Thank you.

[@alexakearney]

I completely believe that personal story you had about your patients passing. I experienced my own telepathic communication with a loved one who had passed. It lasted seconds, I felt an intense heat and heard him say my name . Very comforting

[@20bluelilies]

I've felt something like a blanket of heat surrounding me. It was a few weeks after his passing, when I was in so much distress. It was like being given an incredibly warm full body hug. I had no beliefs in life after death at that stage, so that was interesting.

[@lorrainegrattan8528]

My late mother died of cancer in 2014, after several months of being in hospital. The last few weeks before her death we brought her home where me and my daughter looked after her, as well as my father who'd had a suffered strokes before hand. The aftemath of those stokes, left my father unable to say much, which was difficult to see because he was always had a great sense of humour and always something to say. Well, the week before my mother died, she had to be admitted to the hospital again because her health was deteriorating, it was a Wednesday, i remember it well. The next day, after my mum was admitted, 12 hrs later, my father took a heart attack and he was also admitted to the same hospital. He was in ICU, and we all gathered around his bed, he was like his old self again, laughing and joking. We couldn't believe it. My father told me to tell my mum that he loved her. We all as a family, took turns to visit them both, every day, twice a day. A week later to the very day, my mother died, and 12 hrs later my dad passed too, he'd died of a heart attack. You see, my mother used to say that she'd go before my dad, well before she ever became ill, my dad used to chime in that he'd be going with her, it was a bit of banter between them both, which they'd been saying for years. I believe my mother came for my dad, and they went together. I miss them both, we all do. That's the comfort we are left with after both their passing. Love and blessings to you all, from Ireland 🍀🍀

[@Velvetsky831]

That's beautiful..

[@zipinha]

I'm so sorry you lost both tour parents at the same time. But comforting to know they went together🙏

[@lorrainegrattan8528]

@@zipinha Thankyou ♥️

[@joelgoode5605]

Supremely helpful and ultra supportive. Thanks so much for posting this "treasure" !!

[@donalquist6845]

My dear sister passed four years ago from cancer. This particular kind of cancer involved a horrible kind of ending with intense suffering. This is what I’m afraid of.

[@rachelmiller1965]

My mom just died the day before Mother's Day. I didn't know she had cancer. She hid it from us and we all stood by her bed as she went home and cancer had completely destroyed her body. It's been heart breaking but today, I can feel her in my house and a supernatural connection to her and an understanding of her that I never had.

[@macbookdieter]

When my grandmother passed, I wasn’t with her. That night about 3:30 in the morning I woke up and felt someone sitting on the edge of my bed. I rolled over thinking someone was there, I immediately knew it was my grandmother letting me know she was OK. I said in my mind, I got the message grandma love you! I went back asleep only to be woken by the ringing of the telephone at 7:30 am. It was my mother, she said I’m sorry to tell you that grandma passed last night about 3:30. I said, I know mom she came to visit me and she is OK.

[@waragainstmyself1159]

I didnt have that specific.. but when my grandma died, it was early in the am. I was walking around outside smoking a cigarette and just had this weird hit of Deja vu like ive never had before. I just knew something was wrong. I found out she passed away about 10am from the nurses. Same thing with my mother. She died throughout the morning sometime, but i woke up at like 3-4am and just sat up in bed knowing something was wrong. I couldnt shake it.. Same deja vu feeling hit me so hard. Boom i get a call and find out she passed away. I know they contacted me. I just couldnt articulate it well.

[@nick.caffrey]

Your grandma is safe now. It's all you need to know.

[@bobettemorgan453]

Same thing happened to me at 12.....❤

[@algerae1984]

Something similar happened to me. The night my mom died I was sleeping on my side and it felt like somebody was hovering over me against my back. It didn't scare me but for some reason I didn't turn over. The next morning without me saying anything my sister asked me did it feel like somebody was in the room with u last night and I said wow you too?

[@macart5429]

Same thing when my grandpop died on April 16th, 2023. He has been close to death when we got there the day before. I was sleeping in the hotel room and suddenly I wake up “fresh” like it was day around 2:45am as if something was wrong. I see my dad and brother moving around in bed too like almost if he was touching us to say his final farewell. Even though my grandpop passed 12:30am, the time my grandmother got back to the apartment from the hospice center was 2:45. I went back for a few more hours until 6:30am, and the first thing my mom said to me as I was awaking was “My father died”…..she was on/off the phone with my aunt and my grandmother.

[@ElectricGypsyStudio]

35 yrs working in Hospice myself, I've seen so much that an afterlife is inevitable... One of my patients was reaching with a huge smile on her face and stated "so many angels...they are just beautiful!"... when my own grandmother died I heard her voice plain as day state " its beautiful here, if only you believe!"...she was a Christian and very strong in faith.... Ive witnessed odd things many many times...love working with hospice patients!

[@soulvaccination8679]

I was born in 1949. So I am middle 70s. Don't know how close I am but my Mom is there, and my friend Eddie and Harvey and a couple others are there to meet me. And Jesus.

[@MrBusterRose]

My dad died at 98. He had a brother who died when he was four years old and he was a little preacher and right before he died they were all around his bed and he said “they’re everywhere. The angels are everywhere they’re coming to get me “ died with a smile. You are definitely an angel Julie.❤

[@MirandaDanda1983]

Wow that's so beautiful 😍 God bless you

[@gmaneis]

Julie, I keep playing this video every time I feel sad or down about life. Thank you so much. This is beautiful waaay beyond words.

[@littletime100]

My fear is dying alone and do not want to feel like I can't breath.

[@whyimsmarterthanyou]

The other side of the end-of-life is when the person does not go peacefully. My Mum fought to the end, through the anxiety meds, through the morphine, yelling out and fighting to get up out of bed until her last few hours. Gawd, it was so hard for her. She wasn't ready to go because of the fam. My fam, husband and sibling, had been such a drain on her throughout life. She babied them incessantly, sacrificing herself and her happiness for people that couldn't/wouldn't extend a similar selflessness; they couldn't even sit with her for more than half an hour in the hospital's hospice room. She fought to the end because of that sense of duty to them. I hope she has peace now.

[@quietlightning4063]

I’m pretty sure the realization that we continue with the flow of time.. that time is what we sometimes call the hand of the Lord and that we continue with it and the state of death is not absence but instead inclusion with something greater.. I am positive that she is in a better place and that she continues with the rest of us.. good luck

[@roisindubh8676]

I was with my mom when she passed. She had lung cancer and heart disease. It was her heart that wasn’t able to pump enough blood to her organs and they had already started dying. Her ICU nurse was wonderful and frank with me that she was not going to walk out of the hospital. With her informed guidance, I made the decision to move her from ICU to hospice where she only lasted a few hours. I got a call from her hospice nurse at 11:00 pm telling me to get to the hospital quickly as she didn’t have long. It was after hours, so I had to wait for a security guard to escort me to her floor and I was so upset I wouldn’t make it time. Thankfully, I did. Her nurse told me my mom waited for me to get there. I had about 10 minutes with her and saw her take her last breath. It was peaceful and I’m told she felt no pain.

[@erinserb]

Nurse Julie, thanks and your channel is such an inspiration, particularly to those who have lost their hope and their way! So much awaits them if they can hold strong here!

[@kittenclawsguitarvideos6147]

Life is so beautiful. I fear death because I can't imagine not seeing colors, hearing music, and hearing the voices of my family. I don't want it to end.

[@mikerisner]

Near the end, my father was shutting down. He was in and out of coherence. Four days before my dad passed, I was visiting him at his personal care home. At one point, he became quite clear, looked at me, and said, "This will all be over soon." His whole life, he worried about dying. On the day he said that to me, I ultimately realized my dad was comfortable with it and ready.

[@barbarahalkyard1901]

Worring about anything in life is not worth the effort. Live is to short and precious.

[@ninalee8625]

When I view death as the end, I become fearful. When I tell myself it's simply a transition to something else I actually look forward to that discovery.

[@prestoni]

My wonderful wife of 30 years passed a year ago after a 15-year battle with Parkinsons' Disease.She passed at a hospice facility. I so want her to have an afterlife because she was a kind and deserving woman. I am not very spiritual but want to be. I sometimes feel death is the deep sleep with no dreams and that her departure is like my memories of the 1960s--a wonderful time but can't be relived or recovered. I want to believe we will link up in the future, I pray there is an afterlife because I miss her everyday.

[@martydav9475]

A powerful and moving post and truly I wish the best for you.

[@patmillar961]

I truly have proof that my sister lives on in spirit. Your wife will be waiting for you. She's by your side....watch for signs and she'll show you. God bless

[@OxymoronInchief-pj1jr]

Thank you sharing your shared death experience. I have tears in my 61-year-old dad eyes.

[@JenJenANDChrissy]

I work in health care too, Julie and what I hear my patients is this: they fear being alone, they fear being alone AND sick, they fear the loss of their mobility/independence/freedom to do the things they love, they fear grieving the loss of their spouse. I worked in dialysis for 17 years and many of these patients wanted to die and end their suffering, but their families guilted them into continuing ESRD treatments. Yes the machine was keeping them alive, but the progression of uncontrolled diabetes or blood pressure really caused an undignified life. Many of them died blind and had multiple amputations (feet, legs, forearms) and these came AFTER they started dialysis.

[@marlenea.6465]

That is so sad. Thank you for caring for your patients.

[@Loumag-ky9bz]

That is the reality. Be prepared! I work at distracting myself now that I am in my sixties the reality has sharpened.

[@krispyasfck]

​@@Loumag-ky9bz is that the key? Staying busy? My mom is in her 60s and I'm in my 30s. I fear her death and worry about my eventual death as well. Being an only child I wonder what my end of life will look like with no kids and no spouse.

[@pragawa]

@@Loumag-ky9bz Same here. I'm almost 70 and it bothers me a lot.

[@carolinebielby5924]

When you think it's a real quick journey it makes no sense😮

[@ronrobertson59]

At the end of my wifes life she had conversations with her dead mother and grandmother. I ask her who she was talking to and she said it was her mom and grandma. She past two days later at home with me while I was drying her hair after a bath she insisted on. She said "I feel dizzy" and fell back in my arms. Im a former police officer I've seen a lot of dead people and I knew she was gone despite CPR I tried until EMS arrived. She was only 52.

[@bonnielee9570]

I am so sorry that your mom passed, and she was so young.

[@realityfitnessfyt4lyfe248]

I'm sorry for your loss. I wish you the best over the next few years. Stay Strong. I was holding my friend's hand, 94 years old on hospice, when she started talking to her husband who had passed away 45 years earlier. It was the first night she was home from the hospital, and day one of hospice. I knew that she was letting go, and I told her daughter to call the family to come and say goodbye. Her daughter was quite surprised because she was sitting on the couch reading a book on how to take care of her mother while on hospice. She thought she would be on hospice for several weeks or even months. Her mother passed away within about 20 minutes while I was holding her hand. It was an experience that I will never forget.

[@silverdale3207]

Sorry for your loss, I also lost mine young at 47, managed to look after her at home until the day before she passed when I could no longer manage her pain well enough and she needed hospice care. She passed peacefully in hospice surrounded by all her loved ones and me holding her hand. In a way it was a relief she was no longer suffering as that still haunts me 4 years later. Hope you're doing ok as I know how hard it is. Best wishes going forward.

[@Vivika9999]

I’m so sorry for your loss & have no doubt that your dear wife is in heaven with her loved ones!

[@toniholman3198]

So very sorry for your loss. 😢 Amazing gifts so many receive while in the process of leaving this world and crossing over.

[@robonbass6864]

I was lucky enough to hear my gf speak in her own voice on my recorder, clearly, over 2 months after her death.. I ended up hearing her a few more times over a period after..... It was mind blowing... I believe in an afterlife to the 100th percentile....

[@privateconfidential4775]

Thanks for posting these I need to hear this

[@benotafraid9875]

My mom used to say "I'm not afraid of dying but I am afraid of getting older." She's 92 now and in her last days with hospice care and her four kids by her side, 4 who love her and will miss her! ❤

[@Velvetsky831]

I will be thinking about you all. I know it difficult. I lost my mom 2 years ago. She was the best. I'm glad you will be with her.. hugs to you all.

[@jamesortiz5388]

Mom was 99 in hospice and her poor little heart didn't want to keep working. She said I don't want to die.

[@Velvetsky831]

@@jamesortiz5388 omg. Those are the words my mom said right before her heart gave out. Those words have haunted me some. But I try to remember that she is no longer suffering and having breathing problems. It's difficult still. Hugs to you.

[@jamesortiz5388]

@@Velvetsky831 🙏

[@bunberrier]

Thank you for sharing. Im still learning to accept death, its always very grief filled. I take in unwanted animals, mostly guinea pigs, for what remains of their life. Give them care, make friends, and help them across. One is dying tonight, and going to the vet tomorrow to be sent on in peace. Each time I grow a little but the goodbyes are still very hard.

[@krispyasfck]

Thank you for caring for those little babies

[@manasnowfall]

What a kind and beautiful person 🥰🥰🥰

[@kyms9390]

God bless you. ❤

[@pattykake7195]

Guinea pigs are beautiful little souls…glad you are giving them the love they deserve…🫶

[@dreamthedream8929]

It's depressing, many people cannot work in animal shelters hospices hospitals and so on. It gets to them and they grow depressed and suicidal. It's not good for mental health and the body. This life here is very anxiety filled sad and tragic and what you wrote describes exactly that

[@ColtDee]

At a spiritual church meeting a tiny voice in my head said, "I'm standing with you!" thirty years later I still remember it as if it was yesterday, I know your right; I never believed totally in continuous rebirth but now I do, there is 'NO' real death, we live forever, a concept I had to wrestle with until I knew and partly understood our greater place in the moment.

[@ericwahl4142]

I am a devout Catholic and a believer in God. I recently watched a video from a non-believer that made me have serious doubts and a crisis in faith. I asked God to give me a sign that He's there and bam, your video just happened to pop up when I opened KZbin. Thanks for posting!

[@Moo2oob]

I didn't see any reference in this video about having to be a devout Catholic or any other dogma for that matter. Nor was there any description of an encounter with a being called "God". I guess it is important for people to want to fill in their own blanks.

[@highplainsgospel6783]

First of all, Julie, thank u for what u do. I am a firefighter, first responder, and I've seen things Hollywood couldn't script. I can't say I fear death, but then u get a page out of a fatal vehicle accident, and then you question that. I needed to hear this video of peaceful passing. Thank you

[@glocktown21]

Nurse Julie... I love your videos! Thank you for all you do! You are a living Angel to those getting ready to pass to the other side. I had a near death experience when I was a teen. A friend and I went body boarding in the ocean off southern california. There was a hurricane going on in Mexico so the SURF was really HIGH and currents strong. No one was in the water.. we had our beach to ourselves. After some sets in the water, I was overcome by waves getting pounded! and sucked out by the current. I lost my board, my fatigue kicked in... I thought to myself, this is how I DIE today at just 16. As I was about to give up getting pounded by wave after wave, A man/being/spirit swam up to me... long brown hair, 20 to 30's aged looking and PIERCING PALE BLUE EYES with no facial expression, none! Pushed by Board to me with a thrust.. Our EYES met, I tried to say thank you!! And there was ZERO EXPRESSION. He/it/the spirt or angel just disappeared under the water..... My friend was on the beach, thought he saw my Angel but also never saw him reappear out of the waves..... No one else was around. We were both perplexed. No one could survive in those waves and not back out. I am 47 years old now, I still think back to that day. I don't know who or what I was saved by. It was a truly religious experience. I am turning back to God and Christ now that my teenage son is attending church.

[@user-pp4ve6qo1b]

So delusional. Mental illness is a terrible thing. Get some professional help.

[@valaquenta220]

I don't fear death honestly, but I DO fear my parents death. I'm 35, they're 67 and 70 and VERY healthy so I have the feeling that they're not going anywhere for a long time (we live in France, it's very common to have healthy 90+ years old people around)...but the day they're going away is 100% going to be the most painful thing I ever have to deal with. I love them too much, especially my mom. I feel like I'll be lost without them.

[@Brittoxo]

Im 36 and my parents are around the same ages and I feel the exact same way I love my parents way to much and the pain will be so painful that I never would want to experience

[@wyattoneable]

Oh my gosh. I lost my dad just over a year ago and I experienced the very thing you talk about. He had to be hand fed and one morning as I prepared his breakfast and put the first spoon of food to his mouth, he said in a clear and strong voice "I'm done". He haven't talked in months. I simply put everything away, called hospice and he was gone 6 days later.

[@craigsheffield6546]

My Dad was on a business trip where he had to take some training for his job for three days. One of his friends, who was a very healthy man, told him that he was going to skip the training because he was going to die in three days. He was calm about it. Everybody tried to get him to stay, but he went off. Came the news, three days later, he had died of a massive heart attack out of nowhere. He had no history of heart disease, no one told him that he was going to die, he just knew.

[@KeepChessSimple]

Some advanced Buddhist monks can also feel/predict when they are going to die. Quite fascinating.

[@Atheist100]

“I do not fear death. I had been dead for billions and billions of years before I was born, and had not suffered the slightest inconvenience from it.” ― Mark Twain

[@Airbender131090]

Well thats his personal subjective experience.

[@Airbender131090]

I bet you dont remember your existence before birth, during birth and first 2 years of your life. I guess it proves you didn’t exist than.

[@creativ3vision]

@@Airbender131090 No, it’s a pure fact. You’re missing a point there. Fear it or don’t, you won’t remember a thing once you’re gone, ever; believe it or NOT ☠️

[@JesusIsLord105]

​@@creativ3visionWell you'll either find out you're wrong and my name is true, or you'll find out nothing. Good luck! ❤

[@creativ3vision]

@@JesusIsLord105 Bruh… 🤦🏻‍♂️ There’s NOTHING there, you’ll see when you get there 💀 Then try to remember MY name 👻

[@MeredithBrown-xn3dr]

Thank you Julie. You bring so much comfort xxx

[@adamisaac4685]

Beautiful. Made me cry this morning. I’m 50 and still haven’t let go of my fear of death. I thought I had. Thank you so much Julie. May you be free from danger May you have mental happiness May you have physical happiness May you have ease of well being. ❤☮️

[@ericsierra-franco7802]

My Mother passed away in hospice and she was completely at peace, and cheerful, with the entire process. When it's my time to depart my Mom will be my model and who I will emulate. My hero!

[@MeganWall1019]

OMG my mom is my hero too! So cool how your mom acted.

[@edwardmarquis4411]

My mother passed the same way. It wasn't scary at all to her. We were all gathered around at home hospice because we knew she was fading fast. When she had a few moments of clarity we got her on the phone with her best friend of the same age. She says to her: "You know you're next" and they both joked about it. My cousin who is a good singer was trying to find a song on his phone to sing to her. He fumble fingered the phone and a song came on. We're all looking at each other and my sister recognized it. It was "The Final Countdown". OMG, we couldn't contain ourselves and started cracking up. Crazy! She passed that night very peacefully.