Why I Enjoy the ENFP: My ISFP Journey

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My ISFP Journey

My ISFP Journey

Күн бұрын

In this video, I discuss why ain’t find so much enjoyment conversing with, and being around, ENFPs. Thank you for watching.

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@syhlex
@syhlex 4 жыл бұрын
As an ENFP having an ISFP best friend helps me feel understood and listened to it’s a two way street of feeling truly listened to.
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
syhlex - Well, I hope my ENFP friends feel the same about me. Thanks for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not already.
@relativexistence505
@relativexistence505 3 жыл бұрын
100% same here!! I adore my ISFP bestfriend bc of the ways we fill each others faults and remain communicative!!
@user-pk5pl7ox1e
@user-pk5pl7ox1e Жыл бұрын
I'd love that as ENFP
@niahelmee6890
@niahelmee6890 3 жыл бұрын
ENFP here. the ISFPs around me have always made me feel secured and comfortable to be authentic around them. I even fell in love with one of them, hoping for a future together with him.
@user-vw6gl2xm4c
@user-vw6gl2xm4c 4 жыл бұрын
I'm ENFP and my gf is ISFP. I enjoy her presence a lot and feel cared for and loved. 1 annoying thing is that when I like to expand my thoughts in a conversation she kind of loses interest and ignores it. Makes me feel misunderstood sometimes. But if it's not too abstract I can have a good dialog/discussion with her. Apart from that 1 thing we match perfectly.
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
R - Good thoughts. I think that makes sense. Thanks for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not already.
@Mitchthemysteryman
@Mitchthemysteryman 2 жыл бұрын
I think the best thing to do is to give physical, tangible examples that show your idea in practice, the implications of it. That should add a sense of relevance to the topic.
@XEternalXDLollipopX
@XEternalXDLollipopX 3 жыл бұрын
This was so insightful, I am an ENFP and I was recently proposed to by my ISFP fiancee. I've never had such an easy going relationship. We have such amazing communication. I always thought because I'm an ENFP, INTjs or ENTJs are the only ones I can have a relationship with. But things are so different with him. He makes me feel so safe and loved and really cares about my concerns. There's nothing like it.
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your engagement. And thank you for watching and commenting.
@user-pk5pl7ox1e
@user-pk5pl7ox1e Жыл бұрын
I really could do with thus kinds. Congratulations btw
@SaamsonSB
@SaamsonSB 9 ай бұрын
I've been married to isfp for 17 years..while I do feel understood by her and vice versa...our communication is rough. She can't get on my level philosophically....she just has no interest and alot of my ideas go over her head. I dunno. Do you have similar struggles?
@user-pk5pl7ox1e
@user-pk5pl7ox1e 2 ай бұрын
How's it going with ISFP husband?
@kyles.9332
@kyles.9332 3 жыл бұрын
An ENFP here! Just finished talking with a very dear ISFP friend. He is one of fhe kindest souls I have ever met, and very genuinely caring. I always do my best to understand my friends' personality types; it helps me understand them better and accommodate their needs. I think this is why what you are saying makes so much sense. I understand that ISFPs are very private and would often prefer to be silent, so it's such a wonderful feeling to be able to talk with an ISFP friend for hours, like from 9pm until 4 am straight! Kust imagine how fewarding the feeling is! I deeply respect his introvert time and try not to overthink for his sudden silence. I just love this person to the bones, like if he probably needs my right leg or arm just in case he lost his, I would give them to him unselfishly. What I mean is, I'm try greateful that I found a friend like him, someone who truly cares, listens, and understands my ENFP weirdness. ISFPs out there, you need an ENFP in your lives. Ugh, I talked a lot.
@dreamluvr1600
@dreamluvr1600 3 жыл бұрын
ENFP here and i always fall in love with ISFPs, theyre my favorite and they pull me in with their unique spirit and sweetheartedness!
@snow7730
@snow7730 4 жыл бұрын
I am enfp today is my birthday all people are a very personal gift from the world to me and I love and cherish them because they humble me and keep me grounded
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
Snow - What a good and wise perspective. Thanks for watching and commenting. Be awesome at all you do.
@Novemberheart92
@Novemberheart92 2 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday for a billon years ago when it was your birthday.
@blacksheepinnovations4390
@blacksheepinnovations4390 5 ай бұрын
I am an ENFP! Thanks for all the love ❤
@ginarossi1541
@ginarossi1541 2 жыл бұрын
I’m an ENFP and I just want to thank you! ❤
@sirbradfordofhousejones
@sirbradfordofhousejones 4 жыл бұрын
13:10 my ENFP wife lives in the world of COULD instead of SHOULD, and I absolutely love that about her. My Fi in particular super appreciates it.
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
Kefka & Khajiit ! - It can be stressful to live with a dreamer. I know, being married to an INFP. But when I can set myself aside for awhile, there can be joy in watching a dreamer dream.
@sirbradfordofhousejones
@sirbradfordofhousejones 4 жыл бұрын
My ISFP Journey For me it is the constant brainstorming and ADHD-like change of subjects. She’ll actually interrupt herself to point out something trivial, haha. But ultimately her dreams help me apply my passion better and with more foresight. It is a good combination when we are at our best.
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
Kefka & Khajiit ! - My INFP wife is very similar.
@luciararatowski7302
@luciararatowski7302 4 жыл бұрын
I am ISFP and my best friend who is ENFP I have known for over 10 years. Everything you said about this type is exact! She always cheered my up when i've been down and we are very different people but we can relate so well to each other. She is also a good musician and artist :)
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
Luciara Ratowski - They are pretty great people. Thank you for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not already.
@BasutuEquestrian
@BasutuEquestrian 11 ай бұрын
❤ ENFP 🎉 - love you guys (ISFPs) so much! You are so inspiring to us!
@poplings
@poplings 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for appreciating us ENFPs! I guess we enjoy even the not so good days in life, so like you said even if the topic of the conversation is blue or dark it still leaves us both feeling better after the conversation ends.
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
Abeer Ather Khan - Thank you for watching and thank you for commenting. It is a great encouragement to me. I love you ENFP peeps. You’re awesome. Please consider subscribing if you have not already.
@randa6689
@randa6689 4 жыл бұрын
ENFP here! came to learn more about ISFP's. My ideal match is INTJ, but every INTJ I've been with has been a terrible match. This is the first time I've ever felt understood...and he's ISFP
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
Rand A - I think ISFP and ENFP would probably go well together. Thanks for watching and commenting.
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
Rand A - Also, please consider subscribing if you have not already.
@mrsdragonite
@mrsdragonite 4 жыл бұрын
Same thing here!!!
@ciggytwiggy
@ciggytwiggy 2 жыл бұрын
Omg hiii same haha. Cos even though we are attracted to INTJs, they might not meet our emotional needs.
@octopus4925
@octopus4925 2 жыл бұрын
@@ciggytwiggy exactly! Female ENFP here dating an ISFP guy, and it's the first time I've had such a considerate, communicative relationship ❤️ he's so much more sensitive than INTJs, who I do have chemistry with but I can't stand the insensitivity
@iBEincognito
@iBEincognito 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing! I found this video incredibly interesting and I related to everything you said. I'm a fellow ISFP and I used to date an ENFP. He was the most genuine, caring, attentive, supportive and interesting guy I've ever met. We could talk for hours on end and never get bored of one another. I read somewhere that ENFPs see people as the puzzle pieces to this gigantic puzzle we call life. While I think ISFPs look to exploring new ideas and looking inwards to find the missing puzzle pieces, I think ENFPs look to people. Connecting with people of all different shapes, colours, ages and backgrounds seems to ignite the fire in their souls. People are their passion, people are life. They analyse them, they try to understand them and when they don't (as was the case with "mysterious" and "introverted" lil old me), they make it their mission to find out what makes them tick. I've never, ever felt so seen. I've also never been so worried I'd stop being interesting to him once he'd figured me out. I really believe there's no one on this planet who knows me better than he did. It always amazed me how magnetic he was to everyone around him. Everywhere we went - even just walking to our cars in the parking lot - people would just strike up a conversation with him and he would engage with every one of them with so much sincerity and interest. It once took us half an hour to get into our car and go home one night because he had become enchanted by a philosophical conversation about the meaning of life with a nice car guard. I remember feeling a little annoyed and wanting to go home to my sanctuary to recharge. :P It's a shame we couldn't make our relationship work and I really hope I meet more ENFPs. ♥ They are intriguing, addictive, intoxicating and beautiful people.
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
iBEincognito - That is all really good and interesting insight. Your puzzle analogy makes a lot of sense to me good thoughts. Thanks for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not. Also, I have another ENFP video that I just made a couple of days ago. You might be interested in it. Thanks again.
@iBEincognito
@iBEincognito 4 жыл бұрын
@@myisfpjourney7813 I will check it out! :)
@Mindimalist
@Mindimalist 4 жыл бұрын
Wow your comment makes me feel good to be an ENFP 😅 I’ve heard repeated times as well that people feels seen and understood by me, just to confirm what you just said. Just one thing I wanted to add up to your well elaborated and pretty accurate description is, that ENFPs love people yes, and we get recharged by them yes, and also we do like puzzling them together and find out more etc, but that’s not the only one way we have to understand the world and make the full big picture of our world. We use all of the external information we can. People is just one way. We use films, books, comments on KZbin, we look at people interact with one another, we observe the world, - and yes we talk with people -. But it’s a mix of everything. The external world is an abstract thing that we want to process and that helps us build up our always-building-understanding of reality, of ourselves and of the universe. I think you would enjoy my channel, lots of ENFPs talk over there btw :) check it out! Oh and I hope that you find another ENFP partner!:)
@ash_meadows
@ash_meadows 4 ай бұрын
Wow, now I feel seen!! So when I was about 13 yrs old, I was thinking about some new ideas, my understanding of the world, and the way my mind thought, and I remember seeing an image in my mind of a giant puzzle with only some outside pieces in place - the one your talking about! - and my imagination saw another piece being put into place. That was the first time I thought about how my brain worked. That memory stuck with me. It's so crazy that you just described the ENFP way of thinking!
@jessicaroutt9070
@jessicaroutt9070 3 жыл бұрын
I love that my isfp person just lets me be me 🤗
@ash_meadows
@ash_meadows 4 ай бұрын
I am drawn to ISFP's for sure and I always feel like a comedian around you guys - You bring out the raw funny in me :)
@SaamsonSB
@SaamsonSB 9 ай бұрын
My wife is isfp and enfp. We have some much in common snd the same weeknesses. Communication is rough as hell too. My infj friends get me more than my wife of 17 years. But....i love her so much...we have so many things in common that we have a ton of fun together.
@melaniebeaulieu104
@melaniebeaulieu104 2 жыл бұрын
Hello, ENFP here. Worry not we love you back!
@dmvmeu7140
@dmvmeu7140 3 жыл бұрын
Haha enfp with a crush on an isfp so I wanted to know how I could be impacting him - lookin forward to seein how we turn out, great video :) (subbed btw!)
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@yuanyou2011
@yuanyou2011 3 жыл бұрын
Isfp here and I'm currently in a relationship with an enfp. He's such a great guy, he listens and talks well. Makes me really feel understood, with my mood swings and all that. I just really love him. But I'm kinda bothered with what you said, when an enfp is a spouse or a child, someone you have a deeper relationship with, that it might be too stressful for an isfp? Because I hate to feel like this but there are indeed times when I feel overwhelmed by him. There are couple of moments when he tells me things and my mind just shuts down, can't process the things he's saying and I just wouldn't know what to say. And take note, we're on a long distance relationship at that ☹️ In those times I just tell him honestly, that I don't really know what to say to him, or I really push myself to let words come out and tell him something, at least make him feel that I heard him and that I'll always be here for him. It isn't a bad thing though, not something that I would want to be changed by him, I love and accept him wholly and there are no exceptions to that. I just really wanted someone to affirm if this feeling of being overwhelmed is just natural and if there's a way to overcome it, or how to react in such situations.
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t know if can be completely overcome or eradicated. However, if you are truly committed to a relationship, you can learn to both persevere, and to see the beauty in the other person’s differences.
@flamingbliss6998
@flamingbliss6998 5 ай бұрын
My sister is an isfp i am an enfp. She has made that comment to me too, because i was concerned that my lamenting was bringing her down. She says I never drain her energy even if im distraught and complaining about it to her. She is always my shoulder to cry on, too, which I am always so grateful for.❤
@jasimcg.6527
@jasimcg.6527 4 жыл бұрын
Jason here again & again you are talking from my heart . I too have 2 enfp friends and yes i am in awe of there enthusiasm for life and there ability to do numerous things at once and still have time to encourage you . I love enfps ,they are 1 letter from infps who’s my brother type and 1 letter from enfjs who’s my wife and ideal partner . I do feel though i owe my enfp friends because they are so giving and i dont know what i do for them in return why are they my friend ? Mayb they just sense that I genuinely admire them . I also think my vet is an enfp . He always leaves me speachless by the care , time and attention he gives us , hes like a bottomless pit of giving . LOVE YOU GUYS . Wish wre could encourage you like you do us . Cheers .
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
Jasi McG. - I think ENFPs are encouraged when we choose to spend time with them. In my experience, the simple fact that we give them our time and hang out with them and show interest in them...these are some of the most meaningful things we can do to make their lives better. Keep being awesome!
@dennishungry
@dennishungry 3 жыл бұрын
as an ISFP, im happy to hear that we share the same thoughts on ENFPs. We can be so different, yet find a meaningful way to connect and communicate. After every chat, we do feel truly heard like none other, simply blessed to be around them.
@jaclynb4275
@jaclynb4275 2 жыл бұрын
Close to an ISFP, been such an easy relationship… only issue that has ever come up is when they close themselves completely off and won’t communicate. But 98% of this relationship…. Amazing!
@jessicaroutt9070
@jessicaroutt9070 3 жыл бұрын
As an enfp I so enjoy the independence and creativity of the isfp, I def connect with them on music 🤗 their “beneath still waters” vibe also really intrigues me.
@manda_d
@manda_d 3 жыл бұрын
Estp here and the thing I most admire in the enfp's I know is they are fun, fun, fun, lol! Up for big or little adventures and generally know their own mind/opinion. Live and let live attitude.
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@pedrodias5166
@pedrodias5166 2 жыл бұрын
ENFP here What I love about the ISFP is that they're both simple people but very profound as well and uncomplicated, sometimes with infp's (they're lovely too) they can be a bit more complex, but with ISFP they are profound but also very pragmatic, which gives them a sense of, they know what's right and have a depth to it yet they don't need to overthink things out. They strike me as seemingly simple people who actually have a very high awareness of things without having to speak much!
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 2 жыл бұрын
Those are very complimentary words. Very kind.
@Chaizabam
@Chaizabam 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your video!! Im an ENFP and this gave me warm fuzzies 🥰
@Hewhoblue
@Hewhoblue 4 жыл бұрын
Sadly I don’t know any in real life my brother tested as enfp but I don’t know.. however my fav characters in fiction always tend to be enfps enfp have that vibe where they bring hope they believe in everything and everyone but themselves which is why i like them because i want to tell them that I believe in them . I feel like enfp is the one that i want to go on road trips with :> i can imagine spongebob and Patrick star when I think of these two :3
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
I would love a road trip with an ENFP. That’s funny about Sponge Bob and Patrick. I love that show, by the way.
@elliejackson7353
@elliejackson7353 3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this so much! And knowing the second ENFP you are speaking of, I totally agree with everything you said. Thanks for the video!
@trijitacharyya9125
@trijitacharyya9125 4 жыл бұрын
We love isfps!!!
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
Trijit Acharyya - It’s nice to be appreciated. Thank you.
@reynaortega5427
@reynaortega5427 Жыл бұрын
I loved your video , as an ENFP I loose interest in long videos but there was something about your voice and way of talking that kept me interested , I like how you said no bad comments for Enfp at the end of the video hahahaa I think isfp love to protect and are so kind and I love that !
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@bizzygeernaert-davies8306
@bizzygeernaert-davies8306 11 ай бұрын
I have one isfp friend who I'm very close to, I love her honesty, I love her sense of humour. I love that when I'm around her she exudes a calm and relaxing energy which acts as a balm to my mind. I'm surrounded by en's and in's I would consider her a close friend, my other closest friends are all infj. Curiosity of course is what drew me to this video. Cool video. Oh yeah, I forgot to say I'm an enfp.
@mikkirichard1517
@mikkirichard1517 4 жыл бұрын
This is awesome! I’m an ENFP! Very encouraging and good to know these thoughts!
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
Mikki Richard - Thank you! And thank you for watching. Please consider subscribing if you have not already.
@jenzryn9751
@jenzryn9751 3 жыл бұрын
I am an enfp! I have a isfp friend and it is so much fun, he has new ideas all the time and I love supporting them. I have read that enfps seek validation (which is true) and when I do get the "you're the best" "you're my best friend" "thank you!" and so on I feel really great. But then too long without and I begin to worry a little if we are still friends, I know we are still friends!...but I question my self sometimes (like what am I doing wrong). I always feel like I am listened to and when isfps remember the small things I really appreciate it! Then I say I appreciate that and then its a win win ya know? (us enfps love our "win-win" situations) Anyway isfps are great, creative, kind and very caring! I also subbed! great channel!
@stephanys6509
@stephanys6509 3 жыл бұрын
Hugssss you made me feel beautiful and understood. People think I'm scattered and not focused. Which is not true. I get deeply focused for a short time. I am fiercely devoted to my loved ones. So thank you 💞
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching. And thank you for the encouraging thoughts. Please consider subscribing if you have not already. Keep being awesome!
@Yamengo1
@Yamengo1 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video ♥ I am ENFP and have a friend ISFP. So comfy around him) Was looking for any video about ENFP-ISFP relationships, and I found! Thank you!
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome. Glad I could help. Thank you for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not already
@nicolascharles8464
@nicolascharles8464 4 жыл бұрын
Great time that listening to your nice comments on ENFPs ! I was looking for some good vibes and an authentic word, I got them, thanks a lot !
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
Nicolas Charles - thank you for watching and commenting. It’s very encouraging. Please consider subscribing if you have not already.
@SubhamGurung67
@SubhamGurung67 2 жыл бұрын
Im an isfp and everything that yous said was true. I have a cousin who is enfp and when we have conversations we have very deeps ones. I ask advices from him sometimes besouse he has that Ne and everytime after having a deep conversation i feel all the things i said he had just printed down in his head and that makes me really happy. Love you all ENFPs
@user-pk5pl7ox1e
@user-pk5pl7ox1e Жыл бұрын
Wow love it! As ENFP we have ALOT of emotions and need help processing and require people who won't feel bogged down with it. It's great to hear you don't get stressed with it I love ISFP and variety of interests. I just wish the ISFP I'm dealing with communicates openly without fear or anxiety. How can I help him relax around me? Why's he gone anxious suddenly? Does he like me?
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 Жыл бұрын
For me, communicating the depths of my feelings, emotions, and identity, is a place of extreme vulnerability. Therefore, in order to do so, I must trust, beyond any shadow of doubt, the person I am opening up to. If I believe there is a chance that private information will be blabbed, or that my identity will be mocked, or that the person will deal trivially with my inward being, I will not open up. I will share a lot, but only those things that cannot be used to hurt me. If you want an ISFP to be vulnerable to you, it could take years of proving that you deserve to be given a glimpse into the ISFP’s soul. To help him relax, you have to show interest and acceptance of whatever parts of himself he is comfortable sharing. If you do that, he will likely open up more and more, though slowly. The difficulty is that, there are behaviors that some people see as no big deal, that the ISFP may interpret as someone not caring or being casual with the ISFP’s very being. If he feels dismissed, trivialized, or not taken seriously, he could pull away in a moment. That’s not really fair to you, because you may not even realize you did anything to lose his trust. But life isn’t fair. If you really want to be close to someone, you have to figure out how they function. Of course, if he wants to be with you, hopefully he will afford you the same concern.
@sirbradfordofhousejones
@sirbradfordofhousejones 4 жыл бұрын
9:40 ENFPs do indeed make you feel optimistic IF they are optimistic themselves. If they are in a state of worry, it is the opposite. The Ne with Fi means that their own self worth will be projected through the Ne... and sometimes that can be worry-projection.
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
Kefka & Khajiit ! - That makes sense. Thanks for sharing that.
@eatts_mehappy2069
@eatts_mehappy2069 2 жыл бұрын
As an Enfp, you deserve my hug🤗, and I like the fact that it's so natural for enfp's to be that way.... And in turn, it's such an accomplishing feeling to be there for people. Oh and also.... The few Isfp's I know are pretty awesome, charming, funny, sensitive and INTERESTING. Wow. 🍻
@jessicaroutt9070
@jessicaroutt9070 3 жыл бұрын
I also love the gentle spirt of the isfp
@fufala84
@fufala84 4 жыл бұрын
I feel valued, thanks for the cool video. :)
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
fufi - Thank you for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not already. And keep being awesome at all you do!
@jakerath2803
@jakerath2803 8 ай бұрын
Im an enfp with a long term isfp partner. She is a willing and engaging participant in my wild adventures of ideas and conversation. I am a willing and grateful participant in her wild experiential adventures. If you want to repay an enfp (not that they would expect it), you should take them on some sort of adventures (concerts, walking tours, new activities, new food, an art gallery etc). Show them a good time with your actions.
@peterfurianto1644
@peterfurianto1644 2 жыл бұрын
an ENFP here! happy that ISFPs think like that towards me. even though I think we both fell into the each other weaknesses, and had a misscoms. This video helps me a lot to understand her better and to find a way to fix the problem. Could you make a video on how yo fix the problem itself? Anyway, great video, and have a good day!
@ris4430
@ris4430 4 жыл бұрын
And oh! Till now we never arguing over big things🤔 its only sometimes because of my needs who want more affection or want to have one time togther with him because he somtimes get busy with chores/hobbies then forget to reply my message on time while im waiting lol And the good thing is, whenever i got mad because of that thing,, he always says sorry first and explain the reason then try to pull me again to communicate my reasons of being mad Then because i cant get mad for too long lol, so i forgive him and i said sorry too,, And another unique fact is, whenever im sad he becomes sad too,, and whenever im happy he becomes happy too,, just such a sincere connection :") And still sorry for bad english :"v
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
Communication is always so difficult, but great relationships are worth the effort. Thanks for watching.
@Mindimalist
@Mindimalist 4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your input and the time you took to explain this. I’m an ENFP myself. My experience with ISFPs is not that great, because even though I perceive all of the things you’re mentioning from their side, I see the dynamic as one sided. It always ends up looking like the ISFP gets more from the interaction than the ENFP. I didn’t notice this before until my last and recent interaction with them. The isfp is in my opinion very self-center and uses the ENFP as their sounding board (and fan) more than like equal friends. The ENFP on the other hand misses really, really, really (can I stress this more?) the Ne or Ni when spending too much time with the ISFP. It feels like it lacks depth and it bores us. Just as much as it tires you off, as you mentioned on your video. Therefore the interactions need to be short for the ENFP to be able to handle it (just being honest). These interactions tend to be lead by the ISFP who’s always busy talking about themselves and letting themselves be the center of attention of the ENFP who would try and look at whatever they are saying from all of the possible angels, which in turns will make the ISFP feel like they are taken seriously and someone cares.... but it’s one sided. What the ENFP needs is Ne or Ni to feel fulfilled in a relationship of any sort. Who says the opposite is in denial. Anyhow you gave me some good ideas for an upcoming video on my channel 🙌🏻
@jeaueldeendiagmel7737
@jeaueldeendiagmel7737 3 жыл бұрын
Hi I'm an ENFP and I can relate to this to a certain extent.. but believe they do try... I think that there is quite a gap between their intent and how they come across to people.. idk how to explain it tho hehehe
@danielapolo7346
@danielapolo7346 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks ♥️ enfp here :)
@abigail.c1376
@abigail.c1376 4 жыл бұрын
My friend is an ISFP and I don’t know how many times to check in with him. How much is too often? I want to respect his introvert time :)
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
Abigail .C - If he really enjoys talking to you or having you around, you can text every few days, call once a week, get together every 10 days to 2 weeks. I don’t easily get annoyed by people I like. In fact, it is not a drain on me to be with one person, as long as I enjoy that person. I could spend time with my neighbor every day, or just about. But if he regularly avoids you or doesn’t answer texts or tries to get away from you, then you should space out your interactions. Thanks for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not already.
@OnniBoldFace
@OnniBoldFace Жыл бұрын
Im an isfp and cannot stand introverted intuitives but absolutely love being around the enfp myself. For some odd reason the two of us "click"
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 Жыл бұрын
As an ISFP, introverted Intuition is your third function. ENFPs use extroverted intuition.
@OnniBoldFace
@OnniBoldFace Жыл бұрын
@@myisfpjourney7813 i guess thats the click. Thanks
@sjrussell3370
@sjrussell3370 3 жыл бұрын
Hello, I really enjoyed your video! I'm an ENFP and recently started seeing an ISFP. She is amazing and wonderful and has made me feel very safe and grounded since the very first time I started talking to her. I'm wondering about the comment you made about extraverted intuition being stressful in relationships for ISFPs? If you could elaborate on it I would greatly appreciate it so I can be mindful of that! Thank you 😊
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 3 жыл бұрын
I think we have trouble having too many ideas thrown at us at once. Ideas are big and non-detailed. They require thought and processing. Ne just want to throw out one idea after another, without being particularly committed to any of them. Ni wants to narrow down on one idea, or just a couple ideas, and commit to them. So the Ne user is just saying here are a bunch of ideas. And the ISFP is like, let’s slow down and look at these one by one. Don’t give me so many ideas, so fast. I actually have some videos on this topic.
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 3 жыл бұрын
Also, thank you for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not already
@sjrussell3370
@sjrussell3370 3 жыл бұрын
@@myisfpjourney7813 Thank you for your response! That makes total sense, I didn't realize until now but I've noticed this difference in a lot of interactions throughout my life. Perhaps making sure I use my extraverted thinking to narrow down and plan things out a bit before bringing up ideas that affect her/our relationship would be a good idea? Also, I've subscribed and am watching your video on extraverted intuition next! 😊
@lee.bythesea
@lee.bythesea 3 жыл бұрын
Not to sound super biased or anything, but as an ENFP, I often refer to ISFPs as my favorites in secret lol Everyone's great though
@spoofymcspoof1
@spoofymcspoof1 3 жыл бұрын
I do the same except I'm a ISFP I view ENFPs as my favorite :D You guys just seem like the perfect people to explore the world with!
@JulieMelillo
@JulieMelillo 4 жыл бұрын
enfp and isfp are "semi duals/duality" in socionics, which means they have an easy connection.
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
Julie Melillo - Makes sense you me
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
To me...not “you me”
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
Julie Melillo - Also, thank you for watching and commenting. Please consider subscribing if you have not already.
@pardeep1127
@pardeep1127 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome content Very happy to have come across you :)
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
Pardeep Garg - Thank you!
@trustyourself-ashleyching3646
@trustyourself-ashleyching3646 3 жыл бұрын
Author Heidi Priebe is an ENFP and her partner is an artist ISFP!
@FloridaMarlinWrangler
@FloridaMarlinWrangler 6 ай бұрын
Jack and rose were ENFP ISFP. Perfect example of perpetual love. Im ENFP. Wheres my rose?
@prettyhina
@prettyhina 3 жыл бұрын
Very interesting. I had a dream that led me to my infp part, my artist part. Normally I am an infp but when I was a child I was forced to do things and not what I wanted do maybe I became enfp to build a good environment for others. Can anybody do that? I am a teacher and I ve been loving to make them express themselves but I had loved music and all my life and never done anything about it till age of 28 . One day I rrasiled I have a child inside and I need to let it out so I m thinking I may be an isfp actially? Now I want to do some things but my te is so bad with music. Normally with other hobbies maths japanese ,rafting all kind of adventures I could use te but when it comes to music I can t . Te become very weal. Now for exemple all I want to do is dance and sing and not market advertise myself, think, create plans, contact. All I want to do is study and enjoy and then at the weekend put on a show for everyone. What do you think?
@prettyhina
@prettyhina 3 жыл бұрын
But I do not have money or someone to support me so I need to do other things like workung and teaching and marketing
@Zer0zUnLtd
@Zer0zUnLtd 4 жыл бұрын
I'm ENFP-T... and I'm in love with my boss who's an ISFP lol. It's not going well but I hope I can take what you said in this video to better understand and communicate with her. When I fall in love... I fall hard and give it my all. I hope it goes well.
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
Zer0zUNLTD. - Well I hope it works out for you both. I would think ISFP/ENFP relationship would be pretty fun; though not without it’s difficulties. Thanks for watching.
@sirbradfordofhousejones
@sirbradfordofhousejones 4 жыл бұрын
My ISFP Journey I’m married to an ENFP... 14 years now! Fun= 100%! We have a ton of it. But it isn’t without its flaws. She loves talking future and possibilities, but gets bogged down with worry and with getting super distracted by said possibilities. I love talking the present and finding what would be easiest, but get bogged down with sloth. Opposites attract, I guess! Love her to bits.
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 4 жыл бұрын
Kefka & Khajiit ! - What type are you?
@sirbradfordofhousejones
@sirbradfordofhousejones 4 жыл бұрын
My ISFP Journey ISFP like you! :)
@ris4430
@ris4430 4 жыл бұрын
Hi may i ask what fun things you and ur SO? Im still in long distance relationship with this isfp guy for 9 months, im enfp, so the only way we can do to enjoy each other company are chat, send pics and update it every single day🥺🥺 Sometimes i kind of afraid to talk about future possibilities and abstracs thingie with him, so i just go with daily life conversation Do you maybe have some advices for our relationship to make it all fun 100% and have enjoyful convo or time with each other? Hope u reply 🙏🥺 and sorry for bad english :"
@ralstonsamadan2474
@ralstonsamadan2474 3 жыл бұрын
We only actually listen so that we dont lose an opportunity to make a joke. Yeah. Thats it. Jk. Hahaha
@myisfpjourney7813
@myisfpjourney7813 3 жыл бұрын
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