Why I left my toxic job... my old bosses will hate this

[@chrissiec2123]

A half hour long? Mrs.Lunova is feeding her subscribers with a generous amount of content today. I’m loving it. 😌🙌🏽

[@Justslimm]

🤗im glad you're enjoying it! I thought it was too long but I'm so happy you love it

[@G123Nikki]

When they try to hit you with the reverse racism😪😒😂😂

[@lyndaj4351]

As a Black woman when I tell you this was my experience, but in a medical office. I scheduled GYN surgery,, patient base mostly elderly white women. The level of disrespect and microaggression i faced on a daily bases. From those patients (something about elderly white women) and even doctors What made it worse was no one acknowledged or stood up for me. Not the doctors, nurses, office mgr or other co-workers. of course I was the only POC. The best decision I made was to give notice and leave. They begged me to stay. One of the doctors even contacted me a couple of years later when she opened her own practice. She wanted to hire me (the nerve to hunt me down). I of course said no

[@Justslimm]

it's mind boggling that people have the audacity to treat people like that period. I'm so sorry you had to face all that B.S. I'm glad you left and were able to set those boundaries and leave.

[@lyndaj4351]

@@Justslimm so glad you were able to do the same

[@sinethembangcobo9289]

😂 "the nerve to hunt me down, of course I said no"😂😂

[@godblesschild9819]

My people, Jesus Christ loves you, give him a chance in your life.

[@casey-adelle9457]

Sis, I have to head out to church, but best believe I will be watching this with some cafe con leche 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Justslimm]

I hope church goes well and I will be waiting for you after worship boo

[@frederquejackson5409]

Love that. Keep fighting for what's right. You literally notified everyone who needed to know what was going on so if a law suit happens they can't say they haven't been warned. So happy your out of that hell hole. This pandemic has people really out here bold and being reckless. So glad you are free from that situation.

[@Justslimm]

yup!!! the passive aggressiveness and unprofessionalism was noted and reported and nothing was done. I'm glad I got out!

[@ladyvw72]

I was ecstatic to see your video & very sad to hear the horrible, continual experience at work! It's sickening that in America, there ARE people who STILL are racist & NOTHING but excuses is made for them. I DON'T care who don't like me, just stay out my face with it, but being that it was your employer, management, it would be impossible to avoid them! I'm glad you left so enjoy your life & NOW, upload on a weekly basis!❤️

[@Justslimm]

yes it was definitely unfortunate but im so happy im gone!!! and youtube is now my full focus!

[@Simply_rhoda]

Almost broke my leg coming to watch this video 😂

[@Justslimm]

not the broken leg! lmao thank you love! but no more injuries mkay lol

[@tamaracarter9345]

I applauded 👏 you for speaking up for yourself and doing what's right for you. If you don't speak out for yourself it will continue. This place obviously have a problem with racism. It is clear many of their management are ignorant have no clue what there doing.

[@RoselySS95]

“The lack of common sense as human beings…” GIRL! When I tell you that was the first thing that slapped the shit out of me when I entered adulthood. I was like… “wtf Is this!?!? Ohh Nahhhh I don’t belong here. Y’all wild 😂” Seriously… we need to change that expression bc common sense isn’t common AT ALL. I honestly wonder how tf the human race has survived this long… But I’m truly happy you’re doing better now that you have your new bright home and no more of that toxic job!! And of course, you will always have your husband that loves you and has your back! You’re doing great 💖 Don’t worry about it, you have so many more amazing things coming next 😊

[@carlaveus6252]

I had a similar situation at my 2 last jobs, quit the most recent one June this year. I had no plans or other job, but I just couldn’t take it anymore. I’m glad that you left this situation, now focus on yourself and what you want to do next. Sending love💖

[@Justslimm]

I'm glad you got out! and yep thats the plan. love you and thanks for the support!

[@tyresedaijaun4098]

siR, I DonT ArgUe wIth guEstS. I’m GonNa gEt a ManAgeR..

[@Justslimm]

yuuurrrrrrppppppp

[@2RiverPower]

Sorry for long reply, thought it necessary to share. Staying in toxic workplace will make you sick. You have to remove yourself for your own health. What a blessing that you have that choice. It sad that we're still experiencing this. I remember my experience at a corporate job many years ago (late 90s). I would get pit in my stomach and feel a heavy weight on me as train approached stop for work. Before I left, I was crying in bathroom and rallying support from my "village". Had to run from that place. I remember a Director sharing in convo that I was intimidating. I was like the smilingest (my word), naive, most approachable person- just tall and a Black person. I remember being uncomfortable in that convo & thinking, why are you telling me this, you are in higher position than me. That was really his issue and looking back, it's probably why I wasn't promoted. There were microaggressions dished out by employees in that department and in the larger corporation. What made me eventually leave was when a blond girl was hired (she was nice but knew her power & used it to get ahead) and my supervisor (he was enamored with her though not the same one who shared he was intimidated by me) asked me to train her to bring her up to speed. I didn’t want to. They eventually gave her the next level position that I also went for. She got it though I was more qualified! I got mad and complained to department head and to HR. They made it hard for me to stay so I left for my sanity. There were good people but the ones who were low key racists made their presence felt during encounters and convos that left you thinking, "You have the nerve to say that?" It was like they did nothing and you should just smile. I went to a dot com, got tired of corporate life, left got Masters degree now I'm a high school counselor. When things get rough and they are, at least I'm in my calling which is helping teens. Congrats on finding something you love to do that can pay the bills. Keep on being you. So glad you have support of your family and Dejan. Wishing you both all the best. Stay safe.❤

[@torim4201]

Girl I understand! When I worked at (place I won't mention) we had a manager that would SH the girls and was an affair with two! of his female staff. We reported him twice and upper management would not act on it because nothing was done "forcefully". And it STILL took me two years to leave. I admire your story! You made the right call

[@brendaechols5929]

We had lots of situations like that at my work

[@torim4201]

@@brendaechols5929 It's so incredibly sad

[@Alteori]

YAY new vid!!! 10:35 omg.... He was projecting on you. Like I get his frustration with the media crap happening and dividing black against white but that was not it. That was very disrespectful and immature and you have SOOOOO MUCH PATIENCE. I would have walked out. lol 11:16 WTAF????!!!!!! Even if his ass was thinking that, wtf... why would he say that shit??? WOW. I would have banned him from coming to that restaurant. Maybe that's too far but fk outta here with that racist shit. Wasn't his daughter there with him? That's what he is teaching her? 17:53 what the hell kind of hellscape did you work at?? I would be like, "b**** if you don't have waiters you don't have guests" Wow I'm so glad you're not working there anymore. People should work where their mind is right. As a matter of fact working at these places that mistreat their employees seems to just justify the management to continue acting like that. Good on you that you left

[@rbm960]

Gurl i relate to u so damn much. I the exact type of job lack of diversity dreading going to work very toxic racist Job i had. Glad u Left good decision

[@Justslimm]

im so sorry love. I hope you find a way out and you will come out the other side even stronger than you are now.

[@isabel5169]

I feel ya, sis love yourself first hun, don't be tortured by anyone ♥️

[@Justslimm]

this !

[@tamaracicarevic]

Hope that you never again have to work in 19th century and be strategic. It's a sad reality. Sending you lots of love from Serbia. 🇷🇸Come back for pite, prebranac and rakija of course. 🤗

[@Justslimm]

I dont have to go back thankfully! and hvala puno!

[@girlonfire2.076]

Well the truth is the vast majority of places don't care about their employees that's why I always look out for # 1 an always put my wants an needs first

[@carlaveus6252]

Also, we need a bun tutorial‼️

[@Justslimm]

hahaha is my bun that big? I might include it in a video one day!

[@sherrysearcy1608]

I thought I was the only one feeling like that. Omg Slim thank you so much. Getting ready to leave my job

[@Justslimm]

You got this girl!

[@bluesquirrel3919]

I can remember having a job like that at a national corporate insurance company in the 1980s. As soon as I walked in the lobby in the morning my stomach would turn and ache 😬. So, I feel ya'

[@Justslimm]

thats when you know its tiiiimmmeeeee to go

[@amaa563]

Am happy for your journey girl. Sending you all the loves and hugs ❤❤❤🇳🇬

[@Justslimm]

thank you girl

[@shenieces7839]

So sorry this happened to you, I'm glad that you're out of there!! I'd like to see a video of the types of people who go to restaurants.

[@MsDee-ok8ej]

You were dealing with spiritual warfare. It is REAL & HEAVY against melanated people. You had/have a lawsuit. Don’t dim your shine tell them to get sunglasses 😎. Stay beautiful…..

[@cyndb6303]

Your bosses will hate this but we love the thumbnail. You are serving looks on a silver platter. 😊

[@Justslimm]

thank yewwww so much!

[@rachzainhass]

I say tox you say sick. Tox sick!! Tox sick!! LITERALLY I can totally relate I hated my job so much I started getting stomach ulcers and bubble guts. I was disgusted by the people and their conduct to the point were I was subconsciously hoping for student strikes to take place in my town ( the only thing) that the bosses would let us stay at home cause there were so dangerous and people sometimes lost their lives . So with that I had to leave I could not let that place turn me into a heartless monster. I also had a don't f with me demeanour and I looked away over alot of things just to survive that warfare

[@tristris3421]

Wow! Good job staying strong and sticking up for yourself 👏👏💜💜🌻🌻You will be fine manifest that new job or expand your horizons on KZbin it’s your world do your thing.🤗🤗

[@Justslimm]

Thank you so much!! and yes youtube is my focus now and I will make it full-time! I am blessed and grateful to have you all supporting me.

[@karenhodges4933]

I'm so happy you got the f*** outta there! I hate ppl like that. From the corporate, to the manager, down to the customers! That's just awful. Happy that you are doing great now! Love your hair by the way!

[@8Jud3]

I feel your pain! Sadly,I've been dragging my feet for 6 yrs in an male- dominated industry & just coasting through a good company filled with some sh*te folks + an invasive Mgr who thinks because she has some POC family members, she can relate to the every day plight me & the other 20-something Black People(in a company of 1000-let that sink in) face every single day!🤦🏾‍♀️ 2023 year of moves!!

[@joanachirwa4398]

Dropped everything to watch this, these weekly videos are the only constant thing in my life, I love them ❤️!!!

[@Justslimm]

omg thank you so much girl

[@PatriceButler49]

I just quit my job after 2 and a half years for this same exact reason. I love the actual job I do, but I’m sorry working with all women has been very stressful. It has peaked my anxiety really bad . I have gone to the manager but she is also toxic and has lied on me several times about me contacting her letting her know when I’m leaving early or calling out. you go to the upper level people and nothing is done just a conversation is had with her, no reprimands for her lying on you. Then, because I stayed to myself because of all the drama and just say good morning and good night, two girls at my job do not like me and constantly has something to say about me behind my back so today was enough I decided to walk away. am I scared? yes!but I know God has my back, and I am ready to walk in the next chapter of peace.

[@MarijiahAnthony]

So happy you got out girl!! Can’t wait until i am able to get out of Hell’s Kitchen! Hopefully I’ll find something in these Atlanta streets lol -Marijiah 💕

[@Justslimm]

thank you! and im hoping you get out of there soon girl. I would also loooovvveeee to visit Atlanta!

[@MarijiahAnthony]

@@Justslimm thanks girls! you definitely should visit 💕

[@kerrypalmer2311]

So glad that you left.. peace of mind is always better.. do you girl 👊🏽

[@ozplayspiano2867]

wow!!! just found the two of you last night (tuesday 11 april 2023) you are just amazing. i have asperger's (mild) and perky people are usually not my thing but something was happening with you and i just kept watching your videos. and then i found this one and the light went on. in your videos you kept repeating how people wanted more of dan (we know why) and you were so chill with it like you want more of him well here he is and that just fascinated me. this is her channel but they want more of him and she is unfazed by it. but when i got to this video, the light came on and i knew why i had not stopped watching. the fact that your daughter has you as her mother is just mind blowing to me. how fortunate is she? your self awareness. your ability to look at yourself and see what there is you like and what there is you do not like and are willing to fix it is beyond your years. just hearing you pour your soul out on camera is remarkable. and with such ease and comfort, it is like you know what you are doing even if you do not know. you are truly a gift. so glad i found your channel. i have no social media presence but i do have 5 youtube videos on my asperger's. oz: me and my asperger's. bad sound and lighting but is is what it is. keep being the amazing person you are and so joyfully sharing you life with us. much thanks to you.

[@Justslimm]

This means the world to me❤️ Thank you for supporting me and thank you for this thoughtful and kind message 🙏🏾❤️

[@elizabethhumphrey4833]

Good for you I gave mine 27yrs of my life. And like you said beat myself up about leaving but did it and realized how good it was for my sanity. You are young and intelligent go forth and be happy!

[@petrinaturner5707]

Love ur hair 😍😍❤❤ it looks so healthy

[@trinisocag]

Most ppl do the straight hair for the interview then back to normal braids, twists, puffs im a new sub and this video is facts

[@puttyfish]

Thank you for sharing this experience and for advocating for yourself ❤

[@meredithhopkins837]

From someone who knows Chad... you're not being shady! All facts! Glad you left that toxic place

[@wilsonbreige4908]

Congrats slim on your new home and leaving your old job. Hope you find some level of peace.

[@bakeryandchristianwisdom2594]

Hey❤️I don’t know if you’ll read this. But I’m one of your subscribers that like your content. I’ve noticed in your past videos that you said you have anxiety and overthinking problems, and this is coming from a good place, I’ll like to give you a remedy which is prayer, I don’t know if you’re a Christian or not but take some time from your day, pray about your worries, your fears, anxiety and everything you feel, pray about it and ask God to give you peace. Once again, this is coming from a good place and I really hope you overcome your fears, and while you’re at that, you can pray about everything else in your life, pray it in Jesus’s name

[@sodvine3486]

The part you said God gave you freewill, that's the truth but 400 to 600 a day, that's a lot to walk away from. I would be in prayer and fasting ..., they have their freewill to sleep with whoever they want, that ain't my business, I would EAT my water😂😂😂 minding my business

[@evelynnwamboi.7266]

Slim can we just talk about your hair!gaaal❤️❤️❤️

[@micro-uhgresh-uhnn]

The fact they they obliged him is a lawsuit. This happens recently in the news. To cater to such a request is to facilitate racial discrimination.

[@larkstevens8456]

Hey beautiful Queen!!! So, this guest yelled at you on the assumption that you have a problem with him, yet he yelled at you in front of guest without asking to speak to the manager. And, he was there two weeks prior and experience the same thing (again, never asked to speak to the manger) and when you told him that you were in Europe that it was another server, he never stopped venting and kept trying to embarrass you in front of people. WOW! That says a lot about him. When people have a problem with someones color it doesn't matter who they replace the person with because you and her are both women of color, and to make it appear as if her skin is more acceptable then yours because it's lighter is bull. Sounds like this man was trying to use reverse phycology on you. I see a confident beautiful black woman and some people are bothered by , so begins the plot to take away your shine. Appreciate the person that GOD made you to be. Don't waste your energy trying to figure them out why some people want to attack you because of jealousy. They can take it up with GOD if they have a problem. Heck, you can't help it that GOD showed out when he created your canvas! Girl, just say- Don't hate me because I'm beautiful!

[@antikaesart]

oh wow, you went through so much, like you put up with it but I'm so glad you pulled out. My face for half the things you shared was like--no. Don't worry, you'll end up in a good place. :) Hope all things work out for you.

[@no-thanks]

Male Karens

[@Justslimm]

yuuuurrrrrppppppp

[@Put1demerede]

Powerful story

[@Justslimm]

thank you so much

[@chantosu123]

I am happy u left that job because at some point we all need a peace of mind .

[@cuongtang9539]

i had the same, i was anxious to go to work, not funny

[@reaganandrews7870]

I work at Olive Garden and just had my first racist experience but they were cowards about it. Side note,you should do a bun tutorial!

[@Justslimm]

I'm sorry you had to experience that. People can just be awful.

[@Margueritetchek1]

Fabulous informative life update. Big thumbs up

[@user-vq1rl5ms9z]

You sound angry and insecure

[@angelofscorpio]

firsttt lmao! heyyy girl 💗

[@Justslimm]

heeeeeeeeyyyyyyyy

[@reesepatron2320]

WoW, "indentured servitude was equivalent to slavery"...hmmm🤔 Let's do a quick evaluation: Indentured Servants weren't KIDNAPPED. I.S weren't separated from their wife and children Indentured (males) Servants weren't made to have s3x with their own mothers I.S babies weren't fed to alligators I.S weren't enslaved. Period. Rac-ist people always show who they are. Personally, I like that do.

[@beverlynoelle6941]

Just started watching your channel. Do you have a college degree? What industry do you work in?

[@preetichaudhary6299]

I just love to watch u.....plz try to make more videos 🙏🙏🙏. Can u do one on your current fitness routine.

[@cocosafari6835]

I understand now why less people like to go to work in America . So much discrimination. I just got certified as a medical assistant, was so excited, then I remembered how cruel was my previous job experience working at the hospital. Even though I love to take care of people, I am sadly considering starting a business instead of working at the hospital. I am pursuing a career in nursing, might have to move to an other country to enjoy working as a nurse which is my dream job.

[@ellie5373]

So what's next for you? Are you planning to stay in the restaurant service industry? P.S. I hope not..

[@lifeasweknowit639]

Loving the long video 🙂

[@KarisaKarmali]

Love this - you're amazing

[@aronibeauty]

Periodt as you shouldddd! They had you all the way messed up. 🚩🚩

[@carmelvillard]

Urr so gorgeous. Much 💘 baby girl

[@gertrudebeth3127]

Heyyyyy

[@Justslimm]

heeeeeeeeyyyyyy

[@hiliandatitangi4776]

Your hair is long,I don't understand why you don't wear your natural hair often..

[@lu2224lu]

once again I’m so happy you left cause that’s honestly way too much time and energy spent in a toxic environment, a toxic racist one at that

[@janeesther]

💕💕💕💕

[@Justslimm]

[@noluthandozungu8007]

I loved you so much... But I somehow stopped and continued following you for one reason Most of the times you always pick up negativity to almost everything and not appreciate or pay attention to what good or what you have... for example praising anxiety as if you’re enjoying it by titling it “My anxiety “... I’m sorry if you feel like I’m attacking you but I’m not , I like you and wish you could be more positive because some of us actually most ... don’t have what you have, we are struggling like really struggling.

[@noluthandozungu8007]

Honestly this is not about you leaving your job but just your video’s...

[@Justslimm]

Hey! I understand if you don't identify with my content and you feel as if its been negative. That definitely isn't my intention. While I don't enjoy having anxiety or any other mental illnesses, I don't believe in acting like I'm okay when I'm not. I believe if I share some of my struggles people would feel less isolated or they could somehow find a way to cope with it. I don't feel attacked at all love! if anything these last couple of months with all the changes I've been through, I have also realized that I focus on certain negative things in my life , and it's something I'm working on. I'm not perfect and I'm learning new ways of being and thinking that isn't harmful. I am aware that I have more than most and I am so very grateful. Especially after the last couple of years with Rona. There is a lot that I have been through that I personally don't share and other constant struggles that make things tough for me. Again, I'm sorry for having been negative to the point where you are affected. That again is never my intention. I appreciate you taking the time to write this and letting me know .

[@keepinitkawaii]

I mean, both my parents just passed away within two weeks of each other, i just found out i have ovarian cancer and will have to remove my ovaries at 26 years old with no children and i am left with no money for food for the next month or so and i have no family to help out and yet i am not selfish enough to leave a comment on someone elses video saying "be more positive please because others have it worse". These videos are HER diary, these are HER experiences. These are things PEOPLE relate to. You dont get to say "some people have it worse so stop complaining". This isnt an oppression competition. Learn to listen to people and acknowledge their struggles without minimizing what they are going through. Her struggles are just as relevant as mine and yours and she has every right to share them. It will make you a better person if you learn to listen to others instead of trying to size up what is more severe or more important and if it really bothers you then you don't have to watch

[@milosrajkovic4272]

God gave you two ears and one mouth to listen two times more than to talk. I don't see no racism in your story, only victim mentality, change your attitude, be more patient and caring for other people, not only yourself, and it's all gonna be ok.

[@rosedemure5072]

I feel you.. I had a job where old white men specifically,🤌🏽 said inappropriate, jaw dropping things to me. It was very upsetting because it happened alllllll the time to the point where I was like, this is not a coincidence, this shit is privilege. My white co-worker NEVER had those type of things said to her. Even she would be like, man these white dudes really love you! That was not love, that was some 1900’s BS, feeling like you can say whatever you want to me and I’d better be a good ole gal and mind my tongue. I brought it up to management and asked how would they like me to handle it, because if one more man stood WAY to close to me with their eyes penetrating my retina’s, talking crazy, it would be a problem! They blew it off of course and sho nuff, here come old Wilbur talking crazy. I checked him as professionally as I could and he reported me to management (of course he was the innocent victim🙄) which they took his side in my face as I stood there🤷🏽‍♀️ My co worker (my hero) who was a black man knew what I was experiencing, looked at me and said “I guess this my last day.” I was confused at first, but he stepped in and WENT TF OFF! He told old Wilbur off, he told management off and let them know that he was quitting because he would no longer be a bystander to the blatant disrespect to POC who were their employees. He kissed my cheek, took off his work badge and left without looking back 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I took mines off and followed behind him. To have that black man stand up for me and quit his job was very emotional and gave me hope at the same time. Stay away from these toxic workplaces. They will always cater to their own so sometimes you have to keep it moving and cater to yourself✌🏽 💪🏽

[@almaznegus5067]

you’re brilliant you don’t need to serve these jerks-morons; all they know is hate and braking Their fellow human beings sprite! They don’t deserve you; however, you’re a promising young lady if your situation permits, I challenge you to go to law school-so you can defend others; a little sacrifice will pay life time; Don’t let those hateful and deranged individuals have succeed.