Why I'm Giving Up on Dating...

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Jordan Green

Jordan Green

3 жыл бұрын

Here's why I'm giving up on dating...for now.
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@bringvonback977
@bringvonback977 3 жыл бұрын
I have never even been on a real date lol
@bakadoge5565
@bakadoge5565 3 жыл бұрын
Ive never been on a date lol
@dartboy
@dartboy 3 жыл бұрын
@@bakadoge5565 pain
@ThorstenLochmann
@ThorstenLochmann 3 жыл бұрын
Orenthal James Simpson lmaooo
@bringvonback977
@bringvonback977 3 жыл бұрын
@@bakadoge5565 it's just why would I waste my time chasing girls
@lilmamba9882
@lilmamba9882 3 жыл бұрын
Young love is sometimes not real
@suprxmefire9497
@suprxmefire9497 Жыл бұрын
i’m 19 years old and i’m slowly giving up on dating, because i came to the realization that my needs haven’t been met and plus i was tired of dealing with goofy people
@maleekjbyrd
@maleekjbyrd 3 жыл бұрын
Brother, I FEEL YOU. I’m 21, never had a girlfriend, never really talked to anyone before and also a virgin. Did I mention I never had my first kiss? It can definitely be concerning. Especially when people our age already had plenty of relationship experiences and plenty of one night stands. It just makes you ask yourself is there something wrong with me? What am I doing wrong? And the answer is nothing. God (In my case) or maybe just the universe for other people has someone already assigned to us and we can’t meet that person and experience these things, until people like us reach our full potential in investing in our selves. But honestly now, just like yourself I’m also done with dating. And I don’t care how long it takes until that time comes. I won’t allow myself to try and start dating until I know I got me, I’m fully in love with me, and I don’t need to depend on anyone else to make me feel that “special kind of happy.” BTW, I just started watching your content and it’s honestly helped me personally developed in certain areas in my life. It’s good to see someone in our age group not only trying to better themselves but giving the knowledge you gain to also help people our age better themselves. Keep up with the good consistency and you’re definitely going to blow up. Just wait on it.
@miles_v.4565
@miles_v.4565 3 жыл бұрын
Power to you bro🙌🏾
@lilmamba9882
@lilmamba9882 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing bro🔥💪🏼
@JordanGreenYT
@JordanGreenYT 3 жыл бұрын
yo bro i appreciate the transparency! focus on yourself and your journey, and the right one will come along when youre ready. and itll be worth the wait, because youll be ready for each other. and bro i didnt even get my first kiss until like a month ago, and it was honestly nothing special 💀 so dont even worry about that
@nomazitha6266
@nomazitha6266 3 жыл бұрын
You literally took the words out my mouth, except in my case I’m a girl. But anyways, your patience will pay off and everything will come together in the end✨
@GabrielTobing
@GabrielTobing 3 жыл бұрын
Same dude, but I'm 19 instead XD
@Daniel-tl2kk
@Daniel-tl2kk 3 жыл бұрын
I feel you man, I don't have much experience either. I like to believe that it is because some of us are here for a bigger purpose and our focus should not entirely be on sexual relationships. The universe is powerful, the right person for you will come naturally at the right moment. Just believe in yourself and stay positive, everyone deserves the right love.
@JordanGreenYT
@JordanGreenYT 3 жыл бұрын
youre SPITTIN bro! focus on yourself and your own journey and the right one will join you along the way when the time is right and youre ready
@elijahcaldona7690
@elijahcaldona7690 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 20 year old guy and never dated a girl. I just wanna focus on myself too.
@allieharmon3926
@allieharmon3926 Жыл бұрын
yeah got out of a relationship over 6 months ago and I am DONE w dating AND relationships. I want to deeply accept the fact that I will die alone. And not even try to derive happiness from love. Bc the disappointment is greater and longer lasting than any happiness love could possibly afford me, so, why try?
@Josephsoto221
@Josephsoto221 3 жыл бұрын
As someone who’s been in a committed long term relationship for about a year now I can say it’s an amazing and beautiful thing being with the person you’re supposed to be with but at the same time you should def enjoy the time that you have as single! Not saying I’d want to go back but it is a time where you can develop yourself and work towards things that better you
@JordanGreenYT
@JordanGreenYT 3 жыл бұрын
facts bro! both are beautiful in their own way, and they can both prepare you for the other. wish you and your partner good vibes 🤙🏾
@UltimateMoralizer
@UltimateMoralizer Жыл бұрын
I don’t blame you. Women have unrealistic expectations. They base relationships on finance. I’ve accepted the fact that I’m going to die alone and inexperienced with women. They’re just not worth it.
@geovoniejohnson4853
@geovoniejohnson4853 9 ай бұрын
Same here, despite me wanting to get to know multiple girls. Most of my family has been in relationships and marriages, except me. All girls do is lie to me, reject me, ignore me and ghost me. That's why I always feel ugly, invisible and empty inside. That's why I gave up a while ago because it's like pulling teeth. Like Damian on the Adulterers movie: "love ain't shit anyway".
@norseajax5279
@norseajax5279 3 ай бұрын
Me too
@pavasite4278
@pavasite4278 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 17 and I've never had a girlfriend and I'm happy about it. Alot of people mock me of it but all honestly I'm not embarrassed of it. I feel like I'm too young to have young and I dont feel ready to have one, and I'm enjoying my life right now so I dont need one. I'll probably start dating when I'm like 20
@GabrielTobing
@GabrielTobing 3 жыл бұрын
Shoot. I'm almost 20 in just a few months XD
@TJ-zq7qt
@TJ-zq7qt 3 жыл бұрын
rlly appreciate how open and honest you are with us bro, none of this even rlly applies to me yet but you're v well spoken and easy to watch g
@tcrvo01
@tcrvo01 3 жыл бұрын
KZbin gods has brought me to this channel (from the work out video), pretty interesting to see because we are the same age and share some similarities. i hope your KZbin career will work out and i am interested in seeing where will you get Good luck!
@Boy1nBlack
@Boy1nBlack 3 жыл бұрын
Instead of finding your Soul mate, u should be finding your soul m8.
@Boy1nBlack
@Boy1nBlack 3 жыл бұрын
And your twin flame will come
@unlimited971
@unlimited971 3 жыл бұрын
there is not soulmate. that's the most arrogant, narcissist and solipsist statement. someone don't just exist to make you happy.
@marsdaflame3195
@marsdaflame3195 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan is speaking facts , I have to applaud you for this video, classic video😎thanks for the message yo
@rollingloud7737
@rollingloud7737 3 жыл бұрын
Seeing what ur struggling about is definitely relatable man. But I would also see the successes and situations u put yourself in as huge accomplishments. Ur life is different than others doesn’t make it something to be ashamed about. But definitely understand what ur trying to say 💯
@daze77gaming
@daze77gaming 3 жыл бұрын
Very wise decision by you Jordan...Focus on yourself my g ♨
@sadcat9781
@sadcat9781 Жыл бұрын
Bro your a handsome dude, I can relate so much to what you said and I'm in a similar situation, thank you for sharing 🙏
@tablikiiqbalirigshawrogan3635
@tablikiiqbalirigshawrogan3635 3 жыл бұрын
This guy is too cool!!!! Liking the wisdom your putting out there, very insightful bud.
@KittyKatt69
@KittyKatt69 3 жыл бұрын
I NEVER go searching for relationships, the guys usually finds me. And for some reason I keep attracting dudes who have extra baggage and a lot of unhealed trauma from their childhood and past relationships.I get the guys who always have an ex that they can’t seem to let go of and still in contact with. In the end I’m always the 3rd party and get the short end of the stick. Im over the mind games and trying. I will be asking God to remove the desire of marriage and children from the equation. I hate this society today
@realtalk6720
@realtalk6720 2 жыл бұрын
Your fault, your only see value in a man that other girls want as well. Hive mentally. 3+ billion men. stop the shy girl act and put yourself in area of the man you want then when he accepted you, you vet him for the qualities you want in a man. That simple. 🙄
@pinaypie4
@pinaypie4 2 жыл бұрын
every one has baggages thats why communication is a key you dont just shut people down just because they have this kind of trauma .
@la6136
@la6136 2 жыл бұрын
I know exactly what you mean. A lot of men don’t heal themselves they just jump from girl to girl and put all of their trauma on the the next person. Or they are trying to be playboys and have one foot with their ex and one with the next girl.
@ashleykagonya7969
@ashleykagonya7969 Жыл бұрын
@mocha Caramel I get you babes hugs .maybe one day we will testify something great
@deezydzh
@deezydzh Жыл бұрын
@@realtalk6720 Facts bruh 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@jts7174
@jts7174 3 жыл бұрын
You’re in the right spot! You’re young anyways and all you need to keep doing rn is keep the focus on you and your career and building your own empire. Sure enough universe will conspire to give you a beautiful queen that’s meant for you. You got this bro, trust the process. 🦾💯🔥
@JordanGreenYT
@JordanGreenYT 3 жыл бұрын
all facts bro! trust the process 💪🏾
@justpaintingtheperfectpict7168
@justpaintingtheperfectpict7168 3 жыл бұрын
For me I looked and looked for many many yrs. My last relationship is 9 years ago, and it lasted for 1 month. I came to realization that there is nobody is there for me. You can put yourself out there, and not get a response etc.
@toanluc1816
@toanluc1816 3 жыл бұрын
First off, great video! And second, I’m 20 also and I feel the same on dating right now. It’s crazy that I found your channel back in May and it’s like I was suppose to come across your channel. We have so many similar views and experiences on things it’s actually crazy. But anyways keep putting that work in and it’s like you said the time will come.
@JordanGreenYT
@JordanGreenYT 3 жыл бұрын
im glad you been around since then bro! seen a lot a growth since may, and im thankful for it. all in due timing ✊🏾
@zeknight4352
@zeknight4352 2 жыл бұрын
To be really humbly honest. I given up getting a girl. This is the 4th attempt I tried the confidence, the dressing up neatly, the skincare routine and working out. Won’t lie I had progress but for some reason God doesn’t want to have one. Now if I see an attractive girl I am not even gonna bother cause it will be the same result. Just be lonely that way you can focus on more better things in life.
@Rich-in-Sodium
@Rich-in-Sodium 2 жыл бұрын
This is the same exact reason why I stopped too. Trying to find love just destroys my mind so I recently decided to let go of it all.
@felisbertolopes2058
@felisbertolopes2058 Жыл бұрын
I feel you bro
@samdavies4685
@samdavies4685 3 жыл бұрын
I completely relate to you bro I’m 18 from the Uk and never had a girlfriend. I find it hard to meet the girls that I want to meet like yourself as I’m not into girls that like to go partying regularly. Tried dating apps for a few weeks most conversations tend to fizzle out as I tend to put effort into the conversations trying to make them interesting and playful and just get one word answers in response. I’ve had a couple of opportunities to hookup with a girl but I’m not about that like yourself I’m all about a meaningful connection. In high school about 5 years ago I was very overweight and had no confidence in myself as I was getting bullied for being one of biggest kid in my year group. Last 10 months I’ve just been working on my looks getting nice clothes working out often and just building myself as a person. I always tend to struggle to read if a girl likes me or not I was recently arranging a bumble date with a girl and then got unmatched. I’m just looking for a girl that is sweet warm hearted and will love me for me as I would love them for who they are. Love your channel btw
@itsaddietubeTV
@itsaddietubeTV 3 жыл бұрын
You’re young. Live your life. Work on yourself, give time to yourself, it will all work out c
@TowerdefenseRules
@TowerdefenseRules 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate 100% everything was said so amazingly well and you just earned a subscriber
@maloblue2613
@maloblue2613 3 жыл бұрын
Love the upload schedule man it's perfect keep up the great work
@JordanGreenYT
@JordanGreenYT 3 жыл бұрын
glad youre enjoying the content bro! stay tuned
@SC-wu1zx
@SC-wu1zx 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan you are such a lovely young man with great wisdom. I hope the universe brings you the fated love you seek. Someone who shares your values a best friend to share the journey with. In the meantime it sounds like you have goals and it's your time to focus on you and your journey. Trust a much older woman here that experience doesn't necessarily give you an edge. Knowing and loving yourself and being in a good place is way more important. When someone seeks a life partner they don't care about how many people you have kissed. They care about who you are and you my man have a lot to offer. 😊
@everettcoleman2335
@everettcoleman2335 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 16 and never been on a date or had a kiss yet 🤷🏾‍♂️ everything’s gonna fall into place at the right time
@izzithor7081
@izzithor7081 3 жыл бұрын
wish I was more like you keep holding your seed brother
@KoffeeKev
@KoffeeKev 3 жыл бұрын
Their is no rush. Things will happen as they happen, just learn to appreciate when you're happy, and learn from your lows rather than trying to avoid them. Dating is a small aspect of being alive, their is beauty everywhere if you're willing to look for it.
@welfarecrusader6855
@welfarecrusader6855 3 жыл бұрын
Bitches ain't shit
@VonsChannel29
@VonsChannel29 3 жыл бұрын
Great video bro bro and I feel where you are coming from get your goals out of the way and better yourself and I’m 19 and never had girl or nothing like that so I want to find a girl but I’m just not going to force it and let it come naturally.
@JordanGreenYT
@JordanGreenYT 3 жыл бұрын
exactly bro! let it come naturally when youre ready. dont try to rush it like i did
@shawtv1733
@shawtv1733 3 жыл бұрын
Facts bro . I believe the relationship finds you and you don’t have to go looking
@davidvasconcellos6858
@davidvasconcellos6858 3 жыл бұрын
Matching websites are the best way to meet others who you have characteristics in common with, even if it is exclusively to interact with them online, otherwise if you are motivated to make money to get to where you want to be and to be independent, then that is a very smart move and more power to you Jordan!!!
@la6136
@la6136 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you the strongest relationships happen by chance. It really is fate that brings people together modern day dating does not work. You are a really good guy the right girl for you will be really lucky!
@Thegoddessgenesis
@Thegoddessgenesis Жыл бұрын
I’m 30. Probably the oldest to comment. And I give up too 💯
@I_am_tjmac
@I_am_tjmac Жыл бұрын
33, you’re in good company.
@skyking6989
@skyking6989 Жыл бұрын
36 here
@geovanniramirez4991
@geovanniramirez4991 Жыл бұрын
Im 29, i gave up love a while ago
@Jordanelev3n
@Jordanelev3n 9 ай бұрын
never believe a woman when they say things like this, thats like saying i wana stay broke but everytime you walk up the street you got people offering you money.
@crisscrossapplesauce9867
@crisscrossapplesauce9867 3 жыл бұрын
Damn Jordan im fw the upload schedule
@savyboiii
@savyboiii 3 жыл бұрын
Ay man, I feel u I’m bout to be 19 in a couple days n the struggle is real since I’m not in college rn n I’m already introverted to the point where I barely see any girls of my preference.
@VidyaBros1
@VidyaBros1 3 жыл бұрын
I turned 27 last month, one brother is married, the other brother is going to be this Summer. I have never kissed a girl, never dated one, never did anything with a girl. I never plan to, either. I will just continue to play my video games, watch anime, hang with the guys every weekend, work, work out and exercise, eat right, etc. I don't want to get married or have kids or do any of that stuff. I refuse. The constant pressure friends and family give me doesn't exactly help, either. Why should I bother putting any effort into something when I know exactly what the results will be every time? It's nothing more than a waste of my time, and I value my time very much these days, especially. I'm also not exactly very trusting and would constantly be worrying about being cheated on if I was in a relationship, so I don't want that happening, either. I refuse to be a victim. Dating apps also don't work, especially Tinder. I've reinstalled it and tried 6 times for a while to give it a chance and I get nothing out of it. All those apps don't work and just suck. They're not good.
@Flexxazin
@Flexxazin 3 жыл бұрын
ngl this is powerful and kinda sad bro. but do as you have planned, the goal is to be happy G. Be well.
@rockybalboa4593
@rockybalboa4593 3 жыл бұрын
Those apps are just full of toxic manipulators and users.
@cornevanerk9981
@cornevanerk9981 2 жыл бұрын
Glad someone lives the same live style as i do and has found happiness. :) Cheers
@divinezo6212
@divinezo6212 2 жыл бұрын
Fr as long as u have friends that’s all that matters
@agnikaineverdies7646
@agnikaineverdies7646 3 жыл бұрын
I understand you bro, i’m 19 and I can only date people my age of below, older girls always ignore me because they think I look like a child
@keyshawnscott12
@keyshawnscott12 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 20 and never been on a date
@keyshawnscott12
@keyshawnscott12 3 жыл бұрын
@Tyler Gibson I'm always friendzoned
@chloepeters5059
@chloepeters5059 3 жыл бұрын
Keep it up.. I’ve never met any KZbinr who’s real like you🔥🔥
@rickybondjr.1286
@rickybondjr.1286 3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way. Focus on yourself and be where you wanna be at in life and everything will fall through.
@JordanGreenYT
@JordanGreenYT 3 жыл бұрын
f a c t s
@SafeTopps
@SafeTopps 3 жыл бұрын
I've never been on a date. I thought I did once but it was just a friendly meetup. I'm 22 btw, very attractive and semi-social
@hannahperry2445
@hannahperry2445 3 жыл бұрын
Your so young, you litterely have your whole life ahead of you. Weather you date or not is up to you. But you have plenty of opportunities ahead of you. I wish you well in all you do with your life. 💟
@belivuk2526
@belivuk2526 2 жыл бұрын
The problem is, you're young - until one day you wake up and you're no longer young. The time just flies by and you barely even notice. Then you realise you've missed the train and options are way worse and way more scarce than before. Also, they are even more demanding even though they are worse. They seem to think they've aged like a wine but instead they've aged like a banana. A banana full of baggage. Then you slowly build up your baggage during a search for a good and worth it person you can never seem to find.
@Gandykid
@Gandykid 3 жыл бұрын
I am recently going through something right now. I am in this weird situation where I started getting feelings for a girl a month now. But the thing is I never liked her even when she was dating other guys and never saw her as someone I would date. She is an attractive person and has a great personality but she is still hung up on her ex. Not only that I have my thoughts if I actually like her because it just seems forced and I feel like I am just falling for this girl just to make my life not feel lonely. And I say all this because I never want to go into a relationship with someone for my personal problems because that is not right and I’m just going to get to know her and just see how it plays out. Someone please give me advice!!!
@arcorrs
@arcorrs 3 жыл бұрын
Love the videos man 🤛
@andreias5564
@andreias5564 Жыл бұрын
Since 2000s we are in a loop of abusive relationship mode. This is why I also give up on dating. But also people do not want to commit anymore and that is correct because we live in a society that do not allow us to feel comfortable doing relationship status no longer.
@jlpradoa
@jlpradoa 3 жыл бұрын
FACTS. This is the video I was looking for.
@orlarindejacob4950
@orlarindejacob4950 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this vid,really taught me
@111karatekid
@111karatekid 3 жыл бұрын
Killing it bro💪🏼
@Redwanrexz
@Redwanrexz 3 жыл бұрын
related to a lot of points keep the hustle up stay awesome
@gelatoruntz4200
@gelatoruntz4200 3 жыл бұрын
no doubt i’m quitting as well but jordan try something new like go to a public place like a mall & interact with more girls
@JordanGreenYT
@JordanGreenYT 3 жыл бұрын
even at malls i dont see too many girls. idk where they at, but im not trippin 💀
@gelatoruntz4200
@gelatoruntz4200 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan Green but no doubt though u right about that too
@alstonsingletary7183
@alstonsingletary7183 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan, look man, I feel you. I really do. If you remember my comment from a while ago, I was habitually single, too. I gave up. I was done. I even stopped praying about it, and the girl who is now my gf found me. It turns out she liked me when we were kids. People always told me that it happens when you least expect it, and that was so true for me. I couldn’t be happier now, man. The thing was I had to open my heart back up. I was so afraid of getting hurt, but I’m so glad I opened my heart to her. It WILL happen for you, bro. Let’s be honest, you are really attractive, and you seem like a great guy. Don’t stress. It will happen naturally. We’re all rooting for you, bro. And congrats on 10K! We’re moving on up! 💪🏾
@maleekjbyrd
@maleekjbyrd 3 жыл бұрын
Alston Singletary Love it man. This is exactly how I feel. I’ve had friends tell me it will come when you’re not even looking. I strongly believe in that and the first step is just letting go. Letting go the desire to being in a relationship. I’ve recently just done that and I honestly can’t wait for the moment MY GIRL finds me. In the mean time I’m going to HEAVILY invest in my self.
@JordanGreenYT
@JordanGreenYT 3 жыл бұрын
i appreciate your story, and i appreciate all of your support over the months. youre right in that if i want to be in a relationship, i have to be vulnerable. when i find the right one, shes gonna see all of me. im not going to hide who i am, im going to be transparent and there will be a mutual acceptance for each other. i wish you and your girl good vibes bro ✊🏾
@NomadicDave2032
@NomadicDave2032 3 жыл бұрын
I’m done, simply never again do I want anyone that close to me aka a relationship. I’m 42 and been screwed by every one I’ve ever been with, I mean that’s from age 15 until a couple years ago. I have a class a cdl so guess what, I’m going out over the road trucking. Soul mate? Lmao good luck finding me, hell I’d probably laugh in their face bc I won’t believe a word they say.
@user-kt6yx7ox7z
@user-kt6yx7ox7z 3 жыл бұрын
You are right about the "finding the right person", they exist and they never come when we search for them. I've met my soul mate few months ago. I just knew it was him when we started to talk, you will know it almost instantly. Funny thing is that it was just a complete conscience that we crossed our paths, both of us were just going on with our days that day. But just a few hours later this complete stranger knew me better then my mother or any friend I ever had. We just sat and talked and talked about everything (did I mention that I'm a very shy and closeted person? This is usually very out of character for me although I love people) and for the first time in my life I felt like I'm not alone, that someone was seeing my soul as it was. But quess fucking what, we were both in relationships. Mine was on the verge of break up because we just weren't compatible at all but he already had a serious relationship with the sweetest girl ever. I couldn't live with breaking her heart. I couldn't keep a contact with him so I just disapeared from his life and never spoke to him again although he tried to reach out to me. I've been depressed ever since and have been considering killing myself many times. This shit will take time to heal if I ever will. All I want to say is that they are somewhere in this world you just better concentrate on being a better person first and foremost. Do it for you not to impress others. Fingers crossed.
@KoffeeKev
@KoffeeKev 3 жыл бұрын
I can agree as you get older as a man, and the more you build for yourself, you do have a lot more options when it comes to dating.
@kentang1528
@kentang1528 3 жыл бұрын
I am 35 and i still dont get girls...i fucking give up
@evansweik4127
@evansweik4127 2 жыл бұрын
Same here I give up on Woman too and I think it’s a waste of time to be in a relationship now these days
@communitychannel6188
@communitychannel6188 7 ай бұрын
Good for you bro. SUBBED!
@siyabongatwala8667
@siyabongatwala8667 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on 1 million subs bro.... (idc what anyone says he already has em!!)
@JordanGreenYT
@JordanGreenYT 3 жыл бұрын
ill look back at this comment when i hit it
@Fruitlahoop
@Fruitlahoop 2 жыл бұрын
Anyone telling you, “you’re so young” don’t understand the point of this video. He is not talking about never finding a relationship. He’s talking about wasting his time on searching for “the right one”. Shit, I’m 25 years old and have had multiple relationships but I’m done. They are a waste of time because majority of them ended up with me getting cheated on or they lost feelings. I say I’m done because the perfect relationship doesn’t come from seeking one. It’s more of either they come down the road or they never do. Also, don’t play the waiting game. Either you wait in misery searching for the one or you live your life and achieve your ambitions and goals.
@jaxystarr7108
@jaxystarr7108 3 жыл бұрын
Pick hobbies you're truly passionate about and you'll find someone who shares that love. Its genuine.
@mookie5972
@mookie5972 3 жыл бұрын
Big facts
@JulianDuke14
@JulianDuke14 3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad for you Jordan.
@antii-3669
@antii-3669 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad I’m not alone at 18 and inexperienced my last relationship taught me a lot and I genuinely loved her but I didn’t understand the weight of a relationship and I’m still a virgin myself and that’s okay; I wish I did right by her the first time but hey it’s life we make mistakes, we grow and we learn.
@rophnaicadesruisseaux8950
@rophnaicadesruisseaux8950 2 жыл бұрын
I’m tired of going out meeting ppl i just got friendzone he wanted me in first place now change his mind I’m so unlucky in love and I’m tired and lazy tired of restarting so I just like to be alone now it better
@axelpalacios8552
@axelpalacios8552 3 жыл бұрын
I relate to almost everything you said in this video.
@HorrorWorldx
@HorrorWorldx 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 24 i had my first girl before had sex too but we broke up a few years ago and now I’m extremely lonely due to covid but I’m still trying to improve myself now
@mahatmagandhi7588
@mahatmagandhi7588 2 жыл бұрын
Hang in there!! Be smart and think with the right head.
@hamisisalmah8764
@hamisisalmah8764 3 жыл бұрын
You have a nice calm voice ma sha Allah God will make it easy for you when your older and you are very wise for your age ihope you keep being like this in future in sha Allah amin
@Divergence
@Divergence 3 жыл бұрын
Think I am in the same boat man. Every time I look always get the line "Not looking for a bf rn". I also feel like being 30 I should enjoy my best years in life. She will find me.
@Thetexaschainsaw
@Thetexaschainsaw 21 күн бұрын
Im starting to become a misogynist because women have never been attracted to me
@TimeStopper20XX
@TimeStopper20XX 3 жыл бұрын
I respect you
@r3db3ar53
@r3db3ar53 3 жыл бұрын
BRO WE'RE LIVING THE SAME LIFE!!! T - T
@lasfinezt
@lasfinezt 3 жыл бұрын
Focus on yourself but don’t limit yourself. As far as girls go you should study game and seduction. Be confident because you should be. You remind me a lot of myself at your age. You have the looks and you are well spoken. You have the best tools for getting women. Have confidence in yourself I know you’re 20 which is hard. Be comfortable with failure because every man will fail with some women, when I look at you I see a winner so go be one.
@br4ndyaw4l
@br4ndyaw4l 3 жыл бұрын
to be honest, if you continue to focus on your girls and aspirations probably at one point that "dream girl" will come... no promises attached to that but either way if you're focused on your goals you win either way
@workoutwithwayne
@workoutwithwayne Жыл бұрын
I quit too. Even ended up posted my own video on this.
@MarkyV83
@MarkyV83 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah man. Leave it to the universe and attract the right person, in the meantime be unapologetically you
@JordanGreenYT
@JordanGreenYT 3 жыл бұрын
a1 advice
@josiahmick1175
@josiahmick1175 3 жыл бұрын
The place you're most likely to meet a compatible (economic/education/cultural) mate is school or work but feminist laws have made that impossible.
@JulianDuke14
@JulianDuke14 3 жыл бұрын
I just turned 20 a few months ago and still the same progress which is good of course and that means no gf ever! It’s jute fate that makes me single forever and naturally. I gave up so long ago and I regret ever showing interest in a girl, I could have been great friends with her if I’ve never showed affection in the first place. That’s why dating is dead and nonexistent for me.
@rhett5678
@rhett5678 3 жыл бұрын
Good video bro. When do you turn 21? I’m 21 in about a month
@JordanGreenYT
@JordanGreenYT 3 жыл бұрын
i turn 21 in march of next year
@qwertyt586
@qwertyt586 3 жыл бұрын
I swear this dude is the male version of me, I have watched his videos and I realised we share a lot in common but I'm 20 and I'll be 21 on the 31st and I don't wanna date guys younger than me but I'll def' date him cuz he seems like a mature man. Its unfortunate that I'm not from his country.
@robertcarter4914
@robertcarter4914 3 жыл бұрын
I gave up on dating as well
@WHBJr
@WHBJr 3 жыл бұрын
Yet here you are, going your own way!
@shreyasnair850
@shreyasnair850 3 жыл бұрын
Bro i took the same decision recently. I am also a guy who doesnt like hook-ups
@phantomwolf7580
@phantomwolf7580 3 жыл бұрын
I was looking for so much and haven't got one, it seems that it's my Curse that I will never get my Dream Girl, it sucks but I need to get through this
@JordanGreenYT
@JordanGreenYT 3 жыл бұрын
dont put that on yourself bro. words create worlds. putting that energy into the universe will only make it harder for the right one to find you. focus on yourself and trust that the right one will come when youre ready
@fasileyayu4621
@fasileyayu4621 3 жыл бұрын
Every body who said they found there dream girl, that's flat out lie. They compromised there needs, that's what happened
@KingDarkBlaze
@KingDarkBlaze Жыл бұрын
Forgot to mention to the younger guys on here look y’all got youth on your side an plenty of opportunities for love etc. but the older u get the harder an more complicated it is to find someone especially if u been through a lot of heartbreak just saying don’t ever put much of yourself into if always keep a little piece of your heart put back cuz ya don’t know what can happen.
@niciogaming
@niciogaming 3 жыл бұрын
I haven’t date in 5 years going on 4 my friend ask my why some laugh but i don’t even know why myself I olny study my KZbin & gaming
@JordanGreenYT
@JordanGreenYT 3 жыл бұрын
dont worry about what they think. just focus on yourself and your goals and give yourself the love you would give the girl of your dreams
@theunchartedmap
@theunchartedmap 3 жыл бұрын
LOL Jordan. Hearing you say imagine if im 24 and not experienced. Well I can tell you from experience its not that fun hahhaha
@rodrigogarza7575
@rodrigogarza7575 3 жыл бұрын
Wadduh G love u
@theoriginalcomposer9128
@theoriginalcomposer9128 3 жыл бұрын
Just start by saying hello to them or good morning. And take it from their. You dont even have to approach them.
@Pettybettyready
@Pettybettyready 2 жыл бұрын
Much blessings to you. I’m 37 and never found a good man, I gave up. Celibate, single over a decade, o gave up on black men, gave up all together. I do believe and hope for others to find love and a family they wish and desire. Dating today as a woman, she’s better off being a prostitute or a handmaid. Sick of being sexualized, wanted for my body parts, time, to waste my time and years of my life committing to a rodent who cannot respect me. It’s not fucck boys, it’s men with careers, education, partially okay upbringing, whatever. I’m done. Dying alone probably the best safety net for me. I hope everyone finds true love.
@tranzorz6293
@tranzorz6293 2 жыл бұрын
Desired for just your body parts? Most men don't even get that!
@rainydayz6429
@rainydayz6429 Жыл бұрын
Seriously..? Take a good hard look at your own comment and tell me what society is like today. Women sexualize THEMSELVES on a DAILY BASIS. And you have the audacity to say “ThEy jUsT wAnT mY bOdY pArTs”.. no shit! do you realize the affect that only fans and porn as well as other “sexualized” marketing schemes have on men to start making them think this way..? And don’t even bring up “keeping your tendency’s/ self control in check” when you mf women keep putting on the booty shorts, see through crop tops, and all sorts of other exposed shit to get men religiously thinking of just that. So good job, with how women sexualize themselves in society today and how they use men for their finances in exchange for some sex, it’s no wonder most men are now out here only looking for a one night hit and quit. But you’d rather blame men for what women and feminists started doing which is “showing off their body’s” and “fucking every dude in a 5 mile vicinity” ALL because it’s “empowering” to women while calling these guys creeps because “how dare they want me sexually”. 🙄 What a joke of a society we live in today. The best any woman will be getting now with how y’all treat yourselves in dudes eyes is having them only think about sex and what’s under the risqué clothes you’ve got on. Maybe if we were traditional like before, yk where the woman actually stays celibate and waits for the right man to DEDICATE himself and his time and resources into you, trying to prove he’s worthy enough for you before you even THINK of just giving it up to him. Now it’s so easy to get box on the first night, it’s a question of “why would I stop if I can go to the next and get the same exact thing”. Seriously.. think about it.
@rainydayz6429
@rainydayz6429 Жыл бұрын
And when you say it’s the “men with careers, education, partially okay upbringing” all going for him.. just say you’re chasing a top tier of man and that you’re a part of hypergamy. You’re chasing career dudes making a lot of money whom are also hot, tall, charismatic, etc and I’ve tried telling women over and over and over again that NONE. OF. THESE. MEN. WILL. SETTLE. FOR. YOU. You’re chasing the top 1-20% of dudes like 80% of these other women and these dudes KNOW they can get around with lots of women and you still play into the fairy tale that “I’m special so even though he gets around, he’ll settle with me.”.. that’ll never EVER be how it works even though I’ve literally heard women say crap like that. It’s ridiculous and sad and then they go and end up playing the victim card as soon as the top tier guy leaves to the next woman after using her. It’s probably the most common thing I’ve ever seen and constantly hear of in different situations. You may try chasing a different type of man.. this time one who isn’t going and fucking around every week with a new disposable woman.
@thecoolclub127
@thecoolclub127 2 жыл бұрын
I am also on a dating Hiatus ,trying double down on social media ,working towards my business and working out.I know for a fact that it will work out and I am gonna be the best at what I do
@raniaesparon3653
@raniaesparon3653 3 жыл бұрын
BOOOM!!💥💥💥
@IanPlug
@IanPlug 3 жыл бұрын
i was bouta get into one too but my conscious telling me not too
@ArtandKitchen_
@ArtandKitchen_ 2 жыл бұрын
I also give up because all the men I met just played and use me.. there are a lot of man who likes me but nobody wants to take me seriously.. I dont wanna waste time anymore.. You are still very young,. Im 32
@realtalk6720
@realtalk6720 2 жыл бұрын
Your fault, you don't know how to choose. 3+ billion men, find the one who you're attracted to put yourself into his presence and act feminine. That simple. 🙄
@ArtandKitchen_
@ArtandKitchen_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@realtalk6720 no you wouldnt know the real chatacter of someone in the first time you meet them. And only those who experience same encounter with a narcissist will understand. It is different. Your too insensitive..
@babymilksnatcher
@babymilksnatcher 2 жыл бұрын
@@realtalk6720 get out of there, incel
@realtalk6720
@realtalk6720 2 жыл бұрын
@@ArtandKitchen_ nah. It's called using your common sense idiot to see through people's bullshit
@realtalk6720
@realtalk6720 2 жыл бұрын
@@babymilksnatcher I bet if I have one day with your chicks that bitch will be calling me daddy and we'll all see who's the real incel. Ha
@BetelgeizeStar
@BetelgeizeStar 3 жыл бұрын
You're so attractive! I think you can easily find a girl just by chance. But looking for a girl is not that bad
@SoLoboo
@SoLoboo 3 жыл бұрын
That man Jordan on his purpose!
@disposeabledad7680
@disposeabledad7680 2 жыл бұрын
any excuse is a good 1
@10thirty-one42
@10thirty-one42 3 жыл бұрын
I believe like you bro but I couldn't careless rather I'm dating or not. Personally I rather be single, just haven't got all that energy for being with a girl anyway. Lol
@rxvertthief4489
@rxvertthief4489 3 жыл бұрын
Same dawgg
@salt_provider4824
@salt_provider4824 3 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking the same thing.
@b3njamin568
@b3njamin568 3 жыл бұрын
what about that girl you had your first kiss with, did it work out?
@rhett5678
@rhett5678 3 жыл бұрын
I would say probably not since he says he’s done with dating
@JordanGreenYT
@JordanGreenYT 3 жыл бұрын
nah bro me and her never really found that connection. no hard feelings tho, i wish her the best
@b3njamin568
@b3njamin568 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan Green aight bro , focus on yourself bro👑 goodluck
@pinaypie4
@pinaypie4 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like if you want to meet that potential partner , it should be balance it doesn't have to be always , liking the same things .. that can be draining in the long run.
@KingDarkBlaze
@KingDarkBlaze Жыл бұрын
Well I don’t know what to say to the younger guys here but even being older love an relationships aren’t what there cracked up to be you can waste months or yrs I wasted 7 yrs an trust me I gave up to stressing an I’m almost 44 so yea even being older I get those using lying an time wasting ppl and if u do find something just don’t let your guard down completely cuz it could be a big mistake take from an older guy.
@kornpeenius
@kornpeenius 3 жыл бұрын
Yo man im just here to tell u that you will find a special someone at the least expected time just patients
@JordanGreenYT
@JordanGreenYT 3 жыл бұрын
i appreciate that! i know the universe will bring me the right one when im ready ✊🏾
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