The Problem With Modern Relationships...

[@ICEcoldJT]

The relationship with yourself is the most important, put yourself first

[@ItsSonder]

fax

[@ElHasni]

You god damn right

[@selfimprovementgoku8222]

Thank you dad

[@amiablepluto1660]

Yo I found light yagami JT. he’s at your local police station causing a ruckus👀

[@Liqo315]

Exactly bro speaking real knowledge💪🏿🥶💯

[@selfimprovementgoku8222]

You can’t love another person if you can’t even love yourself, work on yourself, grind hard and the right one will appear💪🏻👑 Wise words Jordan🗣

[@spiritualro8677]

Yessirski

[@alfonsohenry9542]

I’m 23 and never been in a relationship ever in my life. Sometimes I feel like I’m missing out and some people say it’s a bad thing that I’m 23 and have never been in a relationship before. I’ve been focusing on myself and don’t plan on getting in a relationship til I get where I wanna be at in life

[@ryanoelckers4620]

KING SHIT do you first before you do other people nah mean find yourself bro who are you what do you want to be what are you willing to do to get there

[@always420smoking8]

That’s all good man working on yourself to become better is the best goal to achieve, women only care about end results anyway so long as you achieve what you want to do someone will always be interested, but in all honesty’s you ain’t missing out on much

[@famouski3157]

Some advice: I promise you it’s not that big a deal to never have been in a relationship before. In most cases, relationships are just more responsibility and if you aren’t mentally ready or have the time for that don’t bother. If you do have time and think you’re in good mental health give it a shot. My biggest advice is just don’t let the girl you do start one with take advantage of you or milk your pockets. Just have respect for yourself and possible partner but set boundaries and lead them to be in positions you want to benefit the both of you.

[@ItsSonder]

"Dont tell people your plans show them your results" 💎👑

[@ssyxji659]

Wonder

[@ItsSonder]

@@ssyxji659 Wui

[@VerifiedDiscipline]

@@ItsSonder cutie

[@ronaldomendez7578]

Social media and dating apps are destroying our relationship with ourselves. I’ve deleted social media for the past 2 months and I’ve been connecting and building a better relationship with myself.

[@HomebodyRJB]

You can't expect true Love in the world Where it's acceptable to have open relationship, casual flings and friends with benefits Where Loyalty and Everlasting relationship doesn't exist. Where one night stand is seen As the coolest trend Where instant gratification is chosen over the delayed one

[@thecamchannel9469]

He speaking facts a lot of people don't love themselves or know themselves enough to be throwing themselves in situations that they aren't ready for.

[@TERRELL_GASKINS]

Glad I'm off social media I think it be better to meet someone face to face without an app

[@sussuhimself]

"Relationship are just like a walk in a park , Jurassic Park " -Eren Jaeger

[@chryox2801]

O_ʖO

[@hdave5668]

Dating Apps, OnlyFans, Red Pill, Social Media. Somebody please come get rid of them

[@johncortez9889]

Fuck off red pill is powerful

[@spiritualro8677]

@@johncortez9889 lol

[@gelatoruntz1191]

@@johncortez9889 oh pls stfu the red pill community has brainwashed a lot of men.

[@reddeadrene7552]

@@gelatoruntz1191 Your half right about that. It kinda does give you the wrong idea what women really are, however us men have to understand female nature despite their flaws so I love women. You can't live with them but you can't live without them.

[@iscreamloyalty887]

All of that you mentioned ruined what relationships are supposed to be like, dating apps can be a waste of time fr

[@jude_210]

Environment is key. Most people hit up bars, nightclubs, parties and tinder expecting to come out meeting a 10/10 marriage material partner. But to be fair there aren't really a lot of mainstream social environments that promote healthier relationships that aren't religious or academic. Might be a worthwhile idea to try to come up with ideas for more of them.

[@PeteS_1994]

Social media messed some family relationships up as I only met them through social media.

[@ItsSonder]

"I'd rather regret the things I've done than regret the things I haven't done." 👑💎

[@maxmarti]

King shi

[@gukyou5223]

*Confidence is key* I seen my buddies get GFs and they are all normal looking guys. BUT that confidence gave off the impression they were much more then that. How easily you can come out of your comfort zone and STILL be the man. *woman look for these things*

[@ItsSonder]

Thanks again for the shout out thats love bro 💙💯

[@cccbeats_]

Can we all just appreciate how well this guy speaks. Everything he says is straight to the point and facts.

[@Matt.Radiant]

Really liked the way you depicted the ordeal of comparison when it comes to developing minds. Super relatable. Great video 🧠

[@navichu3546]

Your vids are super entertaining,keep it up💯💯💯💯💯

[@ahmedk8612]

I think dating app is the real problem here, love doesn't comes from dating apps , alot of dating apps users don't take relationships seriously. ( sorry for my bad English)

[@iscreamloyalty887]

This video is spot on, I'm glad people like you still exist. I wish you the best

[@joelmiller6698]

Youre the type of guy who i really wanna be friends with

[@fxstdribbler6427]

How about instead of looking up approach tactics and flirt tricks, you look up how to improve yourself and help motivate others. How about instead of blaming men or women for your past experiences, you learn from it and move on to become a better person.

[@haylxx1]

it's easier for people to avoid and ignore their problems I guess, instead they turn around and hurt more people.

[@BreadOfChrist]

jordan is so submerged in the algorithm at this point, that alone will take him to 100k by the end of the year. 💪🏼👑

[@adamlee5834]

1:58 Brooooooooo you hit it on the damn head right there. Might be the most impactful thing you've ever said to me. Wise beyond your frikking years. But thank you for saying this!!! It's the perfect thing for me to hear right now. Gotta love my damn self more!!!!! Jordan, I love you man. You'll have no problem finding an extremely high quality woman to love you once you decide it's time. Keep doing what you do and know that I and everyone watching your channel appreciates you VERY VERY VERY VERY much. You've been growing a lot as far as numbers, but you deserve 25x+ that, perhaps more. I don't know of anyone else that puts things as clearly and profoundly as you do. Man. Love you.

[@SjonnyBB]

Wise words brother, semen retention and self improvement will heal this world

[@gukyou5223]

Don't go back and forth in texts *Ask them out on a date. A place of their interest to talk about YOU'RE purpose at.* But make sure she eats, it shows you care about her well being. This will show her your purpose and also keep her comfortable because she is around familiar things she likes. But always be straight forward while you pitch yourself. If it's rejection that happens... *take it to the chin*. Be a man and know you still are.

[@jazirkusakabe874]

“Who hurt you ??” Me: “life !!!”

[@maxmarti]

IMO, hookup culture is diluting real love and making people confused on why they should even have a real relationship anyway.

[@TERRELL_GASKINS]

Reason I left social media to be by myself to gain that strength and growth

[@BreadOfChrist]

love yourself first. ❤️

[@tristiandavis6852]

Guys I want everyone to love themselves it is truly worth it, when you do you need no one to depend on and you’re happy by yourself on your own journey in life. Love yourself is truly underrated and it can take you so far

[@HiDiegoGabriel]

The one constant in your life is always going to be yourself! The relationship can come after that once you know yourself!

[@prod.MRBLOXY]

i wish i knew this before the relationship i had that ended in may but, better late than ever And I learnt a lot from it thanks to these videos

[@Siam2233]

I think I *need* a woman because I have a messed up way of thinking. I have this mindset that the future will come and save me, it will be paradise. I first expected once I finish college I'd be living in paradise, studying for my dream career with a girlfriend and loads of friends. I got perfect grades after all. When I finished that I realised I hated uni because of the stress. I was super needy too and a bunch of friends left me/didn't treat me well. I then started thinking once I finish the academic year I'd be in paradise, then the next year, and the next, until I graduated and realised nobody would hire me. No-one would hire me because I would get super anxious before interviews, and it would make me want to procrastinate. My fear then made me fail over and over for a year. My friends left after uni too and so I'm basically alone. Paradise never came. Right now, I crave a girlfriend, career, and good sleep. Yet I get none. I read the root of my disfunction is seeking salvation in the future, and I think this ruins a lot of relationships too. A relationship won't make you any happier imo, and seeking something it can't give you out of it will just get you burned

[@mauricecassau6511]

no one is going to save you if you die no one cares and thats the cruel reality

[@adityachavan8747]

Modern relationships have become toxic bcz people nowdays (boys/girls) say they want a serious relationship but actually they dont they just want to experience how it feels thats all , and when people are dating they give up easily cause they dont want to work on that realtionship and have that connection , people just want to have fun and a good time if they are unable to get that from a relationship , they leave . Yes some people are only getting into relationships bcz they see someone who is in a realtionship and he/she is completely free happy and then they start to realise that realtionships are too much work and you're not ready for it , somw people even jumo from onw realtionship to the other just bcz they want what they see

[@X-Warrior.1119]

Thank God, I am a little bit "old school" about Romance.

[@erics362]

People lack basic self-awareness 😕.

[@6riannn]

I like this vid a lot Jordan, and I’ve been pretty focused and been handling things by myself lately without relying on another person for a relationship and whatnot. Keep inspiring and teaching us bro 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@care4rami]

these last 3 videos have the craziest titles dawg 💀💀💀

[@ItsSonder]

frrrrr

[@spiritualro8677]

No🧢

[@iscreamloyalty887]

His titles are very bold

[@ssyxji659]

Yo Jordan I started using honey for skincare as you recommended in another video and my skin is as smooth as ever 💯

[@TCTALKSTCFITNESS]

Comparison is the THEFT OF JOY ‼️

[@Lilfinny]

shes not urs bro its just your turn, dont let these women use you.

[@paptwoten7445]

@Michael Cueva fax ong

[@fxstdribbler6427]

@UCTYMzf-kOzD4J0sAat0-jdQ me neither anymore. That's a sex focused belief. In other words he's saying she's not going to just fuck you she'll start fucking someone else at some point.

[@denndietotenreitenschnell17]

@@fxstdribbler6427 I don't even pay the whole dating thing any mind. I know the feeling of wanting to be with someone all the time but I haven't felt that strongly towards anyone in years. I won't date for the sake of it....ever. I'm waiting for "the one" and I don't care if she never comes knocking.

[@prachi4773]

This felt like therapy

[@Kwibinem69]

Jordan watched so many of the "get waves" videos and he finally gave in 😂

[@kayotonge1382]

I don't think I'll ever be in a relationship because I don't know myself and I don't know how I can know myself. However, I can learn to love myself.

[@dloveantaeallen3430]

u wont be in a *healthy* relationship without finding yourself. but u got the right idea, love yourself first and once u do that u wont even be craving a relationship but once it comes u know its the right one

[@kayotonge1382]

@@dloveantaeallen3430 Thanks for the advice

[@bunnytoonz5150]

Jordan upload=good day

[@carlosseda1006]

Just watched 0.00001 seconds of this vid and I already agree

[@davidvasconcellos6858]

You definitely are putting yourself out there when you are in a relationship, but it is worth the time and effort to at least try to make it work especially when you connect with that other person!!!

[@Aronlukunku]

when you said" you must be willing to to lose it all to gain it all" ...!bars! Now, at the end of the day when worst comes to worst all you really have is you . Stucture that self love so you don't crumble

[@stylianoskyriakou969]

I think like this video describes perfectly our society i just keep meeting people that are like this and actually believe that this is the right ideas to think like hook up culture and i can’t understand why ? But this video describes exactly the why

[@aaronaustrie]

Positive talk bro. Preach it ☝🏽🗣🗣

[@youjustgotburned3980]

We're all a selfish bunch now. Every one wants money and fame...we have to accept that

[@samuri1887]

I mean selfish? I wouldn't say that. I want money but It would be cool to entertain a whole bunch of people. I wouldn't just do it for my ego

[@peytonstamper97]

Glad I met my girl at school we’ve been together for 3 months almost and I hope many more to come

[@consciousandaware]

Focus on improving yourself & don’t have expectations of others

[@kayotonge1382]

Do you watch Psych2go? I heard some terms that you used that I heard from that KZbin channel.

[@ItsSonder]

I needed this thanks bro

[@papahappy.]

For a second i saw "Roommate is Dead"

[@shortycareface9678]

Same hahaha

[@drzo3975]

this video is great! keep this energy brother! the wisdom in this video is unbelievable, it's exactly what I was thinking about! could not agree more on all u said! i more and more understand i have to let go and accept that this girl was toxic and bad for me! Thank you, be blessed!

[@NiaBalcer]

seems like you've read books like Letting Go... or you just have had really intellectually mature people around you growing up. great video

[@Andy-lq2sl]

Trusts no one but yourself 😢

[@denndietotenreitenschnell17]

That is just stupid. Nobody should live like this. Stop being sad and depressed and go and meet better people than you have clearly being meeting with.

[@jal9761]

Love is confusing.

[@Julian_Bertsch]

I said it before, I‘ll say it again: If love comes from the outside, it is scarce, if love comes from the inside, it is abundant 💛✨

[@daze77gaming]

Always nice to see a upload notification from Jordan Green

[@nomenklatakura]

Yet again u help me bro. Keep preaching

[@mittey5365]

I think people should also understand that self love or self improvement is quite the process. It isn’t something you can automatically unlock within a week or month like Cabba’s ssj transformation in DBS or stealing someone’s eyes and automatically having eternal mangekyou 😂. Self love takes time, discipline and continuous dedication. During the process there will be days you feel like shit, it’s normal but just keep trying day by day and find the right habits to get closer to that stage.

[@pineapplegang9972]

Realrap

[@sighs]

1:58 so true.

[@d-lew.7917]

Jordan how do you feel about the TFL (True Forced Loneliness) Community? I’m honestly would like to see a video on your thoughts about that.

[@ItsSonder]

"The best investment is in yourself" 💎👑

[@honzagondek4580]

You need to first invest in yourself to then be able to invest into others.

[@ItsSonder]

@@honzagondek4580 Exactly

[@spiritualro8677]

Facts

[@maxmarti]

Agreed. Ultimately, even if you do find true love and stay with a person for a long time, possibly even married, that person may pass before you and then you will be left with yourself. You have to find a way to make yourself happy independently.

[@iscreamloyalty887]

I think love is not necessarily connected to romance, but understanding love is different then what people think it is

[@pineapplegang9972]

Wow! On point!

[@gukyou5223]

*I learnt the hard way. The saying is really true. If you don't love yourself. Nobody will* That self love comes off as confidence. And what do what need to talk to a female of interest. *confidence* ... females can sniff out a unconfident man. Why you think they always chased after dudes that swore they were the best at what they did in schooling? They were attracted to that confidence and it made them feel comfortable or star struck.

[@JamilJarvis]

Love the wording of "meeting in the flow of life", perfect description

[@blazeallan7636]

Yo he’s speaking facts nobody ever even be talking about this shit

[@-Brandon]

This hits so close to home I almost wanna cry lol

[@talibali166]

All the languages in the world but he decided to speak facts

[@ItzFreashy]

That's why I don't believe in love

[@fxstdribbler6427]

Also people nowadays are so sex focused they forget about the human to human connection.

[@trnowskirabelj]

I saw all your comments and i agree with everything.respect to u broski.

[@PeteS_1994]

That’s cause of the internet imo we see people but we don’t connect fully with people.

[@WeaponX7.]

Why’re girls afraid of meeting me in person. Am I not comforting enough? We talk for months and they still don’t wanna hang out

[@gukyou5223]

*make yourself interesting* learn a new language (females love that) , work out, buy some new clothes, change your hairstyle....find a purpose. *Make yourself pitchable* . You will gain confidence you never thought you had. I promise you. *sorry for posting a lot of comments BUT I had to. This comment section is too gloomy.

[@samuelvelazquez8834]

I’ve found YT comment sections to be full of people that sound almost defeated (not all of course). Might be time to get away from them for a while.

[@ngashjr]

Just improve yourself for your own sake.

[@skizzler1232]

JORDAN green we need you to make a shorts video and do a wave check. My waves are slowly coming in and started to show and I got mines cut like 3 days after yours so im sure yours is sorta glistening. But yeah wave check soon shorts video.

[@GMaviation]

Dude you spittin so many facts. You the real deal💪

[@Shantelldale]

I’ve been saying this 💯

[@flipdo]

We need some changes. (I saw that this video came out while I was listening to the song changes by 2pac👌)

[@hardbodyvonte]

Great vid 💪🏽also Can you do a homebody workout vid

[@nicolavalente6358]

After this video I feel more self conscious about my situation, I feel like I finally started loving myself but I really have a problem with talking to someone in person so Im trying to approach this girl from Instagram that is from my same city, but the fact is that I never first approached a girl that I liked in person... It is easy talking to someone that feels not enough and you don't like them anyways but the more is confident the person and the more I find that person attractive the more I struggle. I don't feel like I need a relationship but I just feel ready to have one and try it on my way, the only thing stopping me is dry texting, and a little bit of social anxiety (I can't never hangout with a big group of people because I feel uncomfortable and it's even worse if the group is the girl's group made of people that you don't know) I really like to talk but not with more than 3 people in my presence. With that said I choose this path with her, I hope that we gonna hang out by ourselves to see if there's connection because I HATE TEXTING or facetiming I just want to be with her in person asap but with just that little starting approach by texting. If someone will read this PLEASE, I need an opinion from someone that is a jordan follower or even jordan himself. Thank you

[@samuri1887]

I already tried what u did. Didn't work out for me. Unless your ready and have the confidence to meet them in real life I wouldn't do it. I think its better to be able to walk up to people. However keep in mind I haven't got the confidence to walk up to people yet. I'm just trying to build me up first

[@nicolavalente6358]

@@samuri1887 just got completely ghosted dy her, I realized that I will never approach someone unless is on real life

[@soufsidejb7510]

This is the one Jordan...

[@rct3055]

Wow never seen a most trueful video like this. Love you bro

[@sirpaul6073]

7:38 you're not the only one who says that Jordan

[@aaronaustrie]

Facts 💯🗣

[@amiablepluto1660]

Ya I’m in love with myself. Socks on ofc

[@cursedchannelonyoutube]

How do we bring romance back to life

[@Sanag20]

bro I agree and respect everything you said in this vid keep grinding bro because I hear you 💯

[@thecalling1452]

I've got to say you are so on point this video

[@MadDogSolo]

I think like it’s best to just not get involved because there’s no benefit, at best just an accessory and at worst a liability. Plus you can do better with your time.

[@envidemi1255]

yea you should really think about how that relationship can benefit you

[@gabrielwilliams5387]

Relationships are beneficial is your not lustful to the woman but wanna understand her. Relationships can be beneficial by having someone to talk to. Someone to be adventurous with. And someone to share your dreams with. Relationships are used to build up the man and woman at the same time and improve together. Yes you can do all of this alone but it’s better with someone else. But again, it’s never needed

[@envidemi1255]

@@gabrielwilliams5387 I agree but you just don’t find these type of relationships anymore

[@gabrielwilliams5387]

@@envidemi1255 you gotta focus on improving every single day. Someone will come your way that you deserve. It could be years until that happens, but if you grind and value progress then you will come across someone that’s just for you!!!!

[@aaronaustrie]

Well said bro!

[@americanfighter6988]

Fresh cut 🔥 and video , Romance is quite dead due to the internet and validation. Everything is in balanced

[@anonymuscow4857]

Not trying to be that person , but I agree with you, even BTS said that in their love yourself campaign

[@theone1608]

This was on point !

[@bugarakos9112]

Ah, an analogy. Yesterday i watched a Sadhguru speech in which the willingness was the main point and that people nowadays are not really do the selflove and don't really want anything.

[@jessnathalia]

man.. u so smart i love it

[@RobinsonWamae]

“Nature hath given men one tongue but two ears, that we may hear from others twice as much as we speak.” by Epictetus

[@commieg2519]

Yes I agree Jordan,,,, Jesus says the 2 great commandments are You shall love the LORD your GOD with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the 1st and great and the 2nd is You Shall love your neighbor as yourself. So basically, If You don't Love yourself how can you love your neighbors. there's Power within, when you Love Yourself first