Why I'm Not Getting "The Surgery"

[@BlaireWhiteX]

LOVE U GUYS!!!! Going through comments now :)

[@Termimator_T1000]

Love you so much girl!!! You and Eden are my absolutely FAVES!!! I support you and EVERYTHING you do. Xoxoxoxoxo sending love from Baton Rouge Louisiana 😘😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️❤️👑👑👑👑👑👑 the dirty south loves Blaire 🥰🥰🥰

[@chickensandwich1589]

😻😻😻

[@moombadoomtrooper8590]

Unlike the majority of the trans community, I won't judge you for getting the surgery or not getting the surgery. It's your choice and if you feel you are a valid trans person, then you are.

[@jasonmillstalks]

@@Termimator_T1000 Lol Blaire is great and Eden looks......fun ;-)

[@madeulolliczar371]

Really good video Blaire! As always, whenever you speak about a topic you are educated on it thoroughly. You have me hooked as a subscriber :)

[@samlung2724]

You know. I have no issues if you're gay, trans, straight etc... but we have a problem if you eat your hotdogs plain lol

[@jsmith5509]

@Sam Lung, I know, right!!! I kept thinking WHERE IS THE MUSTARD??? Either way, to each her own! Good video.

[@alisschretien1210]

one of my friend does that

[@jsmith5509]

@@@lunadilts468, I like onions with the mustard!😋

[@LogoHappy]

I got cottonmouth just watching her. LOL

[@micahellis5390]

I hate everything except the hot dog. I only want the hot dog #nohomo

[@Jennifer-sf4hs]

It's so sad that you can't talk about suicide without being demonetized. This topic gets censored sooo much and it just annoys me, people are dying in silence every day because nobody dares to talk about it.

[@unknown-if9ed]

Funny because KZbin says it promotes mental health awareness and then demonitizes people for actually.. talking...about..mental health.. awareness...

[@Jennifer-sf4hs]

@@unknown-if9ed YUp. There was actually a case where they demonetized a video made for talking people out of suicide and the algorithm prevented it from being recommended and lowered it in the search results

[@meanncat3050]

I blame all the people that put out bad depression related videos...there's more people uninformed talking about it than people who actually know and want to help.

[@MrHellzone]

She said it before talking about vaginas not suicide

[@NovaDoll]

MeannCat no. It’s advertisers. They get all the way on what we can and can and can not do.

[@jpalmer891]

A close friend went through with the entire surgery, less than a year later I attended a funeral. My friend said that shebexpected “the surgery” to make things better, when it made things worse she couldn’t rationalize or make peace with it.. RIP

[@stacyteal6221]

Sorry for your loss, that sucks.

[@maiingan07]

Aw man, I am ever so sorry. It’s so hard to lose a friend this way. Please take care.

[@cipher5893]

Big rip. Hang in there buddarino.

[@rockstarsid3200]

😞😢

[@lizbennett4904]

This is the typical end story so sad.

[@elena79rus]

You are the most sane transgender person I've ever seen.

[@humanbeeing4780]

@Gold_Microphonehe’s a quack and a weirdo

[@lewisariki7193]

I’m new to your content and my gosh I find myself cheering you on and deeply agree with your opinions! I’m a mum of a 17 year old son, who has a bestie from the age of 11 who is trans, female to male. He is normal and accepted by the community and we love him exactly who he is, as he is!

[@jikookpm]

Transsexual*

[@Lost-r1w]

transgender. @@jikookpm

[@yoyoyiggityyo17]

​@Gold_Microphoneshe's an leftist. They're all insane

[@KCSimsStarter]

"rent is still due" .... I'm not trans but I felt that

[@donnamadonna6262]

Anyone else disturbed with the hotdog not having mustard or ketchup.

[@GreatGreebo]

Right?!? I was like “Blair, WTF?!?” 🤣

[@emilymulcahy]

Ketchup? Gross

[@GreatGreebo]

@@emilymulcahy I have to agree, ketchup is gross but definitely needs MUSTARD! ;)

[@emilymulcahy]

@@GreatGreebo my thing is chili, cheese and mustard

[@GreatGreebo]

@@emilymulcahy yummy! That is definitely the way to go!

[@tt4days346]

Sis- this is the realest tea. The lgbtq community needs to stop making this a taboo topic because people are rushing in blind and facing the hard consequences without proper preperation :(

[@vieuphoria1008]

TT4Days not a sis .... more like a bro ... hence the dick

[@monkeybubblessupperdude1016]

@@vieuphoria1008 she's hot as hell

[@bboi5845]

Monkeybubbles Supperdude101 she’s hotter than me and I’m a biological woman

[@monkeybubblessupperdude1016]

@@bboi5845 she is hot...and I'm sure you are too..😁

[@meggypeggy7960]

vieuphoria1008 stop. liking. your. own. comments.

[@LynnBedford-s5b]

Blair, I’m a 72 year old great-grandmother who has been very interest in understanding the trans issue in our nation. I think that you and Buck Angel are the most level headed people I’ve run across in ages. I have a gay grand-daughter who dresses as a male. I love her dearly. She has addiction issues so my mother, her great auntie and I pray for her. Thank you for being a voice of reason in a world of crazy. I never thought I would live to see so much craziness. Please take care of yourself and keep up the good work. I will be praying for you. Luv GG Joy

[@lindamoore6163]

I’m praying for this county the USA 🇺🇸 everyday. I wish it was the good ole days again. ✌️

[@mel999.]

🙏🏻💜

[@justgonnacomment]

Bless u grandma

[@esra4404]

bless you, i have a transsexual boyfriend who introduced me to the Transmed ideals and i agree with them entirely, gender dysphoria is a very real thing and it’s so sad that this trans-trend going on can ruin the help that true trans people want/need

[@Chelsea123Chii]

GG Joy I promise you there are a LOT of level-headed, smart and loving gays/trans in this world!! Just not as loud as the woke mob. Keep your head up, all is well :)

[@LivyRivy]

WOW... I never knew about having to “keep the wound from closing up”. That’s terrifying. 😟

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

Yeah I'd be really scared x.x

[@RodFleming-World]

According to credible reports the process of dilation is extremely painful. I can well believe

[@wildchild5955]

From what I’ve heard, it’s really painful too

[@nafsi8519]

You know I never used any type of thing down there before having sex. So my hymen was a tiny hole that can fit a finger. Needless to say first time penetration was extremely painful. I can't imagine how can a person endorse the pain for keeping it open and felt the pain everytime they try have sex.

[@antifascist7818]

You don't have to keep it from closing up that's bullshit, I know as I had it done 15 years ago.

[@MrYou2dan]

I have to confess....i was so opposed to Transexual man and women.....however because of YOU ,I can say ,YOU have helped me see Trans people in a different light. Because you talk on a mature level and don't try to cram it up my @##*. Thank you for being you and being how you are. Continue being great. Take care.

[@ninewectawski1935]

MrYou2dan That was very honest and courageous of you to say, and I applaud you for saying it. The fact that you were able to take a negative/negative way of thinking/however you felt, and then see/listen to someone n click with them to where they were able to help you take that negative kind of thinking n turn it into a positive is wonderful.

[@haileyandgabistyles]

you're disgusting

[@anonymous-ll4qm]

@@haileyandgabistyles why though?

[@jagp135]

Jonny Enough bitch.

[@anonymous-ll4qm]

@@haileyandgabistyles i think blaire is very intelligent and im glad to hear she influenced someone to become more open minded. as an lgbt person i have seen people go from grossed out to having best friends that are lgbt. we should encourage fixing bad mindsets instead of insulting people for their old ways AFTER they changed their mindsets.

[@celesteramirez16]

Just thinking of using a toy on an open wound gives me sympathy pain.

[@catherinemartin2429]

I was cringing thinking of that😭 like ah no!

[@sinephase]

the whole thing makes me cringe. and they must have to have a catheter or some kind for quite a while after, too :/

[@i.elpunkt8473]

Watch joelina mennen‘s videos. She talks about her journey with it.

[@johnchase4408]

IKR

[@virtualmartini]

I have no sympathy for anyone who intentionally put themselves into that position.

[@katherines9304]

Don't risk not being to orgasm. The person that loves you will accept you the way you are. All of you. No one cares if your spouse is gay or straight or bi or whatever. Don't take the risk of what could go wrong when you have perfectly parts down there! You are a woman in your soul. Changing your down there parts are not going to change that

[@staceypark7408]

we can still orgasm although its from playing with the clit rather than penetration, ofcourse theres no sperm in the fluid aswe know longer have our eggs

[@dwightdodd3734]

That's good advice,Katherine !!!! Don't mess with stuff that WORKS !!!

[@s.c.7362]

What makes you people think it works when it's being drowned - DOWNed - in female hormones? 😂 His sex drive is going to be severely affected with all the drugs he's taking. I love Blaire and watch all his videos but, as he's fully admitted, he's a man and he has very low sex drive. So, yeah, don't assume it works. It can't possibly work with all the testosterone suppression, and why would he even need it to unless he's going up the exit door, which he does not strike me as being the type to do.

[@EB-wl9st]

Well said!

[@NjorunsDream]

💯 absolutely this

[@BlueHorse17]

My significant other is in the process of transitioning (mtf). I grew up in a heavy Christian background and am trying to come to terms so I can be supportive for them.

[@GIitchclan12]

If you're into it you're into it if you're not you're not. Don't force yourself if it feels wrong. I know it's complicated with someone you love but a relationship can only work organically.

[@BlueHorse17]

Sarah Hamilton I appreciate the feedback from both of you. Maybe I worded it wrong but I was trying to lean towards the fact that I do love her and am just trying to shift the ideals I grew up with. It is different for me but I am willing to come to terms and accept it. It’s not something that will happen overnight but I cannot see myself letting her go.

[@GIitchclan12]

@@BlueHorse17 Glad to hear, I did read it as you having a hard time coming to terms with it. Wish you guys a happy relationship.

[@akatsukigirl2009]

@@BlueHorse17 you're amazing your partner is v lucky

[@genesisferreira6034]

I wish you the best in your relationship with your partner. My husband came out as bisexual and it was difficult at first for me to come to terms with. I was in shock but when you love someone, and they love you, I think time and communication is all you need.

[@sniptrip2012]

What you have "Down There" is nobody elses business.

[@moriordan85]

Karron Swinn It’s only her business and her sexual partners business. I do think if you meet blaire at bar and start making out you should be made aware if she has a penis. That’s not asking a lot. If she introduces herself as a SHE & If she presents herself as a WOMAN It is totally reasonable to assume she has a vagina & if you’re a sexual partner or potential partner ( just started dating or something ) you should be made aware. Pre- & Post surgery I think not disclosing your biological sex to a partner is wrong. No matter what. If your pre op or post op.

[@trekadouble757]

In a way, never talking about it makes it taboo. Not everyone has to talk about it, absolutely not, and nobody should be obsessed with what other people have in their pants. But if some people accept to answer the question when it is asked, it won't be a taboo. I personally think that you can ask all questions you want if the formulation is polite, if you don't ask it in a place that is not appropriate for the topic, and if you respect that the person doesn't want to answer. If people can't ask some questions, they will try to find the answer another way that sometimes isn't pleasant at all, like asking other people, talking about someone behind their backs, trying to look for clues, etc. Because we know that people are intrigued by what they're not supposed to do or ask. If they know they can ask the question, sometimes they don't even bother asking.

[@einstien311]

On a slightly different topic, why isn't it called "sex re-assignment surgery"?

[@WildZephyr]

It is if you want a bikini wax or any other 'intimate' service. Otherwise, you do you.

[@texastea5686]

It is someone's business if Blair meets a heterosexual man who thinks Blair is real woman with a vagina and not man pretending to be a woman.

[@valerieboatwright5404]

Thank you for this video. I’m a 58 year older grandmother who wants to understand but had no one to ask. I truly appreciate your candor and time. It made a huge difference in my thought process regarding trans and gender dysphoria.

[@robertbonds7377]

Awesome

[@alyssaw3412]

Wow! This makes me so happy to see. I always hear people say older people are just stuck in their ways and I've been around a lot of older people (my parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, friends family members) who never actively seek out new information. Seeing your comment makes me feel really good that someone older like you with absolutely no one to talk to about this is seeking to have their mind opened and potentially changed. Good for you! Keep on going!

[@Jesswithlessstress]

Awe, bless your sweet heart! I wish more people were as tolerant and empathetic as you! Keep learning and stay sweet!

[@imcloud305]

Damn this lady have lived long time How was the cold war? How was the French revolution? How was hitler? How was napoleon?

[@uhm_5414]

@@imcloud305 shut tha hell up

[@amischair]

Blair, don’t cut it off. Just keep your junk and stay healthy.

[@dwightdodd3734]

Absolutely !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

[@ryanryan3729]

Are you okay which female on earth wants to have a dick? your crazy man only men want their penis not women

[@dwightdodd3734]

please do not mutilate yourself !!!!

[@atinybruh]

Yes, its just gonna be an open wound that will have to be open

[@ryanryan3729]

@@atinybruh no you can orgasm from it it’s. Not a wound and it can also self lubricate depending on which surgery you get do your research and don’t be transphobic

[@dinavienna]

Honestly your surgeon is an artist your face looks so natural amazing

[@kayypurrs1138]

No look at her before allways gorgous so subtle

[@murderoustendencies]

Blaire is very good at contouring too though ;)

[@Churros1616]

It does not look natural, but she looks amazing for sure.

[@annzeannieorannzeannaschot4361]

A.girl can only eat maybe I jhotdog. Even if she is hungry.always plain you don't want to get anything on your clothes Annzey annie

[@Not_Always]

@Jane Doe and a nose job

[@qtgirltay]

The fact that people who get this surgery done have to "keep the hole open" genuinely instills fear in me I'm actually freaking out

[@VeronicaGorositoMusic]

Only women do that. And in the final stage it's only once per week after 3 months. There is necessary to do that even for XX women that have problems with the vaginal cavity. They do the same work as transsexual women, and those with MRKH. You do this only if you are actually a genuine woman, not a performance.

[@ALT-vz3jn]

Gitana Maldita what is this bunch of bullshit. Real women with real vagina have no need to do this.

[@averytokar9612]

@@ALT-vz3jn actually yes some biological women have to do that do have a useable vagina.

[@Natalie-wr3iz]

@@averytokar9612 no (female) woman has to dilate a neovagina, tho

[@sarahunter4544]

A very good cis girlfriend I have does not have a usable vagina. The dilators trans women use after surgery were originally designed for cis women. Many women have issues with intercourse. It's been a year and a half since my surgery. I dilate about once every 4-5 days. It's suppressed to be once a week but I find it gets pretty tight on the largest size after a week. I feel it's because I weight train (lift weights) and it's just muscles closing in. Guys haven't had any complaints😅

[@pockethole1900]

You should interview Jazz Jennings. She had the bottom surgery and could give a perspective about the surgery. She's got a channel too.

[@joyfulmax5741]

I saw part of the video when she had her surgery to remove her penis. It was sooo sad, they even had a "good bye penis" cake for her.

[@valkyrie1010]

😢

[@VeronicaGorositoMusic]

@@joyfulmax5741 Why sad??

[@jazminjones9513]

@@joyfulmax5741 o.O I probably should watch this video but I think I have to be prepared for that one.

[@emoliver80]

@@joyfulmax5741 I'm pretty sure they dont "remove" the penis during SRS. My understanding is that they actually turn the penis into a vagina. It's actually a very detailed and intense surgery.

[@KP-rk8rt]

I just saw an interview by Candance Owens with Brit Ivy - 22 yo girl about the complications of this surgery. i am so sorry for her. Good you make other people conscious of side effects ❤

[@cartergomez5390]

I will look that up!

[@s.c.7362]

HE. Not she. Ivy is a MALE. No hate, just fact.

[@D3vil0fMin3]

As a straight, married man, this is something I’ve wondered about for years. There’s a lot of stigma around even straight men just simply asking questions; so I very much appreciate your openness.

[@themudpit621]

I remember a time when we were allowed to ask questions, when it felt safe to talk to anyone and the worst thing might be a little awkwardness, whereas now it feels like you're trying to cross a minefield of traps. Saying the 'wrong' thing or asking a 'wrong' question now gets you branded a bigot, banned, fined... I want to go back to where I used to meet and talk happily to all sorts of folks without fear. To where it was safe to talk and make mistakes. That was a better time.

[@veradark5066]

LOL

[@uhm_5414]

@@themudpit621 then go back to 1930 grandpa

[@sunnysun3740]

@@uhm_5414 im 23 and i agree with him you stfu

[@8alltime]

There’s nothing wrong with being gay. Just admit it and save your wife the pain.

[@ronnewcomer6142]

“The Rent Is Still Due”. Simple but very powerful statement

[@Landstalker1999]

It is because a lot of people subconsciously delude themselves into thinking that all their life problems are due to 1 or 2 things and if they 'fix' those 1 or 2 things their lives will be perfect. But it ain't.

[@erheaflower4318]

You're saving lives with this video. It's a dangerous surgery, especially for those who don't experience the fulfillment they thought it would bring. Peopl need to be honest with themselves and I admire th honesty you bring in your videos

[@RodFleming-World]

Nonhomosexual transitioners of either sex should never have GRS. Look, the classic Western male profile of nonhomosexual transitioner is a middle-aged, married, masculine man with no chance of passing on a dark night in the rain, who has a paraphilia called Autogynephilia. 80% remain fully heterosexual after the surgery. This person will not use the neovagina for the purpose intended. Intalling one is a sop to their delusion. How could any such person be 'fulfilled'? They lopped off a functioning organ that they used and replaced it with a facsimile of one they never will. And the lunacy is even worse for nonhomosexual female transitioners, who are heterosexual women who have their breasts and entire reproductive systems removed and are encouraged in this by venal 'professionals '. Gaah the stupid is like treacle. Male HSTS (eg Blaire) are different. If they have GRS they will use the neovagina. They orgasm through it and while nobody knows whether it feels the same as a woman's, they don't seem to complain. I have yet to hear a verifiable HSTS express regret.

[@louisadordelmann1188]

Is it like that for FTM surgeries too? Like other than that it obviously won’t solve all my problems

[@erheaflower4318]

@@louisadordelmann1188 I don't know exactly what's involved but think deep before making any permanent change to your body. Reflect on why you wish to be a male and make sure it's not rooted in sexual or other abuse, memories of being shamed/rejected for female traits, rewarded for exhibiting male traits. Make sure you address any wounds if they exist. You'll be giving up your ability to have biological children and increase health risks, so make sure this is really what you want. This is an article I think is a good place to start: www.hli.org/resources/what-percentage-of-transgenders-regret-surgery/

[@antifascist7818]

It is not dangerous in any way! And has not been dangerous for over 50 years.

[@MasterYoda389]

"people need to be honest with themselves" HAH , that's a funny one.

[@melaniemuasau9199]

THANK YOU, BLAIR! I live in San Francisco where many trans have gotten the vaginoplasty and the results are in...it is a HORROR STORY & because they put so much hope in that surgery, you are absolutely right, the suicide rates, post op, are substantial. God bless you for speaking truth.

[@makipri]

The suicide rates aren’t higher than pre-op or non-op. People misread Cecilia Dhejne’s study and compare the rate to non-transgender population.

[@UP-ww9si]

Wow I've never even thought of the fact that it's an opening that your body would keep attempting to close. The maintenance and care after surgery is probably so tough.

[@goblinisac5759]

It's literally an open wound that the body is trying to heal. That's why it's trying to close it.

[@schnozchan6606]

It was giving me shivers thinking about it. I can totally see why someone would end up regretting it, I'm sure it would hurt like a bitch and just be generally uncomfortable.

[@brianaguilar8283]

Schnoz Chan dilation is also very boring, since you have to lie in a sitting position for a few hours to get it started. Trans woman KZbinr Autumn Asphodel covers this topic in great detail if you’re interested.

[@jessthom1016]

Princess Jules is a KZbind that had bottom surgery and she talks about using dialaters and the process and stuff. I think at one point she said she got lazy using them and her vagina got more shallow than it was meant to be.

[@brianaguilar8283]

Schnoz Chan it’s just reconstructive surgery really. Biologically speaking, the penis is an evolution of the vagina, since all fetuses start out as female, so the surgery technically reverts it back to its starting form.

[@pollyc.1957]

I'm not trans or anything, but I found this entire video very informative and educational. Thank you!

[@J0W3xArtist]

Same here

[@danehrencrona4847]

Do you have to be trans to find a video like this informative?

[@J0W3xArtist]

@@danehrencrona4847 no.

[@slushu_6865]

Dan Lundberg Some lefties think that you can only relate to lgbt people if you are also lgbt, so it’s a thing to say when people don’t feel like having to explain stuff, or be harassed

[@pollyc.1957]

@@slushu_6865 I'm no more interested in your opinion or Dan Lundberg's than I am in ANY of your political agendas. All I meant was that it was an extremely interesting topic that shed light on a lot of questions about transgenderism and body dysphoria that I didn't know I had, and haven't experienced, AS a cisperson. So both of you can take your self-righteous, flag-waving BS, and troll elsewhere.

[@heatherlynn4652]

All excellent reasons. Surgery of an kind is a serious life altering decision and shouldn't be taken lightly

[@lucamckenn5932]

Ironic fact: One of the leading _pioneers_ in trans surgery was, I wish I was kidding, a doctor called John Money. A sick and twisted man who convinced a young boy to become a girl who later committed suicide. He basically murdered someone after calling the transition a success, saying "gender identity is learned" . A testament to how sick this guy is, one of the last appearances of him on anything was a 2006 documentary on zoophiles. People who push these kinds of surgeries on people who are confused about who they are are abhorrent monsters.

[@tameraa.7976]

You are so wise to not have that surgery. I've been listening to detransitioniers stories that are dealing with awful scenario's. I can't imagine not being able to enjoy sex or becoming sterile, developing fistulas or battling a whole that wants to close making it impossible to have sex. Not being able to pee & ending up with a bag. Your beautiful and don't have to prove anything to anyone. Your successful & you have someone that loves you. Thank you for sharing because you just might help someone for making that mistake.💗

[@uncleg-wizzy7231]

Doesn't matter what you have down there, out of my league anyway....

[@julianowak1896]

i_lasag Okay who asked

[@shandie1117]

Ju‘s Journey who asked you to reply

[@fatimasaeed8102]

Ju‘s Journey what

[@uncleg-wizzy7231]

You're doing it wrong when a straight guy complimenting a trans girl gets you triggered.... Just sayin...

[@uncleg-wizzy7231]

@@julianowak1896 Nobody asked, also nobody asked me to go to your channel, see your playlists and say to you you're on the right path and it shows you want to improve yourself. And I really think that's awesome. Nobody asked me to applaud you for that.... but I still do... And I hope this learns you a lesson that not everything people say is meant in a negative way or as a means to trigger people. Wish you the best, keep believing in yourself....

[@MeowieCakes]

Your reasons for not “snipping” are very understandable

[@komutsky1879]

MeowieCakes Shes hung

[@thevoicesaysimalmostoutofm5710]

Her body, her choice

[@min_says_h3110]

@@thevoicesaysimalmostoutofm5710 the person said it's understandable that she doesn't want to

[@thevoicesaysimalmostoutofm5710]

@@min_says_h3110 exactly what I was agreeing with when I said that

[@azure5584]

Losing all the fame in a split second sure makes for a compelling argument.

[@mishaladara]

You still got to get Joey pregnant

[@Drtrollkittehtv]

Im like 420 😎

[@hanzohattori2492]

@SUBSCRIBE TO ME JUST BECAUSE I SAID SO yes.

[@opalisthebestever3405]

SUBSCRIBE TO ME JUST BECAUSE I SAID SO loool

[@kate7413]

​@subscribo2059yes she's a transgender

[@justinludeman8424]

Honesty and clarity, outstanding attributes Blaire. I've learned far more about transgender identity reality from your channel than from anywhere else. You are prepared to contradict other narratives with factual evidence and the authenticity of your experience and of course, true empathy. Respect 🙏🏼🖖🏼

[@abscondis]

My thoughts exactly.

[@BenjiXAddictX4Ever]

I had heard of someone on Reddit who got the surgery and ended up regretting it. I don't want that to happen to you. ❤

[@HoneyandCIover]

Logical Conservative liberals acknowledge this issue

[@jthemagicrobot3960]

many do

[@sarahsmith8899]

Logical Conservative which forum would that be then 🧐

[@kristinehansen.]

@Corn Soup good for you :) but I get it that not everyone wants it.

[@DonPeyote420]

@Corn Soup haha fucking liar

[@ongogablogean4920]

And imagine you lose sensation. That would be horrible

[@valkyrie1010]

Regina Phalange that’s a big reason why most men who’re trans women don’t have it done.

[@jazminjones9513]

@@valkyrie1010 oh good.

[@Aliveandkick8]

Regina Phalange Having had other surgeries myself, the loss of sensation is pretty common. With it being the genitals and sensation being so important, I can see why people might hesitate.

[@sarahunter4544]

mine ended up more sensitive then before my surgery. I believe loss of sensation is from poor aftercare. It feels quite amazing.

[@VioletDeathRei]

@@sarahunter4544 Doctor skill is a huge factor as well.

[@OnsceneDC]

I somehow stumbled across your channel with all of this Yaniv BS, and have been watching your other content. I have to admit, as a hetro, cisgendered woman, I haven't been all that concerned about the specific issues facing the trans community. However, Blaire, you are so genuine and real, and your stories are so relatable. Thank you for helping me better understand and appreciate the trans community (which is very diverse), but I think you make a phenomenal spokeswoman! You are super fabulous!

[@lightworkerlady]

Exactly the same here. Found her through the Yaniv stuff and am now going through her vids and learning a lot! 😊

[@janea3601]

And same here!

[@atamori7052]

You mean hetero?

[@imacomedian980]

Why do you describe yourself as hetero cis gendered. It's called being normal

[@jeremysmith54565]

The reality of a whats quite essentially (or least often) called a vaginoplasty (it's I believe clinical name) is about using the foreskin not sure about reversing it and using the inside of it rather though but it is especially about the reconnection the blood vessels its how an organism is achieved variably some of them don't ever reconnect back up though its a highly skilled operation (akin to that though they're entirely different things a Whipple it's sort of more common name for people who contract Pancreatic cancer since it's though about not just that reconnection of blood vessels but the bile ducts ontop of that). The reality is it's not just for trans people either there's at least a few other reasons like say the rectum goes into (a form of I suppose hernia) that part of the abdomen who sometimes require that or some form of trauma.strictures (narrowing of a sort of form of tube like is common with Ileo Pouch surgery can happen with this kind of surgery as well) as well as fistula's tunnels of tissue where they've not filled in properly naturally post op when fluid runs through them and I know for a fact (since I had a few at least exposed nerves due to the bowel shrinking it was the most unbearable pain imaginable), from a fistula abcesses are a huge risk as well.

[@Hippie_Chick_11]

My grandson is currently experimenting with female hormones. He says he is being monitored by a doctor. He is of legal age. I'm worried about him. That is one of the main reasons I watch your videos all the time. I have Learned alot from you. Thank you 💕

[@Sergeant_Fury]

Genitals are central to sexuality, unlike breast enhancement, nose job, etc. As you said, once you do that, there's no going back.

[@kaiyodei]

but some say it is mean to have a prefernce

[@Sergeant_Fury]

@@kaiyodei I'm not sure I understand. A trans woman will talk openly about all aspects of transitioning, but the issue of getting rid of male genitalia is not discussed, yet it is central to being identified as male or female. Thus Blaire White writes above, "I'm transgender, but here's why I'm not getting "the surgery." Y'all know which one."

[@CassidyStarke]

kaiyodei Sexuality has nothing to do with “preferences”. Sexual attraction is liking men or women. A preference would be hair colour or height. But the attraction would always be a man or woman.

[@Sergeant_Fury]

@@CassidyStarke Thank you for getting back to me. Sexuality, sexual identity and identity in general are, for some reason, closely linked, identified, whatever, with genitalia, be it male or female. There are many expressions in probably all languages linking bravery, honesty and power to genitals, especially male genitals. The word "testify" is related to "testicle"; ancient Romans used to take oaths or make promises while holding on to their balls. I kid you not. Similarly, a woman who cannot conceive, who is "barren", is looked upon as a lesser person, traditionally that is, than one who is "fertile" and can bear children. One of the things I have noticed about transgender women on KZbin is that they will talk endlessly about breast enhancement, facial and cosmetic surgery of all kinds, as well as endless make-up tips and hand bag content. Transgender women are, however, generally quiet about being "pre-op" and "post-op" and view it as an invasion of privacy, an infringement, when asked about it by guys they meet. I am not judging the choices you have made. You are in a tough spot and, in my opinion, nature played a dirty trick on you.

[@CassidyStarke]

Eugene Pomeroy What choices have I even made?

[@jackdelaney4082]

Never realised how complex it actually is.the way a lot of people talk about it as if its a simple procedure

[@modaciouslav4792]

Glasgow Blues u can google it and get computer imagery on the process. It shows EXACTLY how everything is done and it is far from a simple procedure. I’m not sure I could ever do something like that to my body unless it was life saving

[@Nikkilou36]

I know right, people make it sound easy. When in reality that shit sounds painful af!! And you have to keep it open, I would be completely freaked out!

[@BeausGirl7]

There's actually a video on KZbin of a surgeon performing the procedure. It's insanely complicated.

[@davidholland4489]

Elisha Paolini Where’s it called

[@kevinvassago]

Fr! Thx south park😒

[@emmaceleste3512]

My best friend transitioned and ended up taking her own life thru an overdose less than two months later. She was miserable. I feel like the went thru with the full transition due to peer pressure. She died because she overdosed - she didn't die because of transphobia like the people who I believe pressured her into transitioning claim. I miss her so much.

[@reverendcoffinsotherson5807]

Well. Lying is a speciality of trans rights activists.

[@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied]

Thanks for sharing this. I’m so sorry for your friend’s pain, and for your loss.

[@piperian3962]

I think the pain of most trans people runs deeper than the activists realize.

[@mlizzaklizza498]

Thanks for sharing. I’m so sorry for your friend’s loss and yours.

[@Tzipporah36]

So sorry for your loss...

[@paulinehawkins2207]

Blair you made an intelligent choice not to get bottom surgery. Most trans women I’ve watched on KZbin have severe not only physical problems, but also emotional issues too. I’m so glad you have a happy and well adjusted life. Xx

[@ImDudeRandom90]

Anyone else think Blair would be a fun person to hang out with? She seems so chill.

[@sunnydaygina]

YES!! I adore the both of them! 💗💗

[@ismagicgone626]

THINK??? I KNOW!!!

[@starrynight669]

I'd love to be her friend

[@jeanmichellelaurent]

I actually dreamed one night me and her chilled out in Blackpool with Jaclyn Glenn and joey sarson I wish it was real

[@GenericWhiteBitch1980]

Yeah and she’s intelligent

[@KalvinGarrah]

You're definitely right about the trans community being taboo about bottom surgery. FTM Bottom Surgery is insanely taboo especially and involves several stages and even with the best surgeons complications are still common. I guess I'm slowly getting to the point where I genuinely just need to get it, and my insurance does cover it, but I'm waiting until I literally can't hold out on my dysphoria any longer. Thanks for sharing your feelings on this though, it's really important to get information out there especially for trans people doing research on KZbin :)

[@auralavish8335]

Yo if it isn’t THE controversial prince visiting the controversial queen

[@laurelc9326]

Daddy Kalvin and mommy Blaire? I’m not ready for this

[@samdinnan3351]

Yo I'm trans too, but could never bear the surgery even if I could afford it. I'd rather have my birth genitals than today's average fake dick. It'd cause huge mental problems for me to have such a huge scar on my arm/leg too. But good on you for wanting it.

[@IronChefofPoon]

Honestly if your 'soon to be husband' doesn't care what you have down there it's not worth the risk. Besides there are other holes that work perfectly fine.

[@vanessabanales3689]

kalvin hi

[@ascendednightingale2456]

I’m glad you did your research and decided against the surgery. There’s a lot of cases coming out now where trans women have gotten the surgery and now have serious complications.

[@myaisheree]

They are the minority...

[@EmmaDaisy]

@@myaisheree not really, they are too embarrassed or ashamed to come out. Give it another 10 years, I bet your comment doesn’t age well.

[@daisiesandpandas1218]

​@@myaisheree most of us have seen the Jazz Jennings video, the open wound that's created is forever trying to close and they have to use a dilator

[@halloweenseason]

@@myaishereeand you know this because.......?

[@makipri]

@@EmmaDaisyI underwent GRS a couple of years before she made this video and I’m happy. I’ve read about the statistics and they are against White’s message. Pretty much all manage to climax. The satisfaction rate is one of the highest of all surgeries. The complication rate is around 1%.

[@jenniferb3266]

Blaire, I think staying away from the bottom surgery is very smart. Good decision.

[@TrishCanyon8]

Excellent video. Same deal with women who build their life around getting married and THE WEDDING. you're still you.

[@oliviamonkey]

Trish A. you are right, it concerns most people. have a nice day

[@rachelturner5524]

This was so wholesome

[@erinyads2273]

You're so right, Trish.

[@wharrington8587]

Thank you. My best friend rushed into marriage because all her friends were. She's on her 2nd husband whose a selfish jerk. We all told her she didn't need to get married but since we all were she had to. It's so stupid I never planned to get married hence why I ended up eloping. I didn't want the drama I just wanted the guy.

[@draalttom844]

@@wharrington8587 for most people marriage is not a good option it stucks some in a uncomfortable situation or is done without feeling

[@Kirakirakira96]

"Gender dysphoria something REAL transgender people have." I dieddddddd!!! you're the best random KZbinr I've stumbled upon in awhile. You really don't care about other's opinions and aren't apologetic about it. I love you

[@12DAMDO]

facts don't care about opinions

[@risingsuperstarfrost3096]

Isn’t “not caring about others’ opinions” generally thought to be close-minded?

[@swifty2555]

@Poodle Froke holy shit do you know what periods are

[@royriley6282]

That's why were all here, dude.

[@bigstorygazette8003]

@@risingsuperstarfrost3096 Not necessarily, I don't care what other people think about me or anything else, but I do recognize and honor their right to their opinion. I generally don't do anything with their opinion because that's all it is. Their opinion, not mine. Now if I hear something that makes sense and I resonate with it then I can and do incorporate that new info into my own perspective. In my opinion that is openmindedness.

[@mykie]

Even though this has been really personal for you to talk about, I think it’s a really good thing for others to hear. I used to be close with a trans man who was going through the surgery and it seemed HORRIBLE. So many hoops to jump through just to get it, so many long term complications, such an effect on mental health & the whole world around them afterwards. You talking about that can help not only trans people considering the surgery but also those non-trans who lack the empathy to realize that no one would put themselves through that surgery unless they really truly felt it necessary.

[@Heyitsjennaaaa]

Love this reply couldn’t have said it better myself.

[@veganmonster4153]

Not necessary for survival. So no empathy from me!!!!!

[@lucygraham3573]

Hiya Mykie :)

[@milfandcookies908]

MYKIEEE

[@xxinsomnia]

Omg fancy meeting mykie here

[@DodgaOfficial]

I demand a haircare video from you, your hair is like Pantene commercial shit, its so beautiful, luscious and healthy.

[@Matt-of2eq]

She isn't handling her haircare

[@manifestanything6508]

It’s called extensions 😅

[@ndkskwbbuekfbsgsuwkneje]

Its call being a guy, have anyone noticed that guys with long hair always have healthier and shinier hair than girls?... Sorry Blaire 😅, you are still beautiful...keep up the good work. I think you are spot on with your opionions about transgender issues in kids, thats why I ended up watching your videos).

[@Xaforn]

Nutrients plays a huge role, water quality and know your hair type. Oily scalp is a dry scalp trying to compensate so moisture is necessary. Also try a cowash or two instead of regular shampoo. If you want regular shampoo try avocado oil based, try cleaner products and less chemicals.

[@Holistretch]

Pretty sure it’s a wig! ❤

[@ASMR_Noir]

Your sick voice is adorable? I actually can't handle it lol.

[@mistymorning1010]

it's so cute and when my husband sick it he also sounds so cute

[@vinya9589]

Agreed

[@FiveFoxesInATrenchcoat]

The Charitable Death Eater ASMR I couldn’t really tell. When I’m sick, I sound like a man and like I’m even more dead inside.

[@MrThe1234guy]

Real sick

[@Crazywaffle5150]

I'm glad that I'm just gay. Life is stressful enough.

[@Crazywaffle5150]

@Your Majesty I'm just talking in terms that I'm glad I don't want surgical intervention. I mean stressful as in bills and the day to day grind ect.

[@dathbaeder]

Your Majesty See ya there then sis 😘

[@cjr9298]

Crazywaffle5150 lol

[@balkanwitch5747]

Toxic White Male Glad you agree ☺️

[@brianaguilar8283]

Your Majesty nice trolling

[@Red_Foxxy_Fox]

Personally, I think having my junk cut open sounds KIND OF terrifying.

[@bluecorp8557]

Rachel Fourie OMG I did the same thing! Lmao 😂

[@Red_Foxxy_Fox]

@toulouse666 that's the joke

[@ZapPack]

Rachel Fourie same

[@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed]

DeadPool-Priestess HasEnteredTheChat i’ve seen the surgery and still having a vagina, it made my stomach turn into knots. I was fascinated but scared af

[@jasonbrown4526]

I know, right? Any kind of surgery is scary.

[@jaydenceshortridge5105]

As a transgender woman and undergraduate in psychology specializing in gender identity I think you are absolutely wonderful with how you get your message across. One question I might have is why do people say your a horrible person in the trans community? I shared a video or two of yours to help educate individuals and I got nothing but hate for it. I don't understand because your are so down to the facts and just telling it how it is. Like I said I think you are wonderful... Keep up the positivity and truth about our community ❤️🏳️‍⚧️

[@cyberspelunker1980]

Because she says things people don’t want to hear, despite being true. I think she’s awesome. We need more people like Blaire.

[@leonabug619]

Personally, I think it's mostly pure jealousy. Blair is so pretty and easily passes as a woman, she has a bf that loves her for her, and she's a very successful social media influencer. Not sure if you've noticed, but the ones that hate her the most are the ones that will never pass as the opposite gender, and they KNOW this but try to say she's a horrible person. They never have any valid reasons why they hate her, bcuz there are none.

[@natvasch6399]

I think it's mostly because people don't check. I would know because I was one of them. One influencer who doesn't like her opinions goes "blaire white transphobe" and everyone just accepts it without checking themselves first. Now that I checked her out, I am really impressed and also don't understand why everyone seems to hate. I disagree with her on a few topics but she seems like a very rational, clever and even nice individual (I say even because everyone made her out to be that b*tch). So yeah, I guess that's it.

[@whocares7093]

I think the main reason is many lgbt people are just so stuck in their bubble that every different opinion is a threat to them. For example Blaire is against hormones for children, which alot of people in the community heavily want. So instead of listening to her arguments they label her transphobe immediately. Same with her views on nonbinary.

[@theperson4yearsago565]

Transgender people like Blair I can respect

[@WildZephyr]

"You have to use that thing to keep yourself open for up to a year" "people have had their urethra's close up" I... can see why people don't get this done. *faints*

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

Yeah I...yeah x.x

[@lovezys1235]

I was slightly traumatized after hearing that

[@RodFleming-World]

There is one Thai KZbinr who claims that even after all the dilation she still has to have sex anally because of the pain. Then I know others who have had no issues at all and are delighted, including one who, as soon as she was functional 'went to Ibiza to road test it with as many men as I could' and loved it. Most HSTS seem happy with the surgery or at least, I've never heard one complain. (The aforementioned Thai is AGP). With GRS it appears very much to be 'you get what you pay for.

[@eg6953]

HaVe YoU hAd ThE sNiP yEt

[@alekt-s3035]

Have a Like, for reminding me of Ella.

[@Veryfreshveryflourish24]

E G Wise words of trap supreme.

[@autumnautopsy]

The Ella squad is everywhere and I love it

[@callumwarren3342]

@@alekt-s3035 she's our favorite trap for sure

[@alekt-s3035]

@@callumwarren3342 She's our Trap Supreme!

[@cronos222]

I'm a middle aged straight man and I think you're beautiful and perfect the way you are . Your personality also makes you beautiful the way you are .

[@geemoney4678]

@ I think this dude wants to take more than his bike for a ride!

[@jadaaaaa5034]

Chrjs why because he thinks she is beautiful? I think that is exactly what makes him straight lmao 🤣

[@jadaaaaa5034]

Chrjs from the way you talk “bro” I can tell ur like 11 and he thinks SHE is gorgeous and I do to that makes him straight and me gay 😊

[@imacomedian980]

@ haha

[@imacomedian980]

@@jadaaaaa5034 *He

[@halloweenseason]

Blaire, I'm not trans or homosexual but I have a lot of friends who are and I find your information very helpful! One thing that makes me so angry is that the statistics about bottom surgical transitioning are so off. Hearing that hardly anybody regrets the surgery just can't be right. How would one figure out what the true statistics are of those who lose their ability to have sexual pleasure or orgasm anymore? Sex isn't everything but when you're young, it seems just so tragic that you can't have that part of your life anymore!! As for grooming, confusing, and "educating" little children about their gender choices, that's just evil!

[@Kelly-hh7jz]

Detransitioners are often ignored and gaslighted when they express regret... By pretty much everyone, including their doctors. I'm sure the statistics are completely wrong.

[@SeitanicLady]

THANK YOU for including sexual pleasure that ISNT orgasm in the conversation! Everyone talks about can they orgasm, can they orgasm? It's never, can you still feel pleasure from sex? Thank you!!

[@DariaJane13]

There ain't many trans girls out there who I can relate to, but you've been an inspiration for me for quite a long time now. However, I may have to add my 2 cents on this topic, cuz I feel like this surgery was somehow projected as "doing more harm than good stuff". I had SRS 20 months ago in Thailand, at a place thats well known for its good SRS results, not anywhere near 30k$ tho, maybe like a half of that, but I gotta tell you this surgery really changes your life for good, if you REALLY wanted it. Yes, its risky (not the surgery itself nowadays, more like the recovery which indeed takes a lot), you may or may not have complications (I did, I had to stay in Thailand 37 days, and when I got back to Romania, I had one more year of struggles with UTIs and yeast infections, which are sometimes there within the first year). I did go thru the worst pain of my life but I swear to God it's been nothing but fulfilment. It was my journey but in the end I am at peace with my own body, I dont have to hide anything, I can go to the beach with no worries, I look at myself and I finally look how I should've been born. Sexual pleasure is ok too, and I feel like even today's technology, is enough for providing good results. I totally get the need of facial feminisation surgery, I started with that one as well, but don't reject the idea of getting SRS. It may not "change your family situation, job situation, social situation" etc. but it surely does change the way you're feeling with your own self as a woman and also cuts off a lot of HRT. Good luck anyway! You're the only one who knows if that's what u want or neah

[@chonk_fox89]

I am so so happy for you and that this made you so complete 😊😊 congrats!

[@toongrowner1]

I think at the end it depends on the person. And I think it's only reasonable to say that such a big decision needs to be though very long and carefull about

[@NortonTaylor]

You clearly wanted it and it mattered to you, while Blaire was very clear in saying that said she doesn't really want it and it doesn't matter to her. Her whole point was that people do this thinking it's always validating and that everything will be better for them. I'm happy for you but your experience was shaped by the fact that this truly mattered to you. Most people are pressured to think that this should matter to them, you yourself even imply that it WILL 100% make anyone feel more womanly just because it did for you. You're positive experience doesn't mean people shouldn't be educated about the statical risk of post-op depression.

[@soolvia8058]

Oh my god, I'm so happy to see romanian lgbt people on youtube! I looked through your videos and subscribed, you're really funny :')

[@DariaJane13]

@@NortonTaylor if you really have gender dysphoria and you don't like that part of your body, there's no way you can be depressed post-op. Problem here is that people have weird expectations from any kind of surgeries, whether its FFS, BA or SRS. You gotta be ok with yourself before getting any kind of surgery. People who actually regret SRS are people who either were not trans to begin with (as happened with SRS victims in the XXth century), or people who unfortunately had MAJOR complications which probably made their life miserable, resulting in pain or no sensation (which is kinda rare these days too, especially at very good surgeons).

[@NinyaBOT]

As a trans person myself, and yes I am dysphoric about what’s in my pants, but I just don’t see the surgery as worth it. It’s not gonna be like 100% the same thing. It’s going to hurt, it’s going to be expensive, and it’s going to have several risks. What’s in my pants is going to only be seen by myself and my partner, whose not going to mind because they love me for me. I don’t think at all it should matter what’s in your pants that makes you a “real” trans.

[@MatthewsSloan]

YUP!

[@0MGitsRayRay]

yeah, i feel like it's a bigger pressure on trans women to get SRS than it is with trans men. but trans men SRS isn't as advanced as the one for MTF's. the most i will probably get is top surgery and consider meta. i'm extremely dysphoric though on my bottom half, but hormones will lessen it.

[@jackowen7062]

@@0MGitsRayRay Well, it's just a lot easier to make a vagina than to make a penis. It's not as if doctors aren't trying to improve the methods to get the best results possible. I'm still going to get SRS because the methods aren't going to advance much more. Or at least not in the forseeable future. And there are surgeons who get really good results now.

[@lindsayporier4350]

this is a viewpoint that i feel like is hardly discussed & even though you don’t owe anyone an explanation, i’m so glad you gave us this new perspective!

[@Jttw2131]

No more surgeries, especially the "final" one. You're perfect the way you are now.

[@C6Wolves]

She looks old now she should have stuck with botox after this point at most not all the other things

[@JokersD0ll]

@@C6Wolvesshe doesn’t…

[@samdobie6748]

​@@C6WolvesLooks sexy to me

[@oblongfan1]

then shes not a woman. hes still a man doing drag pretending to be a trans. as a trans man myself whos done most of the surgeries most of the shit she says is just oxymoron. cant take him seriously.

[@paristath6773]

@@C6Wolves She honestly aged herself up with the excessive filler and Botox. She looked younger when her jaw was wider

[@hiya2251]

Blaire’s nose is the cutest 😵

[@s.ormgamalson6489]

She had gorgeous eyes as well.

[@OldworkbyEmmaCRB]

@@s.ormgamalson6489 had?

[@jonahs92]

@@OldworkbyEmmaCRB Probably just a typo, lol

[@nicelydone4846]

It's so perfect!

[@-dn-sdrawberiee253]

@♔HaroldsCat♔ well that's very rude.

[@OurFoundingLiars]

That thumbnail made me shiver

[@abcd34937]

Lol

[@ehrenemter2800]

I cringed and laughed at it

[@vf-tst]

Thanks for not using the premiere feature. Credit where it's due

[@Okinasexo]

Whats with the blue star by your name? It isnt an emoji

[@vf-tst]

mlm mommie You get it for being a member to the channel 😛

[@psygn0sis]

I don't see it because I'm still using the faster old style youtube.

[@ayanotanabe5220]

As a medical student I actually came across the ACTUAL surgery procedures complete step by step diagrams, actual photos and charts/diagrams. I was shocked at HOW MANY STEPS the doctor needs to do, how complex the procedure is. Blaire is correct, you in a very basic concept “flip” the skin inside out of… you know. And then after literally several multiple procedures you’re done. But really there’s no going back. If anything there MIGHT be I think it said, but never the same like it was. So yeah, it’s a crazy decision(I mean in terms of complication risk), a very serious decision to make even IF you are financially ready. Oh btw, even after post op, even if the procedure were to be 100% considered to be successful, you, I believe for the rest of your life, have to do daily “tasks” if you know what I mean. Those that know.. know what I’m referring to. Cheers.

[@tabassumsaraah]

Bruh wdym by have to do "daily tasks" . Everyone has to do taily tasks dont they

[@samanthageorge4531]

​@Tabassum Sarah, you have to maintain the wound for ever. Otherwise it closes up and then will require another surgery for intimate relations. Google if you are still unclear... A vagina plasty made from a penis is not like a cis vagina.

[@vickykent353]

​@@tabassumsaraah Dialation to maintain the vagina.

[@audynrz]

​@@tabassumsaraahshe meant dilating the new vagina so it doesnt closed up

[@JuniperStrange]

​@@tabassumsaraahI think they mean you have to keep uh..certain objects of varying sizes 'inserted' for hours at a time in order to prevent 'it' from closing up.

[@robertnewman4854]

So you are sick from hanging out with a friend... Was this what the psychic meant by an unhealthy relationship?

[@callumwarren3342]

@@Jtzkb yikes

[@AriaIsara]

Jtzkb This psychic deserves an apology lol 😄

[@ree3197]

@@Jtzkb 😂

[@sneezingsuspense]

HAHHA

[@graver0bbery269]

You made good points. I think the main reason the surgery might cause depression is the fact that it’s usually the final step in transition. After bottom surgery there is no other ways to deal with dysphoria. People are just hit with the realisation that all the remaining post-surgery dysphoria is something that’s going to follow them for the rest of their life- they lose their last bit of hope.

[@yvonnesanders2490]

Wiktor the pigeon showing it's all in people's heads, so always a man like it or not

[@KikiSpaghetti]

I never would have thought of that...that's crazy. And explains a lot...

[@ranoutofeyeballs]

thankyou for showing what being a real transgender is about @buchner funnel

[@devadasi1]

my bottom surgery eliminated dysphoria completely in my case

[@sus-vk2vp]

W

[@togglemutt9892]

Most sensible trans person I've seen so far. Neat perspective.

[@Draco19970125]

Trans means going beyond/across of something and Blaire did not change his male sex chromosomes/organs, so he is not any kind of "trans".

[@togglemutt9892]

Four years ago when I posted this comment I thought what was said in the video was a neat perspective. I don't know what the video is about now. Nor do I care to check. I don't know what you're saying or trying to explain but I assure you it does not matter any more.

[@Draco19970125]

@@togglemutt9892 The video's content did not change. What I wanted to say(and why would it not matter?): I merely reacted the "trans" part of your comment.

[@togglemutt9892]

@@Draco19970125 I'm saying I don't remember what this was about and I don't care because none of it matters. 😂

[@dancingfirefly7761]

I've had a lot of major surgeries like C-sections and knee replacements. Several years ago, I also had breast reduction surgery. I had four feet of incisions, and if all the surgeries I've had, the breast reduction surgery was the hardest, most traumatic, and most brutal. Having "bottom surgery" must be far, far worse than that! I can't even begin to imagine what that would be like!

[@Draco19970125]

That would be a hell. Instead of having a real, functioning male genitalia...you get an open wound what is unable to clean itself like a real vagina would do that.

[@cindyr3793]

I think your about the smartest trans person Iv heard online .

[@marios1861]

@@114Riggs more genuine than contrapoints is SUCH a HUGE stretch! WOW

[@114Riggs]

Mariano Ntrougka i have my reasons mate, not the time nor the desire to explain them. If you are a fan of contrapoints, fair enough, all the power to you. But the whole Vice piece about it and the Jordan Peterson video was not put in a fair light and i have plenty of points I don’t agree with, with Peterson. But her piece was bullshit

[@riplilhgz]

Kari Dorstad Sam Collins is also pretty smart tbh. He’s quite funny. You should check him out.

[@hiwelcometochilis9092]

Kalvin Garrah is also pretty good I think Blaire did a video with him He’s pretty funny and speaks on topics happening in the trans and lgbt community

[@schoomzer]

Kari Dorstad Not only the smartest, but the most reasonable.

[@Shadowsheartrose15]

"Rent is still due." lol I love you Blaire! And yes - I learned a lot, you're always so informative

[@broadwayzjm5257]

.

[@meganjade5706]

I have to say I am seriously impressed by how open you are with something so deeply personal. I don't know what it's like to have gender dysphoria, but I have a friend who has been going through absolute hell coming to terms with her body, and she seems to have the same thoughts about the bottom surgery as you, and when I showed her this video she damn near cried because she felt so alone in having these opinions until viewing what you had to say. So for that I very sincerely thank you. This girl is someone I care about very deeply and you made a huge impact on her and her decision to forgo the bottom surgery. I cannot express my gratitude enough.

[@rainbowdashsailormoon6005]

Megan Jade Your friend certainly is not alone. My fiancé also decided it is best not to get bottom surgery. The decision isn’t easy, and she wishes she were born with female parts, but in the end, bottom surgery just isn’t right for her. Sometimes she likes what she has down there, and that’s completely fine as long as she is happy.

[@j.r.5803]

@@rainbowdashsailormoon6005 In the future it might be easier to change it. Right know its kinda risky indeed. But should be really hard having a thing that does not fit you. Im really happy that i did born with all in its right places. It would be nice if the trangender would go viral in a way that many for just go with the trend would want to make such cirugies. That way it would improve and those that really need it would be able to do it with way less risks. Its kinds the aesthetics cirugies in brazil. They are kinda lab rats for the rich countries later have safest cirugies.

[@j.r.5803]

@@rainbowdashsailormoon6005 I do think it is already a trend is spain in order to be different and catch attention of others tho. Anyway im just being logical instead of emotional about the human rats. The truth is that those people that are just doing it for attention dont deserve that much emotional way of thinking about it since they do create wrong stereotypes about the trangender community. Also the attention seakers do it voluntarely. Rat labs itselves do not.

[@j.r.5803]

Also the sport trans. Some do it to be good on sports. Male going Female. What is kinda unfair thats true. But even women born women that compete but have high testerone in their body (genetic gifted in my opinion) are being told now to take pills to reduce theire testerone levels.... what next?... cut bone legs in order to not be to much tall than the average? If we were all the same most likely we would all tie in sports. Thats why genes are what play in favour on all and should no been cut down for it. But about the trans that do it for sports only they do it in a way to stay away from changing genders but enought to compete in the other gender category. That i consider unfair and most be solved. Maybe trans sports are the solution for it.

[@taylorw134]

I just want to say thar youre a great friend!!! And im glad youre able to support her like this, stay awesome!

[@keekers]

There is so much people don't know. I am glad you were an adult and did what helped you be happy. You did lot of research. I don't see any long term research on this stuff with minors. Except for the twins that were experimented on because of a botched circumscision (can't spell). It's like all of these children are lab rats and parents are sacrificing them.

[@rachealfaucher4520]

She’s right.. my husband had a friend / co worker that ended up being trans and he transitioned completely.. and even went back to work as a woman. She even had a you tube channel. And she ended up taking her own life shortly after fully transitioning. Very sad

[@vanessamaldonado5877]

Im so sorry to hear that a fellow transwoman took her own life, but im just wondering what was the real reason she decided to end her life, there is more to transwomen than just transitioning, and the problem is, as Blaire mentions, dysphoria can be dampened or heightened depending on how others see you, how others treat you, especially if you transition later in life, ppl tend to praise transwomen, but mostly pretty transwomen. Men would often treat women differently depending on their appearance, (or at least where i live they do) and if they can clearly see that you are transgender some of them wouldnt even treat you as a woman, so in the end is not the transition process that is at fault, but society as well. In the end only she knew the reasoning behind her actions, all that i have to say is that is very sad indeed and i hope in the future society would treat trans ppl in a better way.

[@rachealfaucher4520]

Vanessa Maldonado well what I do know is she had 5 kids and yes transitioned later in life even after being married and divorced. Her family / kids disowned her. She was extremely depressed. She also wasn’t the most pretty but I do not mean that in a mean way at all. And probably didn’t look as much woman as she would of liked too. I’ll find her KZbin channel and post it so you can see. It’s devastating. and the way she did too.. it was on the news. She took a rope and attached it to her truck and drove to the highest interchange on the freeway (you know those ones that go up and you have cars underneath you driving to a different freeway. Well she went to the highest one and wrapped the rope around her neck and jumped and her head was decapitated. It was extremely sad.

[@rachealfaucher4520]

Vanessa Maldonado p.s. her family must of deleted her KZbin videos because there no longer posted

[@rachealfaucher4520]

as Rod I’m so sorry I didn’t mean to ignore you at all. I just didn’t see it, genuinely. My husband was sad by it - he wasn’t super super close to her. But he owned his own construction business and he would let her on the jobs still even after the transition. He knew her for like 10 years or something a long time. And he did say she was very depressed and always talking about killing herself.. :(

[@rachealfaucher4520]

Vanessa Maldonado if you scroll down the post to 11-19-15 you will see her last post. She actually says some really remarkable words that I will never forget. In there, she tells you exactly why she decided to do it

[@CultClassicCage]

I wish more real trans people thought like you and didn't listen to people who are the fakest trans allies that cause more harm than good. 🙄

[@anastasgiselle]

Cassie Cage they do, we’re just not out & our about it

[@galaxysnot6276]

Tbh, the majority of trans people probably think like her, even if it doesn't seem like it.

[@ellyclaire1996]

Cosmic Drool unfortunately it’s the other ones who are always in the media. There are so many parents in the media now who talk about putting their kids on hormone blockers. Those kids might never grow up to have the ability to experience sex or have an orgasm. Sex is just impossible for some trans people. Not that sex is an essential part of life, but it’s sad that parents are letting children decide to go down this path when they’re still too young to care about sex.

[@bcc7777]

Yes, this is why "Detransitioning" is not always possible. Children need to know this, and know that feeling uncomfortable in their current body is pretty normal. Thank you for speaking out! You reaffirm to me that I am not "the bigot" for speaking the truth.

[@peaceintheworld761]

I agree I had doubts about my sexuality at 13….but it turned out that I stayed within my biological body. Parents should not push or have their children indoctrinated at age five. To me that is utterly sickening and it must be punishable . Wait until they become adults only then they can decide . If a five years old thinks that he is Superman would anyone let him fly out from the window???? Even though he or a she seems convinced to be Superman or superwoman???

[@peaceintheworld761]

Their parents should know better! Since they went trough puberty . Teacher should stay out of teaching the under age that is ok to transition . Parents have every right to oppose it! It is child abuser !!!

[@DX-d]

It’s NEVER possible.

[@abeeftec]

Its not not always possible. It is NEVER possible if you have surgeries. And if you take the pills Hormone therapy... it is only reversible by a certain amount. Never perfect.

[@Morrigan070671]

You can detransition whenever you want no matter what surgeties, including SRS, you have had. I’ve had SRS and my girlfriend paid for a boob job (she made a mint in mining stocks), but ‘ve been detransitioned since 2016. Where there’s a will, there’s a way.

[@erikastoncius6560]

She's happy and beautiful and that's all that matters!

[@mrsglitter8373]

BUT SHE HAS A DICK AND BALLS........

[@err0rc0degames]

Not having the surgery doesn't make you less trans. We support you!

[@silentwatcher4883]

Technically yes it does

[@williamfreeman6815]

Err0rC0de It actually doesn't make her less FEMALE.

[@molinj.710]

Silent Watcher explain

[@AbiZolanski]

Yeah, elaborate please

[@neothepenguin1257]

William Freeman Well it does because she has have a dick -sincerely, a transgender man who hasn’t had the surgery

[@Brobooke]

I'm on a Blaire binge currently, I just want to say that I constantly find things these days, especially right now, that make me lose faith in humanity. However, you are quite the opposite. You're such a lovely person, and of course I don't know you personally but I think the way you've established yourself is incredibly admirable and inspiring as hell. You're great and I hope you keep doing what you're doing because it's working for ya. Much love from Oregon.

[@ritamarie8018]

Brooke im also bingeing!

[@courtneyallen6741]

Me too Brooke!!!

[@thatbeaatcch9884]

Haha same! Dramageddon brought me here though. Sucks that under these circumstances that I found her.

[@3173alejandramartz]

Oh, yeah. Found her yesterday, I've been binge watching her since. She is great!

[@sianais]

Me too.

[@tiffaniarterberry8254]

I'm so happy I've found your channel. My nephew transitioned from Female to Male a few years ago. He also doesn't plan on having the surgery and your content helps to understand his decision to do that.

[@johnv9052]

“Gender dysphoria what REAL trans people have” shadeeee I love it 🤣 but yeah I literally say the same things when people ask me about phalloplasty as if u just magically stop ur life to go into surgery and come out like it’s nothing. And it’s not the case. If I could snap my finger and have it i would. But that’s not reality. It’s like other people think about these things more than you do cuz of their false assumptions and misunderstanding of a trans person’s experiences.

[@drewmungus5841]

Big agree, as a trans man. Everyone thinks that gender reassignment is so simple and easy. But especially phalloplasty is anything but. I'll wait to see if there are any improvements to the surgery in the next couple of decades before I decide if it's something I can't live without. Shit's just risky now and rarely looks or feels how you'd want.

[@kittyjeany]

same here. id love to have a D. but money, time, risks and results dont convince me to get it for at least the next 20 years. my mom and some of my friends keep bugging me over this stupid surgery and my old hag even goes that far to tell me that no one will love "half a man". like bitch. if youd shut up, the only time im actually bugged by it is everytime i go to the public toilet and walk past the urinals lol being read as male, even tho im a bit feminine, was always my first priority. relationship issues are a problem for future me

[@PrimeCircuit]

@John V Well, I figure it must be really shitty when nothing works anymore which can happen that way round, it is very risky indeed. Had a friend who had two emergency operations because the new junk wouldn't stay in place, I mean, that's the stuff nightmares are made of. Made me rethink my options. One can make up for the missing parts with imagination (and add-ons) as long as the feeling is good, but if that is gone, that's the worst.

[@PrimeCircuit]

@@kittyjeany Is it preposterous of me to think it's weird, that these people are so concerned/obsessed with your D or lack of which? I mean I heard these kind of comments too, but not from people who are clearly not qualified to make demands when it comes to my sx-life (like parents). They sound like they have generalized contempt for people, and they project it to other people. But not everyone thinks like that.

[@0MGitsRayRay]

@@kittyjeany im so sorry you have to hear that from family :/ there are people who will love you for you regardless.

[@brilieclubpenguin6853]

People don’t like you, but I think it’s because you keep it real

[@Payne..]

I feel sorry for people with gender dysphoria.

[@watermellie]

Should you though? I mean, everyone has problem's, there's still blind/deaf paralyzed people out there, some with all 3. Blair may have a little penis problem but she's also drop dead gorgeous, I bet if she could trade in that penis for a perfect vagina but would have to take a beatdown in the face with the ugly stick she'd keep the peen. I might be wrong. I feel empathy for anyone who's unhappy in their situation, she seems to be happy.

[@iono0000]

wish i had tits to compliment my cock tbh

[@adamduffield7782]

@@iono0000 leads to one question. Does Blair get a boner when she/he? Sees her/his? Naked boobs??

[@abagaillopez5546]

​@@conservativeprophetgirl5019 DAMN you just slaughtered them!! You go girl!!

[@UnownDepth]

Yeah same

[@pierre1396]

Absolutely spot on with your decision Blair, I think , such a level headed person , good luck

[@momokoraphaelishida]

It’s very disappointing that KZbin is stopping her from talking about important personal issues 😡🤬 shame on KZbin ! Monitise inspirational videos not rude obnoxious teens.

[@stockschill9451]

Shut the fuck

[@momokoraphaelishida]

@@stockschill9451 no I’m still gonna speak my mind enjoy being a silly, sad overly critical 💩 utter pointless crap. Happy holidays 😊 sayonara

[@stockschill9451]

@@quackss6384 bro shut the hell up your probably like 11 saying that I’m 9 like you know me , and I’m 18 not 9

[@sgtjohnson]

Or church preachers

[@momokoraphaelishida]

@@stockschill9451 woo 18 wow great come back what a burn 🤣😅 I'm being sarcastic by the way I think you're the type that would need things explained to

[@SummerNights213]

Blaire, I just need to say THANK YOU so much for talking about this, and for talking about post-surgical depression. While I am not trans, I am chronically ill, and I have had A LOT of surgeries. There are so many people who don't believe that post-surgical depression is real, and very dangerous. Any time you cut in to the body, there's going to be a mental reaction to the trauma, and to the healing process. I know after some of my most major surgeries, the ones that require the most down-time, I have really fallen in to some very serious bouts of depression. I really appreciate you actually talking about this, and shining a light on it. THANK YOU!!!

[@killertruth186]

I don't have as many surgeries as you do, but I hope that you would recover and get well.

[@AnnetteBond]

I’d heard about depression after open heart surgery (or even heart attacks), but I had no idea that post-op depression was a thing. As always, Blaire keeps us informed!!😊

[@onenerdvs9639]

I feel ya. After my spinal fusion I slipped into some major depression.

[@michz9304]

Yes! I've had to be down for almost 2 months now post-op on my right foot, the first weeks were fine and I kept a daily schedule to keep me organized, but last week I felt really low, and just started crying, it doesn't help that I live thousand of kms away from home of course, but it really made me aware of people who have to go through this for much longer or maybe for life, I don't know how they do it! I have a new awareness and respect for these individuals. You're very strong! All the best to you ❤❤🌹💐💐😊

[@ranoutofeyeballs]

That's because it's not real. Read the symptoms of depression lol. You sound whiny anyway so it's not at all surprising that you "coincidentally" had post surgical "depression". The treatment for depression is talking therapy lol...it doesn't exist. It's mental.

[@GenVee]

I had a friend who transitioned a few years back. She was extremely self conscious and got upset at any insinuation that she was trans. After the surgeries, she started taking stripping, prostitution and drugs. She eventually straightened herself out and became an english teacher in Thailand. She still never felt happy or normal and bounced around sexual identities. She eventually blocked me because I don't agree with all the gender madness going on. I hope she found her happiness after all that but my point is, a sex change doesn't change how you feel about yourself inside or outside and it won't make you happy!

[@fredayeshamuhammad1098]

Totally agreed.its completely a bad decision.thank gdness i passed that long time ago.

[@parishers6351]

Whole.

[@Churros1616]

It won’t. Cosmetic surgery hardly ever will make u happier. People don’t understand to need to pray, meditate and work on your goals. Not accepting that you are trans is not healthy for your mental healt. Love yourself. Embrace you were born a man and transitioned to a woman.

[@calebmurugi9260]

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[@danjones6702]

im finding a lot of people who transition are someone who have a hard time feeling accepted in their own skin and even after transitioning they still have these feelings.

[@jw5592]

This is a very logical approach it is refreshing and enlightening to hear. And you are right. There is much more to life than what’s “down there.”

[@hollywoodsmith5538]

OMG, I had absolutely no idea you were transgender. Not a clue! You are beautiful I don't know what you look like as a man but you just out there living your life and that makes me so happy. I'm just a regular old retired grandma but I like to think is young at heart. Keep on rocking it girl

[@show_me_your_kitties]

Lol this is so wholesome

[@imdva]

aw you’re a kind soul, keep it up grandma❤️

[@show_me_your_kitties]

@@imdva 💙

[@show_me_your_kitties]

@Daniel Jaramillo lmao oh shut up 🤣

[@wetookachonce6021]

@Daniel Jaramillo bro what 💀

[@davidtreacy98]

Blaire, you are very courageous for sharing something so personal like this. Do what you do, it's your life, you've got to make your own rules and you've got to do it your way.

[@EviydenceOnTwitch]

> Wants monetization > Nipslips You'll get it next time Blaire!

[@rockstarr1214ah]

First thing I noticed. 😂

[@scgillikin]

@@rockstarr1214ah same

[@madsgracie]

When?

[@JordoGarcia]

Time stamp? Lol

[@evangeline77x]

Wow, y'all got eagle eyes! I never would've noticed that! lol.

[@sassy-savvy]

As a biological female, I lowkey feel jealous of how easy it is to pee as a dude. No touching public toilets for a tinkle. Plus, no menstruation cycles, Ovulation mucus globs, and frequent Urinary track infections.

[@loissandereyes2253]

The surgery is scary and dangerous, so I can’t blame people not getting it

[@sexydudeuk2172]

not to mention expensive and can go wrong

[@tarataylor87]

Actually, bottom surgery has progressed to the point that it's not very dangerous and, particularly for the MtF, can produce quite satisfactory results both functionally and cosmetically (I've fooled cis-men). The FtM bottom surgery is obviously more complex, but if you've ever looked at pictures of the surgeries you'd be amazed at the results! Of course, there's always the chance of complications, though they're possible with any surgery.

[@shmeepness1700]

Its almost like humans arent made to transition from one sex to another

[@tarataylor87]

@@shmeepness1700 Humans aren't made to get breast implants, yet thousands of women do. Any surgery is an affront to the body, though surgeries to correct birth defects are needed. GCS is medically necessary to treat gender dysphoria. What determines whether we develop masculine or feminine attributes is just a preponderance of one hormone over another. The human body is amazingly pliable and adaptable.

[@shmeepness1700]

@@tarataylor87 where did I say that humans dont get sex transitions???

[@colleenperez5607]

You are smart not having the bottom surgery. Honestly if it ain't broke don't fix it.

[@sylviapferdestall4480]

lmaooo are u onison or just dumb?

[@colleenperez5607]

@@sylviapferdestall4480 well 8 others agree with me. If Joey doesn't care why undergo major surgery......When I had late stage breast cancer, they only removed one when I thought you lose both breasts. I was told they only remove the cancerous breast. And with regards to the one I have left the doctor said they didn't remove it because it's major surgery. I that my life is too short to be mean. Merry Christmas.

[@aimdog2000]

she’s actually recently said she’s going to have it. I think it’s because she might’ve found out she can’t reproduce so she’s doesn’t see the point in keeping her penis anymore. i feel bad for blaire, she really wanted to have a family of her own :(

[@chrisafp071]

Wait so she has a dick? I’m so confused

[@chrisafp071]

OH not that GREAT Yes I did but I’m an idiot and still confused. Ow is her boyfriend not gay? A dick is a dick...

[@aurienriley7966]

I’m a trans guy using my old KZbin. One thing I’ve learned is if you’re questioned about this, no matter how fed up you get, you are allowed to set your boundaries. But I love your transparency, patience and pride. Much love ❤️

[@stephenjemyers]

I get it . No one asks me about my penis in general convo so why should u have to go there

[@terribell6697]

I’ve read and watched interviews about the bottom surgery , it’s very dangerous …please don’t do it Blair , you’re gorgeous and you seem actually happy with where you’re at ….dont change !!! Much love 😘😘😘

[@chloejones3071]

Blaire you're absolutely beautiful. Thank you for being so honest about your surgeries and the "dark" side of being trans especially when the media seem to be glamourising it... love ALL of your videos and it always makes my day when I see a new upload from you :)

[@charliecocroft4764]

As someone who has varying levels of bottom dysphoria myself, thank you for making it feel okay for not being DESPERATE to change it.

[@virtualmartini]

Don't do it. Seriously.

[@k.c4178]

I’m female to male, I also don’t really want it

[@honda-akari]

If you are ftm, isn't there something missing? Like, I as a cis woman would be fine with changing what is down there, but when you are trans I am sure it would depress me to have the wrong genitals.

[@k.c4178]

本田盾子 well it’s different for everybody you understand that right? You understand there are risks that go with having surgery, lots of money involved and the fact that I’ve met plenty of people who don’t date me solely because of my genitals...right?

[@felix0-014]

@@k.c4178 same here (ftm). Unlike transwomen our surgery creates a tiny penis and any additional length/excitable functions require separate surgeries. Not to mention a higher risk of losing sensation with the surgeries we would need to look functionally "normal".

[@anitam5159]

okay....back in the 70's and 80's there were transvestites using the ladies room at the bar I went to....it was not a problem....but today everyone has so much pressure to fit a category of "male" or "female"......wtf happened.....?

[@alltheworldsastage4785]

@ᎽօʊᏒ ᏢᎬᏁᎥᏕ lol, preach!

[@lilamdan]

Separation in bathrooms started during the 19th century where more and more women started to work

[@buildbuddyplus]

ᎽօʊᏒ ᏢᎬᏁᎥᏕ lmao what the hell are you talking about. 😂 it’s because we have strict gender norms in the U.S, that’s why

[@Leon-yg5gm]

There's unisex bathrooms all over the world. They work just fine. It's such a non issue that it's insane to me how big of a deal people are making out of it.

[@aronchai]

Reactionaries trying to force things to be the way they were in some imaginary past

[@MysticTalkBobbyShue]

Even thought that is very personal to talk about publicly I think you have such a following and more to come that (for someone like you) to make a video on this topic will give those people who have gender dysphoria or questionable the reality check they need, to know it isn’t necessary to have ALL OF IT done, and I feel (by you sharing this) is kind of like that conversation mothers have with their daughter’s about their periods, meaning young adults who are thinking about having the surgery now KNOW from someone (like you) who has gone through it responsibly and not make an impulse choice. Great content, and who knows Blaire you might have saved a life too! ❤