Why I've been distant lately..

[@kenelrod4935]

Elayna: I watch you all in hi-def and I truly never noticed. You are all beautiful people and I'm surprised to learn you felt self-conscious about your skin. 99% of the women on the planet would kill to look like you. What is wrong with our society that even beautiful women are critical of their own appearance. My wife is a stunner. We had been married 3 years when she mentioned the "scar" on her nose. I laughed because I thought she was kidding. She had gone through a windshield when she was 17 and did, in fact, have a scar on her nose. It stunned me to learn she was self-conscious of something I never noticed. And trolls are trolls because they are insecure and lack humanity. I always try to see the good in people, but trolls have little to recommend them. Great episode and thanks for sharing.

[@timc2010]

I've felt self conscious of balding from my 20s. Only now in my 40s have I realized that beauty is all about your relationship with yourself - how you talk to yourself with your inner voice, and has little to do with any objective beauty standards, or external insults or compliments. More broadly speaking, it's important to accept yourself and others as they are - with imperfections and flaws - love yourself as you are right now, not some unattainable ideal. And give those around you encouragement, that they are wonderful as they are.

[@ljhoats]

I agree I've never noticed it. I had it really bad as the above the lip and the side of the face it looked like I had some odd mark. I tried all kinds of creams and everything nothing really helped but then it just went away. I think I had to be done with my kids. I had three children and after my son it was so bad and it didn't go away until after my third girl it lessened and then finally went away.

[@wwaldron3]

Well said

[@lma4891]

I think its wise to have your skin checked regularly when beeing so much in the sun. But your a beauty, do not listen to any anvious people! Greetings from rainy Germany :)

[@rwdyer2263]

Such a beautiful comment that echoes the thoughts of millions of us. Thank you for putting into words what most of us think.

[@jennyrussi3851]

“Long time listener, first time caller” is what I used to hear on radio programs. I always hit the like button but rarely comment. I’m not just saying this... I truly didn’t notice your skin changes in the videos. I’ve always thought that you are a smart, talented and lovely woman. And I still do - you still are. Thank you for sharing a very difficult subject. Your vulnerability will help others. I love your adventures, beautiful footage and amazing family. Wishing you all of the best.

[@leighrogers6825]

I legit hadn't noticed either, and after she brought attention to it, I had to look for it! Elayna, leave it too you to use your struggle to bring awareness and jump up and down on self-care platform! Once again, you're knocking it out of the park!!

[@jeevesponzi5257]

I'll second that.. I'm just a man sitting in a shed in the middle of nowhere. When I first saw you it was your physical beauty that was your worth. But you have exposed your self as a really wonderful human, and that aspect became more important. Your real worth, as a woman, as a partner to a great guy, than as a mother. Tobe honest right now, even if you looked like Riley , it wouldn't matter. Your worth is the whole of you. You are so deeper than the superficialty of everything, so thanks for that. And because I'm a man in a shed I need to add Still a 10 plus, easily.

[@kristydavy3291]

Ditto

[@suzysmith5200]

Your beautiful and I never noticed! X

[@9520benn]

Totally agree with these awesome people here! I didn’t notice either. You are lovely! I have been a long time follower. I get so excited for all posts and videos!

[@sophiaclarerowe1760]

I have never even noticed - this video wowed me as to what you’re feeling about your skin! You’re beautiful and have never even noticed anything other in watching you in your videos! After two kids, your body is insane and you live and eat so healthy - you guys are living your best lives and are such an inspiration to so many of us xx

[@glensettle]

Reading your own YT comments is always a gamble. People love being shitty. Love you guys.

[@angela1984a]

This. I really wouldn't care about those comments if I were you. Those are not any nice people...

[@TheHopetown]

Sticks and Stones!

[@Peanutdenver]

Those people who are shitty are insecure and have issues with their own looks/self/etc, so they bag on others to make themselves feel better. In the end they just look like selfish, petty and insecure people who are jealous or just angry at themselves. I never understood this behavior. Just remember to drink beer, have fun, before you know it life is done...so be good to one another.

[@GuyElliott]

Very sorry you receive those comments Elayna. I just can’t fathom some people! Ironically, I have been commenting to my family recently how I think you are more beautiful now than when you started this journey. I’m honestly with Riley - I like your freckles!! But more importantly - you should feel fantastic about the craft and skill you (and Riley) have developed over the past seven years. Love the channel and your journey. ❤❤

[@michyrising1]

I just started watching your channel... (came from Kara and Nate's). I just want to say I completely understand. You do what makes you feel beautiful because no matter how much people say, in the end it's all up to how you feel. Good luck on your skin journey.

[@rhiannonkelley3626]

i came from there videos too!!

[@nigelino]

I did too!

[@Alexisgwin511]

Same Michelle. K and N have brought me a couple amazing people I’m so thankful I found you guys though. Everyday is so challenging for me right now as I am the man in a very loving caring relationship and having a hard time deciding which route I need to take to where I can “provide” you guys are helping me mold my ideas and choosing my direction and just going for it. You all are beautiful and very inspirational ❤️‍🩹

[@nigelino]

@@Alexisgwin511 Thats nice to hear! If you need anything we are here to help! 🥐😄❤️

[@robertwheaton1422]

Elayna: Sadly there will always be those that try to push you down in order to make themselves feel important. You are truly stunning in and out and an amazing mom to your two beautiful children.

[@lotusdolphin]

I totally agree. I’ve never noticed your skin being anything but beautiful. But when it’s peeling off it’s looking absolutely gorgeous. We all have some thing that we’re not thrilled about with our bodies. I just thought both of you are beautiful people inside and out and what incredible parents! I truly mean that you really are both of you.

[@chrisjenkins203]

So, it’s other peoples “fault” that someone else has over thought a detail about themselves, to the point, they’ve gotten multiple unnecessary and painful cosmetic procedures? Yeah, that “totally makes sense” 😒

[@SalingSamantas]

I for one embrace aging. The wrinkles, smile lines, scars, all reminders of the great life we have had thus far. Your true beauty, and talent comes from inside, and gets better with age and experience.

[@FM-qm5xs]

Seriously I binged watched years of episodes in a few months and whilst I noticed all the haircuts (and laughed at family bangs) I didn't notice any skin changes until now when it was pointed out. Elaynas beauty hasn't changed. It's understandable that skin changes on top of integrating the newer identity of being a mother might have shaken Elaynas confidence. But I look forward to seeing her rebuild confidence and settle into the new shape of someone who is a fun loving girl, a loving mother and a stronger and more mature woman.

[@camsler]

This sums up, perfectly, what I was going to post. Thanks for saving me some time. And yes, Elayna, you’re only getting more beautiful with each passing year. 🏖 ⛵️ 🏝❤️

[@nancywinebarger6993]

Agree on all counts. And OMG, family bangs was HYSTERICAL! 🤣

[@magzzmay]

I don't think I've ever commented on a video before, but felt obligated as this hits home for me. I have suffered from vitiligo for half my life and melasmas as well (newly minted mom over here). I cannot imagine putting myself out there as you do and not only dealing with personal self-doubts, but absolutely cruel comments. Just shows what a strong woman you are for sharing this because you certainly didn't have to. Your candidness and thoughtfulness is what drove me to be a patron. Thank you for speaking up. You are GORGEOUS inside and out. Much love to you from Denver.

[@elisabethhowse]

I'm new to this channel by about four days, please know that you have an inner radiance that outshines any perceived flaws in your skin..I never even looked at your skin once, too busy being in awe of how amazingly beautiful and capable you are, and what an amazing existence you've built, you possess true inner beauty and it shines through your face.

[@heatherwalter4171]

I’ve been envious of how you bounce back so quick after the babies. This is a reminder that we all have insecurities. You are beautiful inside and out!

[@gaelleabdelaziz8671]

I’m one of those that hadn’t noticed anything. I hope that by sharing this with us, it will take a weight off your shoulders. You’re always beautiful in my eyes. ❤️

[@AndresUffert2]

to be honest i have not noticed at all, i have freckles and im used to seeing them. and i have never thought about commenting about it, is is what it is and it is not my place to comment on the looks, i mean i can say things but why would i. And i can ask, and not in a bad way, just curious. But on the other note, the editing is epic, likt this is really cool and a 30 minute episode got over so fast .. how .. . iea mean 30 minutes is a long time but this went buy fast.

[@wild725]

Came to SLV through Eamon and Bec. Love you guys. Love your journey! Elyana I’ve only watched the past year and started back when you were pregnant with D and as a mother myself I 100% understand why your skin is important to you! I know you’ve heard it a lot but seriously you are beautiful and I love how much I relate to you as a mom!

[@AmandaLewis]

It’s so wild how social media works ! I look at you and think wow she is in good shape , tan , and beautiful and never would think you struggle with self confidence due to your skin. It goes to show no matter what we assume based on how someone looks to us we all struggle with self confidence in some way or another. This took a lot to share and I think it’s something so important to bring up. Much love to you for sharing this 🦋

[@colinfay1211]

As Rylie said “freckles are cute”, as is your personality, which is all most of us care about.

[@markydunn01]

Amen!

[@lauraskeet9302]

I've really struggled with hormonal acne for years. All this time, I've been watching your videos and thinking "man Elayna has such perfect skin, I bet she has nothing to worry about, how does she do it" just goes to show we are all fighting our battles over our self belief. It may look perfect to one but we have no idea what they think about it. Thank you for your honesty, it's so good to know we are all the same and all have the same challenges. I appreciate your bravery 👏

[@gaylealexander-videovisibi1429]

I too have hormonal acne, and at 44 I thought I was over this. You are so right everyone has their own insecurities and personal battles. We are all just trying to get through the day.

[@francespalmer7374]

Yes I had this too and used to think the same!

[@krystalpabis7818]

Thank you for putting this video out there! I too developed melasma during my three pregnancies and from being a lover of the sun! The upper lip area was what made me most self conscious every picture and video made me look like I had a mustache. They have slowly started disappearing after my hormones leveled out but are still noticeable enough on my cheek bones and eyebrows that I had a random person ask if I was alright and they looked like bruises on my face. Being a busy mom it’s hard to find the time for self care but you are as radiant and beautiful as you were in your earlier videos! I truly never noticed yours at all! You will find your new mom of 2 identity with time. Your family is precious and I love the life you are creating for them! ❤️❤️❤️

[@megancroft3005]

This blows my mind! I watch your videos and think, “man, I wish I was as confident as her!” You’re gorgeous inside and out ❤️ a true role model, especially to young girls and other moms. Thank you for sharing 🥹

[@chrisjenkins203]

Yes, because sending the message to young girls that they are not pretty enough is such a “great” message. Especially when practically every comment reflects the fact that nearly every viewer has always viewed this person as being extremely beautiful. How can this channel be filled with such zombie like and unintelligent comments, supporting such reckless and potentially harmful behavior? Oh yeah, such a “fantastic role model”. 😐

[@chrisakridge8392]

I suffered terribly with Melasma after my two pregnancies, after several years it's finally gone. I feel for you, when you don't see yourself in the mirror the way you were, or want to be, it hurts. Hugs sweet lady, you'll get back to yourself in your own time.

[@FlyBrent]

So……I’m a gay man, and with that said, you are one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen. Please don’t let anyone ever make you feel any less than that. Why some people think it’s their right to criticize others looks in a public forum is beyond me, I’ll never understand that. Just know what they say is more about them than it is about you. You have a beautiful family, a beautiful life and everything you dreamed of. Don’t let a few nasty people ruin what you guys have worked so hard for, and more importantly deserve. ❤️❤️❤️

[@tinnwhistler7629]

Agree! You’re simply wonderful girl! I love hearing you sing and play guitar too-your vids and photography is incredible. Take care😊🌸❤️

[@cebnav]

Agree agree agree

[@nataliecollins3360]

👏👏👏

[@doritosnachos7478]

Absolutely gorgeous babe & you have a beautiful family!!

[@aaronwarren]

Agree Brent!!

[@ChristiAnnePlough]

New to your channel and I’m just hopping around, loving all your different adventures. You are stunning, inside and out. I’ve rarely seen someone so compelling, charismatic, yet calming to watch. You glow from the inside! Thanks for sharing your vulnerability. 💙

[@KristenDutton14]

i never would’ve thought you felt this way, you are one of the most genuinely beautiful (inside and out) person i’ve ever seen. looking up to you always! never stop being you because it’s a rare beauty.🤍

[@kayliin15]

damn... people are so terrible. I always look at you and admire your beauty, inside and out. you are truly such a stunning person.

[@justinerowe4626]

well said 👏👏

[@alexnew1677]

Watching this I sit trying to find the words to say. Kaylin Cohen is telling exactly what I am thinking. I watch Sailing La Vagabonde and live vicariously through you because I cant do what you do and am SO grateful for every video. Just know you and your family are loved by SO many people!

[@curtbrown7967]

My very wise mother taught me: “If you can’t say anything nice don’t say anything at all!” You’re beauty shines every episode!

[@finnlove4263]

Like your lovely comment. My mother taught me the very same thing! It was a favorite phrase of hers along with "pretty IS as pretty DOES" meaning be authentic, thoughtful and kind. I still hear her words when listening to my heart.

[@CarinaPiersay]

Still here at the end. You have a beautiful family. Thank you for sharing with us 🌞

[@jasonmatthewson8534]

I know this is an older video of yours, but i was catching up on some that I've missed. It's a shame in the modern age that people are made to feel ashamed of their natural skin pigmentation, and even worse, that shallow people feel the need to point it out. You are both massively inspiring to me, and I am grateful for all the hours you put in to bring us these videos. Parenting on a boat on inland waterways is hard enough, I can't imagine how much harder it is offshore.

[@alexherman1659]

Not gonna lie, I never even noticed the skin changing. Its crazy what can lurk in the background when your just an observer. I genuinely tune into y'all's channel like clockwork because of the reality you live in and the life you and Riley have created. Its fantastic, regardless of skin conditions, lack of posting, screen time or not. you guys are truly a blessing in my life and im grateful for you!

[@bryanlu93]

Same! I never noticed anything, and to hear her think it's been so obvious to us.....

[@Capfka]

Me too. I've never closely examined Elayna's skin until now that she's pointed it out. Guess what? She's still beautiful. Elayna, don't let trolling a**holes bring you down. I know it's hard if you are self-conscious about it, but for the few morons out there there are many, many more people who are like me - just appreciative of YOU as a person.

[@darrensquires7106]

You are a beautiful lady inside and out Elayna , don't let the negative comments get you down . You still look as beautiful as the first video of you guys i watched years ago x

[@trashpanda2312]

I read a bunch of the comments posted and I think some of them were not trying to be mean, but were concerned it may be skin cancer. either way you are 100% correct that she is a beautiful woman inside and out.

[@russelldienell1439]

Elaine you are one of the most beautiful girls I have ever seen. Don't let people get to you. Love to all 4 of you Doug

[@williamlantz4435]

I think your skin is beautiful with or without. It's you. Tell her Riley.

[@siafiguresk8r]

I love it when you ask Lenny "where are we" his responses are so pure and sweet! Love seeing the world through his little eyes ❤

[@brenlh6484]

I've been following yall from the beginning and I like Riley always see the beauty in you inside and out !!!!

[@anasobrino4736]

This took guts. You remain stunning. Don’t let others influence your sense of beauty because it’s from within & you still shine on. Everyone’s skin changes. You are gorgeous!!! Bravo for talking about it.

[@zuldo8577]

Took guts to tell people she has skin discolouration? lol

[@anasobrino4736]

@@zuldo8577 took guts to display vulnerability about the topic

[@nezzyknezzy]

Oh Elayna, it makes me so sad to see you allowing space in your head to negative thoughts about yourself. You are healthy. You are strong. You are smart. And, so capable and creative! And so many things on the list way before we get to 'pretty face.' And not that you are not. You are gorgeous! But that beauty is driven by all the light that comes from inside. Those spots on your face? They are beautiful because they represent motherhood. In a few more years, lines will show up around your eyes and forehead -- those will represent all the smiling and laughing you do with your beautiful family. The spots, the lines or all the mean-spirited comments cannot make you feel any one way. You control how you feel. You choose what you allow space in your head for. Girl, I don't know anything about the treatment and I might be completely wrong here, but that does not look like it's a viable long-term solution for your lifestyle. I love the sunscreen, covering, face routine -- we should all take better care of our skin but please reconsider the treatment. Please just let your face be. Let all of you be, just the way you are. I wish someone had said all this to me when I was a young girl. Instead I married someone who made sure I felt worse about myself every day. He nearly broke me but I gathered the last bit of determination and I am rebuilding myself one spot, roll, gray hair at a time... I will leave you with this thought: So...we all know about your face spots now. Maybe you don't need to hide any more. We love you and appreciate you. For me, I have been watching from the beginning. I feel like I know you, which is odd but true. You don't know me. But I know you, and you are amazing! ♥

[@rosaleejo]

Agree 100%. I’m a 64 year old mom of 3 with 3 grand babies. I’ve struggled with self image my whole life and just now am beginning to embrace my body and spots. You are beautiful because of who you are inside. You radiate joy, love and health.

[@bessiestewart]

thank you for sharing! i actually love your silly fun personality and riley's, too. that is why i began watching. and the beautiful adventure in the background, too. and i think your new growing family is super exciting and compelling. i've had eczema on my face before, so i totally know about how that effects your self esteem. it casts a shadow on your happiness in a strange way and all the emotions get so mixed up. sending you lots of love and support!

[@cheribee968]

I understand. You are a Gem. It’s amazing that this treatment is so advanced.

[@chloehagen]

You’re a gorgeous human Elayna, inside and out. I have Melasma too and understand completely how you feel. When people talk to me and I see their eyes wander to stare at my dark patches of skin. Happens all the time. It’s a horrible feeling, makes me withdraw and knocks the wind out of my sails most days. I absolutely applaud you for your strength and thank you for sharing. Ignore the haters, there are so many of us here who love you just as you are!

[@markfeldkamp6053]

As a dad with two doughier it’s makes me so sad and angry to know what someone would say could cause you to take these painful treatments. Your talent keep me watching every week. Thank to you and your family! Your content is the best!!! I look forward to every Monday when your videos come out.

[@garrettehman2104]

I truly have never noticed and I have watched your channel for years now. Commenting on someone's appearance is so messed up. I'm so sorry. You are beautiful!!

[@mjmikaelson]

I really like how you guys put the music in this video! Also the drone footage and transitions underwater is spot on.

[@jim34morrison]

Dude, you guys are the most attractive people out there. Keep being yourselves. Your personalities and choices are what really makes you folks beautiful. I hope your treatments go well! Sail on!

[@isaactaylor1833]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@tahlawilliams9928]

You're a beautiful woman Elayna, both inside and out, with two stunning little boys. 99.99% of people who follow your channel will agree with me. Let that perspective encourage and reassure you.

[@GardenGuy1943]

Imagine 17000 people calling you worthless ugly trash. Crazy

[@willudallmusic]

hear, hear!

[@bobching9509]

This has blown my mind. Honestly, I've always been jealous of your looks. Not a nice trait I know but you're just so stunning. You never seem to worry about your weight, hair and look so good without makeup. Its humbling but also sad to see that even the pretty girls face these issues. I suffer with acne and its a constant mental battle. I also work on a boat and I'm very aware of the aging affect that the sea has on you. Thankyou for this video, you've helped me more than you could imagine.

[@heatherreynolds5035]

I think this is the first time I've ever commented on a video. I've been watching your channel for a few years now, and am compelled to offer my thoughts. A - Your soul and spirit are absolutely incandescent! They are far more apparent than your complexion. I know that it is often very hard to make your heart understand what your head already knows, and that the struggle can just weigh on you. Please know that there are those of us out here that never notice anything, but your beautiful spirit.

[@deborahmccoy5619]

It breaks my heart to hear about what you've been going through Elayna. For whatever it's worth, I never noticed anything. I find your family absolutely beautiful. Much love to you!

[@heline9952]

I used to get insecure about my smile lines but I realised that they are a result of the all the laughs and giggles I've had. Your melasma is a result of you birthing two amazing boys and living the most incredible life out at sea! Be proud of them!

[@kp782]

exactly! :)

[@vanveenmatt]

Elayna, you are super beautiful inside and out! That's one of the reasons that attracted me to your channel in the first place, like, six or seven years go. I hope you don't worry about your looks too much. We ALL have issues with our bodies as we age. ALL OF US! There's nothing more normal! But keep up that amazing work guys. We all love you!

[@tammysaj9039]

I can't wait for a book to come out, I'm definitely buying it.

[@tammysaj9039]

Lenny definitely has Riley's eyes 👁️

[@jeffbroome5192]

This is crazzy!! I just saw this video for the first time and I have NEVER noticed that you had any skin issues at all! You're beautiful to me with or without freckles !

[@danateel]

Wow, I knew being a KZbin personality was rough, I don't watch a single channel where this hasn't come up but simply wow. I can't believe how rude people can be. Maybe it's my age, but I've been watching you guys since the beginning, and I've never thought of Elana as anything but beautiful. As a mother of two I didn't expect you to look the same as you did when I first started watching. If anything I've been amazed at how great you still look. I'm not a wordsmith so I may not be conveying my thoughts well but know that I have nothing but admiration and positive thoughts about you as a person. Be well Elana.

[@pamelahowell6101]

Thank you for bringing attention to melasma! I am a licensed master esthetician. A couple of tips: Make sure you are using the correct sunblock. Please use a physical sunblock with titanium dioxide and or zinc oxide. Both are reef friendly as well! As you know, wear a hat when possible! Especially since you have had several treatments, it’s imperative you keep covered for years (yes years) to come! Your melanacites in your skin have been “turned on” due to hormone fluctuations (it’s a protective mechanism) and also living on the water and extra exposure to sun and wind will keep the melanacites triggering excess melanin (think tan). So a hat and proper sunblock are the first two things. Next, product. There are tyrosinase inhibitors. But, they are typically chemicals. I respect you would like to stay away from that type of home/daily treatment in your products. Here’s a suggestion of some more “natural type” ingredients to look for in products: Alpha arbutrin ( from cranberries and bearberries) Mulberry extract Licorice extract Quercetin (antioxidant found in several fruits) Ferulic acid Azalic acid (usually found in grains) L ascorbic acid (The vitC I hope you are currently using. There are several types of Vitc) Please do not use lemon juice on your face as a natural lightener! The pH in lemon is way too low for your skin! Keep your skin well hydrated as well. Aloe and jojoba oil are great. I hope these tips help!!! Please reach out if I can be of help! Keep up the good work!

[@jeffcrozier3777]

Elayna, you are truly a beautiful person, inside and out. As somewhere who has struggled with body dismorphyia for a long time I totally understand how self conscious it can make you. Stay strong and know that you are loved

[@johanwintzell9292]

Through all the years I have followed your channel I have only seen a brave, tallent women working hard to live her dream. I'm sorry I havn't wrote this before, but I never had a clue it needed to be said: I have never seen a spot on anyones skin in your vids, just the happy smileys. I hope your treatment maker you feel better and that you do it for your own wellness, not because a few poor minds. We all live our lifes and we will get our scars, belive I know. The scars tell once stories and we all should be proud of them. Thank you so much for shairing your adventures. All Best Johan

[@elliebaar1710]

Hi! I have never commented before but felt the need. First of all, intimidation is the highest form of insecurity. I could leave it at that, but I will continue on. I found your channel with my dad. My dad was my best friend... and he was a sailor. He did not come from a sailing family - it was a passion he found and followed on his own. He cleaned boats in FL for many years - just to have the opportunity to be on a boat. He met my mom while working on boats. They got engaged and decided to move back to MI, get "real" jobs, have a family, make $$ and buy their own boat someday. He had smaller sailboats over the years to scratch the itch of being on the water. He raised us with a genuine and deep appreciation of sailing - growing up around power boats, we knew that there was something special about sailing and we were grateful to know and experience it. He was an incredibly hard-working simple man. He was witty, smart, kind, generous, and took the backseat so everyone else could shine. He achieved one of his dreams which was owning a 45 ft benetau sailboat. The next step in his life-long dream would be to retire and live on the boat full-time. He retired but he did not move onto the boat full time. Unfortunately my dad was diagnosed with lung cancer a couple of years ago, in addition to many other health issues he had going on. He fought SO hard and never once complained. He was the epitome of the perfect example of a man. We got him out on the boat as much as possible in the summer of 2020. Unfortunately, he passed away in May 2021. We still struggle to carry on without him on this side of life. What does this have to do with your skin? I have religiously watched your videos this past year. It has given me so much comfort - your family, the simplicity and remembering when my dad and I watched them together. I (we) have admired everything about your family and chosen lifestyle -- and I personally have especially admired you, Elayna. I am 27 and have been very self conscious as to how my skin looks at my age. The stress from the ups and downs with my dad's health issues, and the grief/stress of navigating a life without my dad have shined through in my skin. Seeing how young and beautiful you look has only given me more confidence and comfort. I know it's easy to focus on the negative (I teach 9th grade - they are MEAN lol and I take it personally sometimes) but just know that the MAJORITY of the viewers love you all and think you are beautiful - inside and out!! Thanks for reading and sail on. xoxoxo.

[@RoseThistleArtworks]

I totally never noticed. I think you looked sun kissed and gorgeous when you guys were finally able to get back out to sea. Everyone seemed SO MUCH happier on the sea. You're right, though, everyone has their things/struggles, and I understand that. But, I swear I never even noticed anything but you all being so much happier now.

[@dermondsquad8557]

Elayna I have this to say, we are here to watch you and your wonderful family go through life and share in the few moments you let us see. It is, has been and will be a amazing journey. Thank you for sharing this clearly heavy thing with us all and i have to say from a respectful stance. You look amazing, always have and will. So, I like to think I speak for the community when I say we support you no matter what you decide to do :) I've been watching you all for years and I love seeing everything you post. Keep up the amazing work and providing a bit of light to some dark days for me personally and I'm sure dozens of not hundreds of your followers. Love the lot of you!

[@menectus8959]

I would never think anyone as beautiful as you would ever struggle with confidence but I guess it gets to us all at some point….the truest beauty shines from within and you are shining bright!! Thank you for sharing your story, you have thousands of people all around the world routing for you Elayna 🥰🥰🥰

[@kristinbutner697]

I’ve watched you for a long time ….probably close to the beginning of your channel and lately I had the conscious thought that ‘Elayna’ looks more beautiful (inside and out) and so comfortable in her self. My thought was that motherhood has transformed you to the most beautiful version of yourself.

[@analisapinto]

I second that ...🧡

[@fishandfloral]

Sharing our hidden insecurities helps to remove the stigma of talking about these types of issues. Kudos for putting yourself out there and sharing something that is deeply personal to you. We all have things we don’t like about ourselves. The more it’s talked about, the more normal it seems.

[@nowayoutstp4]

Yes! 👏

[@cyberpunk_d-va490]

This saddens me that people feel the need to post comments regarding appearance. Elayna you are truly a beautiful human being inside and out. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your insecurities, that can’t have been easy. I’m sorry people have made you feel this way. You are amazing, and stay being who you are. Though do what ever makes you feel happier. Much love. I recently have been watching your videos from the very beginning and trying to catch up, I truly never noticed any changes. Every episode I just think how beautiful you and your family are (even with Riley’s bangs haha)

[@rachelzachary1245]

People nitpick women to no end💔 You are beautiful in all ways. Whoever is reading this is also❤️

[@BradMcCallum]

I too have a stunningly beautiful wife that deals with this as well. She's tried a lot of different treatments as well, and endures a lot to deal with it all. It came up during pregnancy and can get really aggravated by the sun. She is self-conscious about it, which always makes me sad, but I love her just the way she is.

[@craigwilliams5965]

I impressed with how well Lenny is talking. And polite too with that "No thank you " Growing up!

[@tinabligh9525]

Watched prior to your babies 👶🏼 you are amazing super women/mother & beautiful inside out. You do you 💕🙏

[@HANGWITHBRE]

Seeing the comments you put up on the screen…. Wow. I’m so sorry you have to read those comments. I just started watching your channel but I think you are absolutely beautiful inside and out

[@Penny1321]

Ohhhh beautiful girl, you are a stunner. I have never noticed anything other than that. I hope you can find strength in positive affirmations and love. Your energy and wisdom can surpass this. X

[@green.bean.]

Those comments are disgusting and I’m so sorry you have to deal with that. Been watching you all for years and have always been in awe of how gorgeous you are!

[@shayneperraud2759]

You’re literally a dream Elayna. Thanks for sharing your struggle with beauty standards. No one is immune to hate. We can all relate to that. You’re amazing inside and out.

[@googlemustdie]

You are GORGEOUS!! Honestly, YOU are the only reason I and many others watch the channel. Your husband is a very lucky man and must be quite a gentleman to have you in his life. There will always be negative people. I know their comments cut deeply. I yearn for a world where people think before they speak. Safe travels to you and yours. Please don’t be shy! We want to see more of you, a LOT more of you!!!

[@tymckittrick360]

My boyfriend and I are finally getting a liveaboard monohull in November after 2 years of saving, we've been watching hours of your content for the past couple of weeks and I've only recently started watching the older videos. Truthfully, I think motherhood suits you beautifully! Here I am comparing myself and my life to you, only to see that you struggle just as much as anyone to love yourself. You are absolutely stunning, truly a joy to witness along with your hubby and two little ones. Give yourself credit... we're in a pandemic, on the brink of war, a worldwide food shortage, our planet is dying and little things on top of that certainly don't help but are easy to focus on when nothing else is resolvable. You're killing it(: hope to see ya'll out there someday!

[@FrederickKoehlmann]

Oh my God, I forget how the internet can be full of insensitive, dip$#!ts. Elayna, do NOT listen to those idiots. Their comments say more about themselves and nothing about you. Girl, you are beautiful through and through, as Riley will contest too. Just stay healthy and enjoy your life, and ignore the downers. As a 62 year old guy, one thing I can say is that we all change with the years and we need to be comfortable in our own skin. It just contains what's most important, ourselves. Cheers and take care!

[@cheyennemiller3203]

It's mind boggling that people think it's okay to make comments like that! I constantly find myself thinking quite the opposite on how incredibly STUNNING you are! I heard you constantly downplaying your feelings like "I know it's silly and I shouldn't feel bad about this" but you have the right to feel upset! Your feelings are valid. 🧡

[@redempthawilliam7065]

You are absolutely BEAUTIFUL!! I love how you have positivity viewed all the negative comments and tuned them to someone educational and very uplifting. You rock!!!

[@morgsypunkass]

I've watched you guys since the beginning and I've never commented, until this time. Elayna, your comments about finding your place on camera since becoming a mum and losing confidence because of your skin really resonated with me. You are not beautiful because of what is on the outside, it is what is on the inside and the mark you make on the world and the people around you that love you that matters. Thank you for the content that you make, for sharing your battle with mental health and please keep on living the life that others only wish they had.

[@StephLa]

Everyone noticing your skin and I’m over here like wow I wish I could look that beautiful after two kids. Lol! Everyone has something that they struggle with and You will find your peace with it one day. Your amazing! 💪🏼

[@kathleenwonders4220]

I am so sorry that this world and so many people are just ugly inside! I just found your channel and your family is a joy to watch! YOu are all beautiful! How brave of you to share your story.

[@ajnfl4365]

People can be so cruel and I feel your pain. You are one beautiful woman inside and out.

[@davetaylor8858]

The old cliche "beauty's only skin deep" comes to mind Elayna. I've watched SLV for years and commented just recently that you've developed from a pretty, young girl into a beautiful woman and I can honestly say I've never noticed the melasma. It's obviously affecting you psychologically but is it worth going through the pain and trauma every six months ?? Best wishes for the future with whatever you decide to do.

[@jamessidmouth]

Imperfections are what make us human, unique and indervidual. You look gorgeous regardless of what you think of yourself. P.S thank you for sharing your vulnerabilities definitely not an easy thing to do and I'm sure other will feel better about them selves because of your bravery.

[@DanielRodriguez-yc3ke]

Elayna, Riley, Lenny and Darwin. Y'all are four ridiculousley beautiful and charming humans. Im proud to be able to learn from you through your channel. I watch you for many reasons. One resaon that comes to me with every episode i have watched is my own primary phiylosophy. Work Hard - Be Kind. And sometimes have to Work Hard @ Being Kind. And You and Riley exemplify this in every aspect of your lives that we are allowed to see. Thank you for being the change this world needs to see. LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!

[@carey7441]

Fierce Video. Thanks for having the courage and strength to make it.

[@Alina-dz7go]

You’re always stunning Elayna and I admire the energy you spread - don’t listen to the nasty comments!! x

[@jls288gto]

Hey Elayna, just remember that a diamond with a flaw is still a diamond! Been following y’all for years, don’t let the haters get you down... love the work y’all do!

[@GardenGuy1943]

A diamond with a flaw is worthless garbage. Don’t lie.

[@marcycarpenter284]

You are beautiful inside and out. As a mom who is also finding her new place in life I admire your honesty. Loving watching your family.

[@Dr.CF2]

Wow! Don't listen to those judging you in any way!! You are beautiful and you will change beautifully as you age! I have some nasty scars but I ware them with pride as they remind me of two wonderful kids that make my life worth living every day. So wonderful for your husband to support you in any way you need!

[@jadeygame]

As a mum of four, my body has changed... And that effects me and my self love especially when I see photos of myself before babies... And that is without having millions of people comparing videos and commenting 🙈 it must hurt so much... But one thing I have been learning through counselling and age is that I need to stop comparing to my princess days... I am now a queen and this body has given me so much in life. As long as I am doing all I can to look after my body and keep it healthy then that is what matters and that is the same for you ❤️ you are an amazing mum, wife, friend and influencer and you are doing the best for your body, caring for it so ignore the haters as much as possible and look after you and those who love you

[@carlavdp]

Elayna, In my personal experience I never noticed you being distant, I noticed some uneven color on your skin but I thought it was only due to sun. It never crossed my mind to write anything about it. It always amazes me how people nowadays are so entitled to write those things. As you can see soo many people here is giving you support. Honestly you are my inspiration as future mom, I don't know what's your secret to keep in such a good shape and in such a good mood and do all the adventures with your family. Today I see so many parents that don't even want to leave their house and they make so life complicated making crazy rules and itineraries...my goal once I start my family is to keep traveling and have a more asy going parent style like you and Riley. I wish you could do a Q&A about parenthood. Your channel, is for me and my boyfriend our common ground and an inspiration to us. We love you

[@heronemosheppard5401]

Very beautiful. Blessings on your motherhood to be, your partnership, your adventuring life. Your loving way is such a gift to the collective World. Thank you for being so loving and honest.🙏🌈🌿🦋

[@angijohnston]

I have never noticed anything on your face… except your smile. You are seeing something the rest of us don’t see. As for not being a ‘young girl’ anymore and becoming a mother. We have all gone through this journey with you. It has been beautiful to watch. (We’ve all gone through our own journeys, most of us without being as brave as you)

[@vibekesvenningsen4005]

I never noticed your skin has changed. You look amazing. And for Riley: I almost ran into a 400m container ship after crossing the Panama Canal. I had been so focused during the crossing and wanted to celebrate how successful I had been I completely neglected my responsibility and the heavy traffic. You are both doing SO good! Lot of love❤

[@mimilengle574]

People don't realize how much their comments can have an effect. Social media is beautiful in so many ways, but as a woman I've seen how much confidence and love for my body I've lost because of it. Thank you for sharing something that must be so hard to open up about, sending love your way. You are a beautiful person inside and out

[@pkane5472]

Perfectly said.

[@sandyc6569]

👍😊

[@brittanyandrews1431]

That’s crazy that people say such things. They see 1% of your life and have no room to judge. God I think you are stunning. I wish I could look like you❤️❤️❤️ absolutely beautiful!! Keep your head up babe.

[@McCoolerThenU]

Hi! I've gotten a HALO Laser treatment for my melasma. Had amazing results. I've never done Fraxel though so I can't compare directly. My husband got a vasectomy so I could go off of the oral contraceptives which was fueling my melasma. The 2 combined treatments; no more birth control and HALO Laser treatment has cleared my skin almost 100%. I understand how Melasma can make one feel and I wish you the best!

[@charlottekirby7411]

Hi Elayna!! I work as a laser technician & medical aesthetician. I just wanted to say that I am so sorry you are struggling with your melasma right now, I see the distress that it causes in women's confidence daily. But I couldn't imagine dealing with peoples comments as well.. Although melasma is usually caused by female dominated hormones (yay us!!) sun exposure does make the pigment darker. Finding someone who might be able to balance your hormones may help! From my experience people do have the best luck with prescription medications and topical creams that are used to slow down the melanocytes in the skin (you got Ferrari style melanocytes girl and you want to slow them down to a Honda civic haha) But I can understand people not wanting to go down that road. Using lasers and medications to treat melasma for someone who gets your level of sun exposure does make things more risky as heat and the sun can aggravate it. (However if medications are taken appropriately it should be fine!) That being said the Fraxel (1927 wavelength) does do a beautiful job at clearing sun damage on fair skinned patients, however I would be concerned that the heat from the laser once your skin has initially cleared up may make the melasma worse, and getting sun exposure so soon after treatment could increase your risk for hypo pigmentation (white spots) which are not reversible, and potentally create more sun damage because your skin is so comprised while getting more sun exposure. If you are looking to do a facial treatment I would recommend the Sylfirm X as it is not as sun sensitive as the Fraxel, although it would be multiple treatments so that could be tricky. Don't do any treatments or use any products that are too abrasive as this could make it worse. And I am sure you are so sick of hearing about sunscreen by now.. but finding a good mineral sunscreen (which are reef safe!) is much superior to a chemical sunscreen (not reef safe:( ), and reapplying every hour will help! And remember people who have a negative option on your appearance are TRULY the people who's options do not matter. You are insanely gorgeous always have been, always will be! Lots of love

[@debrak3594]

You are so generous to give her all this information. The sun is a big driver here and mineral sunscreen is a must xo

[@naomigreig6996]

Hi Elayna, I have this too. This information is good. Also I read somewhere that something in green vegetables help. I'll try and find it. I have laser and always wear sunscreen as well even on my neck 😂 xx

[@victoriarose9802]

My mum put me on to "Wild Ferns" Manuka honey moisturiser with sunscreen from NZ. We both found that it cured our sunspots. Still, we have to be careful in the sun x

[@fifeejenkins]

Elayna, I think you are literally one of the most beautiful human beings I have EVER seen!!! I honestly didn't even notice the melasma. People think they can comment on anyone just because they put themselves in front of the lens. Of course, people have the right to form opinions but it doesn't give them the right to put someone down. You are just as beautiful as the very first time I set my eyes on you! Actually, I would take that back and say you are even more beautiful since becoming a mother.

[@c9566]

You are incredible and strong. Thank you for sharing this with us. Skin issues might not seem like a big deal to an outsider, but I am a 34 year old woman that still will get horrible acne breakouts every now and then… and it truly depleted one’s own self esteem. Your job is in the spotlight, quite literally, and it makes even more sense that it would be very hard to look at yourself on film. But holy moly - you are one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen! And we’re here watching you guys as humans, sailors and parents and I promise nothing takes away from that. Thank you for sharing with us. Thank you for being honest!

[@jamienolan2185]

Oh my gosh🥺. This broke my heart but at same time Really IMPORTANT you speak on it. Social media can be an ugly, dark place when people are hiding behind a scene. Do you want to know something? I don’t post myself EVER on any platform. NEVER EVER. I’m extremely self conscious about my weight and looks. It kind of shocked me to hear that you have some of the same insecurities. I look at you and I see a beautiful, gorgeous, sweet, smart, goddess. Truly that’s what I see. But we all have our insecurities. Im glad you spoke up about it. Maybe it will help you feel less alone. Because you are not alone. Not at all. Remember you are beautiful ALWAYS

[@Merbella]

Elayna, I don't know if you'll get to read this, but I was so touched by your honesty. I've always thought you were so incredibly beautiful. It's humbling to me as a middle aged woman to hear that even a beauty like you struggles with her looks. I had no idea. We need to stick together as women and lift each other up.💪 Sending you lots of love and respect 🧡

[@sharoncochran8508]

Perfectly stated, Merbella!

[@nomihermon8937]

From all the moms out there who have imperfect beauty, thank you. After seven gorgeous children, the only battle scar I have is melasma. I am very self conscious about it and haven't found any cure. The only thing that makes me feel better about myself is knowing that it is a constant reminder of the seven beautiful souls that have come into this world through me. I wouldn't change that for anything. I've always viewed you as having such natural beauty and it is nice to know that we are ALL vulnerable. Life is perfect in its own imperfect way, embrace it!

[@dinosaur279]

I don't get it, it's like a battle scar that you shoudl be proud of showing it off. It's not even ugly, it's quite "normal" looking according to me

[@stephanieh.777]

Nomi, I've heard some people with Melasma who've embraced their look - they said they're not caucasian, or Asian, or African - they're Calico... Your attitude is the right one to have - scars are just reminders of how awesome life has been and still is!

[@dougdekuiper3194]

It is not imperfect beauty it is perfect beauty. Just because one changes does not make it imperfect.

[@nomihermon8937]

You are totally right! I really have to work on myself to accept it!

[@nomihermon8937]

IMHO, imperfections are what make us perfect.... Does that make sense?

[@4711Pegasus]

I am so sorry that you have been hurt by insensitive people. You are a beautiful person in all ways.

[@andrewbrimer3360]

dont let people bring you down, you are beautiful!

[@lexoxoxoxoxo169]

I’m teary eyed typing this because your genuine beauty and overall confidence is something I have looked up to for years now. You really are so beautiful inside and out and I am so sorry for the harsh words of others.

[@catpurrington5805]

I feel the same way!

[@rainbelledrops1858]

If you don't want harshness, stay away from social media. Simple as that

[@catpurrington5805]

@@rainbelledrops1858 that sounds like victim blaming. How bout people stop being mean to people. Simple as that?

[@gemmagem257]

3.5 minutes in and this is just breaking my heart. You’re SUCH AN ABSOLUTELY STUNNING woman. But I get it 😒 Stay strong girl. ❤❤❤

[@Cole_Cross]

At 37, I'm realizing that I was lied to about acne going away after my 20's. I DGAF about much re: my appearance but for whatever reason , when my face looks like delicious pizza, I lose my confidence. I feel you. I truly do. It's gotta be much harder being in the public eye. Happy you've found something that helps (even tho it sucks)!