Why I've Gained Weight / Gaby & Allison

[@whits672]

Alison, this was brave as shit. Thank you. Somebody else needed to hear it as much as you needed to talk about it.

[@augustwogsland3309]

Whit S +

[@moeezS]

"Mental health matters more than any weight gain." "It doesn't matter what your weight is, it matters how you feel about it." Exactly, Gaby knows the truth.

[@abhijeetdave33]

Messofanego as a doctor, I partially agree with this statement. Yes mental health is very important I don't deny that. But to say "it doesn't matter what your weight is" is just absurd. Being malnourished or over nourished is not physically healthy, and it can lead to an early death. Diabetes is a huge killer in the states. Where I live in India, mal nourishment is the bigger problem. So your weight does matter, you can send yourself to an early grave if you aren't careful.

[@laurenc9458]

Both are important, personally I wouldn’t feel mentally healthy if I was overweight. I’m slim but still want to loose weight, I’ve lost around 15 pounds and I feel so much better. Before I didn’t want to wear anything tight, I’d buy clothes and always say “I’ll wear this when I loose weight” and now I do and feel so much better. Also it seems like most overweight people have some mental health problems, of course you can at any weight but being fat doesn’t help.

[@ferninthehouse]

Lauren C I agree.

[@ryt1995]

Kudos to Gaby. Wish everyone else could be more like her. People should realize what's on the outside really isn't that important at the end of the day.

[@MrApplewine]

You should feel bad about it so you try to figure it out.

[@OracleAugust]

I like the new Allison, she seems more outspoken and confident than she was when I first started watching. I'm glad you're happier now, Allison!

[@whycicle1247]

p *oh*

[@Simran-sr1wc]

Your dog looks like a human and I love it

[@jayplays3248]

MyNameIs how does the dog look human

[@sylviahastenteufel363]

Crying cause I see it

[@chynnhowe]

Just as I read that I noticed that too 😂😭😩

[@lokken23]

damn now I'm having chimera girl flashbacks

[@Madcapredcap]

It looks so done

[@FabulaBorealis]

Your happiness is showing Allison which is great, I think we've all seen it through the progress of your videos, the haircut was just the beginning. Also being strong is so much better than being skinny.

[@distantignition]

It's probably also a good reminder that what you see in the mirror is not what other people see. I wouldn't have even noticed a weight change in Allison if she hadn't specifically pointed to it. And I just want to say, despite being a guy and therefore not having the same societal standards being shoved at me from every direction, that no matter what these two look like, they're both my role models. I don't have a lot of those, either.

[@agustinvenegas5238]

As a skinny not-that-strong guy I agree, it's a lot more practical to be strong

[@Breerox108]

I LOVE LOVE seeing a more genuine side of Allison and am excited to see you two discuss things in a more real way.

[@kaylalastname2797]

This was honestly SO incredibly helpful. I used to be very skinny, like a size 1 (I’m 16 and 5’4 for reference) and I got on Zoloft and gained weight. People used to tell me in the locker room, “Kayla you’re so skinny ugh I wish I was your size” but they didn’t know that I almost never ate and was incredibly suicidal. When I went on meds I also tried to eat regularly and I became a size 4. (Not fat by any means but larger then size 1) so now I’m 133 pounds and I have people telling me, you’ve gained weight. But guess what? Fuck them because I’m actually eating more then like 400 calories a day now. I’m glad you made this video

[@patiavila3668]

even tho these types of comments dont affect me, and even if its a compliment, people shouldnt make comments about someones weight

[@kellyrtillson]

SLAY QUEEN

[@OrangeBerry921]

It's been two years since this comment/video but this is hitting me so close so I thought I should say something! I'm going through the exact same journey, started on Zoloft about 2 years ago and I've gained so much weight - before starting meds I was so skinny and I'd get so many compliments about my size and how clothes fit - but I was constantly contemplating suicide. Now I'm a bit fatter but I'm so HAPPY! And I feel so good about my body!! I felt lonely for so much of this, but thanks Kayla for reminding me I'm not alone 💕 You've really really helped me feel better about myself. (not to mention how similar our names are, too! haha)

[@theknight3583]

Dude you're fine! Fuck those people, happiness is more important then looks

[@flamshiz]

i really appreciated how real this conversation was. there wasn't much pretense and the insecurities were faced head on instead of being joked aside.

[@kyrb273]

The dog has human eyes

[@BurntWifi]

Kylie Bailey 0__o

[@buzzingnoise]

AHHHHH

[@atonalvanity4034]

I SCREAMED

[@meelomellow2590]

Hahahaha

[@joyitadarling5815]

Thank you so much, now I can't unsee it. :/

[@jellybeesplease]

Allison, please do NOT listen to those people that tell you to change meds. Your mind is the most important right now! Besides, you're still just as gorgeous as you were before. You're lovely okay? Do what you feel is best for YOU.

[@grouch314]

xkillzbillzx yes! If the meds are working, don't change them just because of the weight gain. If the meds don't work, then change them by all means but don't risk your mental health just because you've gained a little weight. It's not always easy, I know. It took me a while to get used to the weight gain when I started these new meds but also these meds are saving my life so it's worth it.

[@hycron1234]

I'll just put this lifesaver here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fqSboJdqnr9gp6s

[@hyonchulstiffler7133]

I love how open and honest JBU with mental health issues.

[@Anita-lk4bh]

The most important part of this video is that Sugar actually moved and barked. And also fuck people I think you both look great. Lots of love 💕

[@Rachel-xf3op]

Anita Ann she’s alive!!

[@brunoaraujo7016]

talk about changing, baby

[@Sam-be4yy]

When Allison is talking, it almost seems as if she's crying so much that it makes me feel like crying hahaha

[@nat2002]

Her voice sounds like she's about to start crying at any moment :(

[@juanchavez1176]

Allison your new chill attitude is nice. So what you’ve gained weight, being happier is better than looking thin.

[@sophieschnake4742]

Have always liked the couch videos more than sketches, love the style of discussion. As long as Igor still guest stars ~once a month, I'm happy

[@a.m1003]

That dog is a living meme.

[@itsezhxo]

Jessy Kane yesss

[@chris51282]

As important as the message is... that dog is the real mvp

[@TheGoldenwolf522]

Im crying what is his face

[@KayKrazie]

Allison looks like she can be the leading lady of 50 shades of gray.

[@theartisthasarrived]

She has a great personality so she's obviously the better choice unlike the actual actor

[@rainbowspoonie]

I've always thought this!

[@roxierennel68]

She looks like Anastasia Grey!!!

[@JaylukKhan]

It would be a much more entertaining movie with her in it.

[@emilydickinson5422]

I absolutely LOVED this conversation!! Bringing attention to mental health over physical standards of "beauty" is soo important, and you guys spoke about it so well! Also, neither one of you need me to tell you this, but you're both gorgeous. Seriously.

[@katiefrantz4761]

Unhappy self-deprecating Allison was very entertaining and adorable but I would choose happy healthy Allison every time. I have loved watching your show, yourselves, and your relationship evolve over the years and am a better person for the things you have created and shared with your audience. So excited to see what you do next and how body positivity will factor into your content. This show has been something for me to cling to through my own mental health disasters and it is so encouraging to know that there are women out there who make the world better and keep it real. Love and hugs

[@emilypecsok9044]

It's so meaningful to hear Allison open up about how her medication affected her weight, it's so nice to hear someone else going through similar things and how they deal with it, I greatly appreciate the love and honesty

[@chileeeeee]

I'm the dog

[@535zz]

Number 1: didn't notice the weight gain til you pointed it out. Number 2: Gaby, everything you said about it is spot on. Your mental health is waaay more important than your physical body shape. If your physical body shape negatively affects your mental health, then it might be worth making a change. Only then. Number 3: I like the seriousness of this serious topic but I'm really going to miss the comedy. Number 4: very sad that you won't be doing sketches anymore bc they're so witty and fun but I'm happy that you're both doing well in other projects. Also, SUGAR BARKED, WUT.

[@Maggie365]

zz535 yes, this is a wonderful comment!

[@alexxxxxx412]

Omg I’ve literally never watched a more helpful episode of JBU in my whole time watching this show. I love and appreciate everything about this episode! While I’m a little sad that there won’t be sketches, I’m very excited for the new, long-format, genuine talk show! Y’all are funny no matter what’s happening. Also Allison, girl, you look fine as hell no matter what size you are

[@richardbourton4523]

Please don't downplay the comedy in these videos! It's your natural wit that makes you so watchable and I've always been amazed by how you so effortlessly bring humour to difficult topics like struggling with growing up LGBT and mental health issues. It makes you unique and you play off each other so well. It's sad to see the sketches go but the reasoning behind it is great; we're all so proud of you. B please don't push the couch show away from comedic discussion even if it is looser and less directed. The final gag after the black title page at the end was such a relief after the full video. You're so funny, and you brighten my day, please don't push that aside for total seriousness. There are thousands of earnest, serious vloggers out there, your relatable comedy about big issues is what makes JBU so special. Watching your videos cheered me up when I felt depressed and alone at university (I was very homesick), it was like, at any time when I felt sad, having two playful, fun friends ready to cheer me up with their odd couple banter. Please don't lose that for seriousness. Sorry for rambling and you probably won't even read this but I wanted to say it. Your videos have meant so much to me and a swerve into abject seriousness worries me.

[@emmahoffmann1289]

I'm so unbelievably inspired by you and your growth as not only a person but as a woman with mental illness. People who say otherwise are hurting themselves and I really hope that you continue to understand that and stay on the path you're on. You're healthy! And it is beyond inspiring.

[@rickawads]

Sugar moved at 4:28. Incredible I love this new concept.

[@musefan4]

Ericka Wadleigh when Sugar barked it genuinely shocked me. Sometimes I forget Sugar is alive and not just a prop.

[@meganriehl3005]

Sugar barked cause she suddenly realized what Allison was talking about, so she was like "hey!! Don't talk about my mom like that!! Her being happy is way more important than her body!!"

[@rebeccaplowman6367]

I hadn't even noticed your weight gain until I saw the title of the video. Even now looking at you in the video, you aren't overweight. Sic that protecc pupper on the haters!

[@Beksin27]

As someone who had a nervous breakdown several years ago and was forced to go on medication, I fully empathize with you, Allison. When I was hospitalized, I weighed less than 100 lbs because of the mental illness, and the medication made me regain the 20+ lbs I had lost; I then put on 15 lbs, then another 15 a year later. The scale continued to creep upwards, and I eventually stopped weighing myself because I couldn’t deal with it. It was one of the hardest things for me personally that I’ve had to deal with in my adult life, because my family always prized thinness - particularly my mother; much of her encouragement came in the form of complimenting my slimness. Not having the same body anymore made me question myself a lot, but in many respects in a healthy way - what was I basing my self-esteem on, and was “skinny” all I was, and all I wanted to be? Adjusting to being on the heavy end of average actually made me appreciate that having the “perfect” body does not solve your problems - on the contrary, in my teens I had been borderline underweight, and miserable. This experience has radically shifted my priorities and made me a stronger person that looks outward, not just inward, seeing others despite how I’m feeling. I’m glad to see the strength and courage with which you face this, and so appreciate your taking the time to talk about it.

[@Zukooooooooo]

Allison got more likeable actually

[@ChloevK]

A three minute cold open! How lucky are we!!! On a more serious note: Do NOT change your meds! I didn't even notice! As someone who has been on a "cocktail" of medications for most of my life, getting marginally better and then slipping back and getting better again... It is ALWAYS when you start to seem "sane" that everyone else, subconsciously or not, wants you to be the "broken" person they knew. It often has nothing to do with you and everything to do with other people not being able to reframe their idea of who you are! The hardest part about mental health, for me, is when I start to feel the battle with my brain is finally coming to an end, my battle with everyone else's idea of who I am begins. And that's the most I've ever typed in a KZbin comment so... Fart noise!

[@mirage..]

I'M SO PROUD OF YOU ALLISON!!!!!!

[@warmlavender5525]

This is an old talk but I came back to it because it was extremely comforting to me when this video first came out. I gained so much weight from depression and later meds. I am considered plus sized (size 14/16) and I peaked weight wise around this video. I’ve lost some weight now but then I deeply was upset but now I’m really happy I gained weight. Being fat is not a bad thing. I found a lot of joy now, more than I ever had while being straight sized. Being fat, people do react really badly to me and my body, I’m going to be honest. Less people (specifically men) are interested in me dating wise, people make rude comments, but I’ve found so much confidence. I do things and dress ways I never would have while thin and obsessively dieting. Anyway, thanks for this video it helped me stay on meds that have helped me so much.

[@geopowered]

I've been watching this channel since 2014 I think and, genuinely, your videos are still among the ones I get most excited for. If anything, I feel like the couch shows have only gotten better as time goes on. The classics are great too though. Obviously just my opinion, but I want you to know I appreciate your work.

[@latronqui]

AgentKFox same here

[@manalm6709]

AgentKFox I agree I was here since the beginning and I've loved every single series/style, it's refreshing to see how chill, short and sweet their videos are when in reality they an actual team and probs that was shocking lol but I seriously hope they continue to do THEIR thing bc it'd be really sad since no channels really have a similar feel to it like this one does.

[@elisedoan7089]

I fucking loved this video. Especially Gaby speaking on different body sizes. And I am stoked that Allison is in such a better place that she can see her improvement. I recently got to that place personally and it is so freeing to be able to say “that’s a different, worse off version of me. I am better now and I can do more and better things.” Growth is the best.

[@mashleyfan1]

OH MY GOD LONGER VIDEOS YEEEESSSSS THIS IS WHAT IVE ALWAYS WANTED

[@The41791]

mashleyfan1 I

[@realboi4835]

what i'm REALLy freaked out is the way your HAIR looks the SAME every day. its perfect. like a lego helmet. i want to remove it like a lego helmet.

[@brothertn708]

Real Boi 😹😹😹

[@fuzzyredponcho]

This rlly crack me up thanks

[@booknerdxoxo2156]

😂😂😂

[@justinekim8744]

I laughed Hahaha

[@ztrewq9]

Allison's bangs are back right in time for 50 Shades of Grey 3.

[@happinessisach0ice]

ztrewq9 this comment is life

[@THEJEDI7747]

ztrewq9 hahaha!

[@SimbaTLK21]

You, sir, have just made my day

[@Livingeidolon]

In my mind, Alison has been secretly staring in those movies

[@nivarad]

LivingEidolon that was the joke

[@clarissaflores7327]

I won't lie, I was a bit skeptical about this "transition" in the format of the show. BUT AFTER YOUR HONEST AND OPEN DISCUSSION ABOUT WEIGHT AND INSECURITY AND OUTSIDE INFLUENCE, I AM 1000% HERE FOR THIS.

[@BerrySexxyx3]

I agree with you and also just wanted to comment that we have the same name!!! :)

[@grouch314]

I'm so glad you guys are talking so openly about taking medication if you need it. So many people have preconceived notions about medications, especially antidepressants and talking openly about them really helps to destigmatise them.

[@okapiorca]

Holy shit. Thank you for sharing so honestly. I've struggled so much with depression and medication and my weight. I'm so grateful that you've found something that helps you. I'm glad you're healthy. You give me hope.

[@Bibi51497]

Allison! Don’t forget that muscle is heavier than fat! Feeling strong is such a great feeling and I hope it doesn’t go away for you 💪🏼

[@foxxit6259]

Honestly, I loved this. Not because of the topic, but because there was a topic. When I found first found this show I loved that it would take a topic/question and discuss it while still making jokes. When the content became bullshiting around for the entire video and then quickly answering the question and saying goodbye it threw me off, but I still loved that you were both having a good time so I didn't mind. But this is what I love about JBU, and I am so excited to see the changes that come this year!

[@natalieparker9710]

Foxxit I agree completely.

[@bellrose2659]

I think talking about mental health is a really good topic. I really enjoyed this :)

[@thesurvivorssanctuary6561]

Allison is gorgeous! She can totally pull off being big bootied, and Gaby's haircut gives me life!!!

[@ashleykane2895]

Allison, your mental health is way more important than your appearance, especially considering how physically fit you are! And i am so happy to see you happy lately! it is obvious how much healthier you are and I am proud of you.

[@ashleykane2895]

also I can relate to you about the gaining weight. I would and still do feel insecure about my belly fat, and friends dismiss it bc I'm just a small person in general. When I'm being reasonable, I recognize that I'm growing and healthy, but I can't help but to compare myself now to when I was younger and was skinny with abs all the time without even trying

[@Fluffybunniii]

Ashley Kane better to not physically die than to be insane tbh

[@dumbbitchjuice]

spoken like someone who has never had a mental illness. thanks 4 ur sage advice

[@ashleykane2895]

minou excuse me?

[@katesh6766]

I agree✨Thank you for making this comment, it made me feel happier❤️😆

[@toastcalm]

I like this longer form and discussing an issue! And I'm glad you're doing what's right for you! 😊

[@o0danieller0o]

now when i immediately rewatch the videos, ill have 22min of content instead of 10!!!!!! amazing. i love you guys. support you fully on every journey you embark on.

[@soph9352]

I've been going through a similar thing right now as it's exam season, so I've had to start prioritising my mental health over my grades. But it's so hard to prioritise your mental health sometimes because there's no reward afterwards for not running yourself down. You don't get a little certificate at the end to say well done for putting yourself first. And it's easy to stay up all night studying, or going off your medication to lose weight, because the results of that are what people praise you for.

[@emilymasuda6299]

Sophie Buckley I’m proud of you :)

[@DaxIsAName]

Omg I think this the most emotion I’ve ever seen from Sugar in a video. And if you gained a little weight, that’s between you and you. You’re not fat, you’re healthy, and you look great. I know that you are in the spotlight and you’re constantly judged, but I hope you can drown that out with confidence.

[@jazrajawbreaker]

while i understand your good intentions, fat and healthy are not automatically opposite and it's dangerous to push the idea that it's one or the other.

[@greensteve9307]

Weight is only a part of health: Age, height, body shape, and especially muscle vs fat content are all important factors.

[@lyrrr.8059]

I'd argue the other way around, I think it's dangerous to push the idea that fat and healthy do not have a direct negative connection. What I'm trying to say is that yes, it depens how you define "fat", weight is only a part of health, a little chubby is definitly not unhealty and definitly healthier than being severly underweight, buttt there is a certain THRESHOLD where the weight starts to unavoidably harm your health. My perception is that most peoples defintion of the word "fat" is beyond that threshold and in a world where obesity is a very, very, very serious problem, especially in the USA, we should not try to beautify a word with negative connotations, just because it's overused.

[@Jaclyn_Lizzi]

Thing is, if you gain a noticeable amount of weight (in fat, not muscle) in a relatively short amount of time, it's *probably* not because of healthy changes to diet/exercise. That doesn't make it anyone else's business, but pretending sudden weight gain is perfectly healthy is not exactly wise either. It usually isn't.

[@jazrajawbreaker]

no matter what, fat or thin, your health does not determine your humanity. it is not about beautifying a word but letting every person in every body know they are worthy of love and respect. I know your arguments, they're a dime a dozen and pretty boring. whatever threshold you've personally chosen, doesn't matter too a world where fat people are literally abused on the street just for existing. if you've not lived your life in a fat body that was never going to be anything else, you don't really get to decide what our lives are like, when we should or shouldn't love ourselves, or if reclaiming a word that is oft used to reduce us to nothing BUT a body. there are people in fat bodys who are vegan, who go to the gym every day, who have chronic illnesses. but none of these things are your business and nobody should have to justify their existence with caveats.

[@Mokey923]

I am proud of Allison tbh. It takes a lot to admit that you need to be on medication.

[@sammygoodz4984]

Also, sorry for all the comments, but HOLY SHIT this episode was so helpful. I have also been having weight issues because of antidepressants but it's so so validating to hear you guys acknowledge that it's not about the weight, but more about how I feel about myself. Ahh I love the vulnerability and sincerity in this video.

[@MiddleClassPrincess]

sammygoodz same times a million. I’m in the same spot as Allison, I’m the heaviest I’ve ever been because of antidepressants and I can’t lose the weight. But her saying that it’s more important to be happy was very therapeutic almost!

[@divergentgurl1414]

the fact that they are talking seriously about a topic

[@MeliOrsini]

So glad to hear that you rather be happy than skinny 💘 that’s a very powerful thing to say considering the reason why you’re “fat” (which you’re not) is because of meds. Stay strong Allison! Also, I loved the honesty, I miss the sketches but I think these kind of videos let us know you better.

[@Bananainacar]

People are only calling Allison fat because she is bigger than she has been before. If it were the other way around everyone would be saying "oh look how skinny Allison is". She just looks healthy and normal (with beautiful hair). In addition, who the fuck tells someone they care about to go off medicine that helps them function so that they can be smaller?! That blows my mind.

[@nonono777]

No one is even saying she's fat, she said herself the comments were about her GETTING fat.

[@laraperalta379]

In the begining i feel the dog is judging me

[@bezaaddis1758]

Haha same

[@erikadavis21]

I also gained a lot of weight when I was on zoloft, even though I was working out a lot. I knew that was a possible side effect, but I guess I somehow forgot, and had no clue why I gained all of that weight, until now that you pointed out that the medicine is causing the weight gain. You are very right, Allison, your mental health is far more important than having a skinny body, and it's not like you are just gaining weight, but you are putting it on nicely while getting fit, so there's no reason to feel ashamed.

[@TheMoonKid-]

I like these types of videos much better than the skits because I can relate to them. Skits are skits but when you talk to eachother past a script it feels real.

[@thehydrangeaandtherose2902]

Me: hey Allison: I can do a LOT of pushups

[@annajulia9232]

I don’t know why most of people has gaby as their favorite, i mean yeah she’s awesome, but Allison is so relatable and even though she has a lot of problems she’s open about it, and that’s nice. I’ve learned a lot from her and i hope she conquer everything she wants in her life. Thank you Allison :)

[@jonathonross4447]

This is a huge deal, JBU. Weight gain, depression, suicide, relationships and spirals and their correlations; medication, side effects-I love you for this chat!

[@jennakent5303]

that comment was so mean i love the show the way it’s been the last couple weeks and i’m so excited for the new direction too!!! and i think allison has gotten even more likable and relatable over time, now you and gaby feel like old friends :)

[@anonomus8709]

Gaby’s right: you do get bigger with age, especially in your late 20s/early 30s. I know a lot of this fan base is younger, though, so I don’t expect y’all to get that. But believe me: it’ll happen to you, too. And you won’t even see it coming.

[@SourEggz]

Lisa Marie Girl... you are so correct! I used to be 145 pounds and I gained an additional 10 pounds in the past 3 years that I have been struggling to get rid of. Like of course, I’ve gained some other weight but that last 10 pounds will NOT GO AWAY!

[@albertbrammer9263]

It happens to both sexes. You can either work out more and more, or starve yourself to maintain the weight you were as a teenager/early 20s, or accept it and try to stay healthy. I think many people would like to lose some weight, but most are like me and like to eat what I like.

[@rachelwhite2210]

Lisa Marie Yes! Your 30s are so different than your 20s. You have to adapt your image of yourself as you age.

[@videoguy640]

Yeah your metabolism slows down. Doesn't mean that is healthy to keep eating and exersizing at the same amount. Though I agree with Gaby, Alison should def focus on mental health

[@CashCatMoney]

Thank you so much for saying this! At 26, I just can't burn off calories as fast as I used to when I was younger. I miss being able to eat EVERYTHING I wanted and still being skinny. But I was super suicidal and sleep deprived, and just overall unstable. Now my mental health is completely stable and everything in my life is settling down quite nicely, but despite working out and eating right, I'm just....bigger. I'd rather be chunky and healthy, then skinny and dying.

[@TheOneEV2]

Wow positive body episode with Alison and Gaby. This video does speak volumes. At the end of the day, as long as your chill with who you are, it doesn't really matter what other people think. As someone who struggles with weight and issues with looks, and is all over with the gayness, to hear two people sit down and just be real clicks with me. Finding the right meds to help sort out the crazy works. Hitting your late 20's early 30's and that 'don't give a fuck' stage helps. You two are busy. You both do you. Both here on YT, and with everything else behind the scenes. I'll still be here. ❤

[@Larissa-gw3oc]

Over the past year, I've put on a substantial amount of weight. I went from being told daily that I was "so skinny" to now having a hard time finding clothes that fit me. I had medication changes for anxiety and I feel the most calm and myself I've ever felt. Your mental health is so much more important than your size. I look back and see that I was actually an unhealthy weight and my body is shaped more womanly as it should be. Should I exercise and eat better, yes. I think anyone could say that. I'm doing well mentally and I'm proud of myself and I'm so proud of you for taking control of your health. You are such a great role model for women and so talented. Thank you for being so open about this topic for all of us who needed to hear it :)

[@iiMaJellYb3aN]

*ALLISON IS NOT FAT. SHE AND GABY ARE ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL WITH GOOD SOULS. THEYRE PERFECT AND YOUR OPINIONS DONT MATTER*

[@Dario31d]

Ok

[@AmberScatesChannel]

This was such a real chat I really appreciated it.

[@ameliajensen6099]

I don't know what that girl was talking about, I loved your laid-back / jokey advice pieces. They were funny and (sometimes) insightful and you guys never once acted like you had all the answers (as some other youtubers do sometimes). That being said I still really liked this video style too, I think you guys work best when you do what you wanna do, and you let your conversations flow naturally. Basically you're both great and beautiful and I just wanted to say so :) Also thank you for talking about this cause I've also gained weight recently and have been struggling with the whole idea of "I would be happier if I lost it again" which is bullshit so thanks

[@Diamondelight92]

I lost about 25 pounds on Zoloft because I am an bizzaro outlier. And I felt amazing about my body and I was wearing all the clothes I'd always wanted to wear and looked straight up like Kendall Jenner. But I also couldn't cry on Zoloft and that resulted in me being really tense and on edge all the time because I felt like I couldn't let my emotions out when I was feeling them. So I went off Zoloft and gained the weight back plus five pounds. And now I feel fat and I hate by body and I binge eat all the time and want to go back on it mostly just to lose weight but I had a great cry today and that felt really good. Idk what I'm trying to say, this video just meant a lot to me! I'm so glad you've both found meds that work for you and have managed to make some sort of peace with your bodies. I want to be you guys when I grow up!

[@camietinydancer]

I've been on Zoloft for a year and haven't gain or lost weight even though I notice it is harder to lose pounds while dieting than before. But I have the same weird feeling about the not being able to cry, just like being nauseous and not being able to vomit if that makes sense. I'm affraid of quiting it though :( everytime I try I have major breakdowns

[@nat2002]

I lost 10 pounds in like 2 weeks on my antidepressants but had to stop them bc I was violently shaking all the time, had migraines, awful dreams and even started to hear voices

[@TheMoxxii]

Zoloft made me completely lose my appetite and as a result I lost some weight, but that also made me relapse partially into my eating disorder along with all the other side effects (feeling hyperaware, anxious, fainting) finding a good antidepressant is weird man.

[@bluey1257]

OP try a different medication! Zoloft gave me terrible side effects and didnt even help my depression. Not every medication works the same for everyone. But I had that same emotional suppression that you had and it honestly made me feel worse.

[@charleneamponsah9972]

yeah same ive lost a dramatic amount since starting zoloft and im not sure how i even feel about it

[@kwadleigh2487]

I dont usually comment but I've been a fan of Gabby and Allison since Buzzfeed days. I followed you guys to JBU and I love seeing all the other content you two create. I can't wait to see what you both do with your talent and beautiful minds. Never stop growing and creating!!

[@taylornpickle]

As someone else who is struggling from weight gain from medication & eating disorder/addiction recovery as an adult after being very very small for all of my teenage/early 20's years, thank you for posting this. Allison is most certainly not fat, she is beautiful, and she reminded me of why i need to pay attention to what's more important, which is health over the opinions of others (and sometimes even my/our own opinions.) Thank you guys for always managing to touch on such important topics!

[@taylornpickle]

also low key will fight whoever is talking shit to Allison, just give me a call and i gotchu

[@NotAnotherKuromi]

If anyone comments that you have gained weight they are probably complementing you as I assume you are at a more healthy weight now. I wish you all the best in your recovery & journey.

[@mochafishonatreetop]

LISTEN 1) Don't feel bad about not having time because you're occupied doing other career things, THAT'S GREAT. we love you. For me personally, as long as the show goes on a semi-regular basis then all is well. 2) I honest to God did not realise Allison had gained weight until it was pointed out?? even then I thought "not really though?". 3) Who are these people in Allison's life telling her to switch meds so that she can lose weight? Gimme their address, I just wanna talk. 4) Allison is beautiful no matter what shape her body is because your happiness glows from the inside. I've literally been so happy seeing you guys happy. Gives me hope that someday I might find the right cocktail of meds and be at peace. 5) people are rude, they can fuck off.

[@mochafishonatreetop]

I forgot to say, love the longer video! be serious be funny do whatever you want!! as long as you two make content, we will be watching 😁

[@noelleirina5628]

Nurul S. What are you talking about though, she used to be skinny! She's noticeably fatter! Her face, her arms, everything! I'm not saying it's bad and she needs to lose weight, but come on. If you have eyes, you're gonna see it.

[@mochafishonatreetop]

Noelle Irina Don't know if you realised that there were other comments pointing out that they too didn't realise that she had gained weight until she pointed it out in this video. I guess some of us aren't as concerned about a person's appearance enough to notice.

[@bitnotgoodyeah]

man i'm sorry people are being so rude in comments! i really hope eventually the internet stops being a place where the rule of thumb is to not read the comments. i really liked this video and am really looking forward to the next one this channel puts out

[@BuildsByRoo]

Hey thanks for being so body positive! I’m on anti depressants too and I’ve struggled for years to accept myself and my body, but it’s been getting better recently. I think I needed this video! You girls are so smart and kind and wonderful. ❤️

[@portopilzi]

Strong Allison is good Allison

[@duncanapisdorf]

Igor is like a period. He comes once a month... if you're lucky.

[@TheCheezeFactor]

Elizabeth Apisdorf hahahahahaha oh my God!

[@alexcheato6769]

I love the couch talks it’s so comforting like i really do watch this every morning

[@icesk8rgrrl]

Allison! I also experienced weight gain on Zoloft! I didn't even realize it until my parents pointed it out, and I was so confused because I was working out way more than usual and eating healthier meals than I ever had before. I have now switched medication, and my theory is that Zoloft made me really hungry ALL THE TIME. So even if I had a salad for lunch, I had a lot of salad and then extra snacks constantly throughout the day, and I gained a lot of weight in a fairly short time (3 months). I have since switched medication to Lexapro/Escitalopram, which has worked a lot better for me. So proud of you to talk about body-positivity and working out to stay healthy through it all! You look great, as always

[@ClarisaLenhart]

carlemagne the exact same thing happened to me! I recently switched to lexapro and my weight started going down and I’m not hungry all the time now

[@AmberKingmusic]

Same here it was my mom who pointed it out to me out of concern, but also my clothes stopped fitting and it sucks.

[@ashleysanchez1163]

Same thing here. All of the weight gain from my antidepressants is what triggered my eating disorder.

[@Laurel0143]

3 Cheers for Lexapro! That stuff is life saving

[@clairekilbarger-stumpff9769]

I didn't experience the weight gain because I'm 16 and still have pretty awesome metabolism, but I was extremely hungry al the time too!

[@MoldyWarts]

If being skinny wasn't the magical gate to mental health and happiness before, I'm not sure why people are acting like it would be now. You're beautiful and wonderful, all the more so for seeking out ways to be happier and healthier - and if that comes with a side of thighs and a bit more cush in the tush, then I say all the better.

[@AllieHanichak]

5:01 my favorite caption. You said "I'm on zoloft" and the auto-captions are "My mom's olaf"

[@OvSpP]

Allie Hanichak 😂😂😂 what's an olaf?

[@ishikasingh2220]

Breakups are so hard.. Mental health is very important more than weight. Lots of love and support to you Allison. You are beautiful💕

[@katiec6471]

My medicine makes me not care that I'm fat. Not only did I laugh out loud, #relatable

[@megritziff4120]

Oml sugar’s face is so hilarious in this video 😂😂

[@shazayaman]

Megrit Ziff was just thinking the same thing 😂😂😂

[@ameliawalsh991]

Megrit Ziff lol, I thought I was the only one that noticed

[@evelynquail3498]

She’s such a queen

[@SetsuRyuuji]

I support the idea of a 10 minute weekly couch show with Sugar sleeping on Alison's lap. That was super cute

[@heartquaked]

Megrit Ziff I’m crying 😂😂😂

[@bookworm2468]

I just want to say that I genuinely appreciate you both, in all your forms. This video really hit home for me, and it’s nice to hear two people I look up to talking about accepting yourself in a very real way.

[@engelucy1]

ugh I feel this SO MUCH! I've been on Zoloft for 6 years and no matter what I do, the weight isn't going anywhere. I'm a super healthy vegetarian, I exercise every other day, and still that pesky 20 pounds belongs to my anti depressants. When Allison mentioned deciding if you want to be skinny and sad or chubby and content, I feel that soooo much. If being skinny means crying in bed everyday, I'll pass. I'm struggling to come to terms with that every single day and accept myself as I am with my anti depressant love handles. It's a constant battle of acceptance...and I'm working on it. Thanks for making a video about this!

[@alexiscuenca6086]

Your mental health is number 1. Everyone stop body shaming. Self love.

[@gracie2697]

Sketches were my favourite part but I’m excited to see what you guys have coming, definitely sticking around for it😊 also thanks for being so open about medication and whatnot its really helpful to me. Everythings always changing whatever you do, I’m here for it👏🏻💚

[@emmynoether9540]

gray sea 👏👏👏 Well said. I agree 100%.

[@minty.bliss.]

I loved this video, I used to be so concerned about my weight. One day I’d think I was too thin and would eat a lot, and another day I’d think I was too fat and I’d not eat at all. Thanks for talking about this y’all ❤️

[@lencyteresa]

Minty Bliss yes, that was literally me on the way to work this morning just thinking like what if I don’t eat at all for like a day but then I was like no! I loooove foood I can’t just drop food :( but SIZE DOES NOT MATTER

[@lindajennings9978]

Minty Bliss I

[@ireallyreallyhategoogle]

Actually, fasting from time to time can be good apparently.

[@minty.bliss.]

Ireallyreally Hategoogle i seriously doubt that, isn’t getting nutrition consistently so much better for you?

[@ireallyreallyhategoogle]

Maybe, i think it might have to do with training your body to use fat reserves instead of always using what's just been digested.

[@lilyleith7327]

i am obsessed w this show and the sketches omg like i binge watch it every. single. day. i don’t laugh out loud at many shows and youtube vids but there’s something about your humor that makes me chuckle every vid. that girl is a fool

[@JemmyJoeAGoGo]

I am pro real-talk-JBU.

[@FreyaC94]

As a long time fan I really enjoy this direction, tbh haven’t ever gotten sick of what you produce but every time you switch it up I continue to enjoy it!

[@viki4971]

the subtitles at 5:04 to “ so i’m on zoloft” are: “my mom’s Olaf”

[@RaccoonInACocoon]

hahahaha

[@juliagomes6458]

ok, so what i feel is that i'm really gonna miss old jbu. the sketches and questions. but. im really happy for you two, for being in a good place and doing so many more things like the book and other projects. and specially for you, allison! im really happy that you're truly happy. anyways, im gonna miss old jbu but know that im here to support you and want you to grow. thank you for the amazing past years full of fun. here is to the new xxx

[@jessicadavis4541]

!!! You’re mental health is ultimate priority! You are beautiful, we all love you here. His channel will always change and grow, we’ll be behind you always

[@BowlingForGazpacho]

I'm so happy for your mental health status, Allison!!! It's so amazing that you're in a place where you can let that shit roll off of you. Both you and Gaby are so smart, funny, clever, uplifting, and beautiful that it is nothing more than the insecurity of less enlightened individuals to want to tear you down. Keep creating and killing it at what y'all do and I hope I have the pleasure of working with you some day!

[@fakesidekick]

Ok, yeah, I'm glad you mentioned being the strongest you've ever been, b/c I was watching like, "Alison's arms look like they've gained MUSCLE, not fat..." I've gotten strong in the last couple years, and it's the most gratifying thing ever, because your body can DO stuff.

[@ceyaro]

I liked the jokey attitude. I feel like people that don't go through mental health issues don't understand that being jokey about it is so helpful. I relate so much to your jokes! Obviously we can be serious, I think we're all very aware of how serious our shit is, but joking about it is a nice way of coping with it. That way at least half of our lives isn't serious.

[@leahmcgonigal433]

I can't wait to see the new show style but PLEASE keep Igor! Your group dynamic and chemistry, in my opinion, really adds to the show. I can't wait to see more from you guys!

[@amya5369]

Just wanted to let you guys know that I've watched this channel for around 3 years, during which you've answered my question once and I've basically watched every single video you've ever put out. No matter what I'll definitely be sticking around, and the couch show has always been my favourite (although the sketches are top notch). Allison you look amazing and I didn't see anything different until I read the title of this video, but I'm really glad you were so brave to share this and that you're in such a good place now. Love you guys, and screw and people that would feel the need to bring you guys down in any way.

[@notoriusc]

I just love you guys so I don’t care what you upload as long as you guys are enjoying making it and I second what everyone else is saying that you are beautiful (And I know you didn’t make this to get all these compliments but they are true!) I hope you are having a great day! 😊

[@evercuriousmichelle]

Agreed, if you're happy, I'm happy. :)

[@ellisonbrookey]

2 years late but this video is helping me so much with my body image i adore you guys!