Why I've never been in a relationship 🌹

Why I've never been in a relationship 🌹 | Solo date in Stockholm

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@joyfra3549 Ай бұрын

Stockholm is one of the most difficult places for dating with serious intentions. Many guys want to just hook-up or have friends with benefits. Don't compromise your value system for any of them. You're beautiful and wise. The right one who is ready to 'grow' with someone and emotionally mature will appear at the time time. If you're open to online dating then do so without limiting yourself to only guys in your area. Things really got worse after Covid. I'm not in the dating market but I see what my friends are going through. It's great you're open to solo-dating.

@jubiterr Ай бұрын

You’re so sweet ♥️ tysm!

@Geotechdev 27 күн бұрын

❤❤@@jubiterr

@latebirdlouie Ай бұрын

I'm so glad that you liked the vegan place! I am also positive on solo dating. At first it was a bit scary/awkward/challenging for me to be at a restaurant and at a bar by myself (but I grew from that experience), meanwhile going to concerts, music festivals, museums, cafés and cinemas have been very relaxing and natural by myself. I doesn't feel lonely by myself in those places, but it can be challenging for me in environments there people usually are very social while I'm an introvert. I like that you are enjoying yourself, you are worth it! ❤ thank you for another great video with insights and mindfulness!

@jubiterr Ай бұрын

It was you! Thank you for the rec and I’m glad you’re now comfortable being with yourself 💙

@dieseldoom4942 Ай бұрын

Hi, sorry we haven't introduced or met before, however........ I watched all your videos back to back, and I think that not only do you reason and have well structured arguments, you also seem have a great analytical mind, with the usual French philosophy flair. Do not doubt yourself in any capability or quest in life, you are as great and amazing as you can get. I'm Swedish, but you should look for equality or a comparative person where you could find/get it rather then a restriction cultural, geographical location. You are smart, articular and opened eye...... the right tools for finding an equal partner. Never give up on a great, equal, kind, passionate and fair partner. The one you are deserving of. Lots of love and wishes 🥰

@jubiterr Ай бұрын

This message is so??? Thank you so much for the kind words ♥️ Make sure to subscribe for more!

@nanatav Ай бұрын

As someone who is very independent and not used to (sometimes even willing to) rely on others or ask for help, I found that even when I was single and dating the message that I projected was that I was not available on many levels. Essentially I wasn't receptive to people (in this case men) giving, helping our supporting me. In the dating scenario, I find that this essentially is what a guy would want to do for you so me not allowing them to do that for me sent the message that I wasn't that interested nor available. In the end I found that for me, dating/having a relationship was a fine line of being independent and keeping true to myself but also allowing myself to be vulnerable enough to be taken care of (not in a materialistic way but a sentimental way). Something that I also discovered was that I had a lot of uncommunicated expectations that I thought weren't being met but after speaking with the person, I actually realized that some of those expectations were being met just in ways that I didn't see because I wasn't used to them I wish you the best of luck on your journey to find someone to share life with :)

@jubiterr Ай бұрын

Wow... I relate to everything you just said. Seriously. It's so crazy how we were made to be so self-reliant to the point where asking and receiving help is almost painful, like physically. I love how introspective you are and how you're working through it for yourself but also your current and future relationships. Thank you love

@nanatav Ай бұрын

@jubiterr its not only painful but very VERY scary and doing things while scared has something to be said about. We can and will push through it just as we did with so many things in our lives

@Geotechdev 27 күн бұрын

@nanatav yeah exactly that's scary. I personally like to do it myself everyday

@NykkyNR Ай бұрын

We feel you on the dating, deconstructing then reconstructing yourself, and navigating relationships as you evolve. It’s fascinating to experience. Sometimes it makes you want to side eye the world, sometimes it makes you discover new versions of beauty. Also, can’t put my finger on it but this video felt different. All of your videos are amazing but this felt like a different type of fabulousness and serenity 🫶🏾 love that for you and all of us

@jubiterr Ай бұрын

THIS! And girl, you have a good eye cause i did want to change the energy for this video. Let me cook 🌱

@selahh4089 Ай бұрын

It's good that you're allowing yourself to change within your friendships. They could also be craving more deeper connections but you were the first willing to put yourself out there

@jubiterr Ай бұрын

That’s a very good point. We never know if our actions will bring positive change. I’m willing to take the chance 💙

@KingaKremerinthemaking Ай бұрын

Truly enjoyed the vibe of your video, the honesty, transparency, authenticity… it put me in a better mood too and made me look at Stockholm in a different light, a city I never truly enjoyed. Thanks❤

@jubiterr Ай бұрын

Thank you so much, that's all I strive for 🤍

@MultiKarola 23 күн бұрын

love these dates with myself. being solo for long time and going out solo in big cities is pure pleasure!

@pendo8029 Ай бұрын

Love your videos and your channel! As a fellow fulani, 20-something, lover of fashion and arts, person dedicated to self exploration and actualization, and possibly pisces (?), it brings me so much joy and excitement to have your voice on the internet! Can’t wait to watch your next video 💛

@jubiterr Ай бұрын

I’m so happy you’re liking the videos that much. Really keep me going 🥹

@tuss150 Ай бұрын

Your contents are soo wholesome….always a pleasure to watch. Mvh: Your latest stockholm fan.

@jubiterr Ай бұрын

Hey!! Love that!

@olainamillion Ай бұрын

LMFAO you putting on headphones so it looks like youre on the phone had me busting out laughing! So relatable 💀. I think with dating you really have to love yourself where you are at before you can also accept someone for where they are at. I agree, you should be able to grow with the person, but also if they don't grow, you kind of have to decide if where they are at now is something youre okay with. Love your unfiltered thoughts on this!

@jubiterr Ай бұрын

Girl i was STRESSED! No but really, the more you work on yourself, the more grace you have for others. We’re all just trying our best at the end of the day

@helenherlitz9012 Ай бұрын

Ill can understand you going to Acne Archives when in Stockholm - but still pricey! The Acne fit is great!

@jubiterr Ай бұрын

True and you get unique discontinued pieces!

@ScentsibleJournal Ай бұрын

Tbh I want to date but when I realize the chores in dating, I be like: nah, I am fine. Maybe it takes really special person to make me beat the lazyness

@jubiterr Ай бұрын

It’s a full time job!!!!

@karlbenz4925 Ай бұрын

I'm not telling you, I 'm seeing and hearing great visdom and levelness from a normal person going though life searching for the possible lights and heights she sees in her surroundings. If that ends up being a partner, you are at luck. ( we really hope that you find what you are looking for ) Puss och Kram Vi älskar dig

@jubiterr Ай бұрын

Wow…. Tack så mycket 🥹