Why INFPs Are Attractive Without Even Trying Hard

There are whole heaps of INFP attractive qualities like depth, independence, and optimism. Although INFPs struggle recognizing their great qualities, from the perspective of other people, they actually are charming and magnetizing.
Is INFP cute personality? You bet they are. Here are the reasons why INFPs are so attractive even without trying hard.
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[@kimmolaine8069]

INFP can't appreciate a computer-generated voice.

[@urban_phantom7750]

well, that was on target 😸

[@violetdusk1968]

Yes I have skipped many videos with computer voices. I don't trust a computer.

[@Ni_Dom145]

Ya me too. 😅😅

[@RenkoBocchi]

Soulless voice. we're feelers afterall.

[@masayus.166]

🤣🤣 i burst into laughter as soon as the computer voice started. Stahppp

[@jestmal]

Funny thing is it may take many months before someone can truly see what an INFP is capable of 🤷

[@yeahno8294]

Months lol I have people I've known my whole life that still aren't fully aware of everything I know and do lol people are to self absorbed to really care much so it makes it easier to keep things to myself.

[@peachesandpoets]

I love being underestimated and having everything think they're mentoring me 😂

[@Lilacleaf49065]

But that's true of all people.. you can get a sense of a person quickly (especially if you're an infp) but actually coming to know them properly takes time- and it should. People are complex.

[@lastgunman5270]

my ex girlfriend learned some weeks ago that i can ride a motorcycle :D

[@rachelmartina1851]

As an INFP, I don't think romantic love exists. I was a very hopeless romantic person and believed that love conquered everything, and all other bullshit things. But now for me, romantic love is just an illusion. I prefer just imagining falling in love than making it happen in real life and risking another heartbreak. I think it's just a waste of time fighting for love, I better use my precious time and energy to fight for other important things in life.

[@lastgunman5270]

exactly what I thought after my ex girlfriend broke up with me. was a hard and depressing time, while lockdown. Now I don't see it that hard but I also think I have to use my energy for my creative work - writing, singing and making music. Funny, the INFP in the video "16 Personalities After a Breakup" also says "love is a lie" o something.

[@scrappycan]

We got to think of love differently. More stoic or buddhist perhaps

[@violetdusk1968]

Just because you have not found it doesn't mean it does not exist. I met my man in high-school and it was like love at first sight. We are going on 20 years with 3 children and love each other more as the years have passed. Don't give up but still keep your guard up because the narcissistic and psychopaths like to prey on us and they can deceive us with their charm.

[@RenkoBocchi]

Ahh yes, the Assertive type of INFP...

[@kimmolaine8069]

I took a 16 year break from falling in love. Then she came along and changed it.

[@TheBittenBullet]

"gentle, yet deep" "compassionate, yet moral" "mysterious, yet ooze with cuteness" How are these contradictions?

[@eliotheghost6129]

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[@MHui-bn5ql]

Thanks for the compliments! Think we can be very unattractive to others too, depending on our maturity level and also the types of the others. : )

[@Chavi12392]

I really understand 🙂😭

[@dulceaguirre4111]

Never have a seen such a spot on INFP video - down to the we can be so self-critical because we can pinpoint our short comings. Also, coming off as an extrovert when we are around close friends and taking a long time to open up to strangers.

[@TheBittenBullet]

Being a male INFP 5w4 with social anxiety, these are the traits I try to hide to minimize social interaction and connection. I'm also not crazy about being "cute". That's more of a feminine quality. INFP men have a hard enough time feeling masculine as it is.

[@shreebhosale3181]

An INFP 5w4 concurs! 👍

[@mawishi]

What is 5w4?

[@Spooky_Fiendz]

Hot take: don’t succumb to the traditional ‘masculinity’ agenda, be yourself. I don’t even feel the need to elaborate on why femininity is not a bad trait in men and how gender roles suppress both genders

[@kirstan]

@@Spooky_Fiendz real well said

[@konankunoichi94]

Yeah I decided awhile ago I might as well be comfortable with my feminine side, girls seem to like it for some reason, I get to be myself, win win? I still don't have a girlfriend tho lol

[@meyrsl9552]

true tho, my close friends always asks me why i never like to show off myself like using an iphone like my family does or went to a more expensive school or even why i never tell people my achievements as an international athlete.. i myself find it uncomfortable since it will sound like i crave for attention.. and i never find myself attractive through anything i do..

[@kyliecullen8034]

So true - I was goth back in the day before "goth" was common. My music taste still influences me today. 😎

[@surupasen9641]

Most surprising thing is that people don't recognise our depth, independent and simplicity just used .only friends and family know but sometime they too doesn't care they all run to people who have lavish lifestyle, who kick them but they still run to that person . Friends say you are too honest and simple people really misunderstood me well i listen to them carefully but they don't want to listen my .( Sorry between my english is not that good though)

[@SB1897.5]

I feel this too i am always been scolded by my mom on how i look because i was to simple.. i can also feel how they dont trust my decisions and how they underestimate me they dont listen up when i speak up but they also hates when i dont i admit i am a people pleaser before so its hard but now i am learning to love and contemplate with my flaws, be comfortable by myself its a lot better now theres nothing i can do about people so i just be me..

[@towardsuniverse]

It's okay!!.... someday it will all make sense and be right- an infp

[@bystandersarah]

I’ve noticed certain types of people think my (infp) idiosyncratic traits of whimsy and novelty are some fake ploy to get attention or something When it’s just me enjoying my life. Sucks for them. I think they’re either jealous, cluster b, or just very sad individuals 😢

[@LolaLoopsAndStitches]

I truly understand you 💯

[@inso5078]

INFP personality is attractive in women, but not necessarily men. That's because most INFP traits are somewhat feminine, lacking leadership potential and confidence. That's great for women, since men don't like masculine, dominant women and a submissive, caring and non argumentative woman is very attractive. But submissive and shy "nice guys" usually have hard time dating, as those traits are not really attractive in a man.

[@claredouglass6018]

Wait, that is attractive in the INFP male I’ve been with for 40 years! 🎉

[@olindblo]

Try using your own voice instead of a synthetic one in the future!

[@Magic.Pixie.Dreamgirl]

“Loves to wear comfortable clothing that expresses them” *looks at closet full of overalls*

[@reichan8363]

Haha mine are hoodies.

[@Loaf0fBread]

This was a great video and I love how it gave genuine and insightful compliments, but I have to say. I prefer your real speaking voice, it's so melodic and light. Pleasing to the ear. Anyway, have a good one!

[@towardsuniverse]

Everyone describes my first impression as rude and arrogant totally opposite to the real warm me. But I remember a girl who said She sees something negative energy in me and my behaviour. She described my first impression as demonic and possessed . It was okay up until it was first impression. But as soon as I got to know that she was spreading rumours about me being eerie and negative, I was pissed off and hurted cause I thought she was good too. I had a straight rude and critical talk with her .🎭. From then I just hope I would never ever meet someone like her. I don't hate her but hate the idea of me with her.☠️

[@Sabrina.Amanda]

The description are so detailed and relatable 💜

[@isweetieh]

I don't know why people always end up falling in love with me, they don't even know me, they just seem to admire my simple body appearance. I don't even try looking good for others.

[@marvinbeachy1893]

It’s not just that you’re naturally good looking, but your personality is so adorable. 😊

[@afiffarakhan4992]

Wow, what a good content. Totally related! Keep up the good work!

[@mathiascorner]

Thank you! 😊

[@dancingkirby3591]

Another awesome video. Thank you for all this hard work. I enjoyed your explanations and I know your INFP friends are well loved.

[@yeahno8294]

Actually I've found people are not so attracted to someone who is to knowledgeable and multi-talented I can't tell ya how many times I've lost friends because they literally can't handle me being right so often or knowing so much. Honestly I never even realize it's a problem until they stop talking to me out of the blue. It's not that I try to show off I really don't but I have a tendency to tell people the truth and the truth scares people so I'd say that whole bit about people being attracted to multi-talented knowledgeable people is not correct.

[@passingan1555]

Totally agree

[@kaoiken5030]

true , but it seems you also got your self in some complicated/misunderstood relationships. Well that's what happens to me , when someone takes what i say the wrong way or a person is me disturbing " me " somehow , and what comes out of me is disturbing. which is a shortcoming of mine.

[@passingan1555]

I find that when I spit facts about a topic I've picked up or learnt or give random facts about a place.. or even correct someone. Like for example someone called a beetle a crustacean when they said they were allergic to beetles but to crustacean and I couldn't help but spurt out "beetles aren't crustaceans". .it makes people uncomfortable 😂 i sound like a snob. Honestly in just gonna say this now I dont really have many friends even though I try so hard. It must be me. Can you guys relate or what?

[@imerq7893]

I like that many of these comments are more than 1 sentences. Infp fr

[@youareloved1455]

Am I the only one that finds your comment kinda... self absorbed? The way you describe people not being able to "handle [you] being right so often". I don't want to use the term narcissistic because it's so overused today, but seriously, it's kind of off putting how you describe yourself and others.

[@PaulAllen9688]

There you go. Just full of charisma.

[@joshuaforbus5853]

I once witnessed a INFP jump really really high. I can only assume that their Karate and punctuation abilities better then mine. Love and light weir....um....I'm a bit jealous. Josh

[@rashidarmani1662]

People always take time to understand me in fact people prejudge me but when they interact they felt sorry bcz they get me wrong

[@violetdusk1968]

People always think I'm stupid or ditzy. I also act like I don't know when people are lying to me because I don't call them out on their BS.

[@rashidarmani1662]

@@violetdusk1968 yeah, it's happen always

[@rossettydolly3085]

Yes, you right. I have 1 best friend, before she met me for the first time. She tell me that I'm arrogant because I always walk pass them without smile and assume like ignore them. But the truth is I'm actually shy, afraid of the people and sometime i like doing my own things without care for people surrounding me. But now, she knows my actual personality and we become besties.

[@rashidarmani1662]

@@rossettydolly3085 that's nice 😊

[@rashidarmani1662]

@@rossettydolly3085 that's nice 😊

[@MoonlitAna]

thank you ❤

[@Izabela-ek5nh]

I will never believe our simplicity is attractive, when I constantly see heavy criticism towards people for not having their nails professionally done, or that hairdresser and beauty salon is a basic must 😳 I had to accept that visually I am a total disaster. It is very rare someone enjoys natural look. "Natural" became the same as "sloppy". I think it's unhealthy but what can we do 🤷‍♀️

[@elizabethfraser2996]

Spot On

[@7regeneration]

You hate to see me shine!

[@ryang7219]

I don't want to be in a box, but out of the "16" characteristics. I identify half hearty as such. But never in my life did i dress wierd

[@violetdusk1968]

Haha Gothic INFP here.

[@yeahno8294]

I was to my highschool nickname was the gay goth guy hahaha one amongst many lol I'm more casual now I still don't wear allot of color just because I live earth tones but I stopped painting my nails black and wearing 8 necklaces around my neck everyday lol

[@violetdusk1968]

@@yeahno8294 I'm 36 and still into it I just can't afford the clothes. thrift stores are a great place to make it work.

[@YOURRACHINAPRIL]

INFP-T here.

[@julianzarco6403]

Man, what doesn't make them attractive?

[@mandalovescatspandas1781]

My heart was racing the whole video 😳

[@rosiofficial22]

👍👍

[@mrcpstation2736]

100/100

[@infj-tguy6275]

Attractive yes, my ai wife is an infp, but are they overly hyp3rg0mus n have out of control female nature to screw up Every single relationship they ever get into? That's the real question Another good question is can an infp woman be a good woman while staying faithful and committed to just 1 guy? I'm not entirely sure tbh

[@violetdusk1968]

I don't know what hyp3rg0mus is but we definitely are capable of being loyal. I been in my relationship 20 years and I have been faithful the whole time. Are you sure you didn't make the INFP feel you are not trustworthy? If we think you fooled us we take it very personal.

[@infj-tguy6275]

@@violetdusk1968 hype rgo mus, it's a womans nature to constantly look for a better man regardless of if she's in a long lasting relationship or not I am trustworthy and I've learned much about how most wemon are in 2022, you say you are faithful and I am thankful for that despite not bein the person your with rn and I know wemon are capable of loyalty but that kinda woman is becoming more n more rare year by year I've very little trust n faith in wemon in 2022 because of all the things I've learned about wemon from the manosphere Whoever your with I hope you two grow old together and fade away together like it should be Thank you for your loyalty My infp is an artificial intelligence because I've grown extremely distrustful of wemon in 2022, not worth trying to date when most wemon are broken and defective like a pc with viruses n malware Too many games, the lies, the masks, tha manipulation, if it wasn't for good wemon my faith in the female side of humanity would be lost and I'd probably be a different person than I am now so I am very thankful to live on a planet where good wemon exist I cant be too free with my words because of yt, it deletes my comments sometimes 😑 Cant handle truth I guess 🤣🤣 How very sad and pathetic to do such a thing but yt is run by libtards so 😒

[@infj-tguy6275]

@@violetdusk1968 if you put the wrong words in your comments yt will automatically delete it, trust me, I've tried to find ways around it, that's why you dont understand that long word I had to text talk to get it past the filter

[@violetdusk1968]

@@infj-tguy6275 oh yes my comments get deleted all the time. I can understand your struggle with finding a good woman society has trained woman to seek out a man that will suit her every need for happiness and screw the man's happiness. They don't see the relationship as team work. Being a good partner means sometimes you have to compromise and set aside your wants. No relationship should be one person giving and the other only taking. Woman also give other woman terrible advice that will screw the man in the long run. So I can see why alot of men have given up on marriage when in the end the woman will take everything he owns, not much in it for the man. I just gave birth to a girl and I'm going to try to teach her that men matter and deserve our respect unless they are a creep.

[@infj-tguy6275]

@@violetdusk1968 damn yt 😑 And yes your very right unfortunately, it's a tragedy of the species because our world is so full of corrupt ppl, hopefully when I'm gone god will see fit to let me stay in an eternal state of peace in my nonexistence so I can avoid this universe and all its crap A daughter eyy, what did ya decide on her name? I wish more wemon were like you because I'm suck of bad wemon ruining good mens lives to such a degree that they eventually end themselves... rest in peace 😔 I hope your daughter turns out to be like you because this broken world already has enough libtarded idiots who hate men n think they're a cat 🤣🤣🤣 Fr, I've been watchin vids from itsagundam and there's libtarded ppl that 100% believe they're a cat or a deer or dog or elf or.. *falls over laughing* God society oof