Why is my Cat SO Scared of Me? Living with a Shy Cat

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@hydrangea3498
@hydrangea3498 4 жыл бұрын
It is very frustrating when your furry baby is afraid of you when you only want to love them 😩
@unknowndreamz3843
@unknowndreamz3843 4 жыл бұрын
same
@kingong4185
@kingong4185 4 жыл бұрын
Ikr it happens to me every day it’s so sad cuz I rlly love her but she is afraid of my whole family. I just want to play with her but when I came close she lets me pet her then after that she just runs away and either goes under the bed or outside. The only time she comes out is to go outside or eat. 😭
@Kodan_FluReactions
@Kodan_FluReactions 3 жыл бұрын
Why own a cat ?? It’s Like purchasing a burden I have to feed u and take care of u just for u too disappear all day ??!!! Buying a cat was the worst idea ever I don’t know why these things are even considered pets
@ExileOnMyStreet
@ExileOnMyStreet 3 жыл бұрын
@@Kodan_FluReactions That's exactly how I feel. This cat won't allow me to pet her, won't cuddle. It just wants to do what it pleases and all I do is feed it and clean the litter box. She plays by herself, if I try to play with her she stops. What a waste.
@catgamestation3117
@catgamestation3117 3 жыл бұрын
I have a kitten that is a replica of the one being described!
@carolinainoue9643
@carolinainoue9643 4 жыл бұрын
My cat Millie was exactly like that. She wouldn’t even attempt going to the couch, she was constantly under the bed. After a lot of research I’ve learned that the best thing (for the cat and the cat owner) is to “treat” this behavior. Cover the bottom of the bed or anything where they like to hide and give them “designated hiding spots”. I was skeptical but when Millie realized no one was gonna hurt her and started to explore (maybe looking for a place to hide) she figured is was much more fun to be out. And after 2 weeks I removed the blockage from under the beds, tables etc and she doesn’t even wants to hide anymore. No cat should spend their whole life hiding. Plus, quoting Jackson Galaxy, imagine in an emergency, your home is on fire and you can’t get your kitten from under the bed.
@timonsolus
@timonsolus 6 жыл бұрын
Kate must have had a scary experience when very little.
@catgamestation3117
@catgamestation3117 3 жыл бұрын
yep - same as my cat. He was rehomed a few times
@nawtysp00ky
@nawtysp00ky 2 жыл бұрын
maybe but they should know better now tho but prob since that kinda makes sense
@stevecaswell
@stevecaswell 5 ай бұрын
I have a female cat like this. She has a lot of fear and I suspect she may have been abused before we got her. I've been very very patient and kind and loving toward her. She has been coming out of summer for fears but she's very timid. I spend time with her quite often and she's responding to me better now, even purring. She's beginning to enjoy it also. In the beginning she wouldn't even eat food if I was in the room. Now she will. Sometimes I wonder how long it would take to help her get rid of all that fear. Yet I'm encouraged because she is making progress in the presence of me showing a lot of loving-kindness toward her.
@E.T19
@E.T19 Жыл бұрын
Ive had my 4 month old cat for 2 weeks and she’s always looking for places to hide and hisses if we get too close. I love her so much and I dont know what to do. Help!
@otakurocklee
@otakurocklee 3 жыл бұрын
It's a bit of a relief seeing this video. I occasionally take care of a cat that is just like this. Runs and hides in the closet... Will only come out for meals and to go to the bathroom, and won't come out unless I'm completely out of sight.
@1940limited
@1940limited 6 жыл бұрын
A stray cat has moved into our woodshed. It's taken all summer, but we've gotten him somewhat socialized. We can't pick him up yet, but can pet him. He gives lots of head bumps and even purrs. He needs to be neutered and checked out for any health problems. He appears healthy, but I'd like to have a vet look at him. I'm worried about catching him as he may become traumatized, but we need to do something. We'd like to bring him inside, but don't want to expose our indoor cats to him before we know he's healthy and neutered. I feel sorry for him being out all the time. I think he wants to come inside. I especially worry about him at night and when he goes for walks and is gone for hours at a time. When he's out of sight we're concerned. He seems quite content in the wood shed, but I don't want to leave him there all winter. He's not nearly as shy as your Kate Moss, but it's taken months to get him to the stage he's at now.
@SmartMotherfucker-tu1kr
@SmartMotherfucker-tu1kr 4 жыл бұрын
How did it turn out
@1940limited
@1940limited 3 жыл бұрын
@Jake Stockton It was 2 years ago. Your point being?
@mikek5373
@mikek5373 3 жыл бұрын
The same happened to my girl.. She's all over me during adoption & when a year later she starts running away from me except for meals .
@siriuslymentalthatone2528
@siriuslymentalthatone2528 3 жыл бұрын
I just want to share my experience with my shy and scared cat. So I got Minerva (Minnie for short) a week ago, and at first all what she did was hide underneath the couch and would rarely come out. What I started to do is just sit on the couch and read or go on my phone, being quiet and just acting normally. Then I lured her out with treats. Slowly progressing through the week she started to get more relaxed and confident. Now she loves getting petted! She is so obsessed with me now. At times I almost lost hope and though she will never let me pet her, but I never gave up! Just remember even if your cat is very scared of you and won’t come out of hiding just be patient! ( I would like to point out that Minnie never had human interaction before she came to me, I was the first human she trusted)
@catgamestation3117
@catgamestation3117 3 жыл бұрын
so glad to know that there is hope for my cat too!! I got another kitty and they both seem to get along really well which has helped Romeo grow into a more affectionate cat!
@briang.4249
@briang.4249 6 жыл бұрын
Dear sweet Kate Moss. She is such a lovely kitty. I think Kate is the epitome of what many people consider kitties to be,aloof and independent. I totally disagree with this perception. Kate Moss is loved and cared for. She shows her love in a different way. And yes Kate does love you.
@evepike6905
@evepike6905 6 жыл бұрын
My sons cat is like that..i saved him 8yrs ago from under my porch. His head was stuck between a cement wall & cement block. He is blind in one eye but doesnt stop him from running round early morning which is his time. He wont come 2 me but if my son calls him he goes running to him. He likes being alone in his lair also. He's a Siamese cat plus a ginger. Loved the video.
@jeffw1246
@jeffw1246 3 жыл бұрын
After my first boy was lost to cancer I adopted another a few months later. He tried to hide at shelter but his tail was very long. It took almost two weeks before he came out from under the bed. One night I didn't even notice he got on the couch with me. He still is afraid of any sudden moves and bails under my bed even after a year and a half anytime anyone comes to the door. Including my grown children and girlfriend. My daughter cat is cool around anyone. Love them to bits.
@ALuV6
@ALuV6 Жыл бұрын
😭😭😭. I love my Zumma! Although he is a lil more noticeable than Kate I would be heartbroken for him to remain this way for another 15 years.😭😭😭
@a.d.2719
@a.d.2719 4 жыл бұрын
Kate is a cutie. We have a shy cat who is like her. She rarely wants attention and gets upset if you pet or hold her. But we love her the way she is.
@debbiethemadbee
@debbiethemadbee 6 жыл бұрын
I know of someone who has many rescues and one ended up having a litter of 5 kittens, which were born in his house. That was about 13 years ago and he kept four of them. A few years after he homed the one, he took him back. The one which got rehomed along with three of the others ended up very sociable, whilst one has been very shy for most of his life. He will always run off when the guy tries to go anywhere near him even though he’s always been around the guy since he was born. The one which was rehomed and two of the others are very sociable and love attention and affection. Two will give signs that they want to be petted, with one giving love bites. The other one was also friendly, but didn’t like too much attention.
@1940limited
@1940limited 6 жыл бұрын
We have four cats, we say 4-1/2 because of the outdoor stray. Two are big males and hide when company comes over. Otherwise they are out and about all the time and very affectionate. Two others, a female and male, are outgoing and don't hide when strangers come to the house. Our female is the oldest cat, about 12. The other friendly one is about 9 months. Thanks for your videos. I look forward to new vids from you all the time.
@AWalkingHat
@AWalkingHat 4 жыл бұрын
My 5 months old tabby hides and sleeps all day in the closet and comes out in the evening only. He is active and playful all night while I sleep. It's been a month since I adopted him and he still does that. I still can't pet him, but he will eat treats close to me if I don't move. He is not aggressive. He will be neutered soon. Would it help if I closed the closet door? I once tried it for a few hours and he hid in another spot instead. He was taken in by a shelter at 4 months of age. I was wondering if once he is neutered, I should simply release him outside. He doesn't seem interested in sharing his space with humans. He only meows occasionally when he's looking out the window, but never at me. He is very afraid of visitors. He urinates and defecates on my bed if they step into the room he hides in. So now I make sure they don't go in there when I have people over. He is my first cat and I wanted a cat I could bond with. It is just not happening with this one. Having this cat is only responsibilities and frustration with no reward. :(
@OmgLoLw2gLuvUidkROFL
@OmgLoLw2gLuvUidkROFL 5 жыл бұрын
Omg! This describes my cat to a Tee. WoW! Thank you for suggesting it.
@catgamestation3117
@catgamestation3117 3 жыл бұрын
so glad to hear that I am not the only one with a shy cat!!
@nunosoares2329
@nunosoares2329 6 жыл бұрын
Hi Caroline. Kate Moss is cute. I think she's so shy because she might be a feral cat and more outdoorsy. Having said that, I think you do an awesome job with her and I agree with you. She loves you and appreciates what you do in her own way. Thanks for what you do :-)
@debbiethemadbee
@debbiethemadbee 6 жыл бұрын
Nuno Soares maybe. But even cats who have been around humans since birth are shy for some reason. I know of a guy who has a group of four litter mates who were born in his home and one has been shy for most of his life. For some reason some are naturally shy even when always around humans.
@nunosoares2329
@nunosoares2329 6 жыл бұрын
Yes. Interesting.
@IvanDmitriev1
@IvanDmitriev1 6 жыл бұрын
Nuno Soares у
@mariechamberland1981
@mariechamberland1981 5 жыл бұрын
The cat is not feral. They had the cat for 15 years.
@ManicWolf
@ManicWolf 3 жыл бұрын
I found this video while trying to find out why our cat acts scared of us. We got her (Misha) and her sister (Totoro) when they were 12 weeks old a few years ago, and their personalities are just like night and day. Totoro is friendly, outgoing, and confident, while Misha is so shy and scared. If anyone walk near her she will crouch down and her pupils will dilate with fear. If people get close she will run away, and if for any reason we need to touch her (eg, for fleaing) her ears will go flat and she will fight to get away. She will play with toys, but after that she just goes back to being scared. It breaks my heart that she lives in fear all the time.
@catgamestation3117
@catgamestation3117 3 жыл бұрын
I know how you feel. I have the exact same scenario in my house!
@amgadhegazy8998
@amgadhegazy8998 Жыл бұрын
How misha is doing nowadays? Please update us , I have the same scenario
@ManicWolf
@ManicWolf Жыл бұрын
@@amgadhegazy8998 It's interesting to note that in this video Caroline talks about how Kate Moss will rarely come out, but only when everyone is settled and watching a movie. Misha has "progressed" a little in that she will come up to be petted, but only when I'm sitting at the computer or lying down in bed. She will also comes for treats, but again only if I'm sitting down. I think she feels a little more confident when it's on her terms, and if people are at the same level as her. If I, or anyone else, come towards her, she will still either crouch down with a fearful look, or just try and escape as usual. I guess it's scary for her to have people towering over her or approaching her.
@CaptLiberator
@CaptLiberator 6 жыл бұрын
We took on a one year old feral and we just let her decide if she wanted to be social. She is not a lap cat and probably never will be but she knows she is loved and cared for. She will bump heads and allow herself to be petted on occasion. As long as we are sitting down we are not a threat, but if we get up from were we were sitting we become threatening and she runs and hides. She doesn't hide for very long because she is always interested in what is going on and has to investigate.
@BethanyGraceHolmes
@BethanyGraceHolmes 4 жыл бұрын
Hi, one week ago I adopted a 12 year old cat who used to be a stray. I've spent time in his room, not looked in his eyes etc etc but he wont let me within 2ft of him. How long did it take for your cat to let you stroke them? Or were they already open to that? I'm sad that my cat feels so threatened!
@biankapaloma
@biankapaloma 6 жыл бұрын
💕🐱 Kate Moss is lucky to have such wonderful cat parents that accept her just they way she is. Greetings 🇨🇱
@Tweaky853
@Tweaky853 4 жыл бұрын
That is true, but i cant do that unless one of the cats likes fur affection, hehe
@catgamestation3117
@catgamestation3117 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely! thanks for taking such good care of her!
@srobindittrich6599
@srobindittrich6599 6 жыл бұрын
I love the name Kate Moss. Katey girl, you are a model kitty, even if you are shy. I think sometimes some beings are just shy no matter what we do. I think you accepting Kate for who she is is the best you can do for her. Most of my cats, except for one kitty, have been very social and friendly. I've always treated all my babies with gentle love and kindness. So who knows? My current companion, Mage Magdalene, is probably too friendly. Everyone who visits me is always greeted by "Maggie" with repeated head buttes and purrs. Maggie also happens to be a very photogenic calico Norwegian Forest 12-year-old girl. Men who profess to not like cats always wind up falling for her wiles.
@donrendav
@donrendav Жыл бұрын
I adopted a kitten four years ago and she is painfully shy. I accept her as she is. I can pet her on her terms but it can be discouraging. I just talk to her calmy and approach slowly.
@jeffw1246
@jeffw1246 2 жыл бұрын
Update::my second boy died from cancer and I adopted another shy boy. But he is far worse, 2 months hiding and staying under the bed. He stays in a couple boxes all the time which is no life for a cat. When the vet saw how scared he was running around the exam room she prescribed buspirone. Which takes about 2 months to work. He is a gentle boy with a good heart. As scared as he was he never snarled, bit or clawed. He loves pets and chin scratches but in his box. I hope the buspirone works. He deserves a good life-not in a box.
@weadeeweajue
@weadeeweajue 8 ай бұрын
any update? I hope things are getting better
@jeffw1246
@jeffw1246 8 ай бұрын
@weadeeweajue Oh yes,, soon after the busiprone started he came up to a middle bedroom and after another month or so he explored the front room. It's been a year and his favorite spot is stretched out on my legs, he moves for my lap before I even get sat down. And he likes to be held like a baby purring to each other, Eskimo kisses and head bumps. I stopped the transdermal busiprone shortly after he started coming to front room, slowly weaning him off. He came from a home of elderly couple that never socialized him and was a bad environment. I gave him love, patience and time. So worth the time for my boy.
@wirtualbb
@wirtualbb 4 жыл бұрын
Can't you noticed that, she is blind on her left eye????? 02:39 Thats why she is unsure of the surroundings.
@peterfslife
@peterfslife 2 жыл бұрын
I'm on a breathing machine, and have a trach. My sister brought her cat over this weekend, because her house is getting sone work done on it, and it's going to be unavailable to them in the daytime, so we have the cat this weekend. I try to be friends with the cat, but He doesn't want anything to do with me. Plus the noises from the breathing machine connected to me, doesn't help.
@alicerivera9377
@alicerivera9377 6 жыл бұрын
When I want hugs, kisses and petting I know who to go. When I want to be alone I know where to hide. Love her she's beautiful. ❤ I got 8 all rescued ferals. Each one have their own personality and I love them all the same. 🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈😃
@OmgLoLw2gLuvUidkROFL
@OmgLoLw2gLuvUidkROFL 5 жыл бұрын
I'd like to add one more thing that I forgot. I had my beautiful tabby for appox 4 months and I can't recall ever seeing her walk. She's either running away , or hiding. Her social box arrived today, & I will purchase a calming diffuser as suggested. See you in six months? A year? Ciao!
@karina-xj7nv
@karina-xj7nv 4 жыл бұрын
how’d it go?
@xxjsmoothxx8104
@xxjsmoothxx8104 4 жыл бұрын
How's it going so far?
@bl3601
@bl3601 3 жыл бұрын
Hows she now?
@carlydnation
@carlydnation 4 жыл бұрын
omg kate sounds exactly like my willow that i've had for almost two years! as a little baby she was attached to me, now i'm lucky if i see her a couple times a week. I leave the living room closet open for her to have her safe space. I miss her cuddles and i was worried i had done something wrong or scared her, so it's good to know that some cats are just like that. My Bella, who presents as a more independent in charge of everything cat is the one who craves all the cuddles and attention, their personalities and actions are so different lol!
@unknowndreamz3843
@unknowndreamz3843 4 жыл бұрын
Im glad I'm not the only one who experienced this
@simbathecat219
@simbathecat219 3 жыл бұрын
Bruh I try to put my cat to sleep right next to me and he just gets scared farts and runs away hes only like 5 weeks old
@simbathecat219
@simbathecat219 3 жыл бұрын
Oh and hes a siamese cat from Connecticut and lives in cold New Jersey
@kingtryton
@kingtryton 7 ай бұрын
Just brought home a kitten and it’s very much like Kate I just hope it eventually grows out of it 😩
@mindaiming5354
@mindaiming5354 3 жыл бұрын
every cat got a really strong personality just accept it
@fieldfocushigh
@fieldfocushigh 4 жыл бұрын
I adopted yesterday a 4 months old kitten, she’s so scared of me. This morning I found her behind the washing machine, now is hidden behind the oven which I will not use till she doesn’t come out of there. I left her food and water in the kitchen and I’m ignoring her. Hope she will start socializing soon. I really want to give her so much love but will accept her nature if she’s a timid cat. Don’t want to force her doing anything, just hope we’ll become friends soon. Her name is Vida :) it’s an old almost unused Serbian name which also mean Life in Spanish
@moamenmoh.8023
@moamenmoh.8023 4 жыл бұрын
actually I have the same problem and to be honest it makes me sad sometimes . I know it is immature but that's the truth.
@angeL_ocracy
@angeL_ocracy 3 жыл бұрын
I’m babysitting my sisters kitten right now as I’m typing this. He’s hiding under the bed rn but he seems completely fine when he plays on his own. He seems scared of me and whenever he wants to come out from under them he sees me and scurries back under
@IssAsia24
@IssAsia24 2 жыл бұрын
this describe my cat mr.bats so well in this time of need so yesterday accidentally stepped on my cat paw yesterday and I told him sorry I tred picking him up and holding and I tried looking him in the eyes and telling him I am sorry and none of it works and the thing is that is all I was saying to him yesterday I feed him this moring when I clean his bowl he knew he was hungry so he stepped on his food table and sat down and waited on me to bring him his food.
@SoulmateParis
@SoulmateParis Жыл бұрын
This nice video came up from my shy cat search. It’s comforting to see another adult cat’s behaviour similar to my girlfriend’s cat. Maybe rare but her cat is frustratingly shy. I guess there’s no easy remedy !
@teegees
@teegees 3 ай бұрын
It’s just her personality. Some people are extreme introverts as well...
@pulguitahaza
@pulguitahaza 4 жыл бұрын
I have the two opposites, my older cat loves attention, loves to be picked up and loves cuddles and being around humans, he hides with some humans but otherwise, he'll be happy to be petted by mostly anyone, he was adopted and spent the early months of his time on the streets, he is scared of going out, he hates vet visits but overall he is super loving, always cuddling, on the other hand, I adopted a kitty from someone who received a box with kittens to be killed, I saw a pic and right away told the person I wanted him, he was well cared for and I adopted him as soon as the vet thought it was safe, he was friendly when he was little, sometimes he would even sleep on my bed, now he rarely sleeps on my bed, he much prefers to hide in my closet which since I noticed he liked I made a little bed so he could be more comfy, he spends most of the day there venturing to get food or water, I can't even think of walking his way because he runs away, but he loves bathroom pets and the sometimes evening pet on my bed, the other day he even slept on my bed with the other cat, I've been worried for the longest, I don't want him to feel scared or unsafe so I try to be very careful with my movements to make sure of this. This made me feel a bit more settled, maybe that's his personality and he is happy hiding on his closet fort (I can't close that door ever now)
@JS-co4ug
@JS-co4ug 10 ай бұрын
I'm not surprise after giving her such name...
@sallychamness2159
@sallychamness2159 6 жыл бұрын
My sweet kitten Smallfry is so much like this. He just comes out around me when we're alone. When somebody else comes here, he runs n hides. He's about 8 months old. I had him since he was about 8 weeks old. He lived in a nice home with children, but he's just super shy.
@shaunmedina9278
@shaunmedina9278 Жыл бұрын
That explains alot about my cat! He's super inverted and after having him for a year I have yet to hear him purr
@nawtysp00ky
@nawtysp00ky 2 жыл бұрын
special indeed even if it makes me cry 😭 💔
@Heisenberg000.
@Heisenberg000. 3 жыл бұрын
My cat never really had a problem with me before he didn’t really like me in the first place like he really likes my dad but he only comes to say hello every once in a whileBut it was a day that it was about to rain and he was going crazy and I was about to sit down on the couch and my leg was doing a swinging motion and my cat jumped from the couch at the same time so his face hit my leg and ever since then he’s been kind of hiding upstairs and every time I go near him he runs away and he’s never done that
@ExileOnMyStreet
@ExileOnMyStreet 3 жыл бұрын
My cat will come up to me, rub against me, but will only allow me to pet her when I'm putting food out. I've only had her for 2 months, she's about a 1 year old and was feral before I took her in. She's terribly afraid of being picked up and anytime I move my hands quickly, she gets scared. It could be anything, grabbing my phone, or a water bottle and so many other weird instances. I don't think she'll ever adjust to domesticity the way a kitten would have.
@yanou4u
@yanou4u 3 жыл бұрын
See that's what bothers me with cat owners. I'm a recent cat owner and I have been searching online to help my cat adjust to his new environment with me. He is still a kitten and I could tell he was more shy than his brothers and sisters. Guess what? I chose him anyway because I knew how impatient and shameful human can be. Especially that he is black and some idiots are still suspicious about this sort of things. Are you ok with Kate moss because you have two cats giving you affection? I took my cat out of place of abondance inside of me, I wasn't seeking affection from him, I wanted to help his situation. So it was easier for me to be patient with him. He is almost like Kate Moss. Very shy and coming out to eat, play and do his business. I see that he seeks my presence but doesn't know nor understand how he should be, because his natural instinct is to be cautious. It has been 3months now. I'm not addressing you personally saying this but that frustrates me to hear people giving up on their cat because it didn't give them affection. Find some affection yourself instead of pressuring a cat to give you some. See it as helping an animal adjust to the world you are contributing destroying without its say in this.
@joyfullbunny
@joyfullbunny 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@TheRivrPrncess
@TheRivrPrncess 6 жыл бұрын
Kate Moss is very pretty.
@signalthirteen
@signalthirteen 2 жыл бұрын
my shy cat is a girl and my not shy cat is a boy, but they are both still kittens, so they are just new to the world
@alli_lps_cat05lps2
@alli_lps_cat05lps2 4 жыл бұрын
That’s exactly how one of mine acts. I can’t walk, even slow movements freak her out. How do I stop this? All we ever did is show her love for 3 years. She was a kitten from a shelter. She hates me and hates strangers. She is ok with Jessica but not me. Still, she will only go to Jessica when she is sitting down. I think it is because Jessica is shorter then me. She is skittish of any guest, but is deathly afraid if tall people. 😤😢
@daniellucatero2498
@daniellucatero2498 4 жыл бұрын
My cat skinny black is the same way I she’s been part of the family for 4 years and she still shy she loves dinner time and laying around us but does like when you get to close to here or if you try to pick her up or play with her she just likes to be left alone
@KeithKillingly
@KeithKillingly 4 жыл бұрын
i think if you 100% ignore kate, she'll get better. I mean like even when you walk in the room, make zero eye contact. act like she doesn't exist
@Inmydefense
@Inmydefense 2 жыл бұрын
Kate is me. I am the Kate of my family lol
@KittenSchool
@KittenSchool 2 жыл бұрын
Me love all the Kate Moss' of the world! And we adore our Katie, no matter how antisocial she can be. It just makes the few times she does come to say hi even more special. Thanks for the comment!
@SimenPlatou
@SimenPlatou 4 жыл бұрын
Our cat is exactly like Kate Moss. She's 1.5years old, and is scared of us :(
@vegangames3468
@vegangames3468 5 жыл бұрын
Haha. Kate Moss! Didn’t expect that for a name.
@KittenSchool
@KittenSchool 5 жыл бұрын
When I adopt a cat, I tend to give them unusual names! When I first adopted Kate Moss, she was skinny with very large eyes, and one of her eyes is slightly crooked -- like the real Kate Moss! That's how she got her name.
@big-jungleman
@big-jungleman 4 жыл бұрын
One would think that Kate Moss had never been on a catwalk before!
@unknowndreamz3843
@unknowndreamz3843 4 жыл бұрын
I have four cats one of them is scared of me for almost two years now😞
@adrianmorris3772
@adrianmorris3772 6 жыл бұрын
Nice of you to share. Lovely cat all the Same.... Best regards from your cat loving friend, Adrian in Sheffield England 😀.
@HANSUNG-nc4cu
@HANSUNG-nc4cu 4 жыл бұрын
Most of cats love us when they want to !!lol
@utinsutiwi
@utinsutiwi 4 жыл бұрын
My cat isn't shy, but he doesn't want to be touched. What can I do?
@unknowndreamz3843
@unknowndreamz3843 4 жыл бұрын
Wow 15 years!
@ahmetlashin2328
@ahmetlashin2328 4 жыл бұрын
Lol Kate is a super IQ cat like preferring to stay alone.
@maccliff2115
@maccliff2115 2 жыл бұрын
I adopted an 8 year old male cat. If I didn’t he was going to be put down.He is so afraid of people.
@KittenSchool
@KittenSchool 2 жыл бұрын
Hey there, you are SO awesome for adopting this kitty. I bet he will come around to you after some time. The cat in this video, which was made a few years ago, has become a lot friendlier since and comes out to hang out with us, even jumping on the couch to chill. Just let your cat take his own time, but don't be afraid to touch and pet him (unless his ears are back and he's hissing, you don't want to get bit!). Gently put him in your lap if you can, or next to you, and scratch under the chin and ears. Little by little, I think you will find you have a very devoted, if still a little shy, friend for life.
@lepetitchat123
@lepetitchat123 4 жыл бұрын
these shy cats are usually abused early in their life. Glad you leave her alone and don't force her to "love" you. I once took care of a cat like that, it was not fun for me (I got literally nothing from her), but if it's what the cat wants, I have to oblige. Cats first, humans second.
@fatimazohra9149
@fatimazohra9149 6 жыл бұрын
I thought only sing sing was your permanant cat. But you have so many!
@muddasirzman4785
@muddasirzman4785 Жыл бұрын
you look more beautiful than cats ❤
@bemo1043
@bemo1043 4 жыл бұрын
What breed is that blue eyed cat from the intro I one that is white and turned to that same color with blue eys
@mspeeps9634
@mspeeps9634 3 жыл бұрын
Most likely it's a Siamese mix. Siamese cats are a certain type of albino and are born white. Their color is temperature sensitive. In mommy's warm tummy, they stay white. The color is starts to develop when they are exposed to cooler temps, and is most pronounced on the cooler areas of the body: Tail, ears, legs and face.
@mscomascottgreen2616
@mscomascottgreen2616 5 жыл бұрын
My cat is the same damn way
@KittenSchool
@KittenSchool 5 жыл бұрын
But you love her anyway, right? !!
@mscomascottgreen2616
@mscomascottgreen2616 5 жыл бұрын
@@KittenSchool absolutely I know no one else would take the time or use compassion the way I do.
@IntarwebUser
@IntarwebUser 5 жыл бұрын
Sounds like she has a medical issue. Not wanting to hang out with people is one thing, but only being in one place day after day? Maybe she's in pain and doesn't want to leave the one place that comforts her? Have you asked the vet about it? *(Just read the description... maybe her eye(s) hurt?)
@KittenSchool
@KittenSchool 5 жыл бұрын
Hi there! Kate Moss has been to the vet regularly over the years and physically she's fine. She's just a very shy cat! She does come out when we are hanging on the sofa but I wasn't ever able to get video of her (it was dark, or if I got up to get my phone she'd scoot off). But she has a very healthy appetite and comes out to meow and pace the kitchen as soon as I start making the cats their food. She also snuggles with a couple of the other cats when they go to the bedroom to take a nap. One vet said Katie just might be sort of like an autistic person...her brain just works different. We love her anyway and always feel honored when she decides to grace us with her presence. Thanks for the comment!
@lovepianontennis4life
@lovepianontennis4life 3 жыл бұрын
I like this I am going to see if it will work on my cat Ginny girl.
@Doe7251
@Doe7251 6 жыл бұрын
Independent lady lol
@maverick3517
@maverick3517 4 жыл бұрын
she purrs?! my cats broken. jk
@jasondenbin2613
@jasondenbin2613 2 жыл бұрын
U don’t give a animal a last name🤣
@KittenSchool
@KittenSchool 2 жыл бұрын
Kate Moss is her name!
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@---.----- 4 жыл бұрын
You didn't answer the question thought
@carolinainoue9643
@carolinainoue9643 4 жыл бұрын
Jon Jon Jon Jon Jon My cat Millie used to be shy/scared. She wouldn’t even attempt going out of the bedroom, she was always under the bed. After a lot of research I’ve learned that the best thing (for the cat and the cat owner) is to stop this behavior. Cover the bottom of the bed or anything where they like to hide and give them “designated hiding spots”. I was skeptical but when Millie realized she couldn’t hide under/inside anything but no one was gonna hurt her, she started to explore (maybe looking for a place to hide) and she figured is was much more fun to be out and about. And after 2 weeks I removed the blockage from under the beds, tables etc and she doesn’t even wants to hide anymore. No cat should spend their whole life hiding. Plus, quoting Jackson Galaxy, imagine in an emergency, your home is on fire and you can’t get your kitten from under the bed.
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@---.----- 4 жыл бұрын
@@carolinainoue9643 it doesn't matter anymore, I am not seeing the shy cat I was dealing with anymore... It was my girlfriend's cat, and we broke up :,c
@makak228
@makak228 6 жыл бұрын
Thak you for video c:
@KittenSchool
@KittenSchool 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the comment! xoxox
@Jsean0
@Jsean0 3 жыл бұрын
My roomies cat is like that, for some reason it makes me Soo angry and very very chill. Seems like cats like these can't stay indoors. These cats are probably suffering inside cuz for the slightest sound they feel scared. Imagine feeling scared for 15 years common......
@jeremythevirushuang6303
@jeremythevirushuang6303 3 жыл бұрын
Get a Burmese. You won’t have that issue.
@KittenSchool
@KittenSchool 3 жыл бұрын
Burmese are beautiful but I could never buy a cat when so many are needing homes at shelters!
@malaysia77malaysia70
@malaysia77malaysia70 5 жыл бұрын
Wow its very nice 😘 May ALLAH blues You ☝
@dhangngilay1257
@dhangngilay1257 4 жыл бұрын
Is you a Muslim
@michelleregis6181
@michelleregis6181 4 жыл бұрын
cats need discipline, or theyll take over your life!
@SchwuppsLP
@SchwuppsLP 25 күн бұрын
Sounds like you mistreat your cat tbh... I hope it is just misphrased
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