Why Is My Twin Flame Such a Jerk?!

Why do our twin flames act like jerks? And what can we do about it? In this video, Jill and Rémi discuss the underlying causes of twin flame jerkiness, how we can respond, how we may be acting like a jerk too without realizing it, and how to heal all of this within and between us.
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[@planetaryPoem9]

'It's not my job to chip away at him, it's my job to hold him up'. golden words which struck me. Thank you.

[@TwinFlameHealers]

Have a look at our website - 15 free healing videos there. twinflamehealers.com Also, we have webinars that could help you. Check and see if you have jealousy/abandonment over many lifetimes. Check if he knows that woman at the soul level from previous life - because he's connected to her doesn't mean that your relationship is under threat. We suggest you look at these things calmly together and heal them. Too many relationships end up separating because of being triggered and people don't know how to heal them.

[@jagoisvara8178]

Why would you ever think 'chipping away at him' would be a good idea in the first place? That's a fast way to lose someone

[@NoobzCakes]

Healing - (1:05) (40:30)

[@MJJYANA]

reioi thank you 💓

[@RiniSharmakoolest]

Thanks 😃

[@monicamonteparte2049]

This is great. I'm tired of hearing that you are supposed to love your twin unconditionally. I love his soul. But he ego is a total jerk haha. I actually connected with his soul while he was sleeping one morning and I felt his soul even acknowledged he is being a jerk. I'm not in physical union with my twin but I feel you two are the most relatable union I've seen.

[@JK-eu8ri]

plushe adventure 😄

[@marcushennings9513]

I'm gonna go out on a limb and assume that I am being regarded as someones twin flame and a jerk. So to answer why I'm a jerk I'll refer to a quote from the late great John "POPS" Witherspoon from Friday.. "That's ma pleasha!"

[@monicamonteparte2049]

@@marcushennings9513 it was true 🤣. I like to come back to these videos. They help me so much to put things into perspective. The clearing is amazing. This is my twin yall, we've been in a relationship for the past two months after our 7-year estrangement.

[@marquistf1996]

My twin flame is a famous musician and right now he's going through the destroyer aspect of this relationship. I don't think he understands why these things are happening at the moment. I also think his image is something he's desperately holding on to. I'm clearing energies daily which helps a lot. This process is something to be thankful for. Namaste everyone.

[@thesunflower2227]

Yes girl its like the love gets deeper and deeper and its a new love over n over again as we go up up up and thank u so much for all the healing! 💕 u both are amazing

[@arianasyvilla]

Thank You! Thank YOu !!!!! I work with the two of you almost every day and over the past year my life and my Twin Flames life has been filled with so much Joy !We have shifted into a place where we are so connected at the heart level when we kiss I actually get High (so filled with Love). You two are so filled with Love your vibration lifts me every time.

[@ladyguen2003]

As always Jill and Remi your videos are so helpful. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!!!!!!!!! I also listen to the recording of my session with you often and every time I listen to it I hear something new!!!!

[@mobe2655]

You two are a blessing. Just listened to those free webinar podcast and I felt your love, healing and energy. Thank you so much for your work. I have seen all your videos and follow you on your website/fb. Love you guys!

[@maribonhomme7206]

I am sooooo glad I found this video!! You talk ALOT about stuff I am going through right now. I love how you guys openly acknowledge the hard parts of your journey and your faults. Need some more coaching on surrender!

[@jrock877]

It's always so wonderful hearing what you both have learned. It makes things easier seeing what my partner and I are working towards. Thank you very much for sharing your insight!

[@floy2d]

I really love this video - it came just at the right time thank you. your points at the end i really love and they inspire me. This journey is so so difficult, any help is appreciated.

[@AdeanaSlater]

You two are absolutely amazing!! I appreciate you coming forward so much and helping to assist us all. Your light shines so bright. Blessings! 🌟💜🌟

[@Aurora-Rose01]

I just want to say,...thank you so much. Your videos really, really help me, and its so wonderful you offer your healings for free. Love and light to you both

[@dena-mariagrace2449]

Thank you, I really feel connected & comfortable with you guys & the beautiful work you both do. This is a blessing for me at this stage of my Twin Flame journey.

[@amberdance3199]

Thanks for demonstrating and sharing your process and healings, Jill and Remi.. you two are adorable and so inspiring. What a gift to those actively on the twin flame journey. Much love ♥ ♡

[@bigpapasamoa]

Thank you both, I am extremely grateful to have been guided to watch this video, it provided more understanding as well as some validation in the current experience. Also the clearing definitely helped on a heart expansion level

[@AndRyznar]

Great presentation! Thank you for the clearing assistance (I feel so much better!) and for sharing your experience. Keep it up please, much Love!

[@twinflames_111]

Every time when I want to give up, even, just after i bought your Transforming blockages course, and i am saying to myself, i am done, i want to give up, but then i turn to your videos, and you give me hope to continue.

[@Emzime83]

You two are the real deal and confirmed a lot for me that I knew deep deep down. I've subscribed. thank you. ❤️🙏

[@dena-mariagrace2449]

Thank you guys. I have been working every day now with your utube videos & Wow! making so much progress. No communicating with my twin for 9 months now. Healing myself, my world & the connection using your simple but so powerful sessions. Going deeper & deeper each time to clear the gunk.

[@anniemedicalmassage]

This is SO spot on. I’m totally blown away with how articulate you convey the process. It’s true. It’s really really true. I’m going through it now and it’s like you’re describing it spot on. Whew... it’s intense. Time will tell for him. In the meantime I’m in a really healthy place and so much more at peace without communication with my twin. Of course I think about him, every day. I find myself saying his name over and over in my head. I know we are still attached through synchronicity and his blocked “no caller ID” calls that he calls me with. I wish the best for him. I need him to find his peace and joy within if I am to ever trust him enough to reunite again (for the 50th time)... I know people reading this will probably resonate on some level. I’m at a point of calm surrender. Even to the point of “if we don’t reunite for good in this life, I’m grateful for the time we spent (even if it was heaven and hell), but I’ll be just fine with someone new if it comes down to that.”

[@liurodriguez5964]

I am so so happy to find you guys, I feel blessed that my Master lead me to find you guys! Thank youuuu

[@MyUnfoldingJourney]

you two are so cute. i hope to see more videos soon. your healings are amazing. thank you so much 💞💞💞

[@scarletangel1997]

Thank you so much! Your session has helped me feel better, and given me renewed hope for my Twin Flame journey.

[@Ohmshanti7]

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[@Abigail_Steller_Shekinah]

This is so helpful. Thank you so very much for all you do. Blessings. 💜🙏🏻🌸

[@marykoch1611]

Thank you so much, as this information is assisting many through this journey! Much Love and Light Illumined Twin Flames Tom and Mary

[@TwinFlameHealers]

+mary koch Thank you Tom and Mary -- much love to you two as well

[@Pattilv1]

Thank you, thank you....you have helped me so much and have given me new hope and incredible energy to keep on keeping on....Love and light to both of you...what an example to follow.....Pat Bowen

[@AwakenToLove444]

Omg!!!!! We are currently going through a third separation and literally everything what you are talking about is coming up for me!!!! Wow!!!! I’m so glad I have found this video! Experiencing so much anxiety right now and this brings so much peace as it’s literally confirmation to what my higher self has been telling me ❤❤❤

[@RedbushTea1]

Thanks you two...have beenn thinking of you and you popped up ! Thanks so much for your insights and the awesome clearing work. Can feel it so strongly, thanks again : )

[@TwinFlameHealers]

+RedbushTea1 You're very welcome :-)

[@septemberdawnluketz]

Thank you for being a pioneer for us. My fiancé and I have been planning on doing almost exactly what you two are on our own KZbin channel for quite some time now. It’s so refreshing to see another couple that has paved the way and gone on this journey ahead of us! Thank you for being a shining example of what we have to look forward to. 🙏

[@TwinFlameHealers]

Great for you two persisting despite the universe working you over so much. We're available to you if you need us - twinflamehealers.com

[@toniaspagnuolo7691]

This changed my life...Bless you, thank you so much...so so much, sending so much love🙏❤

[@TwinFlameHealers]

You're very welcome.

[@rebekkalealarsen2342]

You guys are so amazing. Both your knowledge, healings and also how you work with eachother transparently to inspire. I had this vdo popping up in me feed for 2 months, and so happy I was finally ready to watch it and learn ~ . Thank you beyond limits ❤ Namaste 🙏

[@TwinFlameHealers]

We have a number of other videos on youtube you might find worth watching. You can access them, free blogs, and get a free webinar if you register on our website - twinflamehealers.com

[@letiziatampone195]

so useful and spot on! thank you so much

[@suzyharthcock7913]

Love your work so much, have looked long and hard for just this energetic level, bless you both. Namaste

[@PPpassionandpurpose]

Right on Time

[@5Dpathfun]

Thank you for your share, these videos are sooo very helpful, to know I am not alone or crazy, or he is not either....I also completely appreciate your free videos, for all those of us who are clearing poverty and worth energies in this life as well. I understand how much time is involved to prepare and air this etc. and am so very grateful for your giving of your knowledge and learnings to those of us twins who can not afford your classes or services, after all we ARE in this together, yes. Having free videos is a symbo/metaphor/action of Love and sharing from the heart with out an agenda. I believe you ARE worth and deserving of every dollar you make! As we all are! I would like to plant a seed.... for you and others, are there twins flame couples who would be on board with you and benefit, but aren't able to afford your programs? Or is the money just an excuse, for the fear of the change? Blessings and I look forward to more!

[@LadyAnTMusic]

Woowwww, i just got soo much clarity! Thank you!

[@jvv4505]

We have both been massive 'jerks' to each other. Taking turns to try and heal each other and refusing it, probably knowing deep in our hearts that true transformation comes from within. With that came lots of feelings of hurt and confusion. Like: 'If you really loved me, you would change.' We can indeed assist each other on this journey with love but never force. I've learned that I need to trust and let go of control and not take things personally. And look within. My intuition tells me to be compassionate.

[@TwinFlameHealers]

Yes, be in compassion and forgiveness for yourselves and each other, and be in gentle union / spiritual presence together. Give compassion and healing to the parts that dig in their heels. If you want more from us, go to twinflamehealers.com.

[@nancylovebucket2467]

Your healings are very powerful. Thank you!!

[@alexiejolie]

Thank you twin flame healers for your energy! You really are radiating a positivity for twin flames 🔥 who need encouragement.

[@TwinFlameHealers]

You're very welcome. If you want more from us, you can get 15 free videos as well as blogs, etc. on our website - twinflamehealers.com

[@skh1105]

thank you so much! this was so great thank you. love and light xo

[@carlyellisemarie]

Gosh what beautiful energy you two radiate !! 💖🙏

[@wordsofwisdomwithladynenari]

SPOT ON! Totally what we my twinsoul and I have gone through and is also what I live, be, and mentor others in on the twinsoul path and is also reflected in my videos as well. We know this oh so well. Wow! Thank you for this! You both are amasing

[@TwinFlameHealers]

+Nenari Diamondlady Love that this resonates with you

[@joannebohan2243]

amazing thank you that guide thing is so significant xx

[@TwinFlameHealers]

+Ladymoon Merlin You're very welcome

[@skywalker113.]

So helpful. Thank you so very much!

[@NewWorldAllstar]

You two are amazing! ❤

[@robinjessop6607]

I have listened to many of your videos and was wishing you would put out a new one and you did at perfect timing! I had just asked him why he was behaving like "such a jerk" and literally asked spirit that u would make a video to give me understanding that would be entitled "why is my twin soul such a jerk!" Thank you from the bottom of my heart. You covered every question i had. Sending you both tons of gratitude and love!!!!!! From ontario

[@TwinFlameHealers]

+Robin Jessop HI Robin, This is major manifesting on your part. I suggest you work more with that, including attracting your twin more fully to you.

[@floatingcastlesofficial2636]

Robin Jessop I feel this on a spiritual level haha

[@aeyout-erahmetaphysicalalc7385]

Thank you so much ! this is really helpful

[@KimberleyJackshaw]

Thank you so much for this.. Hi from Vancouver Canada. I love this so much... I totally understand it is from spirit.. thank you for your insight... I've lost jobs and stuff.. I know now it's the universe pushing me to do things because it's about our union and needing to better myself for myself, us etc..

[@teresinasullo4922]

thank you...this may be the best twin flame video ever made...you covered more, brought clarity and touched this topic w such brilliance...i feel the healing. I understand. I am still trapping myself as I yearn...but this was superb in helping me continue to get grounded...and not perfect. I also want to say, because my life has been destroyed, thank you for giving me permission to say it like it is; I was unwilling until this video...i have found myself with a floundering new business, nothing I ever could rely on before am I able, and no money. So until some of us resurrect our new selves, and can pay you, thank you for making this material available. So, so thankful. More tears...they just keep flowing...and right now I am just feeling thankful that this came in today.

[@TwinFlameHealers]

+Teresina Sullo Thank you so much for this Teresina

[@CrystalShoener]

YOU TWO ARE SO SWEET TOGETHER *weeping*

[@remithivierge3781]

Tears of grief, tears of joy! It's really crucial for us to find kindred souls who can relate - whether that be twin flame, soul friendships, or whoever. If you want more from us, go to twinflamehealers.com for free videos and blogs, inexpensive webinars, etc.

[@rosepelzel4244]

Thank God I found you!!!! Thankyou so much!!

[@Embracelife1222]

I had an aha moment when listening to these. I said, Omg! Higher level. Its not just me! This hits close to home. Currently not with mine. The part you when you said, your goggly eyed & then your at your happiest this is your true self. Yes! Thats how it felt. Then I became the monster, the green eyed monster, untrusting, insecure. All those past traumas, hurts, betrayals, all came to a head. My father was a huge negative energy & it drove us apart. He broke up with me. It felt like someone died. I remember being on my knees sobbing uncontrollably, shaking, screaming. I didn' t get out of bed, I couldn't move. I wound up in the hospital, really sick. I woke up & realized, I have to change, get rid of the negatives, love myself first. I am working so hard. I recently had a set back. We went out a few weeks ago. It was wonderful, we were so happy. We spent the night holding each other,nothing else He told me things I never thought, he would. I told him how I felt. We talked a few days after that. Its been weeks nothing. At first I was upset but after a recent set back with me & I have to let it go & get back to connecting with my higher self. I was very emotional, hurt that it went from communicating to nothing. It get it now, its not all abt me & my wants. I have to heal, continue on my journey. He does too. Here's what I was truly searching for: faith, trust & belief. All 3 were nonexistent. I came across a twin flame video while looking for meditation videos, that blew me away. It was like this walked into my life & it made me sob. I than came across your videos & I am further blown away. I am fully aware & understand that I have no control over this, that even though we're not together at this time, it doesn't mean we won't be at some point. I felt from the moment we were first together we were meant for each other. I don't speak much abt this but when you know, you know. Thank you for your wisdom & sharing your gift. The clearings are very, very powerful for me. Ty

[@TwinFlameHealers]

Ya - we get scary at times as we work at clearing the depths of our gunk. Keep clearing. As we do so, we become more and more a higher wiser being, and less and less a scary monster.

[@erinajoan]

I get this. Was the same for me. My whole body suffers and my heart yearns to be with him, but he's cut me off. Its testing my patience and emotional discipline. How do I deal with this?

[@StarH01]

Loved it, thank you!

[@arianasyvilla]

Once again, Jill & Remi, Thank You, Thank You, Thank YOU ! ! ! I watch your Videos on KZbin ,on a regular basis Clearing energy and Transforming Energy, .healing myself and my Twin Flame, Jerry. You too Have changed my Life. Just wanted you to Know !!!!!Sending you Love, Light & Joy, Syvilla Ariana

[@jvv4505]

And many thanks for your videos and healing work

[@TwinFlameHealers]

If you would like more from us, go to twinflamehealers.com - free videos and blogs, etc.

[@honeybfly1980]

Great video!!

[@liurodriguez5964]

Wow, true to the teeth! Everything that you are saying is so truee, it may sound insane, but it is exactly like that, yes, the power of Shiva transform us through such experiences. I feel at times that I had died and come back again.

[@stephanyfaycohen3842]

Thank you so very much Jill and Remi. I was sent by my spirit dad, Archangel Michael, to this video. I'd never heard of you and your work before now. Thank you both for your honesty, insight, wisdom and understanding about "Twin Flames". I have experienced EVERYTHING that you speak of - except calling my "Twin" names, because I know I would only be "hurting myself". You are also soooooo right about outsiders not understanding the deeper connection. Thankfully, my "Twin Flame" and I have recognised each other in 3D, 4D and higher. However, we are physically thousands of miles apart. On higher levels he is called LORD SHIVA (your statue in background). i am very sure I will be meeting with the two of you, if not in 3D, then in higher levels. I will also be tuning in to your website. Sending much love, gratitude and blessings. From: Stephany Fay aka Mary Magdalene

[@gittefruitarian100]

Love U2 so much

[@TwinFlameHealers]

You're very welcome.

[@FrequencyWitch8888]

Thank you so much for your help . I’m considering to do a private consult with you guys . My twin flame broke my hearth and I just leave him , because was too much . He was abusive , mentally and verbally , not in other forms . But every time I do something with your videos things go better . I really don’t know what to do , I’m just stepping in my power , understanding the lessons . And I have a new relationship with myself and the universe and I’m feeling a massive shift . I’m feeling better on my own , I’m loving myself again , finally , accepting my demons and working on my inner child . Sometimes I feel so angry at him , and I’m trying to forget myself and him . And sometimes I feel a lot of compassion and love for him and I’m worried for him . He was toxic and almost demonic at times , and I was toxic with myself . I had the feelings that he is dealing with some big evil energies . He is a great man , strong , a leader . I strongly believe that for him the attacks are so much cause he can be full of power and light . I do need help

[@TwinFlameHealers]

We'll be happy to help you. If you'd like a session, go to www.quantumunion.com in the sessions section to see the requirements. I'll be happy to work with you if you decide to proceed. If you're not ready to do so, we have many free videos at www.twinflamehealers.com, as well as free blogs on both our websites.

[@jenniferhorvath1027]

I needed to re-listen to this today...as I was about to call my twin out as the Double Standard Man! Thanks for reminding me that we're clearing out all our junk... 😬

[@orionkiernancarrier4157]

Jill and Remi, I am soooo proud of and grateful for your shining, shining example of courage, commitment. integrity, vulnerability and persistence. Wow. Wow. And more wow. I live with a twin flame now (I think), and while there are bumps, it looks like I have an easy ride compared to you guys! :) Love, love, love.

[@TwinFlameHealers]

+Orion Kiernan Carrier Hi Orion, Our relationship went quite smoothly the first two years, perhaps in part because we were apart half the time because Jill was away half time to be with her kids in Indiana. Another aspect is that soul mates have it much more easy than twin flames. The twin flame relationship is the most intense one energetically in that it brings everything up very quickly to be transformed. As we said in the video, nothing has transformed us as much or as quickly on our spiritual journey as our relationship.

[@orionkiernancarrier4157]

+Twin Flame Healers Yup, definitely easier to stay in honeymoon when we're apart. And we also have been apart as well... lots of quiet sighs of relief, which I've been attributing to my love of solitude. But maybe it's more. ...or maybe a soul mate. Btw, loved that you included comments about same sex twins in there. Have yet to meet one... ;)

[@marilenaangelopoulou329]

Thank you so much. Bless you.

[@Theshastarasta258]

Thankyou for all your beautiful wise guidance 🙏🏽🌿

[@TwinFlameHealers]

You're very welcome. If you want to be updated re. our offerings, you may want to check quantumunion.com and consider registering there

[@Vimsetutta]

Thank you for all your videos!

[@twinflamehealers6662]

You're very welcome. We have free blogs and videos on our website. If you choose to register with us, we'll keep you up to date re. free offerings, and more. twinfamehealerscom

[@exploreimagine3394]

My twin & I are going through an intense break up. Lots that you guys talk about is revelant to the situation. It’s hard because I want to let go while at the same time my intuition is telling me we are not done.

[@sacredempress]

Thank you so much for this video!!!!!!

[@TwinFlameHealers]

You're very welcome. In case you want more, you can check us out at quantumunion.com

[@Snowstar50]

It's so good to hear you say that your twin flame you're with is the same person I once wondered was a narcissist. So many people say don't put up with bad behaviour but we've worked through it over 8 years and things are better. Plus the fact that I can work on helping my twin flame by meditations because talking to him does no good.

[@TwinFlameHealers]

You've got it! If you want more from us, check our website for more free healing videos re. twin flames, webinars, etc. - twinflamehealers.com

[@TokyoKowboy]

Finally Remi someone talking about the Feminine Male and Masculine Female. Myself being a strong 3D Alpha guy and having my twin being so feminine and beautiful but on the soul level we are the opposite. So great video and I am so glad the way you guys bring it up! :)

[@TwinFlameHealers]

Now that a month has gone by since your comment to us, consider that perhaps you're not twin flames. What we see is that twin flames are the same at the soul level, but have some differences at the 3D level.

[@JW_AquilaArt]

Thank you for sharing

[@lemezedemaine4881]

Thank you! God bless you. 🙏♥️

[@LashaNafteta]

these healing session are essential for those on the twin flame journey!! are you guys going to upload more? would love it. especially the clearing.

[@TwinFlameHealers]

+LashaNafteta Hi Lasha, We will have more videos in future. For now, we have very inexpensive webinars that can be downloaded immediately at very little cost - at twinflamehealers.com

[@kellycolmey3742]

You guys are so lucky to be together.

[@floatingcastlesofficial2636]

This resonates so deeply. I started learning about Shiva and Vishnu and seeing pictures of them right before my twin flame activated journey began, or, before I was awakened to it. It has forced me into opening up and being vulnerable about myself and with others, in ways I never would have imagined. We all say things we don’t mean because we are acting out of old templates and fears, amazing. Going to watch Looney Tunes and get in touch with my inner child 😆

[@TwinFlameHealers]

If you want more from us, free videos and blogs etc., you can go to twinflamehealers.com

[@haleybain6816]

Very very helpful. Thank you

[@silverlining.mcz.5529]

Thank Father/ Mother God for you two 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️

[@shristee16]

Make more of such. You both are amazing ❤️

[@TwinFlameHealers]

Thank you. If you want to see more healing videos from us re. twin flames, we have many at twinflamehealers.com

[@imanijones227]

This really hit the spot. When he said he would wanna run but would sit and talk to spirit and spirit would tell him to stay put. I felt that. Everytime I’m like REALLY! You want me to STAY???

[@revatishinde_]

I love this .. :) Thank you for such guidance..makes a lot of sense when u actually see this play out in 3D.. ..Namaste from India to you too :) _/\_ I really hope you guys do more videos..

[@TwinFlameHealers]

+Revati Shinde Thank you, we have a lot of free blogs and webinars available on our website - twinflamehealers.com

[@zarah8872]

Amen thank you and blessings x

[@growbeyond777]

I look at you and feel my heart so strongly. so much love. Thanks for youre work. I really do appreciate it. Still it is spooky to me when there are all kinds of strange noises in my room and I feel higher beings comming in. I really have to get used to this.😛👻

[@tarothijadevenus4017]

You made me cry... Thank you ☺️ 🙏🏻💕

[@TwinFlameHealers]

You're very welcome. If you want more from us, free videos and blogs etc., check our website - twinflamehealers.com

[@TwinFlameHealers]

If you want more of our work, free videos and blogs, etc., go to twinflamehealers.com

[@EugeMarcos]

Thankyou. The only thing I didn’t like wss that Guides don’t know what to do. But I guess we are our own guides so thats why we have to coordinate. We are being Guided I believe that

[@higherselftarot4304]

Great video, thanks, that is happening to us, coming and going, personality crash, anger and attraction, it drives me crazy 🙈

[@TwinFlameHealers]

If you want more from us, check our website. We're starting a webinar series on the very topic you mention - two weeks from now. twinflamehealers.com

[@junopagoni1318]

I must say that I just love the energy that you put out... amazing.. I do have just one question if you from what sounds like were on opposites sides of the planet How did you meet?? would love to hear that story... thanks Sheryl Love and Light

[@HannasSavannah]

Wow this is so relevant to my experience lately. Thank-you so much for your guidance! How can I get the most out of this process with a twin whom is very resistant to change (and is upset with me for catalyzing these changes) in a way that doesn't disrespect his boundaries?

[@TwinFlameHealers]

+Hanna Hopkins Oh boy Remi and I had to learn this one the hard way! When you know you're dealing with two of him (his soul, then his personality/ego/inner child etc.) you can stay focused on the soul energy, and fuel your mission and union no matter what is happening in 3D or at the ego level. The parts of him that are resisting you are the lower aspects/small self and the templates and negative energies he is caught up in -- they're not really him. You can do healing and clearing on behalf of these parts. Give his inner child some love and keep focused on the real stuff -- the twin flame energy that has so much power to it to use for your life and mission. The less we resist their resistance, and the less we get caught up in each other's "stuff" the better things go. Stay focused on your own healing and growth, connect with Spirit in ways that feel right for you, fill up and send him love through the pipeline...I could write a book on this LOL. Hope this little bit was helpful.

[@crystallady6707]

Wow, I was a housewife in Indiana also. My TF contacted me after 30 years, I came running basically. We have had many difficulties but the destruction was a blessing as well.

[@jenioneill4162]

I 100% did experience a false Twin. Eleven years before I met my Twin Flame I met and fell in love with a man that pulled me in the same way as my Twin Flame. He was the same birth sign. He looked at me the same way my Twin did. Like he could see my very soul. He swore he could never love me. But everything about his actions confused me because it felt like he did. It was so difficult for me to gather the strength to walk away from him. I married a man that didn't love me after I swore off love. Because it seemed to literally trick me. But I fell in love again because seemed to see me. That too led to a broken heart. Or so I thought. Then in walked my Twin showing me for the 1st time in my whole life what it was like to be loved. And now I'm trying to feel love in a life that holds none for me. With a Twin I have the strongest telepathic connection that disagrees with everything I listen to to try to help this feel better.

[@TwinFlameHealers]

If you need more from us, go to our website - twinflamehealers.com for free healing videos re. twins, webinars, etc.

[@taylornicole8706]

But narcissists can appear to be a twin flame, without actually being one, correct? I've been involved with one for almost two years, and the thought that he's my twin flame keeps me going back. Our relationship mirrors the typical twin flame relationship (on-off,push-pull) he's brought up a lot of issues within me and such, but it makes me feel very low and small to think he's my twin flame, and to think that he's not makes me feel expansive and happy. I thought he was the one for many reasons, but when we first hung out, I realized that he was not- but I didn't trust myself and so here we are now. I recognize all of his sociopath tactics now, and I'm tired of holding onto him just because there's a chance by letting him go I'm simply trying to run from myself and hinder my growth. Throughout this relationship I've always found a way to blame everything on myself and it makes me so sad.. when he's not in my life I do well, but once we start talking again my health and life starts to decline. The last time we had an intense conversation, I had to stop talking to him because I literally felt like I was dying, that all the life was being sucked out of me- and this was only through text(I moved to a new state). So now I notice when he's trying to blame me for something and play the victim, and I just don't give in and give him my energy. But I don't know what to believe. He really doesn't have any mission related goals, he doesn't dream of giving. He's tried to convince me of that, like once, but doesn't keep up with those stories. I can see this as being a soul contract. I've been in a very dark place and he's uprooted everything I've suppressed, but by holding onto him I'm only holding onto that part of me. Are connection was sex based, and now that we don't have that, it's just a push and pull talking about being together and why we can't(back and forth) were no good for eachother, dramatic goodbyes, just a bunch of hopeless romantic shit. And I've been afraid to let this hopeless romantic part of me go because I'm afraid our tension and connection will dissipate. I've been afraid to lose this interest in him. Yet, I feel like I'm moving past that fear at this point.. I can't imagine life without him, yet I'm getting very curious as to what it is like.. it seems a lot brighter, and I almost feel ready to step out of the darkness I've been living in for so long. Helpppp???

[@TwinFlameHealers]

Narcissists are people who care only about themselves. Twin flame runners may look like narcissists. The latter are closed out of fear. The crucial question - are you drawn to this person at the soul level. If so, you need to help them heal. If it's your personality that is drawn to them, such as our inner child wanting to be filled up by them, then you may need to let them go. First, you need to learn to heal the hole in you, and surrender attachments. After that, you can see more clearly if you're still drawn to that person or not. Another piece - are you doing some things that trigger them and they run as a result.

[@lk3397]

@@TwinFlameHealers I honestly think false twins are a very real thing. There’s a lot of narcissists who will play into the twin flame dynamic for an agenda. I don’t find Akashic records accurate for determining if twins are twins. You both have not been separated either so it’s much easier to have hope. You have someone whose determined to stay no matter what!

[@darkling2211]

My mind is BLOWN! Losing everything is a thing?!? I thought it was just me! Just 6 weeks ago I lost my home, my TF partner, my step-children, my pets, and all of my possessions overnight. I went from TF bliss to absolute devastation in the blink of an eye. And yes, it was at the hands of my Beloved. Hearing that this is a common pattern among TF's is somehow comforting to me. Thank you once again Remi and Jill. You two are truly doing God's work and I am SO thankful to have found you. Much Love.

[@alexandraazer1990]

Yes, dear. I lost everything too. Even my So Called friends say goodbye because They do not understand my suffering. It is definetly a phenomenon. If I watch closely I noticed that my Ego and inner child is going crazy while my Soul is actually looking forward to a new life. If you cant take it, Go within. For me the Hard thing really is the egoic attacks from other people because I am suffering.

[@katharinespehar9639]

Hm, that destruction part explains why my twin said, "You killed something in me." :-)

[@TwinFlameHealers]

+Katharine Spear Haha yes indeed...

[@mistyriley7330]

Yes my tf turned into a monster! He was battling substance abuse problem which highly contributed to this...I thank God we have dealt with those issues and that part is over!

[@ranjanikrishnan4327]

Last 10 mins - healing, thank u :)

[@TwinFlameHealers]

You're very welcome. We have many healing videos for twin flames on our website in case you're interested - twinflamehealers.com

[@karliniafunk]

thank you a lot!!!

[@MsFlybybutterfly]

Yall are freaking amazing. Wish I could meet yall in person.

[@TwinFlameHealers]

If you want to meet us, go to our website - more videos and blogs - you can meet us that way - at twinflamehealers.com. We appreciate your feedback.

[@kirtisoma3211]

thank you for your video , 10 years ago I was in a relationship (with my twin flame)which ended cause I had to move cities. years later I I started a new relationship which I'm now in for 8 years. my tf kept going in and out my life , he would be concerned if I ate or if am in good health. i been going through hard times his like , if you need somewhere to go come live with me. we can figure this out together.

[@nicolabrodie2307]

Thank you :)

[@squarebobsspongepants4618]

so true, im a addict unfortunately for my twin flame...causes us much trouble...but we are true twin flames...thankyou for your videos...sure to help us much as we only just found out despite a four year mad journey of signs and strangeness....

[@TwinFlameHealers]

We have a brief webinar available on our website that focuses on substance abuse as a spiritual issue that can be resolved - at twinflamehealers.com.

[@mlove.97]

Thank you 💗