Why Is Nostalgia So Painful?

[@ColeHastings]

Wanted to do something a little different today. Been feeling a bit strung out on the self help content so I needed to switch it up. Let me know what you thought. Also, I'll probably be making a post about this but I'm gonna take the next week off to help me generate new ideas and recharge. Nothing serious, just need a small break.

[@SeanLunny]

Enjoyed it brother

[@spanishDoll1]

Awesome content Cole *hugs*

[@RorySadler]

Daft Punk calling it quits totally makes me miss those times listening to their music 😢

[@alex_georgescu]

Loved this video.. I feel the same nostalgia with some songs.. For ex, Get free-Major Lazer.. It turned 8 fckin years a few months ago!! UNREAL😭

[@capbrodilupo7940]

Taking a break always helps me improve. My example - programming. It's easy to leave your code editor up on your second monitor 24/7 and work on it little by little in chunks, but taking a week off always gets my brain refreshed and I'm way more productive until the burnout kicks back in. Hope you still find time to do little social media stuff until you're refreshed and ready to dive back into youtube.

[@Timefades1]

I think a big part of it, when hearing old songs or seeing old vids and photos, is just realizing how quick this time on earth is, how things change so fast, and how our youth simply slips away,

[@kanawaaluchack5363]

Probably

[@hamoodtatari]

Exactly :(

[@moviesandstuff34]

This is accurate, I am somehow glad and sad that people around the world understand my problem

[@prateekyadav9811]

Absolutely mate.

[@rohanindra6401]

Yeah, the 2000s music videos hit different. But I think that era had a feeling of confidence to it so it always feel special. Like even movies like Spiderman 2 - were sooo fun. 2010s is so lacking in beauty and dominated by politicis. Lacking originality. Tik tok era

[@royallan]

I just searched "nostalgia" on youtube and arrived at this. This is the worst kind of pain

[@ColeHastings]

Welcome

[@eun-solkim7080]

Exact same thing over here

[@suprisebuttsecksspy5958]

@@ColeHastings i realize how good those old times can affect what i was now. I was not feeling pain but this feeling just making me sad and cant let go my past

[@dankdino2771]

Same thing I did

[@legendairymilkman2373]

Crazy how I did the same thing

[@aidacailar1126]

2012-2014 were the only times in my life when I was truly happy, really. Everything was so innocent, pure and beautiful back then, and now it's all emptiness, pain and struggle. Thinking about those old days makes me incredibly depressed because I know that no matter what I do, I'll never be able to experience life in the same way.

[@nooneaskedok8652]

Cap your prob 10

[@kubujkp3249]

I'm 35 about to be 36 and have been finding myself sad quite often with the thought of knowing there's no way to go back in time and relive that fun, troublesome youthful nature of life. My mind still feels young but the fact is it's not and never will be.. I look at young teens and think "they have no idea how fast time is really going" this shit's depressing AF lol ... But, what 'r ya gonna do 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@shashish6856]

Your names ironic ​@@nooneaskedok8652

[@PhatBoysYT7]

I was just thinking that nice to know I’m not the only one 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@necksnapper933]

​@@nooneaskedok8652a 10 year old wouldnt and cant talk in a serious and good way like that

[@fv8405]

"It feels like I just haven't actually existed the past couple of years". The same for me. During 2020 quarantine I saw myself alone in my room with all my free time to think about myself, my fears, and my goals. Now I can barely believe the past years of my life I was just a blob without any knowledge about myself but sometimes, I miss the old days of ignorance, where life was so simple: school - egg bread - adventure time - Minecraft. No worries about life nor existential pain, just egg bread. Idk, I guess this is that thing of "becoming an adult" and start caring about your future

[@EnjoyGengar]

Jokes on you. You can still life ignorant. But we all know its not the smartest way.

[@lyt5777]

@Kuba P what?

[@hamoodtatari]

Same… during 2020/2021 I started to really feel nostalgic of old times… like really a lot. And now I really miss times even 2019. But for me 2016 hits the hardest

[@user-kt1no7yx1u]

2019 and 2020 pre covid sucked for me anyway. I didn't have friends, overloaded with exams, but 2017, 2018 ugh i just wanna go back

[@daichi1688]

😢

[@valon.pllana]

Wanting to live the normal life line hits me so hard

[@MrJavonnthomas]

Don’t know why but I didn’t expect to see you here. Respect!

[@Dylosophy]

Pllana! What're the chances I find you here lol

[@Kinomiyasan]

How the hell i found you

[@knowheregamerschronicles1]

hits me so hardyou’re describing my experiences

[@xilanceylan]

Lol you’re describing my experiences so accurately it’s scary

[@mattlosch7495]

Same dude I was like dang this guy understands

[@ColeHastings]

Love yall

[@demetresswright3090]

Yes its crazy how we can share so many of the same feelings

[@Shui90]

嗨锡兰

[@bluefox564]

Same here

[@giovanicappelaro5169]

Sometimes I feel it for times that I didn't even enjoyed when living. But now when remembered they seem good and I miss it.

[@ColeHastings]

Happens to me all the time

[@giovanicappelaro5169]

@@ColeHastings It can even trigger some ansiety.

[@WinterNox]

@ItSickBrah It is always better than it seemed..

[@Roey512]

I feel you so much. Something about school years seems so far away to me, and I'm only 23 years old. When I was 8-16 I wasn't always happy, but looking back. those were so crazy good years.

[@sumitraj6878]

@@Roey512 why does this happen????? this feeling is so depressing

[@themorlmeister1860]

The timing of this video is scary. Been feeling the exact same feelings recently. You’re a master at connecting with your audience Cole, I guess we are all pretty similar.

[@ColeHastings]

Very happy I'm the type of youtuber that resonates with people

[@Squirtle-p2w]

Sometimes I just wish I could go back to the hood all days, Afterall when I didn’t know what I didn’t know life seemed pretty good

[@matrix6161]

Back when I was young, the feeling of nostalgia was never a bad thing at all. Now that I've aged over time. Nostalgia has turned into a bad thing.

[@sumitraj6878]

yeasssss exactlyyy.

[@ShainaCilimberg]

It makes me want my younger self. It makes me yearn for past good times and makes it hard to look tot he future

[@Ray.M.12345]

​@@ShainaCilimbergSame..

[@analisesantos1571]

@@ShainaCilimberg BINGO!! How are you managing to deal with it?

[@ShainaCilimberg]

@@analisesantos1571 I am not sure, honestly

[@MJ12chemist]

Would go back to 2017 all the way. To have another shot, act differently, not screw up. But if I did, I would never gain the experience I have and wouldn't be anywhere close to where I am. Still hurts.

[@swissbankroll1929]

It’s 2015/2016 for me I was in freshman year at the time. Shit was so simple

[@frmtha602]

2019 for me😔

[@nullMusi]

Definitely 2015/16

[@heartbreakermashups]

same. life has been kicking my ass since 2018, and if i could i’d do so many things differently. say goodbyes and focus on the important areas of life. but i’m afraid if things changed i wouldn’t have the knowledge i have now.

[@bawla1870]

For me the best years of my life were 2015 to 2019

[@infinitebeing21]

Change is inevitable. Everything changes with time . So we should learn to live in the present moment because it is the only thing that actually exists.

[@ColeHastings]

Indeed

[@78_mary31]

@@ColeHastings This hurts when u said only present exist now ..its like hopelessness but its true tho

[@neutral1087]

When you realise this present will be past in just a blink of an eye

[@Γρηγόρης-ν5ρ]

​@@neutral1087You could say that the present doesn't exist

[@neutral1087]

@@Γρηγόρης-ν5ρ just realised that I made this comment like yesterday 💀

[@Austyn_Young7]

2010 to 2016 was the best years for me.. the it’s so painful to know that u can never go back and it feels like your locked away and will never be free again 😭❤️

[@Avery-ct4ow]

Stop ur making me cry..🥺

[@bred3862]

Same for me and 2014 was peak time for me so much excitement and curiosity and peace without anxiety, existential crisis.

[@diactionza5864]

I wish we could all get together and share our pain

[@leonn6499]

​@@diactionza5864 yeah

[@agent5tm902]

I bet we all want a time machine that can bring us back to these years, one that doesn't make time problems if you met your self and everyone gets scared and confused. But that will never happen, if it did we would probably had met our old selfs by now. 😞

[@CyrilJanDacasin]

POV: You discovered a childhood song, remembered a moment from the past, saw a clip of one of your favorite shows on youtube. Now you’re here. How ever you feel. I wish you the best in life!

[@begood4786]

Yep and thank you! 😭

[@ShyShayar]

you are genius!

[@lloyden2152]

Don't make me cry

[@adamadam3239]

i wish i would cry with discovered childhood song with 6 years ago mean song with based video games that you'll able to miss that sometimes and got me too

[@JGProductions6581]

I saw a music video that was similar to go with the flow by QOTSA but it featured an aux cord flying into a giant amplifier and it’s from a Canadian band called Tea Party. Takes me back when I didn’t even pay attention to the title to the song.

[@Liz-in8lu]

Thank you for this video. I’m in my hometown around the holidays and it’s crippling, the nostalgia and grief I feel.

[@thefinalboss2083]

Humans seems to always want what they can't have, the fact that this time is gone forever, makes it sweeter. There is a big difference between remembering and living, life is not a fairy tale, but it doesn't mean you can't be happy right here, right now, you just have to give yourself the permission to be

[@78_mary31]

Thank you . I was feel really ill with nostalgia..its like I didnt want to live rn just to live back in the past it felt so bad . this helped me thank you so much

[@MrFredstt]

@@78_mary31 I feel the same exact way Mary. It's crazy when you think that you're essentially sacrificing your present to try and get back lost time. Hang in there though we'll both get through it.

[@mayersalahsalah7100]

Right

[@TheMellizification]

I feel like this about music from 2009, I was 14, I was naive and I wasn't worried about anything... but I think the pandemic has exacerbated our feelings of "things used to be different" at least for me

[@TheMellizification]

@@hikhuhvhh7883 I mean my car is from 2005 so I'm living that life in 2021 and I don't really mind it honestly 😅

[@aemiliacarolphonetube9749]

I feel the same way about Christmas music from Ray Conniff and Love to Sing.

[@wokk9543]

well im only 13 but i feel the same about 2013-18

[@PassportBoysAreNotwelcome]

2009-2010 were my best years, listening to the songs of those years takes me back to memory lane, where I was 14 and everything was just simple, stupid and fun. For the past couple years, nostalgia hit me so hard, and idk if it's just part of being depressed. Every single night I wish I die from sleep, hoping that I may be able to go back to those years and relive the memories.

[@DreamofAnything]

Exactly, after 2020 nostalgia has become so different

[@j.j.negrontv1111]

One day, we’ll be nostalgic about this very moment. So enjoy tomorrow’s memories as we live them.

[@LaneCopelandMusic]

“It just feels like I haven’t actually existed the past couple of years.” That one hit HARD. This video encapsulated all of the feelings that I’ve been struggling with for the past few years. Thank you.

[@gregflip5938]

or that you’ve existed but haven’t lived

[@jinhub2175]

​@@gregflip5938 that hit hard

[@SparcReviews]

For me it was 1999-2005. And it hurts deeply that I can't go back

[@roarred]

I think feelings of nostalgia are about the present not the past nor the future, you can only experience the past in the present.

[@matej9368]

For me 2014-2019 cause I am younger and I feel nostalgia for these times

[@Kevin-k4n7i]

same@@matej9368

[@Sniped137]

​@yamaagamingytit's so strange how during 2020 I wanted COVID and the time to go so quickly, but now I want to go back to 2012-2020 times

[@valeriak7485]

I have noticed there are less and less people who remember the early 2000s and 1990s. Lots of them passed, and this makes me even more nostalgic to these times

[@klutchedup9]

2020 changed everything life hasn't felt the same

[@atsushiiis]

Fr people are so mean now

[@YMe-il1vu]

I know​@@atsushiiis

[@NickFrancoeur-gv4sf]

Ye even during 2020 felt better than after the pandemic 😭😭😭

[@AbbysalWarrior72756]

Everything is so boring and empty

[@NickFrancoeur-gv4sf]

@@AbbysalWarrior72756 2022 and after have felt like hell. Nothing feels real since then idk why

[@AhmetKaan]

Cole is the next big self improvement KZbinr for sure.

[@blakerabizadeh]

Agreed, the next Nathaniel drew and Matt d avella!

[@ColeHastings]

Love y'all, the growth wouldnt be possible without all of you watching my stuff

[@blakerabizadeh]

@@ColeHastings 🙏🙏

[@blakerabizadeh]

@@Greeaf69 ikr?!?! With content like this he’s going to have millions soon.

[@richgenix]

Fax

[@jad3n114]

I feel like as life goes on, your burdens and hardships increase and you progressively feel nostalgic for the times that were easier, while life is getting harder and harder. During those times that we look back on i am sure we did not care and felt the same we do now, but once you look back on something through a new lens, your perspective seems to change.

[@LeroyKang-nc5ez]

"Early" life crisis

[@sumitraj6878]

@Rifle Eyez yeah but why is this happening to us? why do we think more about the times which we wanted to escape back then but now have a big room for them in our brains and hearts. this is sooo depressing.

[@reallifepsych3309]

We will always have nostalgic thoughts, but I hope to never wonder what if. Win or lose, I’d rather know I tried!

[@ColeHastings]

Well said

[@theryanvin]

Iv’e been feeling so nostalgic too but then I realize looking back at this time in my life is going to be the most nostalgic

[@ColeHastings]

I have a feeling ill feel the same

[@lyleabapo7731]

@@ColeHastings It seems as if we need distance and time to fully see and appreciate the value of things in our pasts. Nostalgia lets us observe those moments and periods in the smallest details and really know the littlest things that we took for granted.

[@hryfa5487]

@@lyleabapo7731 damn that hit me

[@RevanPorkins]

This

[@jinhub2175]

THIS!!! I think about it all the time and it encourages me to live in the present

[@erinkezar]

I've been having serious nostalgia the past couple months that's creating a lot of additional anxiety for me. I think mine is hitting me hard because it's my last year in my 20's. I had a great day today but am finding myself extremely sad because I'm realizing just how fast time flies and how it is ever changing. Change is hard. Looking back at happy times also triggers feelings of "what ifs". It's nice feeling that I'm not alone. Thank you for making this video.

[@ashokodedra4827]

I'm going through the same .....do you have any solutions please!

[@Fa20233]

Going through the same, last year in my 20s with lots of changes and life transitions the past year

[@Gio-m]

I’m still nostalgic for 2019. Just graduated college, started my first job in tech, met some really awesome people and once 2020 hit it all went away. Still sort of breaks me inside whenever I look back. Especially when a song that I listened to then plays on my Spotify playlist.

[@NostalgiCrazy]

Nostalgia seems like a friend, but it can be our enemy. For me it's been an issue for as long as I can remember, even as young as 12. I really don't know what to do at this point, it's been eating me away more and more every year. All I want to do is go back in time and stay there. I don't see much happiness in the future and that's depressing enough 😞

[@revo5563]

Sometimes you want to go back to moments you weren't even there for. I have had the same thing since about 10, it shouldn't be a worry at that age, you should be care free and enjoying your youth. It will just eat you alive, and nothing seems to help.

[@agx111]

same

[@agent5tm902]

@@revo5563 I feel you bud, if I could I would go back to the years that I didn't exist and experience the stuff my parents did. But I guess some stuff needs to be left behind in the past and remembered in family storys, photos and VHS tapes. Oh gosh I just made me self tear up 😢

[@Jelloonpellow]

@@agent5tm902 I feel you too wish I could’ve been there in the 80s 90s. Since about 11/12 years I’ve been nostalgic everywhere.

[@Riu-bw4bl]

Same. To a T. I felt nostalgic for my past ever since I was around 10 and now it just gets worst and worst. It seems to have hit extremely hard this year. Maybe because the world I grew up in seems like 100 years ago and not just 15-20 because of how fast out culture and technology has changed. It’s so different. Or surviving just seems to be very very hard as a adult and I miss just.. living.. I honestly can’t take this feeling but I can’t seem to make it go away. Don’t know why.

[@boopbeepbop154]

I get intense nostalgia all the time, even if it just happened a year ago, or a few months ago. If I look back far enough I get (situationally) depressed for a long period of time. If I try to "relive" the good memory I just feel more sad. If I play a song, or a video game, or watch a TV show that is nostalgic it just ruins the feeling. It's a type of pain that I don't want to let go of.

[@deanjelbertaustria6174]

I miss the past.. i wanna go back there..

[@kill3rclown690]

😢😭

[@kill3rclown690]

I miss the old days when everything was amazing nothing to worry about and I was actually happy

[@wafflesforme12]

i miss my school,i miss coming back and chilling, i miss my old friends, our laughs my geninue last happy days

[@kevinderrick5296]

This video is golden! This is exactly how I’m feeling. Even after finally achieving what I worked hard when it’s all about just me it’s never satisfying. Life is to be shared with others you love !

[@nope.3380]

this is eerie, you're describing exactly what i and others have been feeling in the comments. and i also miss those 2016 days too, phew it just hurts me to the core everytime i bring that up 😭.

[@FineArtsMusic]

Nice video! I can strongly relate. You compare life now to how it was and you feel hopeless, realising that the present feels somewhat meaningless. It’s the time when we were making connections with other people and experiencing positive change in our lives which we will feel most nostalgic for. This past year in lockdown will most likely be remembered as both a depressing and boring time as nothing much tends to happen for most.

[@ColeHastings]

Thanks for sharing my dude

[@78_mary31]

Yeah it's this connection and people ❤..same I feel empty

[@kaylak7147]

It’s such a relief to know that I’m not the only one experiencing nostalgia this way, because the way you’ve described it is exactly how it feels for me. Even the time period! I’ve been nostalgic to the point of tears listening to my favorite bands and songs from the years 2016-2018 and thinking about the person that I was then and the people I had in my life, most of which I’ve lost touch with. At that time I was working a dead end job and could only really afford to take care of myself. I lived very simply but had my youth and would do things often that fulfilled me like going out with friends and meeting new people. Going to concerts and festivals. I’m now a mom and a nurse, able to provide a much better life for myself and my child, but I still painfully reminisce about those few short years when life was just so simple and well, happy. Maybe it’s because I know I can never get those experiences and years back, and I wish they lasted longer or that I appreciated them more while I had them.

[@TheRealBaycon]

Thinking about the past is extremely bittersweet for me. I always remember myself being with my classmates and friends whenever I hear a song or remember something related to the past. It's honestly really painful and hard to accept that these memories cannot be repeated again. This is why I would tell my younger sibling to fully enjoy that moment before it turns into a memory.

[@rjc7289]

The way you feel about 2016, I feel about my whole childhood in the 70's and 80's. We miss the care-free innocence of our youth, especially when we get caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life as adults. The slightest things can trigger it -- a song, a fleeting memory, an old memento from that time, remembering people from that time who've passed on, places we used to frequent that don't exist anymore, etc. Change is inevitable, but so is the feeling of longing and sadness we get because we can't live those precious moments in real time anymore. They all were a one-shot deal that are just memories now. So I guess the big question is, how do we accept change in such a manner that allows us to enjoy those old memories without spiraling down into a pit of depression? How can we treat our inner child with an occasional memory of times gone by without letting that child hold us back from embracing adulthood with open arms? Therein lies the key.

[@princesszara111]

Let us know if you find what works for you 😢😢

[@ThePetieProject]

Love the honesty with this one. I'm the same way when I listen to music from my sophomore / junior year of college which was 2010 / 2011. There is no replacing those years but new adventure and memories await. Don't get bogged down, enjoy those memories but don't dwell on them thinking you won't make new ones because you will. Great work on this one man.

[@VincentRombouts]

I feel this very deep i am a person with psychologic problems and all i can do is think about the beautifull moments in the past,i wish to live back there because i really enjoyed those times all i do now is suffer… society asks so much of us and those times where just pure enjoyable and free i know i am not alone in this world that thinks like this

[@ABirdOnTheMoon]

I share your agony. Whenever I face a stressful situation or just be traumatized by life these days, my mind travels back to my childhood home. Specifically to the years I lived happily with my Nan. It’s the most I felt safe, loved and cared for. I never felt the same ever again. My parents have their own demons. I walked on egg shells and became a shell for most of my life after and even when I tried flying away and creating my own safe place, I recently got a horrible incident where I got assaulted in my home by an intruder. It is worse because I don’t have my Nan on this earth anymore. I am all alone and some days are just hard.

[@MJ12chemist]

That it will never come again is what makes life so sweet. - Emily Dickinson

[@humblestrange5608]

Also, in the moment we often don't appreciate the present moment but oddly when we look back at moments we can appreciate them more after they have already happened

[@TyrellWhitney-h3x]

Nostalgia is kinda like love. It's usually a very beautiful and exciting feeling but sometimes it can also be very painful and depressing 😭

[@kidungmalam_]

2016 was the best year for me. Well, actually the first few months I have to admit it's kind of hard. But, after that everything seems goes smooth. Not that much dramas in my working life, I always hanging out with my friends, never have to worried about money. The Olympics, Copa America, Euro 2016, Pokémon Go....it was very fantastic year. But now, I lost everything in that. My father passed away, I'm unemployed for more than 1 year, my friends busy with their life and I always worry about the future.

[@hamoodtatari]

2016 was so fun. I remember I came back from UAE on January that year for once feeling happy 😃 and I was playing ROBLOX all the time back then. I wish I could go back to that time when I was 11..

[@JGProductions6581]

2016 was the best. I feel nostalgic watching low effort Grounded Videos. And I’ve been trying to recreate that feeling ever since.

[@farhanrahman8361]

Bro. U r literally literally literally literally literally describing my heart too. My heart tooooo. U r legend than legendary. 2016 and 17 only and not 18 that’s what my heart says that u revealed in this video. I thought those nostalgic OG’s are dead. But I was wrong, I was wrong, I was wrong. Bro I’m crying while typing. Automatically my emotions are in this comment coming out. The every single dialogue which u have said in this video was fact of mine. From 2018 I was slightly seeing some change in me and others. Everything was quite awesome but in from 2018 something I was feeling like I’m missing something. I’m literally depressed every second from 2018 till now. 2008-09-10-11-12-13-14-15-16-17 the end. I was thrilled by ur words. I was just shocked man. My tears won’t stop from the start of this video till end. My depressing years started from 2018. In 2010’s decade the best best and the best one was 2014 which i enjoyed like hell l. I won’t forget u and this video till my last breath. U should remember me. In this world we people like u and me are more than family. This world right now in one side and we people from nostalgia to the other side. Please my humble request read this comment. If u r depressed u and me and my brothers will feel a lot better. Every second bro I only remember of 2011-12.....17. Thanks u soo soo soo soo soo soo soo soo soo much for expressing the true pains of u, me and my brothers out there. This video is a core of whole KZbin.Love u man

[@mrcynxz5114]

This is really how Ive been feeling the past few months. From listening a couple of old songs and watching some old videos i started crying uncontrollably. I have no idea why, but it just happened. Man i miss those times.

[@jdkingsley6543]

It hurts, especially if you grew up in an area before social media. Those memories you arent able to just bring up on a phone. Or hop into a social media account to see. Those memories hit the hardest. At the very last you have a way to go back to those moments, In beautiful form. Think about those folks who were raised in times where they had nothing but memories.

[@danielchristopherdc]

I was born in 1989 and feel this completely. Those 90s and 2000s memories hit the hardest

[@SDas-vs7gwn]

I'm 20 and was feeling so sad for when I was a child, specifically for my nursery and primary school. I miss my teachers and that environment. I felt loved. I still feel loved . I'm not sorry because I'm not happy now, I'm fine and hope to be better than fine,but this sadness isn't about that. I just want to go back there and hug those pillars and benches and blackboards without having to be answerable to anyone . I want to meet my primary school headsir of that time and touch his feet and take his blessings. I just want to be a child again.

[@BM-de3zd]

I've come to learn that chasing my dream and trying to help others only caused me more stress. It wasn't until that I got laid off, that I learned to stop trying and let go, invest in myself and live in the present.

[@Bobross12345]

I specifically miss my 8th grade PE class. The year was 2011. 8 period so it was our last period of the day and it was nice to finally run around and be free after being stuck in class all day. I miss that class so much, it felt like a club literally the entire class got along. It was the only thing I’d look forward to every day. I miss those friends and cherish those memories. Adult life is hard and man… I miss that my time in middle school. Truly didn’t have a care or a worry. Was just living and having fun with friends.

[@plutoreturns9630]

You haven't just been building yourself up, you've helped all of us along the way.

[@ColeHastings]

❤ thanks for that

[@syrgakomuraliev]

Once I achieve something I wanted so much, I realize that none of this makes me happy. It makes me anxious. Pressure grows as you grow

[@78_mary31]

true very true

[@78_mary31]

it's like I dont want it anymore give me back what I lost

[@unyieldingproductions7714]

Having recently gone through surgery made me nostalgic for when I was in good health which is interesting because I never thought of that time to end up being nostalgic when I was living through it. I think everyone misses living a more carefree life, where today's problems don't exist.

[@johnnydouche7967]

damn i honestly feel like you read our minds with every release of your recent vids. very therapeutic sir i thoroughly enjoy them - keep making them !

[@ColeHastings]

Thank you

[@Dont-worry-about-it.]

Honestly I’m incredibly young compared to some people on the internet, but I always have felt a strong nostalgia for my home even though I haven’t moved out yet! My home is very symbolic of me and my personality and I’ve lived here my entire life, and I don’t plan on leaving this place for a while. One day my parents may sell it and if that’s the case I’ll buy it off of them, or if they stay I’ll live nearby so I can visit them and the house when I feel this nostalgia. There’s something just so so soothing about the image of me in my room on a fall day with some tea, listening to pure imagination while doing homework.

[@moviesandstuff34]

This is one of the most emotional videos ive seen and it almost made me shed a tear. I feel you man, so much. In every single word you said. Ive been going thorugh the exact same thing and I hope youve got through it and are living a better life.

[@davidcolantuono3622]

My nostalgia goes much further back than 2016. Mine goes back to the 1980s and 1990s when I was just a kid and a teenager. The first pain of nostalgia hit on the night of New Year's Eve in 1999. Seeing the ball drop to announce the year 2000 gave me so much dread and anxiety that I felt "ill" while everyone else was cheering and excited for the new year. I even had to lay down on the couch for a while. Since then, every New Year's Eve hits me the same way as it did back then. The big change in my life came during the Autumn of 2007. That's when I came down with a mysterious illness. I went to *THREE* doctors, and not *ONE* of them ever identified the illness. Not one! Ever since then, my life has spiraled downward. It's a very long and disturbing story of how badly my life has changed since 2007. Long story short, I'm currently homebound with no life, no family of my own (I only live with my dad), and no hope for the future. Take that any way you wish. But, the point is the same. I have repeatedly wished, begged, and prayed to go back to the 1980s and 1990s so many times that I've compared myself to a broken record. And, I'll keep on longing for the #GoodOldDays until the day that I die. I *VOW* it! No one on the planet will ever change my mind about the past, why I hate the present, and why I dread the future. Besides, death is my worst fear over anything else! Looking forward to the future, as people often say, means looking forward to my own death! Is it any wonder why I dread the future so much, and why I wish to return to the past? Also, I'd like to go back and fix many mistakes that I made back then. My childhood and teenage years weren't all good. I've had some bad memories of those days, too. But, I will say that it was more good than bad back then. Today, it's just the opposite. 1980s > 1990s > any year beyond that point

[@bred3862]

I don't know how old you are currently but I'm 22 and feeling same 😑 exactly 😞😞 it feels like something inside me is dead

[@davidcolantuono3622]

@@bred3862 I'm 43 (as of this past March).

[@bred3862]

@@davidcolantuono3622 oh okay are you fine these days 🤔

[@davidcolantuono3622]

@@bred3862 Honestly? No. I'm very miserable nowadays, although the reasons vary. It's not just about how much I miss the #GoodOldDays. Other problems that plague me include sinus problems, allergies, asthma, and other upper respiratory problems that make my life unmanageable. It's a long and disturbing story. Ironically, it's these problems that further make me wish to go back since they were far milder back then. In fact, all I had back then that was rough for me was the annual flu and stomach bugs. Colds and allergies were just nuisances back then. Today, they are beyond debilitating. As if that's not enough, I also have sleeping problems that, for the most part, are brought on by these miserable problems I mentioned above. So, yeah...I'm definitely *NOT* fine these days. Not by a long shot, I'm afraid.

[@bred3862]

@@davidcolantuono3622 so sorry 😔 to hear that ...if there is a real God somewhere then he/she won't make us suffer that much 😞...but there is no god 😑

[@SamRikkerRoldos]

I just get sad sometimes thinking that my childhood is gone and will never come back

[@Cosmicflow9]

Literally been thinking about 2016 and 2017 some of the best times of my life

[@hipoint40cal39]

1990s for me....crazy fun.

[@squigl3z78]

I thought it was just me . I’m getting hit hard with memories and thoughts of better and less stressful times. We spend our whole childhood wanting to be an adult and when we get there , you can’t go back after you realized you should of savored the time

[@davidcolantuono3622]

I made the same mistake. I wanted to be an adult when I was a kid. I've regretted it ever since. I know that my childhood was never "perfect", but it was still a lot better than my adult life has been.

[@kill3rclown690]

Dude I fucking miss the old days when life was so much more enjoyable I'd do anything to back to those days again

[@jamesw3413]

I thought I was the only one who felt like this. I've learned that looking back in the past rarely helps me, but it's better to just focus on the present and try to redirect your attention away from those painful nostalgic feelings

[@mortenkristiansen5747]

But are they painful? Or is it a message the body is trying to tell u?

[@nostalgiagirl7081]

You don't need to avoid the feeling. There's a lesson from nostalgia, it is to appreciate what you have before it's gone. But also you should be thankful that you got to experience good times in the past and learn from your mistakes.

[@theotherguy21]

2005 to 2013 were the best moments of my childhood i wish i could just relive all those days one more time to take it all in

[@benamitchell]

Man this hits hard for me. Cole, you have really have a gift for articulating feelings and thoughts that are so relatable and genuine. I'm graduating from college this year and moving soon for my postgrad and I often think back to my senior year of high school and freshman year of college. It's almost like I'm a whole different person now then I was then, and I've grown in so many ways that have lead me down a better path. But I still get nostalgic and think about those memories even if they were only serving me in the moment and not in the future(not the healthiest behaviors). I think what I've learned is that you can find joy and nostalgia in most periods in your life when you look back, so I've been trying to embrace the present and enjoy that moment while its happening.

[@mundea]

the timing of this video during this period of my life is elite... I just keep reminiscing on the past and I'm busy watching ads, can't wait to watch this gem

[@ColeHastings]

Hope you enjoy

[@chirpcity4668]

Man, you took the words right out of my mouth with this whole video😒 It makes a guy not want to even have good memories anymore because it eventually turns into pain looking back and realizing you’ll never get those times again. Getting old sucks man😔

[@yuricidalia7942]

pfff crazy, i have the same. Exactly 2016-2017 those were some great times :(((((( how can we go back mannnnnn i know it is over .. but i wanna feel the same again....

[@isee7283]

I just cannot stress how brilliant and well made this video was. Great work, Cole.

[@andylewis4505]

2010-2019 was the best time to be alive 😢

[@XNiFo]

I swear

[@Broski458]

I just turned 25 and I just feel sad about it.. I remember being 18 years old feeling like the world is in my hand. I just remember waking up not worrying about my current status like career, relationships, etc I just remember hanging out with my friends having fun… we still have fun but it’s just different now because life is starting to become more serious for us… we can’t be those goofy kids we used to be eventually we gotta become serious…

[@hvxrv]

Man 2016 & 2017 were the best two years I would do anything to back I really miss those times when i had feelings 💔

[@mariosanchez5796]

Despite always knowing the fact that we all age and grow older, I sometimes feel it's unfair how short life really is (I'll be reaching 37 soon - older, younger, we all come to know this feeling at some point in our lives). No reset button, everything happening all at once without ever stopping.

[@shahfaisal8771]

the fact is that good is that good that we love and miss it so much but at the other side the pain is so damn unaaceptable that we just cantr accepty so u will say its unffair that because u had a good time

[@Gothboy95]

Nostalgia hurts so much more when your parent is now dead & you lose a really good friend that was there with you throughout those times. I’m hurtin hard bro 😣 rip dad rip Torren ❤️

[@winstonbanton2667]

The years of the 2000s just makes me cry the simplicity the old childhood memories it makes me miss being a kid again

[@firstlast5974]

this comment section hits so hard with all of the stories . I fear that I will also miss my time as a kid when I am an adult

[@maikejikuai]

Being nostalgic is perfectly normal. I was in high school in 2006 and my best friend at that time made such a huge imprint on my life. He will never be able to understand how much he changed my life in a positive way. He moved the next year and now he lives 11,000 kms away but I still remember and get nostalgic about those times. Even just seeing dew on the grass on a winter morning will remind me of the fun that we would have walking to school together.

[@pumkinears3378]

as a person who build a friendgroup engraved with millions of memories, some funny, some adventurous, some including teamwork and some about living in the moment, it’s extremely hard feeling nostalgia, listening to certain songs that I listened too while my youth was enjoying itself, looking back at photos we took, or even randomly remembering or thinking about the past, it’s enough to make me feel depressed, hopeless and give me a headache, I become overwhelmed with nostalgia. And the reason I get so upset it’s because I feel as if I will never be able to feel that way again, feel so happy or laugh uncontrollably ever again, I’m moving to basically the other side of the earth, I’m going to cry again and again in my bedroom playing the same songs on repeat, because while listening, my brain replays the videos it stored, and also gives me the full experience in my head, except from giving me permission to feel the happiness I felt in the moment, the only difference is me feeling nostalgic and sad. I hate the fact that I won’t feel the same way again. I hate it so much. I hate feeling lonely. I hate not having a real, proper, unconditional and uncontrollable laugh in about 5 months. I miss them. I will always miss them. And the time.

[@Darkmanx644]

I’m 48 I grew up in the 80s and 90s We all on borrowed time. So why we still living thank god. I so saw so many of my friends and family leave this world. Always remember tomorrow is not promised enjoy life treat your day like it’s your last. God bless you all and have a great day.

[@margrose5]

Nostalgia causes me such pain. More and more as time goes on.

[@Anti.101-p8r]

Same

[@ItsAryax]

It's prolly because your life isn't that good rn

[@margrose5]

@@ItsAryax it’s not that. And prolly is not a word.

[@ItsAryax]

@@margrose5 some people use prolly instead of probably mb anyways I'm going through a similar experience and i think it's bec of my life is shit rn that I've became soo lonely i miss the people i didn't like back then

[@oliviaftw]

2022 was the best year of my life. I was very young only 14 turning 15 in may 2022 however it was genuinely the best year of my entire life. For so many reasons so personal and close to me. I get consumed by nostalgia everyday I don’t feel I’ll ever be that happy ever again. I don’t want to go back to that time period because I don’t want anything in the memories to change and reliving it again wouldnt be the same. I feel as though it’s definitely me looking at it through rose coloured glasses because there will have been bad parts too but I just miss it so much. It just felt so good and simple and I miss it more than anything. As it was by harry styles is so painful to listen to as much as I adore that song and there is so many more. I think I will always feel this way.

[@JGProductions6581]

2022 isn’t even 2 years old and you’re nostalgic about it?? Crazy.

[@Yalo571]

Nostalgia is a bad sign. Take a break and make something unusual for yourself, the way you never act before. A bunch of new good memories are guaranteed after that 🙂

[@ColeHastings]

Definitely need a break

[@aemiliacarolphonetube9749]

Especially when it comes to romance

[@LeroyKang-nc5ez]

@@ColeHastings music for me in 2016 was greAaat also I have no nostalgia for 2017 because it was a shitty year for me

[@Gogeta2501]

@@ColeHastings me too maybe thats it

[@Roger-do1dy]

When I hear old school music like 80s and it soothes me, but walking around places I grew up shows me how things will never be same, and it shows me just how much of a failure I am

[@JGProductions6581]

Feel you. Recently went back to my first elementary school and most of the teachers that worked there when I was attending have moved on.

[@datboi6415]

Man I've been thinking bout doing some creative writing on the subject of nostalgia recently cuz I've been having a lot of those same thoughts. I'm currently in my second year of university and when I think back to grades 10-12 I get this tight feeling in my chest and it really is painful to think about how I'm never going to experience those moments again. Makes me think about how nostalgia might not emerge just because times were better back then, but it's our longing to have been more present in those moments since time is so precious. When I was going through my latter years of high school, I was very unhappy and was really struggling with mental and physical health issues. Now, when I look back on it, I seldom thing about that bullshit, but instead I remember all my amazing friends that helped me through it, the awesome things we did together, the music we worshipped, and living up the final years of our youth with all the blissful ignorance and naiveté that came with it. In saying that, it makes me wonder if we'll almost always be able to muster some sort of nostalgia from a particular time period because that's just how our brains work. Hell, my dad even has nostalgia for his years growing up in a poor ass village in the USSR - that's saying something. Idk man I'm still pretty young and in a couple years I'll prolly think that what I'm saying now is some uninformed garbage, but that's just my take.

[@MrFredstt]

We're about the same age and I have the exact same feelings, friend. I also think many of us, especially when we were teenagers, took what we had for granted and didn't realize how fast time would actually fly by. Regarding your last sentence it's funny because last Fall in 2021 I had the same thoughts and now in 2022 I have nostalgia for that time.

[@creap32]

30 year old fossil over here, I've just been hit by a huge dose of nostalgia after seeing a few vids and listening to a few songs from my youth. Remembered a friend and all the great times we had while we were young. That friend has since passed away due to covid complications in 2020. He was 28. Miss him greatly and hating how life is feeling atm, how time flies, and how people are lost. Am afraid of future loses , even though I know they will come. It sucks.

[@ChikhouSiamand]

Ah the old good days

[@mundea]

Stop watching the same channels as me SIAMAND!!!!!!!!!!! 🤣🤣

[@ChikhouSiamand]

@@mundea hahahahahaahahahahahahahahahah 😭

[@toxicgoat341]

Listening to old songs feels so good for 3 or 4 minutes and after its over you realise how long its been and starting getting all sad. Looking at old photos sucks even more

[@randomlegos58]

I feel the same about the way music influences nostalgia. I sometimes listen to old songs from middle school or early high school and I get flashbacks to when I would listen to those songs, especially if I was feeling some time of emotion at the time.

[@ghostyhype_btw4303]

Feels good to have someone describing exactly the thoughts that I have been having recently not about the same things of course but about the same questions and feelings I have when nostalgic which I have been very recently.

[@KOKOBC]

I just suddenly felt extreme nostalgia thinking of my old friends from elementary school and how many of us slowly drifted apart and I’m only in 9th grade of high school so it’s only been 3 years. Gosh I can’t imagine how bad the nostalgia is going to be in the future

[@nadinebreaty3315]

i felt this way too and i wasted 6th-10th grade feeling jealous of everyone younger than me and didn’t make any memories, now i’m heading into 11th and i only have 2 years before i officially become a adult. try to make memories and i know it’s difficult but u got this

[@chae_purple7062]

i just miss my old days, which i couldn't take pictures or videos.. But in my memories it just hangs

[@Breezyblendzs]

2012-2019 were my best years ( these 7 years were full of joy ) ❤❤😢❤😢😢

[@SeongDae-Ho]

Same here 2018-2019

[@D1editzs]

Same 2014-2019😢

[@davidgarry]

I read something recently on this topic, and makes a bit of sense. When you're having a hard time in the present, and the future is unknown (and there can be even subtle fear involved in that) nostalgia is pretty prominent. To dip back into the past. I was researching, as I myself had gone down this road significantly lately. I found myself driving to old places I used to live at or hang around, and just walked the area, letting the memories flood.

[@hamoodtatari]

2017 was my last good year. But 2016 hits the hardest like I really want to just go back to 2016. So much… and I simply can’t it’s impossible

[@micheal009]

i’m a year late but i really wanna go back to 2017 so badly

[@Jelloonpellow]

@@micheal009 I wish I could go back to 2013 2014 I was very young then and I went everywhere with my father too bad those times are over.

[@micheal009]

@@Jelloonpellow :(

[@IllIIIIllIIllll]

This is how I feel about 2009-2013, back when I was still a kid. Everything afterwards just felt empty, even though I improved my life in several aspects ever since. I miss the friends I had back then, I miss not knowing anything that would eventually happen, I miss the school I used to go to, I miss all those experiences that made life and my childhood fun and that I'll unfortunately never live again.

[@vincentdhaese7]

I wish i had a timemachine. I always feel sad and nostalgic when i go back to my grandmothers house or if i go to the place were i spent my childhood.

[@Ray.M.12345]

Same....

[@dharkbizkit]

nostalgia hurts me due to 2 reasons: back in the days, i wasnt chronicly ill, so my health was better and i was young and didnt understand how the world works, which would fit into "ignorance is bliss". i cant get these 2 factors back, thus my teens and early twenties were objectivly a better time for me, thus i want to go back to these time but i cant, which hurts

[@kaisushii]

2017 to early 2020 is the best chapter of my life especially my senior years, no anxiety, no depression, no existential crisis just go with the flow but the pandemic took it all

[@DeadGuy16]

Yeah fuck wuhan

[@mathamphetamine]

The world is so dead!

[@therealtechmasterjason99]

The 2020s are the best decade ever, screw the late 2010s!

[@TheRealPaintist]

wow.. man exactly how i feel so glad someone can relate..

[@DannyFR30]

I miss school I miss my friends I miss my family I miss going outside with sense of adventure. I miss being happy I miss everything. I hate it.

[@raunaksinha8485]

Family?😢

[@dg8522]

Man i look this video up and from the jump i understood exactly what you meant about life changing so fast. I moved states recently and im reminiscing on my life just two years ago and going back to my childhood. It hits me even harder when I google this topic out of curiosity, from the first clip in this video you unknowingly stabbed a dagger in my heart. I grew up in san diego and knew exactly where you were without having to second guess. The amount of field trips and memories I made at balboa even recently with my girlfriend was an insane coincidence for this video. Leaves me thinking this might be a sign life is just changing and my new chapter is starting and soon ill look back on these times they way I look back at the scenery in this video. You seriously don’t know how specific the place you chose to film this is to my life and how its helped me feel happy through revisiting the times where I wasn’t thinking about adult problems and just thinking about the next time I got to play video games or go hang out with friends. Well done sir you’ve made me cry

[@roderickshawn8160]

2017 - 2022 especially 2018 and 2019, best times of my life, junior high was the best man, miss the old days

[@Allabovethesky]

Bro exactly same, me too! I was in jr high school too

[@AcerGMD]

College 🏫 😢

[@kill3rclown690]

2022 for me😢

[@JGProductions6581]

I was in jr high from 2008-2011. Good times. Until 8th grade.

[@killingjoke535]

I miss 2002-2004 Was in high school and didn't realize at the time how special those times were until I hit 35, now I have moments of nostalgia and it can be painful because you miss that energy. Can be hard but we gotta forge forward