Why It Is So Hard To Leave Narcissistic Relationship

[@finallydone391]

They deserve abandonment! Leave them with their thoughts and self destructive behavior

[@sakak977]

Standing ovation for you👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@river7732]

“Focussing on their hurt, forgetting that you are burning in the hell they have created for you” Perfect description 😈

[@fruitypopwhickle6806]

Gaslighting, manipulation, guilt tripping, projection, defensiveness, denial, rage, crying, name-calling, making me dizzy with word salad. My ex narcissistic used ALL these tactics on me every time I tried to leave him. I'd end up feeling exhausted, horrible, confused and just give up. I was stuck in this toxic hellhole loop for 6 years. But I'm 11 months FREEEEEE today!!!!💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾 Life on the other side is GLORIOUS!!!!!❤️

[@bervelyvan-mary9755]

Congratulations 🎈🍾 Im stuck in here 😢

[@Nita98]

How did u leave?? What steps did u take

[@LoveSource1111]

he used the fact that I was an abused child to control me but it wasnt out of love.

[@bernitacenteno1326]

GUILT IS THE PRIMARY REASON YOU DO NOT LEAVE THE NARCISSIST. YOU CANNOT RESUE SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT THINK THAT THEY ARE THE PROBLEM, THEREFORE THEY DO NOT WANT TO BE RESCUED. THEIR CHILD INSIDE OF THEM DOES NOT EXIST. YOU CANNOT SAVE THE CILD WHO DOESN'T EXIST ANYMORE. PERIOD.

[@kayinatkidunya]

That's why empathy is Sad We don't think abt ourselves but we Should

[@truth360able]

Guilt... and shame: present in all Complex Trauma survivors

[@angelakeely5859]

They can't be rescued, as they are not willing to own their problems, instead in denial.🤔🚩🏃‍♀️

[@metalraccoon2259]

I'd say it's more out of fear of how they'll retaliate

[@Gretagarbo830]

There's that. Definitely!

[@bernitacenteno1326]

I forgave him, but they only use that to define your acceptance of their behaviors which are bad. You allowed and still allow it. No, you had only ❤ for them.

[@lynnebucher6537]

This. And fear of physical harm, since he was so volatile.

[@sakak977]

Do not try to be a SAVIOUR. Learnt it the hard way. I know it sounds cruel and selfish but trust me we're not the selfish ones! We're humans fighting and protecting ourselves from the likes of demons.

[@arashigumdrop]

Recently Realized There Are Many Ways to Leave & Abandon Narcissist Without Actually Leaving Over & Over & Over

[@valerielongmore5040]

My understanding is that they do this behaviour is to protect themselves. Mine was badly treated as a child for definite. However he never really rose above this and as our very long term marriage progressed his behaviour became worse and worse. I learned about narcissism over the last 3 to 4 years . He matches such behaviour exactly. I escaped after decades but recovery has been extremely slow for me and is still in progress. I suffered such bad trauma my health is dire.

[@sheiladay-od2me]

I had a 2-date relationship with a psychopath. Okay, two dates was a lot with this freak. I had one loving relationship for four years. He died. I had a good relationship with a much younger man for a few years. I believe you are helping a lot of people. I do not believe I have some mother wound.

[@boogieuggie7865]

Not in my case. I was happy to leave him for all the chaos he caused in my life. I just can't believe anyone that has not done anything wrong would feel guilty for leaving these demons.

[@emilykathleenn]

They feel no shame at all

[@gaurs230]

Why did they do this to me is something I didn’t really understand

[@fofs3084]

This is so true that's how i got with him. Now when i look at our baby daughter i feel more bad did him. He is still being treated as a pawn. But i can't force him to love and appreciate us. He discarded us the day he heard i was pregnant and i feel for a recent hoover it's been 3 dates since i decided i can't anymore and went complete no contact.

[@dwlsn93]

1. Don’t buy into guilt. If guilt was money and you paid $1,000 dollars for it - but you got nothing for it - you would reject it immediately. 2. Pretend in your mind that the narc is dead 💀 - because in reality they really are dead inside - no heart 🖤, no soul ⚫️! Would you consciously date or be around a corpse? Certainly not - but here you are facing that reality every single day that you stay & make excuses for them & yourself.

[@bernitacenteno1326]

That explains why I felt guilty and said so, to someone who knew him and his family. They said, "See". You have my experience with even professionals that think that the one you are talking about deserves your sympathy. No, the guilt is only FALSE GUILT IN YOU, BECAUSE OF YOUR OVERABUNDANCE OF EMPATHY FOR THEM, THE NARCISSIST. I DO UNDERSTAND NOW.

[@brandonvale9872]

Guilt def got me.

[@sundown2221]

We’re you reading my mind 100 percent how I think and feel. Thanks for making this video😊

[@PhilasandeMalevu]

All I needed was 1 word, guilt thank you

[@leticiamilo4387]

Thanks Danish!❤⚘

[@angelaapruzzese8347]

THANKYOU DANISH ONCE AGAIN FOR ANOTHER ENLIGHTNING VIDEO AND KNOWLEGE GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR SWEET PRECIOUS CAT FROM ANGELA 😘💖🐱🧿

[@Mary-yc8vh]

I slightly escaped hell, that's exactly what happened.

[@daniellesan3917]

That is so true

[@Elizabeth-hz7xu]

Very Accurate

[@sharemarketsuccess]

I am with my nar bf since last 12 yrs, suffering a lot everyday, i am so helpless and numb, god pls save me from him, i feel like dying everyday

[@Nita98]

❤

[@nancychandler768]

💯

[@angelaapruzzese8347]

YES 💯 PERCENT

[@utsavutsavv1092]

That's the point of being a narcissist 😂😂😂

[@kameshiam1674]

Let's wound that wounded child one more time! Run 🏃‍♀️

[@kayinatkidunya]

Agreed

[@MauveBlossom]

😢

[@angelaapruzzese8347]

😭😭😭

[@Ix_eclipse777]

They are so sickening they’re psyche and their mentality is soo F’D up they don’t even care about their own parents I have no words to even describe honestly looking back…I have no regrets but I’m definitely ashamed and shocked

[@emilykathleenn]

So true, mine didn't see his family after the age of 30 basically that was it and they disowned him anyway too for his behaviour and they weren't stupid thank god

[@Ix_eclipse777]

@@emilykathleenn Yup I feel you

[@sakak977]

Do not try to be a SAVIOUR. Learnt it the hard way. I know it sounds cruel and selfish but trust me we're not the selfish ones! We're humans fighting and protecting ourselves from the likes of demons.

[@angelaapruzzese8347]

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