Why Its So Important To Talk About Autism

[@PrideWallpapers]

Talking about autism makes me (an autistic person) feel like a real person.

[@4C52]

Words make reality

[@Turglayfopa]

Talking about autism is helpful and necessary because its informative and it makes others with autism feel less alone. I feel better when I see others like you talk about autism.

[@IanLester-j5c]

I hate when the other kids at my school start throwing around the "r word" and calling others "autistic" when they do something stupid. It really shows the lack of understanding people have for autism and I'm glad you're making these videos. (Those kids would never guess I'm autistic lol.)

[@RadioactiveBluePlatypus]

The "touch grass" guy should touch grass. Who has time to comment the same thing on 20 videos??

[@4C52]

For real. To that one guy. 𝓡𝓪𝓽𝓲𝓸

[@BabyNoob270]

What good does touching grass do? Yea, vitamin D from the sun, but what does the grass do? It's itchy, it doesn't feel good, and only the soft type feels nice to touch. There's so many better things to touch, like water from a river, I'm not listing anything else. They should say "take a hike" instead. At least hikes are actually better than touching grass. In fact, I've actually started to appreciate nature more recently. It's just so majestic, so calming, so nice to look at. One morning at school, I saw a sight to behold. It's just water sprinklers watering the grass with trees in the plot. It was so peaceful, I couldn't help but sit down and look. The sound when some of the water sprinkled onto the concrete gave the same calming vibes as when rain dropped on the roof of your house at night. Speaking of rain, I just find it so calming and nostalgic. Some people correlate it with sadness, which I now understand because of it's similarity with tears, but if you actually just sit outside and listen to the rain, look at the rain, it's just so calming. The sad part is that it rarely rains in California. Have you ever thought how peaceful it would be to sit a bus stop in the rain and just listen to it? I fantasize about that moment. Another aspect about rain which I like is the smell of the wet concrete. It smells nice and it's also nostalgic. I found myself to actually be a lot more happier recently. I don't know why I am, but I just am. Maybe it's because I published a book at 13? Maybe it's because I'm finally organized with my life? Or maybe it's because I matured? Whatever the reason, I am happy, and I might stay happy, as long as nothing bad happens.

[@マイルス_パワー-狐のテイルスだわ]

People of that nature are the least self-aware, they criticize others and never self-reflect which leaves them falsely believing they're better, or more informed, educated and grounded to reality, than anyone else.

[@Imperial_Lizardgirl]

Anyone saying "touch grass" should just go outside and rest under a tree, sit on a bench and feel the wind, generally feel nature.

[@BabyNoob270]

@@Imperial_Lizardgirl Basically what I just said but less yap.

[@TheKyrsisForever]

I really dont see the drawbacks of every place accommodating for people with issues such as autism or other needs. Even if they dont make a large percentage of the world, imo it still isn't right to exclude them soley because of things they cant control or even change. I think people need to just realize accommodation isn't 'babysitting' the person but instead giving the person an opportunity of assistance to whom ever who needs it.❤❤ great video though, and keep on spreading the positivity

[@jacobcox4565]

10:01 This actually makes some sense when you look at certain folklore, especially the stories about fae creatures kidnapping children and replacing them with one of their kind disguised as the child that was taken. The parents saw their kid acting strangely because that kid had autism, but they thought it was a changeling or troll.

[@jessegartung294]

I’ve been ostracized by discord groups. And some of them mock me. And I have autism like you so I understand your pain

[@zKingKombat]

I’ve been straight up doxed and shit because I too am also autistic.

[@2DCheese]

@@zKingKombat got doxxed? dang

[@Wisteria64]

saying that talking about autism makes it seem like a less serious issue cause it makes people... understand us better..? thats fucking crazy, they used to lobotomize people like us

[@IanLester-j5c]

They did? I'm glad they don't lobotomize us anymore!

[@Marshmallow_Alien]

I at first thought the person who said it was bad to talk about autism was trying to say that "people are saying they are autistic when they're actually not" or something. With that it's like, okay someone thinks it describes them but it ends up not being right, but think about how many people did actually learn that they are autistic from people talking about it! My mom learned our whole house is ADHD when people started talking about it more and learning about it changed all of our lives for the better.

[@suppidish]

This is genuinely inspiring me to make videos talking about my own struggles with ADHD. I know it's not autism but it'd feel nice to get that stuff out there in a video like this. Thank you. ♥

[@frostyolive]

It's likely much more than 1%. Many, many folks are undiagnosed and now that we are developing a better understanding, a growing number of folks are finally able to get a diagnosis.

[@naomiparsons462]

By the way, 1 in 25 people are autistic. The 1 in 100 statistic is outdated - in the uk about 1 in 60 are diagnosed currently but studies have shown that over half of autistic people aren't diagnosed and don't know they're autistic because of misinformation and incorrect stereotypes. In the USA 1 in 36 are diagnosed, and one state even has 1 in 27 diagnosed. Because of all these statistics, 1 in 25 is my highly backed-uo estimate.

[@superjuliamsaia3941]

For me the tiktok autism movement was both good & bad, since IT did help me discover my undiagnosed stuff, but at the same time, it is a fuckhole of little kids trying to white knight each other either because they're scared they're a bad person if they back out of an internet argument or they are genuinely being shitheads trying to be morally superior.

[@CaptainUnikitty]

I also have autism but sadly some person yelled at me saying I was using it as an excuse (when I barely mentioned it) but they really threw me into a deep corner like I get scared to even mention it to my own audience. This video is good, I feel heard here. Just hopes one day I can explain it more to more people on my own channel.

[@AleP56Z]

I don’t relate to your videos, but I still enjoy them and get to learn, so thanks for making these videos

[@LeChapeauMusic]

I just wanna say, everyone is using the word "autistic" as an insult in my country, and there's no way you can stop them. it makes me hate myself altho it's their fault for being ignorant and not knowing autism is a good thing

[@MisterTheRobot]

Relateable, but i dont have autism and I'm horrified that people treat it as less superior or less casual or less human

[@LeChapeauMusic]

@@MisterTheRobot the only reason we can still survive on this planet is because of people like you who accept us as equals! thank you!

[@IanLester-j5c]

Same.

[@epimetrius7348]

So just found your channel, I work with autistic kids in my day job and I like to hear experiences from people who have lived with various "problems." Especially if my job is to be helping people with a given issue. It helps provide a perspective, sure I may not be the person who needs to relate, but I can absolutely make use of a resource to help someone else. Also thanks for making the videos listenable, as in talking as the main content, but I can handle visual matters as I learn with my ears.

[@cyruscrompton8221]

I hope touch grass guy likes this video

[@Turglayfopa]

they lead others to a treasure they cannot possess

[@henryman2451]

touch grass guy got bored of grass and is most likely dead for just living on grass

[@MoRiSeR_]

From now on I’ll refer to him as the Grass Man.

[@lnwrtrainspotter]

I totally agree, people should be talking about autism more as while it may be desensitising people to it, it also allows people insight into what it is and if they might have it. I haven't been diagnosed yet as I've only really just found out I might me Autistic/ADHD in the last year, but if it weren't for the people who talk about their experiences with it online I wouldn't have even known I could have it. Before I found out I might have it, I knew nothing about it at all and neither did the people around me. Its this lack of knowledge which often leads to a lot of autistic people never being diagnosed. When I see, people like you talk about it, I can really relate to it and makes me feel seen in a world which likes to ignore autism. Keep up the good work :)

[@sonicfan82]

I’m happy that you talk about autism, because it shed more light on it.

[@tylercarney7969]

It’s all thanks to your hard work and just keep striving and I’ll always support your videos as much as I can

[@tylercarney7969]

Also man I hope you know you are literally the best person im subscribed too and I hope youtube works out for you

[@4jayXD]

"Bro touch grass" - guy who spends 24 hours every day telling people to touch grass

[@Uraim]

i should be tested for autism, i do have OCD, i have major problem with my hands where i feel its always dirty if i touch something that is not sterile/clean, I also have very spiky skillsets, i dont know to do basic stuff, i just realized the only way that im able to do those that i need to learn them all, and make up all the skills to avarage, so i can be "avarage". I'm gonna see the doc soon.

[@maedetheone]

jms, you are a good soul! Carry on with everything you do. 💚

[@slurpjonesysimp5390]

So I, an autistic individual, saw this video in my recommended, and naturally I was curious about it. While I completely respect your opinions and thought on why autism should be spoken about, I personally disagree with that statement from my experiences. I can see why it is a good thing, it helps people become informed and feel less alone, and that's great for people who feel that way. But me personally, Id rather not be seen as "that autistic individual" purely for the reason you stated in the video. Being held on a pedestal because of a condition I have. And while I'm happy that people like you and many others here can relish in the relatability of our conditions, I personally don't see my autism that way, but overall very cool video and I respect you and your peers for their view on this topic. All I ask is that you respect mine, have a lovely day.

[@MoRiSeR_]

Acht pfp.

[@MoRiSeR_]

I don’t talk about autism unless it fits into the convo and I only mention that I‘m autistic when I think they should know for whatever reason. I don’t hide that I‘m autistic but I don’t actively tell people either. I don’t really give a flying fuck about what people think about me. I only care about the thoughts of those closest to me and that’s it. Though my autism is kinda mild in comparison to lots of other autists anyways. In comparison to lots of other autists it almost feels like I‘m not even autistic because of how „normal“ I am.

[@IdeaGrazer]

I have only considered that I might be autistic thanks to people talking about it online. I can't overstate how grateful I am for everyone that does that. It gives me something to feel positive about.

[@benjaminsperring2995]

And my Autism Spectrum Disorder is a very serious issue that I can’t deal without being looked down upon 😢😢😢

[@pitifuleternal]

you ARE my favourite youtuber bro. much love

[@pitifuleternal]

(As an autistic person) autism is SO misrepresented in media I'm glad you can help w that

[@NaomeK40]

Well, let me add to it ❤ I'm autistic (haven't been diagnosed yet but it's 1000% sure ) . I was born in the 90s and wish people talked about it as freely as they do today. I might have gotten diagnosed early and gotten the proper help. I've basically been diagnosed through tiktok/reddit by just sharing my experience. ❤ I've been able to find ways to heal BECAUSE people talk about it ! so thks❤❤❤

[@TerrorSyxke]

hey look its the thing i have and got judged every school year of my life for it

[@Im_bor3d0]

Right now in the UK, the media is complaining about how "everyone is suddenly autistic" when in reality more people are getting diagnosed because the stereotypes are outdated and not being relied on anymore That was the result of talking about it more

[@c0rxpseb0i13]

You should make a video about meltdowns your experience with them if your comfortable with that Currently having one wanting to punch a walk rn so irritated

[@henryman2451]

I just realised the game play footage is alpha minecraft

[@jacobcox4565]

What gave it away, the old textures, the fact he never sprinted once, or the lack of a hunger bar?

[@plebisMaximus]

I think that's beta 1.7

[@sle3pym0th]

The textures in the first place, I would even say the colour

[@omargoodman2999]

There are a few aspects of the issue that I've figured out based on parsing the various comments I've seen; both on videos as well as direct replies to posts I've made either on KZbin, Reddit, or other places. First, there seems to be a _very strong_ motivation for some people to "Gatekeep" things like Autism, ADHD, and other similar disorders. When someone starts talking about themselves having one, they may suddenly be "interrogated" by one of those types to determine if they're _legitimately_ what they claim to be, or if they're "faking" a disorder. Because, in the minds of some people, those are the *only* two options: either you legitimately have a disorder, or if you don't then you *must* be lying about having it for attention or clout or whatever. And that's not only a ridiculous stance because it's fundamentally incorrect; even a professional can misdiagnose someone so a person can believe they have a disorder based on a formal diagnosis, but then find out later after further observation and treatment that a refined diagnosis can yield a better categorization, it wasn't what the doctor originally believed it to be. It's not that they had *nothing at all,* mind you, but they had something _different;_ something far less common and harder to recognize that, at first glance, resembled Autism (for example). People *can* be incorrect without intent to deceive. But more to the point, it's as if certain people are _personally offended_ at the notion that someone *without* a disorder might get recognition and help that they don't "deserve" or aren't "owed". Maybe they treat it like water, like there's only a limited supply and any that goes to one person deprives another of their share. Realistically, it's the other way around. Even when there are false positives, that's still "business" and business attracts more practitioners. If there's more opportunity to make money, even if some of those opportunities are clearing up misunderstandings and misconceptions and verifying, "no, it's not _actually_ Autism", that will attract *more* practioners to provide _more_ service to those who actually *do* have it. And I personally think it speaks to a very woeful state of mind when a person is more concerned with keeping aid and recognition *away* from people who "shouldn't" get it, than they are with *providing* it to those who _desparately_ need it. It's the same exact mentality as spending millions of dollars on drug testing to "protect" a few hundred dollars from getting into the hands of "druggies"... all poe-faced ignorant of the fact that instability and lack of food are big things that *cause* people to turn to drugs in the first place. About 99% or more of drug abuse problems could be *solved,* like overnight, by providing "no strings attached" housing and food to people who need it. Don't require them to solve their drug problem first, don't require them to solve their employment problem first, or their health problems first, etc. Help them solve their basic foundational problems first, and that sets the foundation to put the rest in order naturally. Because things like the drug problems, the health issues, the employment thing; those were *symptoms,* not roots. Likewise, for people who *believe* they _might_ have Autism or ADHD or _whatever_ disorder, don't tell to stand in their way or tell them to doubt their self-evaluation. Don't tell them they shouldn't "waste" resources that "belong" to people who _actually_ have the disorders. Because you don't even *know* for sure if they "don't" have it. For all you know, you could be demanding an *actual* Autistic or ADHD person go without recognition, help, and treatment merely based on, "well, you can't know for sure unless you've beem formally diagnosed, and you shouldn't waste resources meant for people who actually have it unless you know for sure, but you can't get formally diagnosed unless you go to a professional..." That's a no-win scenario. You can't tell someone that they're *only* allowed to have a medical condition once a doctor "authorizes" it (that's not even how it works, diagnosis is to _verify_ not spontaneously manifest), but they *also* can't go to a doctor unless it's *already* been diagnosed! And no, just for the record, it's not just about people refusing to get formal diagnosis and claiming to have something *just* because it's "trendy" (oh, ADHD is _so_ in vogue right now). I, personally, have received replies suggesting that *only* formal diagnosis is valid and _simultaneously_ claiming that you need to already know you have it before going to get a formal diagnosis. Yet another issue is that formal diagnosis simply is *not* an option on the table for everyone. Even if you _have_ insurance, they may not cover an evaluation. The older you are, and the more known or potential disorders you have, the more difficult it is to sort one from another and properly identify them. So a more careful, refined, _and expensive_ evaluation is needed. Not only that, but a provider equipped to handle such an evaluation may not even be *available* in your area. Even if they can be reached by TeleHealth, your insurance would need to cover that option. If it can't be paid for by insurance, and you can't afford to pay out of pocket... well, you simply can't get it. So the best option *available* to you is a thorough self-evaluation. Multiple self-questionaires (I myself took five and all results were in close agreement), plus research into the specifics of suspected conditions *and* alternative explanations, comparisons to anecdotal descriptions of experiences (ie. People *talking about it in KZbin videos, Reddit posts, etc.!!!)* and whatever other angles you can use to make it as comprehensive as you can manage, given the circumstances. Lastly, and this is something I've observed a *lot* about many neurotypicals, they have a strong tendency to evaluate the "importance" of something not based on logical or rational evaluation but, rather, on "emotional impact". When they've become desensitized to a topic, when it doesn't "hit" them as hard or make them "feel" upset on hearing it because they have a proper understanding of it, they can *actually* perceive it as _less_ important. But when it's "mysterious" and "serious", they perceive it as _important_ on the basis of, "this _feels_ important because of how *upset* it makes me to start hearing about it." Once you start asking, "How would a Neurotypical think about this?" it really gives a new perspective and forces you to try to think on their terms. You probably won't be successful... I sure can't comprehend them even a tenth the time... but at least it shows how often their way of evaluating the world is just on different fundamental terms. Before we get on the same page, we need to consider that we're not even reading the same book or even the same language.

[@alexbaughman9404]

please keep talking about this!

[@adventurefighter7501]

I like how the thumbnail shows the exact frame he took the 29th clay ball

[@BabyNoob270]

My problem with autism isn’t autism itself, but how people treat it. I heard you say that people *used* to think it's the same thing as retarded. You mentioned millennials and gen x, but not gen z/gen alpha. I swear SO MANY PEOPLE think it means retarded. In my high school, in my middle school, probably in my elementary school too. People in middle school asked me, "Are you SPED" as a joke, but I know why. It's because of my autism. The funny thing is, I'm literally smarter than them. (Obviously.) I have savant syndrome. Actually, that can honestly be a very great uno reverse card. "Since you have autism, you're sped." "I have savant syndrome." That's honestly very funny. Bonus points if they don't know what that is. Ultimate bonus points if they think savant syndrome is still bad. Anyways, even a girl in class said that I'm literally sped like this week. It was in a middle college class. Honestly very funny. It takes a 3.0 GPA from last year to be there. I'm a freshman by the way. Anyways, I thought of saying something like: "Yea, taking a college course in your first year of high school seems like a pretty special form of education to me." That's so gonna shut people up if they call me sped. Anyways, in my opinion, people should talk more about autism for the neurotypical people to understand it. In fact, last year, in my resource class, I heard a guest teacher or whatever she was talking to my teacher and I heard her say that they should make a autism awareness event in the school, evenif a few students laugh. It would inform people about autism and help eradicate the stigma. I'm sad that I can't experience it, but I'm also very glad that the school is actually trying to spread awareness about it. I genuinely felt supported when I heard that. I think I might ask staff if their will be any autism awareness events in the school, and if there won't, I might suggest one since there's so much stigma. I think we're actually getting to a path where stigma about autism will soon be rare for someone to believe. I also feel really supported too when I see videos about autism. It's nice to see people not stigmatize it for once. Even if it's someone who also has autism.

[@Slothloaf]

There's some conditions that mimic autism symptoms because of genetics conditions 😢

[@ggdionne]

The term autism has always troubled me. Words mean something, and the word autism describes a group of related behaviors found across certain individuals, but I also believe that being labeled 'disordered' is representative of how society views these individuals. ASD, OCD, ADHD. I graduated high school as a very disordered person. People are free to do as they wish, be who they want to be, and call themselves what they want to call themselves, but shedding labels has enabled me to live more authentically to who I really am. I strongly believe that people are beyond definition.

[@PineApple-vq9xv]

When a person is autistic they get heard more rather the non autistic people

[@GastropodGaming2006]

I've had an Asperger's diagnosis since I was 7 here

[@shripperquats5872]

I say, maaamaaa we're aauuutistic now \m/

[@wunderluke6759]

6:17 you're welcome 😂

[@joomping-rng]

farming da autizm

[@nitrogenoxide135]

autism prime

[@sle3pym0th]

plus sub

[@Dalibre1]

is that pre 1.5?

[@jAkiosn]

Okay, the last comment here is utterly fascinating as a layman sociologist, you talk about "autists being seen as retarded" and ending up with "virtue signaling liberals", and don't make the immediate obious connection. America is the most narcissistic society in the history of the world, its literally built around conformity, wealth chasing and social status as its core. This is why liberals more than anyone else often(expect open anti-capitalists/left wingers) are so hated by older people. They care more about living in a good society than striving for social status, and that is not "signaling" as much as both their altrusitic and egotistical sides of the personality simply not conforming to what older generations want, the same as almost all Western Austists. I live in Norway, a literally very free and egalitarian society, my idealism and work for a better society is socially rewarded rather than punished, since the striving for materialistic lifestyles and mindsets is not pushed down your troat in the same way(though there are som peer pressure, its not utopia).

[@Nqrii]

This topic is very serious! 🥶🥵 Like you have hawk tuah be kidding me 🥵🥶🔥