What's the most memorable piece of advice your parents gave you?
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@gracefadiji6196 жыл бұрын
YES!!!! It is a Yoruba name from Nigeria. I am Yoruba and Nigerian. Iyanla means "big mother"
@iseoluwa82396 жыл бұрын
Grace Fadiji yoruba🇳🇬
@NellieKAdaba5 жыл бұрын
Grace Fadiji Cool
@sufundasamuels23132 жыл бұрын
Iyanla is a beautiful name with rich and profound meaning....just beautiful!
@letsgracethisplace6 жыл бұрын
Best interpretation of Stormi's name.
@bedouinoutpost6 жыл бұрын
You and Me yes. And then Loni had to go and open her stupid ass mouth
@stylecollective-qt9um6 жыл бұрын
I would be a hypocrite to imply that I've ever been a fan of ANYTHING Kardashian/Jenner related, but love the wisdom in Iyanla's reply regarding the name "Stormi". It brings to mind the old proverb, " Anyone can find the dirt in someone. Be the one that finds the gold". That's my lesson learned for today.
@obdiane6 жыл бұрын
Funny that when Iyanla stated that her father told her to "sit down, shut up and listen" all the women were in shock as if it was so mean. Until she told them why. People really are so quick to find fault in discipline (nowadays), that's why so many kids don't sit down, shut up or listen to their parents/
@QueenOfTheDamned5 жыл бұрын
They were in shock before she explained which would probably be most people's reactions. But even Iyanla said herself she thought her dad was being mean until she grew to understand.
@Bnizzofashizzo3 жыл бұрын
This👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@sufundasamuels23132 жыл бұрын
Yes, her father said that to her, but look at how she turned out by doing just that....this is a woman that should be much admired.
@HenryLee6666 жыл бұрын
They looked so ignorant just gasping and saying wow at everything she said but not understanding anything. And Loni so sure of herself at 0:51 trying to be smart but getting it all wrong 🤦♀
@saraadam39416 жыл бұрын
yeah and when jeannie went "I love that" like it was some profound quote 2:18
@morningsunshine02166 жыл бұрын
Marisol Gómez I was ctfu 😂😂lm like these idiots r they even listening to her 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
@mz.toomuch25786 жыл бұрын
Marisol Gómez I Totally Agree 💯
@Praise_Mhlongo6 жыл бұрын
hahahaahahahaha!!! That was so funny!!!!
@yankeeyobaby6 жыл бұрын
Marisol Gómez lol.riiight .they so phoney
@trudyjackson44056 жыл бұрын
Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; James 1:19 ESV This was the Bible verse Jennie was quoting
@ladieesc06 жыл бұрын
my mom gave me the SAME advice. lol i was just about to say how this is actually biblical. lol. she didnt use that verse but i believe theres a verse in Matthew when Jesus says "its not the thing that goes into a man's mouth that defiles him, but the things that come out" (he was talking to the Pharisees). I always remember that and try to mind my speech now as well as talk less and listen more BEFORE offering an opinion....its a work in progress lol
@trudyjackson44056 жыл бұрын
Ama O A to the men🙋♀️
@nicoleajunwa88976 жыл бұрын
Why is Adrienne always bringing up the Kardashians.
@NellieKAdaba5 жыл бұрын
Xxx Olachi Exactly
@emilybrown72245 жыл бұрын
Cuz Rob is her ex
@siesiechampion5 жыл бұрын
She misses Rob
@tanyalake91526 жыл бұрын
*"Sit down. Shut up, and listen".* I've been doing, and saying the same things for years. It seems like most *"adults"* still don't know how to do that. That is one of the many reasons why society is still a mess.
@leslieburgess69856 жыл бұрын
I wish Adrienne would forget the Kardashians. Why mention Kylie jenner?
@SallayMusic6 жыл бұрын
Leslie Boozer yeah and I felt like Mel really wanted to talk but was keep being cut off by her..
@mwanawanhingiwekwanhingi27016 жыл бұрын
Like why mention kylie Jenner in an episode with Iyanla,the ignorance is too much.She needs to get over it
@Indiegirl0075 жыл бұрын
Because that's all she can relate to.
@NellieKAdaba5 жыл бұрын
Leslie Boozer True
@thelords33946 жыл бұрын
I am gonna sit down shup and listen!
@MiMiOrt6 жыл бұрын
Can't wait 2 see the new season, this woman is astronomical
@mattw44966 жыл бұрын
MeMe O. well...she is the "big mother"
@FELISPEAKS6 жыл бұрын
IYANLA WITH THE SHADE 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@doriyellepink46386 жыл бұрын
I love her.
@jamessneed56696 жыл бұрын
yessss push threw i 💘 that Iyanla said stomi will bring Massive Change to the family. # positivity
@SQuiKenya6 жыл бұрын
Iyanla is so sweet
@jesusistheonlywaytoheavenj78806 жыл бұрын
It is amazing how many people don't know the power in a name...you most always check the meaning of a name before you name yourself or children.....ALWAYS...
@intheworldofsandy96946 жыл бұрын
Jeani that hair is EVERYTHING!
@MyThoughtzExactly6 жыл бұрын
Love💙Iyanla
@teatime41486 жыл бұрын
Not on my watch😂
@yankeeyobaby6 жыл бұрын
KZbin Tea lol
@teimatata6 жыл бұрын
i love Iyanla and her advice is spot on.
@YoungLuminaries6 жыл бұрын
Remembering the time Tamar called Jeannie 'Iyanla' lol
@keondawashington98776 жыл бұрын
Nandi Majola 😂😂😂😂
@m.j72536 жыл бұрын
Nandi Majola I don't remember that one.
@neverever82646 жыл бұрын
Wasn't funny, one of those moments where she bullied Jeannie. Makes me glad she is gone.
@hebrewqueen92806 жыл бұрын
Jenie looks great!!!
@carrietezeno15533 жыл бұрын
Yes Indeed Beautiful Queen 👑 Great Mother Is Right Love You 💖 Mrs V
@MsRae-ev9hs5 жыл бұрын
LOVING the hairstyle on her!! Go Ms. Vanzant!!! Smart and stylish...#typicalvirgo #muchlove
@Professorrob2k244 жыл бұрын
our dear mother vanzant
@malaythegreat44726 жыл бұрын
I love her
@lailaquarles82866 жыл бұрын
My parents got my middle name from Ms. Iyanla and I'm Soo glad they did
@MsRenny235 жыл бұрын
I LOVE IYANLA!!!!
@FULL-HUNDRED3 жыл бұрын
“Slow to speak, quick to listen.”
@kadijahkhayyam88145 жыл бұрын
I lovee IYANLAAA
@gigglyfitzgirl6 жыл бұрын
Is she on this show yet again or are y'all still uploading clips from 3 months ago....
@TheRedScareIsAlive6 жыл бұрын
gigglyfitzgirl she was just on show. Mel B filled in for Tamara this week while she's sick
@gigglyfitzgirl6 жыл бұрын
TheRedScareIsAlive oh right 🤦🏽 lol I forgot about that... duh. 😂😭 #WhenThrowingShadeGoesWrong
@hawaiihawaii39346 жыл бұрын
She was talking about Kylie so it’s recent
@QueenNaestar6 жыл бұрын
gigglyfitzgirl 😅😅
@LionessJewlz6 жыл бұрын
LMBO 0:52...Loni wasn't really getting the whole "title" concept...I think we've all had moments in which we think we understand something, but really we're completely off =D
@millicenthamilton-kakowski82754 ай бұрын
Listening--my greatest skill & attribute.
@millicenthamilton-kakowski827521 күн бұрын
Me mother NEVER complimented me for anything. Years ago, when I turned 60, she actually did give me a compliment. She said to me, "You're a great listener." That, I am.
@khandipwens19556 жыл бұрын
I knew she was into some type of spiritual type stuff that is over and above what black people are comfortable dealing with.
@krystingrant62926 жыл бұрын
khandi pwens this that's okay.
@obatalaosun22226 жыл бұрын
Sadly yes. Many Black people are still running on the brainwashing inflicted on our ancestors during slavery and colonialism. They are afraid of anything non christian. Iyanla is a priestess in the West African Yoruba indigenous spiritual tradition, which many call Ifa, Orisha, or Isese. Thank The Creator that many of us now are waking up and 'reverting' to the spiritual paths cut by our forefathers and mothers before we were forced to abandon them or die. Though she's not limited to it, that tradition definitely informs her overall spiritual practice and helps her do her work in helping people heal, especially Black folk.
@hellobye76976 жыл бұрын
They got the quote wrong in the title
@dreafar41376 жыл бұрын
Loni always with the shade 😂👀👀
@Lynn-r7x6 жыл бұрын
I love Mel B's voice, and I love Iyanla so much...i want her to be my auntie lol
@tanyathomas9285 жыл бұрын
Iya... Ashe ashe Oooo...Alafia Mother!
@Candie4JC5 жыл бұрын
I love seeing these older videos and really seeing the physical transformation of Cousin Jeannie and Auntie Loni. I'm so proud of them!
@khansa31816 жыл бұрын
It is something we believe in Islam too, your name affects you because that is what people constantly call you and fill your ears with. So there are certain names that shouldn't be kept such as 'Imaan' or 'Deen' as they both mean faith, you'll find yourself saying 'oh Imaan just left' and you're filling that specific house with an energy that means 'faith has left us'. I always found that so fascinating. (if you do keep names like this, it's best if they're hyphenated so it's not just one meaning)
@henrykyem6 жыл бұрын
She said "Sit down, Shut up and Listen" but y'all just changed it huh ?! 🤔
@karengutloff20046 жыл бұрын
Hosts and producers need to do more homework. Any iyanla fan knows the story of how iyanla got her name. Ad the book or google. Questions so shallow for such a deep person.
@mattw44966 жыл бұрын
Karen Gutloff It's not like they don't know who she is. So, what if they don't know about witchcraft? Not a big deal.
@ceeceeceecee52806 жыл бұрын
Yup, cuz Carol means Joy 😀
@ance3066 жыл бұрын
Old school saying. seat down be quiet and shut up. Tough Love for the know it alls
@stylecollective-qt9um6 жыл бұрын
That's right, "PEACE, BE STILL", lol!
@towandaallen66675 жыл бұрын
Will do! I accept that, great reminder, thank you so much and stay blessed! 🎎🎎🎎🎎🎎🎎
@ReturnJaguar6 жыл бұрын
Delores are usually good people. Always loved that name. That usually good cooks and neighborhood aunts.
@tinytowz44715 жыл бұрын
Who is Deloris?
@remie69915 жыл бұрын
I'm Nigerian and had know idea her name was yoruba😂😂
@angeLxLaw6 жыл бұрын
Dolores Umbridge anyone?
@l1lunk0wn6 жыл бұрын
I also thought about it. She can definitely be proud of that name !
@monikaranee6 жыл бұрын
When she said Dolores I thought of Sister Act.
@thatbemefool6 жыл бұрын
Monika Ranee' - I thought of the sad/dark movie Delores Claiborne. I love that movie!
@AshMcMiller6 жыл бұрын
Monika Ranee' my grandma name
@giovannarodney6 жыл бұрын
Yes team Charlie ..... her great gran
@Daniece1006 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@SunniWrld6 жыл бұрын
Fr I mean no shade, just a thought...but why on earth would u call a baby “Stormy”? What did that baby do to you? Names are powerful and that child gon have to carry that name all her life...😟
@zzsmile16 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, feeling ashamed it took me this long to realise it's yoruba, pronounciation makes a difference! Iya nlà
@obijieoru76266 жыл бұрын
Iyá nla.... Now I get it
@themisanthropechannel80526 жыл бұрын
I like my name a lot, but i gave it to myself because my parents were using a longer version of it, which I hated. My version allows me to do dramatic things in a short space of time.
@FB-vp6qz5 жыл бұрын
Loni is shady" trying find something positive lmaoooo." Shady
Names are connected to destiny. That is why I get so scared when people name their children all sorts of craziness,
@SQuiKenya6 жыл бұрын
I have watched most of the clips of Iyanla fix my life after watching her on the real
@texasgirl73goodjob463 жыл бұрын
Yessssss
@anthoniopressley2676 жыл бұрын
#One love
@emeraldgreene77676 жыл бұрын
Love the show!!! ...is it me or does loni come for the kardashians a lot. 🤔🤔
@mutheume17136 жыл бұрын
I miss Tamara.
@mariahwhitneycelinejanetmadona3 жыл бұрын
i didn't even realize that Mel B was there
@DJReeRee5 жыл бұрын
She's right names can make you or break u. Some names follow a stigmatism of curses
@georgia85925 жыл бұрын
Dont call ur kid damien
@ciara62796 жыл бұрын
What happened toTamera? Where she go?
@thobie86 жыл бұрын
Caroline Norton she was sick I think
@bleubelle43396 жыл бұрын
Caroline Norton she has pneumonia .
@ciara62796 жыл бұрын
Bleu Belle oh, okay. Thank you! Prayers for Tamera🙏
@Doritheexplori6 жыл бұрын
They clap at anything.
@elaine80135 жыл бұрын
My biomom named me after Sir Lancelot's wife. The knight that ran off with King Arthur's wife. and every man in my life has cheated and abandoned me just like Sir Lancelot did to his wife.
@Dannibb086 жыл бұрын
Adriane messy saying Kylie Jenner baby name knowing damn well they hate her for dating Rob 😂
@s.p.52136 жыл бұрын
JEANNIE.... Whyyyyy do you have long hair when that short bob is doing everything you need in life?? Chop It off. And let it grow back long if you want.. The short bob is definitely your best to look.
@angeleyes33196 жыл бұрын
I can agree that our name is our nature. It was that way back in Jesus's times.
@DDavis-mi2cg6 жыл бұрын
A simple hairstyle can a woman look beautiful.
@monicacinco5776 жыл бұрын
Omg Loni lolll
@didilv21875 жыл бұрын
that's abusive, i've certainly never used those words to my son. you can say the same exact thing without being insultive.
@jigglejello6 жыл бұрын
It means big mama
@lookhowshegobbledthat6 жыл бұрын
Do you think Blue Ivy sounds like a stripper name, Loni Treemonster?
@stylecollective-qt9um6 жыл бұрын
To me it always sounded as if she were a Zappa, Phillips, or Phoenix kid, or one of Cher's children (I'm thinking of her son Elijah Blue).
@A.Jionni3 жыл бұрын
People always always ALWAYS jabbing at Jenner, kardashian like what's the underline Hollywood secret we don't know
@MiscellaneousMichelle6 жыл бұрын
❤️
@smeak92466 жыл бұрын
Somebody wanna tell me where Tamera's at?
@everythingsamsara57196 жыл бұрын
I like the name stormi
@missbrooks15716 жыл бұрын
Ugh! Adrienne is always trying to get attention especially if she can mention something about her being Spanish SMH! Iyanla: "it means sorrow" Adrienne: "In Spanish it actually means pain" 🤔 that was redundant AF!!!
@juicyloveja6 жыл бұрын
Upload full girl chat please
@DeBellanadi6 жыл бұрын
I knew I hated the name Delores
@90Outside6 жыл бұрын
Najah Mcbryde - my grandmother does too lol and her name is Dolores.
@karisay3476 жыл бұрын
Adrienne is obsessed with the Kardashians, girl you’re married into another family, let it go!
@conjunction79596 жыл бұрын
I hope I can look that good at 80
@kimr54796 жыл бұрын
she"s in her 60:s
@leggs41136 жыл бұрын
Lala layla you tried it!
@conjunction79596 жыл бұрын
Hehe
@mattw44966 жыл бұрын
Lala layla lolll
@LL-us7je6 жыл бұрын
Lala layla ... Ur comment was disrespectful. For what? 🤔😕.
@allthingstravon216 жыл бұрын
I HATE THAT THEY SWITCHED SIT DOWN AND SHUT UP IN THE TITLE
@Pacifica746 жыл бұрын
I don't believe in all that. I only believe in what Jesus said.
@stylecollective-qt9um6 жыл бұрын
Believe in what? the fact that names have meanings? Even the Bible attributes meaning to a person's name, and as for name change as part of one's spiritual journey, we saw it in the Bible as well with Saul's name change to Paul. As for some of the other things she said: the roots is biblical. Her father essentially told her as a young woman, "Peace, be still", and insofar as the wording she used to lift Baby Stormi as opposed to villyfing an inncent child, she simply employed the instruction of 1 Peter 3:10, Colossians 4:6 and Ephesians 4:29
@Pacifica746 жыл бұрын
The only nature I believe we all have is a sin nature.
@obatalaosun22226 жыл бұрын
Great explanation. Some people though, religious or not, are just dense.
@mattw44966 жыл бұрын
stylecollective Triggered much?
@jennyoyster50546 жыл бұрын
Pacifica74 Amen! Only Jesus!
@zainababdulkareem71675 жыл бұрын
Are you kidding me? Iyanla is a Yoruba descent, a Nigerian tribe.
@magicpower18586 жыл бұрын
Wow, she had kids really early then !
@kjdnyhmghfvb6 жыл бұрын
She had her first child at 17. "I didn't have money for child care, so I took my children to college with me and they sat in the hallway. They went everywhere with me."
@chriss65316 жыл бұрын
what's the point of cutting a 5 minutes clip into two 😑 stupidity
@lifewithcaroline81966 жыл бұрын
Illuminati talk !
@jojom66576 жыл бұрын
A title... girl ppppuhhhlease!
@kutamentu6 жыл бұрын
Lonnie is so phony to me😒... Everytime I watch anything related to "The Real" on KZbin, my feelings always remain the same. I honestly been stopped watching the show once Tamar left.
@RC-fe9py5 жыл бұрын
If a father never tells his daughter those words he's a worthless father.
@tinytowz44715 жыл бұрын
Sons need to hear, & heed, the same.
@RC-fe9py5 жыл бұрын
@@tinytowz4471 of course that goes without saying and most do. It's the daughter's that get held as lil princesses without any accountability. That's the serious problem at hand. Fathers instinctively are harder on boys than girls.
@tinytowz44715 жыл бұрын
@@RC-fe9py In so many households, the exact opposite is the case.
@RC-fe9py5 жыл бұрын
@@tinytowz4471 not in black homes. 73 percent of our homes are headed by a single mother.
@tinytowz44715 жыл бұрын
@@RC-fe9py Even if the fathers are not in the home, how many of those fathers are still co-parenting? What might they they teaching their kids?
@jonnydavis60666 жыл бұрын
#AllWomenNeedToSitDownShutupAndListen 😂😂😂
@jonnydavis60666 жыл бұрын
Iyanla needs to continue to shut up, listen, and sit down
@cccc-rz5qf5 жыл бұрын
Ok she sold her soul to the devil and they renamed her. So watch her show with yall eyes wide!!!!
@ConservativeAnthem5 жыл бұрын
Old meddler
@just_a_light6 жыл бұрын
The Real is so fake though😏 Only real host to ever be on this show was Tamar