Why Jennifer Lopez Thought She Was 'Going to Die' After First Ben Affleck Split

[@anonymouse6703]

My step-dad broke up with my mom when they were 17. They found each other in their early 60's and got married. After she died a few years later, he said breaking up with her and losing out on all those years he could've had with her was the biggest regret of his life. Men want to play when the lady knows she's met her soulmate, and that's how true love gets ruined. I tried to warn the love of my life of this, but he didn't listen. 10 years later out of the blue he wants me back. But I won't have him, that ship has sailed as sometimes it does. Don't waste your time men, when you know you've found that only one that gives you THAT feeling.

[@Diva08180703]

What a story!! Lessons that so many men and women need to learn.

[@ANonyMouse627]

I can't believe we have the same username

[@anonymouse6703]

@@ANonyMouse627 Holy batman you're my username twin! How funny, hello 🤗

[@danielle0166]

You won’t give him another chance?

[@anonymouse6703]

@@danielle0166 No. He cheated and gave the girl all the things he promised me - a home, family, even the vacations we talked about. I'm not a forgiving person, he was forewarned.

[@makamurphy]

I'm not surprised, when they broke up it broke her then, so when they got back together 20 years later, I was absolutely happy for them.

[@kristycastillo993]

I really understand this. My husband and I dated when we were in high school. When we broke up I was devastated. I had a failed marriage and he had two. We got back together 20 years later and we have been happily married for 9 years now. I believe that's why her other relationship didn't work out. Now she is with the right person.

[@DanielGarcia-fi1rh]

Mmkn7lļi

[@Gaby-cq8pr]

I had a coworker too who broke up with her first boyfriend because he didn't want to have the wedding she wanted and they got back together 40 years later she said she felt like a teenager falling in love with him again

[@ConjureQueenTours]

Wow that is exactly my story! Me and my hubby reunited 20 years later, still going strong! We didn’t officially break up my mom forced me to move out of state and I was heartbroken because I lost touch with him- pre mobile phone and social media days! We had both been married and had kids in between those 20 years.

[@breukelynbee77]

Thats sooo awesome so happy for you guys God bless you!

[@kristycastillo993]

@@ConjureQueenTours it was meant to be.

[@wmedinaful]

I love when she said to not give up, true love does exist, that really hit me hard. Just what I needed to hear.

[@brendadickson9583]

Me too I will wait for it

[@iamshellyy]

I always knew Ben was the one she truly loved. So happy to see them back together after all of these years ❤

[@truecrime0110]

Just like Jennifer is brads true love n vice versa

[@Breeanna73]

Just like Jennifer said all her ex husbands were the one

[@simonebrooks202]

Man shut up 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mialia15104]

parasocial

[@yemisi480]

I wasn't super into them back in the day but seeing them now makes me giddy and hopeful! its so cute!! xo

[@feliciasjourney]

My husband and I broke up for a year after almost 2 years of dating. It was the worst emotional pain of my life. Neither one of us could live without each other. Now we are 4 years happily married. I hate the saying, let it go and if it’s meant to be it’ll be, although it can be true. She is right. True love does exist.

[@Lolyloj]

Ohhh i feel you. I broke up with my love life for 1 month and i suffered so much the first days of the break up , now we came back to each other im happy but the problem is my feelings( passion , fear of losing him ..) and all those beautiful feelings that i had for him at the beginning i don’t know if they are gone because of the break up. I just want them back. What do you think sis ?❤

[@boundariessetinstone5893]

If it was cheating no way I could

[@caligirl2333]

It feels like your heart is literally ripping in pieces !!! Worst pain ever 😢

[@angelgray8899]

I wonder if the Justin/Selena/Hailey triangle will end up like Ben/Jen/J-Lo 👀☠️

[@emonniwhite4829]

I don't like that saying either. Or the other one that ppl are only in your life for a reason or season.

[@cakesaregood5176]

We all knew she felt that way. I’m glad they made it back together.

[@SamSung-mj6lg]

True they immediately married other people a few months after their first split.

[@ThatGirlLib]

@@SamSung-mj6lgdidn’t he cheat on her with Gardner? I remember that being all over the tabloids.

[@tysonb3568]

@@SamSung-mj6lg They were probably both broken. Driven to the closest nice person. Relationships can leave you Psychologically damaged…..have U ever been in one?

[@theofficialprincess6012]

Love them!

[@CA2SD]

Not a fan but I actually believe she truly loved Ben. I'm glad their journey brought them back together.

[@CraftyCuriosity]

Same

[@jgp1294]

Same here

[@jacquelineyvette7427]

Who cares about the children.. That's a rhetorical question

[@Urcinamongurl]

I don’t think Ben feels the same way but wish her the best

[@SLees-tv7gh]

@@jgp1294 same

[@elizabethl169]

As someone who has been in love, even the idea of not being able to be with that person felt like somebody repeatedly stabbing me. So it's nice to know celebrities go through these things too! I think it's really neat to see Jennifer and Ben come full circle like this! Like a real life fairy tale. Also that was such an iconic record!

[@kaylazegowitz13]

Nothing different it's all the same love does not chose just like death. It can happen any time .I hope you will find love dont give up.💗🙏

[@jaydizzy76]

Well they are regular people like us. they bleed and feel

[@susanmontemayor283]

"Celebrities" are human just like you and I. There is no difference other than we are real and they are fake. You can tell from the real people in Hollywood from the fake ones and Jennifer is fake.

[@elizabethzewdie4508]

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[@Javas_Dream]

Nothing is ever like a fairy tale ! These two are highly paid by Hollywood to tell you this stuff!

[@aidaromero8470]

Like the saying goes: if it doesn't work out you need to let them go but if it's meant to be you will cross paths again...

[@kellyf5004]

@@AishaHussain-j5u be quiet please that was way to long of a comment nobody cares what you think 🙄

[@kellyf5004]

@@AishaHussain-j5u p.s your WRONG cause there is an old saying similar to what the previous commenter stated… check your facts before trolling

[@lillianmaceda-juracich8422]

@@AishaHussain-j5u I agree. I don't think there is any rhyme or reason for anything. If you choose to find and be with someone for the second time, it's a choice. It's not some random act of fate. Bumping into someone can be a little bit of magic but we still have to make a choice.

[@aidaromero8470]

@@kellyf5004 THANK YOU!

[@aidaromero8470]

@@kellyf5004 THANK YOU AGAIN!

[@caligirl2333]

Heartbreak is no joke. It’s very painful .

[@aminah761]

Very😢

[@ttp436]

I knew they were destined to be together and before they announced or got back together I said it and I am glad they found their way back to each other. I wish them all the happiness in the world.

[@lennilenni6889]

Agree

[@reginamushi6582]

Oh Gosh I pray he doesn't disappoint her again, bless her heart 💖

[@Rebecca-bz6ph]

Omg I can’t believe someone as beautiful and seemingly together as Jennifer had that kind of impact from her breakup. I went through a breakup 5 years ago and I went through something very similar. It’s funny how life works and they found their way back to each other.

[@sagevibes3458]

Why do y’all put these humans on a standard to where just because someone looks good or has fame they can’t get hurt? Wtf is wrong with y’all

[@Rebecca-bz6ph]

@@sagevibes3458 chill out fellow human.

[@Wintersnow889]

lol

[@Rebecca-bz6ph]

@@herenow4550 I think you are blowing my comment out of proportion.

[@Rebecca-bz6ph]

@@genesisone8178 I don’t mean that. I mean that I take comfort in the fact that anyone can get their heart broken because getting my heart broken was the worst thing I ever went though. At times I felt alone in that pain and like I might die. Why don’t you have some compassion for fellow human beings instead of looking to read in to peoples words and flame strangers over the internet?

[@TheShai17]

I always felt like she still had deep love for Ben, even with all her relationships after him because of the song “Dear Ben” and “This is me…then” is my favorite album of hers.

[@Nicole-cf3kj]

I heard that her manager’s name is Ben, maybe this song was about him🤣

[@kazb4496]

Omg I didn’t know she loved Ben that much 💔 back together years later that’s love

[@dhurley8522]

That’s a publicity stunt. It’s a 53 year old trying to stay relevant. She was so heartbroken that she married Marc Anthony months later. JHo is addicted to love, attention, she’s a true Narcissist. Just a glorified dancer, not an actress and certainly not a singer.

[@rmilkyswife]

That really surprised me as well. It's hard to go through heartbreak . If you can survive a broken heart you can survive anything.

[@sherwithyou2900]

We will see. ARod was her “ soul mate”.. unimpressed.

[@toeareg100]

She is telling lies. She went straight from Ben’s bed to Marc Anthony’s bed (while Marc was married to another woman, but JLo didn’t care) and she is trying to make up an excuse for her behavior. She and Ben broke up in January 2004 and she married Marc in June 2004 and she took Marc’s name.

[@simonebrooks202]

She loved all of them the same 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤮

[@nonni139]

I hope that their love will last this time. Its nice when people can get back together again as they have done. 😄💕

[@AT-cy7im]

@nonni139 I wish them happy and together 4ever.

[@devcarter1654]

I think we could see the initial shock and sadness she experienced after the breakup. And although it was painful, she still carried herself very well which takes strength and fortitude.

[@anwartalia812]

This was emotional to watch. 🖤 Being able to relate to that heartbreak where you feel like you're gonna die... SUCKS. God I wish that my heartbreak takes this path too and one day it goes full circle. And not 18 years later!

[@therarebreed]

Same! ❤

[@T.Dee28]

This is me… then was one of my fave albums! 💖 I never knew the break up was so tough for her

[@toeareg100]

She didn’t know it either. She is lying to fool Ben and everyone.

[@lennilenni6889]

@@toeareg100 🙄🙄🙄

[@m1sst-g9c]

You sense it was Jlo really change after her break up with Ben.

[@sylviagonzalez3811]

Definitely can relate when a relationship with someone you truly love ends you do feel like you're dying. The feeling is just like when someone in your family dies. It is extremely devastating.

[@lovepattz5226]

I remember when she broke up with ARod, my cousin and I, who are HUGE FANS of the original Bennifer - we were like "Can you imagine if they get back together after all these years?!!" Just hopeful musings, but OMG, when we heard the first rumors of them being seen together WE KNEW! We knew that this time around they would make it! LOVE THESE TWO TOGETHER!

[@SvetaM-o7c]

I am happy for her. I understand how she feels. Yes, true love exists.

[@mychannel8809]

Her new album sounds like it came straight from the 90’s I’m obsessed

[@rein2430]

It probably was 😆, it's probably vocals that were recorded back then and she's just using them now.

[@liasi4592]

I always knew Ben Affleck was probably the first person ever that got her heart broken! She was soooo love with him, she didn't hide it. I never saw Jennifer acted the way she did when she was with Ben but soon as they seperated she was completely different! I always knew she was wounded from Ben, she wasn't the same. Glad they are together again

[@m1sst-g9c]

I agree with everything that you said lias4592 Jlo was never the same person once her and Ben break up she found it hard to let any guy in probably once they broke up. Put on this brave face I can take care of myself I don’t need your money just your loved.

[@m1sst-g9c]

Jlo even said after that break up her voice change she became guided and put her guard up she even said her singing voice change she lost the soft tone of love in her voice. She said all this in her behind the music 2022 on Parmon.

[@missholmes8963]

This is what happens when folks come inbetween you and the love of your life. Soooo glad they both have grown and matured and not letting their families or media affect their relationship. Middle finger up to them all! Love each other and move forward 💕. Rooting for yall 🙌🏾

[@sula1529]

Their families? What about his kids? Hope you aren't saying middle finger to them.. Sad Theirs poor kids in the middle of all this. Hope he hasn't abandoned them? 😔 just saying!!! And do their kids hang out? Is she a good step mom??

[@danielle0166]

@@sula1529 I am sure she would be a great stepmom.

[@MIMI232]

I know how she felt, when my boyfriend & I broke up 20 years ago in fact we were dating around the time when Jen & Ben were a big deal….when he & I broke up I felt like I was gonna die. I couldn’t even eat I spent months crying like somebody had died…! I eventually got over it but I never forgot him & what could’ve been. When you lose that special person it’s painful

[@kristyedman1416]

It’s definitely one of those “would’ve, could’ve, should’ve” things. Like everything is second best after that. Sometimes I think it’s just right person, wrong time.

[@MIMI232]

@@kristyedman1416 💯 definitely right person wrong time, we were young then late teens early twenties…! Didn’t experience life much as yet…..but hey such is life!

[@themoonatnight1868]

Did you go on to marry a few and have numerous engagements??? lol JLO sucks at relationships let’s just admit that. She’s high maintenance and needs constant adornment

[@dearbrave4183]

@@themoonatnight1868 there's nothing wrong with having needs if you meet the right person to meet them. Being low maintenance isn't a virtue and doesn't stop marriages from breaking apart.

[@themoonatnight1868]

@@dearbrave4183 we’ll having numerous men isn’t a virtue either??? She has children who has seen numerous men come and go…

[@jptf8930]

I'm deliriously happy for these 2 and I don't even know them

[@LA-gh3mi]

Wow do you do this a lot?

[@emramirez7846]

Jen, my idol, lord knows i love you, but you got over him and called every single relationship you had afterward, "true love." I just hope this time, this relationship truly does work out for you.

[@Sunshine-is_here_to_stay]

Did she really call every relationship after him "true love"?

[@beautifulibra]

Her book is called True Love and she talks about Mark Anthony. Then her next true love was Alex.

[@deed2157]

Yeah. How deeply could you have loved an ex to quickly get into another relationship. I remember when she first broke up with Ben then quickly got with Mark Anthony and married him.

[@CraftyCuriosity]

Yeah and I knew that was just for show. Do you remember or did you ever see an interview with her mother when a reporter asked her mom how she felt about JLo getting married to Marc. Her mom was surprised lol I will never forget her surprised reaction and she tried to deny it. Jlo’s mom really liked Ben

[@CraftyCuriosity]

Agree.. I hope it lasts … and if it doesn’t … it’s Ben’s fault … he has issues

[@lillyjosie3074]

I knew Ben was the love of her life!!! I'm so happy for them both

[@gildardoenriquebarajas4540]

Happy that they are separated? Funny

[@mallemee99]

I am happy she is happy now. I hope she can handle if he struggles again with addiction. No one is perfect and we hear this so often in Hollywood when spouses speak of each other. I truly hope it is for real and will last. All the best Jen.

[@WillWize]

I've loved Jennifer since 1997, so she holds a very special place in my heart. I always knew that she and Ben were meant to be together. I had never seen them happier when they were together the first time, which didn't make sense to me that they were breaking up. They both moved on to other relationships quickly after their break up. which means those relationships were rebounds. I'm glad they both found each other again and I truly believe it will last.

[@Materialgirl_3]

I love this woman as well ❤ so we do agree on that. I’ve always hoped that she would find her Prince Charming. As far as Ben goes I don’t trust him

[@WillWize]

@@Materialgirl_3 it’s not for YOU to trust him. Do you hear how that sounds. You don’t know these people in real life and neither do I. I can only wish her the best as a supporter. She trusts him, and he obviously trusts her. That’s all that matters

[@Blaah6]

You can feel the love and the pain.

[@toeareg100]

She is an actress.

[@simonebrooks202]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@amberdog5185]

@@toeareg100 true.

[@SuSunflower]

@@toeareg100 get a life

[@Urcinamongurl]

I don’t I feel like she is acting from this

[@lennilenni6889]

I'm so happy for Ben & JLo...true love never dies..💚💚💚💚

[@fefesmith82]

True love plzzzz she said they'll were her true loves

[@KristannaGarden]

She looks younger now than in 2014!! Wow!!! Happy to know they found each other again!

[@anndelacruz1986]

She was spiraling for 18 yrs!!! Wowww, that's deep. I hope Ben never divorce her. It will be so tragic.

[@raec.9615]

Indeed! Can you imagine a She’ll be middle aged in spiral! But I guess Jlo always love being inlove and she rebounds a lot! And we always want what we can’t have and Ben checked out her ago in 2002!

[@chrisleal8459]

This made me smile! I knew they would find their way back to each other

[@melaninandaura9713]

That This Is Me album is my favorite. That shit helped me find out who tf I was as a teenager and I still bop to it today. I can feel the love and sincerity oozing from that album. Love it!!

[@shein988]

This was by far my favorite interview of a celebrity. Very honest,raw and vulnerable, that's true love right there, Congratulations Mr and Mrs Affleck 🥰

[@KA-eu9sy]

She's so strong to have survived that. So beautiful and strong. So happy for them. I love their constant PDA when they're out. So authentic. Good for her and them.

[@Vonmacfire]

What did she survive? 🥴

[@themoonatnight1868]

So strong she had numerous men and even married one got engaged to a few lol…. Yep soooo strong

[@melonie_peppers]

@@Vonmacfire Bro. Heartbreak is not unique 🥱

[@m1sst-g9c]

Me to I loved their PDA that they show each other when out.

[@autumnautumn5200]

She tries to convince herself too

[@adansanchez3509]

No

[@toeareg100]

Yes

[@ytallowskids2seedepravityb219]

Trying way too hard

[@ovok10]

Like you know her personally !!! she’s human after all you troll

[@Bearded_Fox]

Love that album. Taking me back with I'M GLAD🙌🏽 totally understand the emotion and not being able to perform songs off the album.

[@madamhummingbird]

Jennifer, this interview is giving me life right now, girl. I get where your heart is coming from 💯Your story with Ben gives me hope my complicated story with my man in seperation will come back around in perfect divine timing. Bless. I wish you many years of bliss with your true love, Ben. Merry Christmas xo

[@cinjm7961]

I'm so happy for both of them..they belong together.

[@sherryburley3233]

I absolutely love that these two found their way back to each other. Loved them together back then and love love love them back together now. My absolute favourite celebrity couple.❤️💙

[@priscillapie]

Ok but I wanna hear what Ben has to say ?!

[@bg4599]

She’s been trying to find her love she’s always had it within her maybe the first time around they weren’t ready I wish them all the best

[@classytalks4310]

So vulnerable. It’s honestly nice to listen to your story and finally with the ONE you always loved and giving hope to others❤️

[@TruckieLooks4Aliens]

Even though she was married when she met him and then married Marc, I think she is being 100% honest. My 1st adult heartbreak was excruciating. I wasn’t like her though. I stayed very single for 5 years and the 6th, I forced myself to move forward and then I got engaged, but 2-3 months b4 my wedding- I couldn’t get him out of my head so I called it off. It wasn’t until I met my hubs when I finally healed but it was tough.

[@toeareg100]

She is an actress.

[@BrooklynBaby100]

Where’d you meet your hubs .. ain’t not good straight guys around

[@edensky5825]

Did you marry your heartbreak or found another?

[@Godsgirlnz]

Loved her albums back in the day. Looking forward to the new album.

[@bosman1856]

Felt this in my spirit. I dated many before I found my way back to him.

[@GameChanger597]

Let's just hope this time it truly lasts. I pray for both their sake it's a forever love. But somehow I doubt it...

[@EM-fd8xe]

I don't trust him.

[@chattingoutmylife1]

They need to move away from Hollywood and go to the country. Hollywood messes people up

[@deed2157]

I honestly think JLo likes the idea of love, but doesn't truly have it with men. She can breakup with someone even a person she's engaged with then quickly get in a new relationship with "the love of her life'

[@michaeld.williamsiii9026]

@@deed2157 Yeah I agree…😑 I’m over it.

[@justlove2072]

@@EM-fd8xe Me either!!! I pray for her sake, it really works this time. Honestly, I don't think she could take it if it didn't work.

[@vt-yp7yq]

She has inspired me to pursue love again.

[@recardo4873]

Once someone writes and dedicates a whole album to you. Don't question it. That person really and truly loves you

[@norarodela8909]

She in love with being in love ! She can switch men in a matter of a week and claim she loves that man. When only a week ago she loved the another ! So I really just don't even pay attention to what's going on with her too much anymore. That's why when she's with someone no matter how short in between the other one. It's always In love, love, love, love ! Because she's in love with being in love ! So that means she loves them all during their time It's called being in love with love !

[@melissacannici9722]

FACTS!

[@pierre5373]

Very true she is in love of being in love.

[@sweetpeaches43able]

Sooo Happy Jlo and Ben are together til the end. This is what true Love looks like... Smiling every day

[@just_th0ughts]

"Ben loves that album, he knows all of the words" well I'm glad somebody did 😂😂😂😂

[@andreachristian6976]

I'm so happy to see Jennifer happy 😊

[@Jalil-wx7rh]

For folks who already knows about this, it was OBVIOUS from the jump that Ben was always for her. That's why when people complain or joke or confused about her marriages or who she's been with, they really don't understand or know their history. It wasn't shocking to me. I knew what that was all about. B.E.N. Just be happy. That's why This Is Me Then is her BEST, because she was involved. I hope Cory Rooney is involved in some of this new album.

[@Miss-zr1rv]

🤣🤣🤣 thats why they broke up, fucked a couple of others and are back together after years.....

[@Jalil-wx7rh]

@Nancy Phillips Thanks Snuffleupagus.

[@northsouth6739]

@@Jalil-wx7rh lol

[@toeareg100]

Two of her marriages were before Ben, lol. And she said in 2002 in the Oprah Winfrey Show that she has had a lot of relationships, so even before Ben she was in the habit of hopping from man to man. So it has nothing to do with Ben, she is just like that.

[@louisedemello9994]

@@toeareg100 so true. She had so many relationships. She has left none from actors, singers, dancers and she called everybody’s gf in Hollywood. It was difficult for her to get Ben as Ben was in a stable relationship with garner with 3 kids so she tried quite hard and was ultimately able to trap Ben to marry her. Her next true love is on his way to reach her.

[@makeupchick9544]

Did she really say she spiraled for 18 years after their break up.......?

[@ymurray73yj]

Rt that part? Not saying much for the father of her children 🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@queenprincess4life]

@@ymurray73yj he had previous children and wives before J.Lo, no one mentions that. Their marriage was a smart business move, their kids were birth in a union of Latin Royalty. Now Jennifer is back with the man who has always had her heart.

[@abbybarrett4855]

@@queenprincess4life lol yea, the actress from 13 going on 30

[@toeareg100]

She is just trying to find a pathetic excuse for her hopping from man to man.

[@louisedemello9994]

@@queenprincess4life 😂😂😂

[@alycehead4393]

I think we all have that “one” heartbreak that you truly loved and would do anything for. So awesome how they came back together!

[@LaHistoire]

I was actually a big J.Lo fan BECAUSE OF that album. That album was the thing that got me hooked.

[@Anan-fk1kt]

Rooting for them. That’s why it never worked with anyone else ❤

[@toeareg100]

You believe her? Do you also believe in Santa Claus? 😂

[@louisedemello9994]

Hahaha never worked with anyone else and that to 2 dozen relationships. What a joke 😅😅 never worked with anyone else and will not work again.

[@louisedemello9994]

@@toeareg100 😂😂

[@Anan-fk1kt]

@@toeareg100 you mean Santa isn't real? 😱 ☠️🤣🤣

[@nawal10]

But it did work with others for both of them that's why they got married and had kids and so on. Just because things don't last doesn't mean it wasn't true or real

[@Got_Margaritas]

I love how real and open she is ❤

[@randomlady6899]

How many ‘love of my life’ s is she gonna have? Sadly, unless they both learn to make the kind of sacrifices that prioritise the marriage above all the distractions in life, they’ll find themselves divorced again. I pray that it’s for real this time🙏

[@Luckyraindrops]

@randomlady6899, you know, Jennifer really was so into Ben back in the day. And even Ben was into her. However back then, the culture was not as welcoming about this relationship so much. After that relationship, her eyes looked sad for a very long time. Yes, she did like the others. But her heart had chosen someone she couldn’t be with totally back then, and she needed to move on. I hope Ben does not mess up. It looks like if there’s going to be a problem in the relationship, it seems it will come from Ben.

[@melonie_peppers]

@@Luckyraindrops beautifully said

[@IsabelGata]

He doesn't talk about her, at all. But she can't stop talking about him.

[@melissacannici9722]

He never did. And she's like that with every guy she's with. This is her 4th marriage. Anyone really think it's going to last now??? Come on people

[@IsabelGata]

@@melissacannici9722 I hate to burst people's bubble but it's not going to last. I give it 5 years tops.

[@melissacannici9722]

@@IsabelGata I agree 100%. While I do believe he is the love of her life, I don't believe she can sustain a real relationship. She loves the idea of being "in love". She talks about making an album to chronicle this phase in her life bc of the love her and Ben share. But she also said that when she turned 50 about her relationship with Arod. I also remember her saying she neber had anyone in her life that lets her be her and lets her shine the way Arod did. So yea. I dont believe it will last either

[@IsabelGata]

@@melissacannici9722 AND let's not forget how petty she was when she married Marc Anthony right after she broke up with Ben. She just can't learn to be alone??

[@melissacannici9722]

@@IsabelGata exactly thats not a healthy minded person. Also, you know why Ben Affleck doesnt talk about the time they werent together?? Bc he was married to Jennifer Garner and thats the mother of his children and he would never ever disrespect her by saying she was a rebound especially after she stood by him and helped him into rehab. Jennifer makes it like they were waiting for each other for 18 years. Negative. He loved Jennifer Garner I think that was the real love of his life

[@carlydubbya7620]

After 22 years apart, and trying endlessly to " get over him" I finally accepted that I wasn't going to. So I decided to embrace it. My dear Diary became Dear *****. My love for him is my greatest treasure. I discovered I am capable of unconditional love. I pray for his health, his happiness and for love to fill his life and his heart. He's moved on and I respect that. Seems weird maybe, but my love for him didn't die because he chooses to not have me in his life. Maybe now I can move on too, here's hoping...

[@IsabelGata]

She sang, I love you, you're perfect. No one is perfect, and when she wakes up from this daze she's going to dump him. Jlo loves falling in love.

[@MsActor2009]

Yeah, and didn’t she say that the split from Marc Anthony was the greatest heartbreak of her life? She is in love with the fantasy of love. After reality kicks in and he starts drinking again, she’ll hook up with another backup dancer. Wish he would use her relationships to promote her work.

[@pratiraj9750]

Her message strikes. Dont lose hope. I totally get what her experience was like. I survived but it took it's toll on me. Kind of lost faith in love and relationship a completely.I guess I will just hold on to her message. Don't lose hope, because true love exists. I guess I will wait it out till the day someone walks into my life to prove it. I hope I get my happy ending too.

[@pmllms]

Whatever happens in your life, don't ever lose that hope!✨️ Wish you the best! ❤️

[@moodycat1]

"She thought she was going to die" She went on to marry Mark Anthony right away. I feel bad for Jennifer Gardner! I'm sure she feels bad with all these stories that they are each other's true love. 🙄😑

[@indigo3896]

I mean many people try to get over heartbreaks by getting with someone else quickly after, it’s for sure unhealthy, but rebounding is not an unknown topic.

[@Ivan-0000]

Sad but it's something she will have to learn to heal and look within as to why she feels that way, if she does

[@adansanchez3509]

Jennifer Garner does not deserve to be praised nor is she the protagonists of the story

[@moniquemartinez4036]

She doesn't care, she deserved better and she knew that.

[@damienabsalon]

Jennifer Gardner had an actual affair whilst married to her first husband 🙄

[@kita3256]

This made me tear up and I was one to judge about her choices in men and always divorcing. She was not happy without Ben. 😢

[@lylablueabdul5503]

She dated/married/engaged several men before Ben and married right after him not even a month later. Every love she's had she has called him her "true love." She has issues and we all know it.

[@elifyildirim150]

@@lylablueabdul5503 - I wish nothing but the best for them both, and hope this is their 'happy ever after'....but, the thing is I don't trust the guy, as he can be a bit of a dick in my opinion.

[@alinechance7650]

All these years she could not move on? That's more like being selfish.. He was a married man she should have moved on.. In life you don't always have to feel like you deserve it all.. She had fame, money, children, she could have fallen for someone else

[@Ava2969ny]

@@lylablueabdul5503 - maybe she was just trying to "go along to get along" but always found some issue that wasn't working in these other relationships. She once said that she had to go to therapy to deal with herself, so while I do agree that she has called other guys her true love, I think she was just putting a band aide on the loss of that relationship with Ben. I believe everyone has that one person who they can't get over...for her it was Ben.

[@Ava2969ny]

@@alinechance7650 - We love who we love...there are plenty of people in the world who will never admit that they settled for someone, but never really got over someone else...it's a sad reality that their are plenty of marriages of convenience and/or settling, or arrangements, but if those people had their way, they'd be with the person they never got over. I've heard this story a thousands times in real life, except that those people did not find their way back to each other like Jen and Ben.

[@cameilramouche3644]

I wish them both all the happiness, all the best.

[@emceeshrutitripathi1757]

I can for the first time see her emotions out she isn’t controlling them and I am happy for her! I hope it works out for her❤❤❤❤

[@m1sst-g9c]

She really did show her emotion in this interview.

[@ketherwhale6126]

Wow! She IS really taken with him! 🤞❤

[@DarkSkies72]

Nobody loves JLo more than JLo.

[@truthteller816]

😂😂😂 TRUE

[@mesidye]

😂😂😂 in true Leo ♌️ fashion

[@louisedemello9994]

👏👏

[@empresskiya6466]

She's a narcissist through and through

[@lorigravelin2081]

As it should be . “ if you can’t love yourself, how the hell you gonna love someone else “?

[@rhyndawatson4173]

I wish them well but I seems kind of one sided, she loves him but is he really all in, time will tell, these celebrity relationships are so right now few are forever

[@sammie2008]

I thought the same I think she does love him but if you notice in alot of pictures he doesn't seem really happy or a smile for the paparazzi forced.we shall see.

[@bebesomething]

it's like she is trying to convince herself too

[@louisekibirige1167]

He's a bit washed up now while she is still thriving so it's easier for him to be with her as he has less to lose and more to gain from being with her. Sad.

[@EM-fd8xe]

It's almost like he had his fun so now he'll throw his hands up and marry her.

[@sunsetamor302]

Ben is crazy about her, his ex wife’s name is Jennifer, and he married jlo asap. And he always spoke well of her in the public after their breakup. All his pics with her you can see his glow. He’s a typical dude they don’t speak openly about relationships and feelings like that.

[@kjones7561]

I’m so happy they found each other again!! True love 💕

[@vedicchant9981]

When western celebrities talk of love its a joke...their love keep changing every now and then.when she was with other guy she said something similar and again...

[@londontingz7268]

You sound like you’re bitter and probably in an arranged or marriage of convenience.

[@melissacannici9722]

Thats exactly what I said. And what a slap in the face to the father of her children Marc Anthony

[@mariavirgo1647]

@@melissacannici9722 FACTS

[@ahrenb3393]

So just screw Marc huh 😂😂😂...she wasted all those other mens/jewelers time. Like if you knew you felt that way you should have stayed single UNTIL y'all got back together.

[@backtobasics9331]

I’m encouraged that I’ll find True Love after hearing this interview 💙

[@oliviadanes4498]

I always believe they were meant to be together, thank u for inspiring us with your miracle.

[@lauanaautery6103]

He cheated on her with a stripper, dumped her two days before their wedding and expressed regret about ever being with her. She is pathetic. Plain and simple.

[@InglesAlaMexicana]

*She is very forgiving, he broke off the engagement days before the wedding.*

[@boundariessetinstone5893]

I would never forgive it

[@maguiedossantos2925]

So happy for them❤🙏🏼 And the good thing is that they are coming back into it with more life experience and maturity. He went he's way and wasn't happy. And years later he probably realised he let a good thing go. A lot of men make this type of mistakes because they want to be free to sleep around. Unfortunatelly Some people learn this mistake too little too late.

[@1goldbaby]

And that guy picked her right on up to save her face!! I also heard his mother didn't like her and DIDN'T want him with her..

[@chrissyrose9318]

O M G ! She's wearing Cookie Monster around her shoulders !😭

[@CraftyCuriosity]

Yeah I knew she was in love with Ben when she married Marc Anthony only 9 months after their breakup. She never looked so happy with anybody else after that. Marc on the other hand divorced his wife and left his boys to be with her.

[@emramirez7846]

She openly said she only married Marc to have children before it got too late for her. They had always been best friends and Marc had always loved her. So, at least she got her babies from that relationship.

[@AliciaLopez-qh4ls]

She looked happy with Arod. For some reason I feel like they clicked better. Sounds like he cheated on her tho…

[@CraftyCuriosity]

@@emramirez7846 wow didn’t know she said that. Makes sense

[@toeareg100]

Not 9 months between Ben and Marc. She and Ben ended their relationship in January 2004 and she married Marc in June 2004, that’s not 9 months. Marc Anthony was still married when she slept with him, so if he hadn’t been married, it would have been even sooner. They first had to ditch his wife. She didn’t care about the hurt she caused to Marc’s wife when she slept with her husband. And she and Marc threatened his wife to not talk to the press to tell what JLo and Marc did to her, the cheaters.

[@_Sarby1]

​@@emramirez7846 Wow what a friend just break up a marriage and devastate a family just because jlo wants some kids to then throw him aside once she's got the kids. What a scumbag

[@jacklinekendikinoti]

She loves him more than he loves her.i really hope their marriage lasts because if it doesn't this will be break her down completely. these sons of jezebel can give you a serious character development.chunga sana mama usijipate hapo

[@raec.9615]

Seems she’s a tad obsessed! She can’t shut up about it!

[@jacklinekendikinoti]

@@raec.9615 Yeah he is all she talks about these days

[@carrietaylor6658]

Hope he stands up to her ego

[@raec.9615]

@@carrietaylor6658 lol, yup! Hope he survives all this ego attention seeking middle aged woman!

[@nicholasgarrick8855]

Love these two!!! True love prevails!!!!

[@kaylazegowitz13]

True love bloom like a flower. Glad she found love.

[@heavymetalbanshee]

It's kind of a shame they didn't stay together and have kids together when younger. They obviously both have other kids now, but I bet they are sad not to have had kids with the love of their life.

[@mariamunoz1929]

I remember following their relationship and the break it definitely took a toll on her. I’m happy for the both of them and I wish them both the very best!

[@AnnaBaaanana]

I was almost in tears for her

[@duddley77]

I think this was my first time connecting with Jlo. I understand her now. Congratulations

[@MrBiPauler]

They will last at least 4 years this time. Way to go guys! 🎉

[@GameChanger597]

Lol 😆

[@veeherreraJanecka]

For celebs that’s a lifetime

[@silvias550]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@patricebennett1100]

This one is still one of my favourite albums of JLo and the photos. I went and took my album to the hairdressers at the time for the same haircut as well.

[@mompreneurlife]

❤ Still a bit skeptical about these two but really hoping they last. They do make a beautiful pair. ❤

[@christinedechrist9797]

C'est normal ma Jennifer Lynn Affleck lorsqu'on a aimé une personne fortement et que la relation s'interrompt brutalement ça fait très très mal. Maintenant tu es plus qu'heureuse avec ton époux et j'en suis pleinement ravie.❤️

[@hoodpriestessphilosophy]

She literally married somebody else like 2 months later. I think they're just really glamorizing their relationship now that they're back together. They have to like make all of the really painful parts make sense. But I would put good money on the fact that these guys are twin flames versus machine gun Kelly and Megan fox. This way more feels like a true twin flame relationship.

[@jamesstovich9724]

Wow! She seems very fragile. Does anyone get that feeling?

[@alinajavier6713]

She’s the only one in love here. He may love her, but I doubt he’s in love

[@bellaapple2166]

Interesting how many of us can see through things. Ben doesn't seem as in love with her as she is with him..

[@ngonz89]

I think he’s just scared of being alone. He’s getting old so he’s looking to settle with someone who worships him

[@vavavawawawa3662]

I thought I was the only one who saw this. Look at the way she looks at him vs the way he looks at her.

[@toeareg100]

You are right. He is not in love with her. And she doesn’t love him, she only loves herself. She is just trying to make him feel guilty for dumping her in 2003. Poor Ben. She wants to make sure he feels so bad about what he did, that he will think twice before dumping her again. She is so manipulative.

[@raec.9615]

@@toeareg100 guilt tripping! She seems obsessed though. Gotta say he is the most good looking guy she ever been with.