I enjoyed the segment where Ben thinks about how men want a "slay girl" and start liking them for what they do, then they expect them to eschew their lifestyle and change for them, while in the same nerve these men won't choose the girl that they want the slay girls to be (girls who cover, wear no makeup, have no guy friends etc.) They're treating women like build-a-bears that they can twist and change at whim. That topic's pondering section was short, and social media isn't the best place to have these convos, it gets tiring, but I do hope people think about and explore these ideas more, especially before starting relationships. Anyhoo, great ep!
@benandemilshow Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@samantharunyon1847 Жыл бұрын
well said!
@emilderosa Жыл бұрын
lock him up
@Chorspool Жыл бұрын
Me when the
@nicolasferrero5264 Жыл бұрын
time for the weekly pig feeding
@windupstudios8960 Жыл бұрын
🤤
@Strivez Жыл бұрын
Oink oink
@beans8200 Жыл бұрын
Man I love bean and e-mail but idk how I feel about the name
@armstrong.r Жыл бұрын
@@beans8200 bean and e-mail lmao
@renee4267 Жыл бұрын
Omg the opening bit with all Emil’s thirst traps is KILLING ME. You guys are so funny
@benandemilshow Жыл бұрын
thank you renee!!
@AsceCD Жыл бұрын
You would not believe the amount of women that were at the show lined up to see these guys, and even as a straight male I understood. Some absolute greek (and jewish?) gods up on that stage with such a commanding performance I thought I accidentally walked into a Broadway show. They took the time to meet all their fans, and even standing at 6'1" muscular build I felt puny standing next to Emil's commanding presence, up there with other great italian americans like Al Pacino and Chris Cuomo. I forgot to thank Ben for getting me addicted to cigs. 10/10 show, easily one of the best things I've been to
@noahmay7708 Жыл бұрын
they are both way too attractive
@miamimike91 Жыл бұрын
I second this. That show was peak entertainment
@gamerprime3912 Жыл бұрын
I like when Emil says means things about people I also dislike.
@DummyBrainGaming Жыл бұрын
And then backs it up with them doing something just terrible
@bernardomorado3098 Жыл бұрын
Emil’s hotness is reaching national security levels
@benandemilshow Жыл бұрын
And I gotta sit across from him!
@tubiescubie Жыл бұрын
incredibly refreshing to see men on a podcast have a well-informed opinion on the way other men see/treat women and dissect why it's problematic (esp the madonna/whore + caged bird frameworks). this is clearly a safe space for us :-)
@rickross4241 Жыл бұрын
Safe space huh?
@SirArthurTheGreat Жыл бұрын
@@rickross4241good input
@Dexiclon Жыл бұрын
I like how you just say "well-informed" instead of "opinions I agree with." Not that I disagree with them necessarily but god damn it's dumb to act like an opinion is the truth just because you like it.
@icecold7184 Жыл бұрын
Ben: I got a tall boy Diet Coke Emil: yeah so I was with three women and that’s why I started moisturizing
@jonnymata5229 Жыл бұрын
The vibes are better now that y’all are independent
@emilderosa Жыл бұрын
it's a viiiiibe
@AyMTor Жыл бұрын
This fucking intro though, "there's men out of frame.. I KNOW IT." 😭😭🤣🤣
@kap_516 Жыл бұрын
Feel so happy that the Ben is a CeraVe piggie like me, feel represented. Shout out to all the psoriasis-riddled flaky excema pigs in the trough.
@MadisonDeetes Жыл бұрын
The CeraVe moisturizer tubs with the pumps on them 😩 iykyk
@a_hew Жыл бұрын
eczema gang represent
@asstrid_ Жыл бұрын
that emil picture slideshow was a jumpscare (positive) (just warn a piggy next time) (feeling parasocial)
@lexmarvin8005 Жыл бұрын
My friend is a manager at a movie theater and some guy came in to complain that they were trying to silence Sound of Freedom because the screen was off in the theater. He was in the wrong room on the wrong side of the theater.
@gracefoster7587 Жыл бұрын
All of these sound of freedom viewers sound like they’ve never been to a movie theater before
@camerontessier6850 Жыл бұрын
I love how emil shits on mid90s and then 7 seconds later admits he hasn't even seen it lmao
@emilderosa Жыл бұрын
i'm a hater. i've always been upfront about that.
@camerontessier6850 Жыл бұрын
@@emilderosai respect the consistency
@thegreatgahooli Жыл бұрын
@@emilderosabased
@NP-zs5yq Жыл бұрын
He’s right though
@video.james. Жыл бұрын
mid90s is decent but jonah hill sucks. Certified culture vulture, ain’t no way this dude has ever stepped on a skateboard
@kelsey5093 Жыл бұрын
I want to watch a whole hour of Ben and Emil reviewing the 10 things GQ videos
@matt.stevick Жыл бұрын
3:53 I met my first 6 wives by going to shows alone. All went missing and if you have questions, my attorney must be present.
@emilderosa Жыл бұрын
get out there and meet wife
@aya_____7921 Жыл бұрын
Ben's philosophy degree is showing today, I love it!
@ryankay8653 Жыл бұрын
I think Emil is generally right about weaponizing therapy being wrong, but if your therapist is never holding you accountable for your wrongdoings that's not indicative of therapy as a whole. You just need to find a new therapist. There is a difference between accepting yourself for who you are and being accountable for that and chalking everything you do wrong up to your past and then sweeping that under the rug. That's just a skill issue with your therapist.
@estrellita_hermosa Жыл бұрын
This is the best podcast in the worl
@emilderosa Жыл бұрын
best fans in the worl
@nicxlaus Жыл бұрын
Emil is finding his own voice with Pay Pigs, and it’s so cool to see
@Shotsshotsshotz Жыл бұрын
Recording an ep straight off a flight?! NEVER say my piggies aren't dedicated.
@olivianoelani4363 Жыл бұрын
trying to deprive the world of Emil’s best instagram posts 💔 respectfully Ben what the hell
@emilderosa Жыл бұрын
really fucked up if you ask me
@nicoleosaurus13 Жыл бұрын
We love to see our boys thriving. Live show was awesome and this episode was great :)
@benandemilshow Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤❤❤
@TeamHoneyBadger1pt0 Жыл бұрын
COLD OPENS ARE BACK BABY
@Sarah-vr2jq Жыл бұрын
with therapy it is so important to find a therapist who holds you accountable and so many people find therapists who just validate their world view and actions in order to feel better about themselves and weaponize it. Additionally, it was great to hear Ben mention the Madonna/Whore complex. I took a whole class on it in college as it related to marvel movies it was very eye opening. Great conversation as always Ben and Emil!
@404ever Жыл бұрын
emil’s 10 essentials for GQ include but are not limited to; 1. my heart
@aya_____7921 Жыл бұрын
I've heard rumors that emil is lurking in the comment section Be careful guys!
@CarolineSkoglund1 Жыл бұрын
see yall in la, my friend has absolutely no idea what she agreed to come to
@emilderosa Жыл бұрын
we promise to behave!
@michelle2742 Жыл бұрын
this podcast is so special to me, thank u guys for the hardwork
@benandemilshow Жыл бұрын
thank you!!!
@joefinance Жыл бұрын
These always release right in time for my weekly shower
@Nqwilliams Жыл бұрын
Facebook and threads seem to be pushing the smooth brain, good vibes instagram ethos. Which is not at all what Twitter has ever been. Definitely agree that the people who thrive in that ecosystem never have much to say
@noahmay7708 Жыл бұрын
This will now be my only news source, are you ready for that.
@benandemilshow Жыл бұрын
Yes.
@josh_dove Жыл бұрын
Ben’s quote of the episode: “Earth is beautiful, there’s so much shit here”. Profound.
@alexmalzeke4649 Жыл бұрын
Your takes on Threads are so accurate. It’ll be interesting to see if they pivot before they lose their steam
@Valeria-ux2gj Жыл бұрын
love what Ben said! I wish it would of been longer. more of things like that please.
@The96th Жыл бұрын
really dig the energy of this one, you guys make this look effortless
@minoyd Жыл бұрын
I needed this pod rn. Thanks dudes
@emilderosa Жыл бұрын
we needed you rn.
@ericperez1280 Жыл бұрын
I love the vibe of the new show guys! Much more relaxed in my opinion.
@AstreaStarsASMR Жыл бұрын
"I just wouldn't get hung up with the nails in the head" uh, duh, he got hung up by the nails in his hands
@icedancer2370 Жыл бұрын
I have sincerly have fallen in love with your content. Like, I’m gonna get a patreon subscription
@benandemilshow Жыл бұрын
Hell yes. Thank you!
@icedancer2370 Жыл бұрын
@@benandemilshow Keep up the good work fellas!!❤️
@icedancer2370 Жыл бұрын
@@benandemilshow since I got ur attention, some tennis talk is always welcome
@micmaxian Жыл бұрын
Emil talking about how Jonah Hill's therapy show made him feel gross reminded me of how I felt about the ethics of Jury Duty TV series. All my friends and family seemed to really like it, but I thought the whole concept of the show was gross and that the guy who didn't know he was on the show was being taken advantage of.
@amriddless Жыл бұрын
He won 100k from it.. I think he's okay?
@mfotino Жыл бұрын
same! only thing that made me feel a liiiitttle better was that he *technically* did sign up for it, just didnt know what it would end up being. but yeah the whole truman show vibe is definitely questionable.
@amriddless Жыл бұрын
In interviews he admitted that he felt slightly paranoid after the show that he was still being filmed, but it didn't last long and obviously he's happy he did it, how many normal ppl can say they are in an Emmy nominated show.
@katherineclark5668 Жыл бұрын
The ONLY thing I use chatgpt for is book recommendations. It’s SICK because sometimes I just want a book that has a similar feel to another but not the exact plot, or I can give it 5 books I liked and ask it to recommend 5 more
@user-qw1lh2lc3c Жыл бұрын
Now that I know it can do that you might have converted me to try it
@diapermoneyy Жыл бұрын
i went to both nyc shows by myself and made new friends at both of them!! ben & emil are the best but i think their fans might be even better??? 🤭
@benandemilshow Жыл бұрын
We agree Shannon
@emilderosa Жыл бұрын
this is true!
@Faded______ Жыл бұрын
Things Ben cant live without: Cigarettes, Cigarettes, Cigarettes.
@emilyables5608 Жыл бұрын
ben was totally on the right track with his point about men wanting to control strong women, i wish he finished the convo and made his main point!!! he got it!! he's so right, love u guys
@Laureneds Жыл бұрын
For anyone who feels they’re overtherapized like Emil talks about, if you haven’t already try it maybe seek out a psychologist who practices CBT. I was sort of forced into therapy as a very cynical preteen but I hit the jackpot with a fantastic therapist who talks to me like an actual person and let’s me take accountability for my mistakes while still working on what steps we take moving forward. If your therapist is available to you by text on a standby basis or is super personal in sessions I find that to be a major 🚩
@ocarinadude762 Жыл бұрын
Your therapist busts your balls????
@johnnyc5851 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely absurd that Ben's never seen Monsters Inc....great episode fellas!
@JoseGarcia-vz9ux Жыл бұрын
ok production quality up!
@lukeroberts1 Жыл бұрын
proud of you little piggies
@emilderosa Жыл бұрын
ty bb
@Blue-vy6hq Жыл бұрын
I think I understand where Ben was going in the beginning but it probably wouldn't have been conveyed properly at the rate he was going lol
@Victoria-be1nf Жыл бұрын
Emil I want you to know that not all therapy is like that. A good therapist will balance trying to teach empathy for self with taking responsibility for our own actions. Trauma is never an excuse to hurt someone else and any therapist saying that (or implying it) isn’t going to help you because they’ll never challenge you.
@Lisa-jp5li Жыл бұрын
Spent the day moving all of my stuff from one classroom to another classroom. New episode is just what this teacher needs! Can I get another episode for tomorrow when I have to lay around to recouperate??
@bernadiusmaximus Жыл бұрын
Keep up the good work guys! Can’t wait to see you guys grow!
@emilderosa Жыл бұрын
thanks king
@adelinelittle9084 Жыл бұрын
Tim Gunn reference wasn’t on my Pay Pigs bingo card this week
@benandemilshow Жыл бұрын
Make it work ppl
@snoozeblues7025 Жыл бұрын
Feels like this was a dark episode. You guys should consider giving the guy who helps you a mic so we can hear him better or maybe subtitles for when he says stuff?
@Lisa-jp5li Жыл бұрын
Yes! Give Dylan a mic!
@scoochv Жыл бұрын
Seconding Dillon subtitles!
@alexmalzeke4649 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the great content guys
@emilderosa Жыл бұрын
no thank YOU alex
@alexmalzeke4649 Жыл бұрын
@@emilderosa PP4L
@laurenfitzgerald4934 Жыл бұрын
i had the best time ever at the live show! thanks for a phenomenal show boys ❤
@benandemilshow Жыл бұрын
Thank you for coming!!
@harrydsgn Жыл бұрын
solo show-going is honestly so sick. 0 expectations for you there, completely in the moment, and I can mosh and get stage dived on without making anybody fear for my health.
@harrydsgn Жыл бұрын
very aware this doesn't apply to a Pay Pigs show but would be hilarious if it did
@natcosmicgirl Жыл бұрын
guilty of pausing the screen to check every website and bookmark
@katielegate Жыл бұрын
another great day at the farm piglets !
@livalil Жыл бұрын
all my therapists have held me accountable and i didn’t realize how much i valued that until emil brought up the opposite. i think it’s just hard to find a doctor that’s the perfect one for you
@TheVibewithJules Жыл бұрын
i didn't know ben had a red flag and then he said he had never seen monsters inc
@Mrkingkarl1 Жыл бұрын
14:33 “Things are never going pretty good” Damn Emil 😔
@mateowashere Жыл бұрын
Just crashed my honda civic listening to this episode. wish me luck on my recovery 🙏🏽
@emilderosa Жыл бұрын
get better soon!
@Gamooch Жыл бұрын
Blistex and Burts Bees do not work for me at all. Makes my lips all peel-y and terrible. I HIGHLY RECOMMEND URIAGE "moisturizing lipstick"(Its lip balm not lipstick but it is a stick for lips). Legit changed my life.
@emilderosa Жыл бұрын
sounds expensive
@Gamooch Жыл бұрын
@@emilderosa $10.50 CAD so yes more expensive than burts bees and blistex but way more effective and you don’t have to apply every two seconds for it to work. Once or twice a day and its works. So i’d say one stick lasts longer too. I think it’s definitely worth it.
@MadisonDeetes Жыл бұрын
Can I just say Bens skin is absolutely glowing… anyone know what highlighter he uses?
@tehyakim Жыл бұрын
love and/or post sex glow
@benandemilshow Жыл бұрын
Tehya below got it right.
@kimberly.aerial Жыл бұрын
shirtless emil in first 5 seconds !!!!????!!!!
@emilderosa Жыл бұрын
????!!!!?!?!?!!!!
@DavidWoods255 Жыл бұрын
Hooray I just remembered to get on board the Patreon! I'm no longer a figurative Pay Pig, I'm now a literal one. Let's friggin go! Australian tour - when?!
@benandemilshow Жыл бұрын
Thanks man!! SOON
@abbytalksalot Жыл бұрын
Ben is so right, everything is so blue (monsters inc) vs red (incredibles)
@alessandrahernandezdolan Жыл бұрын
Talking about the Jonah hill subject, I’ve dated someone like this in the past for 3 years and from personal experience his response is from a place of control and insecurity. My ex would say the same things about my friends and what i would do and its less about the girl and its more about himself. He is trying to keep her controlled by slowly blinding her into thinking the people around her aren’t there for her like he is and that he is truly the only real person in her life. It’s to strip away the things in her life that bring her independence away from him. The bird cage quote captures the feeling exactly. It’s a vicious cycle of emotional abuse. Im glad she was able to get out of that.
@alessandrahernandezdolan Жыл бұрын
Emils point was spot on
@liza8143 Жыл бұрын
shit my therapist tells me when im being a bad person lowkey
@stephanie346 Жыл бұрын
stop this opener is GOLD
@jbone877 Жыл бұрын
Couldn't watch Monsters Inc, I was too busy watching the Incredibles
@Welcome2It Жыл бұрын
Emil you need to delete that photo for gods sake my girlfriend is on that app
@emilderosa Жыл бұрын
it was a JOKE
@Welcome2It Жыл бұрын
@@emilderosa consider my boundaries CROSSED 😤
@rachaelrose5781 Жыл бұрын
I need an “Earth is beautiful. There’s so much shit here.” sticker for my stuff thank you ❤
@M0ren025 Жыл бұрын
I was at the live show in New York, at one point during the show Ben shoved the microphone in my face and asked me if I had seen Jim Cramer anywhere around… 🤣🤣
@Fleabagfreak Жыл бұрын
I feel so safe here with my baby girls. Love y’all so much. You’re the only two men I’d want to hear comment on this freak behavior jonah hill displayed. The opening bit killed me😭
@brandonolives Жыл бұрын
Jonah Hill can rebuild on “positivity only” threads
@makslargu5799 Жыл бұрын
Monsters inc (2001), the incredibles (2004). I’ve crunched the numbers, there was 26,184 hours between the release date of Monsters inc. and the release date of the incredibles. If, like me, you use the length of monsters as a unit of time, that’s 284.6 monsters. We need answers about Ben’s lost years. We *deserve* answers.
@TeamHoneyBadger1pt0 Жыл бұрын
I love you guys so much
@emilderosa Жыл бұрын
we love you so much
@jamesfromit Жыл бұрын
Ben not having watched Monsters Inc is outrageous
@haz1004 Жыл бұрын
i love hearing stories about your live shows!!! im a singaporean piggy so i can only dream of seeing you guys live but… one can hope… love the ep this week vibes were amazin 🫡
@cd3568 Жыл бұрын
I missed out on both NY shows, please come back when y'all have time!
@tedddybear Жыл бұрын
Never thought QTCinderella would get mentioned on the pod (even though it wasn’t technically by name). Shoutout to the incredibly small crossover btwn Wine About It and Pay Pigs viewers.
@christinasampognaro5087 Жыл бұрын
Bens brain and articulation is so hot. Emile was full on golden retriever this podcast though😂
@TheVibewithJules Жыл бұрын
so we're all on a first name basis with jessica now
@MajorHuggles Жыл бұрын
Sorry you had to deal with a bunch of dumbasses on Twitter, Ben. It's a lot easier for people to attack someone's character rather than try to understand and attack their arguments and criticisms. It doesn't help that things like Twitter tend to create an echo chamber as well, because obviously most people don't want to be known as a pedophile or whatever else people try to label others as in an effort to de-legitimize their opinions.
@michaelrogers897 Жыл бұрын
The problem with Threads is that Meta will make into whatever the current big thing is. Instead of making Instagram better and incentivizing creatives to post on IG MORE by sharing ad revenue even in a tinier degree, they tried to make it Twitch when Twitch was all people could talk about, then they tried to make it Tiktok. Like Instagram had a user base that they just ditched the second they thought something else would be better instead of giving the people that likes IG for what it was a better experience and a better way to get discovered. They try entirely too hard to copy what is currently popular instead of seeing the features that make those apps popular. Like Tiktok is big because it's really easy to find an audience and it doesn't feel like your talking into a void unless you get lucky. Twitter was that you could easy see and contribute to the conversations about current events and instead of trying to do that but with less toxicity Threads was like "We will show you all of the brands"
@silverfascia Жыл бұрын
Yo how do I get in contact with you guys? Can't seem to find an email.
@Izzz19 Жыл бұрын
This was a really great episode guys
@benandemilshow Жыл бұрын
thanks lindsey!
@ZeepDr Жыл бұрын
Jonah Hill: Out here living his best life. Emil: I hate it.
@emilderosa Жыл бұрын
I am a hater.
@sarahprice4277 Жыл бұрын
I do not think that Jonah was that unreasonable. He didn’t ask the women to change for him if she didn’t want to. The part ”do not take bikini photos and model“ is kinda dumb as that is her job.
@RiverStrub Жыл бұрын
Ben needs to be an actor, holy shit😂
@benandemilshow Жыл бұрын
Fine. Go tell hollywood
@benbusch7690 Жыл бұрын
BING CHILLING
@alexmalzeke4649 Жыл бұрын
I have never been here so early in my life
@roycedot Жыл бұрын
KC Radio was on point on this, Jonah just passing on what his therapist was serving up
@disenchantedsupply Жыл бұрын
god this episode is so good, keep up the good work boys!!
@benandemilshow Жыл бұрын
thanks curly!
@soph6819 Жыл бұрын
Ben if you have dry skin i highly recommend the la roche posay double moisturizer or triple moisturizer it’s much better than cerave i swear
@zoemo3376 Жыл бұрын
i have about $150 in my bank account but for some reason i want to support this patreon
@georgia6496 Жыл бұрын
its all jokes but I wouldnt call jeremy strong a 'nut job', just .....different, pretentious maybe, maybe a lil eccentric, very much an actor