Why Luke Belmar Doesn't Flirt With Any Girls

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[@stephenwilliams9628]

As a man, we now live in a society where you can get much farther alone

[@KatOriginalMusic]

same for women!🧿😊

[@michaeldavid6832]

He's not alone, he has an LTR.

[@WilliamHolden-t5g]

Women can’t take care of themselves financially or any other way no matter how much they claim to be strong and independent. Show me a woman that does not have some kind of debt looking for a simp to take over payments. There are none.

[@santiagogiuntoli6726]

@@KatOriginalMusic Til you reach 60 and want to shoot yourself cause the only thing you keep as a companion is a pet cat that wouldn't even let you pet it. And you compare your success to any other male around and see it's a quarter of theirs, blaming it of course on sexism cause there's simply no single reason that can come out of your mind. Sure you do, ma'am. Sure you do...

[@iloveyou281000]

@@KatOriginalMusicYou still need each other. Human Nature!!!

[@jafoot7559]

“Get your sexual energy under control” Well said!

[@michaeldavid6832]

This man isn't alone. He's in an LTR. His advice is the advice of a man who has his natural needs satisfied. His "advice" is that you should restrain yourself from sleeping with more than one at a time. That's what he means by "under control".

[@TruckingTendencies]

Sexual transmutation?

[@pauljohnson6019]

His vocabulary is very poor though, he swears far too much!

[@pauljohnson6019]

@youwontwin5354 Does he? Then why is he giving advice, he's sinning himself, is he not? One sinner giving other people advice, isn't that what we call being a hypocrite?

[@LeBronyaJames]

@@pauljohnson6019You’re a sinner too, just like everybody else. Sin is sin, no sin is worth less or more than each other. Focus on your sins because if you don’t, you’ll forget to ask forgiveness for yours

[@dontreadmyname4396]

women only caused me insane pain after the initial fun, its a double edge sword

[@benefactorean7150]

Yea! The initial happiness/passion/respect is never the same later on.

[@dontreadmyname4396]

@@benefactorean7150 you nailed it on the "respect"

[@ideasandtrucking]

Same here champ

[@benefactorean7150]

@@dontreadmyname4396 My girl broke up with me, she wanted to be back in a relationship after NC I was like fuu no. I just fked her. She left me for another dude because I do not want to marry her. I am only imagining the pain she will put him through. 2 weeks a month she's hormonal. She has daddy , abandonment issues, previous bf and dad attacked her mentally and physically and she has a high body count and lies about everything. She is also disrespectful. When I met her she was the most amazing person I have met in my life. That went to sh..m when I moved in with her.

[@NANINANI-cs6rn]

Probably your attachement is the probleme not the women

[@JOYRIDEUS]

Only thing you can trust a woman to do is follow her emotions

[@AnthonyArgyros]

Yes sir, and that she has “Guy friends” lurking around waiting to sabatoge your relationship. It isn’t worth it

[@JOYRIDEUS]

@@AnthonyArgyros feminine women wouldn't want to have guy friends. They wouldn't relate to them. Masculine women could (in their own way ig)

[@jr5993]

Women are so difficult to understand and I look back and realise I was losing touch of myself as a result of a woman. Next time I'm going to stay strong to my principles and not be pandering.

[@jjg1501]

@@jr5993correction, hard for you to understand. i understand them perfectly. its not hard to do really

[@jjg1501]

wrong and not wrong at the same time. read my comment above for more information

[@tyarnold4088]

Why spend time thinking about all this. Relationships might work, but why think so deep like this? You can build yourself up as much as you want, do literally everything perfect and still have your girl leave you for no reason. Just live life and don't worry about it. It's literally beyond the mans control sometimes.

[@gablobad]

I really don't know wtf is wrong with these guys.... This type of mentality scares... And these guys are super young...

[@chumilemkaza4037]

True

[@mast3rchief536]

Trust your instincts, if it feels off but you’re living in denial, projecting your idea of her in your head over her actual self then drop it. Your instincts are right. My last relationship i betrayed my instincts and what’s crazy was I was spot on where and how this was going to end. At the start I questioned myself where is it going to end over ‘where is this going?’. I wish I trusted my instincts because once you ignore the red flags and time goes on where you become attached, no amount of good is worth how painful it feels at the end.

[@GabrielGarcia-su9po]

No matter how you love you can lose

[@tyarnold4088]

@GabrielGarcia-su9po life isn't always fair. Sometimes you have to persevere. Good luck to you Gabriel, I hope everything works out well for you.

[@lostdarkside]

"we're slaves either way ...slaves to discipline, slaves to indulgence, slaves to indifference ...3 dimensions, rock, paper, scissors" -Erik Weber

[@dickspits8819]

🏆Award-winning🏆comment

[@weareslaves2016]

Indeed

[@trinex3332]

True

[@tadghostal8769]

Tax evasion and weapon procurement checks all three at once! It is morally necessary as well!

[@JustChill-zd4ib]

Sure you be a slave I'll stick with being free.

[@reubenmanners5209]

Prioritizing women over money is absurd to me.

[@bigheadrhino]

Depends on the context, family comes before money, so if the woman is your wife, she is your family.

[@reubenmanners5209]

@@bigheadrhino Not the context I’m referring to. Chasing after pxssy and you’re broke is not smart.

[@asdfxcvbn746]

@@bigheadrhino with the current divorce, alimony, paternity & child support laws in western countries, you only incur catastrophic financial risk. therefore you shouldn't be getting married in the first place.

[@ScrappyDoo342]

People have massively different priorities, if you honestly believe having wealth will give you a fulfilled life then go for it. Just remember that money is worthless when you're 6 feet under though, especially if you have no one to provide it for when you're gone.

[@GabrielXDrums]

@@ScrappyDoo342yeah but by that token that doesn’t matter really, sure when we’re “gone”, but we aren’t so..

[@IlFree]

I’ve been saying this for years now. Nothing against women but I’m not wasting my time with corny random visits to Starbucks and Target. Plus Netflix on a couch ordering chipotle and wasting time. I’ve gotten my masters degree with a full ride scholarship, became a marketing coordinator, 12% body fat, running 5k and 10ks while beating my old record time at 31 years old. No kids, no baby momma drama, I get to travel and I have money saved/invested - not to mention I’m debt free . I put the work in but I’m truly grateful - I believe I wouldn’t have done all of this with a woman by my side, wasting time while she scrolls on Instagram. Sorry but not sorry 🙏 Edit: Also, I’m not saying this is a ‘forever lifestyle’ - absolutely not - but for, ‘my time’, currently it is. Who knows? I might meet someone a few years from now but I’ll personally be ready then. Just some food for thought (you can do a lot in 12-24 months while focusing on your goals)

[@edwardduarte7393]

my friend said when I am in a serious relationship I stop shooting/working. you gain weight and stop working. Shane o'neil (pro skater) said the same thing. got a girl stopped skating. gained weight.

[@IlFree]

@@edwardduarte7393 I guess some of us are opposites lol 😂

[@15xgg80]

Oh cmon man you are here watching this video and writing a novel in comments... stop acting like spending few hours with a girl every week would kill you. Nobody can just stay on the grind 24/7.

[@noahrodriguez1895]

So happy for you man! Keep it going. It's ok to have a chick on the side and hang with her for an hour or two and have fun but only recieve that reward once you have mastered yourself financially and physically and all work has been done. Let girls be a hobby :)

[@lolkeklmao594]

I'm glad you can enjoy those accomplishments... Alone 😂

[@Rollacoastertycoon]

This dude def sells courses

[@franklinbrandon5283]

LoL right

[@BIanka0200]

„Lol“. Look how the peasants amuse themselves with insulting and degrading successful and disciplined men. Pathetic

[@markmurray5659]

Life is give and take .... helping each other .... some will sell for personal gain , some will sell to help others and some will sell to do both .

[@otakuhunter4817]

who cares...Take what u want & leave out the rest

[@thadonis.]

Well he's not in entertainment, that much is obvious.

[@bigcee5702]

Self control is so key especially for men I’m so proud of this video!

[@byCeevu]

Actually an eye opening conversation. More young man should honestly see this.

[@michaeldavid6832]

This man isn't alone. He's in an LTR. His advice is the advice of a man who has his natural needs satisfied. His complaint is that he has to restrain himself from sleeping around. He's saying, "I know you have tons of vvomen busting down your door but you should just pick one of them." That isn't actionable advice for almost any man today. Never trust any man's advice who's younger than 50. Only then can you tell if he has a sustainable success.

[@KatOriginalMusic]

same with women! women should focus on themselves before any male!🧿😉😊

[@jjg1501]

wise words gentlemen. im 50 now. my entire life i was a loaner and that was fine with me. i knew from a very young age all i really wanted out of life was a good woman by my side that wanted to be with me for me and nothing else. i didnt give a real shit about a career, or money or any of that. i looked for woman and only woman that has those qualities about them. i have now been married for over 23. we have been through hell and back. we lived in a semi truck for 6 years together. we are each others best friend. really we are each others only friend neither of us have any need to be on top of the other all the time but i will tell you it sure is nice knowing we can be. still going as strong or stronger then the day we both decided to commit to one another regardless of where the ride took us or how bumpy it got. boy did we have some bumps. good luck to you.

[@rayromano6249]

Donald Trump cheating on his family is a good example he doesn't give a shit about Americans. Here come the in denial hypocrites

[@michaeldavid6832]

The XXs of today aren't the XXs of 20 years ago. Men of today are well advised to verify who they're with. With average bodycounts in the double digits -- there are no wives out here. People who want to be wives will try to figure out how to be what men desire. They know better than to rack up bodies but they do it anyway. Currently, STI's are rampant -- now syphillis has an antibiotic reistant variant. The party is over for their "liberation". They mistook hedonism for liberation -- they're not the same thing. One steals your future and the other provides it. By 2030, most XXs will be PERMANENTLY single. That's the rest of their lives alone -- unless you count being used as a human fleshlight. Hedonism is a party for a day and a hangover for the rest of your life. This is the bargain most all of them are making... but tomorrow always arrives.

[@sheldonconk9526]

Yeah I’m framing this one 🖼️

[@SuperKeithers]

loner car v loaner car

[@socklips7655]

Extreme rarity

[@shaunlawton5550]

Bro already has a girl talking about why he doesn’t bother with girls. That’s like saying “college is a scam” while already having a degree and working in your field of study.

[@rolandmarkland6844]

Apparently, the conversation went over your head.

[@jebes909090]

Ya this guys gal.is definitely cheating on him

[@kirkdunn1379]

@@rolandmarkland6844 100%.

[@jakecarroll5]

@@rolandmarkland6844 There's a lot of idiots in this comment section that did not understand a word he said lol.

[@rolandmarkland6844]

@jakecarrol, very true

[@larrybradley3809]

This guys situation is uncommon. He had the woman that was his teammate before he even started working on his mission. Most men out here working on our mission still looking for our teammate. It’s possible, but highly unlikely you’ll find the right person on attempt one.

[@noahrodriguez1895]

My dad tells me he would of been a millionaire if he didn't meet my mom at such a young age and have kids and worked on himself first. but than again i wouldn't be here today.

[@dantimber]

@@noahrodriguez1895 I bet you dad is happier and more fulfilled than this guy. He wouldn't trade all the money in the world for you and your siblings. Money goals are fine but should never be the priority in life. Being a good dad is the hardest job in the world. I would thank him everyday.

[@michaeldavid6832]

He'd be answering those DMs if she wasn't already getting his b*lls drained. Speaks like a millionaire saying, "Money isn't that important to me." Yeah, when you're satisfied with who you found, you don't feel like its important to go get more or different.

[@jackiechun5817]

@larrybradley3809 AND... she'll STILL flirt/entertain/Even hook-up with a HIGHLY DESIRABLE GUY who shows her the FIRST drop of interest while THIS dude is over here spouting the "involved man in a fishing boat with a telescope" stuff. For All we(or HE) knows, she could've ALREADY had 1(or multiple) such situations...it ONLY takes that 1 HIGHLY DESIRABLE GUY to cross her path and show interest frfr👈😒💯💯💯💪🏾🧔🏾‍♂️

[@Politickin]

Many men never find that "teammate women". Far too many men don't learn until it is too late that women wait at the finish line and only pick the men that have long established or made something of themselves. They don't care what that man had to go through to get to the point in life where he is at, they only care what about they can take from him. Even if a man does find his "teammate women", he is only one downfall away from that women looking at her backup "plans" or looking else where. It's a lose-lose situation for the modern man. There was a survey done that showed 50% of women have a "backup guy". The odds are not stacked in a man's favor. Might as well stay single.

[@paoloboldini9488]

you rather be alone...but you're not

[@michaeldavid6832]

This is called "hypocrisy". Until you're really alone, you don't have a clue about what it really means. Really being alone means your need for love is never met. You may be able to get segx with those who are below your SMV, but you refuse because you'd prefer to begin building somewhere with someone rather than entangling yourself with all the risks presented by the offer. This guy is standing in his oasis drinking a cocktail watching most men dying of thirst crawling in the desert with the oasis just out of reach. With a patronizing glance he says, "Water isn't that important to me. I'd rather be dying of thirst." Then he takes a deep sip of his cocktail splashing around with ice.

[@sweetwillow]

😂😂 yeah if his girl left him he’ll be in those DMs lol

[@SkywardKing]

That's irrelevant. Is the advice good or not, is all that matters.

[@robosing225]

​@@michaeldavid6832great metaphor

[@monbeauparfum1452]

@@SkywardKingintegrery is all that matter, the advice comes second. You guys are out of your right mind.

[@dantethomas5254]

Wow that was deep "good thing at the wrong time is a bad thing"...This dude man! My hero

[@noahrodriguez1895]

it's fucking hard. As a man you understand this Our penises are filled with massive tons of energy. It's like a rocket fueled that just wants to take off and go to space. It's hard as fuck when your brain keeps making you think about sexual things cause as a man that's our most important thing to reproduce. Our body constantly bombards us to do it. It's a good thing But it must be controlled and used at the right time. Again fucking hard especially when a woman is chasing you and tempting you to do it. Almost impossible.

[@Shane-ju7op]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@KingSeven007]

This guy is a good role model for young men who are struggling and looking for answers. Keep up the good work!

[@charlesanthonyhalls2651]

If I'm Broke I don't want to go on trips and I don't want to be chasing women..

[@rickyking1790]

Think is if men chase women that means they are running away. Work on yourself and let them come to YOU

[@iloveyou281000]

@@rickyking1790They won’t always come to you. Just keep working on yourself and buy a dog.

[@poetsrear]

​@@iloveyou281000​​I'd never go be under a man with attitude like that 🤢 and thats "why they don't always come" (TO YOU) Enjoy you dog pal

[@DinoKrlic]

facts bro facts

[@MichaelLabriola-f8s]

I am a single celibate catholic and this is how i believe men need to be until they are in a marriage. Sex is serious. It is not a big joke. This culture has it all wrong!

[@Tooldruid]

Not a realistic or easily attained expectation. Good luck ever implementing something like that. It’s not happening.

[@nicechock]

? there are plenty of people who have succeeded in it. For thousands of years this was the standard for our ancestors. Stop making excuses.@@Tooldruid​

[@poetsrear]

Make them ask for it. But remain aware, from beginning to the end, that it's conditional. She wants to secure her position with you; sex is a means to her, not the end like it is for men. Make her crave, do not just give your sex away. Play a game with her. It's the only way they'll stay, when they don't straight away get what they want, make them work on themselves. Make them understand that they are an OPTION for you, not a NECESSITY. Display that you retain your market value, nothing makes a woman more drawn to you than seeing that you have avenues open to other women. Such kind of creatures they are 🤷‍♂️

[@respectkindness-oj6xz]

why? ​@@Tooldruid

[@darja25]

Thank you God for this brother!May He protect you and guide you on your path to holiness. ❤

[@stevec3892]

Was married 28 years and now 56 and single . I travelled the world , got laid and had a blast . But sex does get old especially when you get old

[@melisalercari4334]

I very much respect Luke for not being a typical playboy!!

[@iynvfy1536]

I’m sorry, but his perspective doesn’t make any sense coming from a man who already has a woman by his side. I don’t understand why he’s framing it as if he is alone. If he was single, and had remained single, this commentary would make sense.

[@Kevo10475]

just because you smash everything you see dont mean it don't make sense . clearly it went over your head because you operate on low vibrant

[@eiji81]

He’s speaking objectively, if you’re confused. Obviously these are general statements but he is correct on most points

[@AM-hf4pn]

He says he has been with one woman in his entire life. It means he is just a decent, faithful, loyal man. This is the man every high value woman needs. Plus he is very successful. And he a very clean man.

[@karinodendaal5277]

He understands what he needs and why. And is disciplined . He usbt shallow. Emotionally intelligent human ❤

[@laroyrichardson]

Women definitely need to be on the bottom of your priority list...

[@yourlogicalnightmare1014]

That's not a problem for most men, as attractive women only want the top few percent of men, so men have no option to make an attractive woman a priority 😊

[@艾可]

Which they never get. Top men don't consider women important. Sure you can want something but doesn't mean you will get or deserve to get it lol. Also there are countless or endless supply of so called beautiful women but only a few number of top class dudes and those guys have their priorities straight. Most women ends up with jerks anyways doesn't matter pretty or not. Also you don't get a good man just cuz you are pretty it's about what you can even provide lol if it's just your body then it's not even that valuable since there are too many girls that are beautiful and you are nothing exceptional. It's the women who lacks options not top class dudes who are attractive and are successful in every aspect of life. So unless the so called pretty girl is the same level of success of any top class guy then he wouldn't even care. It will be a one night stand or pump and dump at most as it should be. So unless someone is at that level they don't have the right to demand such a thing just like a jobless jobber doesn't deserve a successful women (although there's want too less compared to successful men) And your comment isn't even right since I've seen countless ugly looking dudes sleep with countless pretty women you're talking about. They ain't worth anything or not even hard to vet anyways ​

[@poetsrear]

​@@yourlogicalnightmare1014Nobody said anything about attractiveness.

[@yourlogicalnightmare1014]

@@poetsrear Attractive women can't be at the bottom of your priority list because they aren't an option for you to begin with

[@swatski87]

Me and my former girl just broke up few month ago....after hearing this I was like "ohh my god he is so correct"...and i feel alot more healed atm.

[@TaskeFulL]

you said that right. at the moment, just for a while.

[@michaeldavid6832]

This man isn't alone. He's in an LTR. His advice is the advice of a man who has his natural needs satisfied. His "advice" is that you should restrain yourself from sleeping with more than one at a time.

[@nicechock]

its not his advice. people have known this for thousands of years. Read the Bible@@michaeldavid6832

[@pauljohnson6019]

He might be right, but his approach is terribly wrong, you can't be swearing and claim to be a man of God, or religious, it's a contradiction, maybe he's atheist?

[@dustincramer2835]

This hit some people harder then others ..

[@mrcalista722]

The multimillionaire Giga-Chad said he doesn't have to chase women because they're always in his DMs. In other news, water is wet.

[@MrLove717]

"Brother, I get DMs every single day" Every thing else that he says is irrelevant, he's playing with a different set of rules, most men are not being chased by women

[@noahrodriguez1895]

Not me haha. I message girls on tinder and nada, zilch they unmatch haha. Only the fat ugly ones actually message me

[@BeatsbyG2SH]

He got looks. It only works that's way.

[@carlgonzalez3337]

@@BeatsbyG2SH come on, he's not even that good looking.. I've got better looking friends whose DM inboxes are empty

[@LilXancheX]

@@carlgonzalez3337​​⁠it’s about personality. They are too cowardly to approach a hot handsome man. They are intimidated. But they will go and sleep with a guy who looks like Donald trump just cuz he knows how to talk smooth 😂 This I why I dislike women

[@tyronewilson7890]

Exactly, a vast majority of men can’t say that same sentence

[@yeldarleumas1847]

To the many male simps out there who chase women, did you pick up on what he said at 1min:04seconds? If you didn't, he said ''Brother, I get DMs every single day'' In other words......simps......... women are contacting him , he's not chasing women . If she's physically attracted to you she will contact you!

[@colc8535]

Nah they are attracted to his money and status more than his physical he an average looking dude

[@fidelguerra2164]

​@@colc8535 it's more his confidence and unattainableness.

[@megadwayne28]

True​@@colc8535

[@noahrodriguez1895]

Yeah that hit hard. I haven't reached that level in my life where i would experience a woman contacting me. Never happened in my life. I got work to do.

[@RevealedFilms]

@@noahrodriguez1895I’ve been there. They’re looking to level up with your money or have sex while their weak boyfriend is none the wiser. Either way it’s not going to be anyone of high quality.

[@iamcase1245]

The world today is too fucking stressful for me to have to deal with the modern woman's bullshit. Sorry to be so rough but it's the truth.

[@yearginclarke]

That's how I see it also. I've seen over and over again with what this modern breed of women are like, and most of it is a complete turn off to say the least. Games, drama, divorces...yeah F all that.

[@nerychristian]

The problem is our society rewards women for bad behavior. There is no accountability on their part. Women will never admit when they are wrong. No matter how hard you work, you will never please a woman. She will always move the goal posts. The more you give her, the more she expects from you. That's why bad boys get all the girls. They don't give a fuck about pleasing women, and women respect that.

[@jean-francoiskener6036]

Why do you think in history, and still today some cultures, limit the freedom of women? It brings harmony. But to be fair, it is not a problem only from women, everyone, men too, never learn really how to live with each other properly. Especially globalization boosted unprecedently a scenario of constant competition.

[@BrunoWilson-n6o]

Dude looks dead behind the eyes

[@G.Charles]

This dude is deep thinker; rare amongst men in his demographic. I find myself listening to his content more-and-more. Good shit!

[@palepoet]

Hey guys! 38 year old here. This is just my opinion, so take it or leave it. At the end of the day, money is just money and things are just things. When I look back now, I don’t say- I wish I would have cut myself off from other people more, I wish I would have made more money and bought more things etc. I think about the fun times out with friends, flirting with the opposite sex and not being so worried about what car I was driving. I still made great money and I feel successful financially and career-wise, but what truly matters in life is your friends and enjoying the world around you. People are having so much less sex now days and it shows. It’s ok to have a good time and cut loose sometimes. You will still end up successful. Just don’t forget to live and make memories. Get into a little healthy trouble.

[@finnessejets4231]

Hmm I don’t believe this dude. Believe he just saying what people want to hear. If you click with a woman give her time if she deserves it. Your goals are always your priority. But have balance in life

[@Rollacoastertycoon]

I agree. He even doing the Tate hands

[@pengbeatz]

100% agree bruh the Internet is a fucking sess pit & these male life coaches with no real life experience or understanding of anything outside thier own bubble are destroying young men it's so hard to watch

[@michaeldavid6832]

He's in an LTR. He's not doing it alone. Everything he said is without substance.

[@BOGKILLAAA]

Great conversation 👌

[@jayshah9967]

This is GOLDEN!

[@regismedeiros1141]

Awesome interview. So many guys get lost by chasing pxssy

[@fidelguerra2164]

Sex gets old eventually? It will if it's just physical. And that's the least rewarding sex you can have.

[@nerychristian]

I wouldn't say it's the least rewarding sex. When one is young and healthy, sex with beautiful women is fun. Sex gets old when you have to deal with women's temperaments, and it feels like you have to practically beg for sex or jump through hoops just to get sex.

[@varsa507]

Do people think this guy is wise? Why, is it because he speaks very close to the voice calmly? Does it give you the subconcious impression that's it's the voice of god inside your head? This is just a random guy that got lucky, nothing more, nothing less.

[@remissiveslave]

Luck is literally the foundation to each individual's life. Almost singularly the only be necessary situation

[@nerychristian]

@@remissiveslave I would call it destiny. We each have our own destiny that we must fullfill

[@markwalker5543]

Females have never been my top priority. I thought it was something wrong with me because many males were chasing multiple females. I tried it for awhile, it wasn’t my thing. Now I realize I was a high valued guy who did not feel right doing low valued things. I had to realign my life, now it’s full speed ahead. I wish I had someone to explain things like this to me when I was a kid.

[@leninramos1980]

Guy said he been with one woman and one date. This is not the person I would take advice from.

[@meganp8766]

If you read the Bible you will see that Paul talked about this. Except he was talking about devotion to God and being married vs. being single. People hate on the Bible but it hasn’t lost popularity for a reason. If you take the time to read it, understand it, and apply it by the grace of God, you will be saved a good amount of headaches.

[@otlndsh]

This guy is pretending as if going out, socializing, going on dates is not valuable in and of itself. I know for a fact that unless you know female psychology and thus human psychology, you can make all the money you want but you'll still be an awkward dork. As a matter of fact there are plenty of rich people who don't know how to look a girl in her eyes, and later in life they get wrecked because they never had the experiences that they once looked down on. The bottom line is go have whatever experiences you want as long as you're learning and leveling up your intellect and street smarts.

[@snapkrr]

Ok dawg go out instead of create your life

[@remissiveslave]

If you're short and bald, don't bother with woman. You're literally nothing more than a pin cushion for them at best.

[@nerychristian]

You don't need to date much to learn how to treat women. If you work somewhere that has a lot of female employees, you get to see how they act, and how to communicate with them. It also helps if you have sisters. I'm not much of a dater, but I've always gotten along better with women because I spent most of my youth hanging out with my mom and sisters. My dad didn't really spend much time with me.

[@KatOriginalMusic]

ladies do the same prioritize yourself & your goals & dreams!🧿

[@eliocastillosrg8328]

Woman.s role is to be a mans helper das the way you were desing and to have babies and take care of them. Guys dont care about how muchs a woman make or their career

[@TheBurgessNetwork]

❤ I agree. And that's what I do. 😊

[@janek.5886]

​@@eliocastillosrg8328 but a woman will care that if she's expected to do all the child rearing and housework that the man be able to support the household fully. (i.e. Most women really care about how much a man makes because it's the difference between having a healthy and stable environment vs. one that is not.) You do know that, right?...Good luck in your search for that woman if you're under 40. I haven't met a woman of child-bearing age who hasn't worked in her life.

[@thereallazygirl]

@@eliocastillosrg8328 triggered man . we have our own lives u weirdo u help urself

[@vnzstz209]

average mad feminist spotted

[@Lycurgus1982]

Personal freedom. Enjoy it if you can find it. We shed our skin every day to hopefully become someone different than the day before. Eventually you are going to want to see yourself in another. Becoming in tune with your heart. It comes when you are more aware of your own mortality and the impermanence of everything.

[@NateDohDoubleGee]

Just wait until his 1 girl destroys him emotionally and financially. You can only live in a fairy tale for so long. This isn't the 1950s.

[@kaizenexcellens]

Amen. Great commentary.

[@pauljohnson6019]

Amen- and he swears- don't contradict your Bible.

[@RosscoFAM]

I have so much respect for his friend who cancelled a $100 million deal. This is exactly how I think - what that dude did tells a lot about his character

[@noahrodriguez1895]

This is debatable cause.. if your such a high value man with good genetics and strong as fuck and rich/successful isn't it the biological mission to reproduce with as much woman as possible to pass on your genes. Why limit nature and your potential and stop it with one woman. She can only reproduce so much so.

[@michaeldavid6832]

Don't believe everything you hear on the internet. Most of what you see is a performance -- marketing.

[@michael_rwm]

very interesting talk, I agree with most of it, but lot of people struggle with social skills and confidence from the beginning, they don't just get born being able to pull people in their way or women so they need to work on their social (and dating). skills so they can go back to focusing on business (and being much more motivated again on making money) which makes them more confident that way

[@BuddyMac69]

Exactly. You don’t wanna be the loser going out every weekend trying to pick up a different girl, but you also don’t wanna be the crypto millionaire who has never spoken to a woman and doesn’t understand how women work. That man will get used 24/7.

[@michaeldavid6832]

This man isn't alone. He's in an LTR. His advice is the advice of a man who has his natural needs satisfied. His "advice" is, "You should only sleep with one at a time, bro." That's like telling the man in abject poverty to only live in one house at a time.

[@williamj.dovejr.8613]

I always accomplished more single as opposed to when I was in relationships. Less stress and pain too.

[@pixelatedvisions392]

Left the video once he said hes had the same girl for yrs. Bro why are u even giving this type of advice when you’re wifed up

[@saadk8905]

Dont listen to these fake gurus

[@KeshHere]

💯 😂but he’s right about modern women. It’s a waste of time. What’s the point. Only thing you gonna get is listening to her stories and bed fun. Unless you find a women who has purpose and family oriented. There are many in different countries

[@saadk8905]

@@KeshHere then go where your heart desires. He speaking from his experience only

[@kenishahammond3935]

This guy is on another level! He’s the definition of a high value man!

[@noahrodriguez1895]

dude that woman he has must be something. idk how tf she staying alone for 6 months without a man by her side

[@spaycee9082]

@@noahrodriguez1895I would like to know how she is special for being alone for 6 months you can call FaceTime not 6 months of no contact 😂

[@BIanka0200]

@@noahrodriguez1895 no woman stays single for 6 months. She gets pounded by other dudes while he is gone, but thats female nature. You can be „high value“ as much as you want, you cant change females nature. The only way to avoid being a cuck is by not being emotionally attached to „your“ girl.

[@jebes909090]

​@@noahrodriguez1895she probably doesnt

[@pauljohnson6019]

Not in speech! Did you notice he kept swearing, you can't be a high value man and use foul language- life and death are in the power of the tongue!

[@amelosoul5495]

This guy understands

[@TheGuym619]

Wars are fought over women, friendships lost, and presidents impeached... Men innately desire women and it's a big reason why we work hard. We want the best house, car, and woman... The only part i agree with this guy is that you shouldn't be a brokey spending all of your time on dating.. But it isn't bad that your motivation to work involves longing for a great woman..

[@noahrodriguez1895]

Yeah at the end of the day everything you do is to get a woman so you can reproduce. Woman are the reason; if women didn't exist than why work out why be strong why work. We wouldn't be able to reproduce so.. might as well stay home eat as much as we can and enjoy the time we have. The same applies to woman though those yoga outfits they wear constantly they are peacocking hard as hell to get a HIGH VALUE guys attention. That's how they show their value. They want to reproduce as well. If they didn't they all wouldn't be wearing make-up and dressing so nicely.

[@universalredguard]

I don't want a car or a house, I prefer a hut and a few acres of land for homesteading

[@BIanka0200]

Ironically you work to spoil a bih, and thats what makes her lose interest in you - putting her on a pedestal. How about giving to homeless people or stuff like that instead of a woman.

[@nusaibahibraheem8183]

I think what he is criticizing is excessive dating. Jumping from one woman to the next

[@kalasatwater2224]

Drama stress free life is the best

[@JoseLozano1694]

So Luke doesn’t flirt girls because he is in a relationship, or because is not in his priorities (which doesn’t make sense cuz he is in a relationship) or maybe he is just in the closet

[@patrick_harder]

I love the mindset. Such a great clip 👏

[@sumonipuri3964]

Wow! I use to think if there are men like these. Such men are there! I repect you completely! Maybe because i am also that kinda woman! But this is the first man i have felt respect for! Thank you for existing! My hopes are up now. I wish to meet someone like you!

[@gusevening4910]

As my Dad used to tell me, the reason to get married is to rid oneself of women.

[@Harmonyoversegregation-gq1qd]

I'm starting to appreciate not having a dad growing up. I've seen dudes absorb their father's life philosophy to a fault.

[@gusevening4910]

​@@Harmonyoversegregation-gq1qd The thinking behind this wisdom is once you find a good woman, marry her and then you don’t have to spend your time and energy pursuing women. It frees the man from that pursuit.

[@AETHL]

Proper losers mindset this

[@gusevening4910]

@@AETHL As we are currently witness to the degradation of this decrepit society, we must draw up the wisdom of the past to attempt to salvage mankind. Children growing up without a father is very detrimental to society.

[@hoopandhands3328]

@@AETHL How is it a losers mindset. You don't even understand it, but you're claiming that.

[@JohnSmith-ty1gm]

I've never heard of Luke before watching this video just now, but there's a lot of deep wisdom in what he says here...and much to seriously consider. Many thanks for posting the video.

[@iampierceee]

Well said.

[@PrinceofPeace2000]

Sleeping with a lot of women is like getting hypnotised with every tv commercials. Don't let no one put your life in a roller-coaster, that's their nature not ours.

[@airplaneguy17]

Just tell us how much the course is bro

[@joecampbell4199]

Virtue stoicism character, if a man pursues those traits with discipline and consistency. He'll be operating at his fullest potential. Married 25 years, wouldn't change a thing. Chasing women is costly and fleeting.

[@backseateats9513]

I have a small penis 😢 that’s why I stay away from females I’m embarrassed of myself 😢 I am now what a man should be and I can’t change my 4 inch penis

[@MrBank-hc1jg]

if a man is broke and gets with a woman and hes become rich later, hes still gonna keep her around, but if a woman becomes rich, she leaves the man instantaneously with no guilt.

[@deonbrown4533]

Go cry about it

[@tibiafibula843]

He will find a younger slimmer woman

[@tyronewilson7890]

You went on one date and been with one girl your entire life that you’re still with. You’re LUCKY!!! 1 and a million situation. I’m sure everyone wishes the same happen to them

[@danish2462]

1:42 - He is absolutely right. It is not easy to waste so much time and energy on something that is not going to last forever. Men have better things to do that require their time and energy. So Pick your poison.

[@4sightspexz159]

Luke is a better role model than most other social media influencers

[@apealeal3973]

In my opinion, understanding how to build friendships and relationships with people should be your #1 priority. This includes women. Chasing money should be #3.

[@TorTuga744]

5:07 thats some of the biggest bullshit I've heard in my life 😂

[@toluene21]

juice ain't worth the squeeze; always what you can do for them

[@tiphotisted]

Legalizing brothels would fix a lot of issues here

[@remissiveslave]

It sure would. I can't get laid and not interested in the 40+year scene of kids abd marriage. Short term or medium term relationships at beat but using the p***y and bouncing is the only logical option. Though I'm bald poor short and no chance in hell I'm ever getting laid even by a 4-6 girl a d a 1-3 girl would t want me either and I'm not boinking a meth head. Brothels would be a good idea. Also it would likely curve any future mass shoe ters. Tbh I'm surprised in sell dumb hasn't majorly led to shoe tings.

[@jetlife2thenextlife371]

He’s spitting game, I wish this message was more main stream

[@grahamashe9715]

It's very risky being with even one woman these days, especially if you have excluded her with all these "boundaries". Once he's done building or achieving whatever it is he's building or achieving, she is extremely incentivized by the laws to just leave him with half of it or could even ruin his life over some petty argument.

[@JulioRad954]

I do well for my self financially at 43, own my own home payed, no debt no kids or divorces. I would never get married, nothing in it for men ! Focus on your success and self improvement men.

[@nusaibahibraheem8183]

He has a woman 😂

[@AB-zv6dz]

Man cashed out early when his market value was at its lowest and now hes utterly terrified of what will happen if he gets back in the market. You have to be stupid to read this as anything else.

[@howtooshaner0196]

Is all the experience you need to be a dating coach 1 date and 1 relationship?

[@S4ii_]

i appreciate this converstion. ngl im in development of building myself into a grounded man. as much as i want a relationship, i know im not there yet. im 30. in all of my 20s i never really dated. but i also didn't use my 20s to develop myself properly. hearing this helps me be reassured that despite feeling like i missed out dating, i had some understanding that it wasn't the most important thing in the world.

[@samsong24]

He thinks he's way more profound than he actually is.

[@BIanka0200]

Thats your take because you are insecure and your fight or flight kicks in when you see someone that has no problem in a topic that you are very insecure about, therefore your feminine emotional mind kicks in and tries to shame him with the goal to soothe yourself by acting like he isnt better than you in that topic. You got huge problems and thank god im me and not you Cope harder

[@MattGarcyaDC]

Anyone on podcasts

[@samsong24]

@@MattGarcyaDC Very true. They love nothing more than to sit around for extended periods of time talking about themselves.

[@wss33]

Finally someone saying it.

[@tylascraig9306]

Belmar: you can be a playboy and still believe in loyalty and integrity. If you're honest with yourself and then with other people then no problem. The key is you have to be an honest alpha. It's imperative you're not LYING to women (or vice versa). If you're honest and they can't handle the truth (boundaries), then like you said, bye. That was a good speech brotha (sarcasm). Basically, all you said was you're traveling 120-150 days a year and when you are home you have a booty call you (probably) don't cheat on. In other words, you'd rather NOT be in a relationship. If you have your life together and your paper is good then you're good with playin' the field. You came off as holier than thou.

[@thickseed]

This

[@jihadwaheed3540]

This was a spot on interview he might be worth the follow

[@noahjames7979]

But you’re in a relationship…lmao.

[@Radelle-d9b]

My bros cant believe I don't chase women. I tell them "I watch, observe, & learn from all you guys' mistakes. You want me to chase women just to end up like yall broke as hell paying child support & alimony." My left hand & money is all I need 😅 Def not gay but def not worried about women either. I like my freedom & finances ❤

[@burekk4136]

average low testosterone internet virgin

[@pengbeatz]

Just be careful you don't end up being an incel bro, there's a big difference between not chasing women & running away from commitment & relationships using porn as a substitute for intimate relationships, I've been there bro & trust me it is not a good life

[@Radelle-d9b]

@@pengbeatz Trust me fam I've always been content with being alone lol I've had plenty of relationships but I'm 33 yrs old and love the single life. Everyone doesn't need to have someone in their life to feel complete

[@pengbeatz]

@user-ih5el6di3c single life can be fun but the novelty wears off rather quickly as you get older & you start to realise that you have nobody to share memories & experiences with, do you think you would still feel that way when you 60 & have no kids & no life partner & you all alone "enjoying your freedom" or do you think you might get more fulfillment out of doing things for your children ? I'm not tryna preach to you I'm just curious because I thought exactly like you for a long time & I ended up miserable & realised the best feelings in life is when you do things for other people especially your kids

[@Radelle-d9b]

@@pengbeatz Bro you're not gonna convince me to go date lol like i said bruh everyone is different you don't know how I think or operate. Just because YOU may get lonely & have regrets doesn't mean everyone else will. It's so weird how people really can't fathom the idea of someone truly being happy alone

[@Welding_Handyman]

@2:48 you just described the last 16 years of my life. Every time I have a dollar saved, it goes towards bills, vacation, expenses, invoices, work truck, to my family, etc..

[@Tablahands]

But he already has a girl?

[@BritishProudnShit]

Yeah lol, ofc you don't date when you have a gf

[@cosmicradiant5872]

Yes

[@TopTickJack]

exactly, its just bc everyones mindset is "its normal to date 10 women and thats alpha"

[@Tablahands]

@@TopTickJack that's definitely not normal

[@JohnathanMenezes-yb2ux]

he is talking out his ass…prob has a course to sell

[@simonnaylor7983]

I agree 100%. Women in today's day and age shouldn't be a priority for men. Your life should come first. Build that business you always wanted, start that hobby you always wanted to start, get that qualification you always wanted to get. This is much more important than chasing modern women, especially in the West who seem to look down on men. Many modern women are not wife material anyway. Focus on you first.

[@phasetoo1]

Well said brother.💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿

[@hermesfreire-zo2fw]

Grab a friend, problem solve

[@TheBookofrhymes]

Coming from a man who has a body count over 100 and has since converted to Islam and been celebrate for a year, this man is wise beyond his years. Discipline equals freedom.

[@javier.alvarez764]

I also have a high body count, I think my biggest regret is not impregnating those women lol. Not because of ego, but leaving a legacy and imprinting something in this world. Women are the biggest waste of time in my life. There is also the soul ties, and seeing them having their own lifes after me, it feels weird, I don't even know if I will find "the one", or the realest woman out their. Most of them just seems to be transactional and just into you if they benefit something in return. I think us men are the only one who knows how to love, and send love, women merely receive and experience love from men they don't really know how to love men the same way we do, instead they only love men conditionally, only if they benefit something in return. Men are in love, women are in business. Women see us the same way employees think of jobs and companies they are employed, they outweigh the benefits and monthly income they get from the company/man, then job hop/monkey branch to other men when they find someone better. They don't care how much you have taken care of them, if they no longer experience it now then they find other jobs. Then if they switch to other company and if they found out the new company is actually worse, and only then they realize that they had it good that is when they try to comeback.

[@jayceorourke5672]

So this dude has a partner? What's the point of him saying he doesn't flirt with other chicks? Shouldn't that be a given?

[@coolguycoolguy7267]

Maybe you don’t need any girls but most guys do.

[@pauljohnson6019]

I don't. He's right, but his way of speech is wrong- a man of God doesn't swear at all- so he's still sinning.

[@remissiveslave]

Easy coming from someone who could get a girlfriend any day of the week while even turning down some in the process.

[@akferren1]

I’m a woman and I’ve chosen singleness on purpose..I’m much happier and I feel content and free

[@BIanka0200]

Translation: i got passed around so many times by bums that i now choose to stay single so that i wont get heartbroken anymore but im still going to get pounded by chads and preferably impregnated by a rich provider that turns me off but he got money

[@VoiceOfThe]

Been nearly 18 months since my ex left. Not dated at all. Not interested.

[@alexanders4911]

I dont understand the video message. He is in steady relationship. Of course he should not flirt with other chicks. But what is he famous for?

[@xDUxEXcluSIvE]

Why are you listening to a guy that’s attractive and already in a relationship? Take away his money (watch) and status then just be “content”

[@LuxuryBeatsMusic]

lol

[@BIanka0200]

„Take away his legs his face his arms and make his diq very small and look how no woman will want him“ Man stop coping so hard you little excuse

[@ttvmikrowave]

Welp! Luke Belmar are similar. Only difference is he specializes in private equity whereas I specialize in hedge funds entertaining the same sub-markets of finance. That said, Luke is a Sigma. He gets it.

[@backseateats9513]

I have a small penis 😢 that’s why I stay away from females I’m embarrassed of myself 😢 I am now what a man should be and I can’t change my 4 inch penis

[@bavarois25]

The dating scene is monopolized by chads.

[@yeldarleumas1847]

I don't understand how men who know that they stand no chance at all continue to use dating apps? '''Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.''

[@MrTwonetwone]

@@yeldarleumas1847I know a fat chick that would love you bro. No such think as no chance, you just can’t get the woman you want.

[@vinipcplayer]

Almost every women are chad leftovers

[@remissiveslave]

​@@yeldarleumas1847dating period

[@Paul-th6tp]

I'm in 100% agreement with everything Luke says! LOL....I thought I was one of the only few people left on this planet with high morals, sexual control, loyalty and respect! Joking, but not joking! I have an immense amount of respect for him turning down a huge contract because of disloyalty from another person! Much respect Luke! You gained a new subscriber! : )

[@ellaenchanting333]

What a wise man.

[@michaeldavid6832]

He's in an LTR. His advice is the advice of a man who has his natural needs satisfied. That's like telling the man in abject poverty to only live in one house at a time.

[@nicechock]

stop spamming this nonsense. You dont know their history. You do not need any animalistic need being satisfied. That is strength of a real human being. The carnal wants and needs can be controlled by a skilled person.@@michaeldavid6832