Why Men Are Also Responsible for Abortion

Bobby Angel makes it clear that men are just as responsible for abortion as women are. Men are responsible for protecting woman from circumstances that lead to abortion. As Pope St. John Paul II said: “The task of every man is the dignity of every woman.”
Men have failed tremendously in upholding the dignity of women. The decision to stay out of the decision-making process when a child is conceived is not a choice but a lack of a choice. Adam was guilty of the same inaction when he was given charge of the Garden of Eden and charged to protect Eve. When Eve was tempted by the serpent, Adam did nothing.
“To say nothing is to allow this evil [of abortion] to happen,” says Bobby. Men can be the voice for the voiceless by standing their ground when the thought of abortion comes up, and saying “This is wrong.”
Men should do all that is within their power to prevent the ending of the lives of children in the womb. Prayer is one of the most useful ways to do just that. Bobby invites you to pray this prayer from ProjectRachel.com:
“Eternal Father, source of all mercy and love, out of love for us you sent your son and willed that blood and water flow from his side to cleanse us from sin and restore lost innocence. Hear the cry of each woman and man who mourns the loss of his or her child to abortion. Forgive this sin. Restore us to your grace and still the terror our our hearts with a peace beyond all understanding. Through the intercession of the blessed Virgin Mary, mother of all tenderness and our mother, strengthen our faith in you. Give us the consolation to believe that this child is now living with th Lord. We ask this through Christ our Lord, who conquered sin and death,, and who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, on God forever and ever. Amen.”
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[@lailarichardson2933]

"If we're engaging in any sexual activity, we have to be prepared to be a father" 2:35 I truly believe in that statement. Not just for men but for women too.

[@christianalmon4117]

Be parents* for both sides

[@eileen1820]

I would add that parents share responsibility as well. Young women especially choose abortion because they fears shaming their parents. Parents - tell your children. I knew many young girls whose #1 worry and reason was fear of their parents' reaction.

[@marcihf217]

I have known of situations where parents claim to be Pro-life but when their daughter ends up pregnant they are dragging them to the abortion clinic to get an abortion. Peoples views are more important than the unborn baby and their daughters. So wrong and so sad.

[@eileen1820]

@@marcihf217 Absolutely true too. Yes it's a big problem.

[@zelie1155]

My parents told me that so please tell your children as well. Life is so precious!

[@eduardog9243]

I think this is a small percentage. What I've noticed is a lot of parents actually push for abortion and it's usually the mother

[@Richie016]

Marci HF May lord’s spirit set us free from captivity of lies and deception. Grace of God is sufficient to awaken us to the Truth.

[@MsJNix]

The truth is good to hear. Sex makes babies and no human life is a mistake, very wise words.

[@legalfictionnaturalfact3969]

unplanned human life should not exist. adults plan. even when a dude says it was an accident. ...lol. you AcCiDenTaLLy put that stuff inside her, dude? rrriiiggghhhttt.XD that's all there is to it.

[@MsJNix]

@@legalfictionnaturalfact3969 It should not exist, but humans are weak and if it happens, it is a baby and babies are not a mistake.

[@armyinfantry11b]

@@legalfictionnaturalfact3969 accidental? Are you saying sex and implantation of the egg through sex is accidental ?

[@legalfictionnaturalfact3969]

men are MORE responsible, because nothing a woman does during intercourse will make a baby. it is the man and his choice in where to place his material that determines whether that possibility will come to be. under no circumstances whatsoever should a man impregnate a woman who 1) has not explicitly requested it and 2) is not ready

[@voluntarism335]

No, it's a 50/50 split she engaged in sex and she is half to blame for being pregnant.

[@legalfictionnaturalfact3969]

@@voluntarism335 nope! PIV doesn't cause pregnancy, hun, or else there'd a baby every time a dude did PIV to a woman. it's the deposit of male genetic material that makes that happen. nothing about what a woman does changes whether or not that occurs. the man chooses it. men who say their sprogs were accidents are LYING. they wanted to trap her so they did. on purpose. they know exactly what they're doing. :)

[@voluntarism335]

@@legalfictionnaturalfact3969 Does your brain not work? It takes 2 to make one, she is 50% responsible because she chose to have sex in the first place if she did not want that she should have kept her legs closed.

[@ainorey882]

My boyfriend pressured me and manipulated me into abortion and of course I blame myself too. I am really suffering from it now years later. If my boyfriend had wanted to keep the baby I 100% wouldn't have gone through with it

[@armyinfantry11b]

My gf wants the abortion tomorrow I’m going to say something

[@josephcalvosa8272]

Casinos pressure and manipulate me into losing all my money. Its not ok for people to take advantage of those of us with no personal agency and who don't want to take responsibility for our actions . 😢

[@Foxie770]

More women need to get rid of these “boyfriends” and protect the baby. Even if you can’t care for the baby yourself, adopts the loving option.

[@FatBellyChemist1234]

That ex bf of yours should not have done such evil thing. It is good that you are admitting this.

[@skylinefootball]

Where was your father?

[@OGMann]

My ex was pressured by her parents, boss and friends. I fought for my child, as did my parents. 40 years later, that was the best fight I ever won. My ex agrees that despite what happened to our marriage, our daughter is worth everyone. Thank you Mom and Dad for having my back when my daughter most needed you. ❤

[@summertime5101]

Men have the choice of leadership in how they conduct themselves in a relationship, leading chaos or responsibility? We teach our sons not to place themselves in environments that can compromise principles.

[@davidwhitaker2211]

I agree with you wholeheartedly. I do think it's sad for the men who do step up but the child's life still gets taken against his wishes or behind his back. Those situations can cause trauma and affect one's mental well-being

[@Richie016]

I am straight, virgin, have never touched a girl, never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl. Though, I admit the fact -I LOVE KIDS! Bobby's message draws focus to an area of Biological significance. Lord have mercy on us for being unaccountable & irresponsible as parents and men for neglecting our offspring's birth, help us renounce any misdeeds of our past and keep us from our failures of inability to express love whenever necessary. May we take more exceptional courage in facing Odds in the future and indulge ourselves towards works of LIFE-enabling practices Amen.

[@VersoLaltoProductions]

Amen, brother!

[@drcardinalli]

One of the really cool things about the statement above is Richie's bravery here. While one's purity should be a source of appropriate pride and the admiration of others, in our culture, it's not. In fact, most of us can remember that being called a virgin in high school, college, the military, or at work would have been an insult and singled someone out for mockery and abuse, even though it was exactly God's will for a person at that point in their lives. Its VERY brave to stand against the culture and be proud of one's purity, and it helps young people enormously. I remember a scene in a movie where a bunch of women, glamorous but aging, overheard a teenage girl tell a friend she was a virgin. They said something heartbreaking: "if only, at her age, someone had told us that wasn't a bad thing." 😥

[@harmonygordon6901]

Richie you are a wonderful man of God. Some women is going to be very happy to marry you and have children with you. Stay close to the Lord ! I also suggest that you ask Mary Theotokos to intercede and guide you to the wife God has for you . If marriage is your vocation.

[@Richie016]

Harmony Gordon Thanks for being concerned🙂 I just prayed to Mary for blessings. Although marriage is not my vocation!

[@Richie016]

@Mike Cranston Oh yes! Off-course not. Thanks for being concerned.

[@michaele.7137]

Yes sir! Talk up! 🗣

[@702flower]

I agree with all this video is sharing. I did see an unfortunate situation where. There was a woman and man who had 2 or 3 kids already. The women was several months Pregnant. She decided for whatever reason to leave the father of her children and resume with an ex-boyfriend. She solely decided on an abortion with support of her step mother. Then outside the abortion clinic the father to be was crying and begging for his baby’s life. For her to have mercy and carry the baby full term and she may leave if she wants but he would take full responsibility for his newborn. He had his own mother and father with him for support who also said they want their grandchild. They were all trying to talk sense into the pregnant women. She refused no matter what they said. Her step mom kept saying it wasn’t his choice. This is a very cruel but real situation of pure selfishness of why abortion is so evil. There needs to be laws for circumstances like this case where the father literally was pleading for the life of his baby. The father just kept saying how much he loves his children and he is a good father. 😭 His own mom and dad were in shock and supported their grieving son and reminded him that yes he is a wonderful dedicated father. Please let’s continue to pray for the unborn and for continued change.🙏

[@marcihf217]

This is such a sad situation. I pray everyday for an end to abortion. Many men use the excuse of "a woman's body a woman's choice" as an excuse to do whatever they want (sex) but have no responsibility. When I hear situations such as this man, I am always left heartbroken.

[@WPWolfe]

I saw this too but did not know the whole story 😢

[@Cowboys4lifeTX]

Florecita Gonzalez this breaks my heart into pieces 💔💔💔💔

[@eduardog9243]

@Always Here How?

[@Richie016]

Ellen V this is a cruel & cunning 🌎 we live in. I recall about a recent incident of rich man’s trick played well. I know about it, I remember this occurred to me about an year ago when I went to a barbershop 💈in neighboring street. The goony looking barber while ✂️my hair carefully slipped a sample of my hair into his pocket and later I observed that he passed it to one of his fellow hairdresser who immediately fled from the saloon. That made me skeptical 🤨 of something that was out of place and picture. I realized that when I read about DNA 🧬 and it’s reference as evidence. God save us from such a treacherous act of deception.

[@MaryJordon1]

God bless you Bobby and Ascension Presents, this is a shared responsibility for men and women. Education on these life issues starts at home by parents first and then at school and also to keep reminding this message every year.

[@weallhaveanopinion]

Or maybe not at school unless granted permission by parents, and they shouldn't grant that permission. Half the reason why we're in the problems that we have now is because we're teaching 4th graders how to put condoms on bananas.

[@Richie016]

heavenly flame this is a cruel & cunning 🌎 we live in. I recall about a recent incident of rich man’s trick played well. I know about it, I remember this occurred to me about an year ago when I went to a barbershop 💈in neighboring street. The goony looking barber while ✂️my hair carefully slipped a sample of my hair into his pocket and later I observed that he passed it to one of his fellow hairdresser who immediately fled from the saloon. That made me skeptical 🤨 of something that was out of place and picture. I realized that when I read about DNA 🧬 and it’s reference as evidence. God save us from such a treacherous act of deception.

[@HawkingRegime13]

Excellent video and message Bobby. Well done!

[@Virginia-er9si]

I wish we had more men like him here in the old, laicist, kantian Europe. As a woman I don't feel respected, as men are, in workplaces or in society. The mentality here awfully objectifies us and ESPECIALLY tends to judge with negative prejudice all that a woman says or does. I know that America has a lot of problems, but at least there are people able to talk like this, here the politically correct has created a sort of common way of thinking. Please continue to witness to the world. I'm 28 and I don't see many young people talk like this in my everyday life.

[@Richie016]

Virginia agreed☑️. Christ took the burden of our sins on the ☦️

[@Virginia-er9si]

@@Richie016 Yes, is deeply true. He is the only reason for which we maintain hope during this life, despite all.

[@Richie016]

Virginia this is a cruel & cunning 🌎 we live in. I recall about a recent incident of rich man’s trick played well. I know about it, I remember this occurred to me about an year ago when I went to a barbershop 💈in neighboring street. The goony looking barber while ✂️my hair carefully slipped a sample of my hair into his pocket and later I observed that he passed it to one of his fellow hairdresser who immediately fled from the saloon. That made me skeptical 🤨 of something that was out of place and picture. I realized that when I read about DNA 🧬 and it’s reference as evidence. God save us from such a treacherous act of deception.

[@Virginia-er9si]

Richie is really crazy as an experience😳, indeed. I would be afraid. I agree in many situations, even if we are prudent and careful, only the mercy God can look after us.

[@Richie016]

Claudia Vlahović ☑️😇📿

[@jerrytuler1536]

Thank you Bobby👍

[@johnlowkey359]

We need to restore Chastity as a universal virtue. It's been cast as something womanly, and I can personally attest to believing it is the woman's responsibility to remain chaste when we date. In my humble opinion, placing the weight of chastity solely upon the shoulders of women is the most real issue of sexism.

[@rose4490]

The whole bit in society about it being okay for males to not be chaste is so toxic.

[@Richie016]

John Hickey too much reliance on Orthodox beliefs, and considering women accountable for Grace is another hurdle to overcome.

[@SorenBagley]

While chastity is a universal virtue. It's appropriate to focus most of the effort on women. This is because men don't have access to sex as easily as women.

[@Richie016]

Soren B Not certainly, being Chaste sets us apart in the 👀 of God. Even with men Chastity adds to Our integrity and serves vital factor in enhancing our moral character.

[@Richie016]

Soren B Although I do agree here,that as a priority women should not overlook the importance of Chastity for them,due to rising consumerism & social conflicts.

[@rosalindalozano233]

There are many sins that separate us from God's love... Repentance reunites us💕

[@melissaumuhire7804]

NOTHING can separate us from God's love. However, there are many sins that separate us from God's salvation, if that's what you meant😇

[@camiladuquearistizabal]

Good video! Please, pray for Colombia, nowadays here the Congress is trying to legalize the abortion in the first 12 weeks, we need prayers. God bless you

[@ariaa8870]

what if a girl gets pregnant from being raped? I hope they legalize abortions there

[@augustintegaboue1298]

Good morning Jackie and Bobby, Thank you for the amazing video. I will like know where I can purchase your book "pray, decide and dont worry". It is out of stock on Amazon and have been looking for it on other websites with no success. Thanks again and GOD bless you and your family.

[@4biddeninja511]

My ex killed my son without involving me and now wants me to pay her for it. My heart is in pain every day.

[@aimiec2241]

I'm so deeply sorry.

[@rosemarymaher6726]

Good to hear a man speak on this subject.Thank you.

[@SorenBagley]

Many women dont want to hear men who criticize abortion. They have been conditioned to hear these men as sexist and controlling. So then the men don't share their views for fear of being rejected. Men, if a woman refuses to be open to a child with you, you need to be strong enough to step away from the relationship.

[@yashrajjohn5587]

Yes .all because of feminist .

[@tavern2468]

It’s mostly men that force women to get them some women are even threatened to get one. Also one of the leading causes of death for women is being murdered by a partner because they are pregnant especially if they are a mistress etc.

[@winning3329]

Dude's cause 100 percent of unwanted pregnancies you should take your own advice.

[@Embraceyourcurls24]

Are these men planning on marrying the women or making her into a single mom.

[@Thecatwho777]

Hey Men, u can always like get a vasectomy or just go rainbow

[@Marah493]

Well done! I don’t mind hearing about abortion from men that realize that pregnancy requires two people. I respect you for this video.

[@elysetwichell9974]

Thank you so much for saying this!! As a woman, it's appreciated

[@solomonterrance2676]

We all heard what Tupac said.

[@wolf4811]

i am going to cry this is so beautiful

[@uteme]

THANK YOU for reiterating this...I had many "the talk" along these lines with my sons...that said, it didn't keep them from becoming fathers much too early in life...BUT...they DID become fathers meaning they & the girls did not choose abortion! Years later, they're still together, married & we have 6 beautiful grandchildren. They became fathers!!!

[@faithhopelove7777777]

Many men force women to get an abortion too. Parents do also.

[@kathinker7547]

This is a beautiful, eye opening way of putting this sensitive subject. Those who have decided upon abortion are parents. Just parents of dead children.

[@JGNC]

Men can definitely say what they want to say but at the end of the day, this is a woman’s body. Men are not carrying the baby and dealing with the physiological effects of pregnancy. Why are people trying to police women’s bodies when it’s not theirs in the first place? If she did not want it in the first place, why would you try and coerce her to choose to birth a baby that she herself does not want? It doesn’t make any sense. And for you to call a woman a hoe because some men would want fatherhood and she doesn’t? The misogyny JUMPED.

[@bluecollarrealestate2826]

The only way it's a "woman's body" is if that baby is a female. No one wants to tell a woman what to do with her body. People in the pro-life world just want to protect the human life that is in her body for a few months.

[@danika9411]

@Loki Ziehm English isn't my first language, sorry for mistakes. While I agree to sit down and talk and make the decision together,it can be very traumatizing for a woman to be forced to carry the baby full term. A lot of women will not think of the baby as their baby when forced. More like alien creature or a foreign object they have to live with. Because the baby constantly moves ect she feels that other being inside of her, that she doesn't want to have. In history it drove women mad and made them do dangerous things. For example did women try to abort with clothes hangers ect. A lot died too with methods like this. I was se****ly abused as a child. Adults did doctors games with me and I had "medicine" inserted inside of me. I didn't know it dissolves, so I though I walk around with something inside my body. I dissociated away, I depersonalize and derealize until today under stress. It completly broke my mind into tiny pieces. I'm still in therapy. So if I use that experience of having something inside of me against my will, even if it's a living being, it feels like ra*e. I would end myself. Forever. I think my mind could never do that again. I think men don't understand how traumatizing this is and that the women will likely never be ok again. I thought about it for a long time, imagined different scenarios, how would I feel if I thought like that, if I did it like this. ( I don't want to get pregnant, but if I would I would get the baby and try my best to be a good mom. This is purely hypothetical. ) And in the end I come to the conclusion that it's destructive against someones will. It's breaking someones will and bodyautonomy over a long period of time ( 9 month ) without break. And the feeling that comes up is similar to my se***l abuse. I can understand how women became desperate to end it somehow and did risky thing, even if it meant they night die. If I'd be forced and it actually does feel like my abuse and it goes on and on day after day, I might be one of those desperate women tbh. There is a reason it was allowed. And that was, because women were ending pregnancies anyway, but often died or were injured badly or ended up severly mentally ill.

[@flm8580]

I'm a woman and it's heart breaking for me when my bf who claims to love me asked me to abort because he's not ready to step up.

[@ThatMcflyGuy]

Yes women have the choice, but women can’t say they’re the only ones that suffer from abortion.

[@EmmaWithJesus]

This video is wonderful! Thank you Bobby for telling truth and so charitably and with so much love. Let us pray for an end to abortion and for greater love of the unborn and expectant parents.

[@winning3329]

To end abortion we must prevent them and the only way to prevent them is to make tougher laws on people who impregnates women and abandon them.

[@fredescher9860]

I was 18. I had no say. I had no parental support. She had no parental support. Her parents convinced her that it was for the best. We were just starting college. I wish I would have done more, said more. Our baby was killed and I have never been the same. I am 50 years old.

[@_unbalanced_]

Fred Escher Project Rachel is an excellent source of healing, all done anonymously. I’m sorry that happened to you and your girlfriend.

[@steelhurricane4041]

I'm so sorry Fred. You both were young and didn't have Godly guidance. However, you did sin and I hope you went to God for forgiveness. Peace be with you 🕊️

[@jesithornton7134]

The voice of my partner "I'm not doing this again!!" Now I'm stuck and have to decide!!

[@ellea3446]

Thank you so much just for making this video

[@loveyou9135]

Thank you so much

[@TheRealVivia]

I’m sure that half this wouldn’t happen if men weren’t averse to taking responsibility and being fathers even if it wasn’t planned. Most women make the choice with pressure from their men and no support to do otherwise especially once brought to term. It becomes her problem alone. It’s sad but I have seen it so much. As soon as a woman says she’s with child the men bolt or start putting pressure on the woman to “get rid of it. Many of them will say that this will ruin their future if she decides to carry to term. They tell the woman they will pay whatever it costs. So how can men expect to have no blame. I think the real truth is that, NO WOMAN WANTS TO CHOOSE THAT OPTION. WHY WOULD SHE WANT TO? In a perfect world it would always be a joy to find out that kind of information but we don’t live there. This ain’t that world. I see a lot of men who regret forcing and manipulating their woman into carry out the act knowing that what couldave help her make a different choice would be if he would have just supported her. But men never think like that’s in the moment, they only worry about themselves. When a woman is pregnant, she’s ALREADY a mother. So why would she want to make a choice that’s different from that? It goes against everything. But for them, the men, fatherhood only starts after the child is born and that’s only if they care to be around for that. That’s why I think none of this will change. Women have to be able to have the right to choose. I remain neutral on the matter because of What I just said. Men do not know what it feels like to actually have to make that decision. And yet they are the same ones who force it upon their women. The ones who may feel a percentage of what that loss may be like are like unicorns, they almost don’t exist honestly. Those men are like some kind of alien. All I have seen are men jumping for joy because they “dodged a bullet”, they can go on with their lives and continue on to whatever future they imagined because as I have said, they do not consider themselves fathers until a child is born but little do they know, in my opinion, they are fathers to those children who never got to be here too. Only when they are older do they usually realize and regret that. However it instantly ruins a woman to have to do that. It ruins her state of mind forever. Her mind and her body knows that she is betraying her nature. She will never be the same again and that’s usually because as I said, the man is selfish and unable to lead. If you support her in carrying to term she usually will follow. I guarantee 9 times out of 10. But as I said, these men these days, aren’t that. They aren’t that kind of man. They are immature and quite frankly trash. They have no value in family and no courage to do what’s right. No ability to be selfless. And so many woman will have to continue to choose that option. Simple as that.

[@bluecollarrealestate2826]

I understand there are women that are "forced" by the baby's father. But you have to understand that the idea that is most is false. Most men, by every study and statistical measure, were against the abortion...or didn't know about the baby until after the abortion. The reason I chose to respond is that we on the pro-life side have to stop spreading misinformation. We have to talk about the truth of baby development, the truth about what abortion really is and the truth about how abortion impacts the lives of the mom and dad for decades. The way we end abortion is to provide healing to those who have experienced abortion. They will be the strongest voices. And we cannot provide healing by continuing to paint men as predators or perpetrators.

[@monicafigueroa981]

@@bluecollarrealestate2826 you must not be a woman. I know that men are typically the ones pressuring the women into getting an abortion. It's true.

[@Ivan.A.Churlyuski]

@@monicafigueroa981 your body your choice your responsibility your fault. You don’t get to excuse murderers by blaming the people with no choice.

[@monicafigueroa981]

@@Ivan.A.Churlyuski yeah that's why I chose to get my tubes tied. I believe in my choice. After the birth of my son his father (my former husband) hated my choice to keep my son. I couldn't leave myself open for another man to disappoint me again. With my choice to keep my son and tie my tubes I have done well.

[@Ivan.A.Churlyuski]

@@monicafigueroa981 interesting because after the murder of my child I wanted and had no say over I decided to get a vasectomy so no other woman could murder my child in the womb again. Sounds like we should have kept in tact and found each other.

[@WiltedRoseTattoos]

I needed to watch this thank you

[@robonymous4620]

Amen. Love it. 🕆📿❤

[@laurengb6]

Thank you for a great video on a topic that needs to be discussed. Men definitely need to stand up for what is right by God. 🙏

[@yashrajjohn5587]

But womans don't hear men .

[@winning3329]

@@yashrajjohn5587 what about the dude's who tell the women to get an abortion? The only way to end abortion is to prevent it and the only way to prevent it is to make tougher laws on dude's who impregnate and abandon women Tell all your Male friends to practice abstinence

[@caribaez5711]

Yes, a prolife man is worth lot. 👐🏻

[@Richie016]

Cari certainly, if you read 2 Timothy 1:7 (ESV) for God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.

[@raykidder906]

I believe the job of pastor is a masculine job. By connecting male reproductive abilities and responsibilities to the job of pastor, this leads to the label of quasi-pastor to all men, which means men shall only get women pregnant within marriage and having the means to protect their offspring. Having women as pastor leads to the view that men are not necessarily quasi-pastors, which gives people the idea that men can dump their reproductive responsibilities on the women as they are motivated by their irresponsible libido, and engage in prostitution, fornication, and adultery. If an abortion is none of the husband's business, how can it be the government's business? Look at the fruits or women's ordination by comparing the religious groups with women pastors to those which only have male pastors.

[@sweetlolitaChii]

I mean yeah, if we got pregnant again unexpectedly and my husband wanted me to keep the baby, I would. If he wanted me to have an abortion, I would be much more likely to seek one out. I can't handle raising a child who is resented or not wanted. But we do everything possible to not add to the family without both wanting it.

[@Foxie770]

No child should be resent led. That’s a You problem.

[@angieb2472]

@@Foxie770Exactly. Who resents an innocent child? 🤨

[@jmolnar5799]

Thank you so much.

[@rosecocoa9797]

Men tend to think they have a voice when they DON'T want the baby...and get shy when they want it. Not wanting it, results in him telling the mother to have an abortion or him rejecting the child, removing himself from his/her life. Some men are really concerned about having to pay child support, keeping it a secret from his wife, or being tied to a baby or the woman in general. There could be several reasons. Except now Roe vs. Wade is overturned, they know there is only one way this pregnancy can go. Its better to be faithful or to not have sex outside of marriage. Take their approach to sex seriously.

[@chloefriday6844]

He left me bc I couldn’t chose the abortion over him! He is moved on to someone else while I have to be a parent alone! He said he loved me and wanted a future with me but couldn’t stay when life hit us.

[@Vezmus1337]

Amen

[@RG-bd5fy]

I didn’t want to but had nobody to turn to. My ex-boyfriend who took advantage of his sexual pleasure with me became a coward and hid until it was over. I think it’s been hitting him for awhile but he won’t acknowledge it or let this come to the surface - just a guess. Society places the choice on only the woman. Blame is on the woman and men can run with that. Men are programmed to not show emotion because it’s a sign of weakness or it’s just not “manly.” Not taking ownership is weakness and not being manly, cowardly. Deal with this. It’s traumatic for women. We have to live with this for the rest of our lives. I will always be a mom and you will always be the dad to our child.

[@faithhopelove7777777]

THANK YOU!!!!!

[@pirongia5168]

Thank you Bobby for your courage in speaking out to the men in society. Their actions have consequences, whether acknowledged or not. No matter how many fight against the 10 commandments, with out them a nation falls into depravity and chaos.

[@solomonterrance2676]

Okay but what can men say when it’s a woman’s body and her choice that she is going to make? I can’t stop her I just gotta go with the flow and roll with the punches. As a man I’m too scared to say something because of feminism and being labeled a misogynist trying to control and take away women’s rights.

[@damienroberts934]

exactly. @@solomonterrance2676

[@christiskingforever2880]

Yeah, there should be laws that protect the Father's choice. That is his DNA in the baby too. Jane Roe fought abortion for many years later in life.

[@Richie016]

Christ is King Forever! Vital Truth, forgiveness of sins is through his shed blood on the ✝️. 🧬 of the Child 👶 is significance of relationships.

[@Richie016]

Christ is King Forever! this is a cruel & cunning 🌎 we live in. I recall about a recent incident of rich man’s trick played well. I know about it, I remember this occurred to me about an year ago when I went to a barbershop 💈in neighboring street. The goony looking barber while ✂️my hair carefully slipped a sample of my hair into his pocket and later I observed that he passed it to one of his fellow hairdresser who immediately fled from the saloon. That made me skeptical 🤨 of something that was out of place and picture. I realized that when I read about DNA 🧬 and it’s reference as evidence. God save us from such a treacherous act of deception.

[@christiskingforever2880]

@@Richie016 evidence? What do you mean? What is he trying to prove?

[@Richie016]

Christ is King Forever! False blaming and involuntary participation.

[@christiskingforever2880]

@@Richie016 Well Christian's may not have a firm grasp on the ways of evil and trickery, we don't have to know the ways of an enemy. Evil doers may be under the impression that they have control but clearly don't understand God and how He works. God works all things for good for those that love Him and are called according to His purpose. Evil does an amazing job of offering the opportunity to reveal the glory of God before the most darkest hearts. I don't need a grasp on power or be anxious with plots, I have been called to love my enemies. So as they follow me, winking, and nodding. They will have a front row view of His wonders; therefore they will be without excuses. I would sacrifice my life, even at their hands, to see them saved but that is not God's will...clearly. 😊💖 I can see my enemies suffering under the burden God has given them, i don't delight in it, I cry about it. They have never understood agape love, if they don't repent...they never will.

[@Aggie-zs1qi]

Thank you Bobby. Such an important message - and it takes courage to speak the truth. Praying for all the innocent babies and their parents who made the decision to abort. Oh Jesus Christ Son of God have mercy on us sinners.

[@ericm.5408]

I am a fault. I loved Daphne but when she got pregnant with are first child, she didn’t want to get married to me and didn’t want to have my child. I WANTED OUR CHILD!!! I sat in that abortion clinic in extreme agony! I blame myself because I felt as if I wasn’t man enough to be the man I needed to be. I almost committed suicide 19 times. I engaged in dangerous sexual behavior and activities. I still cry over Daphne and the loss of our son. I’m 50 years old and I still suffer from the guilt, saddens, angry and heartache!

[@stuffofmexx6077]

May God bless you. Go to Catholic Church and attend the Holy Mass. Pray. Ask the preist about confession or baptism. God bless you.

[@katieforshythe6295]

I hear your pain, aa a woman i want you to forgive yourself ......we know not what we do..........

[@user-sd9dw3wr6w]

my boyfriend told me to have an abortion because he is not ready and leave me after

[@goodtalker]

I fathered a child with a woman I would have never married...ever. It was expensive.....very expensive. I have come to believe that the women's movement has pushed many women into a kind of masculine nature, that is not God's best. It has kept many men very immature. The most beautiful thing is that "mistake" so many years ago is a beautiful mom today, and I discovered that I just love being a dad and grandfather. God is good.

[@Samiiee1918]

most neutral pro life speach i ear so far

[@sheldonwaves2381]

I wanna step up and she still want the abortion so what will u say about that

[@almostdaddy2461]

Great video. Men are indeed responsible and need to stand up and be men. That said, millions of men have been impacted by lost fatherhood to abortion. Many are hurting. It impacts their lives going forward, their marriages and the way they parent. Our best hope is to help those men find hope, healing and restored relationship with God. when we do that, and men reclaim their voice, we will have a powerful force to help pre-abortion men make better choices.

[@damienroberts934]

Yeah, I suppose all men can do is try to find the epic courage to walk the 2 inch wide plank erected by women over a 2000 ft chasm, ask politely 'pretty please with sugar on top, don't kill our kid...' and hope the plank isn't pulled out from under him. Unfortunately this happens every day. I wonder if that impacts the male suicide rate at all. It is astonishing to me that men resign themselves to a society where they have no natural rights, at all. It is an almost surreal reality.

[@NinOG653]

Truth

[@skeeterses]

Bobby, I consider myself fortunate in the sense that I've never had to deal with abortion. Nonetheless, I'm wondering what you would say to a man who has spent years of his adult life going without sex because the man is either unattractive or struggling through unemployment and menial jobs. As bad as abortion is, going through years of celibacy because of poverty is not fun either.

[@skeeterses]

The reason I bring up this point is because there are many men in this world who will never earn enough money to provide for a family, no matter how hard they work.

[@Foxie770]

Man up. Skill up. Go to the gym. Gain confidence and find a woman to marry.

[@DrLesiaThePreachasDiviNation]

🙏🏾

[@travispike9774]

I don’t comment very often but in a literal text I was a Bible Satan tempted Eve while Adam was gone to work

[@dazbenpeter8311]

SHAME THIS MESSG' WON'T REACH THOSE WHO NEED IT.

[@nariko47]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@Grainexpress]

My wife and I woke up one morning and found the last two kids hiding behind the toilet so we just kept them. 😂 Great video!

[@Mitchellaaroncoleman]

I should have stepped up more I with my fiancé when we both knew what could happen and once it did she had the abortion though I did not at all want it. Yet 4 months later she was ready to try again ?

[@Mitchellaaroncoleman]

I’m sorry . I commented to quickly. I’m just having a very rough morning and I am bearing that cross as well.

[@leylarose6599]

you have the power to advise her not to kill the child. If men force and coerce abortions on women you have the power to convince her not too.

[@l.i.l.i.s.e.l.l.s]

💔

[@marcelaciobanu9961]

Such a fair and merciful position on abortion expressed by a man. It is the most sensate speech I hear about it for a while now. It is natural, it is obvious, it is simply true. It is a shame that there's not an honest and serious debate in the public area nowadays on this topic. Just superficial slogans on a matter of life and death.

[@MBison-vm6gq]

My childhood sweetheart it pregnant. She is divorced with 2 children, none are of the husband. She lives with the man because they cannot agree on the house they've bought. Yes, it's an absolute mess but she's the girl I grew up with and was my first ever girlfriend when we were both 13. We were together till about 15 when I broke up with her. Regretted it ever since and moved away for 15 or so years. We reconnected about 2 years ago and have been very careful with contraception. The one time she wasn't and now she's pregnant. I want to keep it but I understand the situation is in so it wouldn't be right for her life right now. She's booked an abortion and I don't know what to do. I said it's cool it is what it is. But I'm not cool with it. It's 2 am and I can't even sleep 😪. It would be my first child. I don't know what will become of us

[@fatimacarmen6901]

I was pregnant and i was super excited and plan to carry it along, until people that i thought was so close and dear to me (my mom and my ex) expected me that its fine to abort on 12/19/23 due to their reasons, such as situation and my emotional wise, but after i did the abortion, i had the most regret, when i broke down,i was being blamed that it was my fault cuz it was my decisions in the end of the day, but i was left stranded like i have no motivational nor support besides being looked down on felt like not even concerned or empathize me at all like it's a bothersome and nuisance to them when im just in distress, i'm like as if I'm a dead end, it's so hard for a sensitive person like me, i felt so wronged and it hurts me mentally everyday it drains me for being further away to want to live. Ive been there i've done enough but they only acknowledge the worst out of me the most, and less likely the good.

[@bailujen8052]

Men signed roe v wade

[@HappyHermitt]

My ex-wife had 3. And yes they were mine. I'll just say it wasn't a mutual agreement. No matter how deep it's buried away, its never deep enough. I often wonder if they were a boy, or a girl.

[@ihateyoujodyyvlogs3875]

I’m so sorry man I’m going through it rn.

[@andyparackal7471]

There are a lot of man out there don’t want abortion. I still struggle to day coz of this!

[@belakovacs7013]

The gynecological results I'm most terrified of for my future wife is having a complication with the pregnancy and has an 80% probability of dying if continued an the baby has a 50% chance of survival at best, while if aborted the woman survives for sure and we can try again with another shot of having a physically healthy family. I'd rather get positive cancer results than made to decide in a situation like that.

[@armyinfantry11b]

Very very rare situation

[@Foxie770]

This sounds totally made up… not reality.

[@richardmorgan6105]

I am a 71 year old male and feel that we/males should be in the forefront of the fight for life. After all, God gifted us with the seed therefore we shall forever hold the greater guilt but praise the Lord: through repentence and the blood of Jesus we are given pure conscience (not putting away the filth of flesh/suffering caused by sin) but power (Holy Spirit) to move forward in the righteousness of God by grace and through faith in Jesus Messiah)! For we know what commandments God gave us by conscience and are without excuse! The following was written by the Apostle Paul to Christians: "as you have received of us how you ought to walk and to please God, so you would abound more and more. For you know what commandments we gave you by the Lord Jesus. For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; Not in the lust of concupiscence." (to especially include sexual pleasure, 1 Thessalonians) God made woman beautiful and desireable. Which even caused the fall of many angels. Young males are bombarded with enticing images of woman and it seems that a large majority of woman could care less even to enjoying this temptation.

[@pinkty6049]

I want to keep my baby but he wants me to abort it, he already has a child and does not want another. Plus when I told him I was pregnant he told me he was moving to another state. I'm so hurt and scared.😔💔😔

[@RG-bd5fy]

You will regret having an abortion and grieve later on in life and you lost a life.

[@josephcalvosa8272]

A man can't force a woman to abort but the state will force the father to "step-up" and pay child support. Its crazy to say men need to take responsibility while obsolving women from any by allowing abortion. Abortion for convenience or "mental health" as is sometimes claimed is the method women have to duck responsibility for not being on any of the 27 methods of contraception but still having sex. Society ensures by law men cannot bail on this responsibility. A man who wants the baby has mo legal recourse to save it from an abortion anytime the mother wishes . Its descusting. These women are never the same, they hide that part too.

[@damienroberts934]

No, that's not wrong - two wrongs don't make a right.

[@atintguyrogersar6317]

I would love to you to reach out to me. I am a man that has to be quiet the way the world is.

[@care59801]

Talk to your partner if she wants to be a mother before sex. If she doesn't. Then, maybe not the partner for you. If she's not ready. Maybe abstinence? Talk about both control options and what the plan would be if pregnancy occurs.

[@quesadilla9957]

Right, which is why abortion exists, in the case that conception prevention fails. I don’t want my girlfriend to have kids any more than she does.

[@TazHall]

Partner is for police, husband and wife is for mature adults. There's also the option of tying your tubes if you're married and don't want kids

[@love__and__hope__]

If I dont need kids, women should not force any childcare expenses. only 1/2 abortion expenses

[@FriendlyHomie]

"No human life is a mistake." A human life may not be a mistake, but you can make a mistake with that human life which will make that baby live a poor quality life. I was born into poverty without my parents, and now I dont want to be alive. I wish I was aborted because no kid wants to grow up in poverty without a parent. If you willingly bring a child into a bad situation and environment then you have made a mistake with that life. Let's not be selfish, let's use protection and if you get pregnant and you can't give the baby a great life then get rid of it, dont be selfish.

[@matthewelesterio6869]

I’m sorry that happened to you and I’m sorry you feel that way. But abortion is still not the answer. Human life is precious and should never be unjustly taken away even if there is a low quality of life. I recommend seeking therapy or counselling from your childhood trauma or maybe even talking to someone about your suicidal thoughts.

[@TazHall]

I'm sorry that you had a hard life but you cannot force your own choice on to other children. Not all of them are going to experience or react to their situations exactly like you do. Many like myself make it through with the help of God.

[@franka6680]

I feel like some women make poor men decisions and choose wrong dudes. I also think dudes make poor father figure decisions. But then again as a kid with no father or bad parents don't teach them what right is. I just feel there's alot at play here

[@christopherburciaga7898]

I’m so disappointed 😔 in myself

[@ladyoftheveil8342]

I had my unplanned babies both of them, one is now living in Europe, she's my smart miracle child, because if her biological Father had anything to say about it, she would have been aborted. I knew abortion was murder, and every child I've given birth to was wanted BY ME!

[@motomixer23]

My gf wants an abortion and i really want this baby. I have no control over this and its destroyed me so much . Its out of my controll id love to keep it but its taken away from :(

[@aimiec2241]

This is heartbreaking. I'm so sorry. Pray pray pray that she will have a change of heart. Show her exactly what takes place and what the baby looks like at this stage. Women are lied to that it's "just a clump of cells." Project truth is a good resource.

[@danieledmonds2857]

Thanks for standing up for the innocent unborn. I’m a man, a husband and a father and I will never stay silent in defending the right of innocent babies to live. If you’re going to cop flak for something, it should be for standing up for babies and mothers.

[@winning3329]

Then don't stay silent in telling Males to practice abstinence to prevent unwanted pregnancies. Also advocate for higher child support payments so the moms can afford to take care of the children.

[@RG-bd5fy]

You should be informed that so many women suffer from having an abortion, emotionally. This could happen a few years or decades later. Women don’t talk about it because it hurts too much plus they don’t know that there is post-abortive grief counseling out there. It’s regret, remorse, grieving over the loss of your child (which you didn’t realize you were a mom at the time due to being so overwhelmed and over factors). Not all women realize that they are mothers when we find out that we’re pregnant. Even those that have been trying you here “we’re going to be a (mother, father, or family) not realizing that they already are. What causes women to make that choice? Various reasons, no emotional support, shame, condemnation, fear (very strong factor). Every woman handles the abortion differently; they don’t realize that they may grief and push this down because they cannot talk about this with anyone because of, once again, shame and condemnation. Men should also be held accountable when they run or go into denial. I seriously doubt the regret, if any, haunts them til the end of time.

[@marcelaciobanu9961]

We were given the gift of life, who are we to deny it to another human being? There is a Lord of life and it's not us.

[@mikeclarke5732]

3:34 tbf when we hear “my body my choice” were not allowed a say since women claim the baby as their body and thus their choice

[@backsteinfisch3894]

The baby is not their body, but the womb is. The vitamins etc. are also from the woman. That is why they say, "my body my choice". Why is this so hard to understand?

[@MrNote-lz7lh]

@@backsteinfisch3894 Their choice their responsibility. They choose to let the child be born, and the man have no say, so man shouldn't have to pay.

[@backsteinfisch3894]

@@MrNote-lz7lh I agree. But that means that the men is not allowed to visit the child until the child is 18 years old. If you aren't paying, then you have no right to be in contact with the child.

[@haylspa]

Wow, Ever met a Man that first Child was Aborted/Murdered by the mother and him never having a choice in it!?!? Men don't get a choice in there unborn Children today, and because we don't we are not sharing the blood on our hands of our unborn murdered by the mother Women can suffer this Guilt/sin on there own, it's not ours to carry or responsibility to comfort a Baby killer

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

This shouldn't even have to be said. Both parties are obviously equally at fault. Obviously.

[@sensusfidelium9510]

I’d like to see how many women have abortions with out telling the father!

[@ethanwork764]

Not to mention all the male abortion doctors

[@DonHG32]

Yes, we do bear responsibility for our actions, as all people should do. If we have unprotected sex there is the possibility that a pregnancy can result, and yes, it is our responsibility to use a condom in order to avoid an unwanted pregnancy. Women had 41 choices. Perhaps they should be responsible and use some of them? Either that or avoid having sex altogether. In the case of an unwanted pregnancy there is either carry to term, keep or put the baby up for adoption, or seek an abortion and terminate the pregnancy. Those are the options. In either case does a man have a say? In Canada a man has no legal rights where the unborn child is concerned because the unborn child is not considered a legal person with rights. All decisions are the responsibility of the woman and she doesn't have any legal obligation to discuss them with the father. When a child is born both parents are financially obligated to support the child. If unmarried, the father has no right to the naming of the child unless the mother agrees. To sum up then, in Canada the father has no rights, only obligations. In no circumstance can a father fail in his obligations to a child without consequences. Know your ground and step up! Do the right thing BEFORE you do something that has consequences you're not prepared for.

[@annamuller4819]

It has a lot to do with how women are judged by society if they get pregnant in an unplanned manner (or unmarried). For some ppl the shame is so big and abortion seems to give or mantaine their dignity, honor, families affection and career opportunity etc. So if you are a judgy person your are contributing to more women making the abortion choice.

[@saltyshannonigans5967]

Society pushes, coerce Women to have abortions. They tell dangerous lies "A child will change your life for the worse, you won't go to college, you won't have a career, you will lose everything, you can't afford it, you won't make anything of yourself if you have a child right now, your not ready, you will die if you have a baby, better to abort than put it in foster care". ect Surprised the people who are pro death, pro Margaret Sanger, Pro Planned parenthood push for the massacre of the unborn? Most Women have abortions out of fear and manipulation. Women, Mother's need support so they will not be motivated to do the wrong thing bc of fear and lies. I thank God my Uncles biological parents chose Life. He is an amazing husband, father and grandfather. He loves those grandkids more than anything and Lord, those kids love their grandpa. GOD has a plan for us all 💙

[@GreenMM_11]

Great video. It makes me sick thinking about the recent speech by Michelle Williams at the Golden Globes, where she alleged she had an abortion. She is certainly smart enough to know about protection; her partner, same. She harped on women having a right to choose (to end a pregnancy,) but yet nothing was mentioned about her partner having a say in that. Was he supportive? Not supportive? Bobby is right, much of society has numbed itself to the responsibility of sex and procreation. Numbed itself to how abortion affects a mother's mental health, as well as a father's. 😥😓😥😓😥

[@qazmko22]

No, it's women's bodies; women's choice... They have the right to choose their future and weather or not they are pregnant. But also, men should have the choice to be fathers... not forced to be fathers by the government..

[@HopeLaFleur1975]

You are correct, some men have to stand up, but now with some women who claim, my body my choice..there have been some men that voice their opinion for their child..some men do not want abortion. So women are equally at fault there, men need to talk to women, this is correct. I would love to hear when a women was talked against abortion by men. I do not think that it's men that are to be taking ownership of this more, BUT again with women being such unmothering women now, they are mostly at fault! Men do not stay silent , yes! I agree.

[@yashrajjohn5587]

Its all because of the second and third wave of feminism .

[@carlofrancisco6513]

What you just have said was exactly the situation I am right now.

[@ahanasingh1808]

I have unplan pregnancy my boyfriend blame me it my fault for not taking birth control on time he forced me to have a abortion threat that if I dont have it he will destroy my life my home my job my family, he kept blaming it my fault and deal with it he want nothing to do with it even dumping me finding out I'm pregnant I'm stress out

[@koolycat4643]

Don't give up. Repent to God and He will forgive you.

[@steelhurricane4041]

Men be careful not to get involved until you're married.

[@sirenorebello817]

Men are responsible not women , pkease don't blame Biden

[@swebilbo]

Nope wrong, it might not even be our ofspring!

[@chrissys5785]

I know women who have had abortions not out of fear but just because. Didn’t tell the men involved. Sometimes women are not the victims.This video is correct but there is more to the story.

[@harmonygordon6901]

If a man and woman are married then the man has a say in wheather the child is born, kept, adopted or aborted. If the couple are unmarried the women doesn't have a responsibility to even TELL the man she is pregnant. So if men oppose abortion then they shouldn't have sex outside of marriage. I am 100% AGAINST abortion. I myself was adopted out as an infant due to sex outside of marriage. I am blessed because my biological mother chose to give me the gift of life. Her one request to the parents who adopted me was that I be raised Catholic. I don't know my biological mother but I love her with my whole heart. If men sin and cause a pregnancy I pray that they will man up & marry the female. But there is no guarantee she will marry him. No guarantee she will want the child. Men need to think ahead of time and not put the couple in a place of temptation.

[@dreadedsage8630]

@@harmonygordon6901 That's absolutely silly, marriage changes nothing, the facts are that it takes a man and a woman to make a baby therefore it is their baby logically and scientifically because the offspring receives traits from both parents. A man should always have a say so about his child.

[@harmonygordon6901]

sage wishful thinking Sage An unmarried woman can always walk away. If she disappears the man may never know she was pregnant . Never know the outcome of the pregnancy. A sacramental marriage in the Catholic Church is a safeguard for men to protect their children . A wise man will marry before producing children . A sacramental marriage puts God at the heart of the family . God is worthy of trust. Both husband and wife can trust in God and dare to begin to bear fruit

[@dreadedsage8630]

@@harmonygordon6901 never said that wasn't a possibility, I was saying that a woman should be morally and legally obligated to not do that.

[@jacoblloyd2573]

typical. rip into men for the folly of women

[@BrandonHennen]

Onononononono I disagree my friend