Why Men Are Attracted to a Distant Woman

[@verenajeremie6906]

If he is distant ..let him stay there , very far away..

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching and for your comment

[@Klingbeil94]

I grew up among men... thanks to my dad🙏🏻! It dont works. A man who telling you that you are needy was never into you! If you make distances to him, you are going to trigger his childhood trauma and the only think that bonds him with you is the fear of losing. It is not love! If he found someone better then you he will cheat or leave you. You dont want men playing games with you but in the same way you going to play games with him... that's hypocritical‼️ A secure man dont let you play games with him....

[@JoannA-sweetly]

There is a difference between being secure in your worth and simply attempting games. By distant, don’t feel you cannot live without him. You are too valuable! Never begging or desperate! 🎯

[@AnnaParada-x3y]

GREETINGS FROM KENTUCKY BE CAREFUL WHO YOU LISTEN TO ON KZbin IF PEOPLE PLAY GAMES OR THEY'RE NARCISSISTIC PSYCHOPATH JUST GET AWAY FROM THEM

[@danilaroche1156]

I hear what your saying but being human, we ALL play games to some extent. It's often unconscious. Men are very different from us gals. We like security & certainty. Men in general love a challenge. They like a bit of uncertainty. That's just how it is, booboo!. I'm 60 and have had many relationships. Married twice. Every single man that loved me did so because I was a challenge. Every single one. I was considered gorgeous. I was a successful model in NY city. Let me tell you it didn't matter how pretty I was. Whenever I was too easy for a man..they bolted!

[@laetitia9652]

@@danilaroche1156how do you become a challenge?

[@stayseebetravels3352]

I am in my 40s, I don’t text men or chase them at all. It works, even had one come texting two months later as if no time had disappeared between us. If stuff fades out, I let it.. I had my fun in my 20s I seek deep connections now. 😅

[@llamavioleta7592]

Do still men chase you ? I’ve always thought women in their 40s were invisible to men

[@trendbuzz31]

You must be still single 🤣

[@Ra-rg1vk]

​@@llamavioleta7592Ru serious? I am 59 and I have men chasing me all the time. Probably because I run. Men are hunters they like to chase.

[@AnnaWhite-go6nz]

Weeds out the junk being distant. Stand on your graceful feminine energy lovely ladies! Men need to chase, pursue etc. for it to work ❤

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

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[@danilaroche1156]

Yes!

[@andreeap4019]

If I can't be myself in a relationship, I don't want it. And it's the best thing ever. Don't compromise yourself for a relationship, it will not go well.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thanks for your comment!

[@danilaroche1156]

You sound kind of naive. Yes you be you but be wise. Men are different from us. If you don't grow. If you don't offer some mystery or intrigue, he will get bored. Know that .

[@danilaroche1156]

Love Alex's advice. Pure gold.

[@Lazy-bliss]

​@@danilaroche1156 glad. Let go

[@JoannA-sweetly]

Yes! So you pick among men, who is best suitable. Know your own worth, be willing to walk away. He better be glad to be graced with you in his life!

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

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[@Choseforthepurpose]

makes so much sense the more you watch these videos the more your brain will program on how to deal with dating I've been watching these videos for years and only now I understand how to move naturally because of them.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

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[@DontSleepOn_Jesus]

I agree. It’s like going to dating university 😂🎓

[@marypatterson4712]

Be yourself if it's meant to be all will work out.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@LilyOlivia-p3s]

Very cool video A month ago, I ended a five-year relationship. My soulmate made the decision to walk away from me, and even though I've done everything in my power to get him back, I can't help but feel disappointed because I can't see my life with anyone else. I want to say that I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I simply can't. I miss him so much and I don't know why I'm saying this here.

[@NnekaNnadi-uf3ts]

I can imagine but don't worry God will give you a better person.just continue praying, ask holy spirit to help you and he will.

[@naturallivingbyenovi]

It will get easier with time and much easier when you find someone who truly adores you

[@Ra-rg1vk]

So what you are saying is that you don't have a life. Your entire life was wrapped around this guy. That's probably what made him leave.

[@AishaBridalCollection]

Never marry soulmate ,it will not last long

[@rebeccamataoya940]

Alex I love all your videos. I have been single for 20 years since I lost the love of my life. Now you are leading me to find love again

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Hi there! I'm so sorry to hear about this, but I'm happy that my video is able to help you and lead you to love again ❤️

[@LuxeSuy]

So long story short, don’t be so needy of a man… a man that claims to be into me cannot just go ghost on me (depending where we are in our dating stage). Communicating and asking questions should be the norm, and the man shouldn’t be bothered if a woman ask him why he distanced himself without no consequences, I require consistency so….

[@gabrielamartiniuc6322]

Instead of asking him why he’s distant, become distant yourself. Any man that is distant is a man that isn’t interested. Find yourself another man that is consistent.

[@maidenmarian1]

gabrielamartin, You are correct, If he is inconsistent, HE IS NOT INTERESTED. I AGREE!

[@poorhai9321]

For short don't give a sh.. about them 😂 and at the same time don't be a doormat know your boundaries

[@khadijaaithmid5536]

Très bon courage Alex ❤ J'apprécie énormément votre contenu et la façon de présenter aussi

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@mattanderson6672]

Thank you Sir

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@alenkak7753]

This is good advise for dating, not for every day life with the same man. But we dont live only to date!

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching and for your support!

[@Marianaa477]

Thank you for your advice , it’s working for me 😊

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate you!

[@d-etoile5596]

Excellentes infos Alex🎉👏 Merci!

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

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[@SewwandiWaduthanthri]

As usual great video 🖤

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

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[@MilanJoseph-v5f]

Thanks 🙏👍 Alex ☺️WELL SAID. ... BEUTEY FULL EMFROMIOSN. .. & TIPES. 😊 HAVE A GOOD DAY. N YOUR VIDEO WONDERFUL.. VOICE NO WDS . GOD BLESS YOU . .. good 👍

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@KD-hy3bi]

Yeah and so what happens when the relationship develops and then you become closer with an avoidant? Means you will never live together and never have a full time relationship/marriage

[@aali8462]

Very good question, I would like to know that too. And while they disappear for weeks, do we need to stay loyal and see not other guy?

[@user-bg3ly8nb8z]

I love your French accent 😊

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@somabose90]

Thank you for your guidance❤❤

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

You're always welcome! Thank you so much for watching!

[@kristinefernandez1760]

Yes please alex. 😢 I need now

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching! How can we help you?

[@debraglows]

I am on a 3 week mission. When he is with me, il be playful and happy and loving and hotttt 🔥 but when he is not with me, il be very quiet. Were living together so best I can do is when he is out there’ll be No text no calls. No check ins. I will only be receiver- if he text il respond if he calls, il answer, but I won’t initiate. When he’s home, im here baby. Food is ready. And dessert is me!!

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching! I hope this video was able to help you!

[@riamaha2414]

Because YOU WANT to be like that or because you think it's the only way to keep the allure going? 😢

[@MsLouisVee]

Sounds like gameplaying. She’s doesn’t know her spelling or grammar either😂

[@debraglows]

@@MsLouisVeewhat happened to you mslouisvee? Why so bitter? Where all this hate is coming from?

[@abcdk3805]

you just got me. I did what exactly you asked: liked and subscribed. 😳

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@pur9325]

When you broke the relationship coz of his habit of blaming me always. He used to block me when he is with his cousin . He used to travel with his cousin .I get block from every social site and on normal call even when hd is with his cousin as he says she will tell to family . Once in a month i get a call or during 10-15 days gap i get msg n dat too when i explain im hurt he says u always complain and coz of ur silliness i hv to block Thats why i ended this tym Will he come back What should i do

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Hi there! I know Coach Alex would love to help you with this but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to help you with this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team

[@wateva-y2y]

He probably sleeps with his cousin

[@elarisa10]

Block him woman! What are you waiting for? He shows you disrespect!

[@hibamllllllly]

before giving him space and starting to question it then giving him space is it a good action to be done ?

[@savedbygrace_loved]

Only mature man would understand this!

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@jasmincordelia5477]

Does it mean that there can be no healthy n fulfilling relationship with an avoidant( as far as the secure woman is concerned in the relationship)?

[@Misyeli]

Up

[@Jenette.arreola]

I watch all of your videos, Alex, and I am SO GLAD I found you now that I’m 30. I have learned so much from you regarding men! I’m a very attractive, loving, smart woman (PhD candidate), and despite these great qualities, I have experienced that men in-fact lose interest in “ME” when I am readily available. However, the moment I pull away, such as in the case of my avoidant ex, men put me back on a pedestal. 😅 It’s so interesting how men operate, and it is frankly understandable. Give men space; let them miss you, and (with actions) convey the message: I’m as precious as a Ruby, I have a fulfilling life/career, and if you can’t enhance the quality of my life and demonstrate to be reliable and mature, I will simply withdraw my attention (WITHOUT explanation because men already know what they’re doing wrong and will correct their behavior if they value and want a woman). 😊

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching and I'm happy that my videos were able to help you!

[@JOEYDEEZ369]

Well oooh la la You speak a whole lot of sense here Mr Alex… I’m a classic avoidant I’m wholly independent Slightly a lot indifferent and my freedom means everything to me I’ve never had an issue with attraction anyways my issue is I run as soon as I know a man likes me in that way… I think I’m allergic to romance hahah And I’m being chased by many men though I want to be in a relationship with none of them I like the single life too much I just can’t give it up… But hey ho… It is what it is !! Merci bcp for this valuable insight all the same monsieur Ciao hahaha

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching and for your comment!

[@JOEYDEEZ369]

@@FrenchRelationshipExpert No worries mon Ami… thanks for your reply ;)’

[@savedbygrace_loved]

Is this will work if my ex bf has a rebound?

[@MsLouisVee]

No

[@Safran1946]

Sick and tired of those little Games!

[@annthropomorphous]

I'm a clinically diagnosed avoidant, and I have to say, this is not right. We have no tolerance for deception. If we become distant and you pretend everything is fine when in fact it's not, you are only deceiving yourself and us. The only thing it tells us is you're desperate, too desperate that you would forego your own peace of mind for a piece of us. Do not do this. We don't want any clingers.

[@Anteater_Slayer6656]

But you become clinger when the same behaviour is done to you! When the partner is distant and not interested you became the same!

[@Gotoworkkk]

Buzz words

[@ak-47intelligence75]

That's probably if you KNOW they're being deceptive. Cause there are other avoidants out there too who behave the way avoidants do in their playbook. Also , even if you think the other person is desperate and trying to win you over by being avoidant, it doesn't matter. It's better to behave like an avoidant and withhold affection from people like you than accept you are avoidant and the sun shines out of your a** and give in to your manipulative tactics by showering avoidants with attention and admiration.

[@Intercultural-i8c]

u are so funny :) cheers alex

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate your support!

[@genbeaudry5063]

Only a MATURE MAN would understand everything said here😬🧐🙄

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Exactly!

[@heathermclouth5790]

Why is leo still on love with me i am trying to mske him get turned off by the more i turn him.off the more he wants me! This is strange!!

[@elarisa10]

That s a psychopath!

[@Celinaanthony-x6v]

Alex by 8 months, he allwes morning and evening he massage me, if iam sick he is worried and until I speak he is imoshanal, I am in Srilanka and he is in us. He is allwes tell. E I am his back bone. How can I believe him.

[@elarisa10]

Well dont,everyone can send you these tipe of messages...

[@simplesolutionbysaira]

Great

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@marlenejulies2233]

Great really always great 👍 👌 😀

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much!

[@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes]

❤❤❤

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@apoenaabreu257]

Damn Alex. Why are you so expensive 😔

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

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[@meddina9]

🎉🎉🎉

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

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[@keked7389]

I tried to talk to him severval times,now he sees me a nagging. Now I’m back off because I’m tired

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I'm so sorry to hear about this. How long have you guys been together?

[@keked7389]

@@FrenchRelationshipExpert 21/2 yrs

[@LunqCharlotte]

Very cool video A month ago, I ended a five-year relationship. My soulmate made the decision to walk away from me, and even though I've done everything in my power to get him back, I can't help but feel disappointed because I can't see my life with anyone else. I want to say that I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I simply can't. I miss him so much and I don't know why I'm saying this here.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I'm so sorry to hear about this. Be patient with yourself and give yourself time to heal. As time goes by, the pain will be less and less. Take this time to focus on yourself, surround yourself with supportive friends and family, and maybe take on a new hobby to get your mind off of your breakup or try something new and interesting. We are here for you ❤️

[@mariachirila6618]

I see you cause I've been there too. Trust me, you will get over him. Take your time to heal and work on yourself. Watch this kind of videos, journal, meditate, pray for guidance, get out of the house, talk to people you trust, read self-help books, write down again. Feel the pain and try to make sense of what happened. You both did the best you could. Love is still available to you and there isn't just one person who can love you. You are stronger than you think!🤗