Why men are equally scared of the concept of marriage | SPEAK UP HESITATIONS

[@vishaljaiswal6984]

Im 31 and still unmarried Reason 1 biased indian law Reason 2 fear of fake dowry and rape cases Reason 3 men are treated like dogs and even worst than that, if he is financially unstable and don't have good bank balance. So stay single.

[@FactsCountdown]

Same here I am 33 unmarried

[@sidoptom]

It's better to remain single than tolerate the tantrum of women. I am 50 and happily unmarried

[@sougatmohapatra8540]

34 guy unmarried..my entire youth spent on study, study... finally selected in a government job..anger, dipression, frustration almost killed me inside..no date, never talk with a girl, not interact with people during my studies..now parents put pressure for marriage 😔.. whenever I listen that word " marriage" headache start vomiting automatically..i want mental peace 😭😭🙏🙏😢🥺😔

[@crusadersfromtheeast3534]

Same here bro😂 govt job sucks 😮 no 👎 gf high stress

[@aniketp1081]

Watch Acharya prashanth videos and show them to your parents as well.

[@mainnahibataunga9712]

us bro us

[@vinoddhorajkar1399]

Ldki bhi govt job karti hai to shadi karna soch skte ho, maintenance in such cases can not be paid as for her it is difficult to leave job for just maintenance

[@AnkitGupta-o9c]

Beware of 498(a) before getting married....

[@prasadgaikwad7108]

Madam i am single at 50 and happy and independent. Earlier generation People hate me, but present generation Praise me for my decision taken earlier To remain single. After all globalization , Western culture has Crept into our siciety. Marriage has in Fact become outdated. You have Rightfully portrayed the actual situation. 👃👃👌👌

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

@@prasadgaikwad7108 mental peace is all we want 🌟😊

[@ankuaggarwal3397]

Me too having same situation.

[@sonujain2348]

​@@ankuaggarwal3397.50 women unmarried 😢😢😢how 😢😢

[@AnkitGupta-o9c]

I am 30 and decided to stay single forever.....

[@prasadgaikwad7108]

Mai 50 hu aur single and happy 🤩🤩

[@Devendra_Yadav108]

Hlo bhaiya how to contact u

[@ravikumar-nd2ju]

Kyu bhai?

[@AnkitGupta-o9c]

@@ravikumar-nd2ju shaadi kyun karein ??

[@ravikumar-nd2ju]

Lekin samaaj ko kya bologe?Aasan nahi hai.

[@ApetoTube]

I'm 30, still unmarried, and according to me one must get married for companion(at some point of life one might feel lonely as we're social animals, when our parents will grow old and passes away) in life's journey but child free to avoid all the problems.

[@shreeshasinghthakur7430]

Yess ofc

[@rahulattree3701]

My Age Is 30 And I Am Not Intersted To So-called Marriage I Am Single And Happy I Hate Marriage Ever I Love Freedom I Love My Self Only

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

🙌

[@sunnymoitra6124]

31 still unmarried, will remain so. Reason - gynocentric laws

[@reshmimallick2781]

Reason you don't earn enough to lord over a woman 😅😅

[@apoorvpandey4004]

Yaa I am also scared of the concept of marriage because I don't want any responsibility in my life. I also don't have that much money. I love myself. I am having so much attitude also. This is a big problem.

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

🫡

[@thegamechanger9124]

I wanted to to get married to a girl that i fell in love with. We had been together for almost 5 years but now she is with someone else. After being in terrible treatment and toxic relationship, after giving every single drop of love and everything. I can't and won't be able to live like before. Its been 3 years yet i am the one dying from inside while she is happy with the one who is doing terrible things to her. All she is sorry to me and that for only few things. She don't even know how much i loved her. She cheated me for 3 times straight still i give her chances. But she changed. Not for me. But like seeing her peers exploring and such stuffs (attractions). Anyways. What can be done. Atleast she is happy. 😊

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

☹️

[@reshmimallick2781]

Bhai you should have broke 💔 up with her after second time . Chance ek baar dete hai baar baar nahin . Waise bhi galat insaan ko last drop tak nahin Dena tha 😢woh bhi lagta Hai depression mai Hai use toxic insaan achha lag raha Matlab childhood family traumatic Hai.

[@thegamechanger9124]

@@reshmimallick2781 thnX for taking time to read and advice me 😊. And about that, I don't know. All I thing is maybe not in this life then in next life, perhaps. Kv toh mera intezar dikhega usse, kv toh aitbar mere pyr pr hoga usse. And I know she won't come and even if she comes, despite my love I shouldn't accept her. Let's see, will I be strong enough or be a crybaby like always. Anyways, let's keep spreading smile and positivity around ☺️

[@HimanshuYadav-wl7tk]

You have options ek hi thodi thi try brother

[@thegamechanger9124]

@@HimanshuYadav-wl7tk ye mujhe chain kyu nhií ptda, ek hi shaqs tha jahan me kya :) It's not about what she did, who she has become. It's all about you, love for her. The love isn't just an emotion and the promises were not just mere words. For me, the love in definite is about stay true to urself and ur words even when the person is not there. And aisa nhií h ki I didn't thought so. I have always got girls crushing over me and got indirect proposals too. But I just can't bring myself to even think about someone else. Khali hi sahi, uska hii. I know there might be someone whom I meet someday, would change aspects of my thoughts. But ryt now I just want to live in solitude with all the love and promises i did. My love story is all about me. Whatever she did, I still respect her. Though she is wrong. But who cares here. Kya sahi galat se aage kuch nhií yha? I want to become love myself, drown and dissolve in it. Prr haa dil dukhta h, ki woh kyu nhií h? Usne rasta yu q hi bdl liya? Kv kv hum glt log se milte h prr sabka Karan h! And thnX for showing concern. Hope u get everything u deserve. Take care

[@AnkitKumar-kk3iw]

Extramarital Affairs And High body count is the reason

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

🙌

[@chunnibabu108]

34 year old guy. Spent my life on being experimental. Indulged in various experiment ruined my corporate carrier. Not a single girl from brahmin community take a bet on me. dated a girl. My fvrt girl broke angagement bcz i was struggling. Just trying to drag my business somehow.lost lot of savings. Now planning to join corporate again. This community dont support your risk taking ability. 😊

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

☹️

[@ShrirajNimbhorkar-f9z]

33 single here. Its not easy living a lonely life until you figure out that life is itself full of problems and challenges no matter what you do be single or married. So set up new small excitibg challenges and learn to live alone

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

🌟

[@sumitsood9708]

I m 34 unmarried n happy...shdi barbaadi h..😝😝

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

🙌

[@luffywest]

One reason why marriage is failing, and this is something NO ONE will acknowledge: Lack of mind blowing sex for either partner, WILL create resistance in the dynamics of the relationship. If he can't orgasm, he will stop providing emotional safety for her at some point. If SHE can't orgasm, she'll stop providing herself to him. HOWEVER, if they are both responsible adults, and if they take up sex therapy, that ought to change things.

[@SnehaSingh-yw4er]

This can be seen in many men who are willing for marriage but also scared of the outcome of it and the responsibly that will come with it. The pressure along with the judging socity it a lot to handle. This was my thought on this didi.

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

Additionally yes! 🌟

[@mayurseth4769]

If you have maturity then you shouldn't afraid....

[@Gk-ry8rg]

Marrige is nowdays become business for woman forst they marry a rich guy then divorces him and tontake almony she fie various maintaince cases and dv cases as well take money amd gone simple

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

@@Gk-ry8rg yea! unethical.

[@Suhanyy8]

Even women doesn't want to gold digger men who ask dowry and gifts plus their mom expect them to be maid by 24/7

[@reshmimallick2781]

Kitne case yeh waise usse zyada to pati patni ko murder ke cases news mai zyada hai . Jao 10 saal ke news Google Karo newspaper dekho 😂😂😂😂

[@akshendoke450]

Very few people in the world have understood the concept of marriage aka choosing a life partner! In India basically it was a social norm to be married to a person at a certain age but now due to change in global thinking, women also being financially free and always wanting better option, the institute of marriage is failing

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

✔️

[@sealcommando6339]

It's because you set higher and higher expectation from a human being by watching some kind of shit movies from Bollywood, you don't want to compromise anything u want your partner should only listen to u, he should not care about his mother father. It's simple concept you have to deal with your own shit in this life or another, karma hits back,

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

@@sealcommando6339 🌟

[@thewildyogi21]

34 single upsc studies ruined life , never been into relationship, ........a lot to say... 😏

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

@@thewildyogi21 understood ☹️

[@ApetoTube]

Me too i don't believe in the concept of marriage, and if you can guarantee that in your 40s, 50s and so on won't feel lonely without companion then getting married doesn't make any sense.

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

Could be😌

[@rajatchaudhary481]

Thanks Mam for Discussing this.

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

🌟

[@A.Kumar009]

I am not interested in marriage.....it's waste of life forever nowadays......

[@reyankisku3934]

Graph of marriage will keep decreasing You will see It's just a beginning Just like Europeans

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

🙌

[@sealcommando6339]

What u will expect, if Indian youths will follow this garbage culture, we had so many great things but because of social media every one is coming and spitting garbage around,

[@MukeshKumar-yx9xc]

I am 36 single

[@NRG-kb3ew]

Being a Gen Z teen..i have different views about marriage....i wont practice promiscuity like all metropolitan city people are following till they get married...i have standards....divorce rate is high because couples dont want to adjust and indulge into practices like B D S M , cuckoldry , lust drives relationship nowadays more than love the girl i met recently would be least bothered about my feelings....and everytime would text me saying im needy...i want to make love ( on text ofc ) so i broke up with her....because lust is part of a relationship not the reason for being in a relationship

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

🌟

[@bishalgayan2915]

I have seen your video for the first time. U forgot to highlight the main reason why men are not wanting to marry anymore "Unequal and biased laws in india wherein the man and his family has everything to lose after marriage. A woman is the sole gainer be it after marriage or divorce." Boys in india should adopt the mentality of surviving alone until laws are made equal for both gender. But unfortunately there are lot of simps in our society. Just sharing my view. Need not to get offended.

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

Spark of reality ✨

[@Shivi47]

Can u Make a video on should i must married at 25? How to handle societal pressure and focus on career as a girl

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

@@Shivi47 I'll try 😊

[@d05vipulsingh26]

Guts hona chiye society pressure ko lat marne kaa Unko saddi ke laddu kha ke nikal jana hai Nibhana tumko hai so tum comfortable ho tho karo phir agar society roti hai tho rone doo Family members bhi kuch ulta pulta bol rahe hai tho apna kam karo agai badho Kuch ho ya na ho love hona chiye yai chij bathu kuch sahne ka power deti hai 😂❤

[@dilboleentertainment5358]

Maine toh bachpan mein hi decide kar liya tha ki main kabhi shaadi nahi karunga...

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

You might have realised something very deep. I could be wrong. 🌟

[@neerajrawat8214]

Bachpan me soch liya tha😂

[@Tylerkingclub]

Bhaiyo, Shadi krlo, kyunki is desh ko narak nhi banne dena hai.... Sari ladkiyan khrab nhi hoti....aatanki samaj ke log badh jayenge to ye desh narak ho jayega...fir kya jiyoge. tum..

[@Luckybhai9315]

Evolve nahi hua madam deteriorate hua hai

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

Kind of.🌟

[@Hedger108]

Soch ke bolo laki ​@@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr

[@BhupinderSingh-ih8kd]

...And it's not a big deal if we do have multiple partners

[@BhupinderSingh-ih8kd]

Humans have evolved from the Apes and that's why like them, we're also polygamous. I mean to say that it's in our very biological setup to have multiple partners especially in physical relationship matters.

[@thegamechanger9124]

Don't make fun of the very evolution u r result off...🥺

[@ponygupta5550]

I'll tell you my POV After Independence, India was struggling economically and socially There were a good number of people dependent on each other, almost every family had a minimum of 8, 9 or 10 kids. Weddings used to work on this mass population basis Think wisely, Ghar wapsi hogai toh Inka kharcha kaun uthaayega, kaise paalenge aur log kya kya kahenge On the male end, if a woman left toh, who'll cook food, how will society treat us and how will manage without our pota and poti Courtesy of the economic revolution, everyone is doing well and with that the entire life scenario and thought process is upgraded 🎉 Life is good for everyone but remember there's a huge cap between ego and EGO 😀

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

🌟

[@informative_.y5xq]

ab ek new law introduce karna chahiye SEAL CHECK LAW shadi se pehle fingering krke check krna chhaiye aur medical report . Kabhi pills to nhi khayi Do not accept if this seal is broken

[@studymusicrelax3230]

WThere are many reasons like 1.High expectations (becz of influence of social media where they show us impractical things just vo log dikhayege ki aisa hi hota h koi rishta best example bollywood ). 2.rishte isi liye bhi kharab hote h q ki proper communication nahi hota dono ke beech they don't feel to talk or stand for each other or as a individual. 3.ghar wale agar bolenge ki padhai kar le acchi sundar ladki milegi Jo khana banake khilayegi to after getting good job they just want to full fill their wishes q ki bachpan se sikha dia gaya ab us ladka ya ladki ko kya pata rishte nibhane ke bare me.parents should teach ki responsibility kaise le eak dusre ki rather than just caring about the work which they get paid. 4.because of insecurity jaise apne dikhaya h ki devorce ke karan log shadi nahi karte ya phir sochte h ki dhoka de ke bhaag jayega to mai bata du ki u should choose what is right for you naki jiska need ho and trust your person are yaar matlab logo ko apne choise pe hi trust nahi h pakka dil tuta hua reels dheakte honge😂😂😂. And agar dhoka Mila bhi to tumhara galti thodi tha usme so just chill What do you say abot this didi?🙂 If you are reading it and like it hit like button

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

Brilliant 🌟

[@partimejob6518]

This comment is better than this above video

[@studymusicrelax3230]

​@@partimejob6518 Thank u ❤😂😊

[@rohittiwari7019]

WOW really nice

[@user-krishn1]

Date enough

[@malconxrar7375]

charactersless and fatherless girls are the main reason

[@Suhanyy8]

What about character of the men? Why tinder is filled up with married men with 2 pr 3 kids ? Why they lie about there marital status?

[@yogendrachouhan5747]

Main budhiya se shadi karunga uski property ke liye😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr]

Jokes apart. I know.

[@yogendrachouhan5747]

@AmayiraJyoti-mi3tr 🤣🤣🙏🙏

[@publicgrievance5423]

To be honest you are not speaking the real reason or afraid of getting troll or youtube guild lines