Why Men Leave x Sarah Jakes Roberts and Bishop TD Jakes

Pastor Sarah Jakes Roberts and Bishop TD Jakes have a candid father-daughter talk about family, relationships, and legacy at the 2019 Woman Evolve Conference.
Catch the full session titled "Daddy Issues" on Woman Evolve TV.

[@elisheva.9554]

My Father left i was 4 yrs old...And i never said the word daddy again....I waited for him to come through the 🚪 but no trace of him.And when i turned 27 my cousin called me and told me he passed away.His sister told her not to tell my mom and her kids...We weren't invited to the funeral nor mentioned in the obituary...My mom was married to him with 7 children but we were forgotten by him and that side of the family....If Jesus didn't save me and help me to forgive i don't know where I'd be...Only grace and mercy💚

[@elzerda5562]

❤I understand and feel you at the same time🙏

[@poetrybeforesunset4035]

😘 My dad was abusive. At about thirteen I started calling him father and not daddy as a way to avidly protect my heart. I have not called him daddy ever again.

[@thesilentechoes]

Wow. Stories that hardly see the light of the day. Sorry about this

[@obiageliarisamadiebo4240]

This is shocking Thank GOD you met with our LORD JESUS 🙏

[@donnafletcher4246]

So sorry. But Hod is your Father in Heaven. He’ll be there all the time.

[@msve3730]

It's one thing when a man listens to you but its a total Joy when a man understands you.

[@heruammen8522]

Bottom line, every man wants peace in their home. A woman wants peace too. But she needs to feel secure to have the peace in her heart that she can give to her man. The relationship will not last if there is no peace for the man or security for the woman.

[@mrwalker1932]

Dog I swear kevin samuels has caused a good uproar in our community I have never heard these subjects abroad like this and holding our women accountable

[@primrosechinanga4420]

That's very true we all want peace

[@crachal1223]

Exactly, you demand peace, but provide NO security. That’s a problem.

[@created.3679]

@@crachal1223 I agree. The problem is that the man is broken, and that’s why he leave.

[@AET1689]

This is the only comment I appreciate bc it seems to be the only one that doesn’t put full onus on the woman to do the work. Both parties have to be aware and accountable for themselves

[@petit-four1404]

Beautiful! “The first victory for man is he didn’t quit.” Amen

[@melaninbotswana2474]

In today's modern women ferminism its very hard not to leave its just hard and the kids suffer most men for the most part can be not worth millions but they never allow toxic friendships with their buddies to be invasive as women, women will tell their girlfriends how big your D is or what is your favorite position men are a little conservative

[@northstarfamily5299]

That Part is 🗝️

[@josephdixon778]

Amy kids mothers is always saying I give up

[@quin8463]

I did all that and he still was disrespectful

[@veronacasimpson344]

@@quin8463 girl, that part, it's frustrating to feel like you have to LITERALLY cater to them. .. Yet, what about our feelings, the mess is crazy...

[@user-dn3ib7oc6g]

“If you have something critical to say, pick a time when your emotions aren’t in it.” 👏👏

[@TiffanyBTV]

Okayyyy pure wisdom

[@margotaylor6157]

Wen my emotions aren’t in it… hmmm wen is that!!? Is what I thought. Uhhhhh never! I got work to do!!! 😬

[@SerendipityPoint]

I just did. And this man is a teacher of false doctrine, and I have no emotion about it other than to do with the Bible says: 2 Timothy 4:2 “Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine. This man contradicts what the holy Bible says a man should do in relation to his wife in relation to God. Instead of preaching the Bible, this man makes excuses for the sinful husband rather than reprove him of his sins and preach the Bible.

[@imsohouston3381]

Yessss I heard that loud and clear...gotta put that to use often 🙌🏾

[@pamshairexpo3892]

Yessssss💯🙌🏾💯🙌🏾

[@fortheladies771]

Can we just appreciate how great they look?! 👏

[@upbornwoman9334]

Or the quality of their minds?

[@obailey973]

Men leave because they need to be gone. Who God has for you, is for you!!

[@lisaquarles8094]

The truth is a lot of men don’t want to stay to do the hard work. It takes a lot of energy to stay married and get through those hard times.

[@Kb-bj4jq]

Are you talking about the constant moods swings? That's not work, thats a burden 😂

[@Kb-bj4jq]

@Joyful n Blessed Men know what y'all go through, we do. But some women have a good man. In a good man's mind his goal is to never leave like their father did, but sometimes we have to choose our peace...especially if and after we've tried and our wife or queen does not want to get better.

[@Kb-bj4jq]

@Joyful n Blessed I hear what you're saying but it's common knowledge that eating healthy is best. Women expect men to wait some number of years for them to start eating healthy and heal from years and years of trauma and it becomes draining. The only time I've ever seen a black woman loose weight is because a man left her. So basically we have to leave for yall to become better which is sad.

[@Kb-bj4jq]

@Joyful n Blessed We do need to come together. Maybe the next generation will be bettter.

[@jamesoglesby2601]

No it's the fact that y'all want us to do to much work and get nothing out of it.

[@blessingdivine4838]

Bishop TD Jakes, the devil wanted to humiliate you with Sarah's teen pregnancy but God turned it around to humiliate the devil to his face. Sarah you are blessed. You really have shamed the devil. What God cannot do doesn't exist. We have hope. God bless!

[@oneof7billion627]

That is soooo true..Gen.50:20!

[@SuchASaint]

My God, he took what was broken and molded it into one of the most powerful testimonies that is touching millions.

[@bglr2783]

But, Sarah went on to marry a divorcee which is prohibited in the Bible.

[@wefinnasee7067]

The devil??

[@KiRetteCouture]

Perhaps Sarah made a mistake and had the love of God and her family to help her back on her feet. There's a place for people's choices too.

[@marlenahawkins7098]

So many women are the bread winners nowadays and the men won’t provide

[@southernstyle7751]

I love how professional and how she listens without interrupting

[@brotha_pedat]

Its her Dad, not her boss, so professionalism isn't entirely an appropriate term; it's reverence - and reverence is mandatory for children.

[@dre.supreme]

"We go to where the claps are, not the criticisms." FACTS!!!!!!!!

[@cherokeewhitemilner]

That’s sad

[@rhodalinesalaam3429]

Today, you don’t have have to criticize him. They just feel entitled to go whoring and a woman must endure . Are they babies who don’t ever grow?

[@kpt3462]

And women want to be where they are loved, affirmed, appreciated and not cheated on. Facts

[@ulaper6465]

Take your personal dirt out to the public, yup, lunatics

[@nubiancutey2530]

So basically, don't tell you all what you're doing to hurt us cuz you'll just end up going where you're being pacified and getting your ego stroked.. Right!

[@wrinthiak3431]

"It takes 30 minutes for a wedding but 30 years to learn to be married." So true; I'm sorry that both my husband and I quit 22 years too soon.

[@itiswell]

❤🙏🏾

[@ladennayoung2939]

Why are you apologizing?

[@barbarabernadin3320]

Sound of regret

[@DDTHEGREAT9900]

What a word you just said

[@wrinthiak3431]

@@barbarabernadin3320 very much so

[@seasonwolfe326]

Your Identity has to be rooted in God

[@PSALMSOFSONGS]

Absolutely. When you know WHOSE you are, you know WHO you are.

[@seasonwolfe326]

It the Game changer

[@milleryrichardson6703]

Yes totally

[@liveintentional2659]

Truth. This statement is so profound.

[@ladennayoung2939]

Yes on both sides.

[@jeansouffrant2671]

We want peace, and respect…..Once those things are gone so is the marriage….

[@kermishadebbi]

And if you created the situation for the peace and respect to be gone?? Do you still expect it?

[@levornspencer5752]

Then you’re the problem, because it’s all about you. Peace comes from God that’s the ultimate peace you can have. And respect is earned, so what you truly want is a woman allowing all of your insanity to take place in ya’lls home and not say anything. So when you’re confronted you get defensive because most men feel , I’m a man I can do what I want. When you get married it’s a 3 person relationship God you and your wife. And that’s why most relationships don’t work because they don’t have God in them.

[@Brandigarrison372]

My parents divorced when I was four. I saw my Dad on the weekends and he instilled a lot of values. Going back and forth I promised myself that I would make sure my children didn't grow up separated from either one of us. It happened anyway. My children are going through the same way. I feel so sorry for them. Father's are the protectors and Mother's are the nuturers.

[@nyahnichols3831]

I agree with Sarah , I feel attack when someone I love corrects me. I feel like I failed in every area. I get defensive. Also Bishop is right there’s a time for everything and I have to work on that. Lord help me not push people away because my defensiveness. Also help me listen and not talk all the time.

[@EButta71]

I can relate to this. I pray the same prayer🙏🏾

[@merewhimsynailsacrylics7199]

I relate as well!! And pray the same prayer amen

[@sheliaglass484]

You are not alone in feeling this!

[@jolenejojo8583]

I can relate to this. Amen

[@brandi17able]

Girl this comment has me shouting… I am The same way and it bothers my family to no end…

[@liveintentional2659]

“What gave your compliment so much validity is your criticism that proceeded it. The fact that you had the courage to tell me when I was wrong, makes me believe you when you tell me I am right.” This is so deep! Thank you for sharing.

[@magkat7922]

Felt it too. Sarah is very wise 🙌🏾😍❤️❤️

[@tboykin13tb]

The DagGone 🧅 Cutters, Ahhhh 😭.... 💝

[@womanrestored7742]

I tell you those last words, so deeeeepp!!! Wow I love this

[@georgenewilson661]

Very deep! Thanks to you for putting it here…

[@priscamwamba5237]

Deep stuff Cassandra 👏👏👏

[@Journeyofthehouse]

married 23 years and THIS is a great and very true talk!!! wow, accurate!!

[@FitPasson]

Congrats!! To you two 🙌🏼🙏🏼 I just celebrated 19 years, our children are grown . Now it feels so much lighter more fun then ever before. I have learned a tremendous amount of information over the years , and today now with this video. We make things soo hard sometimes it’s really not even worth it.. Let go & let god is my continuous message to myself.

[@Journeyofthehouse]

@@FitPasson yes indeed

[@minyhonebowman]

I miss my father. 😞. I met my dad when I was 33. He passed away 6 months later from small cell lung cancer. I had been looking for my father for years and come to find out he was living down the street from where I worked. I worked at the hospital for 5 years. Lately, he has been heavily on my mind. I looked out my kitchen window and saw a beautiful cardinal. He wouldn’t leave. He stayed playing in the yard. It made me feel so happy inside. The last time I seen a cardinal was with my dad the first day I met with him. I believe that was my father. ❤️❤️🌹

[@streetdisciples205]

Man i just heard pastor TD jakes first sentence of this sermon.....he ain't kidding don't ever give up on a man or woman who doesn't quit.....instead hit em with a assist because little do you know people that have been through a lot in life it gives them so much passion beyond what you ever thought.... that causes there breakthrough for change/growth/success.100%

[@streetdisciples205]

Meaning it shows you really care for them and that means transformation is around the corner....don't kick people down because what you kick might spring up that you didn't realize what you were kicking

[@sarahtilahun1429]

I'm trying to hold on until his transformation but the accusations are pushing me away daily. He doesn't talk to understand, he talks to hear himself and hurt me. Nothing has been accomplished in any of our conversations of the last month or so

[@ShannonsBibleStudy]

This message is damaging and setting women up for failure and possibly abuse. Adults are responsible for their own mental health, attitude and how we treat people. It's not someone else's job to coddle anyone else and accept poor treatment.

[@ggmp1104]

@@sarahtilahun1429 try to understand where he’s coming from. His past. BUT.. you can see when a man has quitted on you. If he quits, then its done.

[@shaniekmontieth2402]

So true

[@hadirtsasworld]

"The fact that you have the courage to tell me when am wrong, makes me belive when you say I am right". Father and daughter relationship goals ❤️🙌

[@royhill4439]

In this month, I prophesy into your life today, as you knock, doors of opportunities shall be opened unto you. As you seek, you shall find favour before men and God. As you ask, all your prayers shall be answered. May God bless you with what you prayed for, reward you with what you worked for, grant you with what you hope for and surprise you with what you have not asked for. So shall it be in the mighty name of Jesus..... God almighty bless you abundantly

[@Yraur]

10- 2- 2022 What are daughter - father goal ? Never heard of that before.

[@nolaclarke253]

We don't care what men want or do. Peace and serenity is what we want.

[@dionhope9156]

ONE thing I Truly Miss about my Dad ( 7 years pass) is how proud he would tell me he was of me. 😢 There is multitudes of Blessings to see a father’s tears of their child’s well-being ❤️

[@trayshana]

Agree

[@d0x5j0]

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️💪

[@Yraur]

7-29-22 Are you kidding me. You must be a boy child. Your dad saying he was proud of you is not any better or more than all your mother did. Did your mother forget to tell you she was proud of you? Did you enjoy your mother giving birth to you, bathing, hugging, getting you ready for school, cooking, cleaning your diapers, changing your bed clothes, washing and ironing, sweeping, protecting, providing, smiling, touching, food,when she fed you, and cared for you? Or did only your dad give to you?

[@maldothawilliams7450]

👗👩‍💼💒

[@tinaj9621]

That's beautiful that you has that with your dad. Sounds like a wonderful man😌. Some of us never or rarely receive that from our fathers and grieve most times unknowingly, via that void that lasts a lifetime.

[@NsikeSibisi]

Some men you can give them the world on a silver platter, treat them with kindness and compassion, wait for the right time to talk, put them first, love them unconditionally, give them encouragement and support, give them freedom / space, raise the kids well, cook, clean, keep the home warm but they will still leave you, have a wondering eye etc. So this defiantly doesn't go for all men, men leave for countless reasons, they can't all be boxed to one reason, unfortunately.

[@keirranorfleet8677]

agreed!

[@tansiobi]

There are always clowns 🤡 like you in the comments who will do anything to discredit things said about men that don’t make them look like monsters. Not one time did he mention all men. Neither did he imply that this is the situation with all men. Everything you just said proves that you make bad decisions and don’t know how to pick men. Go to therapy, take accountability for your bad decisions and quit being bitter.

[@NsikeSibisi]

@@tansiobi You are very very entitled to YOUR opinion, just like I am to mine. I do not discredit you at all, I do not discredit them either because this was their perspective on the topic - Did I strike a nerve perhaps ?!

[@tansiobi]

@@NsikeSibisi Nope. You didn’t. Just calling out your BS. But of course, the typical female response; did I strike a nerve, who hurt you, insecure….. LOL

[@alexismatthews3486]

If you haven’t already, please listen to Bishop R.C. Blake’s Jr. Now his teaching will bless your life!! Always great to get a perspective from someone truly called, anointed and appointed. And your statement is true! Have a blessed day.

[@lmnmoves]

🙏🏽🧡 .I am praying for everyone who needs a Miracle. Only God can do the impossible, He can make a way when there seems to be no way. Today I pray God touches your health, your home, your family, your faith, and your finances. God bless you Amen! If you are reading this, I hope you know that you are unique and capable of creating amazing things in your life. Wish you lots of happiness, peace and success

[@shellagladney528]

GOD bless you too!!

[@lmnmoves]

@@shellagladney528 thank you very much . God bless you and your family wish you a new day full of blessings, health and happiness 🙏🏻

[@msmamamiaintx]

Amen! Thank you for that! The same to you🙏🏾♥️

[@lmnmoves]

@@msmamamiaintx Thanks and God bless all 🙏 Amen 🤍🕊🤍🕊👑✝️⚓❤

[@julittaallen4576]

🙏🙏🏽🙏🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️🌎🌍🌏🙏🙏🏽🙏🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️ BACK TO WHOEVER WROTE THIS POST....TO: Praise Worship Music here on Saturday, January 29, 2022. Love.

[@melb8352]

You can pray for a man, marry him, build a beautiful life together, travel, have great relationships with in-laws, keep his house clean, have snacks and dinner ready when he walks in, give him peace, do his laundry, give him your body whenever he wants it, honor his every request with a servant's heart, love him, treat him with kindness, dignity, and respect and that man will STILL CHEAT ON YOU AND WALK OUT YOUR LIFE. Some men leave no matter what you do. Your first love must always be God❤️

[@215_B]

This sounds like a very personal statement. That said, if it is, I understand your reasoning for posting it. However, when you have a man explaining the situation (not excusing the behavior), it could be beneficial for you to listen. I mean this with no disrespect. If there’s a woman explaining to me how you all think and the reasoning behind certain behaviors, I’m going to pay special attention to her because she knows what it’s like to be a woman. I don’t.

[@melb8352]

@@215_B Exactly

[@_shesmarjorie]

That’s because men that you’ve just described have a deep rooted issue, it’s a him problem not the women’s problem. Some men are not willing to put in the work to go to a therapist or bring their unhealed wounds to Jesus for Him to heal. They would rather jump from women to women to feel some sort of validation or love yet they won’t find it, so they’ll leave and look around until they feel that sense of satisfaction.

[@melb8352]

@@_shesmarjorie very true

[@malissawhite4569]

I’m ONE Queen who like “direct and straight forwardness.”

[@GoldenBossQueen]

When I tell you God’s Timing is PERFECT. 🙏🏽❤️ amen

[@malindalewis5715]

Yasssssss 🙏♥️

[@sis5239]

AMEN

[@sophiamaynard769]

Amen 🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@LynnProds]

Men leave because of free will. Their morals and values will make them stay or take care of his family from a distance. No excuses

[@AA-qd4pq]

THANKS FOR SAYING THIS! You are 100% on target and stated so much more succinctly than I was about to comment. When do we stop blame shifting, harboring and making space for mens' blatant ADULT choices and give them room to take responsibility for themselves?

[@DC45193]

lies. thats developed.

[@natashabrown6147]

I agree!!

[@InHisService772]

THIS!!! ⬆️ 🆙 ⬆️

[@mavismaliosane7231]

True...

[@KingPharon18]

A preacher that is in love with the microphone is not what’s impressive, but rather a preacher that’s in love with his family is!

[@chatbout1574]

Unconditional love is only for God, everything else has conditions

[@latoyab8337]

“It takes 30 mins for a wedding but 30 years to learn to be married “ that’s so true.

[@berniemcbgood7674]

Your ears are very sensitive to truth, huh? LaToya B "stay focused my friend "

[@royhill4439]

In this month, I prophesy into your life today, as you knock, doors of opportunities shall be opened unto you. As you seek, you shall find favour before men and God. As you ask, all your prayers shall be answered. May God bless you with what you prayed for, reward you with what you worked for, grant you with what you hope for and surprise you with what you have not asked for. So shall it be in the mighty name of Jesus...... God almighty bless you abundantly

[@TriciaRP]

Not true..........

[@moniquewhite3810]

Even though I love and respect Bishop I would love to see you sit across others that are not family and explore their oponions

[@realestatemack5038]

As I listen to this, trying my best to hold on to this relationship for the sake of my daughters to grow up im a 2 parent household this message hits so deeply. I have to understand me leaving this relationship is not me leaving my daughters or giving up on fatherhood. There is no benefit in a 2 parent household if that household produces more toxicity than love.

[@ghoulape6976]

I lived that. Best thing said to me was a child needs to see their dad being treat right too.

[@christyd1807]

I pray things got better bro

[@realestatemack5038]

@@christyd1807 thank you, it will, always does!

[@metapixusion]

So my parents stayed together because of “the kids” . The environment was so toxic that I wish they would’ve separated and been happy individually. I keep them both at a distance. I would just say focus on your relationship with your daughter and find yourself a partner that you value and appreciate and values/appreciates you. Don’t stay and suffer.

[@levornspencer5752]

It’s not your daughters you’re leaving first, you’re leaving God. You saw these things before you married, but you ignored them. Now man up and get counseling and stay in your marriage

[@johannysmedel5988]

Since the year 2000 watching TBN I saw TD Jakes for the fist time in my life. I had just given my life to Christ. I new I need to hear him daily and I did. 22 years later HE IS STILL MY #1. I even fell inlove with Serita Jakes his wife and her support, her voice and the start of how his program started and I knew that was a tight marriage. When he came to preach at the University of Miami in Miami at the stadium there, I went to see him and my sister took me and today she is inlove with your preaching Sarah. Mind you she was not a believer herself til recently in the Christian Faith. God is amazing. I never had my dad. I never saw a Real man at my home. My mother's taste of man were all married winppy and flaky. This message is powerful and specially cause it's coming from someone I believed his preaching and character since I saw him on tv, YOUR DAD.

[@fifinyakio8003]

It's a grace from God to have a father like this.

[@mpakempake3235]

Very true.

[@mpakempake3235]

Very true.

[@sudana08]

"The first victory for a man is that they didn't quit"

[@sherrynelson365]

Amen when you raise your children right it will always come back in VICTORY!!!

[@phyllislawson3294]

Is it Valentine Day. What is the occasion, all the red Girl, you are definitely, still in love with, your husband. Go and get that, man, if you love him.

[@yolandawest-able4367]

Unfortunately that is not true....but I wish it were. 😢

[@joannawofford]

Everything doesn't have to be discussed sometime you have to talk to God and leave it in the hands of God

[@jackmartin5531]

Most times you just have to take an action, just act right and that’s all.

[@msbellegenice]

I love how you she looks at her daddy. I definitely miss mine! 😢 You’re so blessed!! ♥️

[@vernissadavis7777]

I know what you mean. It's beautiful! I miss mine too. His birthday would have been 2 weeks from now. A whole year in Feb. That he's been gone. God bless you!

[@reahleneroberts4358]

Sorry about your dad

[@MB-iv4mq]

I agree with bishop and I as a Army combat veteran who has had to endure some of the most rigorous training in the world and been deployed to a foreign country will say this in short it s not that men don t want to stay but many women in America understand that I as a man have a spirit which means I'm alive and well and they also understand that I have a body which provides protection, procreation,problem solving and provision, but somewhere along the way women have forgotten that we men also have a SOUL, which means I want to be respected and appreciated for my efforts. We are not just bell boys for the world. We also have emotions. Women understand this about their sons but do you realize that your husband is someone else's son. God bless.

[@lyuanaaustin6694]

"What is said and what is heard are often two different things." This is soooo powerful! Thank you both!

[@justbeingme3415]

We need to stop making excuses for men leaving and start telling men to stay or at least tell them no matter what the issue is with the mom they still need to be there for the child. Courts can take care of the mom "not letting them" so that's not an excuse either. Men flee freely but the mom is stuck with all the responsibility, in most cases. Moms are tired and would like a few minutes of peace when they get home from work too but they don't get it because Dad is gone! There are no breaks for the parent who stayed with the responsibility.

[@Av1ance]

I’m going through this right now! Like how can I be happy and smile when you get home after I took the child to school worked myself then get the child from school. My husband come texting me about what’s for dinner to me waiting til he comes home about 7 or 8 and he goes and smoke weed instead of getting the child giving me a break to him saying how can he come home to me having a attitude, then to him saying well maybe I should leave and stay away from you then you’ll be happy.

[@justbeingme3415]

@@Av1ance I'm so sorry you're going through this. I hear the frustration in your words. I've been there and I pray it gets better. 🤗

[@brandi17able]

Men should not skirt their responsibilities but we women have to be careful who we lay down with too.. make sure he is from God and y’all our married…

[@ashleypretty80]

I was thinking the same thing….I tired of hearing these weak excuses as into why men don’t take care of their kids because if they love they kids like they do nothing will keep them from being there for them.

[@1995tamzy]

@@ashleypretty80 someone who understands. It's like they're telling women be far from human put men's needs first be small and make sure they don't leave make sure it's not ur fault even when it's theirs . Sorry but I'm calling a bluff.

[@yvonnesmith9127]

I really needed to hear this because my other half aways take my words the wrong way,I love him very much and I only want what's best for him,however I gotta understand that men talk and listen differently from woman...I gotta start praying before I speak because I don't wanna hurt him or push him away,I also have to fully understand that , it's not what I say, it's how I say it

[@IJusLuvDance]

The father daughter relationship between these two is everything. Very loving, caring, and passionate. I love it! Daddy Jakes got me over here crying! Continue to be blessed! ❤️

[@ThePriam3]

I’m interested in hearing the flip side of a convo like this. women have been doing the work( fitness, therapy, being feminine) & trying to learn, but all we’re learning is how to treat a bunch of (entitled, undeserving) men well -just to have relationships.

[@kingg7457]

Hi. You're on the right track. Just tell God to allow you to want the right type of men. 54% of BM are single and childless. 61% are in the middle class. The stats show they are the ones you friend zone.

[@ThePriam3]

@@kingg7457 Thanks for sharing..that's an interesting approach I haven't heard of before at least not in that way, but think I see what you're saying... it's like asking for and using discernment in those spaces. What's your take on the flip side? Any thoughts or advice to share for men on fostering & maintaining positive relationships?

[@kingg7457]

@ThePriam3 Most certainly. As a young man myself, I encourage all men who are marriage minded to "Become" in order to lead a healthy traditional household as a unit. The number one trait men want is cooperation. In order to get it, he must become.

[@KG-bliss]

I wish this conversation between you two would carry on... I think there's wisdom you can impart here... And it gives us women hope that there are men who want to become.. God bless🙏🏾

[@kingg7457]

@@KG-bliss Hi. Actually there are plenty. The stats show there are plenty of BM who can provide for a stable household and 43% out of 54% of BM surveyed have a desire for marriage or long-erm relationships. It's just that there's a need for the Black Modern day church to champion traditional relationships. We've become way too liberal and independent of one another which challenges the success of finding suitable mates.

[@elisastyleswilliamson2701]

This make me miss my dad. RIP Dad missed but never forgotten.

[@aplusdiva7006]

A man should not blame a woman or the child when he decides to be an absentee father. Children need alot of guidance, structure, love, ideas, acceptance, examples, family support. If you yourself never had that we owe ourselves to treat ourselves in our highest self-esteem. I know who I am and what I've been through but even God See's me greater than All my flaw's.

[@espritsmith243]

So well said 💕

[@aplusdiva7006]

@@espritsmith243 Thank you love 💕, I hope your doing well as well ☺️

[@jbgram5165]

I don't believe most men blame either. Some simply don't have what it takes to endure the relationship and all that's required. In some situations the woman aid in him leaving. The hardest thing I did was to leave because my marriage was toxic. I didn't want my kids to see their parents emotionally apart and arguing all the time. My kids live with me because it was to much for her. We coparent together but she can't handle the pressure all alone. My ex lives in my house. I pay the mortgage. My kids and I live in another city. I left her and our kids came with me. I had more peace at work than at home. I'm happily remarried now. My kids love their mom and they respect their stepmother.

[@jayrobinson2227]

Alot women run men away

[@RyMuEntertainment]

SOME men run away because of all of those things. However the nature of a man is to protect and provide. What you missed was the fact that some of us aren't able to deal with the pressures, because we ourselves are broken. Now there's no excuse to leave your kids, save for the many advantage plays a women employ against men, in my opinion... However My father did it and he still hasn't really made it right. I know he's broken somewhere in his heart, but his true failure is that he has passed on the same brokeness. The beauty in all this, is that he has caused me to make a decision to always be around my children. No matter what. I'll deny myself to make them happy! Breaking the generational curse!🙏🏾

[@npcertificationacademyllc8926]

I love the daughter and father relationship

[@murphkish2984]

Women need/desire all of those same things as well; however, most often, we’re expected to put our needs/desires aside to appease the man. On repeat.

[@factthatdude4059]

Are you speaking from your own personal experience? We can’t speak on “most” because we aren’t in most relationships

[@markeytagrays7119]

I came here to say this, we need these things too but we have to suck it up and make sure the man is happy so they don’t leave… ya no thanks

[@Yraur]

@@markeytagrays7119 We hope you're being sarcastic but just in case you are serious.... we should tell women and girls, that no man, is ever more important than a woman. We have let men act egotistical, far too long. If you let your husband dad......control. boss, scold, lecture, maneuver, dominate, abuse you....he will. Buy he will still expect you to cook and clean and provide sex. Get your own good job, money, insurance, 401k, so he won't walk around, boasting and bragging about how he provides for you and how much he has bought and he paid for this and that. More and more, we see evil in men. Watch out ladies.

[@candicerodriguez1610]

I had a really hard time stomaching this conversation. So many of the things you said men had to deal with and endure are the same things we struggle with. We struggle with things done to us at work, we struggle with what happened to us as children and adolescents, we struggle with maybe not being criticized but struggling to be appreciated. I feel a lot of skirting around the responsibility that men have in their roles. We are expected to me mothers, providers, nurturers and partners who pour into others. We feel just as misunderstood as men. Certainly having compassion for men is necessary but please stop acting like women aren’t dealing with any of the issues y’all deal with. Regardless, our role and our job goes on.

[@upbornwoman9334]

Yeah but l am Nigerian and l live in Nigeria and the truth is many women don't know how to keep a man and Communicate. I have seen verbal abuses from women simply because most of them speak much. You are right only if the man wants to live like a single man but a woman was created by God to function a certain way. She nurtures, She manufactures, she comforts and darling, a man needs peace most importantly.

[@anngee792]

Right and who gives it women.

[@roniekahchabalala9237]

I think you misunderstood him. We live in a world where a woman's needs and almost all of the things that you've mentioned are things that are well known and appreciated by the world and our men. They are things that we demand and we expect to get no questions asked. But men don't enjoy the same privilege. I think Bishop was trying to show us that men also have the same needs. He wasn't disregarding a woman's needs at all

[@TrunxKraft3000]

@@roniekahchabalala9237 That's exactly it!!

[@theunaccompaniedmom]

@@roniekahchabalala9237 exactly. It just goes back to what he said earlier. A man will say something but women hear what they want to hear

[@cjbfire95]

I don’t have time to waste 30 years to go through trying to get to know anyone other than myself. I’m learning to fully love myself with all my heart, soul and strength and it is good and very good!!

[@earlofthearies.1982]

30 years is too long, he just slow.

[@radio3976]

Your best bet is to stay single

[@RyMuEntertainment]

Wow. Put that on a T-shirt and wear it. Serious men will happily stay away. Mission accomplished 😖🚶🏾‍♂️

[@claytonmatumbela1209]

I can see you are divorced...🤣🤣

[@jetleeisabeast]

lot of women are controlling

[@purposebydesign5511]

Everytime I hear of a man who turned his back on his own family, I pray for that woman and her children. My sister went thru that and that was the most painful thing a woman and her children can go thru. My advice to man: the promise of a better world outside of your God given family is an empty one. You'll live and die in deep regrets. God is there, Jesus never left us because we make him feel uncomfortable , with our wrongs.. Marriage is an unfinished business - as long as you both shall live. Choose wisely. God will be faithful.

[@purposebydesign5511]

Mr Jake's maybe you should be rather talking about "why men shouldn't" leave when they feel like living. Because that subject would be more beneficial to society, I think. Than reasons why they leave. Sounds to me more like it's acceptable for men to leave for these reasons. I don't think so. .

[@TriciaRP]

Toure left his wife 🤔

[@nickwing6194]

Some men (boys who have not grown up. Manchild) leave for other women

[@nichelles1033]

I remember sitting in on this beautiful moment 2 years ago, yet I still cry when I feel all the love & proudness he has for her baby girl🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@marthanghiyalahamba9187]

Cll

[@Yraur]

The most beautiful relationship is the mother daughter relationship.

[@ieshajackson6478]

I was there too! So glad I attended, it was epic! All before Corona. Will remember this for a lifetime.

[@BeekayMboblieHub]

The fact’s u tell me when am wrong makes me believe u when you tell me wen am wrong 😑

[@claymorekwaramba6937]

@@Yraur they're not a competition. They both serve a purpose

[@tahntalus]

I have always believed that once focus is placed on healing Men that all other problems will go away..

[@upbornwoman9334]

👏👏👏💪💪💪

[@zukiswankomo7818]

Amen.

[@fatpancakes8138]

No so , Women need to be proverbs 31 and quit behaving like Jezebel SPIRIT

[@thelifeofdes6395]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@RDCFemmes]

@@fatpancakes8138 When the head is correct the rest will flow.

[@Shamelle29]

That Part, "When you have the Courage to tell ME when I'm wrong, makes me believe you when you say I'm Right."

[@royhill4439]

In this month, I prophesy into your life today, as you knock, doors of opportunities shall be opened unto you. As you seek, you shall find favour before men and God. As you ask, all your prayers shall be answered. May God bless you with what you prayed for, reward you with what you worked for, grant you with what you hope for and surprise you with what you have not asked for. So shall it be in the mighty name of Jesus..... God almighty bless you abundantly

[@Shamelle29]

@@royhill4439 AMEN- Thank Very Much- I needed & Receive That‼

[@virginiamabitsela]

So powerful. It takes 30 years to have a marriage. I hear you my Bishop

[@beckerethan8293]

Hello Virginia, happy new year to you and how are you doing?

[@taxr2111]

Men need to figure it out before you decide to lay down with someone and make a baby. When you leave the mother, you leave the child. Learn how to communicate in a clear way. Be a man. Stand up for what you want in life.

[@michiecarter7806]

@Taxr, Very well said.

[@confidentalways7526]

T axr 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@skyybutter1]

🙌🙌🙌

[@sownmack9528]

Soooooo true. It’s funny how they have issues outside the bed but don’t have an issue laying down. That amazes me …. It’s a sign of weakness

[@sarahkelly2268]

Yes

[@fujisuniquetraveltravelage1960]

Wow! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 “if you have something critical to say, pick a time when your emotions are not in it” 🙌🏾🙌🏾 It’s all about interpretation. “The fact that you had the courage to tell me when I was wrong, makes me believe you when you say I am right.”

[@novaleeseabolt6797]

This man is UNBELIEVABLE!!!!! And people that don’t see through this man , need to step back and pray for God to open their eyes and heart . So they can see .

[@Lola-anointed]

Omg!!!! I just discovered why I tend to misunderstand my mom. She circles around the issue and I always try to tell her to stop and get straight to the point. And I'm a woman that spends alot of time around male friends. Their qualities dwelled in me.

[@JustBree716]

I don't mean to bring up KS but when women call his show and he asks a question 10 times before they actually answer I be ready to throw my phone. It also helps me to remember to just answer the dang question and stop being so vague

[@larryleemt8864]

Me too hey. My mom circles around and tells a story over and over again 😂😂

[@levornspencer5752]

Why is that, are you homosexual?

[@mtimm001]

What a beautiful stage setting... For a beautiful father/ daughter connection...💜

[@11NuNu]

agreed it looks so anointing

[@shawnyisbless9614]

The ending make me cry 😢 "what gave your compliments so much volitity is the criticism that proceeded it, the fact that you had the courage to tell me when I was wrong makes me believe you when you tell me I am right" that's how we grow and align ourselves with God's purpose.

[@Unique71046]

Thank y’all for this Mrs.Jakes Roberts & Pastor T. D Jakes

[@ericbush6124]

Tone and Timing is Everything and a pure willingness to understand even if speaking two different languages and passing down bad communication habits. That's why it's important to get God's wisdom and discernment for marriage and humble ourselves emotions Pride and Ego drives us to want to be right or always filling some kind of way it isn't earth by any means. Even when we get it wrong long as willingness and Respect are being served. We can get there I'm often convinced many don't want peace like drama nothing wrong with saying I don't quite understand please let's help each other always prayerful always reconcilitory and forgiving

[@NuLyteTV]

I always tell my dad thank you for staying

[@thelifeofdes6395]

A blessing!! ❤️

[@lisetlopez372]

“If you have something critical to say, pick a time when your emotions aren’t in it.”

[@CC_Leopardson15679]

Real talk, real man tells the naked truth as truth should be. No man run away from his seeds, but only to be at peace when being unappreciated in the current world's mischievous dynamics.

[@Iloveamerica97]

I’m sure both dad and the daughter are proud of each other 👏👏👏 preaching about God and serving His Kingdom 🙏✝️🙏

[@cherisembaye5797]

Amazing conversation! Excellent points. I agree with them all. I would also, however, like to see perspectives on “Why women are physically and mentally desolate”. The difference with women/mothers is we can’t leave. No matter the situation, we are often forced to be resilient. In church, I often see/hear segments on how women should treat men and flex their styles to accommodate their male partner. Very rarely, do I see teachings on how men can heal, embrace responsibilities, and understand their female partner. It requires understanding on both ends, a point that was not missed in this amazing conversation…but a point that I feel we need more of, as Christ wants the entire Family unit to thrive.

[@sidneyhill7064]

I'm absolutely sure he has covered that issue also on many occasions, with all due respect man rarely get this kind of light shown on him just like on Father's Day. On Mother's Day their is a great celebration even to the women thats not as deserving but theirs something about Father's Day that's gloomy...( men encourage each others for validation)

[@factthatdude4059]

What church do you attend. There’s a reason for there being more women in church than men. Way more 🤔

[@tebellosukwene9249]

“The fact that you had the courage to tell me when I was wrong, makes me believe you when you tell me I’m right” Urg😩Deep😭😭

[@lovegospelsongs8575]

LORD, pliz bless the person reading this,Let blessings & favor locate them, in Jesus' Mighty Name!Bless them with good health & good relationships Increase their joy,their faith & their finances, greatly. Father blow their mind with YOUR goodness!In the matchless name of Jesus,Amen!🙏🏽

[@tasteoffadoo]

Amennnnn

[@amym.o5973]

Amen

[@vanyoky1191]

Men do not leave for any reason either than they are simply not in love that's it. You cant act or pretend to be something you are not to gain their love let them see and know you for who you are or act even worse than what they expected and if they fall in love with you at your worst then it's TRUE love not concocted or fabricated.

[@danielleceleste1811]

This is really good! When you pick and choose a time to wait until your emotions are not in it, jt also allows you to communicate clearly and precisely. Many times if we communicate when our emotions are on a roller coaster ride, we can easily slip into sin. The scripture even tells us it’s ok to be angry but we should be careful we don’t sin when becoming angry. Many people will often speak words in a heated moment and what they speak out of their mouth isn’t loving, caring or of characteristics of the Holy Spirit. EVEN WHEN WE ARE RIGHT… it should always come from a place of love and understanding.

[@Nikaplustwo]

Hello do you know those scriptures??

[@danielleceleste1811]

@@Nikaplustwo yes. Would you like for me to send them?

[@BearingMySeoul]

​@@Nikaplustwo Ephesians 4:26-27 - “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.

[@Nikaplustwo]

@@danielleceleste1811 yes please I need to read the word more and more

[@wilsonihonvbere9221]

May the Lord give me the unction to stand by His "Word" always in Jesus mighty name

[@ahzrad]

A woman knows in their heart that they truly don't love men. Only what he provides

[@GJCHSMM]

Alot of these conversations do not apply to abusive relationships. The abuser needs to heal on their own.

[@hannahn7375]

Thank you. And MOST relationships ARE abusive in one form of the other especially when partners haven't done any kind of transformational work on themselves. Which is why most relationships fail.

[@rolandbrown5793]

As a man when someone sends attack its often lost of peace its a place at home that a man shall find peace ....being misunderstood about a situation is often a unread book its a rittle life is based on the book of life and as a man im often misunderstood about things that a simple conversation can get a great understanding about ...like a lot of men go on a journey to find peace after being in situations that peace was absent ....love was there but the peace is absent so its hard to its a journey of digging and finding self ....this is a good sermon .....

[@charliebrown1373]

@ Roland Brown - Agreed!! Others have mentioned the factual issue of specifically, black families and absentee fathers etc and one of the KEY things, we all MUST keep in mind is that, there ARE many men and women who grew up in broken homes and without a father or father figure, YET they HAVE gone on to be successful and that IS by choice. But men, who have never learned or are trying to learn that they DO NOT have to be a product of their environment, have a much more difficult time finding themselves and knowing who they truly are and what they CAN become. A lot of people cosign to the illusion that men are always strong, not supposed to show emotions and they're not supposed to cry. Fact is, if we take gender out of the equation one will see that, all human beings possess Emotions, regardless of how they are displayed and NO ONE should be judged, for how they handle "life" because everyone was NOT awarded the same tools to do so!

[@r3dm1st31]

Being married to my husband as long as I have I truly do understand what bishop Jake's and his daughter are speaking to this is why I believe it is so important that each spouse man and woman need to understand one another this is not a man vs woman thing it's about the journey of putting two lives together and learning from one another. Marriage is a lifelong journey, and once you understand it's not about you anymore but each other, it gets much easier. My husband and I are a team we are not perfect but we are certainly a team.

[@zeuswalker5075]

The FIRST 3 minutes hit me so hard! So many unspoken truths that I wish I could convey! I'm at work, and I'm barely keeping myself together! I pray to have a deep relationship with all of my family like this!

[@ladydignity]

This was a great discussion, and Sarah looks just like her mommy,awww...

[@lechristopher_I_AM]

I cried watching this! This is EXACTLY what I'm going through. EVERYTHING he said is spot on and speaks to men like myself. We dont run from our children. NEVER! We run from the toxic relationship with the mother! Now it's a challenge just to be ALLOWED to see our kids. It's been a year and my kids are STILL being kept from me. It's amazing how many women can both "play the victim" and the "kids game" using them as pawns and leverage against their own father.

[@singlebyforce3320]

Men have to realize they to have options courts aren’t just for mother’s if you really want to see your children you should take it to court it’s as simple as that but know it’s comes with stipulations on both ends you must be willing to put in the time and to pay child support

[@tashachere]

Keep fighting. Even though my child’s father was absent from his children (1 from me... 3 in total) I’d get the kids together and try to be sure he saw them... driving hours at time to try to foster a relationship. He did not support the children but I didn’t want to be the reason they didn’t have a relationship with them. It hurts me immensely to see mother’s doing this and I know they do. Even though I tried, even with kids that weren’t mine he still turned his back on them just as his father had done. I also think generational curses have to spoken upon because he became a mirror of his father spreading his seeds all about and abandoning them. I’m glad they are all grown now and doing quite well. I’m sorry you are dealing with this too. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 God will work everything out. You must believe it! ❤️

[@MrsSANDRALMOSLEYIII]

NICE TO HEAR FROM A MAN

[@ogdozier846]

@@singlebyforce3320 who tells a man to just settle for child support ? That’s what is wrong with y’all ! Another reason relationships don’t work .. y’all don’t think . He shouldn’t even have to do that to begin with , now he has another problem to deal with . Unbelievable

[@singlebyforce3320]

@@ogdozier846 I don’t think you read my message what i said was pay child support but be willing to put in the time is what i said

[@offiongsamuel8697]

..... the fact that you have the courage to tell me when I'm wrong makes me believe you when you say I'm right....

[@michelledowner5148]

We are dealing with people who are not whole. So the expectation is for the other person to make them whole. Stop criticizing each other and work on yourself. Seek out the word of God 🙏🏾. I worked 10 hours days with 3 children and a husband. We both were tired and trying to make it. No one taught us how to handle it. But the church people told me as a woman I need to be proverbs 31 woman 🤷🏽‍♀️. The world says I can do it all with my heels at the end of the day. But I was tired and frustrated, and no one to really talk to except my God 🙏🏾. After 39 years of marriage my husband left me, but I am so happy because now I am discovering who I am in Christ. This need to happen before ( men and women 👍🏽) you say I do. Love you all with the love of Christ

[@brelewill427]

I have had a good man and he always made me feel like silk. A real man that loves his woman can see her wholeheartedly and does not play these games or forces her to play this difficult game of cat and mouse. That confusion and disregard for her needs until he is ready to talk is baloney. Love is not a spectator sport nor does it treat you like a foe when you disagree with him. Love is patient readily available and always understanding even when we are agreeing to disagree.

[@purposepassionandlovetv863]

None of what this video was about relates to what you said, in fact it disregards everything he talked about in relation to the misunderstanding of what is hard on a man in relationships. He wasn't talking about a man playing games. He was talking about what about the conditions at home drives men away. Contrary to popular belief, the division of our understanding of how to deal with each other is not one sided. It is this very narcissism that spawns the problems they are discussing.

[@brelewill427]

@@purposepassionandlovetv863 stop it. You all think those gas lighting demand of your needs and understanding over our own is not visible to woman who knows who she is and what her true purpose is. All that self serving hidden under that bogus rhetoric of your "position" in God. But the word says that God has NO respect of person. So what you say is not all thats important. How you think is not all that matters and US conforming by hook or crook into submission and bending ourselves into pretzel in order to please you is not Gods plan.. Never was.. especially at the expense of ourselves. You need us to help you groom our daughters into robots of service to you( a mortal man). God is not about stealing anyones future to build anothers. This is an age old ploy by the devil to use men to subdue woman. The life givers of Gods preachers and prophets. Because if you subdue the source you subdue the seed. God would never block free will and self worth. Not for someone who is licensed to leave at a moments notice whenever they see fit. No sweetheart. Women think in terms of we because we take care of the business of family. You men think in terms of I. What I need and that by itself is ever changing. The word of God says in all of your getting get understanding and if any man( human) lack wisdom let him ask God who gives to all lberally and upbraideth not. You my dear do not can not nor will ever be able to do what we do. Bring life to the world. That is something to honor. We are to be honored. And using God as a platform to conform the young and eager minds of the up and coming daughters into submission because we(woman were created from you to do what we can never deny of ourselves( love you). You never need teach us how to do that it is born and bred in our DNA. The word of God said a man that finds a wife finds a hood thing. The fact that you spread the lie that every woman is not a wife goes against the very word of God. A wife happens to any woman that a man asks for her hand in marriage.. You Bishop Jakes and any man pretending that being a good wife is continuing upon a man's grooming is a travesty and God is watching you sweetheart. So stop please

[@purposepassionandlovetv863]

@@brelewill427 Just like Pastor Jakes said, all over the place for one argument. I'm going by what Pastor Jakes and his daughter were talking about. God also said that it is better for a man to live in the edge of a roof than to live with an argumentative woman. The corrections go both ways. That's Proverbs by the way 21 and 9. Finding a wife being a good thing and every woman being a wife is two different things. My argument is that on this occasion the topic at hand was how the woman can better understand her shortcomings in the male, female relationship and how the comment I responded completely ignored the subject of the video and went on a rant about games being played as if that doesn't happen both ways too. Its funny how bits and pieces of scripture get used in all that narcissism. It's ok.

[@stayreal5083]

@@purposepassionandlovetv863 You appear to be a good man so you looking at things from a rational point of view. From my own experience I can tell you that I am a naturally nurturing and positive person. My ex verbally abused me, talked down to me and always started arguments with me, but because of my son I stayed. He left me and it took me years to realize that it was because of me. Not because I was argumentive or petty, but he left because he saw me as weak because I took all his S#$t!. I did not respect myself for letting him treat me like that so how could he respect me. He saw me as a weak women. I learned from that relationship and promised to never loose respect for myself or not speak up for myself again.. I wasn't bitter because I let him see our son whenever he wanted even when he only called twice a year. I gave him child support money back from every check. Some men are just sorry. I have been married for 20 years and my husband respect me because I respect myself. I say this to to say you(TD Jakes) can not but everyone's situation in one basket. All men don't leave because of a women and her brokenness, some leave because they are Freaking jerks. Their are some horrible broken men out there just like their are some horrible broken women out their. Sometimes there are no conditions that drive a man away except for his selfishness.

[@purposepassionandlovetv863]

@@stayreal5083 That's a lot! These are the ones where the conversation would be lovely. I'll do my best...I don't dispute that some dudes just bounce, I don't think Pastor Jakes would either, it's the truth. I think the point of the explanation was to show that neither should all men be lumped together in assuming that because he is not amongst his family, that it is always because of a shortcoming of his. Sometimes the issues that or (circumstances) that arise from a woman that has certain instabilities or insecurities of their own creates circumstances where a man can't exist as a man. He has to leave because if not, your situation happens to the man except the kids leave him in terms of lack of respect. They see him backing down from argument because anything he says or suggests comes with one and eventually just like in your case the kids lose respect because he isn't showing any for himself. Then you create the present/absent father. Stay in the room at the family cookout type. This imbalance we have goes both ways it just seems that when it is pointed out how we on our side are effected and by what activity it seems to be greeted with such shock or defense. I think all that was intended to be shown was that the tag of deadbeat can't just be automatically applied to a man that isn't in the household or is or is not seeing his kids and that some of the possible reasons outside of just being a sorry representation might be surprising but are also very real.

[@peaceful22023]

This is such a lifetime Daddy and Daughter interview! It is full of heartfelt wisdom and love. P.S. Pastor Sarah during this 'skin lightening' season your naturally beautiful skin is lovely & refreshing! Continue walking in your Godly and powerful anointing. Coupled with the world's best Bishop! We love you Bishop Jakes!Peace ✌

[@elliottsantiago1638]

You truly don't study and show proof to get to know GOD for self . So your going against GOD'S word that a woman can't be a preacher or a pastor or a bishop 🤔. Your so called best bishop TD JAKES is nothing more than a wolf in sheep clothing. Why he is stealing from the congregation with the old testament of TITHING. Unbelievable I stress again that it's not my word it's GOD'S word that a woman cannot be a pastor . You see man chooses but GOD appointes I suggest that you study and show proof to get to know GOD forself the SPIRT will lead you to truth 🙏 .Not man because man be twisting the word to exalt himself .So many in the church praises the created preacher than the creator himself .Your best bishop said that his church can coexist with a gay church that's blasphemy. If you want nothing but sound doctrine of the word of GOD you should listen to The scripture man . This man of GOD is KEVIN LA EWING. GIVE this brother an ear you did for TD JAKES. LISTEN minister KEVIN LA EWING is truly truly a man of GOD .WHEN n IF you decide to give him an ear have your Bible with you . He will show and teach you about TITHING and many more topics that you were taught wrong ot had never been taught. All I ask for is a response if you gave this brother an ear .You can reconnect with me I'm your brother in CHRIST. 😇🕊

[@phyllislawson3294]

She is so young, for so much wisdom.She is her daddy's child.

[@janelljohnson3400]

This needs to be a revised WHY DO WOMEN LEAVE. Same tone because this the is HIM in my situation.

[@royhill4439]

In this month, I prophesy into your life today, as you knock, doors of opportunities shall be opened unto you. As you seek, you shall find favour before men and God. As you ask, all your prayers shall be answered. May God bless you with what you prayed for, reward you with what you worked for, grant you with what you hope for and surprise you with what you have not asked for. So shall it be in the mighty name of Jesus...... God almighty bless you my lady

[@2222REALONE]

Good analogy "I don't like your dress, you hear I don't like you". Perfect 👌. Biggest problem in relationships is miss communication

[@km4336]

Wow, took me years to realise that my dad didn't leave me, he left the situation.

[@dorothealivingthesimplelife]

He reminds me so much of my dad… the way he talks to her. I miss him so much. The value in what he says. There’s nothing like your dad. 💗😥

[@princeoflauderdale]

Bishop TD Jakes is the 🐐 Men understand men and women understand women. It’s the two people that choose to live one another that stay together. Once you choose self, or pride that’s when the man leaves

[@shinobil7067]

The first victory being "not quitting" is great. If he doesn't try to do better his not quitting by making everyone else miserable should not be the same.

[@molatelaraphesu1465]

We always need to let God lead. Lets seek Him first for direction and guidance.

[@PurityWinsInc]

Exactly!!

[@PurityWinsInc]

That’s what’s missing we over complicate relationships when we don’t seek God first and let him lead us it…a lot of times that alone will alleviate the difficulties that can be avoided in relationships

[@devonjackson6335]

You had the courage to tell me I'm wrong, made me believe you when you tell me I'm right ❤️🙏

[@junehollingsworth9075]

The scriptures are to be lived and not only preached.

[@vuyomanxiwa8712]

Really wished youd used this time to preach repentance and salvation for the kingdom of heaven is nearing

[@zoeyz.landrum]

Exactly

[@mariahpowell]

Aww I love Bishop and Sarah’s relationship 🥺♥️

[@brunettecoleman8617]

A man who was my friend said timing is everything