WHY MY MUM WARNED ME AGAINST LUO MEN- KALEKYE MUMO

Media personality Kalekye Mumo navigates the hot topic of relationships and tribal stereotypes in this episode that also featured KZbin sensation Henry Desagu.
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[@christineodongo8658]

Each to their own owada. Live outside Kenya then you will realize how trivial tribal stereotypes are.

[@judahwillgofirst7964]

Kalekye you are right,,our grandparents and parents gave us wrong information about other tribes,and the sad thing,wakenya wengi wameendeleza hii ushenzi,,,I decided I will never talk ill of other tribes,,kama sijajionea,,,,and there is absolutely nothing,you can tell me about my tribe niskie vibaya,I love my tribe (typical Kikuyu) and I respect other tribes,what you think about them,it's upon you,,,if you got something against luos,luhyas,kales,kaos,sijui akina nani,it's none of my business,,I'm what I am today coz of luos,,99% of my customers are luos,may God bless them

[@teresiawachira1034]

The grandparents did not misinform you. Listen to them, learn from their generation, then judge for yourself Some cultures are so different from your own, and you can choose to adopt to their culture or not. But still respect other tribes.

[@nairobinyeusi5811]

@@teresiawachira1034 Your Grand parents were the most Brainwashed by the Colonial powers with religion. Polygamy has always been a universal African Culture. Hating Luos for maintaining this culture is just showing effects of mental Slavery.

[@sharleenjj8548]

Wewe ni mkenya halisi

[@kagodenis783]

As much as you may call some things stereotype, there's always a. Element of truth. The more you interact with people from other cultures, the more you realize some of these notions are true. But we should learn to tolerate each other's differences and let those who want to break this barriers be. Afterall, experience is the best teacher! Blessings

[@ummysgeneral6719]

The problem your point of view might not or cannot be another ones view

[@Canadianlove]

Then you say blessings

[@mercysheshikihumba1670]

Am lucky to have got a mum who is just happy waiting to welcome ,son in law without even asking the tribe🤲🤲🥺GOD help me fulfill this to her

[@nephatoliech5601]

THIS IS THE BEST PROGRAM I HAVE EVER ENCOUNTERED IN KENYA. DISCUSSING THIS ISSUE FREQUENTLY IS WHAT KENYA NEEDS. I HAVE NEVER UNDERSTOOD TRIBALISM AND TRIBAL STEREOTYPES. HII NI KALI SANA.

[@sammuthui9808]

I love the way Kalekye is real! The issues she's highlighting are very pertinent, those in the mix understand it better. Go, go, this girl from the blessed land of Ukambani!

[@namuelnyabuti5459]

Desagu is spitting wisdom hats off to him

[@voskilltheentertainer2564]

kalekye is talking the truth,very sensible

[@MyWorldExplorer]

This Kalekye Mumo is the most ingenuine person I ever listened to. Love is an emotion like anger, etc. No time to rationalise. You rationalise after.

[@jibrilhassan5138]

Interesting story and experience from our big guest, Happy for exploring for us the hidden things effect in marriage

[@John-xv1nt]

One thing about Luos, they are always true and fully attached to their families. Luos love and cherish. Luos love the truth and honesty. Most of them are not greedy and they won't eat or take what's not theirs. In my village we have married women from Kamba, Kikuyu, Taita, Kisii, Luhya and their lives are progressing well. Let's stop these archaic and narrow stereotypes.

[@Prisca.W]

This here is the comment I was looking for,I’m kikuyu married to a Luo guy,my parents never supported my marriage but no way I’d let my loving Onyango go.Later on they embraced him,marrying him was the best decision I ever made in my entire life.

[@Euniceooko-xd9hl]

@@Prisca.W shemeji

[@Dok2023]

Kenya is in the top five of the most stereotyped states in the world. Our parents, some of whom have not been the best you can have always have something to say about people from a community you have never dated. They create a lacuna for their kids to walk right into what they prescribe for them.

[@phyllisplays5589]

Not only Kenya, I am in diaspora and have mingled with many brothers and sisters from all over Africa and others is worse... Kutembea, kuona mengi...

[@Dok2023]

@Phyllis Plays that's my true experience why I placed us in the top five. I know about Nigeria, Japan, and places in the middle east which are in a league above our own.

[@hallemonyona4590]

Its true parents tell myths about ethnic background to their kids n it corrupts the mind making it hard to make humane decisions thus leading to a very unsable mentality when it comes to relationships

[@MM-hj3yx]

It also happened to us all sisters no luos in our family and it remained like that till today

[@noel3290]

They always say that untill a luo shows up with millions 😂then you will never heAr what your grandmother told your mother😏

[@bondiblugirl]

Owada, how many have millions?

[@sharleenjj8548]

They show up with millions we use it but not marry them

[@sharleenjj8548]

I love all tribes,but where i come from, niliambiwa usilete wajaluo huku,I still wonder kwani wajaka wako na nini, kwanza im interested in meeting them.

[@ianwesley2569]

Pia sisi tuliambiwa tusilete wakikuyu

[@Rassy_]

Wakikuyus are told not to bring Luos, all other tribes are warned not to bring Kikuyus

[@dayonkathas5374]

My tribe hate luos and I don't why and I am dating one.so when I told dad about it he kept silence for a while then he told me I will give you my blessings as long as you have peace. If I ask them what they have against them they can't tell 🤔

[@collinsamolo8705]

Hehe that's madness....mapenzi should not hv boundary..my wife is a meru so that disapproves that ua mum...

[@dayonkathas5374]

Wow. Say hi to her. Anywei my decision is my decision I done care how others thinks about it

[@mikeondhowe1440]

fact no one can explain why they have such an attitude of hate have done research and they dont tell

[@daveondiekaaron2204]

That's #Politics. Just Follow Your Heart. Because It's Your Future. To Me Personally I Don't Listen To Anyone I Follow My Heart And What Makes Me Happy 💝

[@daveondiekaaron2204]

@@dayonkathas5374 God Bless You 🙏

[@davidmakori8990]

I come from a family where tribal/ethnic/racial madness doesn't exist! From my siblings down to my nephews/nieces, we have nearly the whole of Kenya represented in marriage.we have even crossed the borders & even religion isn't a barrier. These are facts which can be verified. LOVE KNOWS NO TRIBE/RACE/RELIGION!

[@nusramunini9650]

Ukweli tribe si kitu ,mimi mama msomali baba mkamba na nimeolewa na mganda na maisha inasonga ✌✌

[@mourice1669]

King Solomon married queen of sheba tuwache tribalism

[@shemmosoti2808]

If u can leave a person because of tribe, then u never loved that person in the first place

[@christinemuga9956]

I can't marry from Western also

[@nthenyamum3621]

@@christinemuga9956 ..why?what did they do to you or.....you we're also told....

[@kristie6667]

How are we are supposed to kill tribalism in our çountry...🤷

[@teresiawachira1034]

@@kristie6667 You don't have to marry another tribe to stop tribalism. How do you even that? Through marriage? I don't have anything against any tribe, So how many tribe to you marry?

[@nairobinyeusi5811]

@@teresiawachira1034 The reason why People from Western are the least tribalist is because of inter marriage. The Luo & Luhya are a very unique example of what cultural integration really is.

[@alukweKopite]

Desagu na macho , njaa ilikuwa inamaliza Desagu

[@nollanryan8152]

Eololo is this the same kaletche from the radio? Wah she has changed.

[@siakastevoe9109]

I have lotsa respect to to only 3 women in this industry.. For my own personal reasons, mostly its due to utmost decency and that is Kalekye, Rubadiri and Sanaipei tande. Im sure one day my daughters will want to be superstars and im sure I will use you ladies as examples..

[@veronicahbagiti143]

You have forgotten Grace msalame

[@hezekiahowili7437]

Dr Kingori These stereotypes are real. I lost a very lovely Kamba girl due to stereotypes by her father. We are still friends till today though the scar remains.

[@carolndunge2857]

am a kamba and i like luos but the disappointment am getting from one of you wacha tu

[@mohammedsaleh3051]

Naona My Man From Mwihoko Desaagz Uko Juu buda

[@monicahgati7517]

Why do people hate luos,and they're the most romantic men we have in Kenya,,actually the same thing I was told by my grandmother.

[@christinemuga9956]

Most romantic but very polygamous

[@MM-hj3yx]

True but no matter how much he loves you he will marry from his tribe and the family will make your life a living hell luos marry your own

[@monicahgati7517]

@@MM-hj3yx I see and there's this thing they call chila,whatever, people do fear it so damn much.

[@pichunakichuna2111]

True they are the best , but there tradition is difficult 😥

[@noel3290]

@@christinemuga9956 like samidoh he must be luo😂

[@moseskimanimacharia]

Joined in

[@duncankairegi8700]

Desagu in the house

[@Patrickmulecitizensempowerment]

True kalekye is right ,watu waoe Kwa tribe zao ,some tribes are weird ..and bad manners, background matters alot in real true love ,our parents are not crazy !

[@janeayako5231]

Background checking is important for any relationship

[@glorytogod1712]

This lady is still living in the 20th century which is really sad 😥, exposure is the best experience 🙏🙏🇰🇪🇰🇪🇺🇸🇺🇸

[@theenigma2617]

Desagu killed it, big up

[@tremophat8244]

It is true my mum also said pliz mtu asiolewe na mluo but akasema tikirumi thow so we feel scared while where luo is

[@nyauskobies5522]

2021 still discussing this marriage and tribe gerribish from ancestors advice.

[@moseskamwigu]

"Gibberish "

[@leahshaniz5756]

You look good umechange sana

[@rasputin7323]

People are still discussing what tribe to or not marry completely oblivious to the blind spot of gay marriage. What would you rather,your son or daughter bringing home a luo partner or a same gender partner from your tribe?Count your blessings.

[@abelmaisiba5955]

Kingori unaona hao watu wa majuu wenye wanafikiria kwamba waafrica hawavai nguo,wao Wenyewe ndio hawavai na ukipata mwenye anadunga suit haimtoi kwanza huwa wanapenda ma t-shirt na ma shot

[@carolynemukui4810]

It is in our family our great grandmother curse luos and Luhya's in our family we dont know why she did but also our parents follow that we dont marry Luos

[@kennedypaul3292]

Stone Age reasoning

[@nairobinyeusi5811]

They probably got dumped or played by Luos & Luhyas. The Polygamous factor is also a big issue. But Polygamy was the original African Culture before your grand parents got brainwashed by Colonial religions.

[@edwardbillio9263]

Comedy based on tribe should stop, If you don't have anything else to make people laugh apart from talking about a certain tribe then avoid comedy its not for you.

[@johnkuma6867]

True this should be discouraged kabisa. This is bad topic in a toxic nation like Kenya. Talk about other things but not tribes

[@charlesmungo6782]

Absolutely. Especially when they joke about the other tribe by showing them to be dumb, poor or doing lowly jobs. It shows lack of creativity and also form of supremacist ideology.

[@shadymwachi662]

Very true kabisa I personally have been feeling this has been a catalyst of tribalism in a way

[@noelwasonga1454]

This is a bad topic a bout tribe especially naming the people of luo, keep it to your self it you hate luos

[@solomonkinuva9573]

venye we ucheka unukuanga msupu yaani!!

[@joramotieno3688]

This tribal hatred is not only in intermarriage, Kikuyus were badly poisoned against Luos in everything by the senior Kenyatta regime, this is the reason they don't want Uhuru Kenyatta now coz Kikuyus like it when Luos are isolated and mistreated by the government. This lady has brought it out properly.Desagu also mentioning it,' he was told not hangout with certain tribe. The tribal hatred by the Kikuyus against Luos started long ago and has been passed to the present generation by their grandparents.

[@wilyngugi4557]

😂thats what my grandpa tells me...NEVER MARRY A LUO LADY OR A LUHYA LADY...

[@janeayako5231]

It depends with an individual

[@wilkistermbago6397]

Don't ever try

[@emeldaa2843]

@@wilkistermbago6397 sasa tumekosea nini 🤣🤣

[@kariuki8]

wachana na mambo ya ukabila .Sisi wota ni waKenya kama kuna tatizo na mtu ni huyu mtu zi kabila yake

[@shazzyclips7642]

And the way we love ourselves such we even don't want to loose our identity and pride through intermarriages🙄😹😹😹

[@victorokuku1149]

Definitely

[@collinsamolo8705]

Women ua mothers are the ones spoiling for you most of the times but you don't know.....hakuna tofauti...binadamu ni moja hakuna wenye ni wabaya na wazuri

[@NgooMNgoo]

True... I don't know why but still us were told the same thing.. funny nilipenda mjaka bt akanikataa🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@7sneves]

🤣🤣

[@amayoluke2203]

Cuz they're also warned 🤣🤣🤣

[@bodosam7798]

Mimi wazazi wasap ndo walinikataa but it was for the best labd hainge work

[@johnkuma6867]

@@bodosam7798 ungelia juu hiyo it does not work

[@bodosam7798]

@@johnkuma6867 i know i don't regret now I'm actually happy they refused

[@hotice900]

Kali sana

[@obedashivila2468]

Me: I just love how great Nrb looks at night, behind Kalekye. I donno what she talking about! Anybody else? 😳😒

[@sheilaotieno254]

It's a wallpaper lakini

[@lilianjepkosgei2470]

Hahaha watu mko funny at times

[@namuelnyabuti5459]

Desagu😂😂😂😂

[@cathyblessing5196]

The same thing happened to me

[@michaelochieng5900]

Alaa Alaa

[@user-xj6xq6yy2z]

DIVIDE and CONQUER started by the invaders and some of us ran with it.

[@omwandareuben4756]

This is the reason Kikuyu hate us luo people for reasons that they don't know because their parents fill in dirty information yet they have no idea alafu wakikuja huku university ni sisi wanatulipa tunawafanyia cat alafu mindset inachange

[@kevohwapipelinetransami4351]

😎😎😎😎

[@thetraileraviatorguy]

That's why we have cougars in kenya

[@midenist.m8655]

This stereotype has found its way into churches. I find it worrying when pastors classify people from s certain regions of this country as children of the devil and still claim to be prophesying in Jesus name.

[@akellooscar4349]

Who asked you to marry or date a luo? Luos have been loved n hated in equal measure. We trend daily n other tribes look upon us for their survival..... We are contented on how we are,whatever you see,how you take,what you say is non of our business. I want to be a luo even in my next life❤❤

[@iam_obonyo]

At this rate .. surely you cannot sample all...

[@duncanomondi4661]

Suti ya kingori nadai.

[@Mienolanda]

Is kalekye married to start with?

[@abduratwaha3945]

Dora the explorer🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@njoroge2061]

Its because culture arent compatible, what is good to one culture is considered bad in other culture its not about being tribal

[@conrado.]

Kalekue looks good in that wig she shud stick to such wigs.

[@nzisawambua4141]

First,say and write her name correctly; it's KALEKYE, not what you've written..learn how to address people the right way.

[@nzisawambua4141]

@Otieno Kennedy ok...but he should correct...how would you feel if someone wrote your name as obieno?.

[@lramon2474]

@@nzisawambua4141 you are petty🤔

[@carolmbithe8539]

Oral history unfortunately often distorted sad

[@tiktak1448]

A woman without a kinembe is like tea without sugar mutilatating of a girl child must be stoped by all mesns

[@cateshii4853]

Am not tribal bt I don't like kikuyus intermarrying with luo or luhya na venye madem wakikuyu wanapenda kuolewa na wajaluo😂😂😂

[@newtonsimba7930]

We are one. Blood ni red.

[@blackmassacre787]

That is interracial relationship😂

[@heramakr2780]

Kam nikudinye

[@jakapundakhakipapers2571]

Stereotype exist

[@lizokoth6556]

Its sad.

[@user-cj9ef3vw8d]

This is crazy Kenyans

[@mombasaproperty33]

That wig though 🙄🙄

[@hildahwanjiru7644]

We got married they ,we were so faithful, honest but they love cheating alot

[@carolndunge2857]

very sure and how did you survive in the marriage

[@Patrickmulecitizensempowerment]

@@carolndunge2857 East or West home is always the best ,one day mtakam kujua wazazi hawakuangi wazimu ....!

[@carolndunge2857]

@@Patrickmulecitizensempowerment very sure.............sometimes we are forced to stay in unfaithful relationship than staying in another hell.....................

[@karenmuthoki9611]

Kalekye kwanza unakaa nikama you are from Western yuaselofu

[@vincentomondi5612]

Hata sura yake inakaa ya western haujakosea

[@moseskamwigu]

😂😂. You mean faceless?

[@karenmuthoki9611]

@@moseskamwigu western are pretty like kalekye yawah.Wat is!

[@moseskamwigu]

@@karenmuthoki9611 😂😂😂. Oky! 🙌 Was joking.

[@daveondiekaaron2204]

#Luo Are NOT From #Western. #Correction

[@bruceotieno2234]

Nyanza is in Western part of Kenya bro

[@michaelkataka3303]

They are!!

[@nairobinyeusi5811]

Luos, Luhyas, Kisiis & Kurias are Tribes from Western Kenya. Meaning the Western end of Kenya.

[@kelvinmwango4510]

Discussing these things on national television only reinforce that stupid stereotype

[@namuelnyabuti5459]

Kale che is right

[@maryachieng1665]

.

[@williamray7751]

Eeh lakini tabia za wajaka ni gross, those men and faithfulness ni maji na mafuta, Madharau after marriage eh acha niachie hapo

[@moseskamwigu]

😂😂😂😂

[@nairobinyeusi5811]

Na Mnafuatana na hao nini. These guys really don't give a damn.

[@carolndunge2857]

@Otieno Kennedy am dating one but ogopa they cheat as if they are being paid

[@carolndunge2857]

@Otieno Kennedy best of me but i like luos its hard for them to abandon their kids unlike this other tribes

[@hildahwanjiru7644]

It's true luo guys ,,, no that tribe it's a no zoon

[@kennedypaul3292]

Tunakuelewa , you can’t reason for yourself, continue reasoning like a stone age creature

[@nairobinyeusi5811]

No Luo can date a woman with such a conserved mentality. Luos date women who think broad, you talk of global diversity issues affecting Blacks globally, Latino, Asians & Whites not your stupid village tribal Chauvinism, WTF is that😏. The world is a bigger place, you have to think Big.

[@ummysgeneral6719]

Kaleyke uko na kibarua

[@stellahnjagiakaemma9057]

No wonder hata huku majuu racism iko top....if we africans can do that what do we expect of the whites?

[@nairobinyeusi5811]

Some of these Kenyan tribes haven't really matured to reason out things on an international scale. The fools are still struggling with tribalism how the hell would they manage racism. That's why I really admire Luos, Luhyas & Maasais. They are way beyond this tribal stereotypes, Most of them are begging to Face the bigger issue of Racism due to mass inter marriage.

[@njoroge2061]

You can interact with other tribes politically, economically, socially with the exception of marriage. Marriage is a dangerous affair not to be taken lightly. Sticking with your tribe doesn't mean your are tribal. Dont engage in thing blindly its good to know you are dealing with.

[@kipkiruikoech2069]

Unaficha kusema hutaki pencil yenye haijasharpeniwa? Sharp pen writes smarter.

[@biantongis101]

I completely disagree with desagu anybody should be able to make fun on anyone no matter their tribe comedy doesn't have a tribe

[@yanick9131]

They perpetuate negative stereotypes under the pretext of comic acts. There should be a balance, and I’m not talking about being politically correct.

[@biantongis101]

@@yanick9131 well not all stereotypes are negative to begin with and even if they are if your comic delivery is on point that's what matters the laugh