Why Numi Did NOT Sleep With Yuzu

[@Santisima_Trinidad]

Yuzu: *literally writes numis property on herself* Numi: "i don't want to overstep your boundaries" It's entirely understandable, but it is very funny.

[@Verrisin]

understanding signals is difficult. As someone who expects to be rejected at every opportunity, I get her.

[@ChrisPoindexter98]

@@Verrisin :( It seems, so far, the best thing is to just say "hey, you're cute, you wanna go out sometime?" I've somehow been able to confidently recently a few times, got rejected, but I think another thing that helps is loving yourself, not being self-deprecating, even as a joke, not feeling pity about your status, job, money, health, age, etc. or anyone else's. This isn't something I can be really confident or have experience with, but apparently making a girl you're dating feel special and unique, honestly believing and expressing that, helps? That's all I've heard on that.

[@ClassyNeons]

numi: i don't want to overstep your boundaries. yuzu: b*tch, I wanted you to overstep them

[@FlutterSwag]

Every female interaction

[@Verrisin]

trying to understand women be like: .... fuck it, guess i'm into men now...

[@venomark7883]

It's like when a girl sleeps with like a buttoned shirt and lewd underwear with no bra and you sleep next to her, that she thinks that you'll take advantage of her but when it doesn't happen, she begins to get mad and say "WHY DIDNT YOU DO ANYTHING TO ME IN BED???"🤣 Maybe if she gave me a hint on what to do, I'd activate my instincts and just go right in🤣

[@ClassyNeons]

@@venomark7883 Facts. They would do themselves a great service by being more upfront with what they want

[@dynamicworlds1]

This is all on Yuzu, tbh. It's painfully obvious that Numi _cannot_ take the lead at least not for the first time. Until someone gives Numi a safeword and some orders it will perpetually be an endless state of "and they were both bottoms"

[@Butane9000]

Apparently Numi is the man in this relationship because she interprets signals about as well as we do.

[@notmo.]

humanity would already have conquered the galaxy if everyone would be direct instead of signaling.

[@drackar]

Ooof. True, though.

[@revan22]

Men when the smallest almost invisible hint about some random lore of a video game or some universe is dropped: *I'm omniscient* Men when women drop some ultra obvious hints : *wait wtf*

[@aleksisgabliks3881]

@@revan22 Brcause when you screw up with your fan theories it's nowhere near as bad, when you screw up with signals from other people

[@Rhodair]

Part of it too is when young boys are fed a massive number of reasons to never have sex, be it all the STD's or all the scenarios where you don't yet know whether something's endearingly persistent or harassment or hearing loads of stories where 2 people were into it but suddenly the next day one decides "nah, actually I was taken advantage of". Understandable for anyone with low self esteem and limited social interaction to fall into a habit of assuming no one's interested - if anything because it's way safer to assume you're the one reading too much into a "hint" than the life altering consequences of being wrong. Maybe the "hints" shouldn't be insane levels of subtle.

[@ruud9761]

Numi just sounds like one of those guys who didn't act on "the signal" in the stories they get from their viewers and laugh at.

[@jasoncarto]

“The signal” is also not a defense in court rape cases. It’s not that men ignore it, it’s just that we know better now.

[@VinnyDeez-]

@@jasoncarto too good to be true 🗿🦍

[@dankmemester1066]

@@jasoncarto lol wut, who are you dating and sleeping with, most ppl don’t fake giving consent to criminally charge you lmao. Kinda sounds more like you don’t understand consent (tho you do have a point, the American conservative justice system doesn’t understand consent either).

[@watdaduckfuk]

@@dankmemester1066 He's right tho, a "signal" doesn't equal consent, you can get it wrong and these days consent doesn't equal consent cause a girl can change there mind whenever and say it wasn't consentual and the guy is fucked. You're better off having someone straight up telling you they wanna fuck and even then walk on eggshells.

[@phantom3969]

@@jasoncarto that's because "the signal" is not concent, it's your cue to *ask* for concent

[@aquadebree440]

What Numi meant, is that she is able to pick up quickly on regular social interaction, but she is inexperienced romantically, so she didn't notice Yuzu requesting intimacy. We all have blind spots. Numi just Ls herself all the time, and refuses to change that.

[@bluej4life183]

That makes a lot of sense

[@derbyjr]

Why do I relate so much to that?

[@anonymous_bag5241]

When you’re the only one standing in your own way

[@Rex_Nichts]

So the dense MC syndrome is also applicable to women huh?

[@simplehawk9320]

@@Rex_Nichts Always has been

[@lostnemesis]

Yuzu came in strong with her first comment of the video Jesus Christ 🤣

[@Yohtoh]

Like a God damn meteor

[@xboomslayer2]

Even after reading this comment b4 the video went through, _I was not prepared_

[@ninjablade2]

1:25 "I thought you knew!" Numi... you are officially one ofthe boys now, welcome to the world of women dating, gooood luck o7

[@jupiter926]

Numi always are Poor numi Men 😂

[@zeroreality4812]

"I thought you knew!". Now Numi can see a guy's perspective lol bruh we can't read minds, just tell us out right.

[@RedrumZombies]

1 of the boys--!

[@dragonicdoom3772]

I totally get what Numi's saying about being reserved when it comes to affection. I'm happy to say that I love my friends, but I do not enjoy physical contact outside of a very select group of people.

[@MadShadow_]

She pounced Tricky though.

[@Alfred_Leonhart]

She says this but whenever she meets people she knows she’s like “where’s my hug?”

[@emperiop86]

Yeah what about the groping friends stuff😂

[@kyronee6947]

wasnt she talking about kissing over 30 ppl at the event

[@lordcrimson913]

@@kyronee6947 She was also very much wasted, similar to me I don't like physical contact very much, however put a few glasses of whiskey in me and I'm totally the "I love you, you're the best!" type of drunk and I am WAAAAAAAYYYY more physically affectionate. I also twerk apparently but that's another story.

[@monty80085]

Her "Hmph" is so freakin adorable!

[@Ayuima69]

Now Numi knows how guys feel. "What how was i suppose to know, why after the time was over?"

[@psycosanches589]

I hope for the best on Yuzu’s health journey. The gang wouldn’t be the same without her and I don’t think Numi could stand to be without her.

[@RoachChan]

Indeed.

[@princeblackelf4265]

What's going on with Yuzu?

[@theghosttm8245]

@@princeblackelf4265 idk but now I’m scared

[@GLUFSAREN]

@@princeblackelf4265 some medical thing, perhaps a surgery of some kind she's gonna be gone for until early december i think

[@psycosanches589]

She’ll be back, don’t worry.

[@TheAyanamiRei]

It's HILARIOUS just how Polar Opposite these two are. Yuzu is V Shy in Public, while Numi is Bold AF. Yet when it comes to more Private/Intimate, Numi is FAR more shy! Yuzu is the one with all the sexual experience IRL, yet hides behind the much shorter Bao in public! Honestly, Numi just needs to loosen up more so she can FINALLY get those Ws she rightfully deserves!

[@KuzunoHako]

I now completely understand what girls mean when they say "I can't tell if guys are fighting or about to kiss."

[@bloodgodalucard4769]

Numi isn't nearly down bad enough. She needs to get in there. Cuddle all the homies. ❤

[@freakhernandez235]

Numi is officially on of the Bros 🤣

[@Phyrrax]

My god, the pressure from Yuzu was so intense, it made my phone screen crack.

[@ginarodgers8180]

We DESPEREATELY need to normalize people actually saying what they want and not, you know, hoping someone else is a mindreader. ESPECIALLY if you already know they'd be receptive to you saying it, and Yuzu knows Numi well enough for that to be the case. People are dense or they don't want to overstep any boundaries, I know I don't when I've been burned on that in the past. Something I've never been burned on his people using their words, but maybe I'm the anomaly for not being offended by literally anything someone could say to me.

[@Rhodair]

Yes!! If only people were more forthcoming and weren't playing games like maybe they'll notice if I move my hair a certain way or drop something in front of them. If someone wants to throw hope to the wind that someone picks up on your extremely subtle hints, cool, do you. However, it rarely works and retroactively shaming others for not picking up on those silly hints is even worse. I think shaming like "men never pick up on x" is just deflection from their own cowardice. Being blunt often takes more confidence.

[@Vashthestampede967]

Numi you're officially a bro. You are now required to be a mind reader. Welcome to the club. You're screwed.

[@movespammerguyteam7colors]

Yuzu just wanted to spoon with Numi. Also Numi’s form of affection is running away from someone she likes.

[@Afrochilla]

Most of the time vtubers flirting with each other is clearly just joking, but with these 2 I really can’t tell

[@Hilariumosis]

Relatable. This is a stuggle for most of us guys. Picking up on signals and act on the right signal accordingly xD

[@studior2962]

“We we’re on the verge of greatness, we were THIS close!”

[@RolandVonRose]

Good reference ;)

[@hate6crew6death6roll]

I think i know what numi means here but from the opposite perspective that yuzu is having - in my relationship, i always used to have to lead things and be extremely communicative that yes, i am wanting affection now, to my bf. So, i asked my bf why he rarely would pick up on it and he said he can never tell when its the right moment to make a move or continue something or if im giving 'in the mood' signals even if i very clearly am. i think with shy reserved people there is a golden rule - COMMUNICATION FOR EVERTHING! its the rule to a happy functional relationship, make sure we know were boundaries are, all it would've taken for yuzu to have gotten it across to numi was telling her what she was feeling and wanting. Being bisexual, i have though noticed a BIG difference in how men and women approach this though, with men being very straight forward, to the point and the women i have been with were using a more seductive style of 'do i or do i not want you?' type flirting, which then sends mixed signals

[@MJSGamingSanctuary]

Communication and as part of that its okay to be like painfully honest if affection is what you want sometimes the easiest way to get it is just ya know, ask. 🤣Or do what my niece does and why she gets so many hugs is use body language to request the affection XD.

[@fiscarton92]

Despite what media and other “relationship expert” women claim, it’s not just about sex with us men, though that plays a good portion of it. As long as our girlfriends are more communicative and outright telling us what they’re wanting or feeling, the relationship goes far. You’ve no idea how many guys want a cuddle buddy when all is said and done.

[@lightlysal]

Yeah the mixed signals can be annoying, any tips for that? I feel like they could totally just be playing and I wouldn't be able to tell the difference. The only way I have to tell is if they keep it up for a long period of time

[@hate6crew6death6roll]

@@lightlysal tips for mixed signals? unmix them and be direct is best, but you could maybe try do this if you get into a 'joking about' convo, where there is room for alot of '...unless? ;)' type talk too. If they are saying things but not making it clear, try asking just 'what, are you saying *this* for us? haha' and that could leave it as if you are both asking jokingly at first but if mutual feelings are had, this is leaving them the option of being serious with you and you having come across as accepting of the idea. Then if their reply still confuses you, continue asking questions until you understand whether its a yes or a no, but not all relationships rely on a yes or a no, ive had a girl turn me down then a week later ask me out, so it can also be very shocking to the system for someone thats a little new to the game of romance

[@lightlysal]

@@hate6crew6death6roll Yeah makes sense, I've done a ton of back and forth before and it can take a WHILE man

[@GodammitNappa]

I feel numi here, I frequently worry I am going to make the other person uncomfortable and have a hard time handling my emotions so I am reserved, shy and just want to be a good person to them and often that leaves the other person thinking I do not care

[@blarghinatelazer9394]

This shit sucks bro, why are we like this

[@Yohtoh]

Imagine how many Ws could have been taken if she shot her shot. This isn't the perfect timeline. Reset.

[@sniperboom1202]

Quick load

[@Verrisin]

oh, I so wish. Imagine the power to reload to any point in your past. My life would so not be this septic tank...

[@studior2962]

If these two announced that they were actually in a relationship, I don’t know wether I’d be shocked or not surprised at all

[@boanoah6362]

I'd be far less surprised if Numi just established a lesbian harem.

[@dokutah7374]

@@boanoah6362 it’d really get the artists riled up at least

[@aintijustthecutest3863]

This is so opposite of how Yuzu was on Blau’s Twitchcon stream 😂

[@watdaduckfuk]

This comment section is honestly really interesting, 1/3 being "Numi should've acted, but was too dumb", 1/3 being "Numi did the right thing not acting on just signals and Yuzu should've been more op front about it" and the last 3rd being really understand and a deep dive on Numi as a person, her psychi and personality.

[@mindassassin]

Numi being more of a bro than ever.

[@Darkluigi394]

Poor Numi is like Charlie Brown. She never gets her time to shine and she always misses

[@SliCooper]

I can clearly picture Yuzu doing the tsundere puff cheek when she went *hmph.* x) Really hope her recovering goes smooth

[@Ghost3210]

Numi is truly one of the bros. 😎👍

[@Cuthawolf]

Poor Numi. I feel like she gets bullied a lot for being so reserved ^^;;

[@ChristianJ_98]

Yuzu is such an ULTRA BOTTOM she gives Numi top energy.

[@BlaZay]

This is a perfect illustration of "And so they were both bottoms."

[@michaelogara9056]

This seems like an old married couple arguing

[@RoachChan]

This was just the beginning of 10 minutes of exactly that

[@Umashido]

Yuzu: You're supposed to know that I wanted to cuddle, bro. Me: She sounds like every last one of my Ex's at some point in my relationships. I'm like B***h I'm not psychic I don't know what you're thinking.

[@fiscarton92]

Got into a minor argument with my female coworker/friend years back. A few days go by and we still aren’t talking. In my family we don’t apologize for stupid things and go back to normal after a couple days. Tried with her but she was pissed. Expected me to know why after I tried apologizing: “I’m sorry okay?” “Sorry for what?” In a neutral tone “I obviously pissed you off before so I’m sorry.” “Do you know _why_ I’m mad?” “No.” “You should know.” “Well I don’t.” “Dude, if you’re still clueless why I’m mad, then figure it out. I’m not forgiving you til you do.” It turned out she misheard me and was pissed at that and not anything important. She adamantly believed, til we stopped being friends, that I said what she misinterpreted I said.

[@Rhodair]

@@fiscarton92 that was a fun read - so she got mad over something she fabricated in her imagination🤣that's like someone getting angry at someone because of a dream they had

[@fiscarton92]

@@Rhodair The dumbest part was what she misheard. I said during a conversation: “That’s how much I care.” She heard instead: “Shows how much you care.” I don’t even remember what we were talking about that led to that, just the end result because how annoyed I was after everything.

[@RedrumZombies]

They better stream the wedding 😆🤣

[@thicc_boy_benn2344]

Numi froze for a second 😂😂

[@IghorWho]

i for real love these two

[@memer34per39]

I'm still unsure if Numi is actually a virgin or just pretending...

[@Phyrrax]

The one constant in her stories is that she runs away when it comes to serious advances or ignores it...even when she is interested. So Im really inclined to believe it.

[@ReaderViaNil]

My bet is not just reserved but very insecure about intimacy. I have friends like that, that grew in the stereotype high expectations parents without close friends, and they are similarly "open" in conversation but VERY closed when it comes to affection and touch. They end up having less intimacy than they want, but its like its so high stakes for them that even with easy oportunity in front of them, they get nervous and jump ship.

[@luiszapata3897]

@@Phyrrax there’s a good clip where she was talking to Onigiri and one other vtuber in a more serious manner. It’s from a while ago but Numi was talking a bit about her own insecurities regarding relationships. At the time of the clip, she mentioned how she found it really hard to actually pursue romance even if someone else is the initiator. So I think when it comes down to it, Numi still has some stuff to deal with

[@memer34per39]

@@ReaderViaNil that makes sense, although I recall the moment when Numi was talking about how she feels when she's really into someone. She mentioned wanting to "be very close to" and even "bite" them. And with multiple other hints she's been dropping, she really strikes me as someone who's actually very clingy; expressing her affection primarily via physical contact. Alas, these are just assumptions since I can only analyze her behavior on streams on not IRL.

[@cverlaak]

@@ReaderViaNil i'm in this comment and i don't like it.

[@davidvillarreal8351]

It's so wired how much a relate to numi as i learn more and more about her personality lol.

[@jukeboxjimmy8722]

"Mission failed, we'll get'em next time."

[@TheOneWhoReportsForDuty]

Numi is the blindest girl about romance and it is kinda adorable.

[@rioneo617]

"Did you just hmph at me" 🤣

[@nielia8995]

Now Numi's understand mens frustartion when woman tells you that "you need to know that' or 'you must know that I wanted to cuddle' like the fck can we read your mind gurl damn..

[@sonicplys64]

Numi's in too deep with Bao. They had a couple's massage!

[@firedrake110]

Numi is out here dealing with the same bullshit the bois are, like "YOU SHOULD KNOW, YOU KNOW ME" TF? Have you considered speaking to me about this? It was a week, use your words!

[@LeonBlade]

I know this is played up, but it also feels real.

[@TheRealJokeFace]

This, class, is what we call "competitive bottoming"

[@Mastermind8908]

Numi's affection radar needs the 3.0 patch to detect the horni. 🤣 NumixYuzu confirmed ❤️

[@Wolfoso]

It's ok Numi, It also took me 15 years to understand that a girl I liked in highschool wanted my bones.

[@AlkaRez]

WHT? You need your bones bro.

[@JPooger]

Guess the whole "numis property" written on yuzus thigh wasn't an obvious enough hint

[@Poke-ladd]

I wonder if Yuzu had 2 smells after the Eiffel Tower

[@RoachChan]

Someone commented that on stream too XD

[@jack688]

Man common, you shouldent need to ask to cuddle with a friend. As much as they flirt and shit, if one is laying down, just say "hey, mind if i join you?" boom, that easy. And trust me, im shy as hell, but it is soooooo nice to snuggle up with someone, it does not have to be a weird thing. Touching is just a human thing, and if one of them does not want too, thats perfectly fine. But they should not be afraid to try. I was nervous as hell the first time i asked a girl to cuddle, but i knew i wanted too, and that there was one way it was going to happen. Same with sleeping together with someone (not sex, just sharing a bed). Its nerve wracking, but its also nice to get to hold someone while you sleep. For me its not a everyday thing, but neither would i want it too be, thats whats nice about being honest and open. Dare to take a chance, things might work in your favor :).

[@arkardomx]

"KNEW WHAT?!?"

[@heavensfall3n]

Numi encompasses my mentality every time

[@austinm5630]

This is what happens when two bottoms who like each other sleep in the same room. *Neither makes the first move so nothing happens.*

[@ralphthefanboy]

Dang, that awkward pause...

[@derbyjr]

Why do relate to Numi so hard right now?

[@flowrida1111]

You see boys, not even women understand each other, don't expect to understand them, it's a lost cause hahaha

[@sophiabrooks4124]

numi is so naive i cant bro this is funny asf

[@petercooper456]

I’m genuinely impressed by Numi’s ability to completely miss signals less obvious than a fireworks display

[@monniedemayor422]

you two should get a room together already, sheeesh

[@richardg-z9m]

these two are dating without dating fr

[@Lovely_Camelia]

I'm with Numi on that one, I don't like the whole "but you didn't pick up the signal !". Just tell me mijfksjdfdf I'm so scared of making you uncomfortable, tell me, send a message

[@zzero0orezz]

2:53 yuzu hmph timestamps

[@YoshiFan007]

The disrespect bleps at the end “Hmph”

[@pax6833]

when two bottoms encounter each other lol

[@abraxis7292]

Numi has a built in L generating permanent debuff. Her own rival

[@deadlymouse7033]

I love how oblivious Numi is. Shes her own worse enamy when it comes to pretty people.

[@DKPGames]

Numi is like Beavis and Butthead, she is never gonna score

[@xXSpaceMexicanXx]

NUMI MY GOD

[@foopygoopy1860]

WE CAN CHANGE THAT NUMI- WE CAN CHANGE THAT

[@Charley-ju6yg]

At least now they know for next time

[@nicolasa.3192]

Numi is just like me fr

[@RaisonLychi]

Whenever my friends stay over and I let them sleep in my bed after the long drive my pillow always smells like their shampoo.

[@StiveGuy]

If you don't say something nothing will happen.

[@thecat9719]

I refuse to believe this is a bit. The silence was too real.

[@RayneHellfire]

Boysmell copypasta would’ve been a good Segway.

[@jadedcoyote7928]

That's why Bao is Numi's favorite lol

[@drakevoidwalker]

It's confirmed that Numi and Bao instinctively want to kiss each other and stuff irl lol. Unfortunately for Yuzu, she's stuck in the Childhood Friend character section smh

[@sandcrack0873]

“Now why-“ That was such a random thing to say man

[@ottovonnekpunch1268]

Numi: Gaslighting overdrive!

[@marrilynz4090]

0:10 - 0:40 I Smell Awkwardness

[@DemonGodRizer]

I like how near the end of the video yuzu's model is like "Are you serious bitch"

[@GLUFSAREN]

i feel like yuzu feeds on teasing numi haha

[@Hnti4ever]

If you look up the definition of being down bad, yuzu's face will appear.

[@DeathLeprecon]

I'm not bi, but I imagine that being bi and just always striking out with both sexes is like the worst of both worlds. Numi really is down bad.

[@TheSpeep]

This got surprisingly relatable...

[@cptkugelhagel]

Well atleast we now know what's going to happen the next time they meet up.

[@DeViceCrimsin_]

So i see that numi is the guy in this situation. And not talking about chad

[@kellerweskier7214]

when two introverts expecting the other to bust a move.

[@akuma6969]

I wonder when they will start going out with one and another.

[@friendlyrift4716]

What a cutie😢😂

[@MDG-mykys]

Bro what am I watching 🤣🤣

[@Mastermind8908]

I smell virgin blood. 🧛‍♂️ 🦇

[@earendurvoneinzbern7585]

These two sound like a married couple.

[@Slamdeath]

"OH"

[@soulrepear117]

Best homies cuddle