Why Sharon Stone STOPPED Dating Men (Drew Barrymore as well)

[@virgo_hershey_kisses2990]

Baaaaby!!! Women EVERYWHERE are tired. No matter the age group we are TIRED 😂

[@augustG.I.F]

Exhausted 😂😅 my children are GROWN I'm divorced and clear. The Peace and Freedom I have now I'm not trading in for ANYONE. 🎉💜🥳🍾👑 I Wine and Dine myself I throw fabulous Dinner parties as well😁 Alone doesn't mean lonely we need to unlearn that!!

[@shawnni3014]

Yep

[@monejohn9973]

Nothing new for older women... I feel like generation and after generation. We all had maybe a mom aunt cousins that were at least 40 and older. That didn't date wasn't trying to date and never brought around a date nothing new.

[@augustG.I.F]

@@monejohn9973 I know women of ALL ages that are done ijs this isn't a age thing.🤣😂

[@BlackberryTitties]

@@monejohn9973please I’m 34 and I’m not dating!!

[@victoryv116]

Thats why we need older women ...society kept on erasing older women , devaluing them , mocking them , portraying them as villians , cast them into singluar roles of mother and grand mother ...but in reality ..young women need older women to reveal the truth of the patriarcy

[@Ourown311]

Yep they were hiding them to stop the younger women from figuring it out sooner and not making the same mistakes.

[@come_on_barbie_123]

This is why younger women think older women are hating on them. Gotta hate that wisdom!

[@Meow4B]

Yep it’s hilarious how my whole life I heard that women become invisible once they hit 30, I am 50 and I wear a band on my ring finger so that men will stop talking to me in public. I’m sick of getting approached when I’m just trying to pump my gas or go to the doctors. So THANK YOU for this perspective, I’m going to stop wishing that I was invisible and I’m going to start making sure that younger women know how happy I am traveling through the world as a single child free middle-aged woman. Legit, people my age don’t believe me that I’m happy single which is part of why I wear the fake wedding ring. No sir, it’s not a cope when I say I love my life. I love my life and I am unavailable to men and if I have to pretend to be married so be it. As a pleasant side effect I have noticed that boomer women who are still in their jobs are kinder to me. It’s possible the lady at the Townhall was just having a bad day every single time I registered my car in the past four years except for this year when I had a wedding ring on, but I kind of doubt it. I also wanted to add that I feel so terrible I remember being in my 20s and my friends mom trying to teach me about men and I would listen to her and I would nod, but in the back of my mind I seriously was thinking that she was just trying to discourage me because she was upset she wasn’t dating anymore. I think part of my judgment was because she had been a huge pick me during my whole childhood, and teenage years. And I didn’t realize that her experience with men had changed her views and she was correct.

[@amorepsyche808]

Lol she is just old, who the hell wants to date at that age?! You should be ready for the other world let’s keep it real here

[@Apricot90]

No, you need to differentiate. There are a lot of unhealed women who really hate on younger women and try to sabotage and ruin their happiness. You are not a wise, compassionate woman only because you're old and have been through it. The jealousy is real. @@come_on_barbie_123

[@lzal9204]

I’m in my 50’s. Been divorced for years. I am an RN. When I tell you that I have 0 desire for a relationship, I’m dead serious. The last thing I want to do is to have to take care of a grown a$s man when I get home from taking care of patients. I can’t do it. I can’t do the weaponized incompetence, I can’t do the insecurity because I make more money, etc…I’m done. I don’t have pets because I’m never home and it wouldn’t be fair to the critter. But what I do have- peace of mind, is invaluable.

[@gigiarmany4332]

Yes!! Exactly 💥🔥

[@margaretedwards9866]

Amen

[@dijonay971]

Whewww!! Weaponized incompetence - you’re spot on!

[@ms.mcghee8682]

Amen! I am right there with you in mind and spirit ❤

[@kelliecarter8376]

High five✋️

[@AB-qv9ku]

Such a powerful articulation. Basically what I heard is Men are losing at the game THEY created and they're blaming it on women. Which is complete male logic.

[@ebbyoma7008]

Boy math 🧮 🤔

[@mizzpoetrics]

Boy math chile! 😒

[@RightonSistaGirl]

This!!!

[@rapehurts7856]

Damn! The best comment and it’s so simply put. Thank you

[@atomic66]

Yep. A lotta them want to be both the princess and the prince

[@talishak100]

Sharon Stone also had a near-death experience and was partially paralyzed and her husband filed for divorce. So she has seen a man's evil. I have my dog on my lap as I type🤣🤣I keep saying these men can't be what the creator wants for us.🤐

[@txspacemom765]

Yes this!

[@sinceresinclair]

Wow. But men are 7 times more likely to leave a sick woman. SEVEN.

[@purplelove3666]

No sweetheart,it's bad men that the creator doesn't want for us, however there seem to be a lot of bad men 😕

[@NamasteInYourLane]

I had no idea that happened to Sharon Stone.

[@victoriousspirit8955]

Yo! I didn’t realize that happened to her! How awful ! I’m happy to see her make this wise choice! 👏🏾👏🏾

[@alanabowker1363]

I recently gave a man a chance to date me who wanted me for years. The very first thing he did was triangulate me with several other women he wasn't even attracted to. Game playing is totally right.

[@solomoon3083]

This happened to me as well. He didn’t triangulate. But after we were intimate a few times, he just kept saying “I don’t want to hurt you.” Over and over. He responded less and less. Until he just stopped overall. This was my last straw. And that was 8 years ago. I’ve had one relationship that lasted a year about 4 years ago, and he cheated on me the whole time. Never. Again.

[@winning3329]

The player lifestyle is what will keep many men alone in old age.

[@MojoeHart]

I recently gave a man a chance to date me who wanted me for years You have been PLAYING THE GAMES He was Just SHOWING You And you CHOKED ON IT

[@monejohn9973]

I had a few guys try to date me while showing me all the girls they would give up for me 😅while I'm laughing thinking. This is the last time you will ever talk to me especially if you're dumb enough to show me a whole roster of women you're sleeping with.😅Gross n I won't be next.

[@SweetAven00]

Same smh 🚮

[@God-Love-Freedom]

Man with a dog: “Man’s best friend.” Woman with a dog: “Lonely, bitter woman.” - Male gaslighter

[@rapehurts7856]

😂😂😂 period!!!! A complete damn gaslight

[@kathrynhall1136]

I’m inclined to agree with you, on this point. Women tend to get cats

[@MsNieshaBean]

This!!!

[@SamanthasUniverse]

I see what you did there.☺️ Another double standard women are waking up and realizing.😭 You are SO right because why can't dogs be a woman's best friend too??? Women are NATURAL nurturers and we LOVE dogs.🥰🥰🥰

[@mizzmolly7649]

​@@SamanthasUniverse I love dogs, but they're too much work. If I want to spend a Saturday pampering myself and staying in my pajamas all day, my cat is down for it. You have to walk a dog.

[@winning3329]

You will never see the red pill and manosphere community blame player culture for ruining the dating market. Men have ruined the dating market for other men. I wanted to get married when i was younger but after being lied to by many different types of men im done. I rather be alone.

[@BlkOnyx0508]

What’s worse is when I look in chats with men who are tired of being with men I’m in stitches😂. They talk about “I’m going to start dating women at least they can have kids.” Smh

[@shawnlove4502]

​@BlkOnyx0508 lol what chats are these?

[@dammiesuzy]

So true! It's their own doing, men ruined it for other men. But you know they're going to say it's womens fault for dating the players 🙄 They just cannot hold themselves accountable.

[@s.s.ss.4848]

​Bisexual men collectively want women. Even trans women nowadays are heavily preferring women cause cis men (no matter the sexuality) are horrible​. @@shawnlove4502

[@che4840]

tons of men in these spaces brag about cucking other men and stealing women from other men. They get such a massive kick from stealing someone’s spouse and wrecking marriages because it means they are more ‘masculine’ and hold more ‘power’ over other men. They really don’t have the best interest in mind for their brotherhood.

[@zerotolerance2026]

Women are communal. All we need are resources and each other!

[@celiashen5490]

Hello Sister/Friend/Neighbor, I wave hello to you.

[@BayouBarbie504]

This!😂❤ Hey friends

[@maggien1119]

Very true ❤

[@ladybug3380]

They keep saying if it wasn’t for men nothing would have been invented. They swear we’re stupid and not creative smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@laplusbelle7982]

True

[@teona819]

I am sorry, but a lot of men around me are lost. The structures that held them up are actively crumbling. Instead of getting with the times, they want women to dumb themselves down. Well, that is not gonna happen. I am 25 and would rather devote my time and energy to my family members and business than get involved with people who need me to be a dummy to feel better about themselves. I have cut off some friends for this reason as well.

[@msliberated3899]

Friends are definitely Friends ain’t no better these dats

[@ll2323]

They don’t have any good role models out there.

[@m.ophie.a3644]

Stay strong and wise. Better to hold out for someone who will meet you at your level and grow with you then hold you down while you resent them.

[@lizzyforevermore4]

I only read the first sentence and liked your comement😂

[@Meow4B]

Well sure because they’ve relied on patriarchy and misogyny. And we’re not playing along anymore. We stopped playing along in the 70s and it’s finally putting a dent in the patriarchal systems that they thought could keep them in power for all of eternity.

[@FindYourFree]

Sharon is profound. She has lived and learned...

[@MojoeHart]

SIMPS PAY FOR YOUR EXPERIENCES BTW

[@ana-nim]

​@@MojoeHart unlike you women have jobs.

[@alyssawoodman]

​@@MojoeHartYou are so obviously hurt by things women have done and so you come here to yip yap instead of processing your trauma. You are so obviously unhappy.

[@MojoeHart]

NICE SIGN LANGUAGE AND YES IT IS THE ABW HURTING THE COMMUNITY With the TRASH And BM ARE HOLDING THE LINE AND BW Don't Have to LIKE IT @@alyssawoodman

[@che4840]

@@MojoeHartits strange when you complain about that when women have been paying the price for promiscuous men who ruin their lives for as old as history began. Let’s be more egalitarian and acknowledge that promiscuous people can hurt non-promiscuous people. And ‘simp’ is such a watered down and ambiguous term. Let’s call it ‘predators who pretend to be nice’ versus ‘supporters who truly are kind and have your best interest in mind.’

[@LadyCoyKoi]

As a gardener I can tell you plants listen better than men, and respect boundaries. And those who are climbers act as helpers to the plants they climb on. There is harmony that plants have.

[@velvetrose7729]

Speaking of respecting boundaries.......I know it's not always the case but I love how trees "make room" for each other. Sitting in the yard, I'm in awe when I see how tree that are growing too close to each other, their branches will grow away from each other to give each other room to keep growing.

[@jadewalker1355]

I love plants 🪴

[@magicmantis]

I garden too, and I love this! 🥰

[@BlackberryTitties]

Yes!! I grew up on a farm! Love gardening!

[@aprilmay1061]

Of course. The plants are alive and answer to that which created them.

[@XXLady]

Years ago, Sharon Stone suffered a stroke. She was desperately trying to explain to her then-husband how painful her head was and he told her she was exaggerating, she just had a headache and it was no big deal. Had she listened to him, she likely wouldn't have survived. I believe she had to call the ambulance herself - he wasn't interested in helping her 😡

[@sammietulip7948]

Not a good husband.😒

[@TonyaTkoClips]

What on earth!? I need to research this, is crazy

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

Because he didn’t love her and actually hated her. That’s all.

[@SunnyHeartKay]

Yup. Jealous of her. He wishes he were a beautiful successful woman.

[@InayahEleven]

Guys tend to gaslight ladies on everything including health.

[@MissNelson_48]

Like Sharon said I don't need another kid! A lot of us women are over it. All the mind games and silly tactics trying to hurt you deliberately. Nobody has time for that. It's annoying.

[@mstyles2667]

This. ANNOYING is the right word.

[@missxmarvel]

Men are worse than kids. I figure it out during the brief moments where I dated them. But don’t take my word for it, statistics shows that men give women more stress than their own children. It only takes 1 year for the nice guy mask to slip but even before the nice guy expiration mark they are incredibly annoying.

[@SunnyHeartKay]

Exactly. I was on snap chat the other day a dude made a vid saying his gf is funny but he can’t tell her bc he has to keep her humble. It’s just games and BS with these useless dudes.

[@jasminehill6312]

Right!!! And there’s absolutely no reward for us women to deal with that 🙄

[@alanakasem1723]

omg...what i experienced with my ex...they just can't stand being one upped, even if you have no intention of bragging your success@@SunnyHeartKay

[@justliza4eva]

Told my husband last year I'm telling my kids not to have kids. He was shocked initially, but after our conversation, he agreed. We are not owed grandkids.

[@ST-rj8iu]

My mother said, if you have kids, keep them at your house. It is teaching kids to understand they must watch their own kids. I did not have kids. No regrets.

[@MojoeHart]

Your KIDS ARE THEIR OWN LEAVE EM BE

[@opharahanglin9624]

👋. I'm 42 and my mother preached this to us sooooo long ago. She is wise beyond her years. I'm so happy I listened. I don't date at all. I'm 👍. 🇯🇲

[@MojoeHart]

DATING Is Not BIBLICAL AT ALL IT'S MADE UP @@opharahanglin9624

[@Nitra813]

This was a big shock to me as well coming to this conclusion last year. I really do look forward to being a wonderful grandparent, I had great grandparents) but if my children decide not to have children I had to settle that in my spirit. Its okay. I’m still here for whatever.

[@Coco-nq3vg]

Almost 40, no kids, and im tired of dating. These men need to date each other and just leave us alone. I enjoy my peace and love it here.

[@SunnyHeartKay]

They need to date the men in dresses. Leave real women alone.

[@Siss2012]

Exactly. The only people they like and admire are other men anyway, be they businessmen or athletes or politicians or their deadbeat friends they booze together with. Women need to realize that men despise them and view them as subhuman, that’s why they try so hard to play up their masculinity, to differentiate themselves from the shame and stigma being a woman represents to them.

[@agricolaregs]

You should already be in an established relationship at that age.

[@kandillishis]

​@@agricolaregsNot with the selection of men over the last two decades.

[@redrock740]

I've been dating since I was 41, after my divorce. I gave up on dating two years ago. Dating after 40 is pointless for a woman. All we find are leftover players in their 40s and 50s, younger men in their 20s and 30s who want a full blown mother, and men in their 60s looking for a hospice wife.

[@continuousself-improvement1879]

Recently in my country (Indonesia), there occured a murd3r-attempted sshmooicide case. A father ended the lives of his 4 (yes, four!) children, the youngest is 1 y.o. The mom was not there because she was hospitalized from being DV-ed by the father. This man was unemployed, DV his wife, then murd3r his own kids and then attempted to end his own life. This is what could happen when you choose wrong. The risks are just to damn great (literally end your/your kids' lives) whereas the reward is only...what? Getting a somewhat decent guy? But then you still need to watch out that he is an equal partner, would not emotionally abuse you, etc. Too much work for too little pay, no thanks.

[@ThimbleFox350]

My brother is the BEST guy that you would find. He won't cheat or lie or play those games. But he can't do his own laundry, will need to be told to do the dishes, and will never ever clean on his own without being told to. That's the best you're gonna get.

[@teralecole316]

What a horrific story. I’m so sad now.

[@KhadiB]

@@ThimbleFox350a child 🤣. Hard pass

[@mizzpoetrics]

​@@KhadiBI thought the same, & then busted out laughing! We just can't make this shht up! 😂🤣🤣😮‍💨

[@celiashen5490]

Sometimes, choosing better means choosing 'None Of The Above'.

[@redpillqueen8888]

I stopped 2-3 years ago. Tired of the hidden agendas. Men will never be your “friend”

[@SunnyHeartKay]

Never!

[@Itsalwaysbeenaboutme1844]

I was single for 5 years and then decided to try dating again. The last guy I dated was a "friend" of 10 yrs. I said I would never date a friend, but the dating pool was slim so I gave it a chance. 😢😢😢😢 Ot lasted for 6 months and I haven't dated ever since. It was the worse decision ever! The 1 st month was great by the 3rd month I was overwhelmed, confused, just down right tired of his shenanigans. I thought it was just me picking the wrong guys eventhough I dated various ones from different backgrounds. Dating in itself is a job. Men now bring along their problems expecting you to fix them or deal with it all while telling you how to be a "better girlfriend". Nope!

[@Zanie234]

​@@Itsalwaysbeenaboutme1844 you never give them a chance no matter what 😭 He punished you for that 10 years you kept him waiting. Men are vindictive

[@theteleisewilliamsexperience]

My best friend is a man. He's never tried anything with me he tells everyone I'm his sister. My kids call him uncle his kids call me his aunt.

[@ibabechanel]

@@theteleisewilliamsexperienceAre you beautiful ?

[@k.l.6129]

It's funny... I started decentralizing men and planning to go off grid before I ever started watching women empowerment videos. It's nice to put the words to the feelings, but mostly, I just find comfort in not being the only woman to feel this way. It also, little by little, makes me feel a bit more comfortable with the prospect of being single for the rest of my life. Sadly, i'm 30. My brain is fully developed, and I can't do the mental gymnastics necessary to justify a relationship with some one that doesn't respect me. Pity, though. Men are so pretty.

[@ascott4502]

Same, sis! Finding this community really helped affirm things that I wasn’t sure about. Blessings to you❤❤

[@celiashen5490]

Same on most counts. My off-grid plan is life on a boat. And maybe a man-shaped appliance. edit: And I'm 50. {omg, i'm old.}

[@alyssawoodman]

Men are so pretty ❤ Cuuuuuuute

[@oladeebiazazi4538]

Idk when I hear women speak like this it’s quite sad because their has to be at least one man out there for you

[@vmfjae1180]

It's good to feel like you're not alone. 10 years ago (I'm 29) as feminist and misandrist, I was wondering why even in our circles, we didn't questioned dating men. It's not about finding the right man, it's about fighting, every day, with the person that is supposed to love you, to be respected and treated like a human being, and not a female/ slave

[@sxycrml35]

After years of being lied to, manipulated, and used, I'm done. My daughter, who is 25, has come to the same conclusion. Dealing with these men aren't worth the stress, I see my peers in relationships or marriages, and they are miserable.

[@albertinag.demoraesm.9511]

The same, I don't exchange my singledom for ANY of my friends marriage. They all are being exploited by one mean or another.

[@Drageisha]

The majority of my married friends are well-watered by their husbands - so, unfortunately, I still aspire to have the second income, access to dick & someone to find the body that they're all currently enjoying.

[@velvetpanther7032]

Absolutely I had to cease a friendship because all she wanted to do was complain about her miserable marriage. When she chose not to follow the advice she requested, so I asked her to cease discussing her problematic marriage, I learned she had nothing else to talk about! Her whole life centered on her husband and so we no longer had anything in common.

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

Yep miserable or struggling and trying to convince everyone around and themselves that it’s what they want. Such liars.

[@velvetpanther7032]

She just trauma dumps, a true to life dump truck🤷🏾‍♀️

[@queenofhearts1138]

I am 40, and would like to share my experience for 2023 w getting to know men, and trying to get back on the dating scene. I have entertained 3 men nothing sxual but opened the door to conversation. All 3 bm attempted to turn the convo into a therapy session. Divulging way too much information, deep hurts, disappointments and wounds. Men new to me, new to my life, new to talking on the phone. Using it as an opportunity to pour out their voids on me. It became clear that a lot of men simply aren't doing the inner work/self healing to match us where we are intellectually, spiritually, and emotionally. The way these grown men >>>45+ went on and on about their pain shows me they aren't facing their hurts AT ALL. They come to the situation expecting you to hold space and do emotional labor with them. BM EXPECT THIS OF YOU FROM THE GATE. "Get somebody else to do it!!!!"

[@vmfjae1180]

They want us to absorb all of their sadness and hurt,dry their tears and baby them... No thanks

[@cdious6]

I guess, screw BM’s pain.

[@annastone5624]

I think a lot of men won’t go near therapy and so unfortunately think making an emotional connection with someone is the place to share..

[@marilynseptember21]

You should have just charged for their therapy sessions.....I once told a guy I am not your entertainment for when you are bored to call me....go call someone else.....

[@ItsMissLalaToYou7]

Trauma bonding.

[@rwiley8535]

I chose divestment before it was a movement. I have experienced double standards, a restrictment of my voice, constant game playing, lies everywhere, etc and I use to say why deal with this? So I pulled back from men a long time ago. I am not against them, or hate them. I realized men and male centered Women assumed my hatred. But men hate themselves and male centered Women are constantly bashing men, but their actions are socially acceptable as long as the male ego is intact. Men don't like each other, but want Women to tolerate the brutality. Make it make sense🙄 I sat in on a group, with ALL Women. The one thing we had in common was our marginalization within Patriarchy. Every Woman had a story. It appeared the Women just took the brutality as is. However, I looked around and thought if we, as Women, could only stick together. Now, we are in this divesting movement. Women are tired of the abuse, the pain, the lies, the blatant hatred and refuse to tolerate those behaviors as something we have to deal with as Women. I like what Sharon Stone stated, men and Women are at two different places emotionally. I have seen Women with rights, reproductive rights, but marriage was always the consideration,.. the foundation. Men have always treated Women like we have to tolerate abusive behaviors. Never evolved and never changed. Men never took global responsibility for our experienced abuses. So, I think the divestment movement have less to do with our rights. It's a part of it, yes, but males brutality toward Women have not changed. Women, over the years, have always accommodated men. Men never accommodated Women. Men refused to take basic accountability for their treatment of us. In the past, I have heard some Women talk about pulling back our resources. I was on it, but most Women, at that time,. ran away from divesting bc they still believed in men. Now, we are globally divesting, and men are trying to abuse us and threaten Women to get back to "our places".. What Women have done throughout the years means nothing to men. The abuses we experienced by the hands of men, collectively mean nothing to them. Honestly, realizing men don't care enough to change their behaviors, is the part that is the most disappointing.

[@MojoeHart]

GIVE A WOMAN 30 WORDS TO CONTRADICT HERSELF //// I am not against them, or hate them. I realized men and male centered Women assumed my hatred. But men hate themselves THIS IS HORSECROCK MEN DO NOT HATE THEMSELVES

[@ljackson24]

Well said!!

[@monejohn9973]

No What's most disappointing is the women who put up with these men.

[@hippie1252]

Thanks for sharing! I've only heard the term divesting a few times but it was usually used in the context of exclusively not dating one specific race of man. So divesting means leaving relationships with men completely?

[@MojoeHart]

TAKE YOUR HALF AND LEAVE YOU FOUGHT FOR IT NO EXCUSES //// CAP@@monejohn9973

[@howwelearngrowdaily]

Sharon Stone...my sentiments exactly. I cannot deal with men in intimate relationships that lacks emotional intelligence & mental maturity.

[@jessaabraham]

I can see this. As you age you really don’t need a man. Sexual desire is not strong as before and you are not looking to conceive. Most wise women and men are financially stable. There is actually no need to date. Friends would be good but no one is trying to attract anyone. Age brings so much maturity. The biggest realization in your face is life is short and there is no space for drama.

[@shanicrystal8671]

Absolutely 💯

[@velvetpanther7032]

💯

[@Tina_O]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@nodzzzz155]

True 🎯

[@martinbrewi7323]

Good point. Why bring someone into your life if they are more trouble than they are worth ? At my age ( 63 ), the women I meet bring me nothing but grief and drama:(

[@dtm2078]

I ain't mad at her: self love and self preservation should always come first👏

[@missxmarvel]

Even with kids.

[@staywell7217]

...and this is a WW speaking, who has the most favorable "pick of the litter", so to speak. Sharon Stone spoke absolutely no lies. There is some weirdness occurring with men throughout this world...of course men will blame it on feminism. Women in general just want peace and balance in this short life.

[@reespace]

And they don't know the first thing about feminism.

[@InayahEleven]

Most guys have always been like this. They’re finally getting exposed.

[@fitgirlism3038]

The weirdness you speak of? I think its homoeroticism...plain and simple. Men are obsessed with other MEN. They are obsessed with their own bodies, their own whims, and their own success. They are obsessed with anything like THEM. But its all biblical...in the last days, 'men will be lovers of themselves'. Porn gives them an outlet for relief without having to think of the needs of a woman. And the only woman that fits into their life? A spineless, brainless, sex doll bent on serving all day every day. In times past, they had their pick of the litter because women could not survive without them. Women soon learned that the ability to take care of yourself is the key to escape the misery and abuse that these cretans bring. So now, this destructive being is optional, not mandatory. And a number of women are checking out and leaving the options on the table...options that promise more destruction than happiness. Men just don't know what to do when decency is now a requirement.

[@Xtheearthchildx]

My dating experiences have been quite literally traumatizing. If i never met my husband I wouldn’t bother with dating at all. Idk why people think being alone is a threat. Dating is way scarier than my own company lol

[@witchsistah]

55 year old here. Sis, SAME! I am happily married and I know it was pure DUMB LUCK (he admits it too) that we even FOUND each other, especially after repeated dating trauma for me. This is my LAST romantic/sexual relationship.

[@Xtheearthchildx]

@@witchsistah yes ma’am!!!

[@Meow4B]

Yep 50 years old here and I don’t want anyone living in my apartment with me except for my cat. Some people can’t be alone with themselves. They need constant entertainment and stimulation and they don’t know how to get that for themselves they have to literally feed off other people

[@Godhelpus62]

I have no interest in dating or being in a romantic relationship. Men my age just want someone to cook and clean for them and they have so much unresolved emotional baggage - I just don’t need that in my life. I’ve been burned too many times so my ability to trust men is pretty much gone. I really don’t feel lonely or alone since I have great friends and family and tons of interests. I want to utilize my energy in other ways that are more fulfilling such as helping others.

[@gigiarmany4332]

Amen

[@dorothyshrewsberry7615]

At 57, I've found I am more productive and happier without a partner. My son's father had another woman in my bed while I was in the hospital just having our son. My mother told me, you have 3 children what man will want you. You will be nothing and lose everything. I stayed and lost everything. I lost me, I lost my respect for myself, I learned to hide and cry, hide my hurt, I learned to pretend the beatings and other women didn't really happen. I was no more than his property, his free maid, his bed wench when he decided, I learned I was nothing to myself. Then something in me snapped once my youngest started school and I could go get a job. I learned I could make my own way. I could become an educated, happy person who was self-supportive. I didn't need him for anything. I left, I dated a few and realized the majority were about the same as him. They wanted to be controlling (the old boys club is still alive and well), they wanted that damsel in distress that they could play mind games with. One man told me you don't need anyone in a way that wasn't what he wanted. I said you're right if someone is now in my life it's because I want them there not need them there. For now, I see no want for a relationship. I'm a better me solo and love it. Ladies, never let anyone tell you you're not good enough. You Are!

[@weekendnomad5038]

“You’re going to die alone” me:don’t threaten me with a good time. Oh noooo !! no stress whatever will I do with my time ???

[@Queen_EL11]

😹😹😹

[@pysq8]

"Ride or die" vs "Die alone" Why're they so obsessed with our death? 😮

[@susannehuber3996]

How horrible. Having all the time in the world to do whatever you want? Sounds horrible.

[@Itsalwaysbeenaboutme1844]

Exactly! They say it as an insult, but I look at it as a blessing. No one to worry about on my death bed and no one looking to take advantage of my time. I'm good!

[@msdepree7950]

😂😂😂👏🏽👏🏽

[@faye_bulous]

The ‘I don’t need another kid’ is a big one!!!! I think many women relate with this part. Women have to teach them basics things and it’s tiring! 😩

[@Liz-wz8dh]

It's sad how true it is. I mean even men in their 40s still act like teenage boys. And it's not even uncommon. That is the scariest thing I realized as I got older. I really thought at some point they would start to mature but they just don't and you end up having to mother them just to get them to a point where you can interact with them like an adult. I see why less and less women want to put in that work for the average guy. You really can't undo decades of poor parenting skills and relationship skills with most of them and it becomes a smarter decision to just let them be and focus on yourself.

[@etcwhatever]

The problem is men know how to do things. They dont WANT to do them...and find lame excuses for us to be their slaves.

[@etcwhatever]

​@@Liz-wz8dhyou are correct. Im 34...almost married a 43 yo man. Left him because he was very immature and toxic.

[@purplelove3666]

Teach? Girl I thought you had to do it for them!

[@Ourown311]

​@etcwhatever you dodged one hell.of a crusty powdered semen bullet.

[@malinaioana-ferrante8894]

Women everywhere are tired. 😢

[@brittanyb5942]

I know I am 💯

[@Lady-Evonne77]

I gave up. I'm pretty sure that I'll be single til the day I die cause single is my default setting😂😂😂.

[@DeeDeex007o]

Two years ago, I said NEVER AGAIN!

[@redrock740]

@@DeeDeex007o Same!

[@carolyndaniels386]

It’s entirely too much dealing with immaturity men. Exhausting!

[@HeyTidi]

I can’t deal with the sassiness and sadness (for themselves) men bring. Their energy is off putting and I’m quite happier alone. Decorating my cute, quaint, quiet apartment and not having a man around is bliss. Brunches and Trader Joe’s grocery trips with my girlfriends make me smile. Out of country trips with my mom, niece, and sister warms my heart. I’m so good. Anything wrong, I take responsibility for the issue. I’m so good.

[@mstyles2667]

LOVE this!

[@rachelbrooks3586]

Reading this made my heart smile ❤ i dont know you but im truly happy for the life you're manifesting

[@alanakasem1723]

yes, 'anything wrong you take responsibility'....issue with a lot men, not taking accountability for their mistakes and gaslighting

[@aries81M]

💯💯💯💯💯 true

[@WriteMeASong7]

Yea but it’s the “mEn” who built Trader Joe’s and the farm and the world and your apartment building! 😂😂😂 Jokes aside, I’m so happy to read how happy and quiet your life is ❤

[@GrannysBabies642]

I'm still holding on to a "marriage". If this don't last; NEVER again. I tell people that men who marry soon after their wife dies or leave; HE jumps right back in...women, not so much. People THINK it's because of this, or that. Men enjoy and benefit from marriage; not women. She ain't just jumping back into something she couldn't enjoy.

[@naturalgirldiy]

Very true. Ive seen it in my own family.

[@ampmri2434]

Right on. Marriage seems like a job from the woman's pov. It's not a coincidence that women initiate divorce more and like you said men do not live alone long esp. after having a wife or partner for many years. I've seen it from the male relatives in my family.

[@alyssawoodman]

I know a man that after his wife unalived herself he was inside another woman full blown wineing and dining her 11 months later.

[@zoe-ml8cx]

Hun sometimes let go and let God... make sure your not the only one holding the rope

[@ampmri2434]

@@alyssawoodman 11 months seems sufficient to at least start dating?

[@jenwendy7]

a very very long time ago Sharon Stone was quoted "men can fake entre relationships" she has been on this quest well before her current age i just remember feeling so floored by that comment cuz i related to it so much they don't view or experience our interactions the way we do

[@velvetpanther7032]

😮

[@missinterpretation4984]

As she was talking I had this visual that women have had to develop confidence which is like a rock (maybe because her name is Stone) whereas men learn arrogance, which is like a balloon. So they see themselves as bigger but they’re fragile, we know we’re smaller but we’re solid.

[@bluejay6229]

This deserves more attention

[@PowerJade]

Wow great analogy! I’d add on top of that: since men are the balloon which reflects arrogance, they can float in air without a care in the world, bumping into all things but can get carried away directionless if they are not guided by a steady hand. Women being the rock - we are stepped and stomped on, taking on more abuse than necessary for no reason but we manage to stick around to be part of someone’s stepping stone and foundation, instead our own. Women need to be their own rock.

[@velvetpanther7032]

😮oooooh🙌🏼

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

THIS IS PERFEEEECTT 💖

[@allysegraben2196]

Love this analogy

[@Cosmic_Event]

From what I understand Sharon Stone has a genius level IQ.....she is one of those women who seriously THINKS and move accordingly. I love truly smart women, they analyze, think, see if it matches with their intuition and then they seem to make the right choices. I love it!

[@ana-nim]

I have almost the same IQ with her (hers 154, mine 153) and I don't allow men in my inner circle since 24 yo. Coincidence? I don't think so.

[@rwiley8535]

Exactly I love her intelligence

[@tallglasscocoa6105]

When I watched the Pamela Anderson docu on Netflix. She said the exact same thing that she just want to be with her mom, kids and pets. She is done with men and the games they play. Now Sharon Stone and Drew are saying it too. Now you know why men want young 20-30 women because they can jedi mind trick them into being the Stepford Wife (soft life) movement.

[@Cateyes767]

I'm noticing that the young ones aren't as easily fooled nowadays and most of them are not falling for the old games from older men.

[@Ourown311]

Soft life is not the stepford wives. Too totally different things

[@haileyt857]

I'm 28 and have been quick to cut ties with any man who I'm talking with (which doesn't happen often, it's been three "men" in the last three years, as I don't like men in general) as soon as he shows his ass. They always do, and the red flags are no longer easily passed over in the beginning once you swap out the rose colored glasses with clear lensed ones that are the right prescription

[@velvetpanther7032]

@@haileyt857💯💯

[@tahsina.c]

​@@Cateyes767I'm 23 and I was gonna write this. Dont worry, we know what they're good for 💰😉

[@unbothered6357]

I am 46 now I dipped out at 32. I do not have one grey hair and my mind is at peace. Just making plans for a content and satisfying future. Men are an unnecessary headache

[@janelbest1522]

This is a clear sign of more WOMEN knowing their self-worth and NOT settling for worthless individuals in their lives.

[@venda1008]

I have stopped dating from 35,im now 40 i feel great

[@healingonesmindset]

I'm 45 and 2.5 years in! My marriage did me in girl! LOL

[@solomoon3083]

I’m 43 and almost 4 years.

[@Bibirallie]

Not even thirty and I’m tired.

[@ertfgghhhh]

I'm 49, about to be 50. A divorce and a situationship. 6yrs later..... I'm good

[@monejohn9973]

I stopped at 29 lol I'm 35 😅

[@jungersrules]

Ms. Stone hit it right on the dot with the fact that men are turning to each other and instead of talking real, they are talking shite about stuff, including women. Everything then, to them, turns out to be everyone else's fault. So, no personal accountablility.

[@Kiki-jx6by]

Had to cut off a man who was great in most areas. But when he got upset, he did not respect boundaries, do not have the ability to communicate well with respect when upset. Deal breakers. Nothing can work with incorrect communication.

[@AndyyWithAY]

All the girlies are saying the same thing. Any man WILL NOT do. These men are going to have to work on themselves and stop blaming everyone and everything else. Dogs love unconditionally. A dog has never been involved in infidelity. They'll lay down their life to protect you. And a lot of them are more independent than these men.

[@Meow4B]

Men need to wake up because they truly think that any man is better than no man. I saw a man on Reddit ask with all seriousness why women would even use a sex toy when they could just go out and get sex from men, the women came to tell him exactly why it was glorious.

[@iamsdaughter9865]

I LOVE my single, child free life.

[@Meow4B]

Me too, and at 50 years old I can safely say that I have never regretted not having children. As a matter-of-fact, the older I get the happier I am that I made the choices that I made.

[@antinatalistwitch111]

Ase. ❤

[@Apricot90]

Me too! I'm 33 and gonna have my tubes tied next month! I am not even dating but need to make sure that I will never fall for the hormonal baby trap and men's crap.

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

ME TOOOO💖

[@EadsB7002]

wise women! and i have always seen it as a total scam myself. grateful everyday i never fell for it either! out of all of my friends married with kids, one of them seems genuinely happy....the others are struggling. You can tell motherhood and being with an immature, unsupportive partner is taking a toll. @@Apricot90

[@femdivinemind7777]

Sharon spoke a whole sermon about raising young men 👏🏾

[@sucram1018]

As a guy myself(24 years old). I don't blame her. Although I'm heterosexual, I can understand how she feels. There are a lot of people that make dating much harder than it has to be. As she stated, a lot of the men she's met are pretty much immature and not relationship material. That's how I've seen many people act. A lot of people are immature and aren't relationship mature and want to play games.

[@user_7239]

I’m so glad she said this at a national level! Fuck yes!!!

[@vmfjae1180]

My jaw dropped I think it's a first for a celebrity to say those kind of things. She ended men

[@blondie9933]

I just feel like as women we are cognitively far more superior.

[@Ourown311]

Yep, always have been. I still don't understand how women let men rule them for this long.

[@winterqueenkel]

We are.

[@missxmarvel]

Morally too. 80% of crimes are done by men world wide.

[@blondie9933]

@@missxmarvel absolutely!

[@faye_bulous]

👆🏾this right there! And they can’t keep up with us, what us to downgrade, have low standard but as soon as they suck life out of you will run to the next one!

[@AdzaanMaiiTso]

When she says they are dependent on our wombs, it is no joke. Part of the economy depends on mothers and children.

[@schokococoa575]

Yup the amount of money that’s made off of motherhood is crazy: hospital bills for giving birth/check ups, diapers and baby formula, clothing, strollers, car seats, day care/baby sitters, heck even iPads now. The less children there are, the less these industries can manipulate and make a profit off of them

[@sfc5774]

Hmmmmm……just a thought-- maybe this is why old white men don’t want women to control their bodies (birth control, abortions). It’s an economic issue. Many countries are struggling with low birth rates. Women are not “cooperating”. They’re not providing the next generation to keep the economy going.

[@LoveK1]

Remember during the pandemic when they ran the numbers for how much money the economy was losing by women leaving the work force? It was crazy high! And that’s just the work when get paid to do. The cost of our unpaid/unappreciated label is astronomical.

[@meganrenee5581]

Powerful. This is coming from a successful, rich, white woman. We are ALL collectively done. Here. For. It.

[@dp1202]

I pulled back from men since august of 2020 and have been thriving. But of course it makes your friends who are still a part of the hunger games uncomfortable so they tried to set me up. So I tried to dip my pinky toe in because supposedly “he is a good man” blah blah blah. Ole boy didn’t make it 60 days before his foolishness and mask fell off so I deuced out. It was more confirmation for myself that what I am doing is right for my life. After 3 years of singleness and abstinence, nothing with these men (lies, belittling, games, gaslighting, disrespectful behavior, competitiveness, mean spiritedness, childishness, snide remarks/comments) have changed.

[@gonegirl9114]

The part about being set up is literally irritating. I have woman family members taking care of grown man but trying to set me up thinking it’s something wrong with me because I’m single. In return I think it’s something wrong with them for taking care of a grown man and not being able to be alone or at least equally yoked.

[@dp1202]

@@gonegirl9114 agreed girl. One of my friends who I have been warning that her husband is escalating just got choked out and a black eye on new years. He did it in front of their girls and instead of apologizing he told them this is what happens when you speak to a man like this. Women need to get away from these men they are becoming unhinged.

[@Meow4B]

Yep I entertained a dude that I used to love in my 20s, he barely made it two weeks before I remembered why we didn’t work out, I mean I remembered why I just assumed he had evolved since the 90s. He had not.

[@velvetpanther7032]

Hunger games😂

[@Tina_O]

@@velvetpanther7032😂😂😂😂 yes, hunger games took me out. I’m using that term in my next defense statement of my singleness 😂😂

[@zannoahkinsman1982]

They told us to choose better, so we did!

[@Tina_O]

I knew it wasn’t tripping! I have been feeling this way for a minute and I am a 38 year old single mom of 2. When speaking on singleness, my married colleague loves throwing subs by saying things like “I don’t want to be lonely”. Why does being single equate to being lonely? No shade, but you’re in a toxic marriage with several children and poppa husband not even living with you or helping you with any bills. Yet, you still rock a ring and call him your husband to the outside world. I don’t understand it, but don’t make me feel bad for choosing a life of peace. Also, I’m tired of hearing about folks marital problems. I can’t do anything for you. One minute I’m ridiculed for CHOOSING to be single and next minute you’re venting to me for hours about a man YOU CHOSE to marry and bear children for. All that stops now cause I’m living my best life for ME. I don’t want to suffer with you anymore sis.

[@ms.p6828]

Won’t they try to make you suffer with those marital issues. I be like look, we have discussed this 100 times and I refuse to do so any longer. Leave him or shut up!!! I have had ppl do the same to me but I tell them I love not having to consult with anyone but my dog🤣☠️☠️☠️. We live in perfect peace over here.

[@Lady-Evonne77]

I give advice 1 or 2 times. If they don't take it and keep going right back to the situation causing them issues, then I'm done talking about it or hearing about it because clearly they want to keep dealing with it. Like, let me know when you get tired of it and I'll come and help you pick up the pieces.

[@ChristinaTheWatercolorFox]

The way men treat us has hit a breaking point. When men begin treating us as people and give us basic decency maybe it will be worth partnering with them. They refuse to try to grow and blame women! We are not even safe with men. The most likely person to harm us is our male romantic partner. The men who have been paying attention and treat women with respect are having no trouble finding partners. My friends always are so blown away that my boyfriend does housework and treats me well but that’s the bare minimum. I had completely stopped dating after three painful relationships and decided to just raise my children in peace alone when I met my current boyfriend. I think taking a step back to gain understanding of what you want for yourself is something we should do regularly. If men are not willing to make things better we will just have to shut them out.

[@Meow4B]

I recently reconnected with a man I was in love with in the 90s. It only took a couple weeks of conversation to see that he has literally not evolved since the 90s. He kept talking about the woman who was my best friend back then and how she has “three kids from three men eewwww.” OK well her first kid was with this guy’s friend who has two kids from two different women but nobody’s telling him gross. She had that kid when she was 19. Is he implying that Peter should have owned her for the rest of her life because she had her first baby with him? Her following two children she had one each with each husband she had going through life. So she’s wrong for having a baby with her husband just because she had a baby at 19 with a dude who didn’t commit to her? F OFF with that. Then he proceeded to talk about her body and how she isn’t as cute as she was when we were 16. Yuck yuck yuck. I actually ended the conversation and the friendship after he acted like he was doing me a favor for wanting me because I’m disabled. He literally said guys must not want you because you’re disabled, I laughed out loud and said no sir, I look fine so literally nobody cares about that. But BYE because that’s language of an abuser. Like he thought he would get me trapped in his home and I would have nowhere to go because nobody else would ever want me. As if I’m not over here living by myself doing just fine. I don’t need anyone to want me, but unfortunately there’s been no shortage of that even at 50 years old and disabled

[@alanakasem1723]

wtf...his manners...glad you dodge a bullet@@Meow4B

[@payasoinfeliz]

"The way men treat us" "My friends always are so blown away that my boyfriend does housework and treats me well" These are contradictory statements. You current boyfriend is a man. The men who treated you poorly are not your current boyfriend. You gotta move on.

[@karna8658]

U know I saw a tik tok video. Where this woman was sharing her story.. One day when her husband came from work, and asked for an glass of water. Her friends, who were also present there got angry at the husband, saying why can't he do it for himself. He got really upset, but didn't said anything. She the explained to her friends, that when ever she is sick , he takes complete care of her , during her pregnancy, he used to wake up at night , and bring ice cream or other foods , whenever she craved for it , n he never complained. So why can't I as a wife , bring him one glass of water??.. This is the situation in modern day.

[@avig8334]

I’m with Sharon on this one . Men are very immature emotionally when it comes to relationships. Men have depended on women being desperate

[@goldenqueengodesshathor]

HEY... SHE IS NOT WRONG.. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I TOO FEEL THIS WAY.. AND IM RAISING A BOY.. BASICALLY ALONE.. ALSO.. SMH 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@zoe-ml8cx]

Teach him right don't let some doosh do it

[@missxmarvel]

You got yourself a future abuser in the make or an incompetent man-child. When he gets a hold of the smelly and unfit podcast videos he’ll blame you for that.

[@InayahEleven]

Please make sure he doesn’t resent ladies. Too many guys out there with such mindsets 😢

[@lynettegryniak6265]

A friend of mine is a life coach. She said a lot of men end up hating women because they were raised by a single mother. Now one would think they would love women since they were raised by one… But many times they say it’s because the woman keeps them away from their father, hates their dad so doesn’t let the father see the kid, or didn’t try harder to work it out with the father. So now he resents his mother although he may not tell her… Then he goes out into his adult life subconsciously hating all women

[@PamD6550]

I realized this at a very young age (middle school) about Males and started dating females in College. There is nothing like a female love. A man could never love and care for another like a female and I am looking for Love. The divine feminine energy is so beautiful.

[@michaeljacksonlov14]

I’m trying to find my special girl ❤ men can’t love like us

[@melanatedthinking]

I couldn’t agree more!

[@Meow4B]

I wish I could be a lesbian, if conversion therapy actually worked I would be willing to sign up for it if it could make me a lesbian. It doesn’t work, that’s why I choose celibacy instead

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

Yes I realized at 13 how absolutely evil they are. Void of actual love.

[@mwandikay]

​@@michaeljacksonlov14❤

[@nadianohelani7413]

My life has been significantly better ever since I decided to leave men alone. The peace I have is AMAZING. My skin is clear, my hair is growing, I can think clearly and rationally, reach my goals, etc. I could go on. I love men but I’m better having them as friends. Relationships and dating are a thing of the past.

[@tiffanyyisrael7989]

All women of every race, every economic status and every social status are tired. We're just done.

[@Shortypants1215]

The dogs part was was a joke, guys not a note on something beastial. Yeesh.

[@criticalthinking6929]

Yeah…I’m not sure why she didn’t get that🤷🏾‍♀️

[@sinceresinclair]

Exactly

[@Piscean83]

Right

[@truffaut650truffaut6]

That was a joke..please be real.😂

[@velvetpanther7032]

Exactly. She meant figuratively not literally. There goes the male pee brain again.😂

[@reginoramos9030]

As a gay man i highly agree with this. Not all guys are terrible but most if not almost all are terrible. Im 31 and men are exhausting to deal with date with. Im honestly real close to stop trying with them. They play too kany games and gaslight. They tempt you pull away and then want you again its like fix your mental state or something but dont drag me into your emotional dirty games...... Agree with Sharon ❤ shes absolutely correct

[@lorelei5902]

💯 so tired of dealing with the hot & cold and commitment issues. It seems like they want to keep a variety of options for their pleasure and entertainment only.

[@reginoramos9030]

@@lorelei5902 exactly 🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@joanna0988]

Well damn I thought the gay men had it better because you guys get each other. Sorry to hear it's a mess out there for y'all too 😢

[@reginoramos9030]

@@joanna0988 thanks and yea sadly the world is going thru it when it comes to relationships. :(♥️

[@joanna0988]

@@reginoramos9030 Definitely. Everyone needs therapy 😅 I'm with my husband for 18 years but our daughters are hitting the teenage years and I'm terrified of them dating 😩😩

[@lynettegryniak6265]

I’ve watched those red pill shows and let me tell you… They continually say they are “masculine” They think that masculine means have money, nice cars and a bunch of women. They never talk about guarding a woman’s heart, supporting her when she needs it, leading the household, financially providing, never cheating on her, don’t lie or be disloyal. They don’t tell the men they should plan deeds, court her like they did in the beginning, admire her, intimate, learn how to communicate openly and maturely.

[@biancam2327]

Women are starting to see that energy is everything..

[@goddesswildredspeaksTruth]

I agreed with each and every words spoken by Goddess Sharon Stone....I always rotational dated the wallet, never the heart......in which seems stressful to date for love. I collect jewelry not trauma and drama.

[@kellysnyclife663]

Smart ..I could never do that at one point but that's where I am now!

[@goddesswildredspeaksTruth]

@@kellysnyclife663 my only advice, save and invest their coins ....therefore when you reach my seasoned age,,,you can or not date, work, get out of bed, &/or etc..,,,your choice. I tell baby Goddesses,,, decisions done in your youth,,,,has a Powerful effect on your Seasoned Lifestyle. I never did nuff for Free....especially my time..... Time is Currency.

[@tashahall1855]

That’s the only way you’re gonna win anything with these men

[@asecretchannel4135]

Honestly, the only way for women to do it. Sprinkle sprinkle ✨.

[@Cateyes767]

Exactly. I wish more women would get this!

[@Mikinaak2023]

Reading all these comments I realized that I am grateful for the peace and quiet that I have manifested for myself.

[@ST-rj8iu]

My parents bought a house in the 70s. Only my father's name could be put on the mortgage. The lender ignored my Mother.

[@heathercutler5114]

They tried doing that with my parents in the early 70s. My dad gave them the choice of adding her to it, or not getting his business. They gave in, and added her to the mortgage. It shouldn't have been a fight though.

[@Meow4B]

When my mom got divorced at the end of the 70s my grandma had to cosign the rental lease for her. I think it was because of income mostly, but I also think that when they couldn’t require women to need a male cosigner anymore, they decided to still require women to need a cosigner as a way to keep that going. Too bad for them, my grandma was a doctor in public health, she didn’t need a man and she made sure my mom didn’t either.

[@indigo991]

OMG Tonya they were joking about the dogs. It was just banter. Lawd.

[@NotSoTypikal]

I swear!!! Can’t get time wasted back. Males are just not worth the risk. I’ve always been happier alone. At this point in my life, I simply can’t risk sacrificing my mental peace. Took me too long to get here. My energy goes 100% to my adult daughters and my grandson. I’ve never been happier!!!

[@sunnni_]

I would be considered to most a "late bloomer" (just turned 27) and I just started dating 2 years ago and I am already out. I truly don't see a reason now to be with someone when most men I've come across lack emotional intelligence, compassion, sincerity, honesty, faithfulness, & self discipline. The amount of times I've been gaslighted and had a few try to manipulated me is astounding until I had to remind them I am just as a human as they are and deserve respect. Women are EXHAUSTED

[@mizkomunikation9478]

She doesn’t date or want to, and somehow her home isn’t being broken into every other night, she still walks the street without being robbed, and her local police dept seems to offer more than enough “protection”. Hmmmm… 🤔 P.S. - The movie you’re thinking of is called, “Basic Instinct”

[@vmfjae1180]

Men are the danger. With them, you will be assaulted in your home home

[@lizzyforevermore4]

Yessss. I don't even have kids and when she said I don't want no more kids. I understood that heavily. I'm sick and tired of explaining things that they should at least be aware of. And the accountability..... You don't want even get started that.

[@missxmarvel]

Men preach about accountability until they screw up then they become dogs with their tail between their legs saying they are not perfect, it was a mistake, the flesh is weak..

[@pretoriaafro5074]

Such a coincidence they were both holding dogs. I think that the dogs replace cats (protection). I never wanted to deal with the games and lies. Just rather stay to myself and not have my feelings trampled on by any man.

[@scarlettfrancesca]

I am 40 and I have been in the dating arena since I was 15. I've been married, have had long term relationships and have dated as well. It doesn't matter if they are 18 or 80, 95% of males have no idea how to treat someone else with kindness, consideration or respect. It is shocking and disturbing how males truly treat women as if we are just here to serve, worship and open our legs for them yet they offer nothing of value, meaning or benefit to our lives. I'm happier being single. I don't need or want the headache, abuse or hassle that always comes from a hetero relationship.

[@eumeliacorona9824]

🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@jayjones7891]

Yes, men and women are no longer compatible. We need to separate.

[@eumeliacorona9824]

@@jayjones7891 great idea

[@rebels42wynn83]

First and foremost, Sharon looks so amazing and healthier than ever. Secondly, I can relate to both her and Drew myself. Being alone is the most beautiful thing that I love. And finally, I have my daughter and our home life. Great video. 🥰🥰🥰🥰😍

[@Mrs.MoonToad]

From Sharon Stone to Pamela Anderson. Hollywood sex dolls embracing their age and natural femininity and decentralizing men has been a breath of fresh air to see. The most desired women who could choose any man they want would rather choose happiness for themselves. That’s eye opening and liberating to see.

[@CeceTvCeceTv]

Women world wide are fed up with these men and I love it!!!

[@Tyfynys]

This is me now. They are most definitely not at our level emotionally.

[@tashahall1855]

Its NOTHING out here. Ppl think you are negative by saying this but its true. These days finding a good partner is like winning the lottery . Only way I will be in another relationship is if a good man falls in my lap lol. Otherwise its not happening

[@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha]

EXCELLENT analogy. Wow. Yes. It's just as difficult as winning the lottery... #RealityCheck ✅

[@CordeliaWagner1999]

Met mine at the library. He is a gem and I know he is a very rare exeption.

[@tashahall1855]

​@@CordeliaWagner1999thats good. Hope yall last for the long haul ❤

[@alieninthecaribbean]

We TIRED!!!! Just plain EXHAUSTED. Giving up the dream allows a better reality to be experienced.

[@callmechichi1711]

Your face when she said, “here’s my boyfriend”. 😩😩😪😪😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 #Priceless

[@ladystarfish531]

I'm glad to be alive to see this awakening..it gives me hope for the human race❤

[@rwiley8535]

Exactly #DivineFeminine

[@talondaecckles8524]

I believe it’s true the population could go down. I only had 1 child. The kids are worth it but the man is not in my experience. Never met some1 I would have chose as my child’s father. So that blocked me for having more children. 1 an done here

[@alyssawoodman]

The population is going down. Most developed nations have a dropping birthrate. Nowhere near replacement levels.

[@TheCarnivoreSoprano]

It's not a myth. It's happening. And the social engineers of the world designed it that way.

[@LoveK1]

@@TheCarnivoreSopranoI don’t think “social engineers” want a declining birth rate. In fact, it’s a huge problem for them. Less people means less consumers and workers which does nothing for them.

[@CocoaBeige]

While in team building training at work the facilitator asked the room for a show of hands how many of you are married? The majority of the room of 40 rose their hands quickly and proudly. Then she asked okay how many of you are happily married? My jaw dropped. No one rose their hand except the hesitant one fellow next to me. The room looked perplexed. smh that told me everything I needed to know. She quickly skipped over to another topic.

[@velvetpanther7032]

😮😮😮😮😮😮

[@MelModica]

It’s true most people are not happy in relationships and a lot of single people aren’t happy either. Sad world we live in!

[@rwiley8535]

Wow

[@LoveK1]

That was a drive by! Hahahahaha😂😂😂😂

[@kathrynhall1136]

Coupling is tiring, it requires lot out of a person emotionally,mentally,psychologicall, physically,financially. When you are coupling or dating, you have to resign yourself to the reality of sharing most of who you are with,another human being. On all levels and aspects of your life.

[@Ninabina87]

I am a single mother and I have been single for 5 years now. There are MANY reasons why I choose not to date, the main one of which being that my experiences with men in the past have been so mentally, emotionally and physically draining that the pay off for the relationship is just NOT worth it to me any more (speaking as a woman in her late 30s who had been dating since she was 17 in short and long term relationships, multicultural too). I also want to say that I personally know some wonderful men on a friendship level who make me laugh and bring me joy, but romantically, I can safely say I have enough satisfaction and contentment in my life I don’t want to disrupt it for any kind of man even on the foreseeable future…

[@iamshesheisme8954]

I'm pulling back my womb, my 😸, time and my interest. I'M officially out of service, out of business and " gone fishing" 😂😂😂 I don't know if I'll ever come back.

[@KushQueen9]

😂😂 thats it!

[@TheBLACKboard65]

Been out of the dating pool since 2010. No loss, no stress, no issues.

[@WillowT442]

I tried marriage - my husband was not my partner. He wanted all of the control but still wanted to act like a teenager. I wanted 3 children but I did not want my third child to be a man child.

[@FaridaDawkinsYY]

This 🙌

[@syndrfox]

Once you shift your time, your attention, and your money to loving yourself & continuously putting yourself FIRST, you won’t settle for anything less than you deserve. 💅 Something I always say to myself is “if I bought it, then I deserve it” So of course I like to get myself nice things. Another iteration of that quote goes “If I put up with it, then I deserve it.” so of course I’m not gonna hang around any drama or fake bs, because I worked too hard on myself to be treated like shit. That isn’t to say that I have an inflated ego, but rather, that I will ALWAYS opt to treat myself with kindness in everything I do and be wise with where I spend my time and attention, because it is too valuable to be spent carelessly. If anyone has a problem with that, then that’s their problem. I’m just out here happily cruising in my lane & you can vibe w/ me if you know how to keep up baby. 💕💁‍♀️

[@velvetpanther7032]

💯

[@valkylva]

The biggest mistake men make whether they have their stuff together or not, is stepping on a good woman and not being prepared for her to enter his life. The amount of men who wish they didn’t lose me is astounding. They all call me the one that got away.

[@MelModica]

I get a lot of ex’s coming back too! They take good women for granted, then we dump them, they think they can find better but never do! I have men from 15 years ago trying to get back with me!

[@LoveK1]

They always dog out the good ones until they meet their match. Those women that meets them where they are and gives them EVERYTHING they gave to good women(Chaos, lies, pain). Those women have them sliding down a wall and tearing at their hair thinking about how good they had it in the past. Those women are doing a public service sometimes.

[@callmechichi1711]

Firstly, I AGREE with Sharon! Secondly, you look absolutely beautiful Tonya 😍😍❤️.

[@nandiphakhemese3940]

I’m a lesbian. It’s the same across the board. Women hurt us too. People in general are insincere. Period.

[@MelModica]

Yes people in general are not trustworthy!

[@rwiley8535]

I am a lesbian. Divesting from men is a completely different thing for us on some levels. However, we still deal with direct marginalization and abuses that "straight Women" deal with. As Women, we experience abuses from our jobs, in education, even in male centered religion that vilianize homosexuality. Even today, men want to intrude in our intimate spaces with Women. In one incident, a man attacked two lesbians who were preparing for prom, graped both of them, and unalived one. men still feel threaten by our relationships with Women and try to gaslight us to think that our relationships with Women is directly linked to a male abandonment and/or abuses. Right now, I have a male, who was a childhood friend for over 20 years. Married, but still want to sexually intrude in my relationships with Women. And if u notice history books and classes ( his-story, get it)...Our experiences, inventions, ideas, etc have been erased and dominated by men. Yes, u have been hurt romantically by Women. Most people have been hurt romantically. However, DV, SA and sex trafficking have increased in numbers and males are the number one perpetrators. Lucky us, we don't date men or find them appeasing as a romantic interest. But divesting from men? Not just about romance,.. but more about our global experiences at the hands of men. Even our salaries are still marginalized in the States🤷‍♀️ men dehumanizing Women, is the point of our divestment

[@tanyasowell2854]

I echo Sharon's sentiments. The mere passage of time does not guarantee maturity in men. Some men fail to evolve and prioritize the emotional well-being of women. The emotional fatigue experienced by women, who consistently invest their best efforts, is concerning. Men nowadays, often seek grooming and self-care activities previously associated with women, and they may expect gestures like having their nails and facials done, receiving flowers, or having dinner paid for. This transformation in expectations reflects a shift in male behavior over time. Sharon appears to be content and fulfilled, emphasizing the importance of self-love. Good for her! ❤❤

[@islanddiyhairmoreprojectsi5118]

Sharon Stone with the read chile, lol, 🤣🤣, no lies told.

[@slim3160]

“I don’t need another kid.”-Sharon Stone Facts!!

[@NieshaB2012]

That’s why they look amazingly young still!!! No toxic energy stealing and using up their joy!🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️

[@InayahEleven]

Guys will say both Drew and Sharon “no longer look good, they have no choice but to be alone.” They always gaslight ladies.

[@Tracy_555]

I love this!!! So many women are waking up at the same time 😊

[@antoinettesam640]

This is so me I came to this conclusion two years ago, and I’ve never been happier😊

[@86Kera]

I love how soft spoken, strong and confident you spoke . My first time watching you. Good stuff .