"Why Should I Lower My Standards Just Because I'm a Single Mother..." Woman Mad Man Stood Her Up 🤔

[@AntonDaniels]

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[@realariesman]

There are no trophies, rewards, and certificates for a man being a STEP FATHER to another man's child or children. I tried that for 5 years and i raised my step daughter from (6 years old to 11) . I got shitted💩💩💩 on by my step daughter once her mother and I broke up. I had every intention to get married but it didn't happen. I even suggested therapy to help fix our family so that we could still get married. However my Ex hated to hold herself accountable so therapy was not an option for her.

[@inquizative44]

Women like her never considered a man's needs, they have a general disrespect for men and it's only about them.

[@Virtuouswoman78]

Look I was a single mother with ONE son I believe if you're a single mom with one child and I tell my adult son this ..... If he wants to date / marry a woman with one child that has herself together Not ghetto , child father isn't ghetto no mess no drama then that's fine But ....... He doesn't want to be a stepdad to anyone's children He wants his own children with a wife with one woman And I did marry a wonderful man when my son was 4 and I had no additional children my husband already had 2 children of his own and that's t

[@canibusnj]

"Go back and complete the family with the man you started it with!!!" -Kevin Roshon Samuels

[@PenGriffy]

For real

[@Aja_Says]

@@demond1818Kevin’s mother gave it to him

[@pris0906]

Exactly

[@michaelwhite3296]

Say that!!! ("Black" church voice). Lol

[@SouLoveReal]

@@demond1818: Likely 99-to-1? Single mom.

[@taipan1234]

A great man should not lower his standards to date someone else's baby mama..

[@craigman7262]

Right. I don’t get how she says she should lower her standards. What she should say is she should lower her expectations of single men wanting to date a single mother.

[@Painintostrength]

Right nobody want that shyt! Period then most of them do this with multiple dudes like 🤢 dang you let all theses dudes in your womb raw like wtf

[@realtalk6720]

For real 😂😂😂

[@AlbowaSinema]

Unfortunately there are many men who are taking this deal.

[@Painintostrength]

@@AlbowaSinema good luck I to them they can have um 🤷🏾‍♂️ I’m not standing for it!

[@JohnSmith-or8rh]

It's TRAGICALLY sad and disgusting that these single mothers WON'T accept the fact that men without kids are lowering THEIR standards to go out with THEM. SMH.

[@kevindavis4709]

That’s why most folks don’t agree with remarriage.

[@MrLandolph71]

Not exactly. They're perfect for a pump and dump. Maybe even a fling but not wife material at all.

[@kevindavis4709]

@@MrLandolph71 exactly I found out as a visually impaired man I can get sex easily on a street corner in a strip club whorehouse than I could ever be good enough to be a woman’s husband. I choose not too play with the world the warm wet hole isn’t worth it yes it feels good a few strokes you ready to go but not worth a man losing his soul. Though I been told by some women I’m not physically attractive too be their husband. Don’t mean I don’t I hadn’t found out what it’s like too have sex I enjoyed it at the time that’s the old me. Should tell a woman next time she tells me I’m not her type that’s okay ma’am just because you rejected me don’t mean I can’t get poon somewhere else lol

[@JohnSmith-or8rh]

@@MrLandolph71 Well, the only problem with that is if the condom leaks or breaks, then you're stuck with this NO ACCOUNTABLE witch for the next +18 years, and who would want THAT? Not to mention that if you pump and dump her, she may get mad and then falsely claim that you "touched" her other child and get you hemmed up THAT way. Nope, at this point, we ALL will live happier lives by just AVOIDING these single mothers ALTOGETHER.

[@keptbygrace6221]

​@@MrLandolph71 just leave them alone, period. No one should be "pumped and dumped. IJS 🤦🏾‍♀️🙄

[@DefiesAllStereotypes]

I used to get mocked for years (literally) for saying what Anton Daniels said here. I'd take a childless 5/6 any day of the week over a 10 with children. Nothing matters to me more than having my own children and establishing my own legacy.

[@toquinlan]

Not only that, in today's me2, being a step-data is VERY risky!

[@bigmack4254]

Agreed, but let's add that no woman can be a 10 if she has children and never married.

[@jaylen76]

"my own legacy"😂😂😂😂😂

[@rickymcdonald2669]

Yes sir preach

[@11Reload]

@@jaylen76thank you 😂

[@sammylogic1313]

“You can’t judge a single mom because You create a single mom” EXCUSE ME!!!! I have nothing to do with YOUR kid, the only person that you can use that on is on YOUR BABY DADDY!!!

[@Mr_LE3]

“you created a single mom, so how can you judge a single mom” men with no kids owe you NOTHING! That statement is for your Baby Father not the rest of us. You’re still traumatized from the break up

[@irwinbilly6936]

The only person who can create a single mother is a woman. I get it 😅 you trying to charge new car prices for a used car. We don't give a fuck about your pilates. Men have options and raising Kanan is a T V show.

[@JohnSmith-or8rh]

Yep, I caught that too. Apparently, this dame INSANELY believes that ALL men should be held responsible for what her "baby daddy" did. SMDH.

[@craigman7262]

But if a woman is a deadbeat mother. “Don’t judge us as a whole” lol

[@HPGSLOTS]

Men WITH KIDS don't owe these women ANYTHING

[@shookone568]

@@HPGSLOTS Nobody owes anyone anything!

[@dafloridaman]

"You can't get higher than your baby daddy" - Kevin Samuels RIP.

[@Ghost-uh9ie]

He cold!! 😂😂

[@theBSisreal]

💯

[@prettylyricsmarie]

What about Ciara?

[@MIGHTY_REDMOUF]

@@prettylyricsmarie Doesn’t count. Simply because Russell Wilson was literally a fan. He’s a good man, but he was a groupie. He would’ve done any and everything for Ciara before he got any reciprocation from her.

[@prettylyricsmarie]

@@MIGHTY_REDMOUF Russell Wilson seemed into White women before Ciara. I think after time of them being together Russell and Ciara they clicked personality wise, but his ex wives and girlfriends was White. It does count. He changed his preference based on the connection he has with Ciara's spirit.

[@636racer]

every woman wants a great man until they find one that requires them to be a better woman

[@taipan1234]

Excellent Statement..

[@TB-fk4qm]

Loveeeeeeeeeeeeeee this statement!!!💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯❤️

[@Ric_Roar]

Wisdom

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

bingo! They know they can't be. It's not in their DNA and past behavior demonstrates that.

[@antoinewarren8869]

Preach 👏👏 Pour the coffee, serve the tea, and kick ass 🤣🤣

[@Al-Storm]

Dating a single mom is one of the worst mistakes you could ever make.

[@sindust150]

Absolutely

[@cleotusclump1007]

Been there did that, NEVER AGAIN!!!

[@Joshdifferent]

I never did it but I could see how it could be a wild experience

[@Joshdifferent]

I never did it but I could see how it could be a wild experience

[@kentaroo.7759]

Attractive? Fit? Are you effin kidding me! You have a child, you shouldn't date at all!

[@candi0497]

It is dangerous for a man to be around another man's daughter. You can be accused fellas.

[@kerripendragon4888]

Easy accusations and mind games with court cases!!

[@HennesseyNCigarz]

Facts

[@adamcheedlet4871]

It sure is. Thanks for bringing that up. It don’t take much for a man especially a BLACK MAN to get got out here

[@rickyramos9854]

Single Moms go right into the back of the line. Don't call us. We'll call you.

[@rodgerspl]

😂

[@roderickgreen]

😅

[@AlphonseWeebay]

😂

[@justmyopinions-godbless3570]

I thank the LORD Iam married to a White man. Black men are horrible to BW.

[@reginaldhaynes9458]

FACTS BRUH!!

[@risingphoenix1484]

Lmfao.... I'm in her age group a VP of Clinical Operations for a biotech company, I am an MD, I make $400K/yr not including my stock options, and I know a lot of men like me in my cohort, and I can attest with a 100% guarantee we are not looking to date any single mothers. Whether women want to believe it or not, men in position are not looking for them.

[@TheRandomAngel]

Are you in the bag chasers discord?

[@kingreo5489]

💯 💪🏾

[@jonjones7137]

I make 120K and wouldn't touch these basic random birds.

[@pistolpete992]

@risingphoenix I’m in MD and I only make $55k, I’m working on my masters in counseling psyc, and I have a background in research; plz throw me a lifeline 🛟

[@tommysmithii4723]

You're being too polite. Men at that level are dodging single mothers.

[@MOCHI-ek6rc]

I was a step dad, she still cheated and was abusive. I am in my late 30s, Financially ruined, living in a shared house. She told her son to lie that i was physically beating him up and the police were called. After paying majority of the bills etc,.. rent food, it was not enough. Do not do it guys. Be warned. I would rather die than my sons to marry a single mother.

[@DonMack279]

Damn, a similar situation happened to a friend of mine.

[@kingbizzle1357]

That’s pretty bad but imagine if she told her daughter to lied and say she was s*xually assaulted. You probably would not had the chance to tell us your message on here.

[@SuperFrasie]

Damn @kingbizzle1357

[@GG-jn9fx]

Gaddamn dawg I almost got trapped in that situation but split early. Confirmed I made the right decision.

[@migueldomina190]

You are correct don't be a toilet bowl

[@Specialcot77]

Your Best Investment is your Own Children Not Step Children

[@MiguelHernandez8593-sg3cn]

thank you!!!!!!!! tahts what im saying

[@mavrickwatts4030]

I'm 31, the amount of women that tried to sell me on this just like the woman in this video is astounding. It's really THAT BAD out here

[@ItsTheJourney24]

Man exactly! I’m 30 and recently had one that was divorced with 4 kids, try and beg me to take her out she even suggested we do McDonalds and that she would pay. I blocked her number, and I believe she calls me from different numbers blocked. Get asked all the time why I’m single without kids. It’s inane.

[@mavrickwatts4030]

@@ItsTheJourney24 oooof 4 kids is terrible in the dating market. Better hope it's all by one guy and go back to him. 😬

[@ItsTheJourney24]

@@mavrickwatts4030 haha exactly!

[@Bigchevydawg4]

They do the same thing to my homie😂😂😂😂

[@dwwoodsjr]

Don't be step dummy. 😂

[@Skywalker721]

That’s 🔥. 🫡🤝🏾😆

[@donttrip4171]

A lot of pressure and shaming tactics to get good black men to date single moms , and we’re not moving HELL NO! THANK YOU DANIELS

[@dugnice]

There's nothing inherently wrong with being with a single mother, a man just has to understand all that comes with being with one. The problem is when a single mother *contributes little to nothing* to the prosperity of the relationship and only seeks to use a man for whatever he can offer her socioeconomically.

[@JYNX-t4q]

Tbh I’m more worried about the farther of the kid.theres been so many deletion stories with that exact scenario where the father deletes the new dude and mother out of rage and envy

[@LeekedBeats]

@@dugnice That’s where you’re wrong, because there’s everything wrong with being a single mother. It’s a curse on the children. Marry before you carry end of story. Women in western societies have no idea how entitled and lucky they are to get such pity for having children outside of wedlock. If more women had shame, and society shamed women once again for creating a broken home, we wouldn’t have this epidemic of single mothers. I’m a woman myself, and I approve this message.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@kojoefante]

@@dugnicejust shut up and go ahead m, go Marry one ..

[@seensay2132]

I think Society assumes Women deserve grace and mercy no matter what just because they’re women. But Society tells Men to be accountable and suffer consequences simply because we’re Men.

[@GreatGuyforlife]

We won't lower our standards, neither 😅.

[@craigman7262]

Why is it they have this standard after they have a kid. Time and time again

[@GreatGuyforlife]

@@craigman7262 entitlement

[@Skywalker721]

@@craigman7262💯🤝🏾

[@Zaris-y5p]

That’s what I thought

[@TChalla007]

Men will lower their standards. Just not to the level of a single mom. We'll marry a flight attendant, waitress, cahier. BUT NOT a SINGLE MOM. Sorry moms. You made your choice. Live with it like men have to.

[@Cutty-g4w]

She bust it open for Glocktavious but now she has standards 😂😂😂😂

[@Joshdifferent]

😂

[@DexterBoyz1984]

That is funny as hell. Gotta use that line

[@DestructiveAssertiveness-jg8pt]

I just turned 52 and my children are teenagers now. I remember always wanting to have a family and raise children. Now that I am divorced for almost 15 years I would be frustrated at the thought of spending more time with another person's children even more than I am able to spend with my own children that I actually wanted. Over 50-60 percent of men are going to end up in the exact same position.

[@hvathlete2]

Baby mamas are incredibly selfish 😂

[@Phantom6lack]

Say it loud enough for the back of the class to hear it homie 😂.

[@KtotheG]

That selfishness is precisely why they are baby mamas. They wanted to have kids with no fathers' involvement, because they'd rather soak up the sympathy that comes with being a single mother, as well as the government/societal support.

[@darbyohara]

Bingo. If they weren’t they’d have stayed with the father

[@antoinewarren8869]

Why is her fleece so dusty and broken down? She's married to the system and government assistance is her husband 💯🤣😂🤣

[@miguelstigler9170]

YEP 💯 💯

[@DemonLordMD]

I agree with Anton 100%. Ain’t nobody tryna be a step baby daddy.

[@Toussaint32]

Single Mothers think that the package deal is a good deal. I bet they wouldn’t let their sons take that deal.

[@spencersmith9131]

Facts

[@samuelboateng6829]

They will beat around the bush if you ask them that question! Hive mind! They try not to offend other women so they will agree with them! While their actions says different

[@slinkiegirl2001]

CORRECT

[@LiberalWMNDestroyEverything]

My husband and I have already warned our teenager about them.

[@juliochen4083]

Right. Ask them what they would advice their son.

[@D3n1sej]

In today's environment, no single person (Man or Woman) without children should date someone with kids. I also believe everyone should get a pre-nup whether your rich or not.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

MEN are different. MEN pays. women don't. The woman will not have to pay for a man's kid. The MAN will have to pay for the woman's kid.

[@anthonyrobson8949]

Damn you the smartest. I respect your idea 💡😊

[@juniorleslie4804]

Don't you believe in " until death due us part".

[@roythousand13]

I would rather stay single than be in a relationship with a single mother!

[@Nintendogamer757]

“You let him hit it raw, you didn’t have second thoughts. Now you a single mom, now you a single mom” 🎶

[@jasonBGI]

That song is in the back of my head constantly when I see these lovely ladies and their crying in the car TikTok videos

[@jussdoughjustin3893]

🕺🏾🕺🏽🕺🏾🕺🏾

[@josephjefferson6337]

😂😂😂

[@Nintendogamer757]

@@LuckyLeo815 it’s on TikTok mainly but now it’s on different platforms. Called “Now You A Single Mom” by Brandon Jamal

[@rashadreddsent.8453]

I was just about to type this verbatim 🤣

[@dewaynesoulheart342]

I've been asked a billion times why I don't have kids, but single moms don't approach me ever I know plenty they usually just ask me questions. I think they see something in guys the feel comfortable enough to propose why their child shouldn't matter to you. I think it's a respect factor. I'm 40 and never dated a single mom. Pick better gentlemen.

[@dewaynesoulheart342]

For the record just saying I never met any organically and found out they had a kid after I liked or got to know them. If I knew up front I would have said no. It's hard to explain and it makes sense to the logical guys

[@manrightchea]

​@@dewaynesoulheart342Single mothers intentionally hide those details, because they know it devalues them whether they want to admit it or not.

[@KtotheG]

@@manrightchea Nowadays, they're straight up lying about having kids to potential suitors. Some of them have even mischaracterized their kids as "nieces" and "nephews" to men. They're getting desperate out here.

[@Charly300-c3c]

Guys you gotta be careful out there.. you can see their desperation in their faces.. Don't be trapped

[@Tyrone950]

The reason why single mothers should lower her standards because your baby daddy is the highest you ever gone get in life because that's the one you gave your prize possession to...especially nowadays. Even if you find a man (including divorced women), more likely you'll be in a 50/50 relationship. So the next best thing is lower your standards and hope for the best. Free game.

[@LOUDMOUTHTYRONE]

If single moms were great catches why do these people have to beg men to date them?

[@IsambardKingdom]

Yep if they were such a great deal they wouldn’t be single mums - wealthy Chads would be begging and swooning over them

[@Cyber-Rain]

At first, I was disgusted with these entitled single mothers' attitudes. Who cares what the other person wants. ME ME ME ME ME. I have expectations of him, but he has to accept me as I am. We're a package deal. Now, it's just hilarious. Good luck selling that BS.

[@austinrivers2885]

I have every right to decide that the only car I'm interested in buying is a 2024 Escalade. And because I only have $2,000 to spend on it, it's reasonable to assume that the salespeople at the dealerships are going to point out that I'm going to have a very hard time finding anyone who's willing to sell me an Escalade for $2,000. But that doesn't mean that I don't have a right to insist on my brand new Escalade. But then I kinda don't have a right to complain that the dealers are all assholes for not selling me a new Escalade for $2,000.

[@ContextReallyMatters]

Great analogy

[@desmondjefferson2127]

That's misogynist😂🤣😂 Women can go into EXTREME debt and get all they want🤣😂🤣

[@snidecommenter7117]

Nah, nah, nah. You want them to PAY you to take that 2024 Excalade. They need to step up.

[@Eliyah-EliyahuYahudah]

In the words of Stephen A. Smith, "We don't care . . . we don't care!" 🤣

[@darbyohara]

That’s why she’s bitching online. She NEEDS you to care 😂

[@certifiedchaos4643]

Dear single mothers try to work it out with the kids father or date a man with kids.

[@louisj4645]

Men with kids don't deserve them. I say that bc, at the end of the day...rather a man has kids or not, men are expected to foot the bill, pay the mortgage, and pay for the trips/dates...that's a man with or without kids.

[@killakangz5317]

shiiid. i have children and wouldn dare associate a woman wit children. the situation totally different.

[@dcg590]

Men with kids are already taking care of theirs, they don’t want to take care of someone else’s too. Single. Moms are done, men are done trying to help and sick of the disrespect

[@roythousand13]

Honestly, single mothers need to go "Nun Mode"! They need to focus solely on their children and stop dating! These single mothers be bringing strange men around their children.

[@Saviiq]

@@killakangz5317depends on the situation bro

[@mohammedayaz2792]

No, No, No. When did single woman start shaming men to take them seriously. Real men don't take care of other men's kids.

[@TsarOfRuss]

She comes with a baggage, Her first priority is her kid, second is herself, third is her baby daddy........ and you come last! 🤣

[@rickymcdonald2669]

Old school Chicago facts.

[@julistar90]

Then her job. And last you lol

[@franciszico828]

Her dog 🐕 before you

[@MrKrushgutz]

She swears she fine😂😂😂

[@erickn7985]

She's fine for one night stand that's for sure, but nothing else😂😂

[@DeshaunDamon]

IKR...her teeth need to be fixed and her cleavage looks like hot water bottles...smh

[@jimmymorris9278]

I kept looking like maybe made up

[@craigman7262]

For a quicky

[@Stardustbasically]

Lol

[@magicmarlie]

She talking about most women her age have kids, no lady, most women in their mid thirties have kids, are married, and have husbands. You did it out of order. You chose to have a baby first and went to find a husband later. That's not how this works

[@shady4chi]

@@demond1818Exactly, how else does pookie end up with 6 different baby momma’s? Because they all sharing the same couple of guy’s.

[@FatherofFFD]

🎯

[@lakeside321]

@demond1818 Most, blk men in her age range have children they just aren’t claiming them.

[@seensay2132]

@@lakeside321 actually, most BM don’t have kids by her age. Upwards of 55% of BM 18 & up are childless according to CDC stats. This Single Baby Momma culture is coming from all these BW procreating with the lowest 15% of BM. Leave Pookie & Ray Ray alone 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@lorrainei1622]

I’m a black woman, I’m 32 and I don’t have kids and I don’t date men with kids either. The guy I’m dating right now we’re a good match and neither of us have kids.

[@chrisjett313]

Fellas always feel offended when a single mother wants to get with you, in her mind she's lowering her standards just to have a man raise another man's son and also ask yourself this "would she even talk to me if she wasn't a single mother"

[@rickymcdonald2669]

That's why you don't waste 1 second on them. I am a OG and what said is why I say link up and keep it moving. If you don't like it I don't give a damn. More men than women and I don't give a damn about so called feelings. I use logic

[@MacMula]

Somebody tell this woman that THE MEN DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOUR OPINION. We are not dealing with single women, period. If you don’t give men what they want , you won’t get what you want.

[@jj98154]

A single mother's primary focus should be on raising their children, not on who's going to date them.

[@LadyK007]

🎯💯

[@obtryce7070]

So she wants men to lower their standards for her?

[@snidecommenter7117]

They somehow think men would be RAISING their standards... How effed up is that. I mean, don't they keep saying, "Men need to STEP UP!"?

[@marcusjones5287]

She, along with other single mothers, are delusional enough to think a high-value man would be lucky to have her.

[@taipan1234]

Absolutely amazing, you have to preach to Childless Men NOT to date Single Moms.. You would think they would value themselves more, just because..

[@bobbrofloski]

I ain’t never see a car with accidents get sold for more money on da market.

[@thepositivitypill9419]

I have never said this in the comments but Imma say it today. Im 39- black, single... have my own house.. Have a good job... help in my community... Im a decent looking brother I think... I have NO desire to be a step daddy. I watch how the step daddies on my football team get treated and they can have that!

[@stephangeffen]

How do the step dads get treated on the field?

[@janayialove4414]

Single mothers stay single until your children grow up and are out the house ! Stand on your word protect your child, don’t allow a stranger around your children. Dating being a single mother is selfish!

[@Skywalker721]

I wouldn’t date a woman with kids, but this perspective is wild. An overwhelming majority of women need men in their lives.

[@keptbygrace6221]

My mom re-married after we were grown and I'm grateful for it

[@chrisp7673]

Will forever remember when my mom single mother of 3(all 3 different baby fathers) was dating while I was still in middle school/high school and I had the privilege of hearing her and her boyfriend at the time being extremely loud during there "intimate time" while me and my little brother were trying to get sleep in middle of night. Even during some school nights. My little brother was sleeping in room across from theres and I was downstairs and could hear everything so I could only imagine what my lil bro was hearing. I said something to her one time about it and asked if she could possibly keep it down or not do it during school nights while we're trying to get sleep and I was told it's her house and she can do whatever she wants .. im like ok 👍 lmao 😂

[@chrisp7673]

Funny she would always ask me what I thought about her boyfriends and I could care less about the dudes who I figured wouldn't be around long. My little brother's dad didn't stick around and my own father didn't either so I adopted that mindset

[@roythousand13]

Facts!

[@bez787]

Love to see it fellas! We are waking up. Don’t bail them out of there bad decisions and lack of accountability

[@unodepoalli]

Run away from these ladies, the amount of drama and unnecessary BS will drain your energy and mental health.And you’ll always have the baby daddy lurking around….just don’t get involved with these ladies…run away🏃‍♂️

[@Phantom6lack]

We always have to question something that someone didn’t want.

[@laron.henderson]

Did it. Wasted my time and money! Never again!

[@Tential1]

Lol, they get so mad when men have standards but have no problem making height, income, etc. Reqs. We got Reqs too.

[@MercenaryOrangeTV]

It’s like us guys have to take what you see Infront of you without question. In this case, we’re supposed to be saving these single moms out here. The bad boys didn’t have to do lift a finger and had their fun with these women in the first place……for free

[@Breezie51]

Women don't understand men don't want to be stepdads not because she is a bad person or your kids are bad... It is just simply a bad deal for me period.

[@Dyicefulbeauty]

I get that.

[@Dyicefulbeauty]

@@Simpaholics_Anonymous 2 children, 1 Father.

[@wrcinc]

If you’re a man without kids, you are lowering your standards when you date, become intimately involved with, in a relationship, or married to a woman with a child or kids 😂

[@qthequick]

Even if you’re a man with kids. I have a daughter and dating this woman is still a bad deal for me 😂 I can agrue it’s a worse deal for me because I’m a father

[@GlenroseMakgorogo]

You have no business of dating a single mom

[@rocciteeny57]

"Alot of these "single mothers" would not even talk to you or give most guys the time of day (shorter than usual, lame or considered having "no swag or rizz" average status/job working, 45k to 60k making azz, etc) if, they were NOT a single mother?🤔

[@bernardtim1776]

All of what she said would be okay and fine....If she had implemented all these standards before she got Pregnant. You are on the right track young brother(Anton). Keep schooling these younger brothers. I'm telling my son the exact same thing...do not sign up to raise someone else's kids....that's a bad deal when you don't already have any kids of your own or period.

[@BluEx22329]

Bet she wouldn't want that for her son

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

you would be surprise. these modern women are not mothers. they think only about what THEY want not what is best. If they did, they would have stayed with the father or worked it out with him.

[@fabiomarte2212]

I have asked these single moms and to see them dither and stutter is a poem

[@xdcurlin]

The lack of accountability here is crazy. I will never understand why women are believing men who make them a mother before a wife and then play victim when dude ghost them and leave them.

[@kingbizzle1357]

The sad part is they already be knowing the dude(s) who knock them up are not shit.

[@boostjunkie27]

Accountability are whamens kryptonite.

[@KtotheG]

These women wanted to be single mothers. There were no accidents. They were never victims.

[@Ctown-lp6bq]

These women know exactly what they doing

[@louisj4645]

They know!

[@kojoefante]

Facts ..

[@Nilzipan]

Exactly. Pure filth.

[@jaylou8721]

Why would I date somebody who puts somebody before me when it's supposed to be me and them to the end A single mom will always put their kids before you while you take care of both of them Yeah that's a very bad deal

[@jimslancio]

"Why should I lower my standards just because I'm a single mother?" "You just answered your own question."

[@Lmar_H]

Delusion with no accountability is a extremely bad combination.

[@Rayjack-m9o]

Go Ahead and keep your standards And see what you get.

[@ivoryrhodes9650]

As a great man once said you can't make this shit up

[@jaethezoe]

She’s practically begging for someone else to pick up the pieces for her ex, when she should’ve had discerning judgement in the first place. Gotta watch who you give your body/energy to.. just because they’re here one day doesn’t mean they’ll be there the next.

[@blackenpowerment0140]

Do not lower your standards. Stick to your standards. You got this. Kueen? 😂

[@christophercooper1931]

They talk about this abundance of men that they know that don’t care about the kids but consistently on the internet looking for one. Make it make sense.

[@gammafrost]

They know men that just want to fuck them 😂😂😂. I tried explaining this concept to a friend of mine when she said she had options.

[@Phantom6lack]

I know the answer there lying.

[@KV9599]

How many of these same women would pursue marriage with a man who has a felony conviction for a violent crime on his record, and all the hurdles in life that come with it? Because for a man to take on a single mother’s kid(s) is usually an even bigger burden on him than the alternative would be on her.

[@soloexperience]

Those bus visits be filled with baddies I beg the difference

[@MrBiggles53]

Actually, a lot of women pursue men like that.

[@JF-vw9lv]

Look up the Menendez Brothers. Killed their parents. Both got married AFTER they were put in prison. Scott Peterson...kills his pregnant wife. Received love letters from women.

[@treutable]

“He Got Standards Too” -Anton Daniels

[@thomasrogers9146]

SHE HAD NO STANDARDS FOR POOKIE, BUT HIGH STANDARDS FOR THE MAN THAT IS SUCCESSFUL, CHILDLESS AND FINANCIALLY SECURE

[@nigelbaptiste4706]

That is bad comedy...

[@CreamPieSundays]

You let him hit it raw, you didn't have second thoughts, now you a single mom now you're single mom. You said I'm gonna have his kids, i dont care if he's here or not.

[@sthomas730]

😂😂😂😂

[@Skywalker721]

The phenomenon of the life of single mothers is fascinating. Single mothers are forced to deal with reality much faster than most women, yet they still fight hard as they can to live in delusion. They provide unlimited content. That’s a whole ecosystem within itself. 😂

[@ngonzale3]

Respect to those who have done it because there are great adopted fathers and stepfathers. Just don’t be fooled into thinking you have to.

[@Mr_Big_Lou]

I hear this all the time, often from women who have zero contact with their children’s father(s): “Now that I have children I have to be very selective which man I allow into my life” It baffles me how they can’t figure this out BEFORE they have a kid by some dead beat bum who decided to abandon his own seed.

[@floyd-i1q]

You lower your standard when you gave your box to a man you weren't even thinking about marrying.

[@Town_Bound]

They really didn’t see the wave of how fast things would change lol… def right about that

[@trapmuzik6708]

it's still plenty of simps but it seems some of the high earning guys is getting wiser

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

@@trapmuzik6708They don’t want the simp though because they don’t respect him.

[@Town_Bound]

@@trapmuzik6708 Even us regulars… I def had some simp behavior a up til a couple years ago

[@kristianpatrick8212]

Let them continue to live in Never Never Land.

[@lamarthomas5603]

She doesn’t understand economics. If no one is buying at your price because there are too many amazing substitutes in the market, you need to to slash your price or exit the market.

[@pris_pris]

Single moms gonna have high standards for new guy but didn’t for baby daddies. Hahahaha hahahaha 😂😂

[@aldricbaker1734]

ITS NO A STEREOTYPE TO SAY THAT A SINGLE MOM HAS CREATED A BURDEN FOR HERSELF WHICH COULD HAVE BEEN AVOIDED BY JUST COMMON SENSE. WHY WOULD YOU HAVE SEX WITH ANY MAN WHO'S NOT YOUR HUSBAND? WHY WOULD YOU ALLOW HIM TO DEPOSIT HIS SEED IN YOU? WHY DIDN'T YOU CONSIDER THE FATE OF THE CHILD, KNOWING THAT BEING RAISED WITHOUT HIS FATHER WOULD MAKE LIFE HARDER FOR HIM? WHAT GIVES YOU THE RIGHT TO EXPECT SOMEONE TO COME ALONG AND CLEAN UP YOUR MESS,AND RAISE ANOTHER MAN'S CHILDREN, KNOWING THAT MAN WILL ALWAYS HAVE A DOOR INTO THAT FAMILY? THE SMART MAN WON'T ARGUE WITH YOU OR ANYONE LIKE YOU. HE WILL JUST WALK AWAY.

[@taipan1234]

Most times, it is the single mom who ends the relationship.. the beta male is too weak to move on, and put himself into a better situation.. that's why single moms believe they are still the better deal.. and change absolutely nothing about themselves.. Because they are one doing the "breaking up" in a relationship..

[@BlockHarvest]

Speaking from experience? I’ve found it to be the greatest teacher. 🤝

[@divingdoggmonster2008]

Your new car was a accident on the way home from the dealership, (baby without marriage) VALUE ain’t the same no more🤡

[@tommies3772]

Especially, today with so many women have multiple kids with different men and he has to deal with those egos as well. A lot of men don't like another man stepping and raising their kid/s. Not worth the stress. I tried it in my 20s and it was a terrible experience.

[@brainsmasher66]

I'm 67. I remember back in my late 20s that almost every woman I met already had kids. They looked at me like I was the oddball. 😂😂😂

[@asanteL]

All they do is look for the bag in men instead of trying to build with a solid brotha and her voice is irritating!

[@rocciteeny57]

💯 why are all these women starting to vocally, sound the same?🤔 ..that damn "valley girl voice" 💩 🤦😂✌

[@realbro1415]

Mid 30's and a Baby Mama???? Naw, im good...😂😂😂

[@Pabone175]

She said that she was selfish before she had her child. And reason she’s a single mother is because she was and still is SELFISH!

[@alfredcowans880]

I Like Wat You Said Anton👍🏾

[@Jeremy-ql1or]

If that girl had come out saying "I know I am average but am secure with my looks" she could have gone from a 5 to a 7. By playing like she is all that she went from a 5 to a 3. Then she said she was a single mother she went to a negative 10000.

[@rosealaska6595]

I totally agree that MEN should NOT settle with women with kids. No way, never good idea .

[@caipirinha_king1632]

It was at 5 weeks, post birth when this woman realized that she fvcked up!! 😅 Now she’s here trying to convince men how well thought out and rational she is…. foh with those saggin mammaries 😅

[@charlierlaflosstv]

A man has options especially if he does not have kids but so does a woman who is childless. If it’s a bad deal for a man to raise another child man’s kids then it is for a woman too.

[@nangaeboko6710]

Do kids usually live with their fathers or mothers?..Usually if a man has kids the new woman usually doesn’t have to raise them.

[@WillGettinToIt]

Wrong you are and that's why yall need to stop trying to think like men. It's doesn't work because it's not the same. A man 99.9% of the time doesn't have his kids, the mom does. You only have to see his kids periodically. Your kids stay with you so a man has to encounter them daily. You never have to spend money on hid kids, but he has to invest in your kids just to be with you. It's nowhere near the same. Logic escapes women like kryptonite

[@charlierlaflosstv]

The children still exist and will be in that man’s life with his new wife or gf. So at some point the new woman will have to deal with them.

[@90Swampfox]

50 percent of men are single and childless. If a woman is dating a man with kids, that's the option she chose, and it's likely for his abundant resources. But the biggest difference is men don't ask for women's resources to help support his kids. No single mom would consider a man who wasn't going to help her support her kids. When women compare themselves with men, it diminishes their strengths. Men and women are not the same.

[@mickeysmoove4562]

@@charlierlaflosstvtrue, but older men have more options then older women.

[@jcpaul6824]

Over 30 forms of birth control are available to you ladies. You don't have to be a single mommy, you're simply choosing to be, don't expect a man with options to take you serious. Period.

[@Che-Guitarra]

I agree with everything Anton is saying here, but this is such a SILLY conversation for Black women and men to keep having, especially for the whole world to see. Other groups and cultures of men don't have to have this conversation (ARGUMENT) with their women, because it's already understood among Asian men, Middle Eastern men, Jewish men, and even MOST American white men, etc that if a woman has children BEFORE she gets married, then she will forever be a single mother and NO man is going to come to her rescue and save her and her children by other men. That's why it's good to finally see American Black men upping their standards and setting this standard in our community.

[@kevinstovall7506]

Two of the most unappreciated positions ever created were stepfather and fullback. Both positions require you to block for another man so he can continue to score.

[@theurbanlifestylechannel2825]

I like that because it makes sense.

[@RickyRicardoMJF]

It's genuinely sad that it's hard to find women without kids as a 30 yo man...not to mention alot of these women went thru alot with the first kid and will tell u they don't even want another kid...fuck that...I'd rather be the fun uncle for the rest of my life

[@alphapimp0073]

Having kids with a single mom is not a hour thing because you want you and your woman to share that experience together for the first time.

[@bromack3]

Dr Laura once said, there are widowed mothers, there are divorced mothers and then their are women who simply didn't give a darn.

[@postthemogul]

Fellas. Just get your money and let women live in the Matrix💯🤔

[@ericsmith7779]

The selfishness of these women in America is ridiculous

[@michaelgrey9544]

I’m 50/50 on this. A part of me thinks that women in their mid-thirties and older that haven’t been married or had children are suspect. My concerns are the entitlement signs with some of these single mothers. I married my high school sweetheart - 27 years

[@everfocus25]

I’m 40 with no kids I don’t think a guy should date or marry someone with kids just my opinion

[@BeansHoward]

Nope

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

There is NO benefits for a man to date a woman with kids. Not a SINGLE benefit. Nothing but a complete loss.

[@Joshdifferent]

💯