Silence has always come natural to me. I find it quite stressful to be near someone who cannot stop talking. Iam amaze how people are able to engage in so much meaningless conversations nowadays.
@diasporaresourcecentre68613 жыл бұрын
what would you say keeps you silent when they keep on talking?
@wolfcola63293 жыл бұрын
That's alot of words for a natural silent 😅 haha jk
@YoyokKusumo3 жыл бұрын
especially when overestimating myself in front of others, it makes me sick
@browngirl20962 жыл бұрын
Agreed 100%
@sofeamohdzakki2 жыл бұрын
i agreed
@kingsleyukwuoma15544 жыл бұрын
Silence is intimidating. I see that people get intimidated by my silence and calm.
@OItsSasha4 жыл бұрын
Is that what it is?😂😂😂
@lelainerduh2 жыл бұрын
This
@Gearsturfs Жыл бұрын
It’s really not. You become invisible and meaningless to others
@FearlessDreams4 жыл бұрын
I was a super silent kid due to being very shy. Now I am also quiet in many occasions, but for very different reasons. Thanks for sharing. :)
@markherron14074 жыл бұрын
Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue. Proverbs 17:28 I don't like to talk because I stutter, I'm a good listener 🤠 Blessings and hugs 🤗💞🤗🙏!
@reach4thestars674 жыл бұрын
Stuttering can be controlled by talking through your teeth and speaking slower. It keeps my tongue from having spasms called stuttering. I use this method for myself and my child. I works for us.
@markherron14074 жыл бұрын
@@reach4thestars67 Do you use to stutter in the past? Blessings and hugs 🤗💞💓😊❤️🤗🤗🙏!
@NEILODMURRAY4 жыл бұрын
Its very refreshing to hear your quotations for the scriptures. Well said.
@SVU631Ай бұрын
As another stuttered I understand your pain I also have social anxiety
@queenofthebutterflies52124 жыл бұрын
I've noticed that if I say BARELY ANYTHING and let my friends talk the ENTIRE time I'm with them or on the ph, they ALWAYS say they've had THE BEST TIME or CONVERSTATION.. It''s actually really nice to be able to hold the space for them to just say what they need to or get stuff off their chests.
@jamiecee49604 жыл бұрын
I Love your name...❤️
@queenofthebutterflies52124 жыл бұрын
@@jamiecee4960 Awwwww 💋mwah. Thanks, beautiful 😀
@raintree33832 жыл бұрын
You should just described my teen years.....!!!
@dinosaur00734 жыл бұрын
Everywhere is "mental war" war in the east war in the west...we have rules for physical war but no rules in mental war..the battle is open my dear friend endless...stay calm stay focus, observe know how to soft reply....
@kanseidorifto24304 жыл бұрын
Thank you for telling me there's no Geneva Conventions for psychological warfare:)
@sudhirpatil34343 жыл бұрын
"It is not words, but silence which speaks".....
@BajanBeauty0902 жыл бұрын
This ♥️
@cheliae85602 жыл бұрын
A great breakdown!! 👏👏👏. Interesting description!!
@reneakelly39694 жыл бұрын
I'm a calm person who doesn't talk much, that doesn't make me an unsweet person.☺
@jamiecee49604 жыл бұрын
@Zameen Z What are you on abot?????
@darleyscofield19564 жыл бұрын
you are totally right
@CarlosGil.2 жыл бұрын
Nothing better than living in your own world than living someone else’s world
@kylie-fayer67914 жыл бұрын
In silence we see and hear all. I like where you are coming from Mindprovement.
@romarocovington76974 жыл бұрын
The good ones want leave you and the bad ones want harm you 💯
@sharilynnecrocker99373 жыл бұрын
Incredibly true, I nearly was strangled once, if not for my silence, with intuition.
@priyamalhotra57943 жыл бұрын
💯 true
@blackberryewan81103 жыл бұрын
Social media is ur power ,same here,that's why I watching this vid
@WisdomWealth773 жыл бұрын
Awesome video! Silence is more powerful than we think!
@lelainerduh2 жыл бұрын
One thing I’m good at being is being silent. Probably too much actually…. Definitely if I feel useless or pushed away.
@rollno28harshsingh414 жыл бұрын
This is the best video on KZbin about this topic
@blazespence14182 жыл бұрын
Excellent information, I appreciate this a lot. Thank you.
@coenterhaar91834 жыл бұрын
Interesting, and there is definitely some truth in this video which resonates with a knowing within..... From a self enquiry perspective, a useful question is..... Who or what is looking at your phone right now? Can you find an "I" or a me that's looking? Looking and listening just happens by itself....There is no "I" or a me that's actually doing the looking or listening etc. Stillness is our natural state, and everything happens within this stillness". Realise this, and this video will make even more sense! 😊
@messetjituri64433 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this informative lesson on such a pivotal trait that only ourselves can master
@akhiloffl4 жыл бұрын
The content and the animation were good , how ever , the music is what sets the whole mood ! This video could've been on a different level had the music been a little dark toned because , the content in this video excactly isn't complimented by the music ! Great choice of topic BTW ! 🙌✌💞
@NEILODMURRAY4 жыл бұрын
Only someone who is well endowed with wisdom - and the Spirit of God, knows: when; who; what; where; and how, one ought to speak.
@bubbagray84332 жыл бұрын
This Powerful Thanks for this
@kandigirlzmagazine4 жыл бұрын
Silence has its time and place.
@NEILODMURRAY4 жыл бұрын
Well said
@mjparham64303 жыл бұрын
Exactly I Believe in Communication!
@devothaniyukuri56192 жыл бұрын
Yes there are times to speak and to talk
@Omar315874 жыл бұрын
only talk if it improves upon silence
@ajayiaderemi7622 жыл бұрын
Talkative has a definition, talking ablot doesn't make you talkative,just like silence doesn't necessarily mean wisdom. When you say something relevant is when you are wise
@twizzyflizzy68834 жыл бұрын
inco-orporate this with the law of absence
@candybella55343 жыл бұрын
Terrific
@carriejacobs27572 жыл бұрын
I have to say I was disappointed to hear the reasons not to stay silent at the end. I think its fair to say they may not be good advice when dealing with certain people like narcissists
@heavymeddle284 жыл бұрын
I could talk for hours how great I am at being the silent person
@priyamalhotra57943 жыл бұрын
😂
@etlevazeqo82994 жыл бұрын
Very good advice
@marymarino9123 жыл бұрын
This video is just right for me because I need to work on my listening Skills
@AK-5273 жыл бұрын
my best decisions to be here in this video
@luckamavuk.53873 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@Fastlaneroute3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing
@youngae.64563 жыл бұрын
Depending on the situations.. Silence is a crime
@angelobrondialpolo64364 жыл бұрын
Being silent attracts narcissism.
@iselchelle93303 жыл бұрын
I never shut up so I had to come here to learn to shut up
@DomainOfficial5138 ай бұрын
Same
@mstwelvedeadlycyns4 жыл бұрын
This also applies to women dating men. Talk less and let men talk more!
@kylie-fayer67914 жыл бұрын
Are you fuking kidding mate?
@kylie-fayer67914 жыл бұрын
We do not win women over by talking like this. How about you talk less and delete your comment?
@mstwelvedeadlycyns4 жыл бұрын
@@kylie-fayer6791 Men do not like women talking too much! Trust me it is a fact. I do not like it either. I mean we should be able to speak our peace say what we want but gender bias and gender roles double standards and dating when being with men is what males prefer and like. Try it with your husband's and boyfriends! I mean look at Kamala Harris vs. Mike Pence. The after math says it all. Critics alike. Women can not catch a break!
@kylie-fayer67914 жыл бұрын
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns Fuk that! Men do what I tell them to do and trust me they like it. Men can shut up and listen and that’s why god gave us two ears and one mouth! Discipline those boys girls!!
@mstwelvedeadlycyns4 жыл бұрын
@@kylie-fayer6791 Get mad all you want. Is that how it works when you begin dating them in the beginning as they meet you? Being aggressive and tell them what you want by being nasty towards them?
@Gearsturfs Жыл бұрын
I guess this is how weak minded people justify themselves. Makes sense. You believe those who speak don’t listen because you couldn’t speak. Hopefully you learn it’s a balance. Choose your words carefully and speak out but never stop listening. Pretending your lack of ability to engage meaningfully makes you some mysterious respectable person is an absolute fantasy.
@myownperson12244 жыл бұрын
powerful!!
@seymoneraimer77803 жыл бұрын
Yes staying silient in some cases is not good especially in a relationship. How can you start a relationship and you not talk? That stunts the growth of that relationship, and leaves that person who is unaware of your mate is practicing silence, and your thinking what is wrong with you! Here you are trying to figure out where did I go wrong! Then you start getting baffled in your mind because you done fell in love got caught up thinking all kind of thoughts wrongly to find out the person that you want this relationship with practicing silence how can you handle that? Don't get me wrong I like the sound thing make the person aware of what you're doing instead of them thinking something is wrong with them like I said I like the silence. I myself would love to learn it for various reasons but not relationship-wise. I am at awww!😄
@debwright31904 жыл бұрын
🤓🤓Very enlightening video. Thanks.🤔🤔🤔
@johnhill94453 жыл бұрын
Thank you. The Soul Committee Alliance. NYC
@lilray7210 Жыл бұрын
Really tell me something that I don't already know. There's a reason why God gave human beings two ears 👂 and one mouth. You need to listen more than you speak. Think 🤔 about that
@drlepora14 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@CatRiscas2 жыл бұрын
i am a very silent person and i like being like that cause some people talk to much bla bla bla and its very annoying to me.i love silence.
@datnohi8612 Жыл бұрын
Me too, If you don't have something educational or important to say, then on with the noise cancelation headsets because I'm not trying to hear it this blah blah all day...I would much rather listen 🎶 to my relaxing jazz music 🎷 🎺
@Lughnerson4 жыл бұрын
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@DannyWohl4 жыл бұрын
I dont know if I entirely agree, I think directing your attention inwards rather than outwards is more advantageous, for what experience does not ultimately happen within?
@titlespree4 жыл бұрын
Directing attention "inwards" when you're alone aids self reflection. But do that in social situations, and you'll look self absorbed.
@DannyWohl4 жыл бұрын
@@titlespree true, I guess it is all about what your angle is, what you are trying to achieve...
@evelynacido89512 жыл бұрын
This exactly what the other post said
@alenagoddess24004 жыл бұрын
it's one thing to not talk about yourself but what is Bread crumbing or manipulating people through silence accomplishing? How does that grow you as a person?
@lisabevans26394 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I say that one better than silence is authenticity. 💕
@Vekserr2 жыл бұрын
Ironically this power comes with responsibility and knowing when to use it this is more for a group setting
@thunderwap6560 Жыл бұрын
What if I don't want attention on myself? I don't like being in the spotlight
@vincenthighwind76223 жыл бұрын
I like being silent, but I do not like attention
@rohangangar62103 жыл бұрын
Please make a video on the talkative alpha male.
@titlespree3 жыл бұрын
Coming soon :)
@nunya35832 жыл бұрын
Everyone just thinks creep and weirdo unless your good looking your stoic and intelligent
@superpowerboyable3 жыл бұрын
Very Good
@titlespree3 жыл бұрын
:)
@CHSN-13 жыл бұрын
Where was this 10 years ago🤦🏻♂️
@mariusleroy88954 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you included the sigma as a personality type 👌 but remember Sigma and gamma are outside of the hierarchy for the most part, sigmas dont stick to one atleast Btw, How should i prove myself? Like How should i not get pushed around?
@titlespree4 жыл бұрын
Yes Sigmas are usually not included due to a number of reasons (they're always less than 1%, they don't play by the rules/system, etc.). But Gammas are always included.
@titlespree4 жыл бұрын
You should learn how to control the frame and build inner confidence.
@Ray2311us4 жыл бұрын
@@titlespree Basically spending a long time in gamma at a certain environment, until you become familiar with the environment and the majority of the people that are in it. I'm guessing familiarity and security breeds alpha status viability. Just like in the animal system.
@Ray2311us4 жыл бұрын
But, just to say... Nothing makes the women flawk like the behavior that Kanye West expresses. Alpha status while letting his nuts hang. Women are almost always attracted to that unless you truly fit the part of Beta or Gamma, like you are a secret agent or important in some sense. Otherwise when you stand at 5'5 you look like you are in Beta because you are insecure and need the excess attention span for your own safety in an environment that everyone is in some form of alpha states or another of the likeness.
@Ray2311us4 жыл бұрын
I guess the only way is to play it off like you are mysterious or important. But that takes rehearsal. I say all this because I have been in every level. And only one seems to work ( Alpha )
@dianestahr44213 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a library atmosphere.
@deathrowinmate282 жыл бұрын
I talk too much. Gotta shut my Pie Hole more often.
@abdallahsalisu47143 жыл бұрын
what are some strategies of curbing this desire to speak up?
@titlespree3 жыл бұрын
Mastering your emotions.
@balasangbalasang64064 жыл бұрын
That’s me
@yaanaanzodak55154 жыл бұрын
Most dumb people be silent cause they don’t have the ability to speak or Articulate!!!! But Silence is golden!!!!!! When one has the wisdom to do so!!!!!
@metamorfoseestoica4 жыл бұрын
"Presente de graça" ?
@fredbraxton21323 жыл бұрын
💎
@lintuprasad57974 жыл бұрын
Can you suggest me a book on this
@titlespree4 жыл бұрын
The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene
@ericblue42314 жыл бұрын
Quiet By Susan Cain
@jayspeaka56044 жыл бұрын
Eric Blue Ive not seen that before. Thanks will search about