Why so many single moms in the Philippines?

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

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[@wl88168]

FYI, apparently it's possible to get subsidized contraceptive implants through PhilHealth.

[@leokolev]

@@JoyOfTheJungleTV 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@johnhill8046]

This is common all over the world too. People need to take responsibility for their actions. Grow up people. Well done video.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

Thank you 😊 ❤

[@bobbyjames4300]

Well it comes down to controlling your sexual desires. If you can’t control yourself , you end up getting pregnant. There’s not much more to it.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

I agree with you because no one can help you about this situation except yourself. Thank you for watching ❤

[@brianpaul9767]

It seems simple to you because you’re not of the Philippines culture. There are several cultural doctrines and practices at play in the Philippines that affects this symptom. To just say “control your sexual urges” is less than intelligent of yourselves to do so.

[@bobbyjames4300]

@ Your overthinking. It’s just self control. It’s in every culture. Don’t spin it stupidly.

[@brianpaul9767]

@@bobbyjames4300 fortunately, the short, sightedness, and stupidity are all yours.

[@stuartpeach953]

They don't use contraception that's why so many single mums

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

yes

[@joebidet2050]

57% illegitimate rate in philippines But usa 40% High too

[@carvercapitalequitypartner122]

Yes, the USA has many problems. More than others realize, especially when the US govt sends so much money to other countries. No-one gives $ to the US. But Americans identify their domestic problems and try to address them. We could do better but that is something. Many countries do little to address their problems.

[@leokolev]

Will not send any money anymore... Enough is enough...😊​@@carvercapitalequitypartner122

[@kevo8498]

@carvercapitalequitypartner122 In the US there is court ordered child support. And if you skip out. It follows your social security #. Also warrants can be issued and a hold on registering your car and license.. US citizens are granted divorce simply and easily unless they choose to make it complex. Not saying it's better there. Just saying they have methods to help single moms.

[@dirtbikechannel154]

'it's like eating candy with cellophane' hahaha best line I've heard for ages.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

@@dirtbikechannel154 😂😂😅

[@owenmarshall78]

Being a single mum must be so so hard. Its hard enough as a couple. Be wise

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

@@owenmarshall78 you’re right! I’ve known alot of single moms here.

[@Bruce_Ma]

Unprotected sex also equals higher chances of catching HIV.

[@johnclark8637]

Yolo!

[@Bruce_Ma]

@@johnclark8637 The smart ones will live longer than others.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

@@Bruce_Ma yeah! correct.

[@nn-db4fw]

Great videos. Keep them videos short and straight to the point as that is very unusual these days. Liked & subscribed.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

Thank you so much!

[@gammonbunji9292]

the simple reason they don't want to keep their virginity

[@SuperKanuuna]

To keep for what? Keep it forever to not get pregnant? You are so silly.

[@TimothyTerrell-e3f]

Blame filpino male and white guy foreign think these men going marry them. It time for philippines 🇵🇭 government have condom Trojan and lifestyle condom and birth control. Follow pope francis wait get marry first give her virginity husband purity catholic church ⛪️ way

[@dss6907]

​@SuperKanuuna , we should keep our virginity untill marriage. Not to do illicit sex just for pleasures

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

well, that will depend to a woman. Their body, their rules but it’s unfair to a woman who wants to keep their virginity until marriage yet get rape by someone.😢

[@dss6907]

@JoyOfTheJungleTV rule of virginity is not only applicable to women, but it is applicable for both men and women. Secondly it's not any logical reason to loose your virginity before marriage that u get raped, it's a very rarest chance that u get raped. We are no different from animals if we are changing our sexual partners just for pleasure

[@HeinzBuchler-vg9dx]

Use birth control any kind. Forget, what church tells you

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

Better to close our legs if not ready for responsibility.

[@valharris9346]

Many thanks for this video!

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

You are welcome! ❤

[@jonathanleach1050]

Children are an unspeakable blessing in any case! But they should begin with a reliable man who loves his wife even more than he loves his "independence."

[@jamesrecknor6752]

YES!

[@jamesyoung187]

That needs to be determined before women spread their legs for a man.

[@fredericksykes8037]

Love the information you put out. Great work 😊

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

@@fredericksykes8037 Thank you 😊

[@TomScott__]

Your channel is growing fast, Joy. Congratulations 🎊

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

@@TomScott__ yeah! Thank you for your support.❤️

[@davehenson3588]

Beautiful girl... i think you ment to say Battered Wife. Not Buttered wife. All very good points ❤❤

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

Yes! Thank you!

[@leemcarthur4334]

A buttered wife..... 🤔 would be better with Nutella 😜

[@effemeseyevee901]

What's wrong with a hot 'buttered' woman, 😅?

[@skatingeezer3952]

seems like only 2 reasons to me.. education and being responsible... prohibiting prenatal murder isn't such a bad thing..

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

yeah! I’m against in abortion too.

[@HeinzBuchler-vg9dx]

@@JoyOfTheJungleTV I am for it. Forget church shit

[@Lethal_Venom]

Very good points and its definitely never ok to hit a women. I'll be glad when my g/f will be here in just a few months so that she can have a better life here in the US with me and not have to worry about things like that

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

Great! She’s lucky to have you because you have that mindset.❤️

[@Lethal_Venom]

@ Thank you

[@stanlysteemer4872]

Good luck champ your problems are about to begin.

[@Lethal_Venom]

@@stanlysteemer4872 Hardly but thanks for your uneducated idiotic opinion

[@takulongchar5531]

Thank you for good information ❤❤❤

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

@@takulongchar5531 my pleasure 😇

[@zaneelliot6963]

The morning after pill is not available there?

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

It is.

[@Bozzzzzz007]

Also the men in the Phillipines arent liable for any children that are born, they just want the sex not the responsibility. In Australia the man will have to provide. For a country so poor, they should allow abortion because to bring a child up so poor struggling, along with the mother, it's cruel. And no, this is NOT common all over the world.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

yeah! There are men here that so immature and self centered, they only think of themselves.

[@carvercapitalequitypartner122]

Some expect the kids to support them when they are old. They consider kids as an asset, not a burden. Especially, the youngest daughter is a slave to the family.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

@@carvercapitalequitypartner122 The eldest will be the bread winner of the family.

[@redryderaus]

@@JoyOfTheJungleTV There are many filipinas that are so immature and self centered, they only think of themselves.

[@effemeseyevee901]

​@JoyOfTheJungleTV IMO, many Filipino women 'overly' spoil their young sons into inconsiderate, irresponsible playboys...women in your society need to hold males for more accountability. It seems like the women there are like the responsible 'lioness es', who hunt, provide and manage the pride. While the KING male mates, eat and provide security. ...many other societies emulate this behaviour, but most try to provide a 'safety net' ( child enforcement laws ). Even though your country experienced two female president's, it just RECENTLY, legislated protection for your country's 16 and under daughters, sisters, etc. Rampant corruption, "machismo", state and religious coercion, sexism, status bashing, unchecked male entitlement, colorism, crab and colonial mentality, ...will be a long uphill climb for your beautiful Kababayans...it is time for the women to rise and make those sorry males ( world- wide ) to become true responsible men!!! You also failed to mention, that most Pinays ( especially younger ones ), emotionally, live in a unrealistic fantasy, Teleseries world. The predatory males are quite aware of the emotionally vulnerable babaye and they exploit this savagely. The female wants to believe....wants him to fulfill his promises, dreams and aspirations....but....maybe one day, WE ALL WILL WAKE UP AND STAND UP TO ALL forms of abuse...I don't have the link. But if interested, check out the recent feminist movement in South Korea ...about the "4 Bs". Not every solution fits all problems. I am just a dumb foreigner who hates to see any PERson crapped on...sorry for the long " Baptist sermon"...

[@Scotty2hotty-xc6gi]

You have a very lovely smile and a wonderful attitude towards life. Thank you for sharing here.😊😊😊

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

My pleasure 😊

[@davidkw8728]

Good advice 👍🏻

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

Glad you liked it ❤

[@bluesart7]

Good topic Joy.If they are serious about you, they will wait until marriage for sex. If young girls want to know how serious the guy is about them, just tell him no sex until you have married me. If the guy is waiting until marriage, he is less likely to be a woman beater. Stop giving your body so easily to men, including foreigners, you are the one who will have to struggle alone supporting the kids you have. Kids need a dad in their lives as well. Not popular advice , but it is truth.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

You’re right. Thank you for your good advice. ❤

[@jojo-dn7qb]

i’m filipino and a single dad. my ex filipina wife left me for her former filipino high school sweetheart via facebook. it doesn’t matter what country you’re in women will do whatever they want just as much as a guy will.

[@НикитаКолхозник]

Education is the best contraceptive

[@Untamedlove]

I don't see this as an issue to marry a pilipina but I would think twice if a pilipina had 3 kids from three different guys. I'm new to your channel and I love the topics you present because they are something people need to know about

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

I’m glad you like it. Thank you for watching 😊

[@kristallmenschkristallwolf1969]

Hi i found your Channel now and WHAT?! 50 Percent? Thats a lot

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

just estimated 😅

[@kristallmenschkristallwolf1969]

@@JoyOfTheJungleTV well ok

[@penttimuhli9442]

It just boggles my mind all the things that go on in the Philippines, its like the wild west

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

Not that wild though 😅

[@john6941]

So, women just making bad decisions. Got it.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

@@john6941 🥲🥲

[@irvinetustin]

Those foreigners who just came here to explore and just to unwind and... Say no more, I get it.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

Thank you for watching 😊

[@osophize]

battered wife not buttered good topic though

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

Thank you 😊

[@pauldenham9406]

very interesting video, new subscriber for you, God bless

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

Thanks and welcome 😊

[@pauldenham9406]

@@JoyOfTheJungleTV walang anuman

[@MadawaskaObservatory]

they could take the pill.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

Some woman take the pill but i don’t think teenagers do the same.

[@MadawaskaObservatory]

@@JoyOfTheJungleTV Then perhaps they should make freely available

[@kevo8498]

Sad that it is extremely difficult to end a bad marriage in the Philipines, too. And that even if separated, the female ex can not date or risk legal trouble as well as her new partner ..

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

the female ex will be judge by many 🥲

[@robertslaughter7044]

Haven't they ever heard of birth control pills?

[@effemeseyevee901]

Yes, why did she not address this?

[@ronlugbill1400]

It is education of the women and job opportunities. Most poor girls do not get much education and do not see a future except as a mother. It is well-proven that better education and better job opportunities leads to lower birth rates. It has happened all over the developed world. And it is starting to happen in the Philippines too.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

yeah! it’s reality but mostly in modern Filipina they workhard to provide for their family too.

[@alanazizi9306]

Thank you for this video! Would you know how much is the cost of raising a baby(under 12 months old) in a province of Philippine?

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

Hello, I’m not so sure how much; it depends on the needs of the baby and if the baby is breastfeeding or not, but I think 20k to 25k will be enough.

[@misteriguana2748]

I would love to explore the Philippines one day. Watch the wildlife, birds, lizards, beaches, fish, etc.. Its what I do where I live now ( south florida). But over there it looks great.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

Go for it!

[@TetaakeYeeTing]

imposing Church law on not legalizing abortion should also be applied on extra-marital sex (sex outside marriage). Abortion is breaking the 5th commandment according to Church law but extra-marital sex is breaking the 6th commandment.

[@robertslaughter7044]

These silly god fables do nothing but cause problems.

[@TetaakeYeeTing]

@@robertslaughter7044 yeah. not legalizing abortion blaming it on church laws is nonsense

[@roymoxley2587]

So the Bible says in a clear statement that termination of a bunch of cells not a human that has formed yet is a sin Ok gotcha so when a women has a miscarriage that’s a sin too right

[@talltree8697]

Reasons responsibility accountability coming from both parties.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

@@talltree8697 It should be like that.

[@Richh_2024]

New sub here, love your content, best wishes from UK 🇬🇧

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

@@Richh_2024 Thank you 😊

[@Richh_2024]

@JoyOfTheJungleTV you're most welcome and you are so sweet and beautiful 😍

[@leokolev]

Nice girl and interesting video 📸 What is the weather there today? 😊 How many dollars you need for everything per month for 1 person? 🦊

[@chethaynes5802]

Thank you

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

You're welcome

[@LarryDolan-b7h]

I’ve lived here for 3 years now and from what I’ve seen and heard there are really only 3 reasons. 1 Catholic Church. 2 no sex education in schools. And 3 is the Philippine way of life if women don’t have kids they think they are failure and need kids to support them when they are older

[@bluesart7]

Good points.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

@@bluesart7 this is the 3 common reason. Thank you for watching.

[@christofotto2499]

is there a good dating site for single moms ? am interested in more single mom content

[@KenFlett-h1i]

I love the Philippines. I have been there 7x. To Manila Makati Cebu dipolog city and Zamboanga City. Are you single. Do you have children. I will still love you.

[@christofotto2499]

I gonna take a single mom but will not marry , have to support her extended family anyways so kids no problem, her family shouldn't be that big , not 10 siblings 😅

[@Untamedlove]

What a great topic...and there is so many reasons for this. Let's first start with History. The Philippines use to be a country that took pride in the women being Virgin's. Guys would go to the Philippines just for this Reason and then it became a country that during the War Soldiers would go for Vacation.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts.❤

[@johnl9977]

I think there are a lot of young filipina women with babies because they consider babies a blessing in any event so do not use abstinence or birth control very much. For their own good I wish this was not the case, but that is only my opinion. The Catholic church does play a big part in that.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

Yes, you have a point. When they get pregnant they don’t have any choice but to keep the baby which is the right thing to do.

[@rimasha]

Other asian thai same😢

[@jesusblessthesecommentsamen]

Because they are addicted to the phone devil tricks them into a new fb dm.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

yeah! especially the new generation now.

[@jesusblessthesecommentsamen]

@ yeah my Filipina girlfriend is addicted to the phone dm but she doesn’t act on it and is 35 God fearing. Let’s here get the emotional stuff out so I’m ok with that she’s very loving.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

@ keep that loving filipina girlfriend of yours 🥰

[@christofotto2499]

as long as she is very young no problem to find a western man, everything alright

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

@@christofotto2499 But not all western men will like or love to have a single mom. 🥲

[@effemeseyevee901]

Also, many Filipinas are sometimes unhappy with their dependence at home and want to leave home. And often times than not....right into the lambing arms of a serial cheating, irresponsible male. Sad sad.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

yeah! correct.

[@christofotto2499]

and she must be very young so that we can have further kids , better to pay for kids than for distant uncles , so the uncles will understand that I cannot much support them because of many kids 😅 most guys approach with western mindset 😅

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

and she should be strong enough to carry a baby in her womb

[@craigschuler7368]

Being irresponsible and immature!

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

You have a point.

[@michaelmcmillen7483]

Hon, I haven't watched all of this, but don't Fillapinas know what causes babies? If this is so prevalent, don't parents/friends/neighbors tell them? Is it an education problem or no control problem? Maybe it is a fatalistic view. (Leave it to heaven.) As an EXTREMELY PRACTICAL Westerner (I know, that can be obnoxious, too), I don't get it. Different cultures are different. I've recently had a close encounter with Thai culture. Don't get that either. I'd like to understand "the human condition" but I have all but given up. And .. there are no universals. Good luck little girls. (This does NOT, by and large, occur in the United States.) (No ill will.) (Wish I could take care of all ofyou! :))

[@carvercapitalequitypartner122]

In the end, our problems belong to us, whether we can blame someone or not. We all have our limitations, but we can make personal decisions that reduce risk rather than increasing risk. From the outside looking in, this is an area where improvement is needed in PI. Do it for yourselves please.

[@AlexAdamsoson]

You cant say its only the guys needs use the condoms, Its also the girls own safety they need wear and use a condom when meet a new one guy.. That way its works here in Europe.. Both need to be secure and use condoms if they don't want any kids..😂

[@joeblow3939]

I just joined your channel What did I win? I hope it's a new car. Or maybe a house. Nothing, not even a thank you? Ok, I'll just have to keep watching And looking for that special gift.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

Thank you for your support. ❤️

[@bjornjonsson7061]

Real parents help the girl to get birth control pills

[@luxurybuzz3681]

How about don't have sex with strange and irresponsible men

[@johnclark8637]

Her father should be proud she's getting plowed by a roster of bad boys that dgaf about her! She's strong and independent

[@Phillip-dw7vr]

The Bible says that a man who doesn’t take care of his own children “has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.

[@lars7411]

Oh My God! BIRTH CONTROL PILLS! How could you not mention this? How expensive are they? I can't believe prices would be so high that they couldn't afford them. No reason to get pregnant when birth control is available. Simply childish living.

[@Edu_ardo2024]

Available 4 free!

[@kristallmenschkristallwolf1969]

for this i thank you with Abo - your pretty One

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

Wow, thank you for watching ❤

[@kristallmenschkristallwolf1969]

@@JoyOfTheJungleTV welcome and im honest your my Type

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

@@kristallmenschkristallwolf1969 Salamat (Thank you)

[@kristallmenschkristallwolf1969]

@@JoyOfTheJungleTV ♥

[@jtns2845]

average i.q. is 87.

[@НикитаКолхозник]

87 sounds way too optimistic haha. Google says it's 81.64

[@jtns2845]

@ mestizos and chinoys skew the average upwards?

[@Holdmybeef]

Why so many in the west... oh yeah feminism

[@johnclark8637]

Thts such a horrible word

[@peterwortmann606]

Ur single Mom 2 ?????

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

😂😂😂 what do you think?

[@peterwortmann606]

@JoyOfTheJungleTV Why Not ? Im proud to be ur mahal

[@realitycheck1584]

Ur cute

[@johnclark8637]

Simp

[@realitycheck1584]

@ and you’re a f’cken idiot. Just making an observational comment Always tough guys behind keyboards.

[@realitycheck1584]

@ look everyone the high value man is here putting people down. LOL

[@mikeheyjoebuenavistadreamin272]

just put in your puwit . no baby

[@dochi1958]

I would love Joy with butter!! Very tasty!

[@davidhoward618]

If people (men and women) abstained from sex before marriage and entered into marriage with a lifelong commitment, most of these problems would be solved.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

@@davidhoward618 I agree!

[@basilmiller8307]

Why blame men on condoms, my Philippine friends say women don't like them either.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

yeah! 😅

[@GrantAngove]

U are very beautiful

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

Thank you ☺️

[@johnclark8637]

Women like the attention they get from simps but they aren't actually attracted to them

[@helgen1]

like my LDR situation, we recently had a baby one month old. She did not want me to be present in the hospital for birth. Now the baby is 1 month old in her house, we have agreed to celebrate Christmas together. Booked a plane ticket and now her answer is, sorry, the doctor says I am not allowed to travel for 6 months. I said okay then I will come closer to you and that is not good either. She wants me to send money for our child but is not allowed to be present. I said hello, make someone else look like a fool. I am not allowed to recognize the child myself and would have to change my flight and am not allowed to come to the Philippines alone.So now she is a single mom,in 2 years i dint see or talk her family.🫡

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

@@helgen1 oh? what’s her reason for not wanting you to be there in the hospital? that’s weird.

[@helgen1]

@JoyOfTheJungleTV i feel to many secrets with her,and she expect that i pay for the hospital bill for the birth.No.way!

[@texasrebel7754]

She has another boyfriend, husband or foreigner. It might not even be your baby. Let her go.

[@JoyOfTheJungleTV]

@@texasrebel7754 Maybe you’re right..because the woman or a mother of a child will always think what’s best for their baby and as far as i know women will always want to have their partner/husband on their side to support them during labor or giving birth.

[@MichaelSmith-hr3be]

​@@JoyOfTheJungleTV: The only sensible conclusion is that the father was there.