Why so much Hate towards Indians in Canada now ? My First ever experience facing Racism in Canada

[@zoomtomanav]

the biggest issue is that the wave of "Young students" that came in recent years have shown zero respect for Canadian culture, and no desire to integrate in it. Its a very basic example - I live in Brampton and take GO train everyday for my commute. just last week , as i was entering the station there were bunch of Punjabi guys behind me , I opened the door and hold it for them. Almost 5-7 guys passed through the door without even saying "thank you"!! Then they got in the same coach where i was sitting. People who take Go train might be knowing this already, In Go Trains the upper floor is a "Quite zone" and people don't talk loud there. But these boys kept disturbing everyone with the their loud noises. (Since i understand their language , i can tell you there were lot of "gaalis" they were using in their conversations), Finally a person got up and told them that its a quite zone, They stopped talking for few minutes and the again started after next station. The point i am trying to make is, Saying Thank you, sorry, being polite, respecting other people's space, are core Canadian values. We also learnt and respect those when we came here and made this country our home. And it hurts to see that most new "immigrants" have no intention to respect these core values without realizing that it reflects on entire community. and infact Kids of Indian ethnicities who are born here also feeling the heat of this frustration from other people.

[@MacI-1970]

This is what happens when you let in from 200,000 propel every year under Harper to over a million every year now under Justin. It is just too many people.

[@countroshculla]

@@MacI-1970 I gotta agree. It's been sad to see and shameful as well are cringe inducing when I see some of the reels and videos.

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

This is so sad..but this is so real

[@Pooja_lather]

100 percent agree

[@Bharatnamo]

Hypocrisy in white is evident in Canada ... Canada is a salad bowl And USA a melting pot

[@TalkToToshina]

Amit said exactly the correct point. I have been here since 2018 and this is definitely not the Canada I came to. It has changed with the recent population that has come in the past 2-3 yrs.. They are creating chaos and grabbing attention everywhere. They don’t realize there are people who have come from other countries as well but they aren’t dancing around the streets and creating negative attention by not following the laws of this country. It’s very important to respect and embrace the culture of the country which you reside in. No matter what this country has given us a lot and we should be thankful for it and show others that we are also bringing good values and creating a strong economy for this country instead of breaking laws, taking advantage of the system that is build on trust. I am glad you addressed it. It’s not easy to talk on such topics. I don’t comment much but I see all your videos. Good going 🙂

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

I agree with all the points u said..

[@jatinm7909]

I think the issue was commitment and I have faced this. I sold my monitor to a Canadian. He came from Hamilton to Toronto and he ensured three times with me that I will be at home or not at that time. I asked him why so much calling and confirming and he told he had to take early leave from work so risking some pay. Sometimes even for low cost item, people schedule their day for pick up and travel .. so I think it should be compensated as a courtesy if our mistake … even after that if there are hate comments then nothing can be done zz

[@pragyaverma7257]

So sorry to know about your bad experience with that marketplace guy!! I could feel you when you said that empathy in people is rare these days .. You are so much loved because people see your kindness and beautiful soul which is so rare to find anymore !! ❤

[@fariyalyusufzai2147]

Hey shilpa don't be upset. Whatever happened with you isn't new.Whoever is working abroad is paying the price . Just chill .You should have back answered or disconnected the call on his face. Remember next don't forget to take a stand for yourself if someone let's you down. I am a teacher teaching secondary students in an international set up. One fine day one of my mean students mocked and told me that her maid ,driver ,teacher,doctor and all around to assist were Indians. Her attitude hit me hard but then I politely told her ,my dear you are in safe hands . My reply gave her 440 volts jhatka. Now she doesn't dare to insult any Indian.

[@shumbuk4383]

Dude..that's genius.

[@jayeshparmar4689]

When this tuber is not replying any one ,I don't understand,why u r replying 😂

[@shameens3742]

Hi shilpa ..dont be disheartened.. such people are everywhere in all countries not limited to Canada.... and its very sweet of amit to be so supportive and made you feel better.

[@sally0849]

Hello Shilpa and Amit, I’m a long time viewer and absolutely love watching you guys,especially cutie Amy. I’m a Canadian born and raised Indian, and sometimes I too feel like many recent migrants are devaluing Canadian culture. Canadians are known for being polite and kind. As Amit mentioned, people should adapt to the country they are residing in, of course not saying that we should forget our culture and traditions, and festivals. But in a public place be respectful in mannerisms, most importantly when driving. Sorry in advance if I hurt anyone’s sentiments. Have a great week ahead! ❤

[@andalibansari9584]

I think we as Indians need to step up. I live in Australia and am sorry to say that so many times Indians do stuff that embarrasses us like always breaking rules and feeling proud about it. Don’t be upset . There’s more good people in this world than bad ones 💞

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

I agree

[@FrankVToronto]

What Amit mentioned is 100% right on point.

[@chyerrlnewton5353]

I am sorry to hear about it. It's bad that people can hurt others so much with words. I saw ur tears. Just forgive him. 😢

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

If u say so ☺️

[@meenamalik1145]

Aww .. it's ok Shilpa.. aap canada mai face kr rahe ho .. aur yahn india mai rahte hue casteism main b face krti hu .. kuch chize h jo caste nationality etc k sath kuch logo k behaviour ki vajah se baki sabko face krni padti h .. but main phir yahi sochti hu last mai aap apna individual growth per dhyan do toh aap chizo ko nomalise kr paoge otherwise bura he feel krte rahenge.. stay happy n positive ❤❤

[@Canadaonaroll]

Don't be upset Shilpa but I absolutely agree with Amit. While their actions are wrong we need to worry about ours first. Acceptance and adaptation are two key mantras to a happy life no matter where you are in this world. It's a good balance that one needs to maintain in adopting new and nurturing our own but imposing and lose behavior fits no where in the equation of growth.

[@batmanrecharged]

ShilpaJi sorry to hear experience you faced... But think here in India we face and DO racism everyday in all strata of society....Here in India we take it as normal starting from School...

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

U r right

[@asiaqadeer8275]

Hey Shilpa, don’t let it get you down. People like that can be found everywhere, not just in Canada. It’s really kind of Amit to be so supportive and help lift your spirits. Take good care of yourself and your family.

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

Thank u ☺️

[@nidhi1023]

Insane right!! Don’t take it to your heart Shilpa!! But I get it! As Amit said there are only a few nuts like that.. there are mostly good people around.. ❤❤ sending hugs 😊❤

[@manpreetkaur3248]

So true it is hurtful !!!! So dun worry as there are few people who will bring all this but you stand proud and never doubt yourself Shilpa ma’am

[@aishwaryapatil3759]

Don’t feel bad Shilpa, people’s reactions are outcome of what they are, don’t take it on you, it’s not about you but it’s about them. Also please don’t share your address or ask anyone to pick up from your place. Always book a spot near any Starbucks or coffee shop, never at your home. Take care and stay safe, love you ❤

[@sadhanalongani6688]

Shilpa di I agree we should behave so nicely that out country should not b blamed ...and leave it some people don't have their own values and don't know how to respect other's so never mind them ...ur good at heart and good publicly ❤️ chill and be happy as you always be

[@aasthawadhwa666]

Don’t worry you are representing us sooo well ….. and i am glad u talked about both sides of the coin ……. U talked about both the perspectives….. and don’t be sad …. You are the best ❤

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

yes, every action has equal and opposite reaction, we just forgot this for a long time..I guess Canada is reminding us this law

[@getgoingwithshilpi]

Tell him you people are surviving because of us Indians . Shilpa dear smile . 😊I have been here since last few months and not even a single Indian or Indian student I have seen any instance of misbehaving . They are fast to learn the culture of this country and are very respectful and courteous .

[@countroshculla]

@@getgoingwithshilpi Rubbish.

[@sidgenocid]

I have definitely noticed a rise in racism especially towards Indians and Pakistanis. I hear it all the time. People assume since I'm white that I agree with their sick views and they say stuff like "they are overtaking the country", "they have no culture", etc. It's disgusting to say the least. I came to Canada in the 90s and have felt similar attitudes. Now those racist people view me as a lesser evil since I'm of a "proper" skin colour so they will tolerate me. The worst thing is when I hear immigrants complaining about other immigrants not realizing they are in the same boat. I think Canada is definitely different from 50 years ago and that's a good thing. Racist dogs can bark all they want but they don't bite yet. We need to stick together. I love everything about different cultures that I get to meet here and that is a great thing. I know what these divisions lead to and that's concerning to me. I've lived through the war in former Yugoslavia and have seen first hand what hate does to people. I want you to know that not everyone is an idiot in this country and I hope we eliminate hate together. The only way to do that I feel is to keep connecting and not always staying within our own cultural circles. As and example, I play in a band and have met and awesome Indian band here in Toronto. We have played twice together and it's amazing to connect beyond the traditional circles. The Indian band is called Onek. You should check them out.

[@abhasharma34]

I also faced such irrelevant behaviour once or twice in Canada, but I believe in correcting them and making them realize that they should change their behaviour.

[@shiprasharma9425]

Sorry to hear you have to go through this. NEVER NEVER NEVER take this personally. You find such people and its sad . I think you started a good topic and as influencers and even Other India influencers here, they should all do such a series on accepting Canada for what it is and not try to diminish. Hope you feel better and don't give another though to bad comments

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

I only say what I experience..sadly, experienced that too 😒

[@Sk-nu4km]

Arrey Shilpa, you are too good, i have said it so many times earlier to you ... u r the best vlogger , ur high spirit, ur positivity everything is superior. Dekho, ab kabhi na kabhi toh negative log se interact hoga hi life mein. In fact many times hota hai, but how well u handle that situation is what u r all about. So Amits point of view and ur smiling face in the end is again a teaching to us❤

[@izukualmight7936]

Hi Shilpa, sorry to hear about your unfortunate incident and the bad experience. I don’t think it’s you as a person rather the situation in Canada is causing the ripple effects of racism to all (like the saying goes - one fish ruins the pond for all fish). In this situation the person could have just stated his point without the reference of “Indians”. Things happen and situation changes, and it’s ok to renegotiate rather than calling names. Cheer up because there are many more nicer people in Canada and world than these few uninformed folks. I 100% agree with Amit regarding the immigrants from the past and present. Not saying for any one person but even in USA, I notice significant difference between people who immigrated decades ago versus recent immigrants. And it is changing the dynamics. But that is beside the point - no one should experience this type of behavior. Humanity should be above anything. I hope you are able to get over this quickly as you are a beautiful family with great character and sanskar. ❤

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

Yes.. I agree, this reaction is coming from wrong actions

[@saleemakhtar87]

Do not take it too literally, have personally faced much worse in 70's in Toronto. World is becoming much more bitter these days.. You are a charming person..do not lose it, keep smiling ❤

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

Yes, world is changing very fast and it’s not good for new generation

[@savreenkaur366]

Hi Shilpa Don't be upset You are the best 👍 We r always with you dear Don't feel bad, its not ur fault. You are right 👍 We love you 🙏

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

Thank u for ur encouraging words

[@kamleshnandu1]

Very Sorry Shilpaji for the rude & heart breaking Moments you faced.

[@HarleenKaur-ke1yd]

Don’t be upset shilpa, just ignore these type of people , Amit has mentioned it very correctly , take care 💕

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

Thank u 🙏🏻

[@swatikhurma.]

Hey Shilpa, don't be so disheartened, don't like to see u so sad. Keep smiling...these r just small jerks in life journey ... Which r somewhat necessary...such casas makes us realise the true value of life.....other wise in normal routine we start taking life for granted.....u should be happy ,u have a life patner like Amit...

[@optimism4168]

Now that I am coming permanently next month with family I am afraid after hearing all this. There is so much negativity these days and also talks about racism on social media. I am anxious and keeping fingers crossed and convincing myself that these things happen in India also where people are divided on so many aspects and talk disrespectfully many times.

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

There r more good people than bad people..

[@optimism4168]

@@chitchatwithshilpa that's true🤗

[@rohanutep81]

Emotions vs Intellience Shilpa- Amit !!

[@mamtabhatia1347]

Amit ji, u can use your indoor cycle for fourty minutes daily, it will help than as well...u can see tremendous change. It is tried and tested by me as well at home. But u have to be regular. All the best for your new journey.

[@abundancepositive]

Ignore the haters Shilpa Ji; we faced much worse when we immigrated to Canada over 30 years old. Amit Ji looks Awesome in eye glasses ❤ Keep up the great work Amit Ji and Shilpa Ji ❤

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@nileshgajara7883]

NORMALLY WE INDIANS ARE ADAPTIVE,,,WE GET ACCUSTOMED TO NEW CULTURE,,WE DO RESPECT OTHER CULTURE...EXCEPTONS ARE EVERYWHERE,,,,EVEN WITHIN INDIA WE HAVE DIVERSITY...MARATHI CULTURE, GUJARATI CULTURE,,,LIKE WISE....

[@sonumishra4433]

Hey Basanti... Tum har Emotion mein achhi lagti ho... Veru ko dekho kitne pyaar se samjha rahe hai... He is right, in any community you will find all shades of people.. Chalo ab chill Karo....... 😊

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

Chilling 😃😃

[@amitapatel6610]

Don't worry shilpa bade bade deso me esi choti choti baate hoti raheti he mebhi jab canada me thi tab muje bhi bahut aacha lagta tha but ab esa lagraha he ki har baat ke liye indian soko ku sunaya jaraha he its ok hamto aache hena pura india bhi aacha he sab thik ho jaye ga time ke sath ok❤

[@vivaciousgemini]

Truly sad, canada was really very friendly few years ago but now new immigrants specially students from particular Indian state have spoiled everything... In Brampton, they made it worse... You cant go out on weekends places like trinity common... My 2 year old really scared and fell down when some punjabi guy stopped their car all yhe sudden and went in full speed with very annoying sound...

[@pepewr]

Just imagine if this hate continues what will happen to 2nd gen indians who were born here!

[@rachanasamant7166]

I can understand how you must have felt 😢.

[@iranpreetkaur2952]

Don't worry dear.. let it go😊

[@Gurpreetksandhu]

It's ok Shilpa. Don't be upset You are not at fault. And that person should respect you instead of yelling. As you already informed him in prior. So , relax

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

Yes, I informed way prior to

[@sukhvinderkaur5373]

Haan ..we face many times . mere husband pagri pahnte hai to easily unko pata chalta hai ki hum Indian hai ....par wo mostly teenager hote hai..bas alert raho taki koi tumara nuksaan na kar sake.🙏🙏👍😘

[@lokeshpratapsingh3527]

It's on rise. It's appalling to see this.

[@neeharikachowdary9294]

Best brains is becoming a popular franchise

[@lakshmikharb9286]

We find mean people everywhere n anywhere. Don’t take it personal

[@kamleshnandu1]

Good Morning Shilpaji, Amitji, Amy❤❤❤

[@heenadedhia4948]

Hello all, Just forgive n forget 🙏

[@RishikaJaiswal03]

Yeah! Amit sir is right ma'am

[@RishikaJaiswal03]

Don't be sad. Kisi ke kahene se kuch thodi hota hai, right? So be happy.

[@Maadhvi0009]

Please cheer up Shilpa.. If that person doesn't like Indians so why was he purchasing something from an Indian??? We want to see you happy and cheerful in your next vlog. I know what happened was very bad but dnt give that incident so much thought. Jaldi se dimaag se bhagaa do and give us your sweet smile... we are here for you...

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

Thank u for being there and cheering me up 😊

[@Nadiaandherchildren]

Hello shilpa, how are you ? Lovely to see your videos !! I’ll be 45 on 19 sep so I liked your gym idea ❤. Keep it up

[@RashadMunawar-q8u]

Shilpa me and my sister's family recently moved to USA from Lahore,Pakistan. We were were walking in a Park in Washington DC when someone asked us" Where are you from? I told him we are from Pakistan. He said hopefully you are not terrorist 😭. It is not their fault because someone of us behavior crazy and vicious they think that all of us are same.

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

That’s so unfortunate

[@RashadMunawar-q8u]

You people are lucky Amy speaks Hindi also but our relatives's children who are living in USA can't speak Punjabi or any Pakistani Languages. May be their parents are Doctors and they are awfully busy. However my children can not speak Punjabi also although they were born in Pakistan but they can understand Punjabi.

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

Teaching her speaking in Hindi was our top priority

[@rosykawal]

Hi Shilpa don't think so much.....God has created everyone with different features.....so you don't take on you .....just chill us with your chitchat.....❤❤❤❤

[@deepakkumaar9]

Kya ye sab Canada mei bhi shuru ho gya hai? This is sick and strongly demotivating. I was thinking of setteling in Canada. 😢 Really disappointed 😔 . One should not impose one's culture to someone else.

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

people have become more intolerable and unwelcoming but this is reaction of the action

[@deepakkumaar9]

@@chitchatwithshilpa I think at the end of the video the discussion between you and amit and the real reason...

[@chocojewels]

And how he represented people of his nationality that they are bully? Bully thinks they are always correct and they have right to say about people from other nationalities.

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

Exactly my thoughts

[@neeharikachowdary9294]

Fb Report him Block him Give him poor rating if there is such a thing Am always scared that ppl know our address when we sell on fb unless we meet elsewhere

[@ushathakran34]

Are koi nahi Life mai kuch is se bhi sik milte hai don't sad😮

[@ishakapoor6322]

Hi Shilpa, itni positive ladki ko upset dekh k achha nahi lag raha. Don’t feel bad for such psychotic people,just chill. we are always with you❤

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

Thank u so much for ur kind words

[@richasinghal1872]

Hi dear , can you please make a video on outside math and English classes for primary kids like best brain , kumon or Spirit of math which one is best

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

If I haven’t tried them, my feedback won’t be valid 😊

[@AwadGanam]

Shilpa aap par natural nails bahut pyare lag rahe he sachi isiko maintain karna.

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

Thank you..

[@lailalalji9408]

Shilpa..I felt bad for mr amit ji to say sorry.. kisi se bhi ho sakta tha yeh galti jaan bhuj se thodi reh gaye the..

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

Hanji..it was a genuine mistake

[@namrata6392]

Hi Shilpa, Can Amit answer that how a Self-Employed Income family qualify for a Mortgage?

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

He will answer that soon

[@andalibansari9584]

Your natural nails look good. Even better than the fake ones

[@pankajguglani1988]

❤

[@technicalguru4128]

Aankhon ke niche black circle pad gaye hain shilpa CANADA me

[@BilalAhmed-cc3tv]

U must share with him ur you tube channel link,than he can know how cute u r and ur family ❤❤

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

I wish..

[@sahilhira-is9gj]

The condition of canada is bad right now

[@ushathakran34]

World mai her tarah kai log hote don't sad

[@JaatDevta00001]

hard disk was innocent!

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

😜😜

[@brownhunk007]

No punjabi gujrati immigration scams pleass

[@aditigarg9573]

Ignore shilpa ignore

[@kristheone1]

I would probably have paid the guy $50 with an apology for the inconvenience before things got heated up..

[@batmanrecharged]

Not sure paying is the correct way, Shilpa Ji has already said Sorry and in Canadian culture Sorry is accepted widely unlike InDia

[@kristheone1]

@@batmanrecharged I don't think 3 hours of notice is sufficient in Toronto traffic. I think a 12 hour notice is minimum and 24 hours is ideal. What if the guy had started already and planned a trip to the locality the night before ? While I sympathize with Shilpa and disagree with the guy's language, I do think the 3 hour notice is insufficient.

[@batmanrecharged]

@@kristheone1 understand your point but she didn't have option..it hapened unexpectedly, One cannot go back in time and make it 24hours... Anyway our discussion here shows how we fail to analyse such a simple scenario...

[@shumbuk4383]

@@batmanrecharged @kristheone1 Interesting conversation to watch. Just so you guys know, the standard is 24 hours. Entrepreneurs like fitness instructors, yoga teachers, math tutors, etc. you have to give 24 hours notice to get a refund or the money is 100% forfeited. Independent entrepreneurs (like myself) just follow the industry standard on appointment cancellations..what a company wouldn't let you get away with an individual wouldn't either, and as a consumer you should actually be more considerate of their time rather than trying to exploit them simply because they don't have an oppressive market share and the ability to dictate terms...or all we'll have are companies for our services and their lack of transparency and inflexible policies. As a sole proprietorship, the only people who call me up past midnight and try to cancel things, or forget to cancel entirely and just ghost me, are Indian people by the way.

[@valentinadcosta9]

❤❤❤❤

[@hudaomair793]

Oh 😢

[@satishchoudhry5826]

You should make small vlogs

[@aasthawadhwa666]

May be she meant BRAG ….

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

haha..no..else she would have been the first to correct me while I was telling on video in front of her..but yeah, we can fit this word there

[@meenakoh7997]

Everyone come to Canada for money and you too

[@priyamangla4409]

Nicevideo 😊

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

Thanks 🤗

[@remarkable1125]

3rd class ghatia logo se duniya bhari pari hai.

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

irony of this world

[@kusumsharma6730]

F

[@meenakoh7997]

Go

[@bhairavkansara153]

garmi mein pani toh dete hai..😉

[@chitchatwithshilpa]

I meant september me pehle kabhi pani dene ki jarurat nahi padti thi..this sept is warm

[@bhairavkansara153]

@@chitchatwithshilpa ok..

[@rukhsanakhatun6352]

The same is happening with muslims in india, baat ka batangad. Anyway this is really depressing and wrong. I hope people use some commom sense and please be kind😊

[@anusrishtibara1633]

second

[@FarhatIrfan-r2n]

First

[@Bharatnamo]

What do you mean " he is not Indian!"? Just because they change there English... ? Thats the problem we indians keep changing English to show how superior these westerns are😅