Why Society HATES Single Men

[@NarcSurvivor]

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[@freespirit9806]

Never mind finding the right partner. True freedom is realizing your own SELF. It is freedom from ego based FEAR of DEATH.

[@magnimpana3206]

the grâce of Shiva himself Is upon You🙏

[@user-qb8qm4mp5n]

Not only bars and clubs but workplaces are cesspools, toxic environments, where co-workers and bosses come to work every day hung over from the night before. If they can abuse single women in the workplace, they'll abuse anyone, including single men. Alcoholism turns people into narcissists, IMO. There is the abusive boss who comes in every day to work rage-fitting and kicking workers below them on the hierarchy because they can get away with it. Even when I started my own business I had to deal with alcoholics. I can tell who they are a mile away by the way they interact with people. When you are a mature adult, like say 50 years old, and you're getting DUIs, face it, you have a drinking problem. I got serious about my life at age 21 but all my life I've had to deal with narcissists, alcoholics, and substance abusers. I agree, that society does not look kindly on young, single men, nor on young, single women. For years, people thought I was gay.

[@MoniquevanLeeuwen]

It’s not a man or woman thing, it’s a human being thing….

[@MoniquevanLeeuwen]

@@KILL_THE_HIVE_MIND What’s your problem?

[@philinn4788]

Whats yours? ​@@MoniquevanLeeuwen

[@freespirit9806]

I bet there are a lot of women out there who would love to have a great man . Someone who is on the same wavelength.

[@realdealprimer]

I Agree With This Video

[@pjerdolinski37]

I agree with you, spot on!

[@melindalawson4484]

I agree with you 💯

[@tennyc]

thanks for this video. you were spot on . Ive worked as a DJ in clubs for 4 decades and ready for a career or venue switch..Ive loved music all my life but Im worn out with this misery disguised as pleasure.. the psychos that run society want us all ruined , miserable and stuck as we are easier to exploit in this state. Its seems we are not given the tools to prepare for our future , because they basically don't want us to have one. Sad to see all the girls I went to HS with are now raising their grandkids , after being a single parent as well.. Men are not clear on our roles , chaos ensues . We had a movement here in the states called MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way ) that I was initially excited about until it dissolved into racist MAGA trash . Men are told that asking for help or acting outside the "norm" is not masculine behaviour so drinking / drugging takes over as an escape . Sad. As bad as it is for hetero men, its even worse for gay men.. Ive been celibate for 5 yrs , never felt better and more disciplined. I deserve someone who is down for the long haul and has sound mind / body / goal oriented . Please remember you are the sum of the 5 people you associate with . I lived in London 4 yrs and I agree that pub /club culture is destroying the future. I appreciate your voice . Im glad you survived a suicide , as I did in 1983 .. Blessings and love my friend . thank you again .

[@marijkevandermeer2772]

So true! Good you have seen through this all...❤

[@tennyc]

@@marijkevandermeer2772 I'm amazed and thankful I'm even alive and no cancer , diabetes, hepatitis or hiv. Blessed beyond

[@oceanside13]

I'm a woman who really loved this vid. It's one of your best. One thing I wanted to say is -- like you, I've wondered why there is so much divorce. I was surprised to hear a man's point of view, saying that today's narcissiatic young women are the reason. As a survivor of narc abuse from 2 husbands and a boyfriend, I was thinking that the high divorce rate is mens' fault -- that most men treat women so badly, that they destroy the marriage. Well, I guess it's probably the high rate of narcs in the world today that has been causing the high divorce rate, regardless of the gender of the narc.

[@marijkevandermeer2772]

Exactly, never mind finding the right partner..that is not our purpose..our purpose is to be a full adult human, a loving soul, being there for Self and Others.

[@4669Mikehines]

Terry talked about this also .... I guess the awareness is spreading

[@martindiva]

Proverbs 20:1-3 KJV Wine is a mocker, strong drink is raging: And whosoever is deceived thereby is not wise.

[@barbaraking3477]

This episode is great! I particularly enjoyed the description of the nightclub. It used to be my favorite hobby, but it led me nowhere and introduced me to nothing but alcoholic narcissists and a dui. I'm happy to say I've been single and sober for 4 years, and I've never known serenity until now. I appreciate you and all that you share. Thank you, and God bless you.

[@Mocheesemoeugene]

It's nice to see you not in the ritz carlton for change.😂Much Love bro.BLEZZ#KEEP DA CHANGE.

[@Mocheesemoeugene]

This topic comes up a lot today & its very relevant.

[@Regan_MacNeil_73]

I am in my 40s, and still haven’t found my forever person. But because I believe in all the things you speak of ironically, don’t want to settle anymore. I am single in my 40s and my friends tell me to go to a bar to meet a guy, to have sex for just pleasure but I can’t, not in me. I hate drinking so I don’t want to go to a bar and know I am meeting someone who drinks lol. If he had a drink box then yes. 😂 BUT To me sex is a part of love. Men tell me I have to get off my high horse it’s nuts!!! And I love hearing your life stories, you’re real, that’s a rarity. So many bad men and women out there. Thanks for caring about all of us. Means more than you know. Much love to you Chris. ❤

[@theresafulton9609]

Every generation sees change and it seems everything becomes different even ❤️ love seems different than what our grandparents had what happened to that kind of love????? When I was a small child I thought when I grow up that’s the kind of love I want I have never come to find it I have tried many times I never went to bars I don’t drink alcohol maybe a glass of wine on occasion rarely ( I am in no way judging those who do it’s your life) very successful people good people drink alcohol it doesn’t make you a bad person It’s best in moderation that’s just my opinion (if you see it differently I can respect that) I have had maybe five really close relationships one of those relationships gave me my son he was no doubt the best man I’ve been with at the end of the day even that ended we are friends and still see each other from time to time but we have different lives for the longest time now I am in no way telling anyone to give up on love ❤️ but If I am being honest I don’t look for the kind of love my grandparents had I really don’t look for love because I know what God has for me will find me what’s meant to be yours will be yours I have stopped directing my path and now I let God direct my path all I want for my life is love,peace,joy and happiness and I pray that for all of you as well !!!!!!

[@fosterjanine5112]

You're right Narc Survivor and I agree. I know what you are talking about so I can relate what doesn't kill makes you stronger!

[@frankenpine8071]

Great knowledge! Thanks for sharing

[@NarcSurvivor]

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[@marijkevandermeer2772]

The Kingdom of Heaven is Within

[@Mia-u8e9g]

Thanks for being honest about your past. Makes for respect about what you're doing and saying now. 👍

[@mariamckeown258]

Always love your videos Chris, you not only motivate but are an inspiration to everyone looking to aspire to a better life ......makes me sad hearing of your suicide attempt as I've been there a few times myself and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy......only wish I lived closer to you to give you a big hug and be a friend to you , thanks for being so candid Chris......knowing how disciplined you are encourages me to strive for more too !! ......sending you nothing but best wishes and happiness, keep up the great work aspiring each of us to try to achieve a worthwhile and beautiful life Chris x

[@edgarszemturis]

Dedication and focus to atchive Life changes that you talk about is admireble! Great job you do, really helps to see someone who have won those timeweaste distractions! Your Channel is great inspiration to strive for leaving those useless activities behind! Thank you for your wisdom! Respect!

[@jeremyrodriguez5298]

TRUE, GOOD VIDEO K👑NG.

[@lindalonsbury5362]

I just listened to the second half .....this is so much more than a rant. It's a gift for you to open up about your suffering and extend your friendship to us❤ ❤❤❤

[@marijkevandermeer2772]

Hatsjoe! Sneezing...! Good health! ❤

[@sherimascote7495]

Hello Chris ❤😊

[@Stormy624]

History reveals that women are supposed to come with a dowry when married, but everyone wants to brush that under the carpet. REAL MARRIAGES demanded this!

[@cuteworldaa2018]

I’m gay single though. Chis !

[@aqoonqaate8109]

SEMAN RETENTION 🔥🔥🔥

[@KristonMahr]

I'm coming off another bender downfall. But I saw a unicorn working at CVS, pray for me.

[@genevievehenderson3265]

❤❤❤ lonely men a the best tips they thinks for them self

[@genevievehenderson3265]

Narc men like to be lonely by them self

[@Rawyalty220]

So not true. Narcissist need others

[@coffeebitt1]

Dang look at all the views you have???? Thumbs up people👍🏻

[@zeballos5757]

I’ll watch this later, but am commenting on the title. Yeah they hate them so much that places let hoards of migrants and refugees into their countries and barely any of them are women! There are so many of these narc survivor videos flooding my you tube, that I don’t watch them anymore. The thumb nails look old on some of them, can’t tell if it’s a current video or an old video. You look different in all of them. Anyway, it’s too many so I don’t bother watching them unless by your appearance, they look like they are current.

[@lifestylechavchat9246]

Society does not hate single men and tbh some youtubers r talking rubbish just to get more views,

[@NarcSurvivor]

Look up the statistics for men and anxiety disorders or depression. Also male suicidal rates are over 3x the rate than for women. Men are being pushed over the edge. Every day, thousands of men around the world lose their children, their homes, their cars, their business. To a woman, who may have been cheating on him the entire time. And then she has this new man in his home with his children, sitting on his couch, driving his car etc. While her ex is paying child support and alimony every month for them to live. If that is not hatred to single men, I don't know what is. Single men have no support. Single women/mothers do.

[@12toro]

​@@NarcSurvivorLook up the statistics of woman killed by there husbands. There is a reason why woman are single as well.

[@genevievehenderson3265]

Aloanley men are the best they just no what they need

[@freespirit9806]

How about single women?

[@NarcSurvivor]

Society seems to be encouraging this single woman, "boss babe" mentality.

[@genevievehenderson3265]

Hi I would like some of your juice single men a Takeing there time s to think of a god woman of there best life style amen I pray for them

[@genevievehenderson3265]

All wemen a re not the same aftar all

[@SonnyCrocket123]

WHY DO I CHASE THE CAT? NOTHING BUT THE DOG IN ME...

[@SophiaPistis3M-vm6lu]

Single woman are more hated and stigmatized in my opinion