Why Stay Single?

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[@Razaiel]

Men aren't avoiding marriage, they're avoiding divorce.

[@prakasavigraha6104]

Dead right.

[@vikman258]

The government did it to us

[@Great_Sandwich]

OHHHHHHH...! Bravo, Sir!

[@kurtpunchesthings2411]

100% men don't have a problem with the concept of marriage or how it works we have a problem with literally getting bent over a barrel in divorce court and losing everything regardless why the divorce happened think about it as a man you could have a House a wife 3 kids a good paying job but one day your wife decides she's not happy nothing you can do about it she divorces you kicks you out of your house you can no longer see your kids every day you lose half your money and stuff and have to pay her every week and the worst part ? eventually she will get a new boyfriend move him into your house and now your paying for the privilege of the woman whos supposed to be your wife fucking some other dude in your house

[@Great_Sandwich]

@@kurtpunchesthings2411 (Not _literally,_ but I take your point.)

[@laurendoe168]

I was unaware that single men can't write a book, make music, or make movies.

[@clarkbruce_exmuslim]

Word!!! After having gone through some shit, I just found out I'm much better off doing it alone. Now there's nothing I can't handle. Doesn't mean I won't have fulfilling non-romantic relationships. That's the reason I will.

[@clarkbruce_exmuslim]

I forgot to add who needs a RR? Can't you just take the train or the bus? Obviously public transport is something the US really lacks. And if you are a family/country man, can't you just chill with a Honda or a pickup? And if not, there are even many Benzes much cheaper than RR anyway 🙂

[@laurendoe168]

@@clarkbruce_exmuslim Nope, there are no trains or buses out my way. If you don't have a car, things like Uber and Lyft are the only options.

[@clarkbruce_exmuslim]

@@laurendoe168 that's what I said. Being from Sweden, I find that disasterous. We have buses and bike lanes even in small towns.

[@laurendoe168]

@@clarkbruce_exmuslim Here in the USA, buses are not "viable" - they're primarily paid for by municipal or county taxes; there's just not enough money to pay for it. People who ride buses are regarded as lower than "Women of Walmart" or "Florida Man." Nothing is close enough to get to by bicycle. Bike riders are regarded only slightly better than bus riders. I'm not saying this is "right", but it is a fact.

[@Vaderghost20]

Ever hear the phase "years to build, seconds to destroy." That's the risk and it happens too easily today.

[@perrykaler2721]

Even if you get married and have kids, in three generations nobody will even remember your name

[@daydreamdirty]

Considering the amount of people who want to cause issues out there like an ex, maybe being popular and well known isn’t the best thing

[@jmgonzales7701]

​@@daydreamdirtyexactly

[@andrewevans7992]

Who cares if anyone remembers you? Jesud

[@tylerfast106]

Exactly. Ecclesiastes knew this thousands of years ago

[@K.J.H_]

Or you have girls that get married and change it anyways. Annnnd there are likely many others with your name in other parts of the family tree carrying it the torch so to speak.

[@Rymann_23]

Singleness is a gift from God. The freedom and availability to serve His kingdom will FAR outlast any worldly impact we can ever make.

[@Analymous]

Being single isn’t a gift from God. It’s just a choice. Now finding the right person who will be loyal and love you until you’re elderly, THAT is a gift from God.

[@Rymann_23]

@@Analymous nah, look at 1 Corinthians 7. Paul explicitly talks about singleness as a gift and while there’s nothing wrong or sinful about marriage, he says when you’re married you don’t have the freedoms to serve and witness for the kingdom that you do when you’re single. Again not to take away from marriage because raising a family and being head of the household is totally biblical and good, but the opportunities to serve and witness are infinitely less after marriage.

[@obn1459]

best reply

[@theBROWNbanditP]

I hope in a thousand years, people are having just as spirited debates about Harry Potter dying for our sins as you guys are now. Religious people are fascinating.

[@CaptainSpalding72]

​@@theBROWNbanditPso are filthy atheists.

[@calebfenderson9327]

No problems with creating a family, just don’t want to lose one

[@jorgeimancilla3170]

Just dont be the typical dumbass looking to wed a girl from the bar and you’ll be fine.

[@bippitybopitybooty1127]

I don't think everyone is built to be family people. Not everyone can nor should be a parent. Also, some people are just slower than others. It's a big decision that many young people make then end up regretting 5 years later. Prenup prenup prenup

[@nunyabizay9253]

Then don’t cheat on your wife. The top reason for divorce in America now is infidelity. It’s a STATISTICAL FACT.

[@nonapplicable3055]

​@@nunyabizay9253Women cheat at the same rate or higher depending on the study. 😂

[@nunyabizay9253]

@@nonapplicable3055 “Research from the past two decades shows that between 20 and 25 percent of married men cheat and between 10 and 15 percent of married women cheat…” - department of family & consumer studies How’s it feel being wrong?

[@jayTerry9]

Being single is peacefull no one to lie to you cheat on you and hurt you.

[@G-MONEY1996]

👍

[@Krunkles24]

Sad but true

[@Guymobile94]

Being single is peaceful as hell

[@mikehansen7610]

That peacefulness is gonna go over to loneliness unless you have a bunch if single male friends you hang out with everyday

[@garnetdavey8776]

You still are not comfortable with your self?

[@Nia62899]

Yes

[@endershepard7117]

Damn right… I just passed the 200 hour mark of playing Final Fantasy 7 Rebirth. I could never have done that if I had a girlfriend right now because she would be demanding my attention and affection to be on her and not gaming, lol. I’m focusing on Exercising, Education & Entertainment right now not romance.

[@carpenoctem775]

Exactly! Marriage and kids is a ponze scheme.

[@jasoncoladonato1034]

People don’t fear marriage or having kids; they fear having everything they’ve built and invested time and love into being destroyed right before their eyes.

[@daniellaughlin5872]

Or taken away from them

[@make1782]

Yes sir 💯

[@mitchellcole832]

Divorce Rape.

[@DonutVIP]

EXACTLY!!

[@SABRINA11511]

They are weak men! Not good for being part of power couple or have family with them.

[@dirtydigger3218]

Its definitely not risky to stay SINGLE!

[@dontreply69]

Most of my friends who are married with kids just seem to be "stuck". I dont see how there lives are thriving anymore...

[@Earl_TheSquirrel]

Right, what the hell is he talking about

[@MysteriousFuture]

Every decision you make has tradeoffs, it’s just a matter of choosing what you feel best for yourself

[@GenghisKen]

I love being single. Zero drama.

[@stephaniewhite1779]

Until you get old and alone.. Nothing sadder than a single old person with no kids or grands and everyone else is surrounded by love. I don't have drama in my life and have been married for 19 years so you get what you attract. People always assume it's the other person that's the problem. If you are always having drama, maybe it's you who is the problem in the relationship.

[@Edp-jf8zn]

@@stephaniewhite1779i've seen old people literally happy no kids no wife lmaooo

[@jesseb5985]

@@stephaniewhite1779new generation of old people won’t be as lonely

[@Rob-nl5ge]

@@stephaniewhite1779 Sorry but this is nonsense. I know many people who are much happier single than they were in a relationship. Freedom, peace and a whole lot of money to yourself

[@Mikey-ym6ok]

@@stephaniewhite1779you see someone happy and your first thought is, well, I gotta change that.

[@hitoribocchi917]

been single for 10 years now.. best decision i made in my entire life.

[@cristopherortez3503]

Really? Imma take up on that

[@raisa_cherry33]

👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@michaelsieger9133]

Selfish

[@lookeshdas455]

​@@michaelsieger9133Cry

[@G-MONEY1996]

​​@@michaelsieger9133 no...Smart!

[@mahonnicklin9108]

Even King David and the apostle Paul recommended the single life because the best life you can live is one where God is number one 🙏🕊️

[@marvet9573]

Amen. However, in todays debauched world of sexual immorality I’d say it’s pretty much par for the course to get married at this point to avoid temptation.

[@BruceDSouza]

Amen 🙏🏽 Agreed, as being single, you tend to always put God first in everything and not concern yourself with pleasing your wife/husband. Marriage though is a gift from God and may not be meant for everyone but as long as you living a moral single life🙏🏽

[@whitelion1111]

Yes true, but you know tge apostkes were unlearned men and unwanted low lifes, it made it easier for them,playing the devils advocate. Youre right i know that scripture, it's just that today people have of always wondered and criticized and even said that I'm gay or suspected im gay, that can be and has been problematic, i even quit a job because people thought that, adter all im a good lookibg guy and " yiure nit married, hmm he must be gay" more times thsn you can count on your hands

[@MCSgt117]

It’s not the fall that kills you, it’s the sudden stop at the end.

[@eddieschneider1947]

it's the fall

[@DyspareEmbodied]

​@@eddieschneider1947You live until the sudden stop. It's not the fall.

[@caseyperry9731]

Peace is my choice for staying single

[@G-MONEY1996]

Mine too

[@truthseeker6163]

Why does anyone need to be remembered? Let the ego go….

[@Clean-ql5jy]

Exactly

[@kellyfrancis8999]

Thank you. That’s an odd concept to me. No matter what, when a person dies they’re eventually forgotten. At least most people are. The really famous ones aren’t.

[@samwellington2330]

Agree completely

[@Youknowwho910]

Trying hard to be remembered. Thats pathetic bc no one gives a duck

[@kylethekanadian2790]

I want to be forgotten...

[@jamey48]

As a 62 year old man I can say, good luck finding someone that isn't crazy.

[@Ok-yr1fm]

maybe they just not want you cz you are the one who are crazy. women in that age know difference and who is who.

[@NN-re7cy]

😂😂🤣

[@elizabethfunes8435]

If you’re a 62 year old man still single than maybe other people aren’t the problem

[@BeauTylerMakesMusic]

… if you’re 62 and still think that way it’s safe to assume you might have been the problem. 😂

[@JoseyWales93]

"[...] good luck finding someone that isn't crazy *[in the US]* "

[@NFT_Artist]

A lot of men ask me why I’m not married, not one woman has asked me that in my entire life.

[@thegoldenland]

Same here but not one single woman asked me. Married women asked me.

[@Stnicxai]

Underrated comment. Probably just went over a lot of heads

[@nataliemunoz8600]

Woman here, asking: why you are not married? 😂

[@Stnicxai]

I mean I thought this was all pretty obvious stuff here

[@geslinam9703]

Everyone and their grandmother asks me why I’m not married. I usually respond “just lucky, I guess” - but it’s an uncomfortable question for a lot of people. I’ll always remember a guy in Germany who asked me, I was only in my 20s at the time, and I said “maybe I haven’t met the right person” He shot back “Maybe no one wants you”

[@Later_Doober]

I 100% disagree. Just because someone wants to stay single their whole life doesn't mean it's a bad thing. As long as you are happy who cares if you are married or not. Don't degrade people for what they want to do.

[@nevadacario2000]

Yup

[@tanweeralam1650]

True

[@mansooryousef9468]

Yuuuup

[@lookeshdas455]

THIS!

[@RealHealthyGuidance]

NOT getting married is like missing out buying a ticket to the Titanic 😂

[@afriendlycampfire260]

The boat or the movie?

[@ramydaniel1319]

I've never read anything more truthful

[@billcarpenter5615]

@@afriendlycampfire260 Either?

[@kellyfrancis8999]

Oh God…

[@doraemonpianoworld8718]

The heart will Go on 😂

[@ironclad452]

Never enter into a contract with someone who is rewarded for breaking it.

[@felixuy87]

Most underrated comment

[@wallihaley5194]

Statistics show that women actually end up worse off after divorce. But I understand that if you only look at high profile celebrities and sports stars that are getting divorced and handing over tens of thousands of dollars a month in child support or millions in a divorce settlement, that would definitely skew your perception of who really ends up worse after a divorce, but for the average Americans, women generally suffer more financially by getting divorced.

[@gopro5281]

@@wallihaley5194they suffer because they end not making as much as men after divorce.

[@Kyle-2020]

@@wallihaley5194 Stop watching Destiny. He knows nothing but makes up for it by talking over people.

[@Jay-jt7yw]

Never heard of a prenup?

[@Maurice181]

**Marriage is a contract. Never sign a contract with someone who is incentivized to break it.**

[@rachel99988]

Marriage is not a contract but a covenant. Secular society defined it as a contract. Contracts can be broken but covenants are perpetual.

[@joshAKAtheman]

@@rachel99988 the hard part now is finding a women who shares that belief

[@fb7881]

@@rachel99988 It's only a covenant if both sides believes it is. marriage in the west is a one sided legal contract. sign it if you want but you've been warned.

[@Maurice181]

@@rachel99988 If you don't think marriage is a contract, try convincing a judge that you don't have to pay your alimony or child support.

[@rachel99988]

@@Maurice181The judge did not create marriage. Marriage is between three persons God, a man and woman. A holy communion. Marriage is not just a physical union but also a spiritual one. Hence the reason, we have wedding ceremonies and say vows. Alimony/child support is a man-made process that were created to distort the true meaning of marriage.

[@jucyjay8398]

Being single is lovely

[@AstronomyGuru84]

Imagine relying on another person to be happy. Sounds emotionally draining. I really feel sorry for people who can't enjoy their own company.

[@jennc6749]

Absolutely true when you find the right person who isn't sticking around for your money

[@mordrid7904]

Or leaving for half of it.

[@Anuchan]

Like the girl you had a crush on in high school before you had any money.

[@jasonpeters6600]

Nobody knowingly gets married to the “wrong person”. Yet over half don’t work out…. And many that do, stay together just for the kids…

[@xsotica]

At all cost avoid Amber Heard

[@houseofpain3580]

Incubate+lactate

[@thebigdawg61]

I'm sitting here watching this at home, all alone and couldn't be happier.

[@bbx_ravishankerupadhyay2434]

I'll ask again in a few years

[@incadeptus]

Lmao, just accept that people have different views on happiness.@@bbx_ravishankerupadhyay2434

[@thebigdawg61]

@@bbx_ravishankerupadhyay2434 I've been single for almost 20 years and life has been great. If you had my ex you would understand not taking any chances.

[@revolverrambles]

@@bbx_ravishankerupadhyay2434been single all 39 years. It’s great. I’m setup to retire now and I might move to a country that isn’t gynocentric if I want to marry

[@endershepard7117]

And some people wonder why so many narcissists exist nowadays. It comes down to a simple calculus. If nobody loves you or cares about you than you have to love and care about yourself. Sorry not sorry.

[@ghostface0927]

I have a couple, 1. If I want to have a boys night on my day off, I can immediately agree to it without checking first 2. I don't have to play 20 questions when deciding where to eat or what to make. 3. I can get home from work and relax for more than 5 minutes before being asked to do a chore that she could have done given we had no kids and she didn't have a job. 4. I can make or order food without it getting stolen because I asked her if she wanted any and she said no but she changed her mind. 5. I don't have to spend money on shit we don't need like a vase or new curtains despite the fact we already had some that worked fine but she was "tired of the colors and wanted different ones". But if I want to spend money that i earned on a game I get attitude when I refuse to return it

[@Mikey-ym6ok]

Love being single. It’s freedom. Was married for a while and it was the loneliest time in my life. Single I can do whatever whenever without checking in with my so about everything.

[@Dev-qs2yb]

Hear me out smartypants, men are avoiding what they've built from getting destroyed by being single.

[@Mrbusy498]

Learn how to protect ur money then “smarty pants”

[@Dingoman013]

@@Mrbusy498 Please elaborate

[@dpurdyciv4417]

@@Mrbusy498Sure, I’ll stay single then 😊

[@Grabthar191]

@@Mrbusy498 They do that by refusing a Time Share Agreement type of contract with the government (AKA Marriage).

[@miggs80]

@@Mrbusy498You can’t protect it once you get married or have children with them. Even with a prenup you’re going to be paying them a ridiculous amount of money once they ask for divorce.

[@maskedninja876]

"I can't see one positive reason to stay single." *Divorce Court has entered the chat*

[@MistaKnifeguy]

LMAO

[@maskedninja876]

​@TheRealSavageMaestro he said that life is all about investing in things that outlive you while failing to acknowledge that your marriage dies when you do!🤦‍♂️

[@Chazb369]

@@maskedninja876he means have kids. But again. I ain’t gettin married fuck that shit. The girls are coming around I’m 22 and a lot of them my age know they have literally no chance in about 5 years so it’s either get a good guy let him fuck some girls every now n then but you get him as your man to have a house have kids with drive his cars etc. travel with. That’s what I’m doing. My girl right now one of the first things she said was as long as I’m taken care of I’ll ignore whatever you want me to. And the irony is that when you do find a girl like this you’re gonna love her so much you’ll fuck her brains out and barely ever wanna smash other girls anyway 😂 but marriage? Yeah hell nah we can have kids n shit but marriage ain’t happening just for a party one night on a wedding day LOL we throw down every weekend wtf you need a wedding for. Btw you ain’t gonna find a girl like that unless you’re a good 6 feet I’d say look really good and have your shit cut out for you. Personality goes a long way too be interesting read some fckn books.

[@johanstinson]

​@@maskedninja876thats not what life is all about. Thats what its about for him.

[@maskedninja876]

@johanstinson there's honestly no reason to care about keeping the human species alive. We just keep doing the same things over and over, and all of it is meaningless in the grand scheme of things anyway.

[@hyberkonawa272]

Not everyone thinks the same as you Ben shapiro. I'm okay being single and sleep with many women OR just simply marry a Hot woman and not having kids until I desire for it. That's my Honesty! and that's what makes me happy!

[@lightbound274]

Living forever is an ego. I just focus on being a good man in the here and now

[@terseandtiny1746]

If you stay single, don't date, and just contribute to humanity there's nothing wrong with that. Not all of us should or will be married.

[@chewface]

I swear, some of these pro-marriage arguments lately are just pure propaganda. They're almost THREATENED by the idea of men not needing a wife or kids to define their existence. Think of all those poor divorce lawyers and child custody courts losing money! The horror!

[@tat21able]

Thank you. People act like singleness is a whole plague.

[@chucksmcgee8716]

Bingo. My peace is number 1.

[@ajm12321]

Thank you thank you thank you for saying that. I chose to be single for reasons that are not mentioned here. People think singleness is some form of disease. Singleness can be a good thing if done with the right intentions while being a valuable contributor in the society.

[@swiftsetrider4543]

And does this apply to women in your opinion?

[@anthonyc2430]

It's better to stay single then to be in a toxic relationship

[@fishunit1088]

What about a positive one?

[@anthonyc2430]

@@fishunit1088 just stay away from crazy manipulative narcissistic immature and toxic bitches lol! That's when it's better to be single

[@sggsdsgdgsd6897]

Doesn't exist these days @@fishunit1088

[@rayflo2592]

You can’t control women? You a homo?

[@Grabthar191]

@@fishunit1088 The odds are against you. It's a lotto ticket with your assets, future earning potential, mental and physical health all up as collateral in case you lose. A fools gamble. Those that won that ticket, should not be advising others to put their life savings into such a bad game.

[@roninthedestroyer8958]

I am single and love it I can work on my cars without having a woman bothering me

[@urskadolenc1799]

Lol sad

[@roninthedestroyer8958]

@@urskadolenc1799 sad happy it's 8 ish and I am still working on my classic car. I have been a car guy all my life and was married. I got tired of the complaints of buying car parts and working on my cars. The same thing with girlfriends they worry about my money and buying parts and expensive cars. I have a friend who likes to read comic books and collect them. His wife complains about it he is a doctor. I told her so you rather have him spend his money on going to bars with his friends. Or him at home reading a comic book. Lol and I believe in one night stands

[@roninthedestroyer8958]

@@urskadolenc1799 sad is going to hang out with your married friends and all they do is bitch about the wife. Lol they have to ask permission to spend money on their cars lol

[@Clean-ql5jy]

​@@urskadolenc1799 learn what sad means.

[@rachelschendel2476]

Haha. I went to my mom's house the other day and she asked my brother what his gf was doing and why they weren't spending time together, and he says "mom, I'm 'sleeping' today, remember??"

[@robertfreestone414]

Staying single and childless conquers civilization's centuries old struggle: obtaining peace and freedom.

[@rhadiem]

The biggest problem being a single man is losing friends who get married and disappear.

[@ilck-ym-blals7385]

Thats not a true friend , Im married with married friends , we find time , once in a while.

[@veronicaokomi4083]

​@@ilck-ym-blals7385I agree. My husband and his friends have their happy hour every Friday,some single some married and they've been friends since they were 10 years old. They all met in secondary school. True friends will find time

[@toddfarkman2177]

The biggest problem with getting married is losing time to spend with single friends who are doing things you can't.

[@charleswidmore5458]

yea but on the bright side over 70% of them will be back

[@chzzyg2698]

I watched my friends get married, divorced, and bankrupt before disappearing.

[@dtp_drip2659]

The worst thing you can do as a single man is listen to a married man who hasn’t been on the dating market in over a decade lol

[@glencoewhite6939]

That’s a good point. I’ve never been on any dating apps but it seems dreadful. Fun for young people but awful for people looking for something more.

[@Bootyeater999]

@@glencoewhite6939 fun for ladies, extremely fun for too 10%of guys, awful for your average Joe. Dating is so bad you have the guys who would have no problem dating quitting.

[@T-poseGaming-zf6md]

@@glencoewhite6939 No he means you're out of touch with todays dating market. Not about looking for something more lol.

[@MistaKnifeguy]

FAAAAACTS!

[@TheRealPDizzle]

Try 3 decades.

[@derekjlight]

I’ll spend my own money on me thanks.

[@blainmcvey5627]

Scripture says, those who are married do not look to be single. Those who are single do not look to be married.

[@ulrohermit1369]

“To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single, as I am. But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion” (1 Corinthians 7:8-9).

[@Clobercow1]

Divorce means he loses most of his shit. That's the risk. It's a very obvious risk.

[@cyclonejane]

The fact that he considers marital assets to be “his shit” shows how little value he places on a woman. That’s fine. He just shouldn’t marry.

[@kebas239]

​@@cyclonejane It's easier for women to abuse the system. I know someone that was married a few years and after the divorce, his wife took half of the property and assets he had before meeting her.

[@cyclonejane]

@@kebas239 Anecdotes are not evidence, but that point aside, I would argue that the opposite is true in most cases. It is usually the woman’s life that is compromised by marriage: her options for independence and self-reliance are cut off, particularly if she gives birth and particularly if she marries early in life. Most divorces in the US are not settled in the way your friend’s case was. Generally, the assets of both parties are deemed marital assets and split down the middle. If wealthy men marry, they should have pre-nuptial agreements. If the woman had the capacity to earn a living, pay her own bills, make decisions about her own life prior to marriage, she is at least better prepared to take care of herself as a divorcee. Unfortunately, most men like women younger than they are, so a female who has never taken care of herself is at a particular disadvantage. Sometimes that is reflected in the divorce settlement.

[@mazipaz9709]

I will say this is partially untrue in the cases i've seen where it's the woman paying the alimony and the gentleman taking more than 1/2 of a 401k he did not contribute to. So divorce hit's both parties financially like a ton of bricks depending on the state you're living in. state by state. So the risk is there for both men and women.

[@davidfoote696]

​@cyclonejane that's not anecdotal, that's the reality that married men face. It happens all the time. "It's cheaper to keep her" is a factual sentiment. The system is easily abused by women, and men know it. Plus there's the emotional risk of being cheated on, etc.

[@SuperVixas]

You can still make things that outlives you while being single, it's your choice how you want to live

[@gamesmaster1060]

Who cares anyway, ill be dead so I wont know much difference of what outlives me

[@waihekejason]

Good point,the reality is though that in one generation no one cares anyway

[@Riosgirl98]

Agree and I think it's pretty egotistical to even want to live forever or be remembered long inti the future. We were not put on this earth to leave a legacy, we are all here to learn and evolve as people.

[@MSI-]

@@Riosgirl98so what where we put on this earth for, its simple really worship one god and be good live a good life where you don’t forget Allah and then die and if you where good you will be rewarded

[@Riosgirl98]

@@MSI- You put it simply and that's really accurate. I wish more people would put God before themselves and realize our lives are not purely to satisfy our own desires. God protects us that's why following his path is the only path. Bless you 🙏

[@Tubie1111]

Single people get to sleep in , in peace and quiet. No kids on weekends. Love it!

[@G-MONEY1996]

✌️😁

[@Mike.Cebert]

I turned 40 yesterday and am a virgin single male Christian man, 6"2, bald but ok looking (I think), well travelled, level headed, sociable. It's been 8 years since I was properly with someone and that only lasted a few months and the time before that I was in an abusive relationship for a year going back 10 years ago now. I can't believe it's been this long since I was with someone and I'm rapidly thinking it is over for me. What's more is your confidence takes a huge knock and you convince yourself that something must be wrong with you. In my case, it could be the brown skin or the baldness or perhaps I just don't have enough going for me. Women's expectations are so high now that you can't just be an average man. I used to regularly date but even that isn't happening much anymore. I do think I'm not meeting enough women on a regular basis, so the only way I "meet" women are through dating apps. I still seem to get matches but it goes nowhere. They usually just disappear. I rarely even meet someone I want to pursue. The few I do aren't into me and the ones that are, I'm not into. I keep praying and seeking God over this but there still appears to be no progress or hope and as a result, it's no surprise I've ended up in a rut of bitterness. Worse still I don't want to descend into hating women. It may not be too late to meet someone but with age my options are limited and time is running out. I am worried about being left on the shelf and being alone for the rest of my life and dying alone and just ending my life as a bitter old man. My parents are getting older and eventually I will have no one around me.

[@The_Skrub]

There are plenty of us who don't want to be loved after we're gone...we want to be loved while we are here.

[@nimmha6708]

damn

[@johnnash9523]

true.. Ben is so dumb somethings

[@juancarlos-uv8gm]

search in the rigth place bro.

[@deadlyraver4454]

true.

[@definitelynotlebronjames443]

God, and loved ones are the only way to be loved. Sex and materialism is not

[@swanseawales1979]

Marriage isn’t always a bed of roses. A lot of people are better single than enter a toxic relationship

[@mr.doctorcaptain1124]

I mean, I completely agree, but counter point. If every woman you meet is toxic and not worthy of marriage, maybe the problem is you. I have two people in my life whom I love dearly, both of whom are going through a divorce. The first one got tired of having sex with the same woman, and filed for divorce. He spent the past 4 years complaining about his wife, how evil she is, etc. I finally had a long and serious heart to heart with him about his decisions, and at the end of it he admitted that everything in their marriage was actually a result of him refusing to work on their marriage and really only being interested in banging new women. He still blames her for everything, but when it’s only me and him with no one else around, he admits to me it was all him and had nothing to do with her. The other guy simply refused to deal with any issues in his marriage for fifteen years. He also cheated, but he thinks no one knows. So he goes around talking about how his bitch ex cheated and left him. To this day he has no idea that everyone knows he’s actually the one who cheated, because he didn’t realize the way he did it made it incredibly easy to be caught. We don’t live in a society of men. We live in a society of petulant children, boys and girls both. But if you walk around smelling poop all day, check your own shoe. My wife is incredible.

[@EnthalpyAndEntropy]

@@mr.doctorcaptain1124well, that’s good you recognize we’re a society of petulant children, boys and girls alike. It’s easy to walk everywhere and NOT have poop on your shoe while smelling it. I found someone who is amazing but we’re still not getting married. I don’t want her getting stuck with bankruptcy or my medical bills if I die from cancer and a whole host of other reasons. Spousal privilege and the tax benefits aren’t worth it yet and may never be.

[@ForumLight]

He says it's all true what this guy is saying? I thought He believed in God / Jesus Christ? What he says is a false approach to life as if God does not exist. _And when he had called the people unto him with his disciples also, he said unto them, Whosoever will come after me, let him _*_deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me. For whosoever will save his life shall lose it;_*_ but whosoever shall lose his life for my sake and the gospel's, the same shall save it. For _*_what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? Or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?_* Mark 8:34-37

[@alexcarter2461]

​@@mr.doctorcaptain1124 How can you be the problem if these people are encroaching onto you?

[@angeloliver7613]

Men have to be afraid of loosing money and custody, women have to be afraid of their literal safety and life. There are a lot of good reason to stay single for all genders.

[@georgemcfly3482]

Being single is awesome

[@bearallen852]

After being married, abused and cheated on, you can’t give me one single positive thing about being married.

[@nutech1810]

Pick better women

[@05.anshumaanmaharana93]

Find a good partner next time

[@411DL]

See?! It's easy!? Just pick better. Says everyone who's lived either a very insulated life and/or hasn't known someone who's really good at containing their crazy for small durations of time.

[@thenerdrobert3815]

Glimps of living forever 😂

[@jaymass1178]

Need to have the right person

[@Crazieyboy15]

You can't see one positive argument for staying single? One word: Divorce.

[@sweetxjc]

If divorce scares you that much then sign a prenup. Not that I think it’s good because you’re planning for a divorce instead of planning on how you guys will keep your marriage together.

[@Crazieyboy15]

@@sweetxjc Firstly, your idea of a prenup is very wrong. It’s the equivalent of having a fire extinguisher. You don’t plan on there being a fire, but you’ll be glad you prepared for it if it happens. As well as the fact that 80% of divorces are initiated by women and every man who was ruined by it is shown no mercy in courts. Second, Prenups aren’t worth the paper their written on and are often overturned by a judge for any number of reasons.

[@user-zv2gx9tf8r]

​@@sweetxjcprenups are no good, and are an inside joke in divorce courts, and are constantly thrown out. The guys fear of divorce is totally correct, as American women are rewarded for divorcing and destroying their families.

[@oozyvsak47ll31]

​@@sweetxjcprenup don't heal the pain, depression, disappointment, sadness, setback that comes with divorce.

[@MichaelRNYC]

​@@sweetxjcmarriage is a legal construct. The dissolution is defined by the state and leans in the woman's favor by default.

[@earthy55557]

Most people marry to avoid loneliness, especially women

[@ec3076]

Millionaires telling working people how to live their lives. The hubris is astonishing.

[@carlosescarffullette9429]

I'm divorced, just recently. I love Pat and you too, Ben. You guys have been blessed with your families as I once was there too. If your wife ever makes the decision to move on, I'd like to see you guys podcast on losing half or more of your hard-earned work.

[@adoptmefand8054]

Right 😂

[@Grabthar191]

She'll get half his business and then she can sell it to the Washington Post, or some of the same type of guys that destroyed Project Veritas.

[@_tesla666]

Newsflash, you don't have to be married to write a book, make music, or create a legacy that outlives you!

[@Ferien7]

Divorce lawyers and ex wives have to get paid somehow

[@maduro169]

Thank you !!!!

[@BigGfromgrouphome]

He was simply giving other examples and comes back 🙄.

[@BaconIsNotBiceps]

I'm on my second book of poetry and am perfectly content with no one ranting about the toilet seat being left up. 🦾

[@marcush5453]

Agreed

[@Hakuta925]

"Its risky too staying single" bro on that zaza💀

[@hyberkonawa272]

Is not risky. is your mind telling you these things. They want you to be marry so they can make profit out of you! That's not a great deal!

[@alimustafa.2606]

I m 30 i am haply to live alone because i know noone is anyone.

[@itmeamie]

Never sign a contract with someone who is incentivized to break it.

[@kwith]

This is why I think prenups should be a part of marriage. It should be baked into the contract BEFORE you sign it.

[@queenstar9299]

​@@kwithYES! I've said this for years!

[@alexp2557]

Absolutely😊

[@MC-24]

Especially now that women have every opportunity to make their own lives. Divorce settlements used to be a parachute for women but now they’re retirement packages and secondary revenue streams.

[@RParis-ov2rq]

Prenup? No, those can be thrown out by an activist/feminist judge. What you need is an ESTATE. You put all your assets and cashflow into the Estate to legally protect it and keep it. Declare yourself as Trustee of the Estate, which means you legally control all financial dispersments as declared by the Estate. No one can marry you, and legally take half an Estate if its not already established as a clause within the Estate. This is how the uber rich retain not just their cashflow, bu talso ALL of their assets, generation after generation.

[@danielrocha-garcia8609]

It’s not even the money aspect that’s holding a lot of men back. It’s the fact that if we get married, we surrender everything to that woman and if we pick the wrong one, which statistically we probably will, then we’re screwed when THEY are no longer happy, they divorce us, take half our crap, and then make us fight tooth an nail just to see our kids 2 weekends a month

[@szelgorcs]

Everybody brings up the divorce statistics. How about instead you bring up the divorce statistics of deeply religious couples who didn't engage in fornication and have 3+ children? People with a wrong view on life ruin the hope for young people. Listen to those who succeed and learn from them, not from those who failed.

[@granthill2980]

@@szelgorcs RARE, VERY RARE!!!

[@who346]

Why put yourself in a hell to see your kids 4 days a month....and then labeled a deadbeat cause you just find its too painful to do it, or they are turned against you.

[@tuckerbugeater]

You're sharing her with her previous 50 partners. LOL. Men are in denial.

[@doctorcatnip2551]

I am 43 and I've never been married. No children. Trust me, men. Stay single! And thank me when you are my age and look back.😊

[@danguzy918]

Reasons to stay single: 1) messy divorces, 2) love of your life passes away , 3) cheating partner, 4) partner that spends all your money, 5) bad marriage with lots of arguing, 6) ex-spouse prevents you from seeing your own kids, etc. There a lot of good reasons to get married but also a lot of good reasons to stay single. It’s okay either way as long as you’re happy. If you prefer to be married, go with it. If you prefer to stay single, go with it. Just do what’s right for you.

[@betterlatethannever4529]

That’s cute. Let’s see him say that after he’s dragged through a messy divorce.

[@Mansini77]

Prenup

[@zeked4200]

​@@Mansini77 If you feel like you *need* a prenup and won't get married without one, you should rethink the marriage. With the way the laws are slanted, if you aren't 100% certain he/she is the one...don't do it. Even with a prenup, nothing about Divorce is fun...or fair.

[@betterlatethannever4529]

@@Mansini77 those can be thrown out these days.

[@SpruceCampbell]

He'd likely still get some kids out of the marriage though, which was his whole point. He'd probably go through it anyway with full knowledge of the divorce.

[@torch_fire9218]

@@Mansini77 Alternatively, you don't have to get legally married. Just start living together.

[@jamesyoung6576]

"I'm not GIVING anyone half of my sh*t" -Jake from 2 and a half men

[@teoleno4019]

The government will take all of your s*it after your bones start rotting.

[@mahoganysins614]

Smart man

[@Jason-cn5vo]

Marry someone that doesn't believe in divorce. God hates divorce.

[@zacharycasavant9068]

Propaganda

[@rajecks]

And how much do you have? Do you even own a property? Most women are out earning men these days….you will say that until old age finds you and then you realize what was important but it would be too late

[@jacobhines83jhjh69]

It's crazy how married men try to shame single men to get married this guys best example is a single man pulling up in a nice car to a restaurant very material and small minded not once did he take into account the MAN that finds peace being left alone to go through his life journey lol I'm sorry but having kids and marriage isn't life's biggest accomplishment

[@ss0498]

As they say, misery loves company.

[@tryingtowalkthepath683]

The Apostle Paul was never married and look what he accomplished.

[@DonaId_J_Trump]

When I was 5 years old I knew that I didn't want to get married. My parents thought I was just talking and being a 5 year old. I'm 37 now and my stance hasn't changed. Marriage, children, college, etc isn't for everyone. When you know who you are it can be difficult for others to understand the decisions you make. Especially when those decisions look different to everything else around you.

[@richardbotha1740]

Finally someone said it ! People keep on expecting me to make the usual life decisions like girlfriend , college etc . Those things are just not for me at all. I don't know why people are surprised when i tell them im not interested in romamce . Then they start to preach to me how important it is . Important to who ? You or me ? 😂

[@MadSaco1]

Exactly Brother. We are not all sheep and want the same things in life.

[@Zennethe]

I once was like you. 8 years deep into what I saw to be my forever. Then they cheated on me cause some rich fuck was more appealing then my middle class ass. lol Ben's not in love with his family. He's in love with the things his religion force onto him. He's also a well known NEO-con that loves to brag about his money. I only follow him for his anti-lib roasts.

[@r.m.7743]

Thank you for that honest statement.

[@nedkelly2035]

For me it was 14. Situation was that my stepmother was a bitch from hell, I watched her sap the life out of my father. My mother had already been married 4 times by then, taking each one of her husbands for all she could. So when people brought up marriage, I told them I would never get married. 56 years ago now, and I have not been. Meanwhile most of my brothers/half brothers/half sister/step whatevers and cousins have been married and divorced at least once, some of them up to 4 times. And in the cases where it was not just mutual agreement on assets to split, the males have always gotten the short end.

[@mehnameehjeff6325]

If marriage was more of a commitment than a contract I would consider it.

[@theodorefreeman]

Indeed.

[@clintinteriano4753]

You went deep😂

[@life_lab_chronicles]

I think a contract is a commitment that has been clearly defined and made official, so that the parties can actually be held accountable.

[@austinjrb]

@@life_lab_chronicles​​⁠strange form of accountability that punishes one side and overwhelmingly rewards the other when the contract is violated. But maybe you meant "accountability" as in the state has the ability to access your accounts and allocate your funds as they see fit... which is more accurate. Let's call a spade a spade. That contract has 0 to do with accountability/commitment and everything to do with money and resources. If there was no financial aspect, the government wouldn't have an interest in being involved in it.

[@scarlettrose9543]

​@@austinjrbit "punishes" the one who makes more money. Let her make more money if you are so concerned

[@KungFuChess]

Some men can't handle being free and would rather be tied down.

[@eevd350z]

Once you experience both and hell being tied down and abused, you would kill to be free and never look back

[@Skaisnanak]

Or woman

[@Marksdnyy]

Make sure your kids are good and not a holes. They represent you and your fam.

[@user-qi6hq5iq1f]

Well Ben Shapiro is a major a hole so his kids are going to need tons of therapy when they are adults. Bad father.

[@bmwmd110]

This man needs to spend 10 seconds with the train wreck I'm stuck with.

[@thelucariamonarchs4889]

Ben is really blue pill

[@raindrop8061]

@@thelucariamonarchs4889 i dont agree with everything ben says but he seems non biased, he isnt left or right, he just speaks on the information presented to him. I do respect his opinion

[@romanlakes]

@@raindrop8061Ben Shapiro is undoubtedly right wing and has received support from many right wing think tanks

[@ladyofnoxus6733]

Here is some advice. You attract what you are. If your a trash person your gonna attract flies. Or if you really don't wanna take responsibility. You attract what you put up with. Either way you pick a 304 a girl that was a striper or only fans or clearly for the streets and YOU marry her... that's on you my guy. Lol Just like if a woman picks a man that is a pimp or a Playa. He shows all the signs, has cheated on her before and she STILL marries him. That's on HER.

[@JamestheBloodedFox]

@@ladyofnoxus6733 I dont think you understand the current state of things in the dating world majority of the time(80-90%) of divorces are initiated by women and its mostly over some rubbish like "we grew apart" the fact whether you like it or not is there is so much incentive for women to divorce its not even funny...even the "playa" hardly ever initiate divorces....im rambling now basically its not marriage guys are worried about its the divorce and with an almost 90% probability the other party will break the contract and still get rewarded for breaking it is insane....better to write a book or something if its legacy you want

[@granthill2980]

I'm going to live forever thru Jesus Christ!!!

[@amandasmith3504]

Amen.

[@mandystarr404]

thats fax

[@kittydaddy2023]

I'm sorry, sir, but these are jews

[@alejandrocanela691]

​@@kittydaddy2023The guy in the video is Christian

[@CJ-dt5mh]

Yeah brother!! So Jesus said to them, "Truly, truly, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink His blood, you have no life in yourselves. John 6:53

[@maddison2589]

Being single causes me to not have as much stress or worrying or having to think abt how I look 24/7

[@nickstewart3295]

I see nothing wrong with staying single in life until a quality woman is found that compliments it.

[@angrydragon4574]

Almost all women aren't quality women.

[@marshall2.015]

This guy has no clue how toxic the average woman is.

[@mianadahlia]

The world has no clue what ur talking about. Stay out of dating sites and club maybe ull find a normal instead of average people

[@steverennekamp2125]

Every woman lve ever gotten involved with has shit me

[@juliusperseus8612]

For Real !

[@JamDodger-tn7mm]

Take some accountability for you

[@rayfinkle9369]

"western woman". Y'all need to move abroad. The pickins are much better - family values, not woke, value beauty over career.

[@cyberlord64]

"I can't find a single, positive argument for staying single today" His counter agument: "So... after you die..." Bruh! After I die, I won't be able to care about anything

[@MichaelLonge-vz8kw]

Same thing im thinking. When you're dead, none of the shit on earth matters to you anymore.

[@UnofficialAnti-Ignorance]

Surrogacy is the best way to have kids. Single Dads Rock!!!

[@smn2666]

Single is not joyfull but at least boring life is far better than being depressed.

[@jukkaahonen6557]

Two good reasons for staying single: 1. Peace 2. Freedom

[@thanosianthemadtitanic]

and you cant put a price on those things i dont care if its millions of dollers id rather be broke and happy amen.

[@meals24u]

*Good reasons! But the opposites FAR outweigh those in my books!*

[@percycampos996]

Several Torah 'prophets even Jesus stayed single

[@xxtm72xx63]

Only when you're young bud, most don't realize how lonely it is until it's too late.

[@caelandavis9295]

​@@percycampos996Jesus is God, and His mission wasn't to be a husband or to have children. His goal was to be the ultimate sacrifice to pay for the sins of all who accept him.

[@johnneisler6552]

I love being single im much happier now than when I was married

[@tduxxx4598]

Coping

[@Strafeyy]

​@@tduxxx4598Yeah, coping with getting screwed by the divorce courts. Marriage sucks for that reason

[@tduxxx4598]

@@Strafeyy or your choices and judge of character suck.

[@sntmdsa3628]

Jeremiah 17:9 “The heart is deceitful amongst all things, and desperately wicked. Who can trust it?”

[@rolandojr.antonio6855]

I still prefer being Single. Its my personal choice.

[@alexcarter2461]

Amen, tried it once and didn't like it, went 8 months steady and it didn't do it for me.

[@lapislazulilioness5383]

Marriage to the right person is worth it. I did it. My husband had a young child and divorce debt, We got married for $50 bucks and we survived. Hell, we have been through some crap. My husband was in an accident and was depressed for 2 years. We had a miscarriage. I had emergency back surgery and am currently going through depression myself after my dad ended his life this year and homeschooling our son and running 2 business. I found my ride or die Marriage is hard. Find someone who is committed to you no matter what life throws your way.

[@moshkateer6908]

Stay single and keep your peace men.

[@beccaparker8504]

Agreed I say the same thing to my women friends.

[@lakshane957]

Amen 🙏

[@marky_mark8991]

@@beccaparker8504Good you’re saving other men heartaches !

[@Skaisnanak]

⁠​⁠@@marky_mark8991no he’s saving his WOMEN friends heartaches. Read the comment

[@DauntlessBlight]

Or just stay single, have as much fun as you possibly can in life. And live for yourself, the only person who truly matters.

[@Skaisnanak]

My thoughts exactly

[@Binspired6766]

Half of married couples are unhappy. Some make terrible parents. Maybe staying single is not so bad after all.

[@stevenwilson8718]

You can do all that even if you're single

[@juliusperseus8612]

Absolutely !

[@cosmoslady]

I absolutely LOVE being single. Not everyone needs to be in a relationship to have meaningful, long lasting connections. Just because you have to doesn't mean we all do.

[@aisnow5788]

I agree and I'm married. People want and need different things in life.❤

[@grzeh9713]

Absolutely agree. Its just an entertainment. One like drink beer, another tea , someone likes opera, some family life, etc. It's just an option.

[@Nonsequitor415]

I guess that's what you tell yourself since you got hurt. Sorry to bring that up, but don't gas light the rest of us.

[@ShawShank-kr9wq]

Its literally your primary purpose, mating, raising the next generation. I used to give myself the same mental gymnastic bs but at the end of the day all the normal people have kids and families for thousands of years, we’re not suddenly smarter than them or know better than them, that is they way it should be.

[@tbug50]

@@Nonsequitor415”You have a difference in opinion to me? Must be lying” 🤡

[@cerberus3426]

A rich guy saying he sees no reason to not marry is the definition of out of touch.😂 Aside from the thousands it costs to have a wedding, weeding through the sea of garbage of women while also working and working out in the gym, and also trying to work on your business is no reason.

[@ralphangioli4852]

I’m 58 year old, never married, no kids and for the life of me I can’t see why today this is so looked down upon. When I was a kid growing up it was common for there to be older people and even elderly people in the neighborhood who never married or had kids and it was never questioned or looked down upon they were just people who never married or had kids. Both my parents had cousins in their families who never married or had kids. In my own case I was able to be full time caregiver to my Dad in his last days and I can’t see how I could’ve done that married with a family to support. Of course I believe in marriage and family but we have to get out of the mindset that a lifelong single adult has nothing to contribute to society.

[@paulmarsh8974]

I'm 69 years old.. Picked the wrong women all my life... Single for 3 years now and will live longer because I have a peaceful life..

[@claff4573]

At least you take accountability for picking wrong

[@295smwrip]

69 … Damn boy

[@06250chris]

@@claff4573 Lack of accountability is a female thing.

[@gunplaygaming6830]

Half way there but I figured it out years ago I use professionals for my feminine needs. Best decision I ever made. Life is peaceful im going on a 20 mile bike ride slash shopping spree liquor warehouse , my local movie store Santa Monica then who knows . Freedom and peace are underrated.

[@Ferien7]

No such thing as the right person. What you experienced is reality. The only possible reality. Anyone who sees it differently is either ignorant or in denial

[@victoriancu7358]

Ask someone who isn't worth 400 million making 15 an hour why they have no kids.

[@john-paulsilke893]

A good woman can raise her husband up and help him to mold himself into somebody who CAN support her and several children. She can be his coach and his queen and make him into the hero for his family. If she makes it so the only thing he needs to do is make money, cash won’t be the problem. It’ll be time instead. Women have been told that we are simple creatures that only want sex and food. What we really want is to be the hero of our story. All day, every day we get rejected by everyone and everything. We are told we are monsters and at the same time that we are weak. But I’ve never seen a woman 900 feet deep inside a mine collecting the resources needed to make all the things that make our lives possible.

[@jaredweiman2987]

@@john-paulsilke893 Cool story bro. This isn’t Princess Bride or some movie though. Real life has divorce rates at above 50%. Lol

[@colemanwalsh7477]

Makes sence why people in poverty breed like rabits.....

[@user-kb1hw2yq2f]

Thank you! I cant stand these millionaires giving "life" advise or marriage advice. Dude, the only reason your wife is "loyal"(no such thing) is because you give her something that she NEEDS, not because youre a "great guy". Women dump great guys all the time.

[@ryv2484]

@@jaredweiman2987 the disconnect these old folk commenting have on this matter is truly something.

[@barrickent184]

My wife and I just celebrated 50 years of marriage. We built everything together. She is a wonderful wife. I am not afraid of anything , except one thing - losing her. I hope the single can find someone and spend their lives together. Lonely is not the best answer. Marriage can be risky - choose wisely.

[@alingkinai7520]

Because this man can't bear to live by himself.

[@ronaldogarrosu2999]

I never really cared about building anything that outlives me. I just want to enjoy my life. That's why I'm 35 and single and really happy with the peace and quiet and freedom I have.

[@howtoactuallyinvest]

This. Not everyone lets their ego drive them. Shit gets exhausting

[@beata.w895]

A quintessence of western culture! 👌 That’s why you people can’t build a happy relationships! You all think you are queens&kings and everyone is only looking for a servant who can give you a pleasure. No purpose, no goal, no desire to create something meaningful with other people. Broken society 😢

[@PENH5428]

Single and celibate ?

[@JuancoPRoFlow]

Amen 🙏

[@JuancoPRoFlow]

​@@PENH5428single and crushing putang all day erday

[@Shadowkiller-dq2ju]

Staying single is better than having to deal with modern women

[@Bayliss21]

Whats more beta than the death of your bloodline? A continuous line of life for billions of years resulted in your concious awareness and you choose to snuff it out. How manly.

[@Nursegirlalexandra]

As a woman, I feel for men. I think people like Ben Shapiro don’t realize how hard it is for men to actually find a good woman.

[@teeemmemm4313]

🙏🏽

[@Unapologetic45]

Staying single is better than having to deal with modern men who just want to fuck around and don't know the meaning of faithful

[@GFA411]

​@@NursegirlalexandraYou're speaking as if the world is filled with good husband material men as well. It goes both ways, wake up.

[@wizardsavage.9436]

i was in a toxic with a relationship with a woman who only cared about my money we broke up and now im living in a apartment by myself. i only have peace now living with my dog who i love dearly. 🙏🏽

[@Ogasso]

Just marry if she is way richer.

[@lupino_bp9467]

I prefer to stay single until i can find someone to share my love with, not before. If you can't be happy with yourself then you can't be happy with anybody else

[@guylainelavoie7571]

BOOM! MOST TRUE, AND BEAUTIFUL RESPONSE! That's the issue with marrying while thinking, we can always divorce. What kind of crap that is. When you can live with yourself, love and respect yourself, you become selfless and can commit, not with "divorce in mind" before even saying I do.

[@tpb1006]

I need variety of women. Not just one all my life. thats boring

[@tuhoangarts]

@@tpb1006 so you should expect her to be banged by 5 other guys while she dates you.

[@MistaBaze]

No idea wtf happy with yourself means. Therapist and psychologist say ‘learn to love yourself’ but there is no book or guide on how to fucking do it. I swear you people that say crap like this just piss me off even more. I DONT KNOW HOW!

[@lupino_bp9467]

@@MistaBaze ok maybe i wrote wrong. I don't care how you feel. I mean that if you don't love yourself you can't love anybody else...do you get it now?

[@shenoynagu2572]

Positive thing about being single is if you make 100$ you get to enjoy that 100$ and not 50.

[@DroopyWorm]

Taxes make it $50

[@shenoynagu2572]

@@DroopyWorm not if you get paid in Cash. Fuck the taxes.

[@DroopyWorm]

@@shenoynagu2572 Agreed brother. Haven't paid those bastards since 2014

[@user-ni7ui1nk8p]

@@DroopyWormW mans

[@nunyabussiness4054]

Your comment convinces me you have never been married. If you think you would have half the money to enjoy. You will be lucky to have $5 to enjoy yourself and then only if you snuck it while she wasn't looking.

[@williammedina8944]

Marriage is not the ultimate reason for happiness. So is being single. Just be you.

[@earthy55557]

Men want happiness, not living forever