Why The Narissist Will Never Let You Go

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Narc ology unscripted

Narc ology unscripted

3 жыл бұрын

Why The Narissist Will Never Let You Go Is about even understanding you not being the cure they will still selfishly go through the levels of the abuse because they are greedy with supply.
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@salonsavy6476
@salonsavy6476 3 жыл бұрын
I sure don’t miss all the disfunction,, all the devaluing, gaslighting, silent treatments !.,, now I live with peace 🙏
@Ladyjojo695
@Ladyjojo695 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely agree x
@anitafreeman6181
@anitafreeman6181 3 жыл бұрын
Amen too that
@user-of9bx1uk3u
@user-of9bx1uk3u 3 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah💖
@donnafoley9684
@donnafoley9684 3 жыл бұрын
Glory to GOD!!!
@speedy_rider4759
@speedy_rider4759 2 жыл бұрын
Amen...
@dyoung2739
@dyoung2739 3 жыл бұрын
Narcs always wanna keep you around just in case...but if you’re lucky enough to be discarded,BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK them forever.,
@user-of9bx1uk3u
@user-of9bx1uk3u 3 жыл бұрын
FOREVER!!!💖
@donnafoley9684
@donnafoley9684 3 жыл бұрын
And ever Amen🤗
@marlenehager8237
@marlenehager8237 3 жыл бұрын
They create drama, lies & confusion. Who is the author of confusion? Satan...Dave, in heaven there won't be any narcissists...PRAISE GOD!!!
@aimeebaker9002
@aimeebaker9002 3 жыл бұрын
Out of the garage forever...God is good.
@Real2k25
@Real2k25 3 жыл бұрын
Very good
@user-of9bx1uk3u
@user-of9bx1uk3u 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!🙌🏽
@jessicakothenbeutel7291
@jessicakothenbeutel7291 3 жыл бұрын
I dont care anymore. I let go. I am finally living my life and happiest I've ever been! Totally blocked from my life.
@wallybag100
@wallybag100 3 жыл бұрын
You rock Jessica
@intanprm5575
@intanprm5575 3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you are finally able to be happy for now but the only way not to fall to the same kind of person over and over again is to treat the codependency issue that we’re having. I’m still struggling to but getting help from psychologist or therapist would help. Good luck!
@salonsavy6476
@salonsavy6476 3 жыл бұрын
Ditto
@lendrury2771
@lendrury2771 3 жыл бұрын
@@Bo00si33 in my humble opinion i believe we continue to watch because it keeps what happened to us in proper perspective when we need it I don't watch as many as I did a year ago but I stay connected to Dave's channel because I continue to learn and heal and I need the fellowship of the seal team and the support system
@treelover1050
@treelover1050 3 жыл бұрын
THEY DON'T DESERVE ANY ATTENTION FROM US.
@s.8955
@s.8955 3 жыл бұрын
No one watches you closer than someone who hates you. If you show any human feelings a narcissist will hate you more. The narcissist only see love as a weakness and a game but they hate to lose control and the supply you gave - attention, money anything they could use you for. When fuel is low they return they get bored of supplies very quickly and if you discarded the narcissist first they are only returning to get revenge. Who wants to go back to an enemy plotting revenge.
@Ladyjojo695
@Ladyjojo695 3 жыл бұрын
Very powerful statement and so true. Especially the first part. Very good information ty x
@DBadel
@DBadel 3 жыл бұрын
👌👌👌...wellsaid great words indeed
@breadoflife7535
@breadoflife7535 3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant observation
@dawnserrano737
@dawnserrano737 3 жыл бұрын
Mine hated when I cried, and I didnt do it often, but his reaction to it wasnt normal!
@callumhaigh8233
@callumhaigh8233 3 жыл бұрын
I dumped my ex girlfriend the second time around and I can tell she’s out for revenge
@BrainWasherAttendent
@BrainWasherAttendent 3 жыл бұрын
Mine started with some light hoovering in the most ridiculous way. It’s so obvious to me now what they do. They just want to know you’re parked in that garage.
@tellnolies8530
@tellnolies8530 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t go in that garage!!!
@CrasheR130
@CrasheR130 3 жыл бұрын
They Discard you and then they come back like nothing happend, but If You`re an EMPATH and they gambled you away for a piece of garbage, not falling for the games when they come back and block them, this will damage their world for the rest of their days! They will always agonize around you and their sick game! God bless and never look back
@user-oi5wm1od2k
@user-oi5wm1od2k 3 жыл бұрын
You can't damage a narc. 😂
@lw2835
@lw2835 3 жыл бұрын
Duh, because they're already damaged
@Doritbardola
@Doritbardola 3 жыл бұрын
Your write, I no this, being with a covert narcssist for 8yrs 🌺
@Doritbardola
@Doritbardola 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-oi5wm1od2k yea you bloody can! Belive me! 😆🌺
@Doritbardola
@Doritbardola 3 жыл бұрын
@@lw2835 yes that I suppose too 🌺
@bobbivaneman1584
@bobbivaneman1584 3 жыл бұрын
DO THEY EVER GO AWAY OR IS IT A LIFETIME CURSE IN ITSELF ? HAVE MERCY ON ALL OF US VICTIMS, LORD. 🕊
@melonpan88
@melonpan88 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I feel you.
@telecastinater
@telecastinater 3 жыл бұрын
We are all participants in this life, I take full responsibility, I picked her lesson learned......
@kostasplafountzis6602
@kostasplafountzis6602 3 жыл бұрын
they need mercy not all of us,we will survive while they will live all of their lives in hell...
@lw2835
@lw2835 3 жыл бұрын
It's only a curse if you stay, almost like a self imposed curse.
@donnafoley9684
@donnafoley9684 3 жыл бұрын
They only stay, if we let them. Even when the ties are broken they remain in our minds and hearts. We are true loving, empathetic people. We wanted a relationship. It was the rug pulled out from under our feet. We had no say. For me I will always hurt when it comes to my husband and mother. Everyday does get easier. JESUS is our healer 😇❣️
@hollybraun7067
@hollybraun7067 3 жыл бұрын
Still struggling at times, but after 13 years of the same routine I’m finally done. I’d rather feel a pain I can learn from and understand than a senseless pain that made no sense as a result of his cruel games. No social media at all anymore. The friends I need are the ones I talk to face to face. Thank God for His unimaginable grace!!!
@hollybraun7067
@hollybraun7067 3 жыл бұрын
@@susand7202 absolutely. I do feel somewhat sorry for them. It would be torture not to be able to feel love.
@lc-bb6bd
@lc-bb6bd 3 жыл бұрын
They really do play some games
@hollybraun7067
@hollybraun7067 3 жыл бұрын
@@lc-bb6bd yes, their whole life is a sad game.
@hollybraun7067
@hollybraun7067 3 жыл бұрын
@@susand7202 too many of us have been given a front row seat into the emptiness these people have. You’re right, unless you witness it the way victims have, it’s almost impossible to truly understand. It stays with you for a lifetime. The scars heal but the marks are always there.
@hollybraun7067
@hollybraun7067 3 жыл бұрын
@@susand7202 hahahahaha yes, exactly! Robots, perfect description 😂
@cazking5903
@cazking5903 3 жыл бұрын
They are in Lust Not Love 👍🙏
@treelover1050
@treelover1050 3 жыл бұрын
DON'T CARE WHETHER THEY WILL LET ME GO. I HAVE THE POWER TO LOVE MYSELF FIRST AND DECIDE WHO I WANT IN MY LIFE. MY BOUNDARIES PROTECT ME NOW.
@bobbivaneman1584
@bobbivaneman1584 3 жыл бұрын
"CAN YOU IMAGINE GOING THROUGH THIS CURSE, REPEATING THE SAME THING OVER & OVER" ? ... ANOTHER GEM OF WISDOM, DAVE. THANK YOU ! I NEEDED THIS ! THIS CRAZINESS IS SOOOO THE WORK OF THE ENEMY ! GOD BLESS YOU. ✝️
@bobbivaneman1584
@bobbivaneman1584 3 жыл бұрын
DO THEY "EVER" GO AWAY, OR IS THAT A LIFETIME CURSE IN ITSELF ? HAVE MERCY ON ALL OF US VICTIMS, LORD ! 🕊
@kimmanthe86
@kimmanthe86 3 жыл бұрын
@@bobbivaneman1584 5 years after I left state to be rid of him He texted doing his false suicide bs I sent the 800 number for the suicide hotline His response Thanks for nothing Lol
@missmysanity7093
@missmysanity7093 3 жыл бұрын
The narcissist aligns and are in agreement with The Works of The Flesh, but Empaths align and are in agreement with The Fruits of The Spirit!
@peggyeldridge4827
@peggyeldridge4827 3 жыл бұрын
Mine calls or texts me monthly. I always ignore and dont return any calls/texts. Done.
@steven.harvey3
@steven.harvey3 3 жыл бұрын
After 10 years of walking on eggshells, crippling anxiety, toxicity and ‘googling’ symptoms of what was wrong with ME, it finally clicked when her Mother said “She is missing the gene that enables her to love properly and everyone (including her adult daughter) is pigeon holed (harem garage) until she needs or wants them. 3 months from final discard and the peace is real. New supplies are on the scene - it’s amazing how similar these Narcs are and the pattern they follow. They really are empty shells void of personality, ideas, empathy and are dead behind the eyes... They crave admiration and attention and feed off it. No Contact and Blocking hurts badly at first - but it is the golden key to recovery. Great videos Dave!
@joannetier3044
@joannetier3044 3 жыл бұрын
As it was said “ insanity is doing the same things over and over again expecting different results”
@gabrielleaviva
@gabrielleaviva 3 жыл бұрын
Mrs A all the way!! Never going back to hell.
@sunnydaysunnyday7101
@sunnydaysunnyday7101 3 жыл бұрын
it is blocked. flying monkeys and its narc family blocked. I am rising my kids in peace. It was never a dad to my children and never will be. it is just a donor Thank you Dave for another great video. You save lives!
@johnmartinez3463
@johnmartinez3463 3 жыл бұрын
My narcissists "parents", have been isolating me and financially abusing me for 26 years. They never taught me to be successful. They cause fights. Cause drama. Yell and act out of control. They play victim. They stalk and harass me when I was homeless. I lost my identity. I lost all boundaries and self respect. They completely destroyed my physical health and im even losing hair because of how much stress they cause with creating order out of chaos. Causing violence my entire childhood. They are so sick I want to puke just seeing there faces. I feel suicidal confused and lost because all the violence I endured as a kid
@denisechaoub90
@denisechaoub90 3 жыл бұрын
I’m in lots of pain today and crying I once saw this man being soo good to me then I saw his true colors that’s what’s a killer in this npd disease ...
@toneyfox6328
@toneyfox6328 3 жыл бұрын
Aww sis pls hold on, u can do this!!!!!! Trust me this to shall pass!!!!! God aint bring u this far to let u go, stay strong, n I kno that u will heal, Rejection is God protection xoxo
@denisechaoub90
@denisechaoub90 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much everyone 🙏❤️
@treelover1050
@treelover1050 3 жыл бұрын
I AM 18 MONTHS NO CONTACT. MONTH BY MONTH AS YOU GAIN KNOWLEDGE ABOUT NARCS, YOU REALIZE THEY ONLY USE PEOPLE. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF.
@donnafoley9684
@donnafoley9684 3 жыл бұрын
Denise, It is not a disease. It is a choice! A disease is something that comes upon you without your permission. These people live intentional wicked lives. They can choose to be kind one moment then hate you the next. They can always go to JESUS, but they don't. GOD BLESS YOU 😇
@Jl-ou4jt
@Jl-ou4jt 3 жыл бұрын
In a normal relationship the next day you still in love", nail 💅. Wow, I'm going through one of many discard episodes, blocked 🚫every possible way, this demon is looking for new supply for sure, and your videos are helping me to go to work, to move, to pass the day, to have some hope. THANK YOU Dave.
@killthemwkindness9064
@killthemwkindness9064 3 жыл бұрын
Who can EVER miss a demon? Cut all forms of communication. Their fake ness, lies & cheating...we deserve better!
@oregonwildboy
@oregonwildboy 3 жыл бұрын
Dave almost always hits the nail on the head. God bless you this channel helped restore my faith and saved my life.
@toneyfox6328
@toneyfox6328 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
@RemnantVoice7
@RemnantVoice7 3 жыл бұрын
I read these comments and feel like y'all family! Stay strong and keep trusting, y'all!
@helenlovell8587
@helenlovell8587 3 жыл бұрын
I felt like you're talking directly to me in this video. Thank you Dave for you're work. You're truly heaven sent 🙏🙏🙏🇦🇺
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 3 жыл бұрын
Wonderful!
@Speakingmymind365
@Speakingmymind365 3 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing just refused a hoover by blocking him. Though he did disturb me but still i was strong enough to block him. Thanks to you Dave.
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 3 жыл бұрын
Glory to God
@md-mx5zb
@md-mx5zb 3 жыл бұрын
Me too. It's crazy. All so crazy. Just keep walking forward w God
@Speakingmymind365
@Speakingmymind365 3 жыл бұрын
@@Narcologyunscripted amen
@Speakingmymind365
@Speakingmymind365 3 жыл бұрын
@@md-mx5zb oh 💯 theres no other option
@md-mx5zb
@md-mx5zb 3 жыл бұрын
@@Speakingmymind365 exactly. Keep in your thinking logical not your emotions whete they abused you. It's ONLY way to heal a long w God's Word. TeaonNPD is also great channel. RC Blake too Much love everyone
@Razainthewoods
@Razainthewoods 3 жыл бұрын
What is dismissive avoidant vs a narcissist. This was my life with my ex husband to a t. Need another video on staying no contact Dave. Thanks so much! 🙏
@Urkinorobitch
@Urkinorobitch 3 жыл бұрын
In a way they suffer from codependency deep down so I kinda get it, they re-idealize the victims over and over again yet are too deep within the protective shell to gain insight and remember that it was awfully harmful. I also re-idealize my ex and in a way it's a sort of addiction to the pain but then I remember what happened. When you tried a hundred times, what's a hundred and one gonna change?
@wallybag100
@wallybag100 3 жыл бұрын
I'm dating this Chinese girl its a casual type of relationship I have not seen her in a week when we saw each other we gave each other a hug and a kiss see you around i miss you kinda thing and got caught up .If I went that long without seeing the narc that would be a major unresolveable problem with weeks and weeks of punishment. I escaped the narcville maximum security prison 2 years ago. These videos rock.
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 3 жыл бұрын
great insight
@sahd0w
@sahd0w 3 жыл бұрын
4:43 Wow... mind blown. This is exactly the source of their disorder. And they put others through hell trying to fill that void in themselves.
@mrs.m.9226
@mrs.m.9226 3 жыл бұрын
I can't get rid of him. He is a vicious wolf. Too bad I didn't see this before marrying him. Divorcing one is where you see their true colors. And some people still think they're the best. Smh. I can't believe how wolfy he is. It's disgusting.
@diamondgirl3920
@diamondgirl3920 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Dave .... Thank you for your videos 🙏 .... They are so helpful ..... I had always suspected that my ex narc was cheating on me but I could never prove it ... I had told him that if I ever had proof of his cheating, I would leave him .... Well, I got my proof and I left him .... I blocked him on social media, I changed my phone number and I moved .... It's been almost 4 years and I never heard from him again .... So hoping that he forgot that I exist 🤞
@karenzilverberg4699
@karenzilverberg4699 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Dave. The fights, there is something peculiar about that. They are not innocent misunderstandings but fabricated drama by the narc.
@LookUpRedemption
@LookUpRedemption 3 жыл бұрын
That first fit of anger, over -nothing- and very staged. Now I know the euphoria tanked and deval was already in full swing. From day #1 he said, I want to always open your car door. Two weeks in relationsh=#, guess what his chose for his tipping point? Yep, went nuts screaming at me that I should b opening HIS door. Dave, I understand now about npd listening to your Narcology. Thank you, thank you. That huge red flag should have sent me running
@jessemartinez992
@jessemartinez992 3 жыл бұрын
"Thank you Dave for posting these videos."! Was married to a narcissist for 25yrs until I realized who this person was. Divorced now but left a terrible trail of destruction for me as well as for my daughters. Glad that my nightmare is over!
@nightowl6811
@nightowl6811 3 жыл бұрын
I’m leaving the country in few more years for ever! I’ve been no contact for 6 years soon. So they will no longer be cruising by my house or following me on streets everywhere I go. Plus I abandoned all social media in 2017 completely disconnecting little by little from everyone and everything now that I’m 49. My only son now 18 he about to start being independent and I am out of Los Angeles it’s a dump here in la now.
@JOHN-ei2tn
@JOHN-ei2tn 3 жыл бұрын
Wise Move ! Draw near to Christ. ✨
@audra1976oliver
@audra1976oliver 3 жыл бұрын
I like how you talk about the chemical component of being attracted, in love, connection with a narc. Yes, narcs truly believe that they can have the love everyone else has. Great you pointed these out.
@empathicwarriorlissy3716
@empathicwarriorlissy3716 3 жыл бұрын
He just called to wish Happy Mother's Day still no contact and blocked LOL
@themarro6695
@themarro6695 3 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing as always! Superb video! Thank you Dave for sharing your knowledge 🙏🏾
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure! Thank you Marro
@sheilachatelain4532
@sheilachatelain4532 3 жыл бұрын
This is unbelievable! Been married for 44 years going on 45 years in November and dying inside. Affairs just started recently. With covid no supply except porn but with covid lifting soon, things will change for the worst. The gym and meeting his harem. Feel lost in a sinking ship
@lisamooney6297
@lisamooney6297 3 жыл бұрын
God saved me and my best friend too.
@antroneb1
@antroneb1 3 жыл бұрын
Dave your nothing but a great person in my eyes, today I watched one of your older videos, it was 25 minutes I think, i enjoy all of them but, they have been so short lately. Then I have to wait for the part 2 , I think your ex Narc bread crumbing rubed off on you.. I thank you for all your doing to help people. I also like your new camera angles and cuts. Doing a great job
@rawrecovery8701
@rawrecovery8701 3 жыл бұрын
Dave you are the "missionary to the Victimized" world,🙏‼✝ GOD IS USING YOU in a mighty way, ❤❤DO NOT STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING....You are changing hearts one life at a time... THIS IS YOUR MISSION FIELD AND I SUPPORT YOU.💯%
@simmie79
@simmie79 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you God for giving me the revelation, the strength and the knowledge of what I have been dealing with. Thank you God that despite all the disillusion, pain and psychological-emotional chaos, You made me a Mrs A. Thank you Dave, for your courage and sharing on your experience. Currently waiting for divorce and court process to go through. Trusting God and may He continue to bless you. 🙏🏻🌅 greetings from Portugal
@cashloops7518
@cashloops7518 3 жыл бұрын
I am glad it only lasted 4 months in my case, I feel sorry for you who went got married with them. I got over it in like 3 months these channels helped also I started to work on my music again. It is now been 6 months and last weekend she sent me a follow request, I accepted it cause I am curious which hoover she is going to pull.
@spiritualjourney1230
@spiritualjourney1230 3 жыл бұрын
I felt not excited in the past when he said will return.. my heart not sure he will change, and yess he never change...
@suejohnson535
@suejohnson535 2 жыл бұрын
You are right Dave , nothing good can come from a narcassist , it's true indeed , don't I know it ! Since I left & no contact ,I can breath & it's peaceful ! Peaceful! Thank you & the same to you ! Be blessed 🙏
@dianabowder5543
@dianabowder5543 3 жыл бұрын
You truly are a God send, and I thank you so much....May Gods Blessings always shine upon you
@vickipacheco9787
@vickipacheco9787 3 жыл бұрын
The CURE? I'M NOT THE CURE. JESUS, THE ONE & ONLY SAVIOUR,SALVATION & LASTING CURE
@kostasplafountzis6602
@kostasplafountzis6602 3 жыл бұрын
their curse is they cannot feel or give love to others,how right you are and they have to pretend in all of their miserable lives that they ''love'' someone while there is a bottomless pit inside them and nothing else,well they DESERVE IT FOR ALL THE HARM THEY HAVE DONE TO GOOD PEOPLE
@evasmejkal8982
@evasmejkal8982 3 жыл бұрын
Block block block
@denisechaoub90
@denisechaoub90 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Dave hi everyone jersey girl here .. guess what I just got hovered 2 times after 9 months no contact !!! I have to admit it’s very tempting it’s awful and so painful so far I’m standing my own but it’s hard because I thought he was my first love since we known each other since we’re teens .. alls I do is keep praying 🙏❤️
@JOHN-ei2tn
@JOHN-ei2tn 3 жыл бұрын
Stay Wise Strong. And spiritual. You used the word tempting. Only the enemy will tempt you . It’s tough yes . Must ( Block ) set yourselfFree . 🕊✨
@shezphillips868
@shezphillips868 3 жыл бұрын
Bless You🤗 Stay strong. It's roughly 9 months for me too...I've had the "Hoover" too...though I know, for my sanity, I can never go "back there"! Takecare someone "real" will come into your life. It will get less painful.🌄🌻🌼🏵️🌷💕🕊️🇬🇧
@denisechaoub90
@denisechaoub90 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks everyone !
@cathy_clarinet
@cathy_clarinet 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Dave! Always great reminders of what happens. So accurate. Thanks. 👍
@mickyj286
@mickyj286 3 жыл бұрын
I went through so much ups and downs with this friend before I knew about Narcissism.. it felt like a roller coaster.. beautiful on the outside but very deep insecurities and control on the inside... While I empathetically lifted her up.. she invalidates and discards me when she’s ready ... then circles back..
@jewelmathewson2997
@jewelmathewson2997 2 жыл бұрын
I am 100% sure that my ex diagnosed with NPD will never hoover again. He was exposed, humiliated and hates me with a passion. In addition, he has absolutely no way of contacting me. It's over forever. Thank God for answering my prayers.
@danmcgregor3406
@danmcgregor3406 3 жыл бұрын
My ex narc cheated on me constantly , I was deceived by someone I thought was a friend who invited me to his uncles house for a party .. I turned up and he wasn’t even there so I had some drinks with his uncle and family .. my so called friend then appeared from wherever he was .. then my ex girlfriend called me asking me to meet her 😂 .. clearly them two were meeting behind the scenes .. as soon as she got to his uncles house them two spoke to each other constantly as if I didn’t exist .. I am just realising all of this now after being away from her for a month .. I was totally deceived by her .. it hurts a lot .. We have a child together too and she is using my son as a pawn in her sick game .. haven’t seen him for a month . I hope all this hell will end soon, I am now back working full time and she is still upto her wicked ways meeting new supply all the time .. I worry for my sons safety in all of this . Just want closure and to see him again . Your videos are very informative Dave , god bless you .
@vladmirbittencourt8270
@vladmirbittencourt8270 3 жыл бұрын
How can you have no contact when they have your child and the custody? My life was destroyed by my narc ex, legally, financially, socially and emotionally. On top of it, my ex got involved with powerful criminal friends. I have no chance and I'm worried about our 6 years old son. Even the judge that did our divorce is involved. It has been 3 years since we separated, but there's not even one day I don't think about what happened to me. They even tried to kill me several times. I need help. I want my son back.
@kutipy2348
@kutipy2348 3 жыл бұрын
Prayers covering you & your son 🙌🙏💕
@lanadst6745
@lanadst6745 3 жыл бұрын
I am sorry but today I found out about the new supply officially. A girl 25 years old he is 41. She works with him she works in a fabric. I have my own business. I did the discard but after 3 months I was replaced. They don’t care about it or you or anyone. The narcissist is happy and the sad fact is ... I am not.
@prunelle9051
@prunelle9051 3 жыл бұрын
He is not happy. He's the same idiot with someone else.
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 3 жыл бұрын
Why are you sorry? That too is a game of supply...it's all a game
@treelover1050
@treelover1050 3 жыл бұрын
THE NARC IS A LIAR, ABUSER, AND USER. THEY ARE ONLY PRETENDING TO BE HAPPY. THEY ARE TRYING TO HURT YOU WITH THEIR ACTING PERFORMANCE WITH T H E NEW SUPPLY.
@jilll4649
@jilll4649 3 жыл бұрын
Remember why you discarded him. She’s just fluff. Evidently you weren’t happy with him. Happiness is an inside job. Decide you are going to be happy.
@lanadst6745
@lanadst6745 3 жыл бұрын
@@Narcologyunscripted I have been misses A al along. A client of mine told me and also who she is. Even if I am misses A it hurts really bad.
@sturose637
@sturose637 3 жыл бұрын
It hurts so bad being given silent treatment but all l need is strength not to look back
@treelover1050
@treelover1050 2 жыл бұрын
YOU DESERVE A PERSON WHO WILL NOT PUNISH YOU WITH A SILENT TREATMENT. YOU DESERVE TO LOVE AND RESPECT YOURSELF. CUT OFF THAT ABUSIVE PERSON AND MOVE FORWARD.
@alexismello8735
@alexismello8735 3 жыл бұрын
Knowledge is power
@kariberrie
@kariberrie 3 жыл бұрын
Love the new camera work Dave. For me your vids are so relaxing, reassuring & quite beautiful honestly. Thank you for all of the work that you do! 🥰
@rawrecovery8701
@rawrecovery8701 3 жыл бұрын
No 💔... This MS A IS FINALLY ALL HEART ♥
@rawrecovery8701
@rawrecovery8701 3 жыл бұрын
@@christianpulisic7784 A Humble Thanks :) No one needs a NARC unless they are running a country ... YEP great leaders are the TOP Narc's in the world, but it takes a great manipulator to get our "deals" done right!! (won't even discuss sleepy joe 😖😛) ANYWAY.... we all grow through our experiences, that would deem me "VERY SEASONED" lol I have been in the mental health field for years, talk about humbling, yea, WE ARE THE LAST TO HELP OURSELVES... I had to work through my guilt shame cycle after going NC 7 months ago..... I am turning the tide, going down a different sidewalk ALL TOGETHER...and creating a very beautiful future!!!
@greatgirl4492
@greatgirl4492 3 жыл бұрын
They are always SURE you will come back.
@MrLainey671
@MrLainey671 3 жыл бұрын
Its such a hard experience. You say everything so true . The pain is like no other. But you are the speaker for the pure love of God . Its so sad that that they are the children of a negitive of there existence
@kerryannmoor5908
@kerryannmoor5908 3 жыл бұрын
Dave, you Rock!!!
@amynoe8173
@amynoe8173 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the reminders
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 3 жыл бұрын
No worries!
@aliciacurtsinger2236
@aliciacurtsinger2236 3 жыл бұрын
Garage is.closed on my end forever. I pray but I don't know if it will keep him out of hell, the devil's minions are hard to defeat
@ThomasBowen
@ThomasBowen 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been away for awhile; I played into the hands again of the Narc just because he continuously said “I was his soulmate & he would die for me.” The more I was with him, the devaluation began about my issues he was unhappy with. The silent treatment to teach me a lesson, the isolation was horrible. One day he caught me listening to you Dave. He said, “I don’t like that guy, there’s something creepy about him! I said, “it’s the Holy Spirit that irk you” and he just laughed. It felt so oppressed & demonic, I found myself asking God to please release me from the crutches of this man. I knew I loved wholeheartedly but also knew this man would never love me..for me. I’m safe now but having to undo the damages all over again. Please pray I can let him go in Jesus Name. (Heart is weak & sick literally.; he writes the most destructive things..)
@lillianak8235
@lillianak8235 3 жыл бұрын
so spot on
@christinaholtzclaw2738
@christinaholtzclaw2738 3 жыл бұрын
Love you bunches. 💕
@ddseir1443
@ddseir1443 3 жыл бұрын
Well I have blocked her so there’s not much more I can do. As long as she stays out I don’t really care whether she thinks she hasn’t «let me go».
@elelelel9822
@elelelel9822 3 жыл бұрын
It kills me that they don't face karma..
@Acceptancetoday
@Acceptancetoday 3 жыл бұрын
They do
@allthingzdani1985
@allthingzdani1985 3 жыл бұрын
His treatment will forever haunt him
@CASchack
@CASchack 3 жыл бұрын
Dave, FWIW-I prefer the straight-on shots as before over the cuts to the angle shots. The cuts are distracting IMO. Thanks for the content.
@jimmyfritz8240
@jimmyfritz8240 2 жыл бұрын
My ex keeps every single picture of her ex husband’s and past relationships. She doesn’t delete anything which is weird. Especially how toxic relationship was.
@seanbuckley1367
@seanbuckley1367 3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant 👍
@MrPittsbrother
@MrPittsbrother 3 жыл бұрын
Love u cus bro. Great info.
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed
@Marc-zp6uq
@Marc-zp6uq 2 жыл бұрын
Whether they let go or not. Its my belief, your silence slowly kills them, chokes them off and eventually they will run out of fuel supply. I believe the narcissist does eventually collapse, especially if they are up there in age.
@jamesharris9159
@jamesharris9159 3 жыл бұрын
I control my Happiness
@vickipacheco9787
@vickipacheco9787 3 жыл бұрын
No just NO more push me, pull you. I had a hoover 30 yrs after being discarded. He had his wife call my Mother to find out where I am. HOW EVIL & CRUEL IS THAT ? NEVER NEVER can I understand such low down the toilet mean. Get more LOST than is already is.
@beautifully_averagepanda4427
@beautifully_averagepanda4427 2 жыл бұрын
Learned this the hard way.
@noelkringle3777
@noelkringle3777 2 жыл бұрын
I just am sicken to my stomach to think I ever lower myself to their level. And allowed it. I am ashamed of myself for being fooled by a spawn of Satan
@Gitte585
@Gitte585 3 жыл бұрын
Fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@jankucera8505
@jankucera8505 3 жыл бұрын
Impossible how you see through it all
@bradmcewen
@bradmcewen 3 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't know I barely remember her smell, After the grooming... it was just hell, Didn't do a thing cause the rage, But I didn't know she was trapped in a cage, Believe the demon when they show the traits, No more taking the word salad bait, If you know they wont let good riddens be, Your still emeshed with the Cluster B, So get out as soon as you can, And never show them your hand. Life got so much better, you want to sing, Never waste the time you spent cleaning your wings.
@CJ-fs9gt
@CJ-fs9gt 3 жыл бұрын
"never show your hand" ... Hard part of that advice?? Most don't understand they are in a cluster b influenced relationship.. until they escape 🤷
@glendaschilder3048
@glendaschilder3048 Жыл бұрын
Life without the narc is always peace..
@carolyeakel8030
@carolyeakel8030 3 жыл бұрын
I have 4 covert narcs- instrument 4 their desire-4 SMEAR Campaign’s at once lol 😝
@Imnotyourdoormat
@Imnotyourdoormat 3 жыл бұрын
Why the S.C.U.B.A. diver will never let his O2 tank go!!!!....Ha Ha Dave kutgw.
@diddlehale5316
@diddlehale5316 3 жыл бұрын
Decieving lieing trickery nor missing it
@40ogre
@40ogre 3 жыл бұрын
🙏
@claudiavictorianietorangel8991
@claudiavictorianietorangel8991 2 жыл бұрын
Done ! Said goodbye and blocked forever
@ronaldcipolla4207
@ronaldcipolla4207 3 жыл бұрын
Dave, would a narcissist tell you they have no feelings for you in the bedroom? That they love you as a friend. This was my 2nd go around with her. She needs passion. That what she tells me.
@emmamonroe3311
@emmamonroe3311 Жыл бұрын
The cure he use to send me the song by the cure called pictures you. Let that sink in.👈🏻😵‍💫🤯😑
@aricarter6523
@aricarter6523 3 жыл бұрын
My ex discarded me and smeared my name. We share a child together. He’s under 2. I went Ms. A & even now co parenting he makes it difficult. Why is he so mad and so difficult to co parent with? It’s almost like he wants power over me again but I won’t allow it!
@cnbri30
@cnbri30 3 жыл бұрын
I have a son with a narc too and he’s been a deadbeat most years. Child support has to be forced.
@heidiengbergwismann3753
@heidiengbergwismann3753 3 жыл бұрын
💜🧚‍♀️💜
@heidiengbergwismann3753
@heidiengbergwismann3753 3 жыл бұрын
Painful truth💜🧚‍♀️💜
@kevinsanmateo4781
@kevinsanmateo4781 3 жыл бұрын
I have been having some really bad thoughts about doing things to them . They aren’t letting me live . I need help !!!!!
@empathicwarriorlissy3716
@empathicwarriorlissy3716 3 жыл бұрын
Pathetic Mrs. A thank you for that it took awhile but I'm here
@redpilled5830
@redpilled5830 3 жыл бұрын
Hey
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 3 жыл бұрын
Hello!
@telecastinater
@telecastinater 3 жыл бұрын
I just grabbed my beer, it is midnight......
@melonpan88
@melonpan88 3 жыл бұрын
I'm listening to you while slurping my coffee. I'm aware of the grooming of people behind my back. But why can't they just come forward and be honest. Why is it so difficult? Why not just talk about their sh**ty feelings. sigh...
@melonpan88
@melonpan88 3 жыл бұрын
@@christianpulisic7784 Hi, thank you for caring. The problem is, you don't need to be romantically involved with a narc to suffer. There are ex-bosses and friends/acquaintances who can be bothersome, too.
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