Why The Virgo Man Is Not Texting or Calling You Back

This video explores reasons why Virgo man don't text and call back as much, we break it down.
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[@Greenwalk64]

Virgo is not texting you because he is busy with other women on his roster.

[@jessicajackson2438]

I can believe that too lol

[@Knowledgematters32]

That's funny because when Virgos want something from you they have all the time in the world to text.

[@nicolethompson1515]

Fact's

[@Nogabrain]

Fr

[@ambermj3037]

Idk about that. But I know we only text when it’s something to talk about… Ig that could be if we need something but we don’t mind if it’s the other way around as well. As long as we have a mutual established relationship… kinda like once ur really solidified in our life we’re here wit u forever so we ain’t gotta talk 24/7 or keep unnecessary conversation cause once it’s something to talk about well come back… cause we never actually left type shii. Keeps everything fresh too. N were probably trying to figure out what’s important/interesting to u so we know what’s conversations to hold with u…

[@TheBdollar14]

Big fact .. you ain’t lied !!! That the truth FR!

[@selkertazumi9660]

And soo nice and sweet. Till you say no. They can say no to you all day. But don't tell them no. I stays saying no. With virgo, man or woman, YOU HAVE TO STAND YOUR GROUND AND SET BOUNDARIES ASAP. NEVER LET THEM GO. They it but love it.😅

[@simonegoncalves9709]

They don't contact you cause he's not interested and is talking to someone else.

[@carmensutil3819]

Exactly

[@chubzxoxo]

Sounds about right to me he was texting good then he stop and he be alone

[@ambermj3037]

That’s only if he/she is going days… months without communication. We’ll talk once a day maybe a few cute texts but if we’re interested it’ll still be detached ( not on purpose btw) but it’ll be some sort of something everyday for sure.

[@elarisa10]

In the first stage of the relationship, he didnt stop messageing me, even said he loves to talk with me and bla bla, then after 2 months he was not so talkative. He even said we should talk once a week or so 😂😂. This stinks. You are never busy if there s a person that you care about....

[@ambermj3037]

@@elarisa10 yeaaaa that sounds like a Virgo THATS talking to somebody else for sure 😂. I’m a Virgo btw

[@gigiandaya5986]

Agree with all you said about a Virgo guy, but it's been too long that I waited and so I finally gave up. I'd rather be with someone else who will make time for me and make me feel like I'm his priority, not an option.

[@elsanoellien8622]

See the thing is they keep options like many other women until they get bored and come back out of the blue . They throw you away like trash and entertain other females . Until they meet those crazy women out here and here they comes running back to you. Yeah that’s a Virgo man

[@colaphatgirl]

By the time the virgo man comes around she would have moved on to someone else 🤦🏿‍♀️

[@cherrydomingo8545]

Yeah i dont have the time in the world to wait for him

[@newmove7068]

That's what happens when they play games testing people... Mess around & missed his blessing

[@jessicajackson2438]

I agree I'm not waiting either we're cool so I don't mind his company here and there but I keep my options open no pressure

[@jessicajackson2438]

​@@newmove7068very true

[@DC-8-8-8-]

Summarizing Virgo = just leave them alone 1. Listen to what he's saying 😆 2. Just be their friend = safest method 3. There's no compromising and they're not willing to meet you half way. 4. No text and no call = out of sight out of mind 5. Virgo are #1 most important listen to him. Everything is on his terms only 6. He said "who are you"? 😆 and then "let's learn each other 1st" "meet him where he is at" 7. Bruh we will not be successful. You are forcing others to be tired with you. You sound like a Leo. Everything isn't all about you. Period. No mood just real 8. Who can be threatened to loose a person who's not invested into them and in the smallest way that they can you will outlaw that. No text + no call + you're too busy + not seeing you too = POINTLESS INVOLVEMENT 9. VIRGOS ARE UNAVAILABLE according to what he is saying so he has no choice but to be a nice guy. What's left Virgo. You have ran everyone away. BE ALONE! FOREVER 🤗😍 please because it only makes decent sense.

[@LukainX]

This is good but somewhat weird. I disagree and agree.

[@elsanoellien8622]

Virgo men don’t want love they hate people. Virgo women love to be in love they will care for you and show you loyalty, they consistent and love to be in a relationship. Virgo men gives us such a bad name smh

[@barneyhubble5580]

@@elsanoellien8622 Elsa Noellien smh don't make me say something...lol It is not like that...we are the balance And I know y'all you all ladies love us Y'all just be having us fk'd up 4_1 we don't be playing pls games and we don't like being controlled. And we have our issues as well as everyone else. But we are the most transparent we can be more honest upfront.. and that's not easy for most people to do...

[@elsanoellien8622]

@@barneyhubble5580 y’all don’t know how to accept love and receive even if it’s right in your face. Y’all run and hide away. Y’all are weird though lol

[@danielamorales5293]

Virgos are unstable, annoying yet needy, unreliable, selfish yet servants and very very very insecure. They portray they insecurity onto us

[@drenebug3410]

No offense but y’all Virgo men da hardest to deal with,...

[@dolphinrose21]

if someone told me dis b4 i wud hv avoided virgo men at all costs...like the plague

[@terrenceharris7163]

Fuck you lmfao

[@cawanamitchell6466]

I second that...

[@carlynduenas5923]

🤣🤣🤣

[@nataliadouglas4236]

I’m not up for the Challenge Virgo’s are hard to deal with but they are really good people with a GOOD heart

[@barneyhubble5580]

TY

[@KsBadass88]

Just because he's not texting and ignoring... he could also be watching in the distance and they love to play hard to get and they over anyalyze a lot...

[@saramayaempireproductions8690]

Got time to stalk but not respond and than say “what you don’t have no job” sounds like hypocrisy syndrome lmao

[@ruthlachica4752]

@@saramayaempireproductions8690 hahaha best comment ever. I was texting to this virgo man while I was on duty. He told me , are you working? I said, of course. 🤦‍♀️😂

[@yunitakheterina7475]

i agree asf with this y’all

[@neetipalacios9262]

@@saramayaempireproductions8690 like seriously they stalk all the time but will ghost out on communication why why why

[@thisloop]

Theyre stalker 🤣🤣🤣

[@lane89]

It’s because he’s blocked. That’s why. 🐛🦋

[@justher2931]

Ayyee! I felt that! 😂😂

[@lane89]

shannon r ok, he better call Jesus.

[@chanelmone4000]

😂

[@DC-8-8-8-]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@B3auty1sNatura1]

😂😂🤣💀

[@559kelkel]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂 I can't stand y'all.... How do you get to know somebody if you're not communicating? 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@mamabear3177]

Exactly🤔 Make no damn sense

[@brooklynpaul5162]

559kelkel yo there my problem right now

[@nancygoldberg9318]

Exactly we’re not mind readers

[@thisloop]

Cuz they’ll stalk n observe u to get to know u lol they’ll dig out ur social media mostly 🤣

[@selkertazumi9660]

EXACTLY!

[@Love2loveu00]

This is hilarious because he ghosted me for a week and out of nowhere he texted me saying he misses me 😂 I nicely texted him back and said how much I love our connection and is confusing when he enters in and out. He never texted back but when I saw him he said “please understand that I’m working a lot and I promise I will come for you” staring at me all hard 😂 but if I don’t answer his text he’s quick to call me and you’re right...I keep the text and phone call short. gosh Jonathan! I wish I saw this video last week 😂 thanks 😊 and have a great week. ♍️♥️♉️

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

This is the epitome of what I just said!

[@cawanamitchell6466]

Sounds like were talking to the same guy

[@sharnashields7118]

What his name I’m sure we talking to the same guy 😭

[@Rebecca-jh1ct]

Sounds like mind games to me. You should honestly just leave him cos it only takes what not even 5 mins to send a simple, sweet message to show you Acc care about someone. It’s effort. No effort then why are you investing your energy it makes no sense. Remember this everyone one is busy but what matters here is priorities! Clearly from what you’re saying you’re not on his priority list. So do you and in time a better person will come along who can actually match your energy with the whole conversation thing. Cos the “busy” excuse I’m sorry it isn’t a good enough excuse everyone is busy. If you using “busy” as an excuse in 2022 you’re a literal child and not even worth investing your time, energy and most of all yourself. You’re better than that and you deserve better than that!

[@krislashaun]

So question, as a woman, I’m supposed to be there (available) whenever he feels like texting and calling me back?! I’m supposed to EARN a call back?! And you said he loves to get to know me, but he’s not communicating with me??!! So let’s say I stop calling and texting and he’s not either, will it not just fall off?!! Like wtf, I’m confused!!! My Virgo man is in another state, and I feel like we should talk more because of that... but that’s my two cents.

[@thisloop]

Dont be too available for virgos lol… just do sum ghosting few times in a while, they hates it when u do that 🤣🤣🤣 when u do that, they’ll chase/contact u back

[@jessicajackson2438]

Sis just match energy works like a charm I already love my alone time and since he or they like there's just give a double dose

[@scarletflame229]

Spot on. Im a Leo woman talking to a Virgo man and I've had to learn to be patient and understand the busy element. He really is busy like you said, but he will text sweet simple or funny things once a day and call me randomly in the week even if I haven't heard from him in a few days. The calls are normally deep and meaningful. It's super slow, but getting to know one another is so much more authentic than everyone else I've talked to.

[@azariahcoulton8180]

Leo here & Mines ghosted me for 3 days now no explanation

[@Thickthighnightmare]

He’s bread crumbing u days lol no

[@christiedouglas384]

Are you all still together? 👀. I'm scared bc I'm not used to this..

[@scarletflame229]

@@christiedouglas384 Noooo. He ghosted me for like a month so I got the hint and moved on. I ended up falling in love with who I think is my twin flame instead; he happens to be a Pisces.

[@scarletflame229]

@@Thickthighnightmare sure did and as a Leo we don’t accept that, so bye! He ended up reaching out a couple months later and I ignored him. Moved on, sorry buddy!

[@cawanamitchell6466]

Women have a problem with virgo men getting to know us because he don't let you get to know him at the same time....

[@terrenceharris7163]

Not true

[@cawanamitchell6466]

@@terrenceharris7163 My son's dad is a virgo I've known him since I was 15 years of age I'm 36 years of age now he literally thinks he is suppose to know everything about my life but only wants me to know what he tells me... I dated another virgo Male same thing... the point in dating is to share things about yourself to see what you have in common and to see if your comparable the virgo men I know always hide important information which later on causes unnecessary problem... I share info he should share the same info

[@tshepimoloko2097]

@@cawanamitchell6466 I'm getting the opposite of this... He always tells me about his plans, his beliefs and ideas on life... Never really asks me much about me.... But observes me on social media silently... He literally views every status I put... We nit dating though, we just friends.... Getting to know each other I guess..

[@mariojerryvazquez8632]

Virgo's don't like wasting time for calling and texting too much. You need to understand that Virgo are hard to deal with. You cannot control them. Because Virgo are literally good hard workers. They like to focus their goals without interrupt. Just like Capricorn.

[@cawanamitchell6466]

@@mariojerryvazquez8632 Tell that to my lazy 41 year old momma boy ex boyfriend who still lives at home with him mom who stay on the phone all day like a teenage girl wasted many years of my life cock blocking every dude that wanted to talk to me

[@melissamontes5410]

This makes complete sense . I think Virgos should understand, though, that the same way they move will be mirrored back . I purposely now take my time to text him back bc he does the same to me . I’m not going to always respond back just bc he needs something if he can’t do the same in return . It’s called communication and reciprocity . Actually this goes for any sign lol 😂

[@Impastanonymous]

Virgo men are the most stubborn,overthinking,everything must go according their plans, and meticulous over anything fr. leave them alone and relax, have a warm sip of lemon tea is the best option.😅

[@jessicajackson2438]

I agree I do my Virgo man the same I match his energy I'm not jumping because he has time no sir I wait and so will you let's keep it respectful

[@carmenhayes8680]

Let a Virgo man call and or text you. You'll get a bettwr response from him. It takes a lot of patience, but that works best. Yoi really have to learn their personality. If the tezt is too long...HE WILL NOT RESPOND. If he's busy..HE WILL NOT RESPOND. Keep it short sweet and to the point. THAT WORKS.

[@virgobaby82]

Sometimes it's not right let him respond first what if take 5 or more days I'm supposed to wait no sorry coming from a dated one too virgo 😊🤣

[@selenacervantes3676]

I text him , and he responds nicely 😊 Although he may text later or instantly! I'm very patient for this one because I know how busy he can be! & I know so far as friends we are Gucci

[@angelicelaina200]

Thanks Carmen, your comment really helped me deal with my Virgo man. Your advice was a lot more helpful than this video was that's for sure.

[@jojoba-x70]

carmen how can i know if he really likes me

[@angelicelaina200]

@@jojoba-x70 I feel you on this one Jamila. It can be hard to tell with a Virgo man. They're super reserved and not at all the type to wear their hearts on their sleeves. And if you're looking for the type of man that will call and text you all the time, I'm telling you from experience, a Virgo man isn't what you want.

[@ruthlachica4752]

I’m a Sagittarius woman. I was talking with a Virgo man for more than a month and never met him in person.., I got bored with him because the conversation was so dry. 😂He always texted, hi how are you doing? Quick answer is aint my thing. I told him It’s was getting boring for us to be just texting and calling and not actually meeting up. I stopped reaching out. 🤦‍♀️

[@GirlsinnahoodMusic]

Im a Virgo and I’ll admit dealing with my own sign isn’t easy lord Jesus I can’t be this bad my advice is to keep a backup dude while dealing with these men

[@machrisomachriso5943]

😂😅😂😅

[@tiffanyjones8853]

Facts!!

[@rhondajohnson3072]

😅yikes… but noted😂

[@Handle18880]

How do you get to know someone when you do not text, call, meet up bc your so busy. Dating requires commitment and responsibility, so if you’re not ready don’t engage if you can’t be in the process.

[@cusny01]

The problem with Virgo is it’s all on our schedule. Not flexible. I’m a Virgo, I’m busy but there’s no excuses other that the fact that we are selfish.

[@Gio-m]

Virgo dude here. Not gonna generalize but this dude is pretty spot on. I hate texting, I prefer to talk in person. And when I like someone I’ll make sure we have a really fun time in person. I’m also not around my phone a lot, I’m always busy doing something: boxing, soccer, hiking, programming, cleaning lol Idk if it’s a Virgo thing, but I can’t live without being busy. It’s not personal trust me. If we like you, we’ll definitely make time for you. However if I don’t like like you like that. I won’t give you false hope. You probably will never hear from me unless you reach out. At least we don’t play games like that lol

[@amandaalexander6443]

Wow!...now it makes sense...timely video...I’ll sleep better tonight...you’re right when I text short and sweet I get immediate response...when I write a story book, he ignores it... Thank you, thank you, thank you! 😉

[@conniecon7910]

Elect Lady Ministries Amanda Alexander trrrrrrrruuuuueee lol

[@CoachKeishaK]

Elect Lady Ministries Amanda Alexander this is the TRUTHDOTCOM😩😩😩

[@arieshyper4634]

Lol u find out they were in a whole relationship and hiding it.

[@blondieblu8819]

If a man can’t take 5-10 in his day, find someone who will. Being busy is great. I’m a nursing student. I’m busy. If you want an adult relationship - compromise. It’s all about him him him. Okay, but what about YOU YOU YOU? 🤷🏼‍♀️ it’s not fun to communicate and not get a response. That’s immature. I’ve tried these tactics but the man has to try to understand that you need things too. I appreciate you. but IMO it’s 50/50. He’s gotta earn my time too. What I hear is a bunch of reasons why you need to cater to him. Honestly. It’s so rude to not get back to someone but your online. That’s just rude! Would you be okay if a woman did that to you? I think not 😂

[@sarahjeanty8025]

Nah I'm a libra a virgo can't fool me no one is to busy . Ok people make time for who they want in there life. Them virgos love exploring their options when they do choose u . They go all out but can be cheap . And easy to be apart of bad influences. I was married to one with 3 kids. He abandoned us and I abandoned him. He's lost. Lustful life worldly life. Not all virgos are the same but extreme hot in the beds . But most of them Always looking for someone better. Even when they with u.

[@CarolinesuchIgmail.comChukky]

What if someone dies tomorrow.. and he texts after a week well his loss hahha.he not a phone person but he always on Facebook and what's app 🤣 after work hours

[@Love2loveu00]

[e-mail] Chukky actually my Virgo ♍️ didn’t even know I was in Puerto Rico when I sent him a message on WhatsApp that I had a death in my family. He checked my message two days later and felt so bad because he’s been working. I’ve got so much patience for him 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@tbakes1371]

Why not just communicate this needed "space" instead of disappearing? Do virgo men enjoy a dry text back?

[@ruthlachica4752]

I get bored easily with virgo men 😂😂😂

[@BA-hb9hh]

VIRGO MEN HATE TEXTING BUT YALL KNO HOW TO LEAVE COMMENTS ON IG. LIKE PICS ON IG 🙄🙄 GET ON IG AND ITS ANNOYING WITHOUT RESPONDING TO TEXTS FIRST. TF

[@CashConscious144]

HELLOOO!!!

[@CashConscious144]

all on social media but can’t text back.... he ain’t busy he just don’t wanna talk to you type shit🙄

[@ME-jw3br]

That's my brother! He will hardly ever text or call back and I started to take it personally. I understand now. Thank you for clearing that up for me!

[@selenacervantes3676]

😯 oh wow even a sibling okay

[@queentobe6721]

Selena Cervantes Oh yes. My Virgo man and my brother are a day apart in birthdays and he does the SAME THING. Sometimes it’s a month before my brother will call me back. And we’re tight.

[@jenniferd1476]

Dude… you told me exactly what I needed to hear. I’m a Taurus woman and I am the kind of person who sends multiple medium-to-large sized messages. My best friends are cool with it (some of them 😂), but I know most people get overwhelmed by that. Thankfully, I wasn’t doing that with this Virgo dude because I was super intentional about not being too easy or thirsty. But it’s hard sometimes. We have had 3 dates so far, and they’ve been great. He’s not super chatty, but now I understand it takes time for him to open up to someone new. I was going crazy these last few days like “did I say something wrong?” I am definitely being taught a lesson in patience and taking things ACTUALLY slow Lmao Taurus women can be interrogative too when they feel like they’ve been ghosted, but I’m glad I saw someone’s comment recommending you just go with the flow the next time you see them instead of being like “bruh, why did it take you so long to hit me back?” 😂

[@Jaeloves_Juicyjae]

Same here sis just go with the flow

[@eloisiacasillo9045]

Same here, feel you

[@Mindurbusiness1234]

I've asked a few times about why his texts are so dry...this explains a lot. I guess I should stop taking it personal, most of the time.

[@Mindurbusiness1234]

Your videos add so much clarity. It's still hard to adjust to this mind frame, but I love my man and am trying to push through.

[@angelsharia1]

thank you so much for addressing the social media thing, I have been obsessing lately to why he hasn't text me back In a couple of days yet he's on social media. and yes he's the type to call and text everyday all day

[@pockahantiss]

Fun fact: the best way to get a Virgo mans attention is to pick his brain! Ask him random -ish, send a sexy dressed up pic of yourself. Make him lose concentration. It works like a charm....😉😉😉😉

[@cawanamitchell6466]

Yes and surprise him with food and be prepared to have sex to me they have a caveman mentality not to be disrespectful about it but they honestly act as if they are the only ones that matter and that the female in their life is only there for their entertainment

[@Love2loveu00]

pockahantiss you’re right about that. He does answer right away after a sexy pic 😂

[@theresagilliam5770]

You are right! Like a charm!

[@pockahantiss]

Lazarus kryptonite yeah, hence the term "PICK HIS BRAIN" that was stated in the beginning of my post!!!😒😒😒😒

[@paulinetran5121]

Works like a charm! 😂

[@reniii8350]

What I have realised is that virgo man in general they like to help others in their free times, and they are visual communicators. Very cuddling tho! And adores the right person. They are really busy most the time (helping friends, family etc) And at the beginning of dating they can be weird for a bit from more forwarded messages, so take it easy, like if you say something like "you're handsome" and they're gonna ignore your butt till next day, and they're definitely magnet to independent people❤️🤗

[@AshleyEssie24]

But don’t men get mad if we do the same? Not text and call you as fast.

[@cutiepiea3687]

And they get mad and start moving psycho

[@princessventia]

I'm telling you that Virgos are always busy with their own world. Many of the time, they just want to spend time only for themselves and they always focus on it that they forget to text back/call. And some are just to lazy to reply text and call people, cuz I am. People always complain that I always reply text very late, it can be days later 😂 But we are loyal and love our partner so much, willing to do & give everything, we just can't show it in the form of intense affection

[@welove2178]

I’m soooooooo glad i ran across this video. A Virgo (I’m a Scorpio)has been chasing me on and off for almost two years and the one thing that always made it hard is he appears and then disappears. We finally linked up two nights in a row just talking laughing making out (lol) we enjoyed the company so much we actually slept in my car two nights in a row lol he keeps telling me he likes me and wants to see where it goes then disappears again🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️. No response with calls or text I was about to leave this shit alone today and I ran across this video maybe just maybe I’ll just not bother him let him come to me and see what happens. Is Scorpio don’t move at this slow ass speed 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@KarinaSmiles]

How is it now?

[@nillaprecisee]

Girl same I’m Scorpio toooo

[@novianne7084]

Dang, i am a scorp too dealing with this slow ass virgo dude 😂

[@GODSPRINZES2]

Don’t y’all get mad at me in this video!!! LMBO!!!! 🤣😂😂😂😂 Ladies, he’s telling the TRUTH! I met a Virgo & he now texts me day in & day out!!! It took three months until he got there! Trust, it made me have more patience! And that’s a good thing! 😊

[@aliced7685]

Diamondeyez did he left you on read and things like that first ??

[@GODSPRINZES2]

Mrs. Bieber Yes! 😂 Update, we are going to be just friends. We started drifting apart it was for the best. He thought I was going to chase him honey after two weeks, he was blowing up my phone & my Social Media! He even made a comment about a guy trying to flirt with me on my Twitter page! 🤣😂SMH!! I’ve moved on. We are long distance. Thank God! I think we are better off as friends. But I can say we keep each other laughing that’s what we do have in common. 😊😂

[@andreamessiasgomes7118]

@@GODSPRINZES2 are you a Capricorn?

[@GODSPRINZES2]

Andrea Messias Gomes No, I’m an Aquarius. 😊

[@user-kh2rh1vv1w]

@@GODSPRINZES2 I decided to give my attention to a Virgo man after he kept dming me on Instagram. I finally gave him my number. We texted for 3 days. He then leaves me on read basically and doesn’t continue the conversation. Now I’m mad I gave him my attention to begin with.

[@clindo1987]

But what if we made plans and he's not responding to texts I'm sending to confirm? It is inconsiderate because I'm setting aside time for him and it's rude to blow someone off like that.

[@ashleyatmo]

EXACTLY!!! IT HAPPENED TO ME TOO...yesterday..n yeah...I'm srsly done with him (I'm a leo)

[@blondieblu8819]

The Virgos I’ve dated are inconsiderate lol but there’s always the exception 🤷🏼‍♀️ I don’t take them seriously anymore. Treat me like your too busy and I’ll get too busy for you. I’ll meet you where you are at :)

[@sarahsummers4093]

I’m a Capricorn women and I fully endorse this message😂 👍🏼

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

🙏🏽

[@kkkeeessshhh354]

Chile Capricorn women challenge Virgo men😂😂😂

[@andreamessiasgomes7118]

Capricorn woman and Virgo Man ,are best to be friends not Lovers or for Marriage, unless ur birth chart other signs align otherwise just forget! Only Geminis are for Virgo Men trust me. or if your in a twinflame or soulmate relationship there zodiac signs dont matter cause that is from God!

[@SR77736]

@@andreamessiasgomes7118 delusional.

[@crystalcormier9376]

@@SR77736 Well put

[@newmove7068]

Well we started heavy texting and calling. He did say he don't do the phone and texting thing. He told me when I meet his Mama, NEVER tell her that we were on the phone as much as we were... lol. It's been a couple of days he's been quiet, I text him good morning because he always text first but he never responded. I called, let it ring 3 times, no answer. My intuition is telling me back off. He see that you called & the text. Leave him be. I feel like I'm being tested & I'm a Capricorn woman & don't like it. Phuck around & miss your blessing playing these type of games. Thanks for the video

[@baycic]

This is what i been saying. They like to play the "on and off game". when they get back and u start acting cold and uninterested, they wanna wonder why u acting like that. They dont understand communication can go a long way and playing those childish games is gonna make u lose probably the best person of ur life. Im dealing with this rn and hes finna lose me real fast if he dont say hello in the next 2 days bc its been 3 days.

[@selenacervantes3676]

I adore you Jonathan!!!!!! I love hearing what you have to say everytime!!! I enjoy your voice!!!! I'm crushing on a Virgo man now!

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Thanks, love!

[@SincerelyTaliaxo]

everything he is saying is FACT lol. It takes A LOT patience to be with a virgo. For the Virgos he's referring to, it can take YEARS for a virgo to really truly open up and want to get serious. Virgo men love women who have their own life, without them. Just gotta stay true to yourself and let them be them too. I accept my Virgo for him lol.. he's weird but hey lol

[@aliced7685]

Talia_Talks hey I need your advice so I’m getting to know a Virgo for a week now but I don’t know SHOULD I WAIT for him to text me or should I text him ??? Like idk sometimes he seem interested sometimes not

[@SincerelyTaliaxo]

@@aliced7685 You've known him for a week so far?? If so, this is only the beginning. He may not reach out as much as you want him to. But don't just not message him at all. You have to initiate quit a bit with this guy. Which seems nerve wrecking because you may think hes not interested (NOT the case with Virgo men). You have to get them out of their comfort zone a little bit. He has to get use to having you around and then he will initiate way more and you will feel his presence more. I would message him but don't over do it. Have your own life still!! That is so very important! Your own friends, hobbies, girl nights... all of that! Keep busy because they are!! Do not sit around and wait for him. Be his peace and comfort place. Make every encounter memorable. When he does go off into his own land... and comes back don't question him about it. Be super chill about it because why.. you have been busy too!! Hope all of this helps. It's been a journey with my virgo. You have to learn them and accept them for who they are. That is the key.

[@aliced7685]

Talia_Talks Omg I’ve read so many thing trying to understand him but your Message made me open my eyes. So he hasn’t reach out To me for 2 days but I’ll wait a bit because the last time I was the one texting him but besides that .. thank you so much I appreciate it ❤️❤️❤️

[@Empress-Angelique]

my Virgo man have not talk to me in five days Looking at your comment it’s wow it give me a better understanding an with them you have to have patience I’m so glad he teaching all about patience . He’s weird but I like his kinda weird lol 😂

[@ashleywest6084]

Well said! Question are you a cancer?

[@kamiciasmith688]

Y’all he is telling the truth . we have a great bond and connection . been bestfriends for a year and then now we in a relationship . i’m a scorpio woman and this virgo man give me the bluesssss🥴😭

[@NoName-zb1gm]

We value our time and the people in our lives. Think how wonderful it will be when we can give you our full attention. All these distractions take away your value and you become a job. Remember distance makes the heart grow fonder.

[@CashConscious144]

to be a woman pursuing/dating a virgo man it feels like I’m chasing him.👁👄👁

[@crystalcormier9376]

Girl I'm attracted to a Virgo born August 23rd. Yes girl I feel the same. But I'm so attracted to him it's unreal. These damn virgo men!!! Lol

[@Marusja.78]

True

[@internallifestyle_]

Yeah and ion like that shit

[@Destined1010]

My Virgo came at me so hard and fast just to make me feel like I’m chasing him now 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@dgreborn8308]

I hear and understand what you are saying but y'all aggy man. 😂😂

[@francesnsd41]

Just admit that you Virgo say you don’t like drama, and refuse to understand you create Drama😂 Plus you don’t trust because of your own Fears( mostly childhood wounds that never been healed )‼️ Y’all biggest problem is YALL DONT LIKE CHANGE😅 Nor Help because y’all always have excuses… Get this anyone can be busy STOP BEING SELFISH 🎁

[@queentobe6721]

I just started talking to a Virgo man long distance. I’m an Aries sun and Capricorn moon and ascending. When he texts, he writes longer ones than I do, but he has three different projects going. I said when he ghosted next the first time I told him I thought he lost interest. He said not at all, he had a very busy schedule and that he hoped I understood. I’m very busy myself but I guess he can’t multitask. We’re meeting in three weeks so I guess you’re right. He’s waiting to see me to see if he should invest. Little does he know I’m doing the same thing.

[@AJMAMA]

I’m a Aries trying to learn about Virgo’s and how to respect their boundaries.....I pray that it works because my Virgo friend is DEFINITELY teaching me patience. We have a connection that I feel is real so I appreciate the video and to see a Aries dating a Virgo dating because I don’t want to lose him 🥺 he really is my friend 💙

[@drekewright1817]

We be busy at times plus don't rush us we pull back and loose interest in you so be patient and calm.

[@baycic]

Every single virgo man i met/dated is horrible at texting bc they like putting their work before their relationships. They will go days without texting me too, then wonder why i emotionally and physically moved on from them. As a cancer women, communication is important for me bc my aquarius moon will allow me to deatch and move on from u just as quick as i got with u. Yall always busy until u want something.

[@kasumioshiro1727]

My Virgo is very good at responding back to me, it took him 3 years to open himself up to me lol. We are good about getting with fun texting and letting each other be, when we are both busy. Yes, you gotta be patience with a Virgo, he will come along slowly but surely. Oh, we can text each other all day long, when we both have a time. I’m Cancer, water sign gets mushy, but Virgo pins me down when I get emotional and I’m like okay I will shake it off.

[@barneyhubble5580]

That's why you need a Virgo in your life 🧬.

[@demirose7152]

My Virgo man makes me sooo mad with this shit but I’m a Leo so it’s all emotional on my end

[@wolfpywoo]

How virgo man learn about someone when he dont want to communicate? 😅

[@marquitaholley8634]

No mine just let me know he was leading me on I got tired of seeing him with other girls and he got mad and said that after 4 years but damn I held him down when no one else was there but he want his freedom and he got it now

[@valeriealexander5961]

That’s how the Virgo man is I just met …We started out ft and phone calls long conversations…then randomly he sent a short text and said let’s go to the movies short we had a very romantic date let me pick the movie plenty of forehead kisses and cuddling (cool) real good vibe …he text me the next day to let me know he REALLY enjoyed the date.. very short and sweet. The next day I text Good Morning and he text right back Good Morning beautiful. I’m a Gem woman so I require value and appreciate space also so I’m cool with the slowness ..he enjoys ft and talking when he gets the time. No high expectations I’m just going with the flow 😊

[@TheAfgchick]

This Virgo man I went on a few dates with… literally asked me out and we set a date. It went so WELL ! Literally binged idea’s and topics off each other a lot! However he went silent… I am giving him space. & I don’t like to get involved with others so I’m just going to back off. I really like him though. I’m so torn.

[@denisecrawford96]

They do that dealing with a Virgo

[@nooranlove6149]

Why you are dating 😅 if you are too busy.. just stay single it’s easier.. no one will text you .. I solve your problem 🤓

[@peachesmignon1915]

I have been with my (husband)Virgo for going on 26 years and he still doesn’t call. If I call him he’ll answer but he doesn’t initiate almost anything. He prefers to text but he knows I’m not having a conversation in a text ; so yea it’s short.

[@SheriCheri94]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@B.Mignon]

Sounds like he trained you well😢

[@biancaclinton8028]

I'm a 31 female leo dating a 29 virgo male and it's so depressing sometimes. He will promise to call or text after work or plating video games and get right in the bed WITHOUT DOING EITHER. And act like it's normal to break promises on the regular because he is TIRED 😒 I feel like I'm always having to earn his affection and love even after 4 years and it's overwhelming and under rewarding. Especially since he does not communicate effectively and prefers to play video games most of the time.

[@Bunnylovecrypto]

Same here babe

[@shortygotherown]

I’m confused. Are you in A relationship with him? Does he work or is he getting paid to play video games online?

[@mayasheartdesiire]

Please tell me you let this relationship go

[@AJMAMA]

You sound just like him wow! I needed to hear that....I care ALOT for my Virgo guy so I’ll definitely listen to your input.

[@christiedouglas384]

Are you still with him?

[@madib8472]

All I’m hearing as a Capricorn with a Virgo moon is how I have to change myself to accommodate you. You can step up to MY PLATE, or you’re gonna strike out. Good luck, Virgo, you’ve got more work to do 😉

[@lemoncum136]

Virgos are so annoying omg😭 - an Aquarius

[@naana-scelyne6370]

You need extreme patience in the beginning because this is hard especially if it is long distance!!!

[@lyricmontgomery3415]

Naana Scelyne yes very hard 😩😩

[@christiedouglas384]

👀👀👀...

[@angiep5514]

On the same token, a Virgo needs to earn their way into a women's life. And being short and not answering etc is not good. Connection is the main way to a women's heart. Being aloof doesn't work! Virgos please get used to being lonely because that's eventually what's gonna happen. Trust me.

[@kenrowland7864]

A Minister talkin astrology hustlin on Utube...Now there's one for the books🤔 lmfao!!!!!!

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

why does this bother you?

[@shepink6204]

This is simply immature mind games… do not waste your or anyone else’s time. Virgo man stop being so self absorbed.

[@selkertazumi9660]

Funny thing about all this, is if you do the same to them! Lord have mercy, they feel abandoned. I don't care, i don't call. Bs. Yeah I hear you. You don't like your very own energy. Lol This is from a scorpio woman. Smh. Still love him though.

[@jameslittle4322]

Lmaoo they hate when you mirror they BS 😂 I’m a Scorpio woman also 🤣🤣🤣

[@swastikatimsina672]

So you mean ghost them when they ghost you?

[@selkertazumi9660]

@@swastikatimsina672 ALWAYS TRY FIRST!!! No response let it be. What can you do?

[@loveamun7569]

Omg that is so true he will just reply one thing lol😄

[@loveamun7569]

Hey your advice is 100% on point.

[@CFrancis-uw8qq]

Hi Jonathan, I would really like it if you spoke on HOW not to be too emotional around him cause i noticed THAT sort of turns him off... or makes him uncomfortable for now it does but i think as we get to know each other he will get better with it no?

[@jacquegibson6470]

OMG I just love you Jonathan, you be having me cracking up. 🤣🤣you are true virgo man, sometimes I cant stand you because You act just like my virgo man and you have the virgo traits and characteristics down to a T lol

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Lol, too funny

[@1000Bamboo]

We had a bumpy start!! But he explained it and you confirmed it!!

[@pallasa2032]

I'm Virgo rising and I have not respond by a text or phone call many times. Cause I just didn't feel like talking i cared but I just dint have the energy is all

[@zuriaarmani]

I’m a Gemini and I loveeeeeee the Virgo man. (I love Virgo men in general but never understood them) Your videos are super helpful for me to just be cool. Quick story: I thought this man was ignoring me!! But you are so so right. He does not like the small talk text. My ego was going to let him go but I did something uncomfortable and I texted him a sweet message even though I thought he was ignoring my last and he told me I made him smile and told me that he had been slammed with life lately. I’ve known him for a long time so I know this to be true…. You are so so right You definitely have to earn your Virgo and I know that some ladies, your ego will prevent you from doing that but if your Virgo anything like mine boy I tell you… let me gone ahead and put my crocs in sports mode cause I’m not letting him go

[@Leehannah-q2p]

Hey jonathan, will a virgo apologize for a late reply of he does'nt like you. Also, will he ask to give him some minutes when chatting and later gets back to you after some minutes if he does'nt like you

[@jayson1geek479]

When you are in love it's different.

[@Vendice]

another reason why they dont like texting is they dont like things that they cant decypher

[@brella123]

Even virgo close friends are this way. I am a cancer and love to have daily convos, touch base and connection, check in etc. i love the validation i get when there is a daily check in and saying hi even if its for 5 mins. My really good friend who is a virgo never seems to understand this. Days on end no text or call and later shows up and say been busy or tired or sick. But then can't you communicate that! He Don't know how to express emotions well. I'm getting annoyed , me being the friend who always cares and initiates. Thinking of leaving this friendship soon.

[@tinamarie4]

Virgo friend didn’t respond after 4 calls and text to wake him up per is request then when finally get a hold of him it was like he been up and said it wasn’t a big deal sorry... I Iwas annoyed

[@HakunaMatata-ne8hd]

He ghosts me in the conversation he starts 😑

[@SheriCheri94]

He would like to FaceTime, try that 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lynpaz513]

My virgo guy that i like not texting me anymore...

[@angelicelaina200]

Awww, sorry about that Lyn. How do you know he stopped communicating with you though? Virgo men have a tendency to be very sporadic with their communication.

[@lynpaz513]

And he blocked me recently... maybe bec i said something that made him upset..i dont know why..the virgo guy i met was very sensitive

[@KsBadass88]

Yes they can be very sensitive

[@DC-8-8-8-]

You contradict yourself by saying let's get to know each other. Take it slow. Listen to yourself. You have no realistic way of doing that. You've closed down every opportunity. Smh

[@angeg100]

He texted and called in the begining.. I told him no and stopped communicating.. It's been 3 weeks..

[@Monique-nl8dv]

Why did he ask to exchange #’s lol 😆 I get it !!

[@RiysWorld731]

@Johnathan can you speak on the dating phase and the longest youve ever dated someone before making it "official". Also, do you think VIRGO men have a problem with the person they are seeing to date other people at the same time? Any other VIRGOS can chime in...

[@forgetable11]

Me personally I wouldn’t date someone who I knew was dating around I’m to much in my head that’s just so much extra pressure it would feel like I was auditioning to be with you and for me I can go so long without being in a relationship because I’m looking for somebody perfect for me

[@RiysWorld731]

@@forgetable11 Unfortunately no one is perfect but I'm saying dating with no intimacy. Maybe I shouldnt even call it dating and say just going out because it's nothing past friendship.

[@forgetable11]

Terez Woods perfect is relative ig but what separates the Virgo man from the other people your “going out with” are they just friends or are trying to be more than friends

[@RiysWorld731]

@@forgetable11 just company honestly and strictly platonic. Would you as a Virgo still feel a way about it?

[@beverlygreene18]

Don’t ever tell a man your involved with, that your dating other people. Men are very territorial.

[@jalazmani4842]

This is exactly the case with me as well. My virgo man was also like this. He used to call me, text me frequently and regularly. Even the conversations extended for hours. We had a relationship for 8 months. We had small fights but we used to solve it. He used to treat me very romantically and I got attached with him. Later he started distancing himself and I got suspicious. I confronted him and asked him about our current status.He said he was confused. There was no confusion for the past 8 months. 🙂. I tried to patch up. But finally I decided to let him go. I stopped texting him. Interestingly he also stopped it. I mean there was no issue but it has been almost 2 months that i heard anything from him. My conclusion is that they can be a friend. But a big NO for a partner. Any experiences like this.?

[@deeg2725]

i’m a capricorn in a relationship with a Virgo and it was good but now stuff is bumpy. he used to be busy and let me know that he was busy but now he won’t tell me and he’s very distant. should I leave the relationship? it feels like i should just exit stage left at this point 😂

[@jalazmani4842]

Same is the case with me too. My Virgo man was like this. I tried my best till it became my responsibility to save the relationship. He later went distant and i also stopped texting him. Its been 2 months I havent heard anything frm him. The romantic moments were awesome, but Virgo is a big no for me.

[@sherlysusantirahayaan5052]

i am a Capri woman and have been dealing with a Virgo male for 3 years.At first we both texted almost every day,we enjoy our relationship until view month ago he stop texting me,stop asking video call,he totally dissapear! i am watching your video and i now that maybe i did or text something wrong to him!

[@narcfreekeekee9168]

He’s not responding because he can’t deny all the shit I seen in that phone. He can’t live with me anymore. Can’t use me anymore, and was cheating on me this entire relationship. Some of the people were men cosplaying as women.

[@JessSkubi]

Thanks for the video! I think he's just no longer interested in me. I'm being mature about it. Also, he's definitely the epitome of a workaholic. I've grown over the years and realize you gotta let people be who they are. He likes to work, so let him, ya know lol. He's a good guy, but I probably just don't fit into his goals at the moment. He used to call me on the phone, but I definitely knew when he had to go because he was consumed with other stuff. So, yeah he seemed to enjoy talking on the phone or videochat. I think Virgos are cool people tho. Would do it again. P.S - I'm in Atlanta.

[@shortygotherown]

Very mature of you, what’s your Sun sign? but I wanted to say something off topic, you are gorgeous and I so love your purple braids!

[@JessSkubi]

@@shortygotherown Aww you definitely know how to make others smile. I love colored tips for braids. Fun hair. I'm a Pisces sun sign. What's your sun sign?

[@shortygotherown]

@@JessSkubi I am A Taurus sun with A lot of 12th house/ Pisces placements in my chart. And thanks 😊

[@smoothflight3090]

You're delivering about why a virgo doesn't call or text back is.... 🤔🤣

[@rvchgirlt3995]

What does it mean when he asks me if I miss him

[@charlinecharlostin3188]

Can you do a no contact rule on Virgo men ?

[@danielamorales5293]

And WHO ARE YOU ? To think that i must wait for yur fonecall once a month while we have options, manny options, we are busy real busy not this kind of busy always ranting for hours.

[@mercygraceful4924]

I love y'all but excuses excuses. It is cool y'all worth it. One thing is accurate you WORK VERY HARD

[@sarahjoponziolifeteamprinc6060]

I can feel him now !