Why Tinder Is Ruining Dating For Everyone

Tinder blew onto the online dating scene like a whirlwind, and since then it has become a part of our day to day dialogue.
But behind the tinder experience is a sinister dark side that teaches men and women to distrust the opposite gender by confirming their deepest and darkest fears about each other.
In short, Tinder is ruining dating for both men and women by making them distrustful and neurotic.
What most guys should be doing is leaving Tinder for good and instead building their confidence and social skills so they can start meeting women in real life.
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[@raynoobkac]

its not just tinder,its social media in general..

[@mac1bc]

Agree completely. Things were much better before dating apps when you had to go out and actually talk to people in town.

[@henryq2666]

My thoughts exactly. It's all so artificial.

[@Kim-Yo-jong]

I used to be able to talk to a lot of girls on facebook but now they all just hangout on instagram getting a lot of likes and follows looking for validation and nothing else.

[@Eaglelicious]

It's hormones in general, and your comment is the most logical one on here. Even guys at church just wanna fuck it's the age

[@materialhell]

I left sites like facebook in january and never felt better. I still do YT and reddit (sometimes) but that's not exactly the same as the crazy shit on facebook.

[@TarmacSkin]

I tried Tinder when I was single. It was a nightmare. Im a completely accomplished man and it was impossible to get a match. And the few girls i was able to meet they were dating several guys at the same time. It was a nightmare. I ended up hating women and thought they just wanted my mooney. Did met my wife on match... Tinder is a waste of time.

[@Full985]

Couldnt agree more with you mate i feel the same

[@palindrome06]

modern age dating is a mess

[@Melly16yr10]

Unfortunately true

[@towenaar4142]

I tried to speak to a girl in the street but some random black guy came out of nowhere and pushed me back saying 'not cool bro, not cool'.

[@adyp5176]

did you have your knob out at the same time? because I found that doesn't work too well on a serious note, can you recall how you approached her? where you smiling, open body language, giving her plenty of space? daygame on the street is a numbers game, most girls will by like "WTAF!" for the first 10 seconds, which can make your balls shrivel there's something out there called the Yad stop, which is like dynamite fishing, but it can land you instant dates and lays etc

[@gxp958]

@@adyp5176 he's joking. hes referring to the New Gillete commerical

[@JoeyCannoli]

@@adyp5176 r/Woooooooooosh

[@Altaranalt]

hah! Nice reference!

[@AlphaPrettyBoy]

You know what they say *cracks open a cold one* Boys will be boys

[@trendkill9970]

Tinder is helping average man to become more and more blackpilled.

[@astudentofhistory6520]

But redpilled at the same time

[@elinope4745]

The black pill is one of the foulest red pills of all. Nothing really matters, do whatever you will do. It is the red pill leading to nihilism and then embracing it.

[@demiurgeobzen327]

That's only if you have no life and base your value off of a fucking dating app. Otherwise, nah, not really.

[@ENZOxDV9]

@@elinope4745 the blackpill says women only care about looks. Tinder basically just proves that

[@elinope4745]

@@ENZOxDV9 Nah its looks, status, and wealth. But that is red pill not black pill. Black pill is where the red pill meets nihilism. Its the sudden realization that laws and morality are all tools of control, and that the only real laws are the laws of nature and physics that you cannot break because nature won't allow it. You can try all you want, you will fail to break the real rules.

[@nickgabriels6411]

Tinder just doesn't work the way people want it to work. Most men will lose their self-esteem and feel resentment towards women on this app. I think you worded the problems perfectly. I really like your possitive take on the matter. The negative responses you are getting just proves how frustrating dating can be nowadays.

[@manasseh7]

nick gabriels hit it right on the head

[@manasseh7]

Kathy nailed it too...i just deleted my account after not even having it two weeks. i matched at least 20 girls and maybe 10 answered and only walked out with two numbers. and only one of them text back regularly. lol waste of time. edit: that one girl who was texting back regularly ghosted me the day we set up to hang out and hasn’t spoken to me since LOL

[@RAMB0VI]

It's the same shit outside of Tinder.

[@nickgabriels6411]

​@S D A lot of men get close to no matches so they lower their standards. Then they still don't get any matches so they lower their standards again and again until they are swiping right on litteraly everyone. What do you think happens to one's self-esteem when this happens? This is what happened to me. I swiped right on everyone (even women who have clearly let themselves go) for weeks and I got 2 matches that quickly unmatched me after I said hello. This app made me feel like the ugliest person alive. I feel like I am not the only one who has had this experience.

[@nickgabriels6411]

​@S D I already changed up my profile 10+ times. I tried pictures of me in suit at my job, pictures of my hobbies or from when I was traveling the world, group pictures with colleagues or friends... I like your slightly naive optimism, try to keep that because the world already has enough cynicism. But you have to understand that this app is poison to a lot of men. It made me feel so insecure that I couldn't look women in the eye for months. Thanks anyway.

[@HoussemLarif]

I've recently uninstalled all dating apps in order to force myself to go out and meet women in person. Even if I'm not getting the results I want, I had few dates and I'm already feeling much better than before!

[@Sexytaco71]

I did the same thing bro. Just grew a pair and started talking to women. Boosted my confidence and even been seeing a girl for a few weeks. There are good quality women that want to be desired by a confident man, you just have to put yourself in front of them.

[@joelercoaster]

No man with dignity and any self respect should be on tinder! Delete it and get on your purpose!!!!

[@Steve-ws4jg]

One of the most intelligent comments here.

[@mba321]

Preach! Women come not when you make them the sole purpose of your life… They are a RESIDUAL reward for building a kick ass life.

[@joelercoaster]

Michael Allen exactly! It’s OBJECTIVELY the key to getting more high value women, you have to be the highest value male, by focusing on yourself and goals is how you achieve that and the result will be more higher quality women, which certainly wouldn’t even be on a app anyway

[@visaman]

What is my purpose?

[@crack0797]

Absolutely true

[@stevelewza]

The other infuriating side of all this is that the developers of Tinder will probably never implement solutions to these issues because, financially, it's actually in their best interests to keep people unsatisfied, keep them flaky and keep them swiping, if they make more genuine connections than flaky unfulfilling ones then more people leave the app, which means they lose out on advertising revenue and in app purchases. There's no incentive for them to fix any of this, there's actually more incentive for them to make it worse for the dating scene.

[@yourbrain8700]

That's why we need legal regulation of these things, it's the only way, and we need to come together and fight for that.

[@MichaelChiklisCares]

but that is fraud, let me guess they dont pay any taxes.

[@Sexytaco71]

It's true. Social media and dating apps take away much more than it adds for real human interaction. It's all bad for humanity. I used to think cigarettes were the worst invention ever but social media is coming close.

[@BlazingsNL]

I'm 28 and people tell me I'm above average looking. But on tinder all I get are fat girls with a crooked eye and single moms. This app will destroy your confidence, which will also stop you from trying to get a girl in real life because "why would she want to be with someone like me".

[@ibrahemhakky1777]

haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa me too

[@bobbybrown4652]

So true man, killed my confidencd to talk to women irl who've found me attractive. This App is responsible for so much misery.

[@JonathanClark99]

Tinder & Social media give women a false sense of self esteem. They are pricing themselves out of the market

[@kpjlflsknflksnflknsa]

Well that is on them..

[@moonjimunji7916]

they can work too they have literally no reason to want a man and if they want snuggles they might as well get the best looking men

[@CJ-ft9yo]

It’s had the opposite effect on me

[@eloisestripes1607]

@@EverythingLvl thats not what he means, and you seem to have no ability to critically think. You dont even have the ability to think, because this isnt even an issue you need to critically think. If you dont understand why there is an issue here than you are as blind as a bat being escorted by Helen Keller. False self of self esteem means they have too much self esteem (which is absolutely a thing) and it makes them value themselves to the point where they think they are worth more than the same value. Whether you like it or not, humans are valued on certain levels based on society's views on whats valued. Its really not that hard to grasp. When you have a significant portion that think they are too good for people that are equal to them on the dating market then you have a significant portion of men that are being basically thrown in the trash because their value doesnt match the portion that they are supposed to match with. Continue to live in your fantasy land if you like, but it seems like if you cant understand this then you have a lot more problems that you need to deal with.

[@davifurtado6534]

man, I have no idea more what to do. There are lots of dating channels out there saying that cold approach isn't worth it because you will have to approach a hundred women before finding someone worth it. Then there are others channels saying that the best way to find girls is by a circle of friends (a friend know someone and introduces her to you) And then there are channels saying that you should go on tinder because it's less work. My god guys, I just want a girlfriend. Those channels make it look harder than getting a phd in math. I'll just cut all this bullshit, start working out and focusing on my career and see what will happen

[@FSXairpilot]

Internet is oversaturated with peoples views on dating. Keep it simple, you see a girl you like go up and talk to her. Tell her you like her, maybe she will be flattered, maybe she wont, in that case just be friends with her and find another girl that will like you back. Dont over complicate this, dont leave the game either. To quote Hank Moody from Californication "A morning of awkwardness is better than a night of loneliness."

[@nunyabaznus7851]

yup. keep it simple. work out and eat healthy and improve for yourself, not for women, if you see a girl you like just walk up and say "hey i think your cute, wanna go out sometime?", if there are no women available don't worry about it and continue on with your life.

[@craigwinslow6749]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/jnuaeY13ibJ-eLs Just focus on self progression and you will eventually attract a female that has similar interests and hopefully someone who is driven and motivated just as much as you.

[@GinTonicFPV]

Approaching a hundred women doesn't take very long if you do a few every week. Imagine if you approached just one girl every day, that means in about 3 months you will have hit your target, and after those hundred approaches you will be much better at it than when you started. In comparison, swiping on Tinder a few thousand times doesn't give you anything at the end of it because you get very few interactions with girls (if any). I'm on the same boat as you, Tinder did not work for me at all and my friend circle are almost exclusively guys. I have watched some cold approach videos and am starting to do it myself. It's not easy, but it's definitely worth it not just for getting the girls but for becoming a more social person in general. Have a look at this day game beginner guide - kzbin.info/www/bejne/h162lpueYt53Y8U - the instructions are easy to follow and for supplementary material I recommend this channel: kzbin.info/door/xJiYMtouGpvAdeZyZoHGZg

[@matrixman5507]

Depends on game. Really Good game you can close 1 in 10.

[@CroMagnon-uk2go]

You can't just tell guys just to be confident out of the blue confidence is like a reward, for example if a guy loses a lot of weight and gets in shape his confidence is going to go through the roof, you have to teach guys that confidence is a reward not something that you can just have overnight

[@leroy30]

Agreed. Doing something over and over and succeeding at it is what build confidence. In terms of interaction, you can practise it anywhere. Start small and just have good conversation with strangers at checkouts, without any agenda behind it, and then work your way up from there.

[@daved2976]

Confidence comes from positive things that happen as a result of weight loss etc. Likewise many say that lifting weights is a confidence builder, however it's never been the case for me. If I saw positive results, outside the gym, due to lifting, that's when my confidence would rise.

[@CroMagnon-uk2go]

@@daved2976 I was using weight loss as an example, another example would be if I won the lottery, my confidence would go through the roof. But you are right positive thing and positive result does raise your confidence.

[@RafaelSequera]

@@CroMagnon-uk2go Another example would be being successful in a business or any activity that you do, or graduating from college and getting a great job, or whatever... There are many things a guy can do to raise confidence...

[@YourWingmam]

He probably elaborates in a “how to be confident” specific video :)

[@reedwill]

Online dating has definitely made me view women in a more negative light. After a man writes well thought out messages to women letting her know that he read her profile, liked what he read, and expresses interest in getting to know her better only to be completely ignored seriously dampers a man's enthusiasm. Then there is that OK cupid study that shows that women only find 20% of the men attractive really makes me feel that women are not worth the effort to date them. Women have seriously over valued themselves in the dating scene going after the top 20% of the guys and then wonder why those guys don't want to commit, settle down, and be monogamous when 80% of the women are chasing them.

[@C0NTR0L55K]

Will Reed you have to care less, trust me. Treat it like a game and literally just make it into a big joke. You’ll be much more successful if you are an aloof ass instead of a serious Sam

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

While the stats in that okcupid study are definitely correct, they are an 'all else being equal' equation - meaning if a woman knows nothing else about you, then the looks equation comes into play. BUT the second an average looking guy for example has sexual confidence and is great at banter, suddenly he's sexy. Do some research into 'Female Sexual Plasticity' Women very quickly learn to be turned out by lots of different stimuli, so if a guy has features the turn her on other than his looks, he'll quikly seem sexy to her.

[@reedwill]

@@SchoolOfAttraction I know that 'game' is important for a man, while all a woman needs is to look good. The problem is you need to actually meet a woman in order to use any game and in this cess pool of online dating that is nearly impossible unless you are in the top 10%. Again IMO women aren't worth the effort anymore.

[@Raz0rIG]

Caius Andromeda acting aloof does nothing unless you’re top 10%. Some women have the attention span of a goldfish understandably with so many guys to choose from so if you go silent you won’t even be in her radar unless she really found you attractive to keep an eye on you.

[@blockaderunner]

I do this to women as well who bare their soul to me on first message, if she's halfway decent or worse. She gets put into the ignore bin. I'm getting a lot of messages of late and I'm an old fvcking dude, but seem to look better than previous years though I don't FEEL better. I feel older. Women must sense that I am well-to-do in life. No yachts or gold watches or anything, no beamer or giant house, just not really craving poon having had so much of it. I'm content, they message.

[@AdultsSwim1]

This is why I read a lot of dating Reddit posts, it has opened my eyes to the struggles that we all face and helps me maintain a positive outlook on dating.

[@bernardoaaronpina1804]

The 80% of men need to boycott/ not use tinder so they go out of business

[@james4289]

Too thirsty

[@Raz0rIG]

Bernardo Aaron Pina sadly won’t happen, the sexual market will equalize again once some men leave tinder the ones that stay will find that it’s less competitive and then more guys will see that it’s easy again and then saturate the dating pool again and then it’s a cycle

[@rivahkillah]

The 80% are exactly who tinder markets their boosts and premium services to. The ones that can't afford to spend are doomed to live in grannies basement.

[@astudentofhistory6520]

All sites are owned by one company.. like Hollywood all owned by the same people . They are data mining and social engineering apps.. profit is not a motive

[@rivahkillah]

@@Raz0rIG It would only become easier for the men that remain if the women on the site adapt and alter their standards.

[@Zalfion]

I went from meeting women in real life to tinder, I deleted tinder after about 3 days of using it and went back out to meet women in real life. Can vouce for what the video is saying

[@leonbeler2711]

You're about the only guy in the world right now who is helping me be the least bit optimistic about dating. Thank you.

[@sub4you282]

It's impossible to talk to women in real life because they are always on their cell phones.

[@jonathanlavis7447]

U don’t wanna talk to that girl anyways

[@johnnythekid4601]

And they are also scared of their own Shadow

[@tailgunner2]

Dating apps a whole ruined things, Tinder was just one of the last straws. Sorry, perusing around profiles, in the same mindset as perusing Amazon Prime, simply dehumanizing to the point of no longer being courship, but partner shopping instead. Bleh.

[@SARUJAN5]

Tinder may work for some people but not for all. It's better to just ban tinder. A lot of us are fucked up psychologically because of it.

[@Feber2001]

I agree. It's a mess. Abuse is normalized on these apps

[@dimensiondoor2738]

Apps like Tinder are like online videogames. In the 90's you may have played a fighting game and thought you are doing great at it. Then in the 00's you went online and noticed that you are a noob and still got lots to learn, noone is interested in your lets plays or your tactics, because there are masterplayers out there. The solution is simple: Everyone of us has his own distinct style, it is not about being the best, but about being oneself and doing the best one can do for oneself and others.

[@tm4651]

I live in a city with hundreds of thousands of women in my age range. I've had almost zero success with Tinder. I've tried the cold approach thing but women are very skeptical of a random guy approaching them. Bars and clubs aren't the best place to meet women coz those women are usually spoilt goods from my experiences.

[@kpjlflsknflksnflknsa]

Are you ugly?

[@JakobPatring1]

@@kpjlflsknflksnflknsa If you don't look like a Hollywood celebrity, you're ugly.

[@deafbyhiphop]

@@EverythingLvl simp

[@laurenm7898]

maybe don’t refer to women as ‘spoiled goods’ and more women will look at you

[@alskywell]

The quality of women I meet in real life is definitely better than tinder. The irony is, I wouldn't be successful with these women on tinder. Such is the power of context and circumstance. On tinder, I would be judged as not having a good enough job, being a player, being too old, not having the "right" pictures, not having a clever enough blurb or clever enough text banter, etc. etc. To me Tinder is more escapism than anything else. It's fantasy. So much of tinder happens in the participants' heads'. In that regard, I liken it to entertainment. It really is a form of entertainment more than a means of building actual relationships. You put on the movie / episode and when you're done, you turn it off. All the contextual signals tell you it's not real, so of course people are going to act differently.

[@BlackwatchCrazySix]

Got 10-14 total matches in my short 2-3 days of usage. Got a close call but noped after a quick epiphany. I met girls even as friends better than the shitshow that is Tinder.

[@relaxwithme__]

What you say is spot on!

[@amirh.6160]

I honestly needed to read that today. I sincerely appreciate your input

[@XHitsugaX]

Well, I went from being rejected in real life, to being almost invisible on tinder, to still being rejected in real life. so yeah

[@spunkflunk]

Tinder could fix the problem by making it so guys can only swipe right on 3-5girls a day, while girls can swipe right as much as they want. So what would this do? It would make guys way more picky, girls would get less matches overall due to this, which would lead to girls being less picky.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Yep - or just limit the number of matches a guy can have... like no more than 3 at any one time. Alternatively, everyone's profile shows their response rate, and those with poor response rates get ranked lower.

[@WentylSk8]

Well, I got really good at tinder. But after some time and getting so many matches I came to conclusion that meeting any new women at tinder doesn't give me any joy. Quantity just destroy the vibe between people. It is so bad when you can't even remember name of the person you are talking with, even though conversation wasn't bad. Tinder makes relationships very shallow and it can make your life worse even when you "succed" at it. On top of that it can consume massive amount of your time and energy.

[@TBPC30]

fact

[@bubu84pl]

I agree - three years ago I’ve even managed to find a long time girl. Now I can’t even find a propper conversation on the online level.

[@timeslowingdown]

I totally agree with you and I have come to the exact same conclusions! So thanks for the video, it's motivational to see someone with more experience in the dating scene have the same conclusions. I stopped using all online dating around the middle of 2018, and I'm glad I did because it had really messed with my self esteem. I was almost starting to believe that I was just a very unattractive and undateable person, and that all women care about in men is that they look like models. But I realized that was an irrational belief and statistically it just doesn't make sense. So anyway I recently started making more of an effort to meet women in real life that I find attractive, although I'm pretty much a complete beginner at it, due to missing several years of experience in it as a result of online dating! But of the women I've talked to in person so far, every single time it has been a completely different and far more positive experience than Tinder. So yep, happy to move forward like this and forget about Tinder. Also I love how many people comment things that completely disregard your explanation of the problem and continue to blame women, it's amusing. Like the logic just went straight over their heads. Kinda sad at the same time though that they've gotten those misconceptions that deeply ingrained.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Yeah i'm totally blown away by how many people are commenting on this video, it's obviously something a LOT of guys have strong feelings about.

[@keiserphoto]

I’d have to agree with you. The last tinder date I had told me she had 800+ men who swiped right on her. She’d only been on tinder a few weeks and I was simply lucky she talked to me. On my side I probably only had 50 women in my area. Way too many men on it and few quality women. I’d be curious to know that stats of available women using tinder or other online apps vs those who don’t. I bet there are way more just waiting for to find mr right in person. So get out there and say hi!!

[@mellowbirddreamer77]

I guess I'm an ugly. I'm a women and only get a few a day. I uninstalled the app anyways

[@lilyanaschaefer4698]

Okay so let me put it this way, I'm attractive. I'm not saying that to be cocky, it's just what I experience that tells me that. So because of that I get A lot of matches on tinder. But the thing is the men I match with are appealing to the eye but then tend to be on the narsacistical spectrum. So in a nutshell I think that if your a guy and wanna meet a quality women, approach them. I love when guys do that and I feel like now they think just cause a women is attractive they will get turned down, that's bullshit. And you just don't feel as safe on tinder in general meeting strangers, cause they can really be anyone🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

[@AliNest2011]

I had 3500 likes there in my 1st week or 9 days... So it is normal.

[@Straga_Severa]

​@@mellowbirddreamer77 "ONLY a few a day?" If you were a man, you would be extremely hammy with such a result.

[@Straga_Severa]

@@lilyanaschaefer4698 Well, maybe you should try to swipe not at the top10% of players that will treat you like crap?

[@Frederick0220]

Yes, cold approach pickup ‘till I die. I’ve gotten dates with some beautiful women off daygame. Off online dating, nothing but garbage.

[@antonsaraste4726]

Just out of curiosity, how long til you got good?

[@ghostridersinthesky21]

Anton Saraste I wanna know this too

[@nathaniele.4827]

I’ve met some great girls on Tinder when I had it, but after a date or two, they’d ghost me. Same goes to Bumble, they’ll ghost you there too. Just let a relationship happen, like if you got a chick staring at you or some random place, walk up to her and start a conversation.

[@99Pierogies]

It's such an easy fix. Just sort users by activity level. This way you get the people actually interested in meeting together

[@mba321]

But…. that would mean people would actually match with each other, and leave the app as a result….. Not good for business!

[@99Pierogies]

@@mba321 people are leaving the apps tho because theyre getting frustrated. if average couples actually got together on these apps theyd spread their success stories, and more people would try using them. tho i guess then the average guys wouldnt be buying subs. could throw in more ads to offset the cost for a better user experience. personally i hate these apps, but i get just enough success without having to pay for them that the frustration is sort of worth it. unfortunately most of my hookups arent with quality women id ever consider dating, and the ones that i would have 500 other options in their inbox

[@callmeej8399]

@@mba321 yep and that’s the rub

[@Timefades1]

Crazy thing is this is 3 years old. Man it’s gotten exponentially worse , I realized I wasted years of my life chasing settling and entertaining girls below me . Good thing is I’m still in my 20s

[@cebuanoguy]

I feel like the narcissistic photogenic looking guys on Tinder are playing it as if it’s world of Warcraft. I once sat next to a guy in an Amtrak train from New Jersey to South Carolina. He just sat there..swiping right..the whole train ride..

[@AFFTFOMSICHTS]

You’re sooo right from both perspectives, it’s just hard when you don’t know anything about this persons personality, ghosting feels like nothing, I’ve ghosted and been ghosted many times. I got rid of it. I’m going to attempt to meet someone in person.

[@tim7054]

I think most guys on Tinder already suspected women where full of shit. Tinder just confirms it. And when did getting too many matches become a problem? (I wish I had such problems). don't compare the two scenarios as if they are equal.

[@brunodosreis]

Navn It’s like saying supermarkets are bad because you can’t get passed the candy isle or skip the vegetables.

[@adamnshame]

Too many matches is a problem because: - A decent person will feel guilty for not giving everyone equal/enough attention - A decent person will feel guilty for matching with someone then realising they're not attracted to them - You know there's a good chance you're giving the wrong person your attention, but you're doing the best you can with the information you've got

[@tim7054]

​@@adamnshame Again, I wish I had such problems. I would stop swiping right... problem solved!!!

[@callmeej8399]

I just gained a lot of respect for you, most youtubers would just use this opportunity to plug in there tinder dating course but I’m glad you straight up told us to just do the hard work and meet people irl

[@joeyharbolt7509]

This video needs to have millions of more views because so many people have been downplayed and disgustingly used by this app.

[@DrummerComplex]

To sum up your entire video: Hypergamy is reality

[@rodneyblackwell7477]

I have been seeing a girl I met on Tinder once a week for over a year. I am very confident she sees other guys as well.. so it's good to have some other guys to share the expense and allows me to have more free time.

[@quantumdecoherence1289]

Sounds like a variety of fun STDs.

[@zoeng9026]

I feel like dating apps are making everyone’s lives more difficult. There’s always wanting more. For attractive men and women both. If we can imagine a time where dating apps didn’t exist, I feel like people will appreciate who they have more without steering to the fantasy that perhaps someone who checks all their ideal checklist is still out there. I am guilty of this myself too.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

I definitely agree dating apps have decreased dating quality for both genders.

[@jnnx]

People don’t get it AT ALL. TINDER IS A HOOKUP APP, NOT A DATING APP. Don’t go into an Italian restaurant, expecting Chinese chicken.

[@kyronlee8927]

I believe that too. But what is your opinion of all the women that say no hookups, or if you’re looking for a hookup swipe left

[@RafaelSequera]

@@kyronlee8927 They want a "serious" hookup LOL... Women on tinder are bullshit, full of crap...

[@99Pierogies]

@@kyronlee8927 they don't want hook ups from regular guys. They'll fuck a Chad no problem. It's just a filter to scare away low confidence guys

[@MrFrobbo]

Definitely a filter and a way to help them overcome cognitive dissonance, i.e they are told by their female peers, parents and society they mustn't display signs of sexual lust and will will slut shamed, so in my experience many use technique to combat what they really want, Mr Grey/Chad! From experience it doesn't matter a jot if they've written this nonsense, they will still sleep with you in 1-2 dates max, sad!

[@johngood7619]

@@kyronlee8927 Don't fall for it, I've met a few with "no hook ups" in their profiles and they turn out to be the ones ready to give it up after 1 or 2 dates. Tinder should not be taken so seriously especially for dating. The guys with the highest expectations will always be disappointed compared to those with leveled expectations

[@missbubblemaker26]

the guy i was super interested in, attracted to and matched with turned out to be married, he didn't even deny it. dating apps are so frustrating..

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Yep - guys think online dating is only frustrating for men... But women have plenty of crap they have to deal with too

[@Straga_Severa]

@@SchoolOfAttraction Well, men become interested with uncompatible partners either. Yes, women have a bucket of crap, but men have two or five buckets of the same crap. And it is a very easy fix for women - just stop swiping on those top 10% players and start liking normal, average profiles.

[@scottkizzia4622]

There is no accountability on Tinder. In the real world you have to deal with the consequences of your actions. Like you said, it is always better to meet someone in person, that way the playing field at least seems more level and natural.

[@gumpy896]

I just got rid of tinder. The only girls I met on there were nothing like their pics. I tried messaging girls that put their Snapchat on their Tinder profile. I had over twenty girls block me just from sending face pictures. Most of the time after being asked to send a pic. I had one girl after getting to know her for about a month that she was different. I asked her if it would be ok to send her a pic because we would be meeting soon and I wanted her to know what I looked like. She told me that if I had sent a pic before we had started talking that she would hav ignored me. Then told me that looks don't matter. How messed up is that?

[@sycamoretree2241]

Just take better pics

[@gumpy896]

@@sycamoretree2241 lol. Most girls on dating apps are just very shallow.

[@auzziemax]

Mind you I made a account for my bird and within 5 minutes she had 135/150 matches through gold tinder 🤣🤣🤣

[@ibrahemhakky1777]

haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

[@DynamicUnreal]

Tinder should use the ELO ranking system when it comes to matching users. Basically people should only be able to swipe left or right on people close to their attractiveness level.

[@AJ-zu3bk]

Bad business. Tinder would rather have the so-called desperate 80% of men pay up for "boosts" and "super likes" and their subscription "service" in hope of being validated by a Tinder THOT.

[@XHitsugaX]

it already uses the elo ranking system.

[@DynamicUnreal]

XHitsugaX Link?

[@janvonschreibe3447]

@@XHitsugaX I am average and some hot women appear often in my feed (but no match with these girls of course)

[@XHitsugaX]

@@janvonschreibe3447 thats just for the fact that woman population on tinder is smaller.

[@piperar2014]

It's necessary to understand what Tinder is for. Tinder IS for hookups and casual dating. It's not for serious dating or for finding a relationship. The wrong turn was when people started using it for dating instead of hooking up. People, usually women, who put "not here for a hookup" shouldn't be on Tinder at all.

[@ThornyRoseV]

Its called a dating app, not a hookup app. You are silly if you think only women are looking for relationships.

[@piperar2014]

@@ThornyRoseV What something is called isn't important, the important thing is what something IS. Changing the name doesn't change the nature. I get that Tinder users are looking for relationships. But using Tinder to find a relationship is like using a hammer to turn a screw. It's the wrong tool for the job. Swipe based apps are shallow and lazy. If people won't put in some effort writing a bio and messages, are they really going to put effort into a relationship? People looking for serious relationships should be using Zoosk or Match. Message-based sites require effort up front. If someone isn't willing to make that effort, how serious are they really?

[@Giogiogio4]

@@piperar2014 "Not for hook up" , " Looking for friends" Is a lie on tinder. Women say that shit in order to reject you later without issue. She will have like 5 "Friends" all trying to get to know her, develop feelings for her. She will pick one she lies or none. And then use the line " We were just friends" as a way to shuffle past it. Women all say "Not looking for a hookup" as a way to not like like sluts. Ive had dates who literally got mad at me for not fucking them on the first date and actually talk to her and get to know her. Her profile said " No sex on the first date. " So yeah they are full of shit. If they want you, they will just say it.

[@sethfreeman8095]

I'm not a bitter guy, I just gave up on trying dating apps as a whole. It's a terrible environment to find someone 🤔

[@craigfrober316]

Tinder just exacerbates innate human tendencies

[@rogueprogram99]

Thanks for this video bro, it’s a refreshing change from the “it’s all women’s fault”narrative. One thing that you didn’t cover is how tinder drives the rift further with their strategy to monetize.

[@azrael7922]

I payed $30 to see a bunch of pictures of women, thing that I can do for free on Google. Most ladies won't write a nice bio on their profile, making swiping based purely on looks. No matches in over 3 weeks. I rather talk to people in person. I would go to a bar, but I don't drink, and can't drink soda either cause of sugar and CO2 in it (kidney stones), and who goes to a bar to drink a $4 urine sample size glass of soda anyways?. :\ 2 of my 4 girlfriends I have met at the university, so I guess I'll go back to studying?......

[@materialhell]

I am a woman who stopped using dating apps because of the quality of men on there, and I only date men I meet IRL now. I never had a relationship with anyone I met on a dating app--just bad dates.

[@smegskull]

I don't have time to go out to these places to meet women. I'm too busy working to have enough money left for myself after taxes (taxes that go to single parents and the elderly... i.e women). So I'm too busy being leached off by women to go out and meet women.

[@danzo9528]

go to a shopping mall, street market, libarary, etc. then

[@sethfreeman8095]

This comment 🤣

[@Arkantosi]

"Women don't get to meet the nice guys". This statement is false. They do, It's just that they friend zone them because the nice guy doesn't give her the tingles like alpha Chad with a criminal record does. Then after she has been "used up" by all these top 20%ers she is 35, single and asks on forums: "where have all the good men gone?". Also, the older a woman gets, the higher standards she has so it just becomes harder and harder for her to settle down with a decent man.

[@CapAnson12345]

I've swiped on thousands of women, messaged hundreds.. only one semi-positive response.. a woman who messaged me a few times but we couldn't meet because of logistics. One out of thousands..

[@CapAnson12345]

@Gingerbread man Thousands. And you're probably right.

[@XHitsugaX]

@Gingerbread man average men matchrate is 1:125, you can go trough dozens of matches where no date happens. What do you expect. This is the life of average men. Ontop of that women shoehorn almost 70% of men into the average compartment.

[@rivahkillah]

Maybe you need to work on your conversation skills

[@AllPro777]

@Louise D.B. Of course you would. You're the lone unicorn that always shows up in comment sections, righting the wrongs of female behavior. Meanwhile, in reality...

[@andreh501]

@@AllPro777 lol facts

[@Jman21UK]

I was already pissed off with tinder but watching this video has pissed me off even more it's just so frustrating.

[@BasedGob]

Agree 100%, real life is so much better

[@AngryGeisha652]

This guy is so spot on with how women look at tindr it's scary, lol.

[@alexye0079]

Ive had 2500 matches since 2014 and ive only gone on a date with about 30 of em. Got laid with 15. 8 of them became my girlfriends. Now im single lol. Im quitting not just tinder but social media for good. All this technology and distraction are not meant be here, we need to go back to nature and primitive age and be more self-connected.

[@The1stHomosapien]

its not tinder its lack of space, nobody has their own home anymore.

[@brenth6723]

I would say 100 percent not to use internet dating any internet dating.. suck it up and find time to go out and meet women face to face.. especially if you average guy or below because this is the only way you'll get hot women .

[@Keith-sw6vl]

Women treat me like shit in person too.

[@andrejgelenberg6340]

Have some mixed feeling. On one hand, makes kinda sense, but women are sometimes very frustrating to deal with and sometimes they are not that socially calibrated either. One positive thing: one can work on oneself, get better. But also because it so much works, one gets really demanding and not ready to put up with all the bullshit, which might make one appear arrogant and narcissistic. As for myself, I will probably spend some of my time on trying to figure it out.

[@Zingrz]

Blaming Tinder is a cop out, I've used it on and off since near the beginning and women have always acted like this regardless of its algorithm. Because women generally have this attitude in real life (and other forms of social media)as well, tinder just highlights it plainly. Its a cultural issue that would not change even if you purged Tinder from every phone.

[@thepetevonde]

Really liked this video. Men often get surprised at how much more effective it is to meet girls - even for a one-night thing - by simply going out. Tinder definitely brings out the worst in men AND women. 100 per cent. Hm. Except it was super effective when travelling Eastern Europe..

[@CP-kq4eh]

Women complain they can't get a bf yet when given the opportunity they ghost the guy!

[@miamihurricane865]

Gentlemen, Get out and MEET women.............I'll briefly explain DESIRE. When I finished my MBA at a top University I was flown out and spent a weekend interviewing at a super pimped out top company. All weekend I nailed the interviews. I mean nailed it. Everything I did was perfect, my suits, my answers, my whole feng shui was perfect. Two weeks later I got a letter stating, "You are not what we are looking for." I was devastated, heartbroken, serious I went into depression..........Six months later the company called...... ENRON........ filed for bankruptcy for perpetrating the biggest corporate scam of all time...........Lesson learned don't ever think you are not the boss......YOU ARE THE BOSS, Always!

[@miamihurricane865]

P.S. for the younger Gents that don't know the "Enron" story just Wikipedia it ..........biggest energy fraud ever!

[@MrStifleras]

@@miamihurricane865 i for sure know Enron and i enjoyed your story. what i am getting from your experience is that "even if women reject you, don't feel bad because she might not be the best for you". i can relate to this because the only girl i ever dated was a batshit crazy feminist. it really feels like i dodged a bullet there. BUT i don't think men are the boss when it comes to dating. women are sexually attracted only to the very attractive men. i have seen it myself. i have asked women out from my college and i always get rejected. it's strictly about looks. i don't feel bad about it. life is like that some times. either way there are many things that will make you way happier than women.

[@Tariqali-bj5hm]

Where

[@LawrieAndCo]

I doubt you...............went to a top university........................with grammar..........LIKE THIS.

[@handsomeX]

I used Tinder for about a year when i was working on my purpose and didnt really have time to go out and meet women. It worked for me pretty well, but deleted the app once i created more time for myself. I much rather meeting women in person.

[@manasseh7]

it’s tinder i don’t understand why girls are on there NOT looking to hook up..LOL

[@carultch]

Tired of men only wanting them for sex. Literally has nothing else to offer.

[@jonathanlavis7447]

carultch that can go both ways

[@Roscoslayer]

Last girl I met on Tinder, was bipolar... RIP!

[@TheRealBlackspawn]

Bottom line: I have to become Batman.

[@Badboyifier]

"Its not who you are underneath but what you do that defines you"

[@shaggyalonso]

It is true, the last 2 girls I dated are flat out gorgeous, met them in person. Would we have matched on Tinder? Highly unlikely, I’m not good looking enough, yet I was more than good looking enough in person, they both pursued me, and I have no game whatsoever. The last one had over 1,200 likes. I don’t match girls anywhere near this attractive on tinder. A lot of guys come away from their experience of tinder with their self esteem at rock bottom as they’ve believed all their life that they’re reasonably attractive and yet can barely get a single match. Basically, tinder is causing men to underestimate their attractiveness and women to overestimate theirs. If you’re a guy on tinder, remember, an 8/10 guy has the same match rate as a 3/10 girl, that’s been confirmed. Don’t be so downhearted if your experience of tinder has been a negative one, it’s not reality and it is distorting your perception of it.

[@ramyarao4499]

The way you explained a woman's perspective was just spot on. What a well researched video tho.. I'm not even on Tinder btw LMAO

[@AkshayMargassery]

Lol. The tinder scene in india is so sick. Especially in my place, there's less than maybe 10 girls who use tinder and there are 1000 times more guys. I get one mach in a year but gets liked by some random dudes everyday tho. High time to move to somplace else.

[@auzziemax]

Dude I used to have 1500+ matches from a ridiculous 100km radius from London now I barely get 10 a week... Tinder has totally fucked it up.

[@Lonwolf.]

Guys......this dude just gave you the blueprint for tinder. Take some good photos from a local photographer cost you maybe 100 not much, lie about your career (this is very important) I design drill bits for a living so I have listed that I’m a manufacturing engineer IT WORKS! TRUST ME DADDY!! then list what you’re looking for from a women that way she’ll try and qualify herself. That easy

[@unclejesse4271]

Designing drill bits sounds kind of cool though.. Sad that you have to lie...

[@Lonwolf.]

Uncle Jesse I know smh.

[@clashattacks9683]

Nelson What if I’m an awkward human that finds it awkward to have to drive to a photoshop just because I need tinder photos

[@adyp5176]

lie about your career (this is very important) ignored.

[@quantumdecoherence1289]

Dudes, I'll break it down for you very simply: if you're not tall, forget it. All the other stuff discussed is a bonus to a woman.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Oh damn, you better notify the women I've dated that I'm only 5"8.... I don't think they gotthe memo

[@boardmike82]

Tinder. Falsely raising women's opinions of themselves.

[@istjmoneymaker]

I hate it when people say "just meet someone in person." It's not like dating apps and online dating is some alternate dimension. It's real access to real people. The competition does not simply go away. If you go up to someone on the street and get her number what does she really know about you? All the men on tinder that match are narcissistic men sigh of course that isn't true. Maybe as much as half, but certainly at least a few of the men at the top aren't.

[@davidtillwach5542]

Tinder is full of women who just want aka hookup .

[@AppleManiagaming]

For me it seems like every chick I meet up with is mentally unstable and just wants a boyfriend.

[@JulianBollerhoff]

Happy to see this video here. I m definetly one of the Top 10% in Tinder. It is not about bragging but i do have a lot of success there getting dates and all that. And still, i think tinder is really bad for dating and for my view of women. I got treated there like garbage on tinder. It was really shocking to me. Felt like a piece of meat, and it really was an empty feeling after each date.

[@Drizzly_Bear]

Wrong. All men ARE like that, AND all women ARE like that AS LONG AS THE SOCIAL CONDITIONS ALLOW IT. Men and women will always be as self-centered as conditions allow, and Tinder just so happens to allow the top 10-20% of men and the top 80% of women to behave without any consideration of others. And I love it, even though I’m not in the top 20% of men. Tinder allowed me to see how women HAVE ALWAYS WANTED to behave. It has been very liberating to be shown female nature, what women desire, and what to expect when they have no societal constraints; like when she divorces because she isn’t “happy”, and the courts hold her accountable for nothing like an entitled princess. Nope.

[@reasonablespeculation3893]

Women would rather share an attractive man with multiple other women, then have a committed relationship with an average guy... Happens in the animal kingdom all of the time...

[@gben82]

chris palmer yes! I couldn’t have said it better myself. Women (and men) have always been this way but the old traditionalist facade is finally crumbling away to reveal the ugly truth about human nature

[@reasonablespeculation3893]

If any complex civilization is to grow and prosper, natural animal instincts will need to be controlled, or redirected into more productive enterprise.... We are a half step from Chimps, but among as there is genius... Goals and self-control allow us to follow the path of genius.

[@TBPC30]

I pretty much agree with every comment that was posted here. The best comments in this entire video.

[@UnlimitedProduction1]

My experience with tinder: no matches. I didn't realize I was that bad looking. Deleted it and my dating life is far better especially as pandemic restrictions are being removed (especially here in Texas)

[@MB84774]

I am currently going through divorce and just for laughs I decided to check out a few dating sites and apps. What I have found is there are single women in their late 20's and early 30's with kids whose expectations are outrageous. For example 90% of these women expect that the man be 6 foot tall or more, income over 45k, never married, no kids or that their kids not live with them, expect that he is left wing politically, and that he put her and her kids above all else. I am sorry but these are unrealistic Disney princess standards. This is partly why men are distrustful of women. Oh and meeting women in a bar, that's a mess of it's own. In my early 20's the kinds of women I typically met in a bar were either A) seeking a guy to pay for their drinks or B) seeking a quick hookup for the night. A man is more likely these days to find a more quality woman in his place of employment (can end badly if the woman was falsely presenting herself). But there are signs to watch out for in women period, just as there are signs women should be wary of in men. Internet dating, Disney, bad parenting, and feminism have played equal roles in creating a toxic dating scene for men and women. Disney for portraying relationships as wonderful and without struggles, bad parenting for instilling narcissistic traits in people, internet dating for exploiting the lonely for profit, and feminism for painting men in a terrible light using the .1% of terrible men as the standard of all men. We currently live in times where misinformation makes up about 55-65% of the information we receive. And dating advice is perhaps the worst offender as far as misinformation, 80-90% of it is simply bad. Women should never receive advice on men from other women and men should never take advice on women from either men or women (as in all likelihood the man or woman they are taking advice from has an ulterior motive, i.e. woman has crush on man or man has crush on woman man is trying to ask out).

[@blueblaze9862]

Ok, but what is the correlation between a woman being in her late 20s/early 30s with kids and her having the standards you listed?

[@MB84774]

@@blueblaze9862 if you had read what I posted you would have found that my opinion on the ridiculously high standards women have do not come from age or having kids. But, in my opinion, have come from Disney, bad parenting (parents referring to their daughters as "princess"), magazine articles (often written by bitter lonely women), and feminist indoctrination. Basically what I am saying is through these sources women are told that they deserve nothing short of a deity and that men are not allowed to have standards, which is quite the double standard from where I see it.

[@MrSit87]

Women would rather be on spot number 23 of the booty call list of an alpha male, then have a loving relationship with an average guy.

[@Viper54K]

So from my own experience, I have a MUCH easier time with women in person. Its actually incredible. Ive suspected its less to do with looks and more to do with periphery values, like posture, mannerisms, etc. Based on how many matches i get on tinder, im somewhere in the 8/10 range - enough to get matches but honestly, I only get a fraction of the girls that I do IRL...now if only I could meet girls when I'm at work (in a datacenter). Cant do that without Tinder.

[@mountainman6172]

The last place you want to have an intimate relationship is at the workplace. I am being genuine. As cliche as it may sound, I would not recommend mixing pleasure and professionalism. It never ends well. Having said that, It is one of those things you have to experience it to realise it.

[@melamyfashion8953]

It is not just Tinder. I would say this is applicable to the majority of online dating sites. It is disheartening when you find even the "average" guys are doing the same thing.

[@Fre3flyOfficial]

I totally agree with everything that he says in this video

[@evalemmen3846]

Tinder ain’t only for women looking for men and the other way around, it’s an app with options for the whole lgbtq+ community

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

This is true - But I have no experience using the non-cis side of Tinder so didn't report on it

[@Longlostpuss]

If what you are saying is true, women would not waste their time on Tinder at all, because they would long since have learned over time what calibre of guys you're going to get on there. The fact is, Tinder is an online meat market, pure and simple. It's interesting you mentioning that the guys who go on there already have relationships, well I'd surmise the same can be said of women, if not worse on their part. Women get sex a lot easier than men, so my guess is the chances of a relationship is a lot higher on their side, probably stringing multiple guys along. Everyone knows Tinder is a hook up app, it's not for serious dating. It's a cesspit for debauchery, for people to cheat on their partners, or get others ready to line up before dumping. I don't think the app itself is to blame, it's the way society chooses to use it. Women also have cognitive dissonance when it comes to dating men, they will hook up with these guys knowing full well they are likely to be dumped anyway and you assume they go into this naively - they do not. Women are racking up body counts and its customary for them to suddenly want to settle down with a good guy when they are hitting the wall. As long as they are young, they like bad boy dick, it's a simple as that, their moans about no good guys is an utter farce. They aid and abet or gamble passing them up when they're younger and feel they're above them. There is no solution to this problem, because women do not want to solve it. Until they grow up, mature and keep their legs shut only for guys they can build a future with, this cycle is going to be on a never ending continuum, which means misery for everyone.

[@patnor7354]

The solution is a return to patriarchy. Gynocentric societies are not stable and cannot last. Which is what we are now seeing with the end of western civilization and its replacement by a caliphate. Thanks women. Enjoy your new freedom walking around under black tents as mere property.

[@arande3]

I think you hit the nail on the head. Personally it's always been my experience that it's easier to meet quality people in person for a variety of reasons, the biggest one being able to craft a profile that doesn't match your real self.

[@arande3]

... which leads to inability to meet the correct person because you can't accurately tell who someone is.

[@bigyikes3733]

This is a good video, but both the major flaw (as well as the reason why YT hasn't taken it down as "hate speech" yet, I guess) is that it implies that there is no particular gender to blame. In truth, however, it is women who consider the majority of men to be unattractive and compete only for a tiny minority of extraordinarily good looking men. The rest, well, here is the second problem with the video's conclusion (approaching IRL) ... all the men who do NOT belong to this top 5% of attractive male modes are always under threat of being accused of harassment and rape. Women use this Orwellian atmosphere of permanent harassment and rape accusations to keep non-attractive men away from them.

[@bigyikes3733]

@Louise D.B. As a woman, you should stay out of this conversation. Just fuck off with your lies and your BS.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Shouldn't we WANT more women here on this debate? There are so many men who want to blame women for being defective - It's like you haven't noticed how much crap men throw at women and have thrown at women for most of modern history - Totally, women aren't perfect in society, but the guys have a crazy amount to answer for too so it's a bit short sighted to just sit on an armchair and vilify women like we aren't a big part of the problem as well.

[@bigyikes3733]

@@SchoolOfAttraction Wow, you've watched this new Gillette ad a few times too often.

[@koumorichinpo4326]

tinder straight up does not work for men unless they are handsome/rich, unless you put yourself through many weeks of self esteem shattering bullshit, but all that to eventually get one date isnt worth it, i admit its made me jaded toward women

[@SamO4rmWestHtwn]

Tinder sucks in certain places. I was in Korea last year and was on a date every weekend. I met all kinds of women and had fun dates. Only problem was with my wallet

[@the_letter_b]

Tinder was great the first few years. Now, if you don't have Gold and aren't using boosts, you will barely get any matches since so few women will see your profile and women get such a high percent of matches including with the best looking men on the app despite their own appearance (to an extent) that they swipe right on a very low percentage of men. Superlikes are mostly useless, it makes the person using them seem way too desperate and/or too into someone, which scares many women away. They should have replaced them with something else long ago (basically a superlike without branding it as such and allowing the person using it to send a text with that special like).

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Well it has become a LOT more competitive, you really have to work on your photos, and your profile and your first messages or you'll get lost in the mix

[@mellowbirddreamer77]

I just deleted Tender. Since so soooo many men are single I guess I'll start approaching them myself without fear they're taken. I'm excited to try this. Going out to a rock cafe tomorrow night to meet a guy who likes guitar and hammocks on the beach as much as I do.

[@mikeyloveshousemusic]

What about Piña Colada's?

[@mellowbirddreamer77]

@@mikeyloveshousemusic Never drink one before but I am willing to try.

[@mikeyloveshousemusic]

​@@mellowbirddreamer77 and getting caught in the rain If you´re not into yoga, if you have half a brain If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape I´m the love that you´ve looked for, write to me, and escape

[@mellowbirddreamer77]

@@mikeyloveshousemusic omg you're so cheesy. 🤗 That's cute 🤣 you tricked me

[@mikeyloveshousemusic]

@@mellowbirddreamer77 I'll be honest with you, that song make me weep every time. Thinking of the women I have lost and the trust that is gone between the sexes.

[@undefeatedwrestler8301]

How tinder ruins dating for the rest of us is when you try to warm approach or cold approach a woman you get rejected because someone on tinder beat you to the punch.

[@caperjim]

You have society telling woman since birth that they deserve the best, are beautiful and not be accountable for bad decisions.. Yet society tells boys you should be ashamed for being male and the more female you become the better. Honor and respect woman while accepting abusive female behavior as normal.

[@dimensiondoor2738]

It's mens fault. Most of us grew up with fathers who cheated with other women. Most of us grew up watching TV and seeing men calling woman utmost beautiful and running after them with flowers and trying to get them as if they are the most precious prize out there. The more men cheat and have sex outside marriage, the worse the feminism will get.

[@Mihail_psycholog]

I totally agree, the attractivness of women I could meet offline is far better. But it takes soooooo much time, especially if you're looking for long-term relationships. I mean if you approach girl on the street she could look beautiful but she could smoke or drink too much. For me personally it's not a good girlfriend material. In dating apps you have brief outline of personality and wouldn't waste your time but it seems like majority of good girls don't use them. And clubs and bars are not the great places to find "good girls" either. Sometimes you could find a really great ones near universities And if you or any other subscibers know some other places or ways, I would be greatful to hear them.