Why TWIN FLAMES don't matter

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Have you met your twin flame? Or are you searching for your twin flame? I'll need to burst your bubble and tell you why I think twin flames don't matter. After watching this video let me know how YOU feel about twin flames by commenting below your opinions. I'd love to know how you feel about the topic of twin flames!
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[@TanAstrology]

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[@ericac3251]

Finally! Why aren’t there more videos with this honest, down to earth, realistic, healthy mental encouragement? Enough with the labels and the desperate search for another. You are more than enough as an individual. 🙏🏾🕊❤️

[@TanAstrology]

Yassss 🔥🔥🔥

[@jeremie9245]

Thé World is dual, and it will Never change. So unfortunatly you are not enough alone

[@Lorianne-1111]

I got caught up in it a few years ago at the start of my awakening. Of course it was a soulmate to love and learn lessons from but it felt very ‘twin’ like according to all the info. It’s very easy to become lovestruck and rose tinted when you first start to see there’s more to life than what we’ve been told. I genuinely believe these labels cause more harm, in some cases people hanging on and obsessing over someone who they should be letting go of to focus on themselves.

[@Cosmictraveler71]

Twin flame relationship is not easy and all happy. It is a relationship that will force you to do your shadow work! It's painful and will cause you to question if it's even worth it

[@Thelittleclipstore]

Thank you for this neutral way of speaking about this, I don’t think one can have a strong opinion on this topic if they themselves haven’t experienced it but yet I like how ur bringing out this point that we shouldn’t obsess about finding our twin flame and either way need to focus on ourselves .. I myself belive I am in a twinflame relationship but I haven’t looked for it or knew about it when we meet. It just happened. And I think it is very rare since I haven’t met anyone in person that seems to understand to what I’m going through and how magical and crazy this ride it. And I feel bad for all those ppl staying or chasing toxic relationships and thinking it’s their twin. Ur twin flame will never make u into a weaker more broken human in the long run.. after every few months I’m like wow , this is insane how much we grew through this and we smile at eachothers, like a mother that just went through labor and sees her baby. The painful periods are super short and we always get much stronger and healthier after each difficult time. And talk through it , and main feeling for the pain is due to simple miscommunication and often it’s through text and being apart is soo hard. It’s like gods magical way of making me grow in the best way possible through love and just the right amount of pain within the love.

[@Thelittleclipstore]

But in the beginning of the journey to outsiders it may look a bit bad or toxic since my twinflame didn’t respond to my texts consistently and he seemed unsure if he’d wanna live with me. But whenver we did talk or meet it’s this feeling of undeniable love and he’s fully there, and the feeling of being seen and loved is intense . And as time goes on . He keeps going back n time and telling me. Oh my I never realized what I was feeling or oh my I was acting so cold to u sometimes and etc. it’s this slow procces of growth and recognition. I was in a abusive relationship before so I sometimes compare and one of the stuff I noticed was. My twin flame is super honest he’ simply wasn’t so self aware. But if he doesn’t feel something he will tell me, if he doesn’t have time for me he will openly say I don’t have time for u. But behind his words I always feel love and I don’t doubt his love for me and he knows the same. Vs my ex which was abusive would keep telling me he loves me but I never actually felt it, there was lots of lying and he wanted to seem nice on outside .. here on the outside at first it may not have looked so nice but there was honesty and real feelings. But thanks goodness we’re passed that stage and we talk frequent now and there’s rarely painful times.. but at first it is not a smooth ride vs a soul mate can be more smooth. And I did need to put some boundaries, Twin flames at first is rough but as years pass by it ends up even easier then soul mate since there’s a very deep mutual understanding. More then with anyone else and it’s well worth it. But would I choose this or search for this? I can’t say yes , but now that I’m upto here already I feel blessed.

[@SnowCityTarot]

I love the video Tan, thank you. To people who are vulnerable to it, the idea of someone coming in to give their life a higher meaning is a very tempting day dream. This is just my opinion, if someone is truly whole they don't need to convince themselves or anyone that they're in a twin flame relationship or seek out help on how to get into union. They are focused on improving the world with or without a partner.

[@mesaana1112]

I my experience the twin flame is NOT your ideal ultimate love. It's a catalyst for becoming your best seft.

[@llellabell8669]

I can imagine the unhealthy danger when people come across this subject and try to somehow pursue this. But a twinflame connection finds you - not the other way around. And it is not something you want actually from a 3D perspective because it ignites all your subconscious unresolved karmic issues and sets your world on fire and upside down. When it happens to you you cannot stay neutral or then it isn’t a thing to believe in or not. It’s an experience you go through. And it has nothing to do with romance actually. But indeed this concept can create division in the egoïc world where twin flames would be the only ones capable for this epic love relationship while others not. The danger with this concept is that people now project the perfect relationship onto it and also associate it with the ultimate goal of love - a heavenly state of fusion of hearts. Well as you Tan well put it we are still here in these physical vessels and the reality of a twinflame connection is anything what you think it is. It brings havoc and all your inner pain to the surface. The connection functions as a catalyst - it’s a sort of means to heal yourself from built up karma. But it’s not this fairytale and really not something people should start pursuing because it doesn’t work that way. As hard as it is if you’re in the connection it’s somehow very important to stay realistic and this is exactly one of the many lessons I have learned and still learning on this journey. Thank you Tan for your contribution.

[@patientlips]

Perfectly said. The Twin Flame connection, and concept!, finds us not the contrary.

[@justinw1765]

Based on experience, I would have to agree.

[@Divinely222]

There way too many people taking your last points you said for love and pushing other people accept it. I’ve always watched and liked relationships that were actually filled with happiness and having a sense of dignity. Life already has natural challenges. It’s important to make the best of it.

[@JeffClark76]

I like your description of some relationships as “epic love” regardless of whether someone is your twin flame or not. And great point about not staying in abusive relationships no matter what.

[@yodab.at1746]

It does seem that alot of TF stuff just legitimises toxic obsession in desperate people. It's also a way of content producers playing on the needs of lonely people. If one is to buy into the concept of TF, then this physical plane is for the learning of both parts of the soul to learn different lessons and consolidate those lessons learnt separately when back in a higher plane. We are here to learn from diversity of experience. Sometimes, to really love, we have to let go of the person for them to fulfill their own life and love somebody else. Booyakasha...... 💥

[@kcsnipes]

Boom ! But why is this a boom statement?! I like hearing it but how can I learn what you just typed? I’m curious to learn more

[@yodab.at1746]

@@kcsnipes it's just an expression of inspiration and happiness.... my young Jedi.

[@TanAstrology]

Love that Yoda 🔥

[@dawg9596]

@@TanAstrology what placement make poeple camp in my wood

[@dawg9596]

@@TanAstrology For God Sake Reply I'm burning

[@JupiterRising3607]

This was such an important video. I'm so glad you did this video & didn't try to sugarcoat the reality of it. Especially for those who may be staying in a highly toxic & abusive relationship - just because they believe that the partner is their so-called 'twin flame'. Quite possibly fearing that if they left, they'd never get another 'twin flame'. I think it's a term that's far too overrated & can be in some instances, more harmful than helpful imho. Thank you Tan for taking the time to share your thoughts on this for us here. 🙏💞🌏🕉

[@vee127]

I couldn't look away as you were speaking.. you're practically glowing! ✨ I'm grateful for your insight, thank you for sharing your wisdom with us again💕

[@rundbaum]

simply reminds me of what love is. thank you!!! that thing is so precious, once you find it--it can be like a drop in the bucket but it's real. abstractions & our astrological applications do not always have to be a 'go to' when it's 'love' . . .

[@TanAstrology]

It is as simple as ....love 💜

[@rundbaum]

@@TanAstrology my grammer was "off!!' i didn't mean 'remind me what love is.' but it is sad there are sometimes people who say they've never felt it--usually disadvantaged males. i've experienced love MANY times, just wish i could experience it more . .

[@oliviaobrien5499]

Thank you for sharing, really enjoyed your take on this 🙏

[@TanAstrology]

Welcome!!

[@spice.m]

First!

[@Hi-cu3jw]

not everyone is meant to have a twin flame this life time, destiny and fate is a factor. If u have a twin flame, there is an insane amount of synchronicities manifesting in the 3D, that makes it undeniably so - it’s like magic. of course pop culture has turned this concept, and now everyone believes they have a twin flame - which is not the case. the reason destiny and fate is a factor because twin flame is a mirror that causes INTENSE transformation at an accelerated period of time. three weeks with a twin flame js worth more than 20 years of therapy or spiritual work. Not everyone is meant to do that type of inner work in this life time.

[@kcsnipes]

Why is not everyone meant to meet a twin and do inner work, I should think that’s the best way to go about healing ? I’m willing to learn tho so how does it work that people’s fates are decided as what a person is meant to do in this lifetime ?

[@Hi-cu3jw]

@@kcsnipes I don’t know. meeting a real twin is basically meeting urself, so no matter how “healed” we think we are, when we meet our mirror soul they will reflect our energy and all our trauma and wounding. u will trigger the hell out of each other. some people are not meant to meet their mirror souls in this lifetime. it depends on the journey they signed up for.

[@Hi-cu3jw]

@@kcsnipes U can still heal and do inner work. everyone can do that. but it depends on how much karma u have. If u have an immense amount of karma to burn in one life time, then twin flame journey might be necessary, because it’s incredibly intense.

[@Lorianne-1111]

I met who I thought was my ‘twin’ on 11/11/16 (I didn’t know anything about twin flames at the time, I wasn’t even remotely spiritual then.) we then re-met in feb 2019, (he was with someone else by this point, which seems to be a critical factor for ‘twins’). We had tons of number synchronicities to the point of thinking we were going insane, realised we had the same favourites in many things, like movies/music, same initials, our birthdates add up to the opposite life paths of the other, (I’m a 1, he’s a 9), theres too many synchronicities to write down. I then went through a kundalini awakening on 29/5/19, after seeing 333 all day. (I realised a few days later it was actually jesus’ ascension day that it happened..again I wasn’t spiritual or religious, so had no clue prior to that). I even saw Jesus and the eye of Thoth flash in front of me during meditation during that time. I’m convinced he was a big catalyst for my awakening. We learned a lot from eachother, we grew a HUGE amount, went through many many transformations and deep shadow work. Once I started reading birthcharts I realised we have (ascendant conjunct ascendant, so all our houses line up), we have vertex conjunct vertex, many many aspects including venus conjunct south node, sun trine moon double whammy making a grand trine etc. But eventually...it burnt out. The lessons have been learnt. The love is there, and always will be, but it started to feel constricting, like I was being held back. I knew it was time to let it go. I believe even with a whole myriad of things adding up, he’s still just a very close soulmate, not my twin flame. (If I even have one, which I’m not concerned about). I’m (or I was) carrying a whole stack of karma...he definitely helped me to release a lot at an accelerated rate. I think soulmates can help trigger awakenings and karmic release too. (If it was contracted).

[@Don.Dodo.]

Hi Tan! I just wanted to point out that your videos have a some white noise. It's easy to reduce it in most audio software and it increases audio quality. I do enjoy your videos though :)

[@banana19934]

I went through this in 2018. It was different, we both had a premonition of meeting, ringing in ears around eachother and just strange occurrences and an all consuming feeling that lasted as long as we were around eachother. After I moved away that feeling stayed with me and coloured a few relationships with a rose tint that wore off. I will never forget the experience but it feels like it set me up for a new healthy chapter where I could see relationships and dynamics more clearly and I no longer long for that "ultimate feeling", now I want peace and harmony. I have neptune and uranus harshly aspecting my venus from the ascendant so I was already prone to falling in these types of encounters, but this one was different and made me search for answers. It's amazing that the info was there when I needed it but alot of it is toxic and misleading, so I really appreciate your take on the subject!

[@CrystalMoon888]

I absolutely agree with this. 2 whole people. 💕

[@Amethystvein_theeternalflame]

AWGREEEEHHH

[@lasa5006]

Twin flane community is aware that if ur twin is abusive, that means they are not ur twin flane, ur twin flame will not abuse u mentally, physicallu and emotionally

[@azcactusflower1]

What you will read and gather online, the majority of context is written similarly to a soulmate and not a twin flame context. I was with a soulmate for 19 years; felt like home, reciprocation, emotions and validation. Twin flame is none of those things and is not a mission (that is pop culture spiritual lingo). The soul "decides" when you're ready, a Twin flame is "you," while soulmate is a different resonate soul. Your mind doesn't choose a twin flame like you would with a soulmate. Challenge to put into words here. It is NOT an outward journey because the soul resides within. IF you focus outward, the other self will focus on anything but you; a reverse mirror. It's energetic. Polarized monad inhabiting two bodies. The true spiritual journey to Self. You have no choice but go within. The knowing (not the mind) energy is always there within (you feel together already because you are). Honestly, energetically the hardest thing I've done in my life. Pulls you completely out of any concepts of a conditioned and programmed life. I don't see the world the same. If your other self shows up physically in your life, it's a byproduct of going within. You HAVE a mind, you HAVE a body, you ARE a soul in a space suit

[@krasen.dimkow]

Thank you

[@erikabuzarquis518]

I recently meet my twin flame was terrific

[@kcsnipes]

Please say more I love hearing these stories, make a video, I’ll watch

[@erikabuzarquis518]

Yeah okay I meet this guy in a party 5-12 he was trying to leave her relationship from 6 years very toxic relationship so 25-12 they broke up and I broke up with my ex in New Years 31-12 so the 1-1-2022 we start having intimacy was like very passionate and crazy deeply in love I never fall in love like this before and he is very hermetic he couldn’t open his heart for a pass trauma he had but with me he couldn’t understand why he was so romantic… and frágil. We both compete in athletics I used to be acrobatics in circus and teacher he is a professional soccer player and also he teach so we both love athletics he is 10 years younger so I sabotage the relationship working a lot amd he sabotage it too in the same way we both was very scared and vulnerable because we didn’t know how to manage the situation he decide to come back with her toxic ex (that show up with a divorce )he want it to show her his new self with an open heart like he did with me he felt like he owe her that chance …I think I open his heart chakra or something but she didn’t want to come back but she didn’t sing the divorce papers either .so when he leave me as an option he break my heart in the sense I never experienced before was so painful we both ended in a karmic relationship where the ego played a huge roll now we meet and we didn’t feel nothing we have a wall between each other I come back to my job that he hates so much I’m a stripper and I learn a lot we can’t stop talking each other and want the best for both of us and every time we are close we feel like home and unconditional love but is a wall in the intimacy twin flame is not always a sweet story twin flame shows you the worst of yourself in the other person and make you suffer to learn was so funny because we had the same injuries in our leg and knee same leg same knee and we both walk the same way with the shoulders up we have so many similarities we look like family but he is tall and blond from England and I’m tiny short person from argentina sometimes I feel like he is like the person I want it from the rest of my life and sometimes I feel like he is my son is hard to explain

[@erikabuzarquis518]

He was not a spiritual person at that time until he start suffer so many injuries he can’t sleep he don’t eat well he is depressed because he can’t decide what to do if come back with her or stay with me so I show him a spiritual way to over come all this bad situation now I feel like I fix him He is very spiritual now he now but he still trap in his toxic relationship where a mind games playing a big place and I don’t want to be part of it he back a forward between me and her and I decide to be his friend until he resolve his life but I understand we have two different directions in life we have exactly opposite nodes of you know what is that in our chart) sometimes I realize I only come to his life to brake his path of toxicity in relationships and I show him a new way to love I never experienced a love like this was very short was only one month or two but feels like it was 15 minutes but we experienced so much storm we both start loosing everything like very tragic things occurred so we decide to walk apart this relationship show us a lot of bad and good in the most painful and deeply ways . Is like open your heart to get broken it shows you your deepest fears with also strong bonds is very very scary for me we was meant to be separate ways

[@erikabuzarquis518]

Is very painful to see your other self so sad I think they might come back together soon and have a really beautiful relationship now after me because this connection show him that love is possible with out be so possessive and over control in other person I’m a free bird I like freedom and he suffer if he can’t be possessive so I open his mind and his heart only good knows why this was meant to be this way I only wish the best for both of us and maybe in the future or in the next life we have a second chance .

[@jadiersmith7273]

i think i found my love and im only 18 you are just helping me in so many ways and i realte to you

[@somnom6330]

Unfortunately a lot of people are not twin flames, but they label themselves being twins. I have found my twin, and I can say there is a major difference from an ordinary connection with a soul mate. There are a lot of miracles that are happening around. If no miracles are happening. It's not a twin flame connection. People are just fulling themselves.

[@blobofconsciousness]

Accurate I've been astrally abused if that can even begin to explain my situation. Definitely plutonic/neptunian..Not the real world. Now due to too much contemplation and astral existence my physical body is feel withered. If you are reading this and experience this. Know that no real love will have you thinking and dreaming about it. it'll hold your hand and soothe you in physical (except when it is coming from an non living entity like ancestors or spirit guides) waste no more time wondering!

[@mauricioquintero4657]

4 real.

[@TheSzutekina]

Yeah yeah now Tell me how can i stop having visions about him? And when I don’t care anymore how can I stop the dream about that we standing in front of God and he asking me I truly want to let my TF hands go?😂

[@dawg9596]

Hiiiiii

[@jeremie9245]

Twin flame are thé most traumatic concept ever. But i believe in it, it s Logic for me. 2 tits for 2 babies. Simple and efficace. All is dual, it make no sensé that a girl do only one child and no Twins. This Twins are just thé perfect counterpart it s logical that they want procreate. It s not about long last Time love relationshi p

[@colchis.]

I met my twin flame when I was 6 years old. Now I'm 17.

[@dawg9596]

Can I get a pizza over here