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[@thefreylife]

This is such a tricky time, for so many reasons. Sending you guys our love, to wherever you’re watching from!

[@harlemcinderella4225]

Watching from NYC❤

[@PinkHawk191]

Watching from Maryland!

[@amaza888]

Thank you. Thank you for giving me the words to explain to people what I'm experiencing. I'm gonna have to say not to things for longer than most people. It's as simple as that. Much love! 💕

[@thefreylife]

@@harlemcinderella4225 Thanks for joining us! :)

[@thefreylife]

@@PinkHawk191 Yay!

[@amandagray9871]

I love that look Ollie gets when he’s trying really hard to listen and understand what you are saying to him. Cutest look EVER.

[@thefreylife]

Amanda I love that look from Ollie too! :)

[@rheagalarneau1366]

I agree with you about having to say "No" more often. I have so many issues and I have been having some of these same thoughts. It's all gray for me, too.

[@thefreylife]

Rhea Galarneau I hope you are comforted knowing you're not alone in this, keep on pressing on one day at a time!

[@PinkHawk191]

I have been told by my medical team to stay in isolation due to my asthma and congenital heart defects because of the risks of the virus. My cousin who I call my older brother stopped by with my two nephews which really helped to lift my spirits today since it’s been hard to be away from my my family, day program, boyfriend, my friends, and my synagogue community.

[@phoenixtears25]

I’m so happy you had a wonderful visit!!!!!!!! It’s hard, but you matter. You are so important

[@patriciaroy5013]

It is scary places slowly reopening especially where I live. We have the highest numbers in all of Canada. We have to wear a mask when going in public but a lot of people aren't doing this. As a person with health issues it worries me. But I realize we must reopen because this virus will be around for a while. I just hope more people will follow the basics to protect themselves and others. Wearing a mask, washing hands often, 6 feet apart isn't a lot to ask for to get things going again. Have a blessed day😊.

[@ItsAMbutyoutubechangedmyname]

Same where I live that don't wear masks and seam to think 6ft apart is to much uhhhh

[@doreenwhitehead4224]

I too am concernerned that people do not wear a face covering but Mr Legault has not made it mandatory. We shall see!

[@zickkea]

Quebec has it super rough. I really hope you all get out of the thick of it soon. i'm in On, and seeing 85% of all current cases in Canada are located in Qc is heartbreaking for you guys. Sending love your way!

[@babiesbytheshore7816]

Re-opening is a scary venture since we have been sheltered inside for so long. What makes me most nervous is that I do what I need to be safe...it's the other people who feel comfortable going out without masks/gloves or use proper distance that make it scary.

[@kathygirlygirl4109]

To help you understand what is really going on, go watch X22Report. This guy really helps us understand the truth and the reason not to fear anymore. Just being careful and if you feel better using a mask now, do it and wash your hands. Hope this helps you. Be well!

[@vernellwindon1886]

@Babies By the Shore : I agree 💯💯

[@sxcredjones4034]

When I say the word love to you guys I really mean it like you inspired me in so many ways and love is a power full word

[@melodyhumphrey7373]

I will be isolating for longer as well, with my underlying conditions... It's scary that people are not wearing masks etc... I don't feel safe when I do need to go out in public, but I just wear my mask and wash my hands and hope that no one gets me sick.

[@soulmaid952]

Creative Crystal That's sad, they don't wear masks. Here in Germany it's compulsory in stores and public transport by law. And people (maybe because of the German stereotype of sticking to rules very precisely) really do wear them. I'd say 99%. But weirdly anywhere it's not compulaory yet, e.g. long distance trains, they don't. Because it's not an official rule. Oh well. But I guess it's compulsory there now too. Since it only works with rules.

[@janicemichaloski3319]

Harry is such a Mama's boy so funny he sits on you while you do vest 💕

[@apohlson1]

I love Peters face when he talks about his grass growing. It’s always the small things in life that make us happy.

[@fennekin0023]

Stay healthy and safe! I need to be in doors more due to my asthma ect. I it’s sad how a lot of people around me don’t understand it and just seem to judge me or don’t understand boundaries at the moment.. I even get questioned why I wear masks and how it won’t help me... 🤦🏼‍♀️ it’s like I need to make pamphlets for people maybe then they will understand

[@thefreylife]

fennekin02 -Bri keep on pressing on friend, doing what's best for your body! & know you're not alone in this :)

[@Nelle4ever]

I'm really concerned about people throwing the word "hypochondriac" around right now. It's like, no, I'm not a hypochondriac if I'm sick. Or if I wasn't and wanted to be careful or try to protect other, that would be okay too.

[@fennekin0023]

The Frey Life thank you 💜☺️

[@thechronicillnessdiaries2773]

Yes!!! I am facing the same problem! I have cancer and many other serious health issues. I have always masked up during flu season...but now I find friends and people in public being real jerks about this. They seem to think that masks are "over the top" now...but they never were before. It is a very hard thing to deal with.

[@suzannehaynes824]

fennekin02 -Bri understand that I have asthma too ,I was getting looks way before the virus but hey better safe than sorry

[@bluesoldierette]

When you said “hey sweets” reminded me of how my gramma used to call my papa that too :) happy memories.

[@thefreylife]

Amanda Rae awe!

[@kaylabarnes]

I'm in the same boat about saying no longer.

[@thefreylife]

Kayla it's comforting to know we aren't alone in this :)

[@whitec1981]

Kayla Barnes me too 💕

[@clemmons9501]

I'm feeling the EXACT same way about this reopening situation!!! My circumstances are a bit different than y'alls, however it doesn't make it easier 😢😢😢😢 Much Love from FL 💖💞💖💞💖💞💖💞💖💞💖💞💖💞

[@thefreylife]

clemmons9501 keep on pressing on friend!

[@clemmons9501]

@@thefreylife Thank You Both for all your Encouragement!!!💖💞💖💞

[@stephenfleming7918]

I know where you folks are coming from. Even though upstate New York is starting to open up here I’m hesitant to take the first steps myself. My immune system is compromised from meds I take and I sort of have firsthand knowledge of COVID-19 since my youngest daughter has it. Good luck to you guys as North Carolina begins to open up. This morning I read that the Outer Banks is opening up today to tourists

[@thefreylife]

Stephen so sorry to hear your daughter has it, we hope she's feeling better and recovering quickly!

[@stephenfleming7918]

The Frey Life Thanks Folks, She seems to be getting better every day. We can’t see her but she’s getting angry with us calling her and texting her all day long. A real good sign. You guys take care of each other as you always do.

[@robFFFtrumpet]

Hey guys, Zebulon resident here. Thanks for your videos. I haven’t seen many videos from NC about CF but I’ve known patients. I hate it that people are suing Gov Cooper to reopen sooner. They just don’t get it

[@annettepurtle3757]

I also feed them to my 2 big fur babies, they just love them! And your back yard is looking great 👍🏼👏🏻😀

[@thefreylife]

Annette thank you! We're so excited to see all the grass growing :)

[@Joyce-dd3fm]

Beautiful couple inside and out! The grass looks great. Harry is so cute!

[@thefreylife]

Thanks Joyce! :)

[@emilyrussell8997]

Yes! Here for all the musicals

[@thefreylife]

Emily Yay! So glad you're enjoying it :)

[@lizdowning6134]

The year ahead is definitely going to be scary. I know being so high risk I have delayed so many health appointments but I won’t be able to do that forever; tests need doing; treatments performed. But you get scared going into medical facilities. It’s hard to calculate the risks v having setbacks. Let alone the idea of even going into regular places

[@kimbo500]

Liz Downing, I totally get what you're saying, and can relate 100%. My last face to face appt, was the first week of February. All others have been telephonic since then, but I am overdo for tests/treatments too. When a COVID 19 vaccine is developed, my medical team may decide that I should not receive one (due to my history of significant reactions in the past). To take the chance....potential trauma and hospitalization, vs staying at home during outbreaks....we'll see. If my likelihood of a vaccine / reaction/ response being worse than the alternative (staying home), that presents us with something that certainly needs to be discussed. The PCV 13 pneumonia vaccine, was downright awful for me, I certainly don't want to experience something like that again. Where's my crystal ball ?!?! 🤗

[@auchenshugglegranny]

I'm in Scotland and have no plans to move for the next year, just had to get it straight in my head, now I've came to terms with it very accepting of it, just miss my kids and grankids

[@JillyGWiz]

Things are hard in this world today. There is so much uncertainty, fear and questions and it seems no one can really give answers. Who do you trust today for answers? The same One that you could yesterday, today and forever....the Lord. I truly miss your, "Living with hope" podcasts, Peter. You have a special way of explaining things that are more understandable. I hope to see you getting back to them in the not so far future.

[@thefreylife]

Jill thank you for the good reminders and support!

[@sophieleanna9391]

I am relating so much to what Peter is saying. I have a chronic illness, our state has already started opening back up this week. Friends are putting pics of themselves on FB eating at restaurants, and getting haircuts. Family members went on vacation to the beach and they all looked so happy. I’m not sure when I’ll feel like it’s safe for me to do these things; but seeing others out is definitely making it hard. I’ve leaned toward the side that believes that the numbers are skewed to cause panic; but I can’t live like that just in case I’m wrong. I think there will come a time when I just can’t stay in any longer. I’m already stir crazy. Peter and Mary, you guys have done a great job staying busy and occupied at home.

[@MsCoopness]

Thank you Peter for expressing the heart of the matter. I am 62ys old. I was dx’d with Lupus in 1999. In CA Gov Newsome has been acting with caution as to when and how much to open and I am so grateful. Though I have empathy for those who need to work and pit food on the table too. I only hope others understand if I need to quarantine longer. The gray can still be approached with love and compassion by all of us. With our hearts and not our fears.

[@marilan8154]

I am just amazed that Harry I so ok with the vest! I thought he’d have been a scaredy-cat about it but he’s so brave! I understand the whole “getting back out there” thing. My husband and I are feeling the same. Also, I kinda liked that everyone was hunkered down with their families and we weren’t all running crazy with being overly busy. I do realize that not every family is happy together which is sad and so I do pray for them. One day at a time for us all! Thanks for being there for us through it all!

[@sarahraaymakers14]

Omg seven brides for seven brothers is such a amazing sound track and the movie is just as amazing!!!. Thank you for taking me back to my childhood Mary!.

[@sarahe_3156]

We are dealing with that with my parents. My dad will be on the transplant list Monday and we have had to be super careful with his health for a while before all of this. We will obviously have to be more careful around him after his transplant. Its helped me, by watching your videos to know some of the things he has to go through. Thanks for the videos!

[@thefreylife]

SarahE_3 we're so glad to hear the vlogs have been helping you guys prepare for his transplant and all that comes with it!

[@tamikottmyer8695]

Love how you both talk things out with the transplant . Your two wonderful people

[@jacquicoder7160]

Mary, my heart was so tickled by you feeding Harry his little treat like he was a baby! So adorable! And, Ollie at the end was also so adorable, too.

[@JMaeD72]

It IS very scary that things are reopening, now. My husband and I are both seniors with underlying conditions and fairly content to just stay home and stay safe.. You two are young, and I am sure you are going to miss things much more than the older generations folks will. Sending love, light and prayers your way that all will be well with just staying home and staying safe. We are all blessed with technology that keeps us together...even we we can't be in person.❤️

[@susanharris1285]

Dinner looked again Mary!!! Yes the grass is growing and looks great so Mary is spoiling Harry so cute in the kitchen lol. My husband and I are easing into this very slowly with things opening up, you all will do what's best love and prayers always

[@leaveittolefty]

My husband and I have health challenges that make it often necessary to say "no" --sometimes at the last minute. this has frequently caused hard feelings against us, but we can't help it. There are times we have said "yes" and wished we hadn't. Remember that helps us decide sometimes.... so hard, but that is our reality and we are just happy to be here living it😃👍🏼

[@kimbo500]

Leave It To Lefty, Well said! You both know your reality, and you have to do what's best for yourselves, even if it isn't always received well. 💞

[@leaveittolefty]

GVGIRL 🤗

[@fragilefleur]

Ps. I’ve been having fun with my succulents and indoor plants as well as balcony plants thanks to you. Especially the succulents. Loving trying to propagate new plants and dividing the ones that are multiplying. It’s up there with the tiny house stuff. I love the teeny tiny stuff too. My only challenge is having a benign essential tremor that makes handling small fragile things difficult. I work around it bc it’s too fun and distracting!

[@karendeakin9628]

Cottage cheese and pineapple ! Sounds like my daughters house pls musicals and Doris day 😊

[@MsTitanic99]

I am also a little uncertain about jumping right into the social arena. Mary, I also love pears with cottage cheese, peaches too! However we don't agree on the same type of music lol but love to see you enjoying it so much.😀

[@meganjohnson44]

My husband and I plan to continue to isolate and watch what happens. We live in rural Wyoming, so less chance of the virus here and we don't have underlying health issues, just older. But I think we all need to supportive of each other and where we are at. If someone wants to stay home, they should. If they want to wear a mask, quit making fun of them. I have noticed a lot of people getting angry if someone is wearing a mask or staying home. Sending you much love. Oh, and I miss kinder time!!!

[@TuggerAbbey]

Make it in the instant pot! 8 minutes in the instantpot and the spaghetti squash is perfect!

[@samanthabrown5975]

I love 7 Brides for 7 Brothers, it’s my most favourite musical ever, my favourite songs are Lonesome Polecat and Spring, my favourite brother is Benjamin ( who apparently was an American football player). My second favourite musical is Paint your Wagon, Clint Eastwood singing ‘ I talk to the trees’ ❤️❤️

[@kimberleywinterbauer5286]

I was sitting at home today thinking about the same issues as you both are regarding opening back up again. I’m so scared about re-entry into society and I think it’s way too soon. I’m here in Florida where we’re open for business, not many people wearing masks, and they act like nothing is wrong. For those of us that are high risk, there are no easy solutions yet except still staying at home. Be well, stay safe.

[@penelopepolinsneemeyer4757]

We’re in a similar position re society opening up, but thankfully our Chief Rabbi is erring on the side of caution regarding reopening mainstream Orthodox synagogues in the U.K. that will impact on our Guides & Scouts too as both groups meet in synagogues under Rabbi Mirvis’s auspices. Shavua Tov Guys and keep safe xxxxxxxxxxxxx

[@sophieslater9269]

Love spaghetti squash! With olive oil, brown sugar, sage, rosemary and toasted hazelnut. Adding a little pasta sauce too is great! Love it!!! And so easy too

[@thefreylife]

Sophie yummm!

[@vernarosenblum1190]

Thank you for addressing a very real concern for many people.

[@summerfun20111]

I love the movie “Seven Brides for Seven Brothers” !! A classic. Your videos make me smile! ❤️❤️❤️

[@nikkidee0411]

I love that cutting board! Cottage cheese is also loved here as are peaches and pears with it. I want a pear tree but we have a very productive peach tree in our backyard.

[@BrettinaLaroche]

I feel like, as I'm watching, he looks like a piece of art!! He is beautiful!!!💜💜💜

[@maryreynolds5310]

I feel like such a bad subscriber you guys, and I’m so sorry! I get in a funk sometimes and I forget about the people who brings me joy...You guys are just those people. We all have our bad days, weeks or whatever..I know when you Mary feel bad or have a down day, I pray for you always...but 9 times out of 10 you are recording for us anyway. Anyway, I need to get it back in gear, start watching your daily vlogs again. It makes me happy to see you guys. And I love to see Mary into cooking! By the way, thanks, your taught me a few things about how to cook new things I’ve never tried before, love it! Have a good Sunday you guy’s xo

[@mamakirk2]

Things are really opening up in TN. I am so happy.

[@b.wooten4505]

Cottage cheese with fresh diced tomatoes in the summer is sooooii delicious! Also cantaloupe! My favorite showtunes are from fiddler on the roof!!

[@thefreylife]

B. Wooten Oh yumm! And such fun songs!

[@beingme5655]

Your adorable Harry reminds me so much of my cat called Oscar. He loves being held like a baby, he will only eat treats out of your hand or while being held, he comes to me every morning for me to clear his sleep dust from his eyes. I have a chronic pain condition called Complex Regional Pain Syndrome & when I’m in a pain flare he doesn’t leave my side! ♥️ Vicky & Oscar from the U.K.! 🇬🇧

[@thefreylife]

Vicky, Oscar sounds so sweet!

[@robinbrown7953]

If you have a n instant pot...it is so easy to cook spaghetti squash. I just chop the end off and put the whole thing in with a bit of water for about 7-10 minutes on i high pressure, and cut it open when it’s done. Makes it so easy.

[@faithcooper8935]

I understand that feeling. We opened up alot back in April and I am still staying home mostly besides my ton of medical appointments.

[@jewelhaines8842]

Hi guys!! Yes, our State is in phase 1 of reopening as of yesterday. I'm not happy about it at all. I don't think we're ready, we are still getting double digits new cases, daily. My husband is 73, and has some respiratory issues because he was a coal miner for 30 years. So, we have to be careful. God bless you both, and of course Ollie and Harry!! 🥰

[@thefreylife]

Jewel Haines we hope you both are able to take your time and do what you two need and is best for your bodies and family. 💜

[@jewelhaines8842]

@@thefreylife Thank you guys so much! Yes, as I said, my husband was a Coal miner and the coal dust wreaked havoc on his lungs. We are just staying in. Have a blessed weekend!! The yard looks great!! 😊

[@caprialnichols7659]

Loving the vlogs keep it up Mary and Peter

[@donnierhum359]

I don’t have a compromised immune system and I’m still going to say no longer for the reopening of society. I think it’s all going to happen too soon and too fast. 😬 You have to do what’s best for you! If I was Mary I wouldn’t want to chance her newfound freedom she’s had so far!! 💪🏻 stay safe.

[@whitec1981]

We can just sit back and watch what happens to supposed healthy people lol. Stay safe where you are 💕

[@matildablomqvist7555]

Hello! My name is Matilda, I live in Sweden and I have CF. Since we haven't had quarantine in the same way as you, I really understand what you're talking about. For us, all decisions have fallen on the individual (except what the public health authority recommends). I have had to say no to many things these months and it's made me feel sicker than I am (for example, I can't complete my teacher's degree as intended, at the same time as my friends) Thanks to Orkambi, I've been relatively healthy in my CF since 2018, but this period has made me feel more isolated than I am used to, even before Orkambi. I can imagine Mary may feel a bit the same, as she have had a good effect from the triple combo. It will be a greater contrast when you have finally been able to come out and meet more people and feel the freedom with the new medicine. But it will be okay!

[@fragilefleur]

Our family is dreading things opening early too both in protection for our fam with illness but also the people who will get sick and who will lose family members and people who will get damaged from covid. So sad. Our local lake where we walk our dog has been closed for fishing and swimming and people have been massively ignoring the many signs saying fishing isn’t legal there. People are out in groups and boating (lake is too cold for swimming anyways) but the reality is that they aren’t even following the law now. The only thing the park was open for walk taking walks/runs and bicycling. Blah anyways it’s so frustrating but your feeding Harry is on and I’m dying of cuteness. Also you singing to show tunes was hilarious. Love seeing you so happy and energetic and dare I say healthy seeming. ✨✨✨🎉

[@monicauyeno7368]

I am dreading it as well. My husband has been really missing eating out but he has not eaten out and takes a lunch that he makes to work. He's already been called back to work in about a week in Winston-Salem. We live in Greensboro. I will continue to be cautious until I think it is okay to go out and about freely again. I just wish the state had more testing available before they start doing any more phases after this initial one already.

[@BlackDahlia-zz1qr]

Lmao couldn't stop laughing when Hairy was just chilling on you..lol

[@pattygailcreations3772]

Harry is so cute and weird at the same time. I really enjoy seeing him and Ollie on your vlog.

[@thefreylife]

Haha Patricia so glad you're enjoying the vlogs and seeing Ollie and Harry :)

[@isabelleshamlian5809]

Many transplant patients are in the same boat knowing that we are more at risk to develop complications should we get infected with C19. Montreal, Quebec 🇨🇦 is hit quite hard at the moment and masks, social distancing and other measures are only somewhat followed. De confinement is nerve racking for immunosuppressed people because it is evident that people will just go back to old habits and “forget” to remain vigilant. However, there is a glimmer of hope as Health Canada just approved clinical trials for a potential vaccine. Hopefully, immuno compromised patients will be able to benefit from it (we can only get non-live vaccines). Good luck with everything, thanks for your awesome videos and stay safe! 🙏💚

[@darkbluematter1753]

My state has reopened though our daily case rate has not declined. So my family and I are staying home. I live with my two high risk parents and every time I think of going back out I ask "Is this worth my dads life? Is this worth my moms life?" How long am I going to have to ask that question? I have no idea. But we are not alone. So many of us (and you guys) are in the same boat.

[@theresagrosscup1968]

I love the movie 7 Brides for 7 Brothers! Have you tried pineapple cottage cheese. It’s delicious! It’s hard to believe that it’s been a year. Can’t imagine how you process all the changes that has happened. You also seem happy with your home and venturing out and finding new places.

[@sharonpodorski4687]

He is totally relax and trust you to do that

[@amyorso6351]

My country (Germany) is reopening and there are still people complaining. It is so frustrated to witness those people....

[@cantabilewoman]

I'm having a really difficult time re-entering society even though we've only had 4 new cases and only 6 active cases all together here in Iceland. I'm plain scared to go outside, I've been staying home for 73 days all by myself and have gotten everything delivered. I've only been able to go for 2 walks because the nerve pain in my feet has been extreme and walking hurts so much🙁 Now restrictions are being more and more loosened and I'm nowhere near ready to face the outside world and I don't know what to do.. work is out of the question especially if people are going to be coming over here to escape Covid19 in their countries (which makes me want to scream) as I work in a store where social distancing isn't possible, the last time I worked was March 5th. I'm on disability pension and thankfully don't have to worry about money. Anyone have some advice?

[@madeleinewalker838]

Sorry no advice but that is NOT COOL that people come to your country to escape, I promise we won't be coming😃but it would be a complicated and long commute to get there. We are in the the very north west part of the US

[@leaveittolefty]

hang in there 💪🏼and maintain your mental and physical health with good food choices, exercise as tolerated and creative activities. see if there is something inspiring to latch onto that holds your interest. Lots of us out here sharing similar challenges--we need each other to stay safe. here are some flowers for you from me in🌵Arizona💐

[@whitec1981]

Take one day at a time. Take tiny steps. No one said you gotta move mountains. Stay connected to others virtually if need be. Hang in there.

[@kristicameron1926]

Harry cracks me up love you guys great video as always ❤️ and I like cottage cheese with red beets yummy

[@Dinopoodles]

Sending love, I have bad asthma and I understand how scary it can be to go out

[@thefreylife]

Thanks Tonya, keep on pressing on friend! 💜

[@reneelemay6417]

What worries me the most is how many people are not taking this seriously and are acting like it is nothing. I am immune comprised and am taking this seriously. And for people to compare the numbers to the flu bothers me as well. This has not been around very long and I can see the numbers will end up higher than the flu. I have no issues with social distancing, my husband and I are home bodies. Just hope when they do open up they do, do it slowly and the curve doesn't go back up after reopening.

[@joannelong9566]

Hello is Carolyn good after noon. I think were all wondering what our new norm will look like. For me having broccoli asthma I two will have to say no at times. I think it's harder for the chronicly ill because we have to be so caucus.

[@amandagray9871]

The spaghetti squash looks like angel hair pasta.

[@thefreylife]

Amanda have you tried it before? We love it!

[@jenniferwhitehead7428]

I’m excited for your grass growing!

[@thefreylife]

Thanks Jennifer! We are so excited!

[@kylechellino2579]

I love you Mary! Big bear hugs!

[@johnsonfamilyvidsvlogs3745]

Pretty green grass. You'll be mowing before you know it. Love spaghetti squash. I pierce mine then microwave it. 10 minutes at a time and turning it.

[@isabelthewriter]

Oh my goodness! I just love you dancing along with Calamity Jane! Doris Day is one of my favorites ❤️❤️❤️

[@esthersmart1351]

I can relate to having to say no as things reopen. I am vulnerable and really need more isolation. I don’t mind but others may not understand my no’s.

[@kimbo500]

Esther Smart, After listening to, and hearing from SO many people....I am hearing of a greater awareness from those who are not as vulnerable (RE: why those of us who are, need to take additional or special precautions,). I hope it is not an awareness that dissipates soon, but I will assume that some have a new understanding that they will hold onto. In nursing school, it was ingrained in us to never 'assume' though! Don't tell my instructors!! Have a good week!! 🤗

[@BNHAalltheway]

Places are reopening where I live and I feel it's kind of scary You don't know what's sick and who'd not but with God's help I will eventually get over it love You guys Youu're awesome Ollie looks cute with his cow bandana God Bless

[@thefreylife]

Paula, thank you for sharing your perspective and approach as well as your faith and trust in the Lord! Keep on pressing on friend :)

[@maryreese4822]

You forgot to write the DATE on your frozen meatloaf. 😉

[@jessh9169]

Mary, have you listened to The Children Of Eden soundtrack? It's a musical based on the genesis story. I think you might like, it's got some beautiful music in it. Thank you for our daily dose of positivity, even through tough times you manage to make us smile. :)

[@thechronicillnessdiaries2773]

Omgosh!!! I forgot I have that CD! I love Children of Eden...pardon me while I go listen lol

[@jessh9169]

@@thechronicillnessdiaries2773 I love it. Stranger to the rain is my jam when I need one of those I can do it moments.

[@sharonpodorski4687]

Same here w hubby and Multiple myeloma.. I go out but try to stay safe

[@hollyosgerby1901]

My husband is excited because golf courses in Ontario, Canada were allowed to open today ( with restrictions). In fact, he has a tee off time booked for Monday afternoon. I am totally ok with a slower, cautious reopening. I remember years ago watching Seven Brides for Seven Brothers and loving the music, the choreography, and the story line. Spaghetti squash & meatballs sounds interesting and worth trying. I love spaghetti and meatballs but I get so bloated and overstuffed because of the pasta noodles. Truthfully, it is probably because I put too much on my plate LOL. Snuggles to you, Peter, Ollie, and Harry 🤗❤️❤️🙏🏼😘🐕🐱

[@thefreylife]

Holly that's so fun he gets to get back out on the golf course! & I'm so glad to hear you like that movie/musical too!!

[@Lyn4817]

I have never known a cat to respnd like Hairy. He is incredible and exactly what a woman needs, if she doesn't have a baby. I love getting a new dogs as a puppy, so I can cuddle and love them.

[@lauramoore7337]

Watching from NC!

[@thefreylife]

Yay! Thanks for joining us Laura :)

[@orgasmatopia]

My household has accepted that we will stay in lock down for the next year or two and have prepared our lifestyle to do that. My lungs are more important than a social experience. I guess (like Mary) I am used to living this way.

[@disneyfunatic3179]

i know the feeling. i am medically at risk as well and some people just still do not understand that. even though I have been sick for 15+ years, it still does not sink in. i know a mask will be a new norm for me for a while!

[@tayloralvord1976]

Too cute. I love seeing Harry & Ollie. They always make me smile & sometimes laugh. I want to see more of Ollie & Harry

[@katherynkennedy5881]

I just came home from a late evening grocery run, not so many people. But so many not wearing masks, going down isles the wrong way and bringing little children with them!! Hopefully this won't spike again.

[@kimbo500]

Katheryn Kennedy, I think it's so unpredictable, from area to area. Right where I live, I see a lot of compliance with the guidelines. About 30 miles north of me (same state), there are people out protesting. Go figure right!?! I even have family members who are not as compliant as they should be. We don't have the control to take care of ourselves out in public, when those around us are not doing their part. Very frustrating, and that's why I feel the need to stay at home most of the time. When I am out, I do wear my N95's, otherwise, I wouldn't be going out to the stores at all. Wishing you all the best! :)

[@IMChrysalis]

Mary, you should probably put a date on your frozen meatloaf too, so it doesn't stay in the freezer long enough to get frostbite...

[@karbear26]

I like cottage cheese growing up it was a frequent side dish at meals! My husband and daughter think it’s gross! I like it with apricot preserves mixed it for a treat! I was a weird kid too I used to put sunflower seeds and thousand island dressing on cottage cheese when restaurants would have salad bars!

[@XravensunsetX]

I've been doing cottage cheese or plain yogurt with frozen blueberries in the morning lately..... it's tasty =D

[@thefreylife]

RavenSunset that sounds good!

[@TaleRavenTarot]

My state (Iowa) has re-opened, and as a chronically ill person, I feel so scared. I am fortunate to work from home still, as a teacher, and I'm going to continue to stay home too.

[@kareninva7097]

It is scary that the country is opening back up when people are still dieing I can see more problems and I am with you I see a lot of no in my future I suffer with lung problem to and i am a senior so love you guys you are so cute

[@thefreylife]

Karen in VA keep on pressing on friend! 💜

[@imogenoliver]

I have 1 week left of online school before we go back for the last 4-5 weeks of term. I know for me personally it’s going to be really hard because the quarantine and lockdown have been a much needed rest from the anxiety and torture of going to school or out and about places. Kind of like you guys with Trikafta. It’s going to be hard to go back to that and deal with that and live through that with not much chance of or another rest in the near foreseeable future. It may sound bad but at this point I don’t really care, I hope here in Australia we have to go back into quarantine and certain precautions are put in place so that I can stay in this time and place and state where I am not forced to go to the shops often or forced to go to school or forced to go outside as often. I think that now that I know what a rest for me feels like and much I actually needed I can’t even imagine not being in a rest period. Honestly it means I have to go back to what the world used to look like or what it will look like after all of this, but I don’t want it to end, I want it to go on forever.😕

[@An__-]

I like cottage cheese and I like pears. Do you cut the pair up and put it into the cottage cheese?

[@6Fiona6_P_6]

There's some people that are hoping a certain amount of "Social Distancing " will become permanent. You know so peoples personal space won't be intruded on. And I, for one, can definitely see their point of view on that...... And even though my husband and mine health aren't anywhere near as immunocompromised as Mary's, I'm a bit apprehensive about the road out of Coronavirus. Well at least that part of the road we all will have to traverse in the next few weeks. I mean there are people out there who wouldn't know "Social Distancing " even if they fell over it, right now. So I definitely share your concerns about society opening up gradually....... But..... On a much "lighter note " ......... Now I've got the song Green Green Grass of Home going through my head now ( and of course it's the Tom Jones version)........ ⚛️☮️💟

[@photogchik007]

My partner has an undiagnosed (probably autoimmune disorder) that has made me ask a lot of the questions you were addressing Peter especially as I will be going back to work in the coming months. It’s scary and sad and hard.

[@kimbo500]

photogchik007, Thanks for your comment. I'm 'the patient', and we get a lot of comments from a 'patients' point of view. Not enough from family members, friends etc. Thanks for sharing. 💞

[@jtrujillo1985]

Now I'm craving pistachios & have none lol. I have salted & peeled sunflower kernels. ..definitely not the same thing:/ thanks for always reminding us to eat healthy❤

[@vickieslack]

I know what you mean. We are in England. My daughter has a rare chromosome disorder and has caused her to have uncontrollable epilepsy with a lower immune system. She is vulnerable to the virus. They are trying to send out children back to school.either in june or july. Both my children wont be going back. Xx

[@thefreylife]

The Slack Clan keep on pressing on friends! 💜

[@vickieslack]

@@thefreylife thank you, you both also. Blessed be to you both, hair man and olly boy. P.s, my eldest daughter has autism and she is obsessed with Olly. She squeals everytime she sees him. 💜💌 xx

[@SummersPlace]

I agree with you when you say Mary and Peter inspire you. Mary has always handled everything that's throw at her with such grace. Even though she is much younger than I. I look up to her. I wish I could handle my illness the way she does. And Mary I love Doris Day also ever since I was a little kid. I used to wake up at the middle of the night and turn on the TV just to hear her sing .Even with our age differences. We like a lot of the same things. I also love when Mary's dad plays the guitar and they sing together and when Mary sings with her grandmother. I miss my parents and grandparents so much. So I enjoy when Mary and Peter are with their parents. And Peter is so awesome the way he takes such great care of Mary. Love you both and praying for you and everyone that watches your channel. Please everyone stay safe and well. And please keep the medical workers in your prayers. God bless everyone. ❤❤❤

[@thefreylife]

Summer's Place thank you for those kind and encouraging words!

[@susanjacomb9614]

Love you STAY IN YOUR BUBBLE!

[@suzykauffman1831]

I was raised watching and listening to all the old musicals. Especially Rodgers and Hammerstein. Love them so much.