Why we are not getting married

[@KalleFlodin]

⚠I want to clarify something from the video. When I said, 'I don't understand why people are so interested in marriage,' I meant to say that I don't understand why people are so interested in OUR marriage specifically. Christine and I ABSOLUTELY plan to get married one day, and I look forward to the day I can call Christine my wife 🥰 English isn't my native language, so things can apparently easily be misinterpreted 🙈 Marriage is a beautiful commitment that offers stability and safety to both partners, especially now when we have August 😊

[@tahjanjoki2940]

Yes and i would say life hapen everything so dont wait becouse your not "old" my frend was 30 hi die ,they where not married if they would she would of get spucemoney from coverment and all for rest her life thill she remarry and if not she get that rest of her life.Just saying ,marrige is not just some romantick ideal ,its also secure for the couple financialway..

[@jayembee2109]

@@KalleFlodin thanks for explaining Kalle, understandable, the wording is difficult sometimes. Love your show!

[@TheNorwegianForestNymph]

I listened to this from your point of view, not mine, and with a genuine interest and open minded mindset to learn what another life is like for someone else. No misunderstandings what so ever, I understood the whole way you were talking about yourselves and I loved every minute of this beautiful and honest video. More of this kind of openness all around, and the world will become a better place for everyone ❤ Thank you for daring to be an example in a world where it's needed!

[@terrig4750]

@@KalleFlodin Thank you. Yes you do it when you ready you have such a wonderful family and life you two clearly love each other and others the way I was taught that's one of the reasons I follow your posts you are what we say are good people. And I look forward to the day you say I do and hopefully share it with us.

[@CatTheDruid]

I totally understood what you meant! I don't know why everyone is flipping out so much about it anyway. I mean, who cares? I just wish you and Christine and your little boy all the best.

[@dccoffman1]

It broke my heart when she said, “We will get married when Kalle asks me to marry him.” It seems like you’re not fully committed to her, because you're not willing to marry her. Why wait? Are you hoping for someone or something better, or is there something else holding you back? Relationships are hard at times-that’s normal and doesn’t mean something is wrong. This phase won’t last forever. There’s value in making a public pledge to Christine and your children, showing your commitment to them and your future together.

[@TheKiman2]

I don't understand this comment. Why put this pressure for marriage? Maybe you'd like to see them married but where does this requirement for marriage even come from? If they are happy with the way things are, what does it matter whether you have a ring on your finger?

[@dianestevens2659]

I can see that Christine wants to get married, she is ready now. The view I am getting of Kalle is that he is selfish, he wants the benefits but not responsibility. His attitude is not one who wants to get married. I could not understand why Christine had to move out because the cabin was not suitable but yet Kalle built an A frame? Priorities.

[@kaymichelle7327]

@@northernstar2064same

[@vannesagannon4555]

Marrage verry important fie the women legally ❤❤❤❤❤to all ❤❤❤❤

[@bakk.]

@@vannesagannon4555 It is not that important legally in Sweden

[@Roxy00726]

Christine is so sweet . She and the baby are the best thing that happened to that guy. And i think she would like to be married .

[@Phethephoenix]

I do too.

[@jamaicaandrada5526]

It's more dangerous when a man is SELFISH. She literally risked her BODY for you by deciding to have a kid WITH YOU. A real man is a serious man who is not only here for a PLAYTIME. A real man knows this already and takes the topic of marriage seriously.

[@gingerspice5336]

To my mind, the curiosity regarding the state of your relationship arises from a kind of wondering astonishment which people are reticent to verbalize. But I will do it even if it offends some people, because you DID ask. That a woman can rise to this level of physical commitment -- moving to the middle of nowhere & having a child -- without the certainty of long-term commitment from her man in return....? That amazes me. I couldn't do it. The fact is, having a baby is far riskier for the female in a partnership, and it leaves her vulnerable. That marriage vow makes any woman feel safer in that circumstance, and I look at her with some awe that she is willing to take that risk for you, without you first committing your life to her. That is a strong woman you have, and I hope you appreciate how far she is stepping out for you!!! I would like to add for those who may protest: even though so many don't take marriage seriously enough, childishly taking the divorce option so quickly, still today there is a weightiness to the marriage vow that has a strong psychological effect on a partnership. It would add a great deal of value to you both, and it does seem to contradict your "why wait on taking the leap?" philosophy, Kalle, that you have delayed so long in taking this leap. This makes me curious.

[@gingerspice5336]

I would like to note that you failed entirely to answer the question. You instead asked us why we were so curious, without explaining yourself. Not that you are obliged to answer such a private question so publicly, of course. You are entitled to keep that to yourself; it is a supremely profound thing. I also noted that, as always, the woman's stance on this question was somewhat different to her man's. Obliging as she is, it was still obvious to me that she feels a little differently from you here. This is very typical of a couple from our generation.

[@lenafreeze7131]

They did ask to know why people thought they should get married, and I think you said it well!

[@stefaniakonstantinidou981]

Probably insecure woman, not strong

[@Supercharger86]

Christine might be tired but she's absolutely glowing from motherhood 😊

[@Phethephoenix]

Her face in the thumb nail tells me as a woman that she is going along with your decision as the male in the relationship. It makes me sad that you don’t know the joy & sense of love, security & pride you’d instill ln her heart and soul in asking her to be your wife. A wife is a coveted role, as counterpart. and while I don’t know the perfect words to make you understand. Her eyes should tell you all that you need to know. A woman’s silence and agreement can say a lot. She loves you. So much that she will do as you wish. And make that will, her own wish. For you. She is incredible and acting as your wife without any real title. That’s a lot to receive & take and not reciprocate appropriately.

[@kaymichelle7327]

100%

[@loveistheanswer1770]

Yes.

[@loricoil1732]

What makes people think that he is not filling the roll as Husband? He works to provide for the Family while she stays home to make a home and raise a child/children. He does the heavy work around the home, some cooking... Where is the imbalance?

[@dccoffman1]

@@loricoil1732 i'm going to post my response to your question as a statement on the main page. Check it out if you're interested!

[@SomeoneonU2b]

Perfectly said. I've watched a few videos of yours now, and I don't mean to judge - however, your reaction when she said "we WILL get married", really wasn't the right vibe.

[@runaasmr]

Marriage legally protects your wife in a way a girlfriend is not protected when it comes to inheritance, medical decisions, travel privileges, migration privileges etc. Some people do not care and it is their right. But I feel when you love someone, you want them to be as safe as humanely possible.

[@Footbal_supremacy]

So it really has nothing to do with the man but her😂😂

[@bearpawz_]

@@Footbal_supremacy 😆💦 Maybe they should re-word it to "spouse"

[@miP987]

Exactly and we'll stated. An empath gives and a person that controls the relationship breeds cracks later too because health is not permanent and perfect. Children need to know they are wanted, including heritage and name.

[@Collin_The_Red]

My state has common law marriage. Basically, after living with someone for an X amount of years, the state recognizes you as a couple and you can even file taxes together. Other things vary, as i havent done much research into the pros and cons, but its definitely something the state recognizes. If im not mistaken, its like being married without being married. Although i could be wrong.

[@tahjanjoki2940]

Agree,specially when building life around his stuff(house /land etc) And if stay home mom

[@sarah.sojourns6861]

A lot of the commentors are looking at their relationship through a North American/Christian lens. In Sweden, common-law partners (or Sambo as its called in Sweden) are equal to married partners in the eyes of the government. You have the same rights as someone who is married. Sweden is a secular country. Meaning that its distanced from any religion. Its highly unusual for any decisions to be made based on religious reasons here in Sweden - especially Marriage. Those who do marry are still very unlikely to do it for religious reasons. Having a Sambo relationship is also EXTREMELY common in Sweden. Much more common than i think anyone in the comments realise. 1/3 of all couple relationships in Sweden are Sambo... thats roughly 1.5 MILLION people who are in committed relationships but unmarried. These relationships are still filled with love and respect and happiness, and have no ill effect on children born into these relationships either. So before you criticise or put your own cultural lens and judgement onto Kalle and Christine, take some time to reflect that this is a difference of cultures and traditions, and consider that your own beliefs may not have any merit in other peoples lives. ✌️ (how do i know this? Ive been in a Sambo relationship with my partner for nearly 8 years now. He's Swedish and I'm Canadian. So i have a good understanding of the cultural differences that are going on in these comments)

[@ezequitor]

We should pin this comment. I was about to write something similar explaining the Sambo relationship until I found that you already explained it! Thanks for the perfect explanation

[@kleinehexe4140]

👍👍👍👍 Thank you

[@newme1589]

After a quick search, sambo IS NOT the same as marriage at a legal level. There is no inheritance, you dont share lots of stuff at a legal level, etc. Societies that move away from marriage are at a higher likelyhood of self destruction, mainly from reduction in Judeo-Christian values (this can happen in many forms, for example for Sweden, crime has risen A LOT because of Muslims). Im not a fan how men are treated in divorce court, but to suggest that "sambo" is a favourable replacement to "marriage"... I have my doubts. Anything that removes responsibility/connection from a couple (especially with kids) is always going to be worse (as in, no shared stuff, etc, you can search it). Sambo seems like the natural next step from when you remove Christ, because why would you get married anyways. The problem is that it doesnt stop here, why would you have kids, why would you get a job, why not stay inside and touch yourself, which is precisely whats increasing in the youth (this is just a simple way of describing why Atheism as a philosophy doesnt work). Im rambling, best of wishes for them, hopefully they make the right decision for the kix

[@nicedragon815]

Sambo is the same as marriage in the eyes of the law, ONLY if you have a written agreement, sk samboavtal. There are plenty of ads from law firms warning about the consequences of not having written an agreement or will as sambos. If and when hen your sambo dies, and they have children with someone else, those children will inherit everything your sambo owns. If you and your sambo have an apartement together, the children can force a sale to recieve their inheritance. This isn’t the case if you are married.

[@nicedragon815]

@@newme1589I don’t agree with you at all. If you do such generalisations, I will too. Being religious in itself doesn’t keep anyone from commiting crimes, only a sense of morals do. The sense of what’s right and what’s wrong comes from your parents, school, friends and society. Religion doesn’t have a monopoly on this at all. Sweden is an extremely well off and stable society and we’re 90 % atheists here. The church lost it’s influence a long time ago. Some researchers mean we’re the most secular country in the world. What Swedes do have are strong societal norms and a strong desire to do the right thing. Also a very strong sense of trust, trust of others and trust in the government.

[@67oldcoach]

‘A girlfriend’? She has made a deep commitment to you that far exceeds the role of a girlfriend. Honour her by asking her to marry you. It is the cultural way to declare commitment. She has already in a practical way made the commitment. If you don’t give her this ‘honour’ you are saying she is not that important to you.

[@bakk.]

"It is the cultural way to declare commitment" no it isn't. They live in Sweden. Being together and deeply committed to each other without being married is completely normal and supported by laws. Please respect that

[@ewaj.6260]

​@bakk. It was a very respectful comment. Now days, people do not understand meaning of marriage. They value mostly their own feelings, needs and in marriage you put your suppose needs and feelings above yourself. The other person does the same and this is a marriage. People live together, got kids and they are saying that they will marry in the future. Insecurities

[@bakk.]

@@ewaj.6260 What is the meaning of marriage if you're not religious? It's just a tradition, but it doesn't really give you anything concrete. If you're really committed to each other you don't need marriage to stay together.

[@DayTon-h9u]

Is an American and Christian, I have this belief.....if you're not gonna marry her then why sleep with some other man's future wife? 😮 Peace 👍

[@bakk.]

@@DayTon-h9u Why are Americans so obsessed with marriage?

[@carathorsven3326]

You two remind me of my husband and I SO much. The dynamic of your personalities together (as far as we see) the love language differences. The way you seem to share alot of goals and connection with nature but also have some core differences that cause some really difficult to navagate feelings. Getting married gave us a deeper security a deeper commitment to being completely dedicated to our family and relationship HEALING. Its not easy to look at your behaviors and patterns and find how to meet eachothers needs without comprimising your own but when youre vowed to one another it becomes more of a solace in the rough patches.

[@BettyKoehler-zg5sv]

Kalle and Christine, you mentioned that you don’t understand why anyone should care whether you get married or not. Personally, I don’t understand why anyone should feel they have the right to question your choices. You love each other so much, love your sweet little August, and have goals for your future. You are both very responsible adults who deserve to live your lives the way you choose. I wish both of you a life filled with love, sunshine, and rainbows. Love from Pennsylvania, USA 💕🌷🐻

[@dianestevens2659]

But is it both their choice? Sounds more like just Kalles choice. They are asking us our opinion.

[@juliehumphreys5968]

@@dianestevens2659 actually, in an earlier video Kalle DID ask Christine to marry him and she declined.

[@drummerlovesbookworm9738]

They put their lives on the worldwide web which invites opinions and comments from their subscribers. That’s the contract. It’s not one bit surprising or inappropriate for people to wonder because in society, men marry the woman they love and doubly so when they have a child! That’s just a fact. A fact.

[@ganzw-erde-n4784]

@@juliehumphreys5968 witch Video is that supposed to have been? 🤔I just remember another video where she also said she would say yes if he asked.

[@tereseday4060]

​@@drummerlovesbookworm9738That is an individual choice.

[@sharonstranzl3733]

Christine, your English has improved 1000 percent over the last year, you are extremely fluent and much more comfortable than in the early days, you are amazing!

[@mariposa3378]

The energy I am getting from Kalle really makes me sad and unsettled. Hope she won’t be hurt tremendously in the future.

[@jamaicaandrada5526]

I feel the same thing. I want a man to be serious. She literally risked her body for him.

[@dianestevens2659]

I get a selfish vibe from him

[@AnthonyManzio]

She's not smart

[@grumpydruid8372]

I mean tbh, when I saw this title "Why we are not getting married" my first response was "It's absolutely nobody's business, whatsoever, certainly not mine." I am so sorry people even asked this. It is really generous and gracious of you to discuss it.

[@marlenecardinahl9346]

U forget they HAVE made their life PUBLIC- so why not wonder why

[@Delyanstion]

Truly. ​@@marlenecardinahl9346

[@adeleross5843]

Finally a normal, sane person. These people are dinosaurs. Nobody's business if these two get married or not. You are the sad ones. Jeez, chill the heck out guys

[@eldrin5793]

@@marlenecardinahl9346 Sure, but the amount of comments forcefully pushing Kalle to marry ASAP, or condemning him for still being unmarried, is ridiculous and weird...

[@UrbanRVLife]

@@eldrin5793 no one is condemning his choice. Just highlighting facts. And if you have a following it is natural for people who spend their time in their life watching your videos. It is absolutely normal for people to ask a couple without kids, if they plan to have kids- biologically that is what makes sense that is why you are here in the world breathing and taking up space because a woman got pregnant and had you. It so immature to be getting offended over normal questions. Don't want questions, don't put your life out there?

[@karenhutchison12]

This is for you and Christine to decide not anyone else, you do what feels right for you both. How you choose to live your lives has nothing to do with anyone else.

[@Serendipity-gj2me]

My children went to a Rudolph Steiner Waldorf school their entire schooling years. Initially, they lagged behind compared to the children in regular schools who could read and write at an early age, however, later on, the Waldorf education system surpassed the regular education system in everything. Waldorf-educated children were calm, respectful, creative, empathetic, confident and outstanding in every way. They were far smarter than the kids from other schools who were broken, unhappy and destroyed by an unjust system. I have so much respect and gratitude for Rudolph Steiner and all the Waldorf schools. Today my children are highly successful, confident, independent, creative, and happy.

[@bearpawz_]

When I read your comment.. I thought of Garrison Keiller of Lake Wobegon (the "Powdermilk biscuit" radio guy from Minnesota).. He'd start out his radio shows by saying. _"Welcome to Lake Wobegon, where all the women are strong, all the men are good-looking, and all the children are above average.”_ 😉 🥰 xoxo

[@ec2402]

It is truly a special system and you're right that the humans that went through the entire schooling, generally come out happier and more confident. It makes it not always easy to realize that not everyone is like this once one enters the 'real world' and realizes how much hurt others carry around, also from schooling or other things in life. Waldorf also heals and is therapeutic I think to some degree through the arts and also other methods. It tries to benefit the human as a whole and considers health and well-being also. This is according to my own experience and knowledge anyway.

[@mariellewestland8963]

I totally understand you about marriage! For us it is more important to renovate our home before the baby comes. Both time wise and financially a wedding doesn’t fit at the moment. We made sure the family is legally protected in other ways. Your day will come, and it’s none of other people’s business when that is!

[@ZoeMikelStites]

I really appreciate that you guys are building a family in the way thats right for you. I love seeing people building relationships and support like this.

[@carolynrae1845]

Thank you for your honesty, integrity & authenticity from some very probing questions. Your values really shine through in this episode, I applaud you.

[@adeledesolla1404]

This beautiful little baby boy, has been blessed with two most beautiful, loving parents and his life will be filled with such love, what an incredible start to life. We love you all. XX

[@karenroberts9941]

Kalle and Christina It is no one else’s business other than yours Don’t explain yourself Your choice Thank you for your videos They are really nice and I enjoy them greatly Carry on being you Enjoy your life together x

[@danviridian]

Read the title of the video, they kind of made it our business 😂

[@lindafolk4598]

I really enjoy hearing how you both are able to communicate with each other and share your hearts . You seem so compatible. Wonderful this child can be raised this way. ❤ Good work loving people!

[@karenroberts9941]

@@danviridian I think their was a bit of confusion as to how it was put across from themselves And a bit of a misunderstanding in their explanation

[@Laura-g1c1l]

Her miscarriages and birth were actually none of our business either, he chose to make it our business. Once you open yourself up like that for the sake of a youtube channel, then you end up dealing with not being able to pick and choose what/when he discuss things. It is the fact that the question is really asked of HIM and that he doesn't really have a decent answer that upsets him I think.

[@danviridian]

​@@karenroberts9941read the title of the video

[@zat6442]

Beautiful - so glad the world has you two and your son and future children are blessed. Completely resonate with everything you say

[@pienpakvis6118]

Congratulations! August is a beautiful baby boy. You must be so proud! Well done, parents!

[@hoytho]

WOW! Rewatching, I picked up that neither of you spoke the same language when you met, that's amazing. It seems you've been able to improve your skills in English quickly, particularly when Kalle speaks of an item having a specific 'name' that isn't common, he thinks and the word comes out perfectly! I love listening to your duo videos -- it's a weekly habit on Sundays. I love everything you guys are sharing.

[@kyletberry]

To all my Americans in the comments talking about how they need to get married. Remember that it's a different culture in Sweden, and that Sweden is a different country (big shocker) to USA. If they weren't willing to commit to each other they wouldn't have a son together.

[@JoJo-vz5uy]

And they wonder why other countries dislike Americans. This is why!

[@lauraspower6439]

Exactly!😄🤘

[@NL-001]

My both children, having a family with children, are not married. It’s not important at all!

[@magdachrzastek2340]

So much appreciation for your honesty. So much to learn from it. Christine, you definitely shine in your new role on many different levels ❤

[@KalleFlodin]

❤❤❤

[@AudreyORourke-e1u]

Kalle and Christine you are both so grounded and analyse situations so logically. Your baby boy is so well behaved for one so young.

[@carolinahgj7198]

Thank you Kalle, this is such an inspiring and relaxing video. It's so heartwarming to see the love between you and your girlfriend, as well as your love for your son. Nowadays, many people are selfish and focus only on their own needs and enjoyment. That's why I truly appreciated the understanding and respect between you both. All the best ❤

[@Secular-Serenity]

Another great video. Thank you for being so frank, honest and forthcoming. You two are a wonderful couple.

[@KalleFlodin]

And thank you for being here watching our videos 🥰❤️

[@AngelikaSchafer-ku2gq]

Christine you are such a beautiful Earth Goddess. Kalle is very fortunate to have you as a partner. I love both of your authenticity, honesty, down to earth exploration. Exploring all that earth life has to offer in joys and challenges. Good for you for bringing up a child with proper care and wisdom, you are doing the world a service. Thank you, beautiful. Keep sharing, it's educational and inspirational. blessings always, Angelika

[@dccoffman1]

Yes, Kelle is taking on the role of a husband by doing the heavy work, but he’s not her husband, he's a boyfriend. By hesitating, delaying, waiting for a better time or whatever reason he gives for not marrying her at this time, he creates a power imbalance within their relationship. Women, especially mothers of young children, often need the emotional and social stability that marriage provides. It’s not just about finances-it’s about security, trust, and partnership. If marriage isn’t a big deal or isn’t important, then why do it at all? And if it is important, why wait? You have a partner, a child, and a home-so what’s stopping you from making it official? Can I get my head around the delay? For a mother, marriage represents a public promise of commitment and accountability to the family. Without it, she’s left vulnerable, relying on his goodwill rather than a binding commitment. This is even more painful because she’s clearly expressed her desire to marry, saying, “I will get married if Kelle asks me.” Her words show her hope and willingness, making his refusal all the more heartbreaking. It’s about more than a piece of paper-it’s about the respect and stability she deserves. I hope my words don’t upset anyone, especially Kalle or Christine. I truly enjoy their channel and love learning about a different way of life. It might seem like I’m being critical of Kalle, but that’s not my intention at all. I’m simply puzzled by his choice not to marry his amazing partner right now. Why wait? I know some have mentioned cultural differences, but I believe that the topic at hand is universally significant. The difference between the institution of marriage and "just" a committed partnerships are not insignificant. The distinction between a husband and a boyfriend carries weight no matter where you are in the world. This comment section is meant for open discussion, and I’m just sharing my honest perspective! I won't post on this topic again, because I've already commented twice....

[@mifnp8887]

He's not mature enough for her. He even said it himself-- he is a selfish.

[@Gemisnotmyname]

Its so interesting watching your journey. Like from when Kalle said he brought the cabin wanted to work from there… to meeting Christine.. getting a baby. Life really can switch 190 degrees any day

[@Weaverbird49]

I so enjoy all of your videos and this one was especially enjoyable. I am probably around the age of your grandmother's but some of the things you discussed today I have experienced with my son, who is now 39. I breastfed him, co-slept with him until he was around 3. I also homeschooled him from kindergarten through high school. I loved every minute of it and even though he and his family now live in Thailand we are still very close. I completely support the way you are choosing to raise your son/children although you will probably get plenty of negative comments. It is unfortunate that you cannot homeschool in Sweden. What would the consequences be if you just went ahead and did it? There was a time when homeschooling was illegal in most states in the US but that has changed over the past years. I knew in my heart that that was what I wanted to do and do I did and then it became legal in my state. I've always had a rather radical view of raising children - God gave me this child to raise, not the state or the government. I don't believe that it is for everyone but I believe that the parents need to make those decisions for their own children. Sorry for the lengthy comment. This is something I feel very passionate about.

[@angelanoftle2885]

Thank you Kalle and Christine for answering my question about the A Frame rental. Your idea made much more sense being away from your cabin. 😊

[@karenw8481]

Kalle can be close to the baby too. Hold him, hug him, talk to him. Children are a gift to make their parents better.

[@unda2147]

You guys would make an absolutely wonderful homeschool family! Your environment is so incredible for that! We are in our 3rd year of homeschool but we also did regular school and you can not compare!!! You are such great parents, you will choose the best for your baby, I'm sure. :)

[@olgamanarev2233]

Kalle, just don't feel bad about people's opinions and ignore them. Why do they feel they have the right to tell you how you should live your life? If people unsubscribe, then it is their loss, not yours. You kindly share your life and intimacy with the outside world. You don't deserve the negative comments. My support to you. Freedom of speech and mind, people. Respect that.

[@christian_koester]

I agree on this. Kalle is living his own life. He took the step to move up there. He bought the cabin and renovated it. He actively chosed to live a different life than most people. He even chosed to share it with the world. Besides, he is not an american (or from another country outside Scandinavia), for whom it might be normal to get married instant ;) Many live whole lives in the Scandinavian countries without getting married. So, it's very unpolite to put on your own opinion on whether he should get married or not :)

[@dianestevens2659]

You forget, they asked us to comment

[@lindafolk4598]

​@@christian_koesterI think the concern is how protected financially is Cristine if something would happen to Kalle. That is my question. I guess his parents are next to kin and would assist her. Not to be negative but practical.

[@christian_koester]

@@lindafolk4598 Then the situation would be like any other woman in Scandinavia, who is alone with kids. Same if smth happened to her, and he would be alone with the kid. That's called life, and is sorrowly quiet normal in society today.

[@lindafolk4598]

@@christian_koester normal but out of integrity

[@lareekline8232]

I love your reasons for waiting to have another child. It is so vitally important for each child to have their time to be the baby and for the mother's body to fully recuperate and remineralize. I wish more people would understand these important needs.

[@amstergal]

I enjoyed so much, tranquil and peaceful and appreciate your direct and straight forward responses! ♥

[@KalleFlodin]

I'm so happy you liked it 🥰 thank you ❤️

[@MCR1565]

New sub here! Second video I have seen. Your clarification says it all. Marriage is a commitment between two people who are ready. You look very young and happy. Enjoy your lives!💖

[@NcScbeach1]

She’s a beautiful person and I pray all the best comes her way

[@fyou2241]

She is so wise, grounded, honest and couragous in her way of talking❣️Beautifull way of talking and beautifull way of using the english langouge❣️👍

[@mjmomo541]

With the beautiful instrumental in the background and August being rocked to sleep by Christine this is an ASMR video as well as a super interesting insight into your family's life! 🙂😊

[@KalleFlodin]

I'm so happy you liked it 🥰

[@KristenGuyDesign]

My “husband” and I are married in our hearts, he asked me to marry him and I have a simple ring that I bought for myself to wear, and we both knew we didn’t want to do a wedding ceremony and no city law court room. We could always do a nature ceremony at any time with family and friends. I just don’t feel enthusiastic about including any paperwork or people who are not important to our relationship or needed for us to be committed to each other. I want him to choose to be with me day after day after day versus he has to legally because a piece of paper he signed in front of other people. I also like the fact that if for some reason he doesn’t want to choose me or vice versa something changes it feels less scary and there would be no checklist of things to do legally. I would just go my way and he would go his way. I have my own job and money so I would take care of myself and my children as best I could and if he wants to be in their life then he can be since that would be important to the kids and their relationship. I just don’t want all the other chores that a marriage legal paperwork would be like a huge major unnecessary headache on top of life as it is already busy enough with working full time and raising two children.

[@3SpoiledDonkeys]

❤

[@kendralynne]

I would say that I would love to see you two get married because I believe it's a powerful, beautiful thing for a man to call a woman his wife (not just his girlfriend or "partner"), and for a woman to call a man her husband. I think "husband and wife" sounds more like a family. :)

[@Cass6]

100 percent agree! It’s the most secure layer I think (especially with faith) that you have as a family. Especially for children to know that your a team for always and they know they have that security with both parents.

[@Contemplative_extrovert]

That is well said. And a child feels that security as well.

[@junegagnon6506]

Yes, I totally agree!! And God performed the first marriage. So that is an important thing to consider what God thinks as he knows what is best for us. So get through this amazing time and then you can plan those other important events when the time is right!! Much Love to you both!!💜💜💜

[@marlowemayhem3230]

It's nothing but a social construct created to enslave women. The price of witnessing your friends pledge their young lives to an institution that until only recently gave men the legal right to rape their wives (and still does in some US states, thanks to legal loopholes) does not come cheap. Marriage is not now and never has been designed with women’s happiness in mind - and yet we’re told that without it, we will be miserable. As any sociologist can tell you, it’s men who benefit from marriage: they live longer, they are generally healthier and happier, and their economic prospects improve. On the other hand, studies have shown that married women die earlier. And marriage alone isn’t a guarantee of happiness for women - they are happy if they have a happy marriage. When it comes to divorce, the financial risk to women is more perilous: ASX research based on numerous studies has shown that women’s incomes drop by around 21-30% after divorce, an economic hit that it takes an average of six years to recover from. The same is not true for men, their income briefly dipping by about 5% before recovering. We can assume one of the reasons for this is the cost of raising children, both in terms of economic outlay and deprivation of economic opportunity. When you peel back the layers of history and propaganda, it’s impossible not to want to completely destroy this inherently misogynistic institution.

[@marlowemayhem3230]

Marriage is an unsalvageable lie, designed to keep women in service to patriarchy and away from realising our full potential. We should reject it entirely, and refuse on principle to willingly add our names to a list built primarily on the backs of women who had no choice, no rights and no freedom. The fact that many women still can’t make this choice freely - even Tolentino wound up married, because it was the only way she and her partner could access each other’s healthcare benefits - says everything. Simply put: if the government is bribing you to do something, it’s rarely in your best interest. Criticising marriage, the so-called “bedrock” of western civilisation, is perceived to be a criticism of those who do it. That can feel bad for the person on the receiving end, and anything that makes someone feel bad must be wrong. But we should be willing to engage with critiques of our institutions, particularly those that have the kind of lengthy history of oppression that marriage boasts.

[@maikvanlommel7573]

It never struck me this clear before that europe (Sweden, the Netherlands) and the USA are entirely different worlds. In large parts of Europe marriage is considered old-fashioned and outdated. You do not need a paper tot be committed to each other. And kids feel just as safe in these families. This really blows my mind.

[@Kristiina_K]

Marriage is not about paper, it is commitment, responsibility. Marriage is for life, commitment until death. God created sex only for husband and wife. People who are having a sex and are not married is living in sin fornication. God will never bless that union.

[@Heidi_137]

Exactly! And, back in the old days, in Canada anyway, the marriage was never registered with the govt, it was a document from the church that people would put into their family bible. Yet, those oldies were still viewed as legally married after the laws came to be registered with the govt. It's a money grab, control of the population.

[@Ankesadventures]

Christine you’re glowing! ❤

[@kalas-kurt]

Love the school answer!! So important ❤

[@BeaArk1977]

Marriage in the United States of America gives the spouse access to social security benefits if one of you dies. The children would receive a payment of about $400 per month in the event of one of the spouses death. In the United States it can also give you a tax benefit on income tax. And in the United States it gives you certain protections that you would not have if you were single especially to a partner's pension. So a lot of it has to do with the security for the child in the future. I'm not sure what you have in your country it may be totally different. But in the United States it's pretty important for the benefit of a child that parents do get married

[@stellazonoozi2829]

It is the same in Scandinavia ... The Marriage and family law protects your Economic rights after the divorce or When your husband or wife dies.

[@sarah.sojourns6861]

​@stellazonoozi2829 wrong. right, but wrong. When you declare cohabitation or Sambo that gives you the same rights as a married couple. So you're right, but you're also wrong. You don't have to be married to get these benefits.

[@JoJo-vz5uy]

No one cares about the United States! They live in Sweden and they have better benefits than UNited States. Is their business not yours.

[@TheMothang]

Actually the payment is based off of how much the parent benefit is and how much the family benefit amount would be. My children each received 1400 at first, but the amount changes as one ages out, the other would get an increased amount. Children receive payments regardless if parents are married.

[@CharlotteBugYouTubeVideosMore]

You do you boo! Love you guys either way.

[@mecker]

This is such a personal desicion - how can people put pressure on you Christine and Kalle...?! Its just non of our business. If you chose to talk about it, that's great. But it's still YOUR desicion, YOUR timing, YOUR life... By the way, there are other (legal) ways to protect the woman in a relationship than marrige and Sweden is not the US.... Thanks for the beautiful video anyway ❤ Love from Switzerland

[@21earlthepearl]

In my country marriage protects both spouses financially in the event that something happens to one of them. Also, I think marriage symbolizes deep love and commitment, which is a wonderful and secure thing to feel from your partner. That said, everyone should do whatever arrangement is best for them and their partner. ❤

[@Ammiisa]

I am from Finland and I can really understand your reaction to "getting married" question 🙃 this might be a cultural thing: you have a lot of subscribers from other countires than northern Europe, and I feel marriage is somehow bigger thing elsewhere, for example the US, than it is in Sweden or Finland these days. I have been with my man for 13 years and we are not married. It's very common in Finland too these days, that couples might not get married at all and it's not seeing weird.

[@newme1589]

Sadly wherever your society goes, you tend to go with it. Its like a kid who uses a tablet at 2, if every other kid does it, then its "normal", doesnt make it "healthy" though

[@andelipandeli3647]

Sadly some people are blinded by their god-colored glasses

[@Heidi_137]

@@andelipandeli3647 Absolutely! I like 'god-colored' glasses, I will borrow this from you LOL.

[@3SpoiledDonkeys]

​@@newme1589We still do not have the right to judge them for not getting married.

[@3SpoiledDonkeys]

​@@andelipandeli3647Oh thank you for that comment! I have been thinking the same. I'm European as well but now live in the US and methinks that most of these negative comments come from the US. 😂

[@juneturner7964]

Thank you so much for taking time and answering I really thoroughly enjoy Listening to that and then watch U2 interact as you do it. Can’t wait for your new channel.

[@teresamc7630]

The perfect introduction to your new series. Thank you to those who posed excellent questions and to you for letting us know more about your inner fire ❤️‍🔥

[@KalleFlodin]

And thank YOU for watching 🥰

[@marshabailey1121]

August is getting so big! I, too, love that name. He is lucky to have such caring parents. My mother also kept me out of kindergarten and at home with her one extra year; in Canada, I went to Grade 1 at age 5.

[@Echoesofwhispers]

I have a degree in Family Science and have been married 33 years-not always happily, btw. But, we have our faith and our children & knew that divorce is not an option so we had to figure it out. We had lots of therapy and worked very hard because we knew darn well that neither of us were without sin and that if we left each other, it would leave generations of scars. We decided that neither of us would ever try and win an argument and that we would always try and see the best in the other. It’s worked very well. We are happier than ever because we dis the work and both now feel cared for because we value each other while also having respect and kindness toward each other. Living together is devaluing to us as humans. We deserve to be with someone who is willing to fight for love.

[@RenayEmond]

🤝Well said TRUTH ❤🙏

[@3SpoiledDonkeys]

You two are such a sweet couple. Congratulations on the birth of your beautiful baby boy. One day you may want to marry, once you are both ready. No need to feel pressure from your followers. Some couples are very committed to eachother without feeling the need to get married. All the best guys! Keep being you! ❤

[@UNIQUETVfilm]

As a neutral philosopher and thinker new to the west here is why you better get married: As the world now is big you need a proof that you are members of one family, that you are together. This helps for example if you are using a medical facility as you can have family insurance. Also for inheritance if one of the couples die their spouse can get their pension or belongings. On the emotional level it is as saying I promise to spend the rest of my life with you or you are the one and only for me. Even if this didn't happen in the future it is sweet to have felt this commitment in the moment. Usually men are the ones who are against marriage because of financial worries, specially in the west as the man doesn't want to end up being the sole provider if the woman go through pregnancy and raising the child. which she has to do biologically. If not married she will be on her toes in addition to having babies also worrying about providing financially for the family. Also men see marriage as loss of freedom while women see it as a joyful life achievement. It doesn't have to be marriage in the traditional sense but any form of legal commitment or proof that says we are in this together. I see from the video that only one is not excited about the marriage idea 🙂

[@TaylorAmelia]

And ironically, studies show the happiest people are married men and single women. Because long term men benefit from marriage but often, women do not.

[@Henri377]

What great and very special Q&A ! Thank you so much ! I've been smiling for almost 60 minutes! 😊 It's an honour to watch and it makes me double happy to have been part in your well project, so that you hopefully can have that bathroom! By the way, I love your new kitchen 😍 Thank you for gifting us so much of your time and life ❤

[@lidewijvos]

Apart from that everyone misunderstood Kalle and jumped to conclusions, I'm also baffled by the blunt conservatism in the comments of people who are unable to see things from another perspective. Even if Kalle didn't want to marry (he said he wants to) it's nobody's problem. In most western countries you can also have a registered partnership so assets or children are protected. Common people you are better than this!

[@maikvanlommel7573]

Well said!!

[@GemmaRotgerMoll]

For those christian conservative americans in the comments. In Europe we have many religions and also the choice to have ANY religion. We have civil marriage and civil partnership which are legally same in terms of protection and rights. Since there are several religions, in most countries in Europe you cannot have a religious marriage without having a civil marriage at the court first. So what protects you and gives you rights is the civil act of partnership or civil marrige. Religious is optional and it does not give any additional legal right. At the moment you register your first child you are automaticlly set as civil partnership in case you weren't before. So chill!!

[@h.neubert8770]

Thanks!! I am European and live in the US and Americans are so backwards in many ways.

[@lauraspower6439]

First, let me congratulate Christine. You look much brighter & happier after your pregnancy🌸 Being a mom seems to fit you perfectly because you look gorgeous💕 Kalle you did an amazing job with the cabin and the father roll fits you very well. I understand that there is a mix of viewers from different parts of the world who watch Kalle's and Christine's life journey. I wrote this comment only as helpful comment not as a critic. In Sweden, we have different views on people's privacy & marriage, which can easily be misunderstood by european or americans. People here often don't rush into marriage or share as much of their personal lives. We also never do things only to meet other people's expectations. In Sweden, we generally do not ask such private questions of anyone, even if we are close to them, because we believe that individuals know what they want to do with their lives, how and when. We also don’t rush anything; we are more relaxed, which some might misconstrue as selfishness. It’s a healthy kind of selfishness, let’s put it that way 😊

[@3SpoiledDonkeys]

I agree 100 percent! ❤

[@Stopstaring101]

Don’t limit your child to one year of your complete devotion. Everyone’s different. Some babies may need more than just a year… Don’t put a timeline on it because you feel like you need to be a girlfriend to your boyfriend again… He’s hopefully a mature, grown man who can tuck his ego and his needs down for as long as it takes to be the best mother to a brand new life on this earth. A little human being that both of you produced as a loving and patient couple. Don’t place a “timeline” of when your sons needs can now take a backseat.

[@katrinag1234]

Kalle, I'm with You (and your family). And I think there is no space for questions like that from "outside". Why are these people so interested in that? That's strange.. but maybe this episode was just in time when to get free from followers who are not ment to be in your followers list. And it will be better for your family.

[@Melissa-gn3dv]

Sounds like maybe Christine would like to be married.

[@KalleFlodin]

I also wanna get married 😅 When I said, 'I don't understand why people are so interested in marriage,' I meant to say that I don't understand why people are so interested in OUR marriage specifically. Christine and I ABSOLUTELY plan to get married one day, and I look forward to the day I can call Christine my wife 🥰 English isn't my native language, so things can apparently easily be misinterpreted 🙈

[@lindafolk4598]

Marriage is a confirmation of your commitment which you already have with one another. Marriage protects the partners legally and personally, doesn't it? No pressure or a demand just what legally suports both of you. We are subject to our state laws unfortunately or fortunately. Thats all I'm thinking. ❤

[@Delyanstion]

Every woman wants a man to marry her, but cultural expectations differ. For example, in Russia, a wife might expect her husband to guide and support her more. In Scandinavia, it seems less common, which I noticed in your relationship with Christine. In a video, you mentioned paying for the food you brought her in the hospital, which seemed odd and a bit rude since you're her husband. Christine seems like a very different kind of woman, but if you don't want people sharing their opinions about your relationship, maybe avoid making it public. People will always have opinions, so if you don’t want feedback, it’s better to turn off comments or keep things private. ​@@KalleFlodin

[@numivis7807]

@@Delyanstionhe didn’t mean that with the food. He said he needs to pay for his own food (meaning the hospital/ the health insurance doesn’t pay it for him, since they only pay it for the mum)

[@Heidi_137]

She is 'married', no need to have a paper at the legal office to be committed! In the eyes of the law they have the same rights as legally married people.

[@os-qt1hc]

It just feels so not right for a man to call a mother of his child his girlfriend. Just the words themselves - BOYfriend and GIRLfriend - do not indicate two adults commited to each other in a serious relationship having a family together.

[@verone272]

They speak swedish so it’s probably not the same words! I would rush to get married if my first language was english just not to call my boyfriend "boyfriend" 😂

[@bakk.]

Why are you so judgemental about something like this? In Sweden people often refer to each other as sambos in situations like this and it's very common. Legally it's very similar to being married. Please respect different cultures.

[@fyou2241]

I think it is the english I think but I understand❣️

[@veronikaradu3915]

Thank you Kalle and Christine for opening up to us, even if you do not have too. I appreciate and love you both! I am sorry you have to go through these unsolicited advices in some of these really nosy and hateful comments...it makes me mad, that people feel entitled to comment your personal choices and pressure you. It is none of their (ours) business, really. It is really annoying and people really do not realize. It is really the same as they would ask "when you will have kids?"(I am currently dealing with a lot of that pressure). Well, there may be very personal reasons behind, that Kalle and Christine do not want to share with complete strangers on the internet. It is none of our business. And also somebody commented, that "you either should be ready to receive these questions OR you should not share your personal life at all on internet" What??? Really people? Again, we should feel honored, that Kalle and Christine share with us the glimpses of their beautiful life and really inspiring lifestyle. I am so disappointed that this wonderful channel is flooded with these kind of comments....

[@3SpoiledDonkeys]

I agree, and I hope this lovely couple will be able to disregard these nosey comments. I hope they also know that it is OK to set boundaries when you have a channel. Let people know, the subject of marriage has been answered and discussed and is now closed. You are more than welcome to state that. ❤

[@YolandaUrban]

Thank you Kalle! Beautiful family!❤

[@michele6873]

I once knew a young couple who had two children together. They didn't think marriage mattered either. Until one day they dressed their girls up, went to the courthouse and got married. It is an extra level of commitment and, yes, for many people it does make a difference. In the same way you don't understand the 'push' toward marriage - I don't understand the reticence to do so if you love one another.

[@UnPluggingThePlayer]

The baby is gorgeous. You 2 make a beautiful child. Thank you for letting me see your goodness toward this precious one. It made me feel very good to see how respectful you are to this little one. 🎁

[@GregB-f1x]

👍 Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings so openly with us.

[@pirad7799]

Im a bit late to the party. I saw your comment regarding the difficult comments on Instagram days ago. I wanted to say I don't understand what's there to not understand about your views on marriage. Obviously you're waiting for when it feels right. I loved this video very much and it has inspired me to think about certain aspects about my life that need adjusting. All the best to your 3.

[@dskarban]

Oh my goodness! I am so disappointed in the negative responses. This is your and Christine’s business. It is your lives and you should be able to do whatever you want to. People need to keep their opinions to themselves and not criticize others choices in life. In many countries partners that live together have the same legal rights as married people do. Your religious beliefs are yours. Live and let live. ❤ your channel!!

[@MyNic28]

I assume it was just people being curious? I personally don't care, but I guess some people are just interested.

[@April-is3uu]

Loved hearing more about your life and plans in this video ❤. As far as marriage goes, I don’t think people should be asking if or when it’s going to happen, or pressuring you. It’s entirely your choice and I’m sure you’ll both do what’s right for you and your family. As to what marriage changes, I agree there are guaranteed benefits that aren’t always available in common-law relationships in some places. To me it’s also more than that though. Regardless of whether a person has a big fancy wedding (I didn’t), getting married was a way for my partner and I to actively “choose” each other as lifelong partners. To us it felt like a stronger promise than dating. A promise that we were going to tackle life together, whatever good or bad may come. We were also a little older when we got married (30s) and had both dated other people. Though we obviously know divorces are not uncommon, getting married was our way of saying to each other that it was ok, we could let our guards down, and that we weren’t just going to walk away from each other during tough times. Would we have been just as committed to each other without being married? Possibly. Knowing we made that commitment and are sticking with it though, can be incredibly comforting, even if it’s just a mental thing.

[@ladybug9171]

You have a beautiful family. Cherish it dearly. I am a mother of 4 and have been married as long as I remember myself 😂😂😂. Anyhow, it might sound old fashioned, but a marriage is an agreement. It is to protect you, your wife and your baby. It is a sacred union. Plus it gives your child your name - his father's name. And it adds security to the child's upbringing.

[@krewetkaaaa]

In most countries you get father name even without marriage

[@ofirshorshy8281]

so true, agreed. Marriage that is done in front of God with his light on it is stronger thne just a govermant certificate or agreement in a layer office.

[@moyrainbow5674]

Only if you believe in that particular god!

[@numivis7807]

My parents were married and I got my mum’s name.

[@ofirshorshy8281]

@@moyrainbow5674 well if you dont believe they are just not blessed.

[@dankadesign7462]

Enjoy the first one a lot to learn right now and see how you going.I am sure you will get more when times come❤

[@lisabyrd8398]

Love your videos! I just want to say, it is very mature of you to ask your viewers why we believe so much in marriage. We know you don't have to share anything you don't want to, and it is cool that you let us chat about our biggest burning question with you. Marriage- It is a higher level of commitment -whether it's for religious reasons or for civil protections etc. Not sure anyone can argue that. I guess what makes us curious about it is that Christine does seem ready for that next level of commitment, and has seemed ready for a while...and Kalle does not. From an outsider's perspective, even if marriage is not a big deal in Sweden, it just seems like with the love you have for eachother, there would be no barriers to committing to eachother in that way. We see how much you both love each other, and so, I guess this is what doesn't make sense. If both of your answers to this question of marriage were " we don't believe in marriage, marriage sucks" we would no longer be curious. But it doesn't seem like both of you feel that way. I think marriage is the ultimate geature of love and commitment a man can make for a woman. And I do think that despite marriage not being a fairytale by any means, it is the best thing for the whole family. Sending love to you both and your sweet baby!

[@purrsephone2904]

It's nice to see the love you two have for your baby.💛

[@virginiapapesh]

With the comments regarding marriage- I want to preface this by saying firstly- you and Christine are doing an amazing job as both parents and partners. Having said that, marriage is a personal choice and decision. I feel like the partial obsession of you and Christine getting married is majorly due to cultural differences. Western culture- marriage has a strong connection with religion and legal/financial rights. I also believe that gender roles in each culture also differ which attributes to how westerners and people of Nordic descent view marriage. Kalle, you mentioned that the comment you made has cost you followers…to that I want to say that has NOTHING to do with you and everything to do with them. The purpose of life is to be happy. Don’t forget that. You started your journey and left modern world seeking happiness. You have it, my friend. The opinion of others, especially on this topic does not concern you. Meaning the judgement, or others expectations does not dictate your life or how you live it. If anything, it should encourage you to focus on your own values, goals and authenticity .

[@AnnieJulian]

Love you, guys 😘 Can't wait to see more on your journey home ❤

[@hyperborean72]

it's so nice to see you both in good health. you are a very beautiful couple, and I'm sure your boy will be too. thank you for sharing your ideas and experience with your audience

[@GhettoBuddha]

2:21 The validation you just gave this man with those words is immense… It’s beautiful… Perhaps one of the main things we man want to hear

[@bonnie5601]

Wonderful video, you two, but remember, each day is a new day never lived before. Life is not static. So today’s decisions may not be what tomorrow’s will be. Wisdom comes with age! And as you grow old together, comforting each other , remember to be the great team mates for each other that you are now.

[@NymphTheDanube]

Marriage is a contract, and if it exists, it is for a reason. Mom is the sweetest person ever. August will be a steady rock for momma. Heal your body, and your mind, complicated deliveries leave scars even years after the event. 38 years old still good age for a baby. Merry Xmas 🎄✨️

[@elc193]

Nice vlog. Thank you for entertaining our questions. ❤

[@MagicalCarolAnnHenderson]

Truly beautiful. Always value yourselves as a couple. Every moment counts. I love you three!!

[@draug7966]

I don't mean to be rude or anything but to all the apparently very christian and/or american people: Sweden is a secular country where not everything revolves around religion, and a couple living together and having a kid and what not without being married is not seen as smth strange here. Can you guys please respect that? With that said, it's nothing wrong to ask but some comments here seem kind of aggressive about it.

[@maikvanlommel7573]

Well said!

[@h.neubert8770]

Thank you!

[@cg000gc]

Excellent comment. People should mind they own life and fully respect the choices of other people.

[@michellelindsay5727]

It is so important to maintain the beauty of each language and the culture. August’s current age is perfect for absorbing multiple languages. When your family members visit, encourage them to speak their language and special customs that each of you were never taught that you would approve. August will learn how to adapt quickly with the correct verbal responses in these three or more languages. He will be so intelligent and creative; as a child and adult, with these capabilities because his brain will have developed with interchangeable pathways. Bless your family and your precious creative, loving, humble, diverse, wholesome, belief, opportunities that you want for your lives. ❤

[@lisabradley7292]

Your videos are like a really good book! always so comforting ❤️❤️❤️

[@chneu1985]

Take your time! We got married beeing highly pregnant with our third. Just the right time because we felt ready for it and wanted it. No one needs to be married to show how much you love and support each other!

[@StephanieJongsma-cw5jp]

Beautiful couple, beautiful family. Thank you for sharing with us!

[@natalieharvey5631]

Your baby is so precious. God bless you ❤️❤️❤️💜💜💜🌹🌹🌹

[@merilynp-j294]

You have the right to choose what is best for your relationship. Try to ignore comments that are bringing you down - live your life that brings you peace and happiness.

[@candaceelizabethanne475]

You all are such an extremely beautiful family. I enjoy your content very much so. Sending best wishes ❤

[@pythonsequel2924]

People are so nosy. 😂 I hope your baby has a wonderful first winter in the cabin!

[@amyKallensandoval3334]

As long as You both are happy loved and fulfilled. You be You and do what's best for You. Don't let People pressure You❤

[@carorijkehaven5386]

I lived in the Netherlands for 3 years and one of the many things that I enjoyed about the country is the many heterosexual couples that I met who, in the subject of marriage, left it to the end and some haven’t even married yet and may not. They own a nice house together, have their own jobs, and at least two wonderful kids. Most of them have been together for more than a decade now. Unlike here in the United States, marriage is too important and seems to revolve around one of the main important goals in relationships. The only time that I found it normal to see people married quickly was when I was in the Army. Some people did it for love and being married makes it easier for when the Soldier has to get stationed somewhere else, and some for the benefits which we call “contract marriage”.

[@Heidi_137]

Marriage is a huge business in the Americas, the cost of the wedding and divorce even for low income can reach 5 figures but usually 6 figures. It's a money grab and a way to control the population as well.

[@joanntucker2742]

How sweet your little baby looks so precious, and I'm glad you're going to try and have another one 🙏🤗

[@Starmom36976]

I was married for 23years. It did not end well. Marriage is not needed. No government official is needed, only your commitment. You made a commitment to be together and have a child, and it’s beautiful. Your doing the right thing. Continue your free thinking. Congratulations too you all! ❤

[@danielalondongirl933]

Christine i so enjoy watching you enjoy motherhood but just the way you are, how you speak-you are such a beautiful woman inside & out. I would be honoured to find a friend like you😊 Hard to find!