Why We Broke Up Then | Story Time

Hi guys,
We opened up about a vulnerable time in our life: when we broke up. As a couple we have encountered a fair share of hurdles. We hope you enjoy the video.
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[@divine5582]

You just earned yourself a new Sub. Not sure how I ended up here. I had a similar story with my current partner, he didn't take me seriously in the beginning and I couldn't just take it. Decided to end it, wished him well.. Few days after he was sending texts and long story short we are happy together 😊. Yes we talked about it and communication has simply changed everything..Thanks for sharing

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Aww thank you for sharing your story. Sometimes you just need to make a move for something to change. Especially in the beginning, it’s so much easier and it sets the tone for your relationship. Glad everything worked out for you guys.

[@itumelengmashilo6071]

This was such a great story. Firstly, thank you for sharing. I know it probably wasn't easy for both of you to be that vulnerable. But the story was full of so many valuable lessons. One that Josh mentioned that I completely agree with is that "arguments are an opportunity to learn about each other & grow". Thanks for great vid. New sub here😊

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Aww thank you for sitting through this conversation with us. It really wasn’t easy but people like you make us wanna do more. Thank you ❤️

[@noorzanayasmin7806]

You guys are wholecome. Reminds me of my relationship. It seems like the guy has anxious attachment style while the girl has avoidance attachment style. I am glad you guys made it work

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

That could definitely be the case. We had our own issues and we have worked so hard to feel secure in the relationship. Thank you so much 😊

[@bongimaphothoane7098]

Hello, mommy is a new fan here. Love your love story and I'm happy for you the break up didn't last forever. .💞💯💃🏼

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Hello mommy ☺️ thank you so much and welcome 🫶🏽

[@Afrosoil11]

Beautiful! You touched on so many points

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Happy to share our story 😊 thank you ❤️

[@michellepetersen9794]

As a fellow South African. Absolutely beautiful to see.❤

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Aww you are so kind. Thank you so much fellow saffa ☺️ 🫶🏽

[@missfmulovhedzi6985]

You nearly killed me mahn. Now I can breath. Much love for you guys

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

We are so sorry 😹🫶🏽 we love you too ❤️❤️❤️

[@Uloma2024]

This video got me smiling alot. 2 people who are ready to admit that are wrong n willing to be honest❤

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Aww this is so sweet of you 🥹 thank you 🫶🏽

[@mandwandwe3246]

I like the honesty between you. Obviously, Hope loves herself enough to demand very high standards. This was good for the 2 of you. ❤

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

❤️❤️❤️We are trying to be as transparent as possible. Thank you ☺️ we are in a great space now.

[@rahabpulanemakwala4447]

I nearly fainted 😅I'm happy this a lesson that will help us. Love you guys ❤❤

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

So sorry 😂 we are still going strong and thank you for the support ❤️❤️❤️ love you too 🥰

[@claramitchell746]

Hope, Hope, Hope, I too would have kicked him to the curb, and given him a long leash! Communication skills are oh sooo important! I am glad that you took the time away, and then got together and talked it out. Understanding more about each other’s cultures, and how they were brought up, and telling one’s feelings is so important. Never push it aside. These misunderstandings do tend to fester and turn into mountains! Stay strong in love and communication skills. You have a good foundation and a loving family that supports you.🙏🏾🌞🎶🌺😌❤️❤️❤️

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

You are so understanding, it’s amazing ❤️❤️❤️ we are so similar too. Thank you for the well wishes. We will stay strong and united

[@Loving_Towi]

Beautiful couple, glad you made it through..wishing you the best.

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

It was definitely a learning experience. Thank you 🥹❤️

[@joshuaschlueter9494]

Love it!!!

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

🫶🏽

[@florenceshavi7425]

😂😂😂 go baby voice you guys are the best all I know is you belong to together. Much love ❤❤❤❤❤

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

The baby voice is a sign of trouble 😹 thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

[@scolabwali629]

Beautiful story. Lovely couple

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Thank you 😊

[@conniematilda1041]

Happy to hear your story

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

We are happy to share 😁

[@Uloma2024]

First time here. Cute couple

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Welcome 🤗 happy to have you here ❤️

[@nomaphelombudlu]

Your almost kill me im glad you guys are well🎉🎉🎉

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

We are well 😹😹😹 so sorry

[@conniematilda1041]

Love the story

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Thank you Connie ❤️

[@mmconsltingservcesmms407]

Guys you title gave me heart attack I thought you had just broke up. Couldn't process that and thought should I listen or not. Guys please don't ever try to think of breaking up😂

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

We are sorry 😹😹😹 we will definitely work hard at it before we consider breaking up for any reason. Thank you for showing us so much care 🫶🏽

[@gladnesskhoza3320]

New sub here. Just came across your channel. Love you guys ❤

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Aww thank you ☺️ welcome 🫶🏽

[@Gagagames302]

He sounds good. Please take care of him.

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

I will, he truly is a great person. Thank you so much ☺️

[@maripa971]

hi! very helpful thank you

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Thank you 🥹❤️

[@mummywawun8638]

Icome across. your video and l really enjoyed watching it

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Welcome 🥰🫶🏽 glad to hear that you enjoyed it!

[@blessinggumede6680]

❤❤❤

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

❤️❤️❤️🫶🏽

[@ChipoMugari]

New subscriber here from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼🇿🇼🇿🇼

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Hello neighbor 🫶🏽 you are welcome!

[@Thembakazi_1]

New sub here, i love you guys yall are cute

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

You are so kind. Thank you 🥹❤️

[@didiramsBW]

Forever together bomakhi❤

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Forever makhi 🫶🏽

[@conniematilda1041]

Star and love ❤️ a lots kisses

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@justcliff3261]

#blacklovematters

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Thank you for engaging on our page. We appreciate it 🫶🏽

[@joesielskisr4911]

She is cute

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Thank you ☺️

[@mitzismallberg8304]

How did you meet?

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

We met in the States while I was rock climbing in Hope’s town. She was in school, we need a whole video for this one

[@mitzismallberg8304]

@@BeyondBorders_jh I can't wait. Greetings from Cape Town. Regards to your beautiful wife xx

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

@@mitzismallberg8304 sending you love all the way from Pretoria 🫶🏽 we are looking forward to visiting your city

[@erineorama1080]

Are you married now after five years?

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

😭

[@matildadondo2643]

Are you married? If not what are you heading to?? Praying for you both to make up your minds for marriage 😅

[@matildadondo2643]

@@BeyondBorders_jh 27:54

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

@@matildadondo2643 please watch our assumptions about us video 😁

[@getinspired720]

Woooooooow you guys look great together 😊, your fiance has hair like for my American boyfriend, his hair is long too, I am a KZbinr as well and am in an interracial relationship with an American guy, I have collaborated with some ladies in an interracial relationship as well, am requesting for a collaboration with you guys, I would like to tell a beautiful story about you guys if that is something you are ok with, Hope to hear from you soon dear thank you

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Thank you so much 😊 we would love to collaborate in the future, unfortunately not right now since we have only started navigating the social media space. You have a great channel.

[@getinspired720]

@@BeyondBorders_jh thanks for replying dear

[@alinetuyishime6483]

After watching al most all your videos I feel like you’re not attracted to that man physically! Even if you’re the one with PHD you maybe stack with for potential that will come with him in future or something! He loves you more than you do!

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Thank you for sharing your opinion. People can watch the same video and have different perspectives, which is what makes us unique. At the end of the day, we all know what’s truly in our hearts, and only we know 🤗

[@mandwandwe3246]

That's a strange comment to make! 🤔

[@florence-1470]

Are you scorpion young lady

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

No 😹😹 Sagittarius, why?

[@gloriaroffey6884]

They are not going to stay together. His friend is more important to him and I know why I hope she sees what I’m talking about.

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

We pray against this kind of energy.

[@vuyosithole3116]

I'm new in no matter what may you pls join 90days away ❤❤❤❤thnks for sharing

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Thank you for watching 🥰🫶🏽 listen, we did the process for joining 90 days fiancé but we didn’t have enough drama 😹😹😹 we will make a video about that one day

[@D_A_Marv]

@@BeyondBorders_jhthank goodness you all did not make it to The Trash Learning Channel. Y’all are too wholesome and sane for that show

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

@@D_A_Marv this is hilarious 😂 you are so right and we are happy to be sharing our own story

[@joycewahome9139]

He's handsome not beautiful

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

His soul is beautiful. 😻

[@joyceslipper9735]

Way too young for any commitment. Wait until you are in your 30's.

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

We hear you😊. We will be sure to do what’s best for us 🫶🏽

[@ncumisapatso3508]

@Hope I saw your accomplishments on LinkedIn... Woow🎉🎉, beauty with brains... Big up to you Dr... Always looking foward to your videos both 😊

[@BeyondBorders_jh]

Aww thank you so much 🥹❤️