Why We Broke Up

[@daniellecarolan]

lol you put both takes of the FaceTime in!! I’m exposed

[@NaiaHarwood]

Danielle Marie Carolan ❤❤

[@sydneyx796]

Danielle Marie Carolan exposed sis

[@carmelosborne6049]

Danielle Marie Carolan I’m so glad you and Joey are still friends maybe in the future you’ll get back together who knows, wishing you all the best in your future

[@lotjanssen5315]

Danielle Marie Carolan hahaha you so cute

[@gabrielaandrea5080]

Danielle Marie Carolan !

[@iamchristiancraig]

Honeslty I am just happy you guys are still best friends.

[@olivierduivestein6541]

Christian Craig exactly

[@brunerguy1]

Thank you for letting us know. You're both beautiful souls. We're just rooting for the future for both of you. Stay you!

[@sydrawlingss]

crying so hard. I love you guys so much and I wish you two the best and happiness in the future. you’re both so mature for this💛

[@laviniamaria5274]

I'm so happy that I support a mature guy. Actually, this vid relates A LOT with my love life rn and i always felt it was wrong to leave a person if you still love each other, but it's not that simple and sometimes love makes you do things u think u're not capable of, but u do exactly bc u love someone (and yourself!!).

[@Hanan-ch6yl]

6:34 the bin suddenly opened and it kind of scared me.😂

[@jcooper3939]

I know right

[@yukioo6791]

SAME

[@NicoleGamboa]

I SAW THAT TOO LMAO

[@samanthamurillo9554]

I noticed 3-4 mins in. It scared me!

[@yourfavoriteangel93]

Yes I had to re watch a few times ti make sure it really happpened!

[@taresha1826]

I watched Danielle's video and she said the same thing about the love part at the end. Happy for u guys and what you are both accomplishing together or separated.

[@carmelosborne6049]

Joey Kidney would you ever consider moving to America...

[@lisad389]

I'm so proud of you and Danielle

[@taztazline7265]

I'm in a long distance relationship for almost 5yrs now... And I jst couldn't tolerate it anymore.. I got emotional i jst told him i couldn't stay with him anymore... Now finally.. He got his visa he's coming to my country finally and not to leave alone from here... We're getting married next month... Please keep me in ur prayers... Our family is really have.... Specially his mom... ❤❤ hope to b together forever💜💜 u too stay blessed Joey and Danielle

[@yanastevens5223]

wow best wishes for your guys

[@ysys6749]

I hope everything went well🥰

[@Ashuleyy1]

I hope y’all find each other again in life - even though you will keep each other in your lives - and if you don’t I hope y’all find happiness in whoever or whatever or within yourselves! Stay you, stay beautiful 😍

[@Ashuleyy1]

Joey Kidney stay you, stay beautiful 😻

[@Alexandra_Wright]

It’s so stupid when people create rumors. Like you don’t know them! If you don’t know them or even if you do but don’t know the whole story. Don’t spread anything. It’s simple as that. Spread kindness be supportive.

[@honorholden9694]

Joey you have the most beautiful soul. What a mature way to go about things. I know for a fact that everything is going to fall in to place some day, and that you wont have to worry about distance or money, or time. Until then, stay you, stay beautiful 💛

[@lyndseywebb2477]

I feel bad. Why can't their relationship just be their relationship. It's nobody else's business. Sorry about all the comments and rumors.

[@ehughes8958]

Joey: “not trying to monetize...” Ad starts playing (I love your content. And man’s gotta pay the bills. Just made me laugh how the ad came straight after your comment 😂)

[@dominiquethenosyreader2686]

Right i saw about 5 ads through the whole video. I was like mhmm i see you joey

[@m0gsz]

I’m happy that you two are still happy and still friends 💛

[@mariaulfani2968]

Oke

[@cadeemoore2814]

I'm glad he pointed the trash can out I kept thinking it was opening on it's own but wasn't entirely sure. Side note just recently broke up with my bf so definitely relate. love Joey so much!

[@taresha1826]

When I first saw that trashcan open and close I was like what the fudge...Joey's can is posessed

[@alexandrahawaii364]

Taresha 18 ahhhh I read this and then it happens and I was like...tf 🤨

[@taresha1826]

Nappers Day it is. Usually he has to say open can and close can for it to function but it did it by itself so I was like whaaat? He explained that certain words trigger it.

[@tavanyacoutinho61]

yeah exactly even I saw it lmao I thought I was the only one but then I saw your comment jesus that was creepy

[@dominiquethenosyreader2686]

Thank you like i knew i couldnt be the only one

[@lorettanewton487]

my heart was so full when you said “it wasn’t that we didn’t love each other, it’s that we loved each other too much” bc that’s exactly what she said💓

[@ricebunnies29]

I cried so much towards the end, but I''m so proud of you for talking about it even when you're not obligated to give an explanation to anyone. Much love to the both of you!

[@jessjess1107]

that's the fanciest garbage bin i've ever seen

[@oliviapereira2215]

Wait did you actually not watch her video cause you guys both said the EXACT same thing about loving each other too much💛 I hope you are both okay I love you both just as much apart as I did together xx

[@natalievega4699]

happy you’re happy 💛

[@caileysuitelifee]

if u love eachother be together , cause you both aint gonna love anyone else the way you love one another .....screw distance . lol . stay friends give it TIME you both get some space and be individuals do your thing but for the dating aspect if u fight an obstacle it's only gonna make ur relationship stronger that even the bish distance got nothing over yall .... yall goals . D&J im signing out

[@leasanches9736]

this became my favorite video easily. the raw emotion in his eyes, and his smile just broke my heart. plus the quality was damn fiiiine

[@shirleya7131]

Long distance relationship suck balls....but sometimes you love them that's why you have to let them go....but I'm just glad that you're still best friends 💛😊

[@sportykid7660]

Shirlz A long distance is hard whether it’s a friendship or a relationship. From someone who’s part of such friendships, it sucks

[@kenzieelizabeth]

love u both

[@darrinlindsey]

Joey, first of all, I'm glad to be back in the land of the Kidney Beans!!! I'm so glad that you finally found a proper time and way to do this video. I think I understand how much weight it will take off of your mind. It pissed me off so much, that folks kept asking about this subject, in your IG live sessions. I felt so bad for you, that you had to deal with so much more of it, with other types of messaging. Love ya buddy.

[@ashleyjordan224]

can i please have a boyfriend just like you?? you’re literally the sweetest guy and it shows so much how much you and danielle love each other no matter the distance & just the name of “broken up”. it shows that no matter what, you’re always there for each other which is so amazing. i hope you guys in the future get back together because you both are made for each other and made to grow old together. stay strong to both do you guys! love you both so much. ❤️

[@juliaquigley4155]

The love in your eyes when you were talking to her and love on your face when you were talking about her was precious

[@JordySan]

i love how open and real you guys are, i will forever see you guys as such great inspirstion💛

[@dericklovesdenim]

I’m so incredibly proud of you both. You guys are so wise and mature. It’s really refreshing and nice to see two down to earth people amongst the chaos of social media. Love that you are open yet still considerate to us. So happy to have stumbled across both of your channel many years ago. Love you guys.

[@zoekaley1312]

This just hurt my heart, because it sucks to see him hurting but I'm so happy they're best friends and still talking with each other. 💗

[@delilahsheley9928]

That was so mature and amazing! Proud of you both

[@iamamobot]

Joey is too pure for this world 💛

[@dominiquethenosyreader2686]

Preach it honey

[@cat42798]

guess it’s true what they say, exes that stay friends either really loved each other or never did 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@normsnowden2536]

Ah, the light bulb moment. I commented some time ago that once you put something out there, it's out there and if you put yourself out in the public domain, warts and all, then there is no going back and yes, I did mention views, subs, etc. The trouble with the world today, especially in the hearts and minds of younger people, it's all about social media. Think people, think. Hold back, don't fall into the trap of totally exposing yourself. I do feel for Danielle and Joey, but they chose to put their relationship out there and when it went pear shaped and they held back, of course with social media the way it is, it drew attention, good bad and indifferent. They both need a big hug, this will mature them in another way and they will recover. Lesson learnt. XOXO.

[@dishabiswas6720]

Its gonna be okay.. I am happy that you two are best friend. It's really rare to be friends with whom you broke up..

[@marvalousmetanoia9139]

Thank you for sharing Joey, this was beautiful. I love Danielle💜😊, I discovered your channel through her. Your relationship is so beautiful, the distance really sucks but I am patiently waiting for the day where you both get back together. I love that you both are still great friends.

[@Teampeetapurple]

Joey I have been watching your videos for over three years. I hope everything works out. Everything does happen for a reason and it will make sense one day. Stay strong!

[@sherenejasmine]

Love how you guys handled this, so mature and thoughtful. Love you joey! ♥

[@celestialdiamond]

We deserve way more people in the world who are like you ❤

[@lyss1935]

this is incredible and i cannot get over the fact that there is a kind caring optimistic human being out there still - regardless of all the shit they went through

[@shamisonothandomimienyawo1425]

I love how mature the two of you are. Break ups happen and it's part of life as well as growing up. Kuddos to the two of you for staying friends

[@kaitdonthate2446]

Props to ya'll for being so mature and understanding what option was best for both of your lives. A lot of people become selfish in relationships and ya'll did the complete opposite. Maintaining your friendship was definitely the best route to take. Ya'll are awesome, keep doing you.

[@jayvalentine4266]

You both still love each other but what makes you happy is what makes you happy

[@asandhu2974]

I am happy for you guys separately or together what ever works for you two

[@AmandaJule]

okay but did anyone else see the trash can open on its own?????? 6:32

[@jasminegarcia7164]

i was in a relationship for 3 in a half years almost 4 and i loved the guy so much i thought he was my soul mate i was so wrong.... out of no were one day he just tells me he wants to break up he doesn't have feelings for me i didn't understand. we were living together we had 6 months living together he would get mad at me for the stupidest things he would come home late bc he didn't want to be with me and i know he came home late on purpose bc he works with my dad and my dad would get home quick we didn't live far. He would bring over people and do drugs and smoke and they would stay really late he didn't care that i was tired i wanted to sleep he would say i'm a bad owner for putting on a sweater for my dog at winter which i don't get how that made me a bad owner i was just making sure he was warm lol and to be honest he was a bad owner he got a cat knowing my dog didn't like cats and he would NEVER pick up after it the cat litter would pile up with crap and make the room smell so bad i would have to clean it and it wasn't my cat and he wouldn't feed it or give it water i also had to do that but any ways he started acted really immature saying he loved being an a** to people which i think was dumb being mean to others is not nice that makes you look so bad and stupid. He was an a** to me a lot he would say i never did anything around our place which i did lol i would clean up after him and his retarded friends he did drugs with and i have to add something to that i had surgery on my stomach when i would clean up after him and his friends i couldn't do much i had a big cut in my stomach yet i managed to still do things around. i thought i loved him i did a lot of things to make him happy i would sneak out and go to his job and be with him buy him food i feel stupid for thinking he loved me i don't think i would ever go out with him the way he broke my heart was really bad he said i was only with him for his money and other crap. And thanks to him i feel like i can't be with other guys i tried going out with other guys i can't i feel like i'm going to get hurt again or be taken advantage of i been single now for a year i been happy i kind of love being single don't have to deal with anyone attitude or crap :)

[@valenciavidrine7272]

Jasmine Garcia not all guys will be like that one. Dont let him ruin you finding love. Not saying you need someone in your life but if you did want someone you deserve the best. Just stick true to your standards and you'll find someone who deserves and appreciates you.

[@jakeboy6480]

i’m proud of you for getting out of that relationship, ur soulmate is waiting for you out there

[@jessicahenry2806]

Joey i love you so much you are amazing and there is a girl out there that will love you (not saying dani don't love you) but there will be a girl out there for you I promise I love you so much STAY YOU LITTLE BEAN

[@patriciaking7892]

You guys haven't broken up. You're just taking space time from each other, and the relationship is getting stronger through time and test. How else can you two stay friends if the love isn't still there? Your paths will cross again. Peace.

[@sarahhopew5939]

You 2 are the purest people💛 I love the both of you so much❤

[@david345878]

What really took my veins was when the trash can opened 😅 Anyway, I'm glad y'all are still friends ✊

[@carmelosborne6049]

I am so proud of you, I know this would have been hard for you to vlog, you are a great person and I am so grateful that you are so honest an open about your relationship, who knows in the future if you get back together but I want to wish you all the best in your future.

[@GM-oy2fg]

Wow, Joey, man. I used to watch you when I personally was in a bad place, and you kinda were too, I could tell, and now you're.. you know, blossoming and shit, and so am I. So, thanks for being there at 3am. I'm really proud of who you've become. You're going to be a very wise man one day.

[@cristopherbrown2446]

Joey I realize that KZbin is your career and everything, but you've posted quite a bit here lately and you have every right to make as many videos as you want, but I just want to say, don't run yourself ragged. Maybe you need to for money or whatever but don't strech yourself too thin. You're my favorite KZbinr and I would hate to see you push yourself too hard. Thank you for everything you do, you're an inspiration. Stay you.

[@kaylaeverette7438]

he still looks at you like he loves you, so sweet!!!! Distance can overcome anything and the Lord will always provide no matter what!

[@baileycopley2034]

Break ups are very hard. Still being friends is an amazing option, you two have been so mature! Prayers for you both and hope you have healthy, happy lives ❤️

[@anna_romankovaxx]

This is so precious to know both sides of your story and to understand that despite everything you still care about each other. Things were tough and obviously it was really hard to make a decision like that but it definitely deserves a lot of respect.Thank you for sharing

[@KarolinasLife]

I am from Austria and my boyfriend is from the US. we are about 8000 miles apart and doing long distance. It is so hard so I really understand u guys. We haven't seen each other since march. Its almost December now. Thats 8 months apart already and because of the pandemic there's no end in sight. its so hard

[@tracyspencer1674]

Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

[@tracyspencer1674]

✛2347030894892(☉｡☉)!

[@okaykatie260]

Sometimes people need to realize that just because one relationship ended doesn’t mean another relationship as friends can’t carry it on. People will find any reason to diss you, but like you said, it’s not open to opinion. It’s a decision between 2 people only. I went through something similar, and yes it hurts, but the friendship you have after is one you will have forever.

[@brookecoleman9589]

So much respect for both of you. In the future when you’re ready, a video on how to be friends with your ex/get over those romantic feelings would be very much appreciated, it’s something ive been struggling a lot with it:(

[@VegasNid]

Omg the fact that you guys can talk still and be cordial is dope. I wish my situation was like that. After 6 years now we both blocked each other and have zero contact :(

[@lilibetharellano8452]

I took a little inspiration from this and honestly thank you. Breakups aren't easy but the best thing to do is to stay positive. So happy you guys are still friends.

[@ATrueLoveOfficial]

The worst thing about long distance relationships is that not everyone will survive it. Well, I guess everything happens for a reason. Whatever decision you made as long as your happy with it that's all that matters. Still glad that you decided to remain friends.

[@emilyg6719]

It’s not over. You’ll be together again because relationships that end for no reason other then circumstance always come back around. I see it now... you’ll meet in the middle. You’ll have a little apartment in NYC. She’s the one that got away for now but I don’t think you’re over for good. Just for now. But when you’re back together you’ll be older and wiser and you’ll know who you are and what you want and every moment will be so much sweeter. ❤️

[@carolineavila769]

Thank you thank you thank you. I’m not alone. My boyfriend and I broke up in April, not for distance but because we both had to be individuals and figure out who we are without each other. We love each other so much that we realized we need to help each other find our ways, but being in a relationship really did hinder us. James & I are best friends and I am so thankful for that.

[@gelseypierre3267]

thanks so much for taking the time to address something as personal as this. Your relationship with Danielle was epic and beautiful in its truest form. I do hope that both you and Danielle endeavor to continue growing and improving as amazing individuals while on your separate journeys. Maybe one day your paths will cross again.

[@yasminachami819]

I’m so happy that your doing well now and you took your time away from KZbin a little to do you and heal. I also believe everything happens for a reason.

[@autumnfarmer8574]

Awesome role model of how you should handle a relationship like this , thank you Joey for sharing this even though we're not entitled for you too. Hope you have a great week and thank you for helping me with this video even though you didn't know it. 🖤

[@Leikram]

That's so brave from you! I've been through the same and I totally understand your situation, keep surviving and everything will be okay hopefully.

[@paarijat5607]

Stay happy and healthy. It's not stupid to say that the love is still there. You're not a life coach you're just someone who's good at comforting people. Thank you for being that. We all love you. And one thing you forgot to say: Stay You. Stay Beautiful. 💛

[@madison613]

I love how happy he is. I know this is a hard topic but I’m glad that he is doing okay 💛💛

[@almavisoria8613]

I literally cried over this..i just came across this video and got curious..and i hope and pray for the best of you two..and i'm still hoping that you'll end up together someday!❤❤

[@naomitullo333]

Hey Joey, thank you so much for sharing this video. I think so of your fans were a little worried about what happened, but I am so glad that it was a good break up. I also wish you the best of luck with our stay you brand and just everything. So stay you, and stay beautiful,

[@rubyshappylifestyle]

Immediately clicked.

[@lillyp6905]

I dated a guy who I met when we were 15, this past year, he enlisted to be a Calvary scout in the army and we broke up. It is what we thought was best. It broke me down and I didn't know how to handle it. We still are best friends but it's very bittersweet. We went to prom together as friends so I relate to this so much. Right now he is at boot camp and I have my senior year of high school comping up. It sucks. It really does. When you have two people who truly love and care for each other but can't be together. I'm incredibly lucky, though, to have him in my life. He is my Brest friend and you bet your bottom dollar that I'll be the first person he sees when he visits from Afghanistan. It's a different kind of emotion for sure.

[@noneyabussiness3348]

as long as you're both happy, it doesnt matter what you guys do

[@pinkunicornglitter]

Sad to hear this but it's great that you're still able to be friends. After going through something similar myself, one thing I wish i'd realised is that once you've decided on friendship, that means you need friendship boundaries. Without firmly set boundaries, it made things so hard, because lines got blurred and we started falling back into relationship habits. Good luck to you both though :)

[@liinagdl7948]

you are an angel Joey ! hope you'll finfd that one person that makes you happy real soon !

[@Nicole-kb3fs]

Hoping in the future youll find eachother when shes done with school

[@samanthabissell22]

I agree with you as long distance relationships are heartbreaking on social media or not yet still I’m proud of you and Danielle long distant hugs to both you and Danielle

[@emilygrace4685]

Hi Joey, i just want you to know that us kidney Beans are here for you especially Me! I'm glad you two are still friends and your ok xx I LOVE YOU JOEY ❤❤❤ - Emily x

[@karly_ongrowth]

I'm so glad that you're both happy, healthy and have been able to remain really good friends Joey. 😊 That was what i hoped for with my ex but i just couldn't do it. We're all different though and like you say, everything happens for a reason. Again really happy for you! ❤🌹

[@alinawirrer2473]

I love you Joey! I'm glad you two are happy... that's the only thing that matters

[@ciannpaulbicke8295]

My boyfriend and I were in a long distance relationship and holy heck it's hard. The goodbyes are always the hardest. We had the conversation if we break up, we still wanted to be friends. Which we then made the biggest decision of our lives and I moved to him. It doesn't always work out the way you want it to be, but whatever happens, it happens for a reason. The best part is seeing how you're friends and have such a bond.

[@aubreysadventures61]

I can’t figure out this is the worst thing to watch today or if I really needed to watch this. Going through a complicated LD “relationship” and idk what’s goin on with it haha. But it drives me crazy

[@Amandamarie0701]

I been waiting for this since I watched Danielle's video yesterday glad to see you are still friends who knows maybe one day you will get back together

[@medalijebeniani5897]

hi joey i hope you're ok i know it's hard to break up with someone you love .everyone pass throughs this so be patient and stay strong

[@callmebutterfly14]

I love you guys and the fact that you guys are still so close. Something not a lot of people can say!

[@DeeEliz0274]

I am SO thankful that through all of this hard stuff you came out strong & smiling. After the hurt and sadness, there's always a positive. I'm so proud of the two of you for acting the way you've both handled it all, because it's not easy. Love you lots ❤️

[@kanishk.r06]

i went through something pretty similar with my girlfriend recently, we broke up but we're still best friends and it's really nice. this video helps! thanks joey!

[@LokiSeidrGod]

It seems beautiful the way you handled it. I couldn’t possibly handle it the same way you did since I waited a long time for my significant other and she lost feelings for me. It was depressing and I can’t be friends with her because every time she contacts me I just end up in a bout of depression and can barely lift myself from my bed. It hurts.

[@kayleylopez1758]

Glad y’all are okay...distance is the worst. A few years of inconvenience is worth it for a lifetime that’s how I had to think about it. So while I hurt and struggled with not dating I know we’re okay for now.

[@shaniachurch1893]

This just reminded me that how great KZbin is just in the fact of bringing people together in both relationships and most importantly friendships! ☺ It's like its own family of connections all around the world!

[@clarissamireya]

Sometimes people come together, sometimes it’s time for them to come apart. That’s life and it sucks especially if you loved that person. That’s good that you guys still talk. I have gone through something similar. I hope everything gets better. 💕

[@fossen6665]

ive never related to a video this much before. joey i fucking love you and all you do. i know you dont know me, but i do know your pain. i had the exact same experience, distance sucks so fucking bad when every fucking thing you want in this world is to see that other person.. but you literally just *cant..* damn.. idk:(.. just everything you said in this video hit me sm. i’m just rlyy glad you and danielle still are best friends, have contact and facetime. i wish that’s how it couldve turned out for me too, but i guess everything happens for a reason, right? ..;/❤️ *«watching her cry everytime we said goodbye was killing me on the inside»* so deep and relateable joey.. fuck ;/ ❤️

[@tiffanyspooner7382]

sometimes exs become best friends after they break up and clearly you have that im glad you too can stay friends :)

[@renaeheinze7107]

I’m so happy y’all are still friends! I’m happy that you guys are happy and being best friends and helping each other out and everything! I love it! Keep on being you!

[@heys4425]

The love that you two share is seriously so inspiring and beautiful! I cannot wait until I can experience something that pure! ❤️ I’m sure fate will bring you two back together again when things slow down for the both of you!

[@KatieGirl123100]

As someone who was also in a long distance relationship I am so glad to see that you guys are still close friends! Me and my ex after almost 2 years apart are only just talking again. I want to thank you for trusting us and letting us into your life. You friendship from what I see is truly inspiring to me 💛