Why we got married young

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Adventures of XyZ

Adventures of XyZ

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@me.georgiaj.5685
@me.georgiaj.5685 2 жыл бұрын
I got married at 21 and 44 years next Friday. God has a special blessing for you guys. Your maturity far outweighs your age.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
This is so amazing ! Happy Anniversary when it comes 💕
@neeshh384
@neeshh384 2 жыл бұрын
Bless God ❤️
@diannaharrison5613
@diannaharrison5613 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 60 years old and not an Adventist but I admire you guys so much. I think God is using you for a time like this when young people need to see godly living. ❤️
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
We appreciate you being here 🥰🥰
@charmenbowen-lee6144
@charmenbowen-lee6144 2 жыл бұрын
Zhara and Xaundre, biologically, you may be young, but mentally, you're well ahead of your age. After watching your wedding, journeying with you through the different seasons thus far (I'm enjoying the adventures), I am convinced that you guys are ready for marriage. I believe God has brought you to this stage in your lives for such a time as this. I can't wait to see what God will continue to do through you guys. I'm seeing Marriage Coaches in the future. Many, many marriages (young people and older folks) are going to benefit from your ministry. Continue to allow the Lord to use you. You're in my prayers. I've been praying for you guys everyday, since I've watched your wedding. God bless!!!
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Sis. Lee, we appreciate your kind words and your prayers, those can never be too much !
@charmenbowen-lee6144
@charmenbowen-lee6144 2 жыл бұрын
@@adventuresofxyz22 you're welcome my dear
@avahicks798
@avahicks798 11 ай бұрын
You guys inspire me, my bf and I are waiting until marriage!
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 9 ай бұрын
Beautiful 🥰
@sanc_livia
@sanc_livia 2 жыл бұрын
"People can be well meaning but misguided" -Xuaudre Mohansingh👏👏👏
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@mavarlynforbes5200
@mavarlynforbes5200 2 жыл бұрын
So I think it's the maturity of the person.Some people are very mature at that age,while some people at age of 24 are very immature.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
This is true!
@_neesieneesie_
@_neesieneesie_ 2 жыл бұрын
My husband and I got married at 28 and 24 but has been together for 11 years. We are both “trying” Christians and struggled with sex. We were already making plans for our lives, careers and plans to start a family. Marriage saved us… best decision I have ever made. A year and a half down and forever to go! We need more clean content like this to encourage our youth.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing Neesie 💕 , and I’m sure u never regretted taking the next step ❤️
@_neesieneesie_
@_neesieneesie_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@adventuresofxyz22 not at all !!
@roxanne8219
@roxanne8219 2 жыл бұрын
Love you zhara
@terryleemorgan1631
@terryleemorgan1631 2 жыл бұрын
Let us hear about pre-engagement counselling guys!! Excited to hear. Absolutely love watching you guys 🥰
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Working on it! Blessings 💕
@QuintaQuintz
@QuintaQuintz 2 жыл бұрын
Yes i wanna hear about it too!
@mariawilliams4724
@mariawilliams4724 2 жыл бұрын
A blessed good night to a beautiful couple blessings upon both of you congratulations watching from St Vincent and the Grenadines
@mariawilliams4724
@mariawilliams4724 2 жыл бұрын
I admire you all for standing up for rightousness enjoy each other sex is sweet but for married couples watching from St Vincent and the Grenadines blessings
@sharonhill1116
@sharonhill1116 2 жыл бұрын
Or one hand cant clap.
@collethbloomfield8029
@collethbloomfield8029 2 жыл бұрын
I am over 70 years, 36 years of marriage and you guys really impress me. Keep God in your marriage and continue to bless others with your lives..I love you.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Aunty ❤️❤️
@lecydecy9257
@lecydecy9257 2 жыл бұрын
i didn't know Zhara was this funny😅😅 You have me cracking up🤣🤣 You both are a breath of fresh air. Happy Sabbath to you both❤
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@louisemartin-roberts1536
@louisemartin-roberts1536 2 жыл бұрын
Zhara and xaundre ,I love you as my children, I have been following you ,I am a christian, and a seventh day Adventist, I got married at age 21, and I am still married for 47 years now. Your maturity amazes me. I can see God's presence in your marriage .Blessings to you both.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Awww thanks so much aunty, we appreciate you immensely ❤️
@NA-sb2kd
@NA-sb2kd 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a seventh day Adventist and I got married at 23 almost 24. My husband was 24. Alot of people told us we were getting married too young. We should wait to 30 or even I should get one to two children first. But I didn't regret it. We will be celebrating 21 years of marriage this Friday and we are still happily married. In fact it got better with time. Wishing you God's blessing on your marriage . Love watching your journey so far and by God's grace it will become even more beautiful. Also many of the reasons you gave for getting married were the same ones we had especially not wanting to go home and be separate at the end of the date.
@neeshh384
@neeshh384 2 жыл бұрын
I love that you have mentioned that it got better with time. Mine did too and today we give God all the glory.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing you two. I know it can be a challenging journey especially when everyone else has an opinion. I'm sure as your comments and addition to the discussing has inspired us, they'll inspire those other young persons reading as well!
@claudeenwilliams5772
@claudeenwilliams5772 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats even tho I dobt know you guys..keep the love fire burning and I wish for you guys many more ...am a seventhday adventist too ..but unfortunately my dear I had was to end my marriage 11 years now and I am 49 yrs old if I didnt give it up I would lose my life my husband mother wanted him fir her self since we got married when she realised she was not getting the amount of money her son was giving her then he started to run around having women here and there and we wre both Christians but guess what he was an undercover womanizer and so i didnt know so when i found out it was too late i had was to let him go because the mother wasnt a motherinlaw she was an out law and wanted to kill me and seriously speaking ...and this is just a little part of it what i go through with them ...but not because mine fail ..I love and get so emotional when I hear how some people fighting for their marriages am so happy for them ...but that's why am so scared to get married again but I really wanted to get married again ...am praying so hard but when I see men ll come up to me i just put them off that marriage hurt me soooooo much ..so I have to be on regular fasting I know god ll send me one that wont be like my ex husband 🙏🙏
@sandrapowell2496
@sandrapowell2496 2 жыл бұрын
I am really happy for you guys. May God continue to bless and keep you both. I got married at the age of 25 and it's 29 years now to God be the glory. Next year August will be 30years. When we met we prayed and fast and ask God to guide us along the way. We go to church every Sabbath and the Lord has blessed us tremendously. Prayer is the key for every marriage and don't leave God out of the picture. Messages to young people and We've Only Just Begun , To Have and To Hold. Good Books to Have. By Nancy Van Pelt
@jennieferboyce9647
@jennieferboyce9647 2 жыл бұрын
X and Z you all are very wise and mature for your age, i love you like my son and daughter.wonderful couple
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Much love aunty 💕💕
@mrbowers2942
@mrbowers2942 2 жыл бұрын
More marriage would work if they had the knowledge u both bring to us as young christians
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
🥰🥰🥰
@ashantispeaks
@ashantispeaks 2 жыл бұрын
Big facts!
@yaniqueboyd6184
@yaniqueboyd6184 2 жыл бұрын
So true 💯
@maureengolding2980
@maureengolding2980 2 жыл бұрын
I understand that the Catholic church has been doing it for centuries.
@startbackschooltofurthermy5890
@startbackschooltofurthermy5890 2 жыл бұрын
@@adventuresofxyz22 💗💗
@EmpressQueenB
@EmpressQueenB 2 жыл бұрын
Di yamhead definition tek mi out!!!!!! Xaun seh Jerusalema is ah must!!! Love watching you guys.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂 always
@maxinehall5382
@maxinehall5382 2 жыл бұрын
I told my son and his girlfriend to watch your channel. You both are such good role models for young people❤️
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Awww this is so nice. I really hope our channel provides them with some guidance because being young is filled with so many decisions, conversations and confusion
@hazelwilson5218
@hazelwilson5218 2 жыл бұрын
No. U were not too young. I was 19 and my husband was 22. Now we r 85 and 88. Many more loving years to you both. Zara your husband love is so spontaneous and genuine. How refreshing.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Awww we love to hear stories like this! Thanks so much for ur kind words and for sharing with us ❤️
@Itzkimmzja
@Itzkimmzja 2 жыл бұрын
Xaundre made a great point about being selective of those you receive advice from especially as a Christian
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Girl, u gotta do it, because everybody has an opinion
@dawnb.1127
@dawnb.1127 2 жыл бұрын
I am so glad that I discovered this channel, these two young people have so much wisdom, I am so much older than them, but I am telling you, they inspire me, their maturity is on another level, and I wish for them a wonderful marriage life and much blessings.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Awww, we appreciate you so much! ❤️
@sandraforrester1868
@sandraforrester1868 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true they are beyond their years in maturity. Ever since i discover their page am hooked cannot get enough of the knowledge they impart. Wow am learning so much..I love you both..Beautiful couple god bless you both.
@nekulilomagano3391
@nekulilomagano3391 2 жыл бұрын
Physical you are too younger but mentally you are matured and full grown up my son and my daughter .am happy to view ur video ,as christian never surrender God be with you always .from ur aunty Nekulilo Magano from Namibia
@claudettegordon5034
@claudettegordon5034 2 жыл бұрын
My son got married very young too at age 21 and they celebrated their 10 anniversary to God be the glory
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
God is good! ❤️
@altheaheath6327
@altheaheath6327 2 жыл бұрын
I met my husband February 2009 and got married December December same year. I dont think it was hasty. Parents met, we visited each other's church, got counseling. All in all Im a serious Christian girl. You just have to know God and be sensitive to the moving of the Holy spirit . This year we'll celebrate 13yrs. Wish you guys all the best. Really enjoy your channel. Hope to meet you one day.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing this perspective. The time can be short, but I’m sure there are certain steps that you still took, and all in all, love is a risk 🥰
@delteenanewman5303
@delteenanewman5303 2 жыл бұрын
On point! sensitive to the moving of the Holy Spirit this is the most important thing
@ladygloria5485
@ladygloria5485 2 жыл бұрын
Just love this couple, I pray young people sit under your teachings, it's enlightening
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u so 🥰
@marissawarner8071
@marissawarner8071 2 жыл бұрын
I’m just blown away by your maturity. This is what God does for His children, when one has totally committed their lives to Him. Blessings to both of you. Its such a joy listening to your videos.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching!
@elizabethward1137
@elizabethward1137 2 жыл бұрын
Not so young at all. Ingot married at 27 and is about to celebrate our 20th Wedding Anniversary. I have been following your stories, and I must say you both dated for approximately 10 years, smart, educated, mature....fully ready to settle down
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Happy 20th when it comes! ❤️❤️❤️
@marnelgilzean4047
@marnelgilzean4047 2 жыл бұрын
I love you both I wish u were My son or daughter. Conion ur
@marnelgilzean4047
@marnelgilzean4047 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry continue on ur Godly path
@mrbowers2942
@mrbowers2942 2 жыл бұрын
Nah lie after watching this again Mr X you gave some deep facts. Again I say young christians need to take notes especially young men. Good role model Mr X
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
We appreciate this comment. We're just trying to do the best we can on this side of the internet!
@jasmines2946
@jasmines2946 2 жыл бұрын
Got married at 25....We celebrated 30 years in February
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
This is lovely 💕
@annmariecarpenter232
@annmariecarpenter232 2 жыл бұрын
I love the transparency and how happy you both are I love the level of maturity.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching!
@karenwatson1797
@karenwatson1797 2 жыл бұрын
Your ministry is powerful and you're both wise in the Lord. Never thought I'd fund such great counsel from someone your age. Praying for y'all.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Aww we appreciate u ❤️
@CookingWithJoan
@CookingWithJoan 2 жыл бұрын
I think that is a perfect age my daughter was 24 and her husband was 25 they been married for four years and they are happy together love and respect is the key and let God be the head of your life
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Aunty!
@CookingWithJoan
@CookingWithJoan 2 жыл бұрын
@@adventuresofxyz22 you are welcome sweetie pray God will continue to bless keep guide and protect you both pray all of your dreams come through stay bless 🥰🙏
@andreaknowles2660
@andreaknowles2660 2 жыл бұрын
i also got married at 25 and am still married this year making 34. i waited two years before having a child. i have been mortgage free for 14 years.
@tinacampbell2835
@tinacampbell2835 2 жыл бұрын
Not zhara putting up her hands to ask a question, after he speaks . You take your fans serious lol. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Love love this 💕💕💕💕
@jamiliawilliams4382
@jamiliawilliams4382 2 жыл бұрын
Loved the video but yessssss the Jasmine and Basmati rice. That's the bomb!!! Salmon yess. Me and Zhara can live😂
@joanedwards4016
@joanedwards4016 2 жыл бұрын
You guys are so mature , and your marriage is definitely Christ centered … definitely ready for marriage
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Blessings
@sampsonrichmond7373
@sampsonrichmond7373 Жыл бұрын
"This is just pure love." May God continue to bless your union. My favourite youtube Couple.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 Жыл бұрын
Amen, thank you!
@sherrywilson3316
@sherrywilson3316 2 жыл бұрын
All the way from Florida, my beloved and I got married at 23, 22 respectively. That is 26 years ago , a 22 year old, daughter, 16 year old son,and a 6 year old fur baby. We had pre- engagement counseling, pre- marital ,and post martial counseling. Met at church and high school, dated for 6 years? Unno young, but are not idiots. You can do this XYZ. We did and doing it. Happy love journey.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Aww, thank you so much Aunty, we really appreciate this. Post marital counselling is definitely something we don't talk about enough and it's something we want to explore so thank you for the reassurance. Much love ❤️
@merleneharris5226
@merleneharris5226 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love you guys. I don't think you got married too young. 24 years old is relative...and when it comes you both, you seem to have gone through the steps and it also seems like your heads are well screwed on...and your spirituality, awesome. I got married at 22 and this coming December will be 43 years and going strong.
@viviennepringle1417
@viviennepringle1417 2 жыл бұрын
Truth is I really love this couple. I started to watch you both just last week going through KZbin and the conversation you had was so interesting and it catch me. And I can't stop watching you guys, you made me laugh and truly you thought me a lot of things we can't too old to learn. Love you both and continue to be strong in christ.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Awww yes, and we learn from each other every day ❤️
@kellyb6749
@kellyb6749 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your bluntness Xaundre! Lol Continue spitting facts guys!
@charmainelowrie-davis4023
@charmainelowrie-davis4023 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love both of you. You are so mature in your thinking ...you both "have your head on your 2 shoulders" ( a saying I learnt while living in Dominica). I have no doubt that you made the right decision. You are both absolutely right: put God first and then seek the blessings of those whose opinion matters. I've been hearing about pre-engagement counselling lately. I believe it is helpful. Young or old, immature people shouldn't get married. I got married at age 24 and my husband was 27 having been in our relationship for 6 years and knowing each other for about 10 years; and yes we did the Christian thing and waited....we didn't yield to the temptation, only by God's grace. (Would have been 30 years next month but death separated us 4 years ago). God has designed that a marital relationship should be built on a Christian foundation. Those who are not Christians may not understand the importance of seeking God's guidance every step of the way. Happy to hear how much you both sought God as you contemplated your decision on marriage, that's commendable. Keep on putting God first in everything you do and success is guaranteed. Yes Xaundre, marriage is serious business....until death as the vows states. The divorce rate is high because some people don't take marriage seriously. They believe you can just hop in and hop out like a bus or taxi. You are truly a great example to young people. I pray they'll listen to your wise counsels. Peace, love and blessings always 🙏
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Awww, we're so sorry for your loss but grateful that God gave you a gift in Him and his love while he was alive. Thanks so much for your kind words of encouragement and inspiration!
@charmainelowrie-davis4023
@charmainelowrie-davis4023 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks and you're most welcome. One more reason to live for Jesus so we will be reunited NEVER to part again! 🙏
@kokochepsoi8434
@kokochepsoi8434 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry for the loss, God is in control of everything, your words are full of wisdom. Keep trusting in Him
@charmainelowrie-davis4023
@charmainelowrie-davis4023 2 жыл бұрын
@@kokochepsoi8434 Thank you! Much appreciated! Amen!
@sabrinajones221
@sabrinajones221 2 жыл бұрын
I so love how you guys put it because often times persons hindered from getting married because the older folks may say they are too young but then is it hasty....not sure what's God plan for me as yet but I know that these videos are definitely molding me and I'm grateful
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Continue praying and asking Him for His plans for u, He’ll never leave you hanging
@jennieferboyce9647
@jennieferboyce9647 2 жыл бұрын
I love the young, fresh, positive energy you all send out, for lack of a good one word adjective
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Aww , we appreciate that 💕
@shalnielstephens4111
@shalnielstephens4111 2 жыл бұрын
I am so happy for you guys. I got married at 24 years too. I am a SDA. All the best!
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Aww, thank you! 🥰
@antheasamuel8419
@antheasamuel8419 2 жыл бұрын
Is this who I think it is 😊
@maureengolding2980
@maureengolding2980 2 жыл бұрын
Zhara, I like the fact that you even go back and answer your vlogs, even the ones you made before you were born. DWL!
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
So true!
@maxinehall5382
@maxinehall5382 2 жыл бұрын
Young people, you two are going to go far
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@paulinehunter9016
@paulinehunter9016 2 жыл бұрын
I came upon your first video by chance and have been enjoying you guys since then. Didn’t realize you guys were so young,but very VERY mature. Keep going and keep trusting God
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being here! We hope you subscribe and stay ❤️
@danadee2745
@danadee2745 2 жыл бұрын
Love how beautifully connected this union is!! Congrats and keep sharing.
@tomazineriley5846
@tomazineriley5846 2 жыл бұрын
Love these two special young people
@Rese_ann
@Rese_ann 2 жыл бұрын
Let's get that pre-engagement video...
@vivianwalker1333
@vivianwalker1333 Жыл бұрын
Clean, honest, beautiful, good Eden lifestyle. Yes we can do it, sinful though we be. With God at the centre perfection will be achieved ❤❤❤, Good job young people 💯💯💯
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 8 ай бұрын
Our pleasure ❤️ Thank you for watching
@valroseharris2201
@valroseharris2201 2 жыл бұрын
I am 37 years old I am not married as yet but I'm talking to someone and I pray that God will bless us that one day we will get married soon just continue to pray for us and keep us in your prayers
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
As you progress just continue to put God first and ask Him for His guidance . All the best ❤️
@shavouyacarson4902
@shavouyacarson4902 2 жыл бұрын
Pre-engagement counselling❗❗❗❗❗❗💓
@Delicieuxable
@Delicieuxable 2 жыл бұрын
When I tell you, yours, your guys videos have been bringing so much perspective, and good tears. It's exactly what I needed at this point in my life.
@jdrumhow
@jdrumhow 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Janelle! Love your name beautiful
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Aww Jan, we’re so happy we could do that for u
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
The meeting of the Janelles lol
@jodi-annbrown418
@jodi-annbrown418 2 жыл бұрын
Meeee toooo!!
@shanabrissett6146
@shanabrissett6146 2 жыл бұрын
You guys are cracking me up lol Zhara: did you married for sex? Xaundre: oh definitely! 😀 And then Xaundre turn back the question on wifey and she was honest, ohh how I love that! I just love you guys transparency. Keep up the wonderful works. Blessings
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Blessings!
@soniapalmer9469
@soniapalmer9469 2 жыл бұрын
I got married @ 19, now 46 years. As long as God is the center of our lives, it will work and we aged gracefully enjoying each other.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN!
@heathermattar1686
@heathermattar1686 2 жыл бұрын
Putting God first and listening to his voice was the best thing you've ever done I love your discipline continue to motivate the young people
@ladycook1000
@ladycook1000 2 жыл бұрын
New subscriber here and I’m loving your content! This warms my heart to see God centered couples on the internet. My husband and I got married at 24 also. It’s been 13 years and we are still happy and in love with the addition of three boys. Many blessings to you both!
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@stephaniestewart8271
@stephaniestewart8271 2 жыл бұрын
I am 40 and getting married soon but I know realize that I wasn't spiritually, mentally or physically mature. And I know how God is totally apart of my marriage. And men came to me and said God sent them too but I asked too how come God nuh tell me. But love you guys a lot. Keep loving on each other lovelies.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Aww congratulations! It's so good to be self aware and be at peace with what God wants for you. Much love and blessings!
@AmandaGabriel876
@AmandaGabriel876 2 жыл бұрын
Its really not about age...its about readiness. You both are really mature
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
It is about readiness
@kadremorgan8219
@kadremorgan8219 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for not joining the facade and actually have conversations we don’t have in church! Bow chica bow wow!! 😅
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 Anytime 💕
@kekewilly5378
@kekewilly5378 2 жыл бұрын
Pre-engagement counselling. Would love to see a video on that
@kezt3044
@kezt3044 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so encouraged by watching you both. My favorite vloggers. “Pre-engagement counseling advice,please.”
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Aww, definitely working on it!
@doreenlawrence6002
@doreenlawrence6002 2 жыл бұрын
Great talk guys I'm 50 and I love listening to you .wisdom tun up and God shining through your union ✨️ 🙏
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
We love u here aunty 💕
@rutholusegun9328
@rutholusegun9328 2 жыл бұрын
This is the most detailed explanation I have ever heard on the topic. Thanks for sharing. I was surprised to learn that the average age of marriage is 32. I wonder if culture or gender factors in the age get married. I got married the year I turned 33 and in my part of the world (Nigeria in Africa) that is considered late marriage. People generally get married in their twenties here and for ladies once they are 30 even their family begin to get worried snd some ladies get desperate. Early marriage here would be like teenage marriage and it is generally rare although there are cultures here where teenage girls are given out in marriage. I like the distinction you put between a hasty marriage and early marriage. I would say age should not be the main reason for deciding eligibility for getting married, especially if the person has reached adulthood. The maturity level is important. If someone is older but immature, marriage should not be a consideration. Spiritual, mental, physical and emotional maturity is very important. Also, an important question people should ask themselves when deciding to get married is, 'Is this person right for me?' In reality, it is not about how early or late one gets married but how well the marriage foundation and the kind of family I want to have.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Yes cultures have a lot to do with it. That statistic I'm sure came from doing surveys in the US mostly where marriage is seen as something that comes after accomplishment. Thanks for adding to the discussion, solid food for thought
@sandrinecurtis333
@sandrinecurtis333 2 жыл бұрын
The way you guys look at each other and just smile☺... Thats what gets me😍 i'm super happy i found yall channel, its been a blessing🙌
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Awww 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
@peta-gayeharriott6146
@peta-gayeharriott6146 2 жыл бұрын
I am new here!!...loving the content...refreshing...a jamaican living in St. Maarten.
@michaelthomas7539
@michaelthomas7539 2 жыл бұрын
I am 21 and my fiance is 22 and we are getting married next month. Since we got engaged last year May. Almost every month someone else asks or tells us "we we're getting married young, oh you have your whole life ahead of you, wait until you have a successful life for your ownself". Truth be told all of the comments blew over my head. As Zhara and Xaundre said. All the starz are alligned and this is not a hasty marriage because we have been together for 5 years, going into next month. Why wait when God clearly gave us the answer. So yea, well said Mr and Mrs Mohansingh.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Don't allow any of those comments to get to your head at all. You won't regret it , always being with your best friend!
@marga_drama3658
@marga_drama3658 2 жыл бұрын
My pastor married at 21 you guy no right on time. I have seen hasty marriage work and am church girl
@kaydiangayle5152
@kaydiangayle5152 2 жыл бұрын
I love you guys! Pre-engagement councel info plz.
@sarahhylton7927
@sarahhylton7927 2 жыл бұрын
I somehow saw your channel while scrolling on youtube and i must say i find your videos hilarious and inspiring. I respect your honesty on the topic; most christian couple would not have admitted that sex is one of the reason for marriage. Kudos to y'll on your relationship and continue inspiring young christian couples.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for allowing us to stop your scroll. We hope you subscribe and stay with us as apart of the family! We definitely will continue, it's our pleasure !
@aletamarsh1244
@aletamarsh1244 2 жыл бұрын
You guys are so refreshing! Love it. Keeping doing what you do and being who you are!
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
🥰🥰🥰
@kimberleybarrett4814
@kimberleybarrett4814 2 жыл бұрын
So tru...i have been married for years and its for tru..its refreshing
@danavonrose8768
@danavonrose8768 2 жыл бұрын
Very impressed . May God bless and keep you both for a very long time. My wife and me got married at 25 and some of those comments were of us but we are going now 37 years strong. I do not know you personally but i love you, you are so sweet
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the encouragement! Congrats on 37 years!
@miriambrown8846
@miriambrown8846 2 жыл бұрын
Am 60years and I love listen to you guys
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being here aunty 💕💕💕
@SuperKemcy
@SuperKemcy Жыл бұрын
If keeping pure it also helps not to wait too long! The financial bit also makes 100% sense
@rosemarietaylor9482
@rosemarietaylor9482 2 жыл бұрын
XYZ you’re my peace, my hope and my joy. I just love watching you both
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
awwwww, this really means a lot
@sharonlawrence7328
@sharonlawrence7328 2 жыл бұрын
I am touched Guys.....with God all things are possible
@shamikacumberbatch5500
@shamikacumberbatch5500 2 жыл бұрын
I honestly think that's a good age to get married. Everyone would have different opinions. I admire how yu guys go about things.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u! 🥰
@altheazane3173
@altheazane3173 2 жыл бұрын
Pre engagement counselling!
@Dehliaharris
@Dehliaharris 2 жыл бұрын
Hopefully y'all see this comment but I think you both should go on love zone Jamaica really need fi see and hear uno y'all story never get old and am always excited to see another vlog with both of u and Jamaica need fi see Xaundre and Zhara Mohansingh
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, we really appreciate your suggestion! We'll continue to do our best in this little corner of the internet until we can accommodate something larger
@Dehliaharris
@Dehliaharris 2 жыл бұрын
@@adventuresofxyz22 Ok np hun
@zetamaeburrows5907
@zetamaeburrows5907 2 жыл бұрын
Getting married young, putting God first, you will be a blessing, sharing God's word. Keep on the path he has for you. Yes married young sometimes it could be a burden only if you come out from the presence of God. I am praying for your ministry. Keep the faith.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ❤️
@valroseharris2201
@valroseharris2201 2 жыл бұрын
I am not yet married but I love the way you guys love each other and talk about Our God alot continue loveing each other and God continue to bless your Union with lots of blessings peace joy and happiness
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Awww, thank you much love ❤️
@maureengolding2980
@maureengolding2980 2 жыл бұрын
You all are already married. You are working and you will grow together. I am sure the finances were in some sort of order. I know there are many ministers in America that will not marry couples whose finances are in a hot mess. 😆
@robynj.8732
@robynj.8732 2 жыл бұрын
It’s important for people to seek God when making any decision. We run to Him when we get ourselves into problems but didn’t run to Him before we make decisions. Marrying at 24 is completely fine once you are mature and are settled in your spirit that it’s a God move. I’ve been married for almost 10 years (little oldie lol) and I quite enjoy watching the level of maturity you both portray. It shows that the decision to get married was a solid one.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
That’s for sure ! With the Holy Spirit as our guide we should be able to make the best decisions because He never fails . Much love 💕
@tashekaphillips6778
@tashekaphillips6778 2 жыл бұрын
Yeeeess I get y you had to marry herr!!!! She is tooo sweet!!!🤗🤗❤️ love u zzzz!!! Ohhh premarital counseling 🗣
@ashantispeaks
@ashantispeaks 2 жыл бұрын
Zharaaaa! Yuh talk enuh girl! I love you guys so much! Yes Xaundre we see why you couldn't miss out on marrying this one...
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
lol oh stawwwp ❤️
@japhlettakyiwaa3049
@japhlettakyiwaa3049 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know why but I just love you guys❤️❤️❤️. Continue being a blessing 😊
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
We love you too!
@AmandaGabriel876
@AmandaGabriel876 2 жыл бұрын
Great video! Btw that colour looks great on you Z😊
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Amanda 💕
@lornettejames3649
@lornettejames3649 2 жыл бұрын
me love uno bad bad,bad the both of you sure you 24 yrs I can see God so much in your life thanks for sharing and God bless you abundantly ❤❤
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Blessings and love ❤️❤️❤️
@chevonfoster6847
@chevonfoster6847 2 жыл бұрын
Watch niceness😂😂😂😂😂 no sah today show spicy bad thanks for showing these young people especially christians that life is there to enjoy dwl😂😂😂😂
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Lol aww, we appreciate u! ❤️
@estherjackson4937
@estherjackson4937 2 жыл бұрын
I just love this couple
@marymiller3452
@marymiller3452 2 жыл бұрын
Very informative,glad you guys ,hit the hammer 🔨 on the nail. 👏👏 It it coming.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@paulinerolle20
@paulinerolle20 2 жыл бұрын
I love watching both of you. It is great what both of you are doing! God's way is the right way! I'm from the beautiful Bahamas. Many young christians couples need to hear this. Very encouraging to all.... keep up the good works🙏
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Aww, we appreciate you! Bahamas is beautiful indeed. Much love! ❤️
@maryannbarnes8652
@maryannbarnes8652 2 жыл бұрын
When u put God first in your life and trust him , and allow him totally to direct your life there's no age limit in his doing. His name is and Must b glorified. Love u guys fr.my 💖
@Abmarp
@Abmarp 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! I love you guys. I am sooo single, but watching you two brings warmth to my heart.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
lmao I chuckled at sooo single lol. I was sooo single once. You never know
@megan1268
@megan1268 2 жыл бұрын
May God continues to bless you two as you go through your careers and building a family
@JustDewing
@JustDewing 2 жыл бұрын
This was truly an amazing season on the adventure. Continue to inspire other young couples.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Blessings 😊
@hiddenbeauty8769
@hiddenbeauty8769 2 жыл бұрын
Pre-engagement counseling love to hear more!
@paulabryan9187
@paulabryan9187 2 жыл бұрын
Awwww well said my children , smart and GODly thinking, smart and GODLY steps. There are blessings coming your way in your union. GOD is well pleased with you both !! 😍
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Aunty ❤️
@jeroseurzoa3646
@jeroseurzoa3646 Жыл бұрын
Ive just met both you with the missionaries when you chose to spend your Sabbath here in HongKong Community SDA church and im starting loving you guys,im watching your videos and its inspires me a lot..God Bless you
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 Жыл бұрын
Yay! Thanks for watching, and welcome to our family!🥰
@jeroseurzoa3646
@jeroseurzoa3646 Жыл бұрын
@@adventuresofxyz22 wow,im belong😍😍😍..thank you
@veronabrownbrown2775
@veronabrownbrown2775 2 жыл бұрын
My favourite youtubers ❤ Love love love uno, I just can't get enough of the contents..... You guys speak nothing but facts....
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
😊😊
@megan1268
@megan1268 2 жыл бұрын
As a Christian parent I'm so proud of you two you are so open minded and that's good for a relationship to thrive and last till death do us part. I'm from the Commonwealth of Dominica Love you guys
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
We appreciate u! Thanks for being here ❤️
@jaymarshall6342
@jaymarshall6342 2 жыл бұрын
I love this! So wholesome, so very wholesome! Thank you for your transparency as always! "#1 Because God so" this hit indeed and is the most important advice for us for us as Christians. "you can't give me advice if you don't look like what I would want to look like" 🙃I love that! I'll definitely be using this perspective.
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching as usual hun. It's very important that we choose role models who we can look up to and know how much value we place in their opinions. In life, the truth is, we don't need the guidance of many people, just a few. Blessings ❤️
@asialeeedwards441
@asialeeedwards441 2 жыл бұрын
Pre-engagement counseling video please...Love you guys from Trinidad and Tobago.
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