Newly-Wed Life Update | Most people won't talk about this

[@denisebrown9140]

The way this youth looks at his wife. So beautiful! So real!

[@adventuresofxyz22]

She's the joy of my life -Xaun

[@nahambohilma8598]

@@adventuresofxyz22 🥰🥰🥰💯❤

[@petagayepatterson2534]

​@@adventuresofxyz22alot of the times when you look at her, I expect you to get a kiss in But...🤷‍♀️ Just love how you look at her. God continue to bless your union

[@carieannhall3614]

Just remember the SHIPS are coming.....The 7 ships you must go thru...friendship, relationship, worship, hardship, companionship, courtship, mentorship...etc

[@tishariwilliams787]

ZHARA MY LOVE.....YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY AMAZING AND YOU'RE DOING A FANTASTIC JOB!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU GOT THIS MAMA!!!🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thanks Tish 💕💕💕

[@marjoriewillesley2553]

Ur pregnant

[@rowenajackson802]

U are such a young couple God bless and keep u

[@dorendacole633]

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[@shanicewhitely]

Aweeeeeeeee baby girl! Queen! Daughter of the most high God!!!…. Sweet girl! It’s a process!!…… you’re learning…….. Listen 🎧 … you’re doing your best and watch God do the rest. God has blessed you with husband who gets it ! And gets you. True friends and family will and should prayerfully learn how to support you in this season of growth. Sometimes support looks like showing love in prayer 🙏🏼. It will get better . Keep going guys . Blessings to you both .🤗🤗🤗 I pray that God will continue to empower and bless you both

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much!

[@rosettaservice]

Awe this was pretty heartfelt and relatable in a lot of ways. Though I am not married yet this was beneficial. I have had my share of loneliness seasons and coming home to an empty house. Additionally watching all my groupies back then all getting married one by one and I was one of the odd one out(expectations). How I dealt with it all. Truth be told I had my moments when I vented to God like the real thing (no sugar coat I pretty much let it all out). I grew tremendously through these seasons personally, spiritually and emotionally. I treasure my relationship with God now because of how much these struggles I had drew me closer to Him partially because there were so many moments I had no one to talk to but Him. I know what it's like to feel like life is so overwhelming and I can't do it anymore. I know the seasons where there is so much responsibilities I feel drained. But I always remembered to seek God in my lowest moments and to listen to His direction. I had to learn that God's plan for my groupies were different from His plans for me and to really and truly believe that He has a plan for me. I had to also learn that God's timing is different from mine and His ways are higher than my ways. I had to learn to allow God to be Lord of every area of my life. I struggled with this mainly because in addition to me being a high achiever, I am a go getter. As a result I realized a lot of times where I made decisions based on the fact that Rosetta wants this without considering... Does God want this for Rosetta and that's where the problem would come in. But in all this I had to learn to discern the voice of God and follow His leading. It was hard for me at first because waiting on God is not easy. Now that I look back on those seasons from where I am standing, I would never trade them. Not only am I a better person because of them but I am a better Christian. I have learnt patience not only with myself but with others and I have also learnt how to say 'NO' to whatever I know is not God's will for my life. I am a conscientious Child of the living God. These seasons have helped to develop my character. I strive to live intentionally which is another lesson I had to learn in prioritizing my life and I strive to live on purpose. I tell God if so and so won't give you glory then I am not interested etc. I audit the things I get involved and I ask the Lord that whatever I do and get involved let it be aligned with my purpose and destiny. Zhara and Xaundre I am not a social media person but I ran into one of your previous videos and I must say that your level of maturity is commendable. I did youth ministry for years so I know what I mean. I sincerely pray that God will keep you guys and that His name will continue to be glorified through these content. You both are doing well 😊 Don't be too hard on yourself. It is OK to give yourselves grace. I know the struggles. I too tried getting a mortgage as a young person in JA and bwoi to no avail but God is able. Though I migrated recently for the third time, I know it ain't easy but there is not enough space here to tell how much of a miracle worker He is. Keep the faith my new brother and sister. Much love and have a great weekend.

[@daughterofgod4927]

Waw, this was truly impactful, and blessed me too. Thanks so much for sharing, I needed to hear this today! God bless❤❤

[@terisaharry]

Such powerful words. Thank you for the timely reminder

[@marciaburtongordon5028]

Rosette well said, continue to walk with God

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much for sharing this heartfelt comment.It has really blessed us and We know that it has blessed others too. We wish you all the best on this stage of your journey!

[@rosettaservice]

@@daughterofgod4927 I am happy that you were blessed. To God be the glory!

[@shaelenemusicandmore]

Wait I just literally found you guys JA Power 🇯🇲🤛🏾 and #christians!!!!

[@adventuresofxyz22]

😂 lol better late than never! Welcome to family 🥰🥰🙌🏾

[@shellevahibbert9013]

I wish I have the strength you have Zahra. You are doing a fantastic job, the way your husband speaks of you, he really appreciates you. He looks at you with such love. You've got this baby girl

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much! And you have the strength of course. Wherever we fall short God will fill it

[@karengilzene3040]

You know Z always never planned to cry but always bawl ..🤗❤️ It's okay hunni, remember like you said "" 24 hours in one day" the wife is wifing , and she's amazing. It's okay, to feel the way you do .. It's okay Z .

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Alwayssss 😂 😂 thank you 🥰

[@veniseferguson3898]

A love ur relationship ur amazing couple stay sweet

[@Nordiaaa]

Zhara honey we love you!!! And appreciate your transparency and I 100% take Xaundre’s word for it that, even off camera, YOURE DOING AMAZINGLY!!!!!

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thanks Nordia!

[@ladyu.p4268]

Wise couple,you will go a long way patent, faith trust in the Lord, the Lord is with you,🙏🏾

[@marybenoit6375]

My dear friends, you have just started the journey and this is just a small bump in the road of life, thank God that you know and love and depend on your Father God. You both are so transparent. I pray God that the young people in the body of Christ ( not only the young) are watching your vlogs. May God continue to give you both abundant wisdom. Praying for you, love you.🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much ! ❤️

[@ayeolasenthill-stokes6987]

I felt this video. As a woman I think a lot of us feel that guilt. As a wife and as a mother it can become overwhelming but as a 50 year old trust me sweetheart it will not always feel like this. We just got to remind ourself that we're only one person and we just have to take time to ourself and exhale

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much. Step by Step 💕 💖

[@hazelbrookes2541]

Hi to my wonderful young couple you are wonderful, both of you are amazing I have been married over 47years our God is able you are going to do well . When mistakes are made just apologize and move on and don't take each other for granted blessings 🌹

[@glendasmith5009]

I just kind of stumble on your channel and I am so glad I did. I am single and a christian and I pray God continue to bless your Union. Remember God always does what is best for us. Love and bless to you both from Barbados. You are going to be an inspiration to many.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

We're glad you stumbled upon us and we hope you subscribe and stay here with us! Thank you so much for ur kind words!

[@marciaplummer5976]

You are so young and early in your marriage, but have learned so much already. Continue to keep God as the head of your life and household, it makes s big difference. Continue to keep the same mindset and communication open. and totally transparent. You will have those tests and disappointments in life, but God always has the answers. I am pleased to hear that you did the pre-marital counseling, which is very important, especially for young people. Marriage is a serious thing, and most young couples who do not take the steps they have and are doing do not make it. This also goes for older couples, it doesn't matter the age at times, it's the mentality of the person. I have shared your story with my daughter, who is in her 30s and still looking for that special someone. Trust is a big factor for her, especially as an educated intelligent hard working person. God Bless you both 🙏

[@zetamaeburrows5907]

The both of you are amazing.🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️📖✝️

[@eulaleslie1008]

My dear ,Listen to your husband and put God first in your life and everything will be well. Blessings to you both.

[@roxanneevans6630]

Happy Sabbath family, you all need to embrace the Sabbath rest.

[@leanoracampbell663]

it's the rough roads that's make you a better driver beloved.🤗

[@keronburnell5052]

Thank you for sharing. Stick to reality of life. The struggles are apart of life to make us strong. Trust God who will pilot you along the way. Blessings guys ♥️♥️

[@goshencountryliving]

I am right there with u dear with feeling inadequate but just give yourself some grace!!!! 🤗🤗🤗 you got this

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Step by step hun ❤️

[@jennieferboyce9647]

I am always praying for you all as i do for all young couples

[@dorcasboakye-acheampong7957]

Bless you dear

[@tennehjohnson8545]

I have been following you both. I am a retired nurse currently working in Liberia helping fortunate people. You both are true example to order young people . Yoi re authentic and beautiful.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thanks so much for your service

[@nadinesomers8618]

You are so grounded and authentic for a young couple i am extremely grateful for you guys. Great example!!!!for our young generation. Keep going...love you both.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much!

[@LiciaMac]

Look here nuh XYZ, if I love uno one more time! Keep sweet in the Lord! I pray for you blessings in abundance!! You both make a difference! You both are adding value! You will continue to change lives! ♥️♥️🎊🎉🎊

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thanks so much 💕 💖

[@keddyk]

You guys are doing great! Life will always be lifing. Me and hussy has been married for 2 and a half years now and we have learned that we have to take it day by day trusting in God and being patient with each other. Being okay that we can't be all things to all man at all times. Take it a day at a time and don't forget to laugh.... yes laugh😅🤣 it helps ease those rough days. Sending you so much love and blessings. HAPPY SABBATH!

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Always laughing lol, as you know we have no sense! Thank you so much♥️

[@launakgarosab5058]

I am for the first time and I love it here! Dearest you will be OK in due time, taking one step at a time. 🙏💕💙❤️💜

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much 🤗

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Welcome Welcome! We hope you stay!

[@charmenbowen-lee6144]

Zhara and Xaundre, the more I listen to you guys, the more I'm blown away by your level of maturity. You both are doing an amazing job. You're in this space for a reason and it's being unfolded everytime you post a video. I won't stop praying for you guys and sharing your videos. You are God sent.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Awww, Thank you so much ❤️

[@rachelav]

I didn’t know I need you !! You are such an authentic and calm souls.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Aww, look at that. God knew lol. Thank you!

[@ameiliawanliss1591]

Happy Sabbath guys!! It takes a lot to come on the internet and be this vulnerable, open and honest. On top of that, a lot of the people who will watch this you will see in person. That can’t be easy BUT, we appreciate it 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Keep going guys.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much! For too long christians "sugar-coat" things. The real issues aren't tackled and we've always been committed to talk about it and have real conversations that are just not had in church.

[@SilverDiva65]

Hi my family your Seasoned Senior Disabled Mama in Birmingham Alabama just now watching this video. Im playing catch up since I subscribed my babies you both look so tiredly in love. At age 65bI tell myself as a mother and divorced now for 20 years I learn alot from you everytime I watch you. I believe "The Struggle Is Real and pur God Is Solvent. I have shared your videos to my daughter who is going thru a toxic divorce and other younger women in my life. Thank you for bringing God into the lives of some of them who has stop believing in God on their levels. As for as us older people who is willing and open to learn the school of life thank forvthe msny life lessons you have taught me since I joined the family. I have never been to Jamaica but thank you for bringing Jamaica into my home.❤❤

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Awww, thank you so much for watching and for your kind words. We're so grateful for the opportunity to enter your home. We pray for your health , and for your daughter as she goes through this hard time!

[@claudettegill8400]

Zhara don’t be hard on yourself. Been there, felt that in my many years of marriage. Remember you all have another chapter to go through, and that is when you have children, by then the guilt of friendship has to take a backseat, and friends will understand. Next week I celebrate 50 yrs of marriage with my hubby, and as I listened to both of you, you were on point with all that was said.. The respect for God and later on for your children will take precedence over every thing in life. Stay strong, you all have started off well, don’t be discouraged, Rome was not built in a day. God knows your heart….love from an Aunty who loves you.❤️🇺🇸

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much Aunty ! ❤️ It's indeed a journey that has it's bumps. We're so grateful for this community!

[@vernasewell2494]

nice couple every relationship have ups and down donnt worry are stress about life god is able all the time am proud of you guys

[@maulinesybliss9446]

❤🎉

[@maxinedunkley779]

Talk truth! Life is filled with struggles, battles with God all things are possible

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Amen!

[@user-qp2st6fd7c]

You are so sweet Zhara my 3 year old son calls you “God Girl “ and ask me to watch your program in the nights I don’t know what he understands but we watch together anyhow 🤩keep up the good work I enjoy your content

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Awww, That must be soo sweet. It must be because of the song. Much love to you both!

[@user-qp2st6fd7c]

@@adventuresofxyz22 yes it’s the song he loves it

[@zetamaeburrows5907]

Good advise as a Dr & Lawyer.🙌🙌👏👏👏🤗

[@andrine1107]

Zhara my dear please don't be too hard on yourself. No one is perfect and you have a very understanding and caring husband. Continuous blessings on your union guys. Nuff love

[@adventuresofxyz22]

It's definitely a learning journey!

[@andrine1107]

@@adventuresofxyz22 it is. Continue to keep God at the forefront of your marriage and all will be well. Love you girl

[@merlinemaisturner6669]

Awww..I came across this channel by accident but what a beautiful couple..the fact that you are both Christians put the icing on the cake.I just want to tell you that marriage is WORK IN PROGRESS... Dont be too hard on yourselves.,both are professionals, may I encourage you to capture every teeny bit of moment/opportunity that you get to enjoy each other company...God Got You Guys🙏🏿🥰

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much! Welcome! We're happy to have you here! It really is an entire learning process with his and lows

[@jaymarshall6342]

As a christian, it's okay to be disappointed...it's just how you deal with it. Honestly needed to hear this today🙏🏽😭. *p.s. you are doing amazing ,don't beat yourself up. The fact that you care so much about him shows how much you love him!🥺❤

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Awww, we're happy we could drop those words of wisdom your way hun!

[@sherrilyncox2416]

As you would call me...aunty Sherri here. It's all about life and what you make of it. It really is up and down but I pray more up than down. The enemy is out there trying his best to put stumbling blocks in your way but my children NEVER let go. God got you. Thanks so much for letting us know and making the younger ones understand it's not easy but try try try. NEVER GIVE UP. Love you guys for just sharing ❤️

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thanks for sharing Aunty , we appreciate it ❤️

[@AlyssaAllen.a]

You're enough love. You are enough. I know that feeling @the insecurities that come with the nontraditional law business decision. I can't relate to any of the wifely bits but you expressed yourself clearly enough for me to understand how you feel. God bless Xaundre for being the husband God made for YOU. You are amazing!!! Both of you.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Girl it's a roller coaster indeed! Thank you!

[@sandragreen4405]

Cheer up my dear. God got you. Just prioritize and one thing at a time. You got a great husband(man of God). You're so Blessed. I pray God strenghten your marriage. Sending hugs & kisses.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much!

[@racquelmckenzie9357]

New subscriber here, but I must say that the content that I've seen so far is pure, relevant and timely. I pray that your ministry will continue to blossom as you go forth in grace.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Welcome welcome to the family! Thank you so much

[@victoriawarren8455]

To this young beautiful couple, I hear you loud and clear!!! There’s seven days in a week, my husband and I have chosen that “we have set aside as our date night/evening. That’s where we say… that’s our time. Do you want to try that! Take it to God in prayer, 🙏 All those thing’s you’ll be able to do, take it one day at a time🌹

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Love that! Thank you so much!

[@tiaserf6992]

I love this channel...i love the honest conversations... Y'all impact my life without knowing it😊

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much for watching and for being here! ❤️

[@janetbramwell2491]

You guys r doing great, girl don't put so much pressure on yourself. You God on ur side and a man that adores u, what more do u need. I've never seen a young Adventist couple sharing there personal life on suicidal media. Again, so very proud. 🙏 👏 🌹 💐

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you 🥰

[@shanakaydyer7773]

On a real though Zhara, coming from someone who puts a lot of pressure on myself, take it in strides and go at your own pace and TO YOUR OWN TUNE ❤

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thanks my Shan Shan! -Z

[@dalealfred3877]

@@adventuresofxyz22 you are truly blessed, young and mature

[@janinemiller1423]

Lovely...came upon ur vedio and cant stop watching you guys.. So interesting. It is the hand of God is writing blessings

[@joanbailey2786]

Happy happy Sabbath beautiful couple

[@veronicacousins785]

My 'daughter' you are doing good right now. With time you will grasp the knack of triple tasking which includes being a homemaker but take it one day at a time. Our prayers are with you and hussy.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thanks Aunty Hope!

[@evanitystartv]

I just came across your channel and I am loving it. I am a true Jamaican living in the USA and I immediately fall in love with you guys.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Welcome to the family! ❤️

[@tamaragrant7922]

I pray for blessings and prosperity in the vital spaces. Hopefully, you are building a life you are proud of. Let go and let God. Save your energy to love on your loved ones.

[@imaobongdouglas]

I can relate Zhara, but you are doing awesome and also blessed with a super supportive Husband. Be encouraged and keep doing you

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much ! ❤️

[@nadiamombrun2340]

You will have good days and bad days that is part of life. Be strong, be patient. God blessings 🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Amen!

[@sheeba3532]

You are both such beautiful spirits. As a couple you compliment each other and your communication is always on point. Praying for your continued success and wisdom as you travel on your life journey together. 💜💜

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much!

[@musicbyarnica]

thanks for sharing and your supporters will lift you in prayer

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much

[@paulinehunter9016]

Zarah. You have put things into perspective. You're new to this journey babygirl; grant yourself some grace; don't listen to the lies of feeling inadequate and be sure never ever to compare yourself to anyone. I'm 42 years in and you'll have many more days like this. One day at a time. No gender role is very good.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much ! ❤️

[@evanitystartv]

Boss lady don't worry you can do it. Remember you have a champion husband. and God by your side.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you!

[@nacawe08]

Relatable, honest share 👍🏾🙏🏾 God bless you both!

[@hazelbradford4224]

Zhara, take it easy!!! Your husband understands that you are doing your best. You can never accomplish all the multiplicity of roles every time. Relax and find quality time for each other. God rewards every effort. Things will.get better.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

We will!

[@racquelfranklyn8971]

Girl I can relate!!!!! I'm newly wed as well BUT God and your husband will bring you through..... Be encouraged! The Lord will never leave us and we can do all things through Christ who strengthen us- Philippeans 4:13... God loves you Zhara and I know you are doing well 🙏🙏😘🤗🤗

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much♥️

[@veronicawynter7629]

You guys are doing a great job. Don't be hard on yourself. Trust God and live. Have a happy Sabbath. You guys are beautiful.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much!

[@leliethcunningham2242]

Happy Sabbath Xyz, do not be too hard on yourself Zhara. I can see you are both tired. Life is s struggle so let us keep fighting. Your husband is very understanding so believe that he is working with you. Love you guys.

[@eulaleecallun9750]

A rough life, roughing it out together 👏 A wise head on a young body👍👍👍

[@elizabethdavis4471]

I respect this sit down! Thank you for being “unselfish” 🤗🤗 God bless you both

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@patmartin1522]

You guys are the bomb,I have a 98 year old mother,she is pretty independent but because of her declined vision I had to pick up full time cooking,it was overwhelming in the beginning ,I am learning ways to do shortcuts and still eating healthy,love to share someone my secrets,first I have a mini slow cooker,I put beans in it attempt beginning 8f the day,,it might turned out to be a soup at the end of the day or use it to add tuna,breadcrumbs etc and turn into delicious patties,I found out if I put different sauces over patties and place in oven,voila, a meal is created,I use a steamer for the vegetables and squashes,it has a timer so I can walk away and my food is cooked.,I wish I was a better homemaker when it comes to cleaning floor etc.keep doing what you guys are doing,appreciate it,I got a sabbath school quarterly and my girl is to start studying and going to sabbath school,tx guys for your inspiration and enciuragement,

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Aww, we wish you all the best with trying to balance it all Pat! We know it must be difficult. We're so happy this video could be a blessing to you! Blessings!

[@herpurposefullife23]

Patience Zhara darling ❤🤗 As your husband said, you are doing GREAT and there is more to come mami. Happy Sabbath guys! Keep up the good work ❤❤❤❤

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much ! ❤️

[@sasheelynch1878]

Really love you guys.The way you give advice to youth, married and unmarried people I really admire you both for this. Being a pentecostal Christian I enjoy watching your vlogs jus to hear the advice and fun you guys have. Thanks for this guys. God bless you both

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Amen, thank you!

[@Susan-ee2dl]

Happy Sabbath, XyZ! Thank you for sharing the struggles transparently to encourage us. So glad you have Jesus and each other. You are both sweethearts.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much ! ❤️

[@paulinefrancis3754]

God bless you both. It's a blessing watching both of you. Love.

[@latoyaroyeclayton2916]

You are doing an amazing job Zhara. As Xaun rightfully said every marriage will look different....so don't beat yourself up when you are unable to stretch yourself. Things won't always be 50/50...it's just important to have a balance. 1 pick up the slack when the other is having a hard time.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thanks so much Toya! It's a journey that won't always have smooth parts and we're committed to making sure that even when they're bumps we continue and give them to God. Much love for your support and love always - Z

[@debralee7319]

Hi XyZ Family Life is what you put in it GOD is first everyday I honor GOD first when I come to awaking before I get out the bed I instantly think GOD is right here for me to just know that I am total secure because of GOD being with me and for me forever. That's the WOW factor that I appreciate about GOD how he give us room for growth everyday. Thank you two for being so Amazing sharing it help me learn to look closer at conversations and thoughts in general a little more attentively

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Amen! That's so true. When we put him first, everything else comes after and they seamlessly fall into place! Thanks for watching and for being here

[@marciamartin6969]

Happy for you, knowing jamaica deep rural areas through your vlog, a marriage made on a firm foundation. My advice is whenever problem comes be so close together that it will never put you apart,

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much ! ❤️

[@jannettpeart4334]

I can resonate with you Zahara on the point where you said you feel like you are not doing enough and so much to do and hardly no me time

[@adventuresofxyz22]

It's all a rat race sometimes

[@veronicagoodridge4625]

My favourite youtube channel. Love listening to you both. Very informative and inspiring. It doesn't not matter your age. God bless you both. Keep safe.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Aww, thanks for being here!

[@aliciaashmaned.d5992]

Beautifully done guys. I'm very proud of the way you serve your audience. Thanks! Blessings! Some going and some coming...all a part of the cycle of life and 'global community' living. Do what you want, go where you want. You have one life to live. Many are returning to Jamaica because that's where their hearts are. But one life to live. Do what's in your heart. Every place is 'home' for someone. I'm living in the USA for almost 20 years and Jamaica is 'home' for me, even with all its inadequacies.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thanks so much for sharing! Jamaica will always be home. In life we just have to decide which struggles we want to deal with because every decision comes with pros and cons. Much love!

[@dandada856]

This is my first time of commenting, it’s 2:30 am , but just felt moved to let you know that I am praying for you through these experiences! Rom 15:13 NLT. I am a physician and I have an appreciation for Xaundre’s perspective and Zhare’s experience is normal part of life. The Psalmist had a similar feeling for reasons different from yours, but I am learning to draw strength from His Word, “ Yet I still belong to You; You hold my right hand. You guide me with Your counsel leading me to glorious destiny “ Ps 73:23-24. I hope you draw strength, peace and comfort in reflecting daily on the wonderful truths of this verse. He’s got you both, and He’s got your back. Blessings!!! You are in my thoughts and prayers!

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thanks a million ❤️ We really appreciate it!

[@orecagottshalk4568]

Happy Sabbath guys

[@angelheart4480]

Hi Xaundre and Zhare....This is Marcia...Happy Sabbath...May God bless you...Nuff love!!!

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Have a great one! ❤️

[@nikkic2710]

"Life is always better than you think" 💯agree

[@marshasutherland620]

This conversation was needed, as it's a reminder that no one can be everything to everyone. Friends and family will understand. If you don't get to do 2 vlogs per week, we totally get it. No pressure! Have an awesome week, guys.✨ Much love! 😊

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Awww, that means so much.Thanks a million ❤️

[@marshasutherland620]

Anytime, my dears! ☀

[@awinojuju8522]

Woww....🥰🥰 this is lovely and beutiful....God bless

[@cstevens2981]

Guys, in everything there are two stages: process and end product! Sometimes we keep looking for the end product in the process. Bear in mind, the both have their unique look, so, always remember you can only get to the end product through the process. So my darling, trust the process!! I know you are expressing that you are doing so, but this is my $2 cent!! Love you guys!! 💕😊

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much ! ❤️

[@dionnedixon5373]

Yes rough it out together ❤ and God in the midst

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Amen!

[@andreahenry8594]

As couple you are refreshing. Z please give yourself a break, take time to love yourselves individual, balance is the key and don't put pressure on being perfect, be perfect in your imperfections,enjoy each moment as it comes.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

I will

[@aletamarsh1244]

Take it easy on yourself Zhara! Life is like roller coaster. You are the operator and God is the designer/engineer. God won’t give you more than you can handle! The one lesson I tell myself all the time is that “no matter how bad it is someone have it worst”

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Definitely! Thanks a million ❤️

[@lbcreativedesigns9210]

Don't care about video quality.little is much when God is in it. The message is solid. Thanks for Sabbath supper.✌️

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much ! ❤️

[@paulaheaven4577]

Sweet couple 💑 Love you story Helpful and strengthening

[@beulahharris1758]

Happy Sabbath 😊 You guys are sooo mushy and adorable ❤️ I love how you guys add value to each other. I always say I love love love how authentic you guys are in your experience, how brave you are to be sharing it with us. The Lord is pleased this day that someone (XyZ) is doing what they should be doing so that someone will come to know Him 🙏 😀

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much Beulah! ❤️

[@victoriawarren8455]

Will definitely share with the younger group, best believe it😀

[@d_vorah]

The level of pureness yall have is wow, and I'm here for it... this was beautiful. Z you are also doing an amazing job ❣

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much Debra ! ❤️ We really wanna make sure that everything here is authentic, both the good and the bad

[@vestriciallewellyn-richard8726]

Z: Don't put that pressure on yourself. You are more than enough. I didnt say this but God did. Take each day in strides! Adjusting to be a new wife, a professional etc. etc. takes time. Some people are still trying to find their balance many years after. There is no one fix. I too am still learning! Chin up sweet girl :)

[@adventuresofxyz22]

It really takes time and effort! We’re both committed to the journey!

[@vestriciallewellyn-richard8726]

@@adventuresofxyz22 Bless God!

[@yaniquestaple9758]

I just love how real you guys are!

[@destinedbillionare6581]

Thanks for sharing this🙏🙏,,your new subscriber 💕

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much♥️ And welcome to the Family!

[@authenticallyangie4044]

I really enjoyed this video, you guys are so authentic, how are you guys 25? So much wisdom was poured out tonight I love it and I learnt so much. The budget video will definitely help can’t wait for it. Thanks for this uncut video. Happy sabbath my favs

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much Angie ! ❤️

[@normaclarke3300]

You are a very wise young man, you will be a great husband and some day a great father

[@lifeatucc5322]

Honey darling Z I am going through the same thing! I just feel as there is alot to do and there’s just not enough of me to get it done ! Am 12 years in and let me tell you it can be tough at times…. you just have to work together! You guys are doing good! ❤️❤️❤️

[@delrosewebber9553]

Z you are doing an amazing job. Wife duty will never be easy, just take it one day at a time. You will be okay because you have an amazing husband and most of all you guys put God first in everything you do...love u guys a lot...I can't watch enough of your videos, so inspiring. Keep up, you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you...God bless you, and I will forever be your number one fan.

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much ladies, I really appreciate the kind words. The journey can get bumpy in some areas and I'm glad that we can have these open conversations to help each other along!

[@gilliansimpson3006]

Hi gm welcome guys , I pray that God covers and bless u through ur marriage

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thanks a million ❤️

[@lornettejames3649]

don't worry my dears this too will pass our God will see you through he did not bring you this far to leave you God's blessing on you both

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much ! ❤️

[@Nordiaaa]

The brain drain is SERIOUS! I left Jamaica literally on an olive branch of faith as a teenager because I knew there had to be more out there! I knew life didn’t have to be so hard! Fast forward almost 8 years later, I go back as a tourist (intentionally; I always hear people over here talk about how they LOOOOVE JA and as a destination spot, it’s always top 5 and I wanted that experience) and had the most amazing time I almost cried when it was time to come back because on this trip, I found Jamaica to be the best place. Perspective. I am with you Zhara, as someone who took the leap I would encourage any young person who has the opportunity, run and run fast. I will say IT WONT BE EASY BECAUSE FOREIGN HARD TOO! But, here, you can really see your way if you move with sense and ask God for wisdom. Build yourself, and if anything once you’re established you can go back and live your absolute best life because let’s be honest, the only people in Jamaica that use the hashtag #JamaicaNiceNahLefYah, are the people who are high income earners. This is why foreigners can come and love it in a way our own people can’t - they come with powerful currency! The average Jamaican who’s trying to make it, or even those who aren’t necessarily struggling but they aren’t balling either, would love an opportunity to leave (most of them anyway).

[@adventuresofxyz22]

That point is such a powerful point! The high income earners can live a fruitful life here and it's getting harder and harder to reach there

[@dawnsalmon-palmer9968]

Happy Sabbath my favorite young couple. Girl I can relate. I have learnt not to beat up myself and I would implore you Zar not to beat up yourself either. The fact of the matter is you are not going to always have sunny days, there will be dark days. All these things are apart of the journey of life guys. Thank you for sharing your struggles and being so transparent and vulnerable. I love ❤️ you guys. 💫💫💫👐👐👐🥰

[@adventuresofxyz22]

Thank you so much ! ❤️

[@johnbrown-um3lf]

EVERYTHING IS UP !!!! LOVE BOTH OF YOU, TWO VERY BRIGHT, INTELLIGENT AND WONDERFUL YOUNGSTERS !!! KEEP IT UP GUYS

[@adventuresofxyz22]

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