One of my former colleagues wore bad wigs. She told me that she used to spend hours in salon chair getting her hair braided regularly and it got to be too expensive and time consuming. She said now she just throws on low maintenance wigs that she ordered online.
@tintamanengu9 ай бұрын
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@Wtfffffffffff274623 ай бұрын
ok.. why are you telling her business on the internet.maybe she likes it.
@miracle-pi5ws2 ай бұрын
@@Wtfffffffffff27462touch grass
@princetyler98868 ай бұрын
This hard wig thing is new however back in the day I have heard women say that black women only wear their natural hair when dating outside of their race because black men didn't like curly natural hair and it attracked men of other races.
@tintamanengu8 ай бұрын
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@artisticagi2 ай бұрын
Exactly! People saw that video of the Congolese woman with her rich white man and ran with it when for years the narrative was exactly what you just said. lol the internet just couldn’t believe it. And says anything
@newworldlord6439 ай бұрын
This is fuking HILARIOUS .. this tittle 😂😂😂😂😂
@tintamanengu9 ай бұрын
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@claysmith49095 ай бұрын
🎉 the one lady so correct, men want a woman who is fun and confident in her herself ! Period
@tintamanengu5 ай бұрын
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@rawkmode63153 ай бұрын
We don't like hard wigs. However, we want you to do whatever you feel happy doing, and if that means wearing a wig, then so be it. Also, we don't want to piss you off by being critical of your appearance.
@tintamanengu3 ай бұрын
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@artisticagi2 ай бұрын
Factssss 😊
@Kyutenessss7 ай бұрын
Lol my hubby is white and simply doesnt know about hair like that. He loves my natural hair. I dont think expensive wigs are attractive. I think there are far better things i can spend my money on.
@tintamanengu7 ай бұрын
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@colourqueen229 ай бұрын
Completely agree with the lady with the piercings. Changing yourself to end up with someone who won't even like you?? Nah, I'm good
@ThatsEunice9 ай бұрын
She doesn’t make any sense. Those White don’t care because the women they are with have natural hair under the wigs and just slap it on for appearances. They date the most African women, not Western Black women. African women don’t care about fake hair. Because when they are home, they are natural and themselves.
@tintamanengu9 ай бұрын
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@tintamanengu9 ай бұрын
Emotionally and physically exhausting.
@colourqueen229 ай бұрын
@@tintamanengu I guess I agree more with what YOU said because you brought out that point much more. Truly exhausting
@dontaecrane49 ай бұрын
She full of 💩 😂😂😂
@candacewalton94565 ай бұрын
One more point is that some guys/women are looking for a character type, moreso than a person. They are attracted to an unnatural look. People have different fetishes and I believe this look is just one.
@tintamanengu5 ай бұрын
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@summerbreeze56539 ай бұрын
LOVED the lady with the piercings. She is a deep thinker.
@simonemitchell13978 ай бұрын
And did
@tintamanengu8 ай бұрын
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@kaydubya63477 ай бұрын
Nothing was deep about that. She basically said that white men see a bw w a "bad wig " and feel sorry 4 her or see her as vulnerable which is stupid because 9 out of 10 of those WM want to be dominated by you. Esp if you're small and cute. She completely missed that most of them aren't fat, no neck , mean -girl ass bitches which legit is the reason. And a lot of women who aren't insecure about being fat and mean don't care that much about wigs or how their hair is.
@melissagreye84455 ай бұрын
She is NOT a deep thinker because she thinks walking lock step with the community means you have to push a Euro centric beauty standard. She mentioned our ancestors but they did not care about layed edges our Asian women hair on black bodies.
@NycBeautyАй бұрын
My fiancé is a Black man that spoils me. It doesn’t matter if I wear my hair natural or a fabulous wig. 🤷🏽♀️
@artisticagi2 ай бұрын
4:45 she’s having a good time and being free ❤
@tintamanengu2 ай бұрын
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@chocolateearrings8 ай бұрын
Let's goooo. I love this theory. I can even be more low maintenance and be happy lol
@tintamanengu8 ай бұрын
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@Carameldamour9 ай бұрын
Gosh the whole thing is a joke. I don't think the lady's are dumb enough to think a wig alone will get you a rich man.
@cocolokoflaccoАй бұрын
sadly they r
@face-in-the-crowd9 ай бұрын
Baby where is your forehead? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😭
@tintamanengu9 ай бұрын
He then actually measures it😅
@julianabarbosa85019 ай бұрын
It's interesting to see how this is such an American point of view and theory
@tintamanengu9 ай бұрын
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@g.h.76614 ай бұрын
Americans wear the most wigs, i mean im fairly sure
@kelcsticks95659 ай бұрын
Did not know this was a thing
@tintamanengu9 ай бұрын
It is something they have concluded may be a reason.
@kaydubya63477 ай бұрын
A lot of yall don't have any personality BESIDES YOUR WIG.
@tintamanengu7 ай бұрын
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@Livelearnapply4 ай бұрын
Yes the girl on the wrap spot on
@spaceghost24733 ай бұрын
Cake soap and busted wigs are a helluva combination.
@pacmiller7564Ай бұрын
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@MonaLisa657-h3u2 ай бұрын
The lady in the scarf is looking at it from a very American perspective. Its not that deep believe me there are ppl in this world who don’t care about races and don’t believe in the concept of race😉
@ahhbee82989 ай бұрын
Omg love this title I have been asking this question for years. Can't wait to watch
@ThatsEunice9 ай бұрын
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@tintamanengu9 ай бұрын
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@kaydubya63477 ай бұрын
It's hilarious that they don't also notice that most of the women are also petite/fit/or athletic build AND they have a bubbly generally pleasant disposition, and a lot of them.have small lips and angular noses too😂😂😂 I guess they'll just throw a hard wig on the big ass back and then say it didn't work for them😂😂😂
@face-in-the-crowd9 ай бұрын
6:15 this makes a lot of sense
@nikkeriam9 ай бұрын
I would disagree
@BrownGirlColorStruckWorld9 ай бұрын
It's rooted in anti-blackness. Ita basically as simple as not having edges /looking whitewashed. As the girl said, you appear to be more easily attainable / conquered. Not exactly the sale, but related. Prepandemic I was looking for someone to stay with on couch surfing, because I was going to a concert and the ppl I was traveling with booked an airbnb without telling me. When my profile contained my actual personality- "i love books, philosophy and politics" type of profile...I had zero takers. I went back through and Asian washed my profile. Used Japanese emojis like this: (✿˶◕‿◕˶).𖥔 ݁ ˖𖦹⭒°。⋆ Removed my entire personality to make it look like I'm basic B. "I love movies and Im a total foodie" I only left one sentence about the fact that I liked politics at the very end. After I updated, I had to beat hosts off with a stick. Men in prime real-estate (one apartment was near times square) were fighting to get me to stay. But it was crickets when my thoughts maybe seemed "too black". I even asked the guy that I stayed with why he picked me and he said he found my (Asian washed basic bish with no brain) profile intriguing. I think it was not being the presumed angry imaginary black woman in their head. So I do not think she is off at all. People love everything about black ppl except black ppl. They want watered down versions
@kiwanacabrera3669 ай бұрын
Wrong! She seems to be speaking about the AA culture! Black folks as you well know are not a monolith. We come from ALL OVER THE WORLD, and usually, when we do, our cultures are woven into the very fiber of our being and there is NO disconnect. So I think that woman, draped in the rainbow flag and face looking like a pin cushion, is not someone I would look to, to philosophize about the Black culture. When I look at her, I think she is disconnected from the same culture she seems to think she understands. I see thrash metal, an alternative lifestyle, surrounded by white friends, and grunge parties. Lesson learned: she wouldn't know why some Black women were bad wigs UNLESS she asked them. It could be many reasons; or the biggest reason? Mind the business that pays us, and let people live!