Why Women Can't Love You, The Same Way You Love Them

[@ChishaZed]

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[@devinwatkins2758]

I believe men love unconditionally will women tend to love conditionally in a relationship or marriage.

[@owusubleau9464]

ex Manchester ŕrraqqxdddaz c

[@inquizative44]

Women and men love differently......Men love women the way a parent loves his child. Women love men the way a child loves his parents. A man's expression of love is by giving, providing. A woman's expression of love is based on what she receives from the man. Sex has nothing to do with love.

[@Sldumas1983]

This was very helpful my Brotha 💯

[@NonAssumpsit]

Nothing new, they do it to most all indigenous content creators, while non indigenous creators have millions of views, over slime etc

[@Yah.Rastafari]

Agreed Zed. I got married under the blue pill and really didn't like it. I didn't realize I was simpin, I just wanted to do everything in my power to keep my wife happy. Even though I wasn't happy. So, I decided to man up. I stopped focusing on her happiness and focused on my mission instead. I took her off the pedestal and waited for her to put me on one. I stopped arguing with her about decisions and the like. I stopped getting all emotional because she wasn't treating me how I wanted to be treated. My attitude changed to: I'm on a mission. Help with that or not but I'm not stopping what I'm doing to focus on you and your constantly changing moods. It took 3 years of that before the change came, but it did. Trust me brother, if she loves you and you step into your manliness she will love you more. If she doesn't, let her go she isn't for you. Like the majority of masculine women, they are looking for Simps. 👶🏾🚫

[@plb9797]

Brother Rastafarian you are spot on sir. @Chisha Zed this comment needs to be pinned to the top!!

[@royaldzumbunu]

I did the same and it was hell from her and her mother and brother and when I switched up she couldn’t take it,she blew up until she started chasing me and the man I switched up to!

[@oneway2971]

I think I need to do this. I'm always thinking of how the mood swings are going to be its soul destroying. All I want is the best for my family but nothing ever seems good enough. fighting her emotions all the time like pissing in the wind.

[@browneyez1559]

Sounds like me and my husband's story.. except it took me 4 years smh

[@matosz23]

@@oneway2971 Have you started to change?

[@MylesHortonYT]

It’s all about being okay with losing her. Once you put yourself through that realization and that pain you’ll be able to do whatever you need to do as far as bettering your life.

[@CiluhStyle1]

Facts!

[@bigrelly2001]

💯🤜🏿

[@SOULutionsForMenPodcast]

"Become the man who you respect" Powerful!

[@TruGank]

Women don't love sh*t but the lifestyle that you can give them.

[@Que772]

False statement. That's your experience

[@scarlettmasin1204]

You been through something

[@Money-talking]

I think a lot of the "bitter" men are bitter about the LIES they have been told, rather than the actual situation...

[@greatestsawes9712]

Women love opportunistically... Word 👌

[@TheStgreenguy]

Great message. Especially the point about don't arguing back and forth with your woman is so true. Educate yourself brothers

[@---re9jc]

You don't demand respect, it is earned. One shows it through ethical actions.

[@chrismargoni]

It comes through honest communication/discussion & having the wisdom to value each other. Make a plan that works out for the best future.

[@juniorninjaman865]

Earned from who though

[@the_AP_Accountability_Partner]

First: FIND YOUR PURPOSE Second: Move toward that purpose Third: As you move toward that purpose, bring her with you (you're married, so it's different than a gf/fiance) Fourth: Tell her your vision Fifth: Remember, it's a dictatorship not a Democracy. Don't argue, either she moves behind you or she leaves Sixth: Be deliberate and decisive Remember, she will move into her femininity when you are moving in your purpose on purpose

[@yahyaibnmartey7626]

Facts

[@wasupman777]

🤣🤣🤣 ppl did this in 10 + years of marriage till they finally got created on! There is no limit to the women's madness. If she starts feeling like she is too good for you n you lucky to have her! Expect the unexpected all these comments about Rules #1,2,3 maan ya niggas funny 🤣🤣🤣

[@Ryan-Horgan]

Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent. Friedrich Nietzsch

[@ChishaZed]

💯🙏🏾

[@browneyez1559]

Dang.

[@najirban]

That's what bad boys do as well.

[@sagebrawlin5264]

Valid.

[@Ludavelli]

KZbin is definitely tapping down your content my guy. nowadays, content creators like yourself putting out heat, grow significantly like you did until you hit around 36k. Keep up the good work though.

[@animehitz2679]

@@jakemccoy not putting on reccommended cause youtube dont want red pill spreading to the new generation they trying to turn into simps and bluepilled chasing the skirts and making poor financial commitments to the modern woman who are mostly HO HO HO's

[@brosmile9388]

@@jakemccoy Suppression.

[@browneyez1559]

When my husband told me this, I thought he loved me less. I realize now I was hurting him and rightfully so he had to change his focus back to himself. I'm no longer hurt by this but appreciate and respect him more for becoming the man I knew he always was

[@Boomer-ce7lj]

Thanks for understanding and staying by his side.

[@adeneo.g6456]

I'm actually surprises you stayed by his side. Most modern women would leave and that would force him to grown in his own way. A intersting ending.

[@tedna7033]

Proud that you realized this. Please please please share that experience with other women. We are dying out here in this war. We need you to use your voice.

[@browneyez1559]

@@tedna7033 interesting.. Maybe i will share this anonymously somehow. My husband is very private! But i do agree more women need to hear other woman acknowledging truth in mens perspectives. God gave yall dominion over the family for a reason!

[@gloriousjohnson1807]

@@adeneo.g6456 : Things aren't always 'black and white. In this case, it proves my point. In today's society, we're so used to either/or that most have become conditioned to that. When the smoke clears, and the dust settles, there's clarity!

[@Rags2Roses]

I was blue pill married turned red during the marriage and she went right with the change. She loves me more she wants me more she needs me more. Women want the best you if they truly love you. If not then they were never your's 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@charlescreamerii2715]

If he's going to lead he has to be ready to accept the consequences of his leadership without fear of loss. He'll never lead her if he fears her leaving and she'll never leave if she feels he loves her but has no fear.

[@tcdtboc8551]

In this day and age I doubt it this system literally pays chicks to leave. You could be loaded and be a great leader but if you live in a state with certain laws where youre auto married or have a kid she could just leave as she pleases and you have to pay for it.

[@charlescreamerii2715]

@@tcdtboc8551 i know, I've lived it. We're speaking of traditional minded women. We're not concerned w/these modern minded, masculine, uncooperative, monkey branching, hypergamous, narcissistic, entitled women. They're not wives.

[@UltimateUltraGogeta]

Had to read that twice but it really makes sense a lot

[@johnmarlan9238]

This is very knowledgeable brother Charles

[@D20jackson]

She’ll change her mind when you as a man find your purpose, understand you might lose her but that’s ok, there’s 2 million more women then men embrace the risk life is. Grind hard my dawgs !!!

[@Vorzilla]

change her mind about what? he only spoke on his actions or feelings

[@benoitdesrentes3907]

Qmo8q

[@paperboip7777]

A Ok!

[@FlaVaChAsA]

Never be Financially dependent on a woman.

[@BushidoBush]

Never be financially dependent on anyone not even a job

[@techconns4718]

That’s fasho how you know you not keeping her

[@nathanhall6545]

Thanks for the alpha advice. Man changed my life instantly. God is Good all the time. He is using u Sir.

[@fabledreamor]

The question is are you ready to walk away. Respect yourself!

[@lewis20002000]

OK, that thumbnail got me. OK, I totally agree, he has to become more financially productive/stable and build a stronger body, and you're absolutely right, you don't argue with women.

[@blair5475]

who's the female in the thumbnail?

[@GamerArtTv]

Who is the woman in the thumbnail

[@matthewking4331]

Love yourself and God, win everytime.

[@MrDee001]

This is the story of many of us men from our mid 20s to early 30s. Unfortunately, we did not have these platforms to learn about these traps. We've heard from our women and the media, "happy wife, happy life." So we go into these situations and feel like when things go awry, we just need to make the woman happy despite whatever is going on in our lives or mental health.

[@octaviusholliday3358]

Felt this. Divorced after 16 years.

[@Boomer-ce7lj]

You said exactly how most feel.

[@ahmedjartu1131]

Single motherhood is so common in the western world, Africa with all the so called poverty but we take the lead in relationships

[@bigburner9609]

That’s your prime be a bachelor

[@ruthseri9346]

Especially men being raised by single mothers== simps….. that’s what that Happy wife happy life garbage leads too….. the world is a cold world and women will use and abuse… and disgard….fellas get into leadership…. Work on you… grab your balls and don’t let ladies make you their B…tch💪 you got this!

[@charlessmith5870]

Whoa!!!!!! Man the way you articulate your message is clear and refreshing. Subscribed!

[@KENZIIE_lol]

A lot of this is sooo true. Learned this the hard way as a struggling 20-something yr old. She bailed. I was hurt back then, but now as an older man, I can understand. The TRUTH is, people have needs and love is NOT ENOUGH. Furthermore, the needs are different for the genders. It is tough for a woman in her prime years to take a risk for love than pass up the sure thing. In fact, a portion of that love is tied into sexual attraction. And for woman, a good portion of sexual attraction for man is someone who has it tied down. For men, a good portion of our love is also tied to sexual attraction. And our sexual attraction for a woman is about her looks. That's just the way it is. How many men are willing to marry an overweight obese woman for love, on the promise that she will get better? It's the same for women - they want the sure thing in a solid man over a struggling one with promises. The only real difference I suppose, is that the years are flipped - meaning a man's struggling years are when he's young, and a woman's is when she gets older and it becomes harder and harder to remain attractive. So they start at the top and decline. We start at the bottom and incline. It's weird how nature sets up these things. Nowadays, I am doing much better. I happily married now and holding it down. My past struggles have born fruit in a high paying career and more money. Between my salary and a rental we own, I am closing in on $200k a year now and happily married with 3 kids. Learn fellas the truth of how things really are and get off the blue pill. Peace out!

[@smallbusinessdreams]

Same exact story of my life brother. Fell in love got married at 19, she bailed. Learned my lesson until 28 got married again and been married every since. 2 kids and 170k, building my first rental now! Men have to lead, women can't handle it physically and mentally. Good luck.

[@christopherdavis9825]

I'm in my mid-60s, and I've learned, never try to save a woman, especially if she's already in a relationship, she got in it let her get out, then after you know she's done with her ex, then maybe you can try with her, cause, believe me, she's bringing that baggage with her and you will catch hell.

[@kevinnoel9024]

Chiah Zed, you are a God sent go many who were not as fortunate to come by the information you're offering to the menfolk on how they are to focus on building themselves, and in so doing they'll be sought after by any prospect who is worthy and serious of their time, resources and attention. Your message is CLEAR, CONCISE, and very sound. Keep on doing what you're doing and may the almighty bless you abundantly brother. Greetings and salutations from the Twin Isle Republic of Trinidad and Tobago, West Indies, Caribbean.

[@fannywayne1920]

This guy asked some good questions and did some good self reflection

[@UnboundCorps]

Chisha, with all due respect the solution when chicks disrespect no matter the level, is to tell then to get out of your house or vehicle.

[@jayell1979]

Facts💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯👏👏

[@blackstatistics3673]

Pitfall: focusing on self improvement for the sole purpose of proving yourself to a woman. Why, because your focus is wrong and thus she is actually your purpose. Wrong answer. If you do that, she is still in control. Her shifting emotions and attitudes WILL distract you from your true purpose. Do it for you. You are the head. Control the head and the body will follow. Be the head, not the body.

[@writ3r5683]

Facts. There has to be balance.

[@jayell1979]

Facts💯💯

[@smallbusinessdreams]

My wife is a damm shape shifter. I let her run things and I took back control when things got too intense. I told her I got it. I ask the questions and I expect the answers so I can get things accomplished.

[@batzgameguru]

I thought one girl I was seeing was going to be the one, we connected so well and got along so well. I gave her more effort than any other girl I've ever dated and she burned me in the end.

[@CiluhStyle1]

Damn man hate you had to go through that. I think I've been there as well

[@jag2666]

Facts. I'm transiting out of a relationship that started off feeling good and moved fast but as time went on the condescending comments and signs of disrespect kicked in. Of course I'm not perfect but I was not prepared for what was coming. Dealing with a woman that been with financially secured men then coming to a man that's in his professional and financial building stages hit her hard. When finances dried and the acts of service and gifts slowed down she began telling me I didn't care about her and how she is bored and unhappy. I thought she would weather the storm with me or at least knew how to being that she knew I was not rich when we got together. Now I see though I made the mistake of getting in too deep before realizing what I was putting myself in. Now, through many content like this etc in able to take accountability for my own life and create a plan that I will stick to so that I improve myself first before getting with a woman. Our natural instincts always kicks in even when we are in denial. Great video

[@yahyaibnmartey7626]

Damn. Bro. Went through exactly the same thing but instead of the gifts and services. It was having children and baby father drama. Once you are doing your thing they are second place probably not even second

[@KENZIIE_lol]

@Jag Find another woman for a wife

[@sharardtuff368]

I am 49. I've been simping most of my life. The women that I didn't simp with, stongly chased me. I've been married for 18 years and am now am changing. She will never allow me to change in her mind. I am ok with that. Because that chapter, person and relationship are over. He also may have to cut his losses and move forward.

[@calhounmoose8783]

Bro you are cold blooded. This is your calling. Keep doing these shows

[@princimusprime]

MAN! This just helped me heal big time. Been feeling guilty for breaking up with my X because i needed to attend to my purpose in life and things started happening to my benefit and well...let´s just say things chenged

[@Bantubrotha]

This is very good convo. RP overrides BP.

[@mroblige1018]

I truly feel sorry for those dudes who call themselves alpha red pill etc to make themselves feel like real men

[@CoreyBenjaminMrFourthQuarter]

This background music go well with him and puts you at ease

[@Weight27]

The sad reality that GOD may have been rescuing me by way of the divorce.

[@jeronronnunkoffunk4691]

Hello brother, just wanted to thank you in agreement with the sound advice you’ve given that young man, it is hard staunch realities we men must absolutely overstand, but it will make us the men we ought to be!! Great piece and well said sir!!👊🏾✌🏽💯💯

[@carlosrios4781]

Bravo, well said. Keep up the great work.

[@JL-et2nh]

I just don’t want to get married for the simple fact one I’m still in my 20s, but two every older guy I talk to who is married looks like the whole thing is draining them, like they only do things pertaining to the wife and kids never anything for themselves. Or when having conversations it’s never pertaining to them as a couple it’s just things she wants done or needs. Like I feel marriage is a selfish thing man lol and my sisters and mom get mad at me but it is I much rather have fun with my life working out, waking up everyday to something new or a new woman rather than the same person or making money , and traveling the world then be tied down to someone, especially to someone who seems like it’s all about them and not US

[@davidmilner8778]

It's about building your legacy and anchored on something bigger than yourself. For now you need to be getting yourself in position for when the time comes to start your legacy. If you are not building as a man then what are you doing? It's not often an easy thing but men do what is required. It can be thankless and loveless at times but at the end it's more than worth it. Society respects it and the flowers come.

[@smallbusinessdreams]

Legacy.... its all about that. I got married at 28 didn't have my 1st kid until 36. Kids are doing well in my mid 40s. You have to leave something to the next generation. At least this is what motivates me.

[@larryrobinson9252]

You have to be willing to leave her & make sure she knows it.

[@Therapycookingshow]

I'm done with relationships. I'm not giving my money or sharing my money with no woman. I'm not going to chase no chick. I'm not simping. Peace!

[@imayaivey1]

This is awesome advice for men and women but especially as it pertains to this young man. Any man who does this would earn my respect. "Become the person that you respect and feel proud of".

[@destinliburd5455]

This dude just explained what led to my divorce, word for word . My ex actually seen me cry like a b’ch. it was over yo

[@Mrtitowayz]

The Woman On The Thumbnail Is Named IamNayfit If Your Wondering.

[@DocMatthews0311]

Sheeeezzz

[@JamesBond-ye5kx]

All discussions are not always arguments and communication is super important. If that does not work because one or both do not see each other's view, it might be time to move on.

[@landowilliams7903]

I am well in 12:22 of your video and everything u saying so far is absolutely right man. I am a living testament to this. I have always been an Alpha male until I met this girl whom I thought I loved. She is an Alpha female as well so we always get into it. Because I wanted things to work, I fell back and allowed her to have her way. Over time, that approach became permanent and so I became a Beta male without realizing. When that happened, I lost her for good. She became more into men who took charge and who were more financially stable. My message is to never risk your masculinity for no woman. U will end up losing both ways

[@browneyez1559]

I'm sorry this happened to you

[@landowilliams7903]

@@browneyez1559 thank you. It was a leaning experience so I've grown from it.

[@ronmarshall725]

Some of the best stuff I've seen you put down bro 💯🔥

[@adrianlately]

Dude make a plan and be uncompromising. Just make sure your plan will include her because at the end of the day she is your responsibility. She will appreciate it at the end of the day. But make sure you are serious because she thinks she knows you. So if you end up not being able to follow through and fail she will hold it against you and leave. Assess yourself and be sure. Some people are simps and they just are. But if you want to be an alpha make a plan and follow through and dont worry about her leaving if you know your plan is solid.

[@aetv2595]

The moment i realized i don't need to be loved and not have emotions as a navy seal. I am at the best place now in my life.

[@MasterjngReizowolf]

Damn.

[@eugenemoore7499]

I appreciate your content. I also like the way you handled this question. Not normally someone who posts on content, but one thing I want to add is, always ask yourself " If I never change another day in my life will she still love me, If the answer is no...LEAVE ASAP."

[@eugenemoore7499]

Congratulations also Chisha Zed on the engagement, YAH Bless.

[@Kingly24]

🔥That "don't feel guilty" line fire af'💯🔥

[@67spankadelik]

No woman is going to adapt to your new change you haven't yet mastered.. Apparently he think he's going to be that guy overnight. Men can live in delusion as well.

[@0rokuSaki]

Indeed

[@mohamedadan6678]

its a marathon not a sprint, if she wants to leave during it....LET HER GO!

[@genxsports8486]

There always has to be a dynamic in relationships, understand your lead.

[@Resilient_Brilliance]

Mutual understanding, respect and effort will make me stay with a man.

[@0bsmith0]

When you know the nature of women you can't love them.

[@dra631]

I'm sorry, bro, passing her Shit Test yet checking disrespect is too contradictory to me. If any sort of unruly behavior is projected towards me, off she goes, period.

[@ericpowell4350]

That is the proper procedure.

[@juniorninjaman865]

Or beat on her, it seems like every interaction is based on how they want it

[@PaulBhoorasingh]

Find your way 🙏

[@lovethyselfknowthyself8788]

Love thyself know thyself

[@SpyTrader1988]

It's a tough red pill but you have to accept it to grow. Only Men can love Women.

[@henriqueguimaraes121]

Once you're woman see you as a Beta Male, it's very difficult for a Woman to see you as an Alpha, Man have to change their ways, first focus on yourself get a job work hard and become financially stable, second focus on your game when you approach a Woman you have to be confident, show her you're a boss that leads the relantionship, Woman only control acess to sex, Man control the acess to relantionships be clever Guys stop SIMPING for these modern Woman, yoi will always be the Beta Male provider after all the dudes she has been with only used her and passed around.

[@vcjjj08]

How many of us clicked on this video thinking we would at least see a pic of the woman in the thumbnail? Me too.

[@JJ-ep2ng]

Very good advice never argue with a woman to prove your point. Your beating on a dead horse. Never show her your emotional side. Make a plan to improve yourself. Take control your finances.

[@kangtheconqueroriii7724]

Chisha man....you wrong for that thumbnail. I'm monkmode but I almost asked for the IG of the woman on your thumbnail. I rebuke thee ratchet....😂😂

[@ratherbest4223]

Man what when I seen her I was about to click the video regardless then I seen my boy Chisha 😂🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥going anyway

[@DreMurrz]

I think itz 'Amber Diamond'... If so thank me later, she's a model from my hometown

[@Ducati007]

The good Lord made them this way, for his purpose 🙏.

[@Steve-cb8nw]

Focus on self and stay single. Glad that was taught to me growing up and I stuck to it. Never caught me in a exclusive relationship just got rocks off with them and kept it moving. Juice not worth the squeez trying to wife these chicks up. I've seen way too much growing up to ever take that risk of "falling in love" with a chick. Got my own home and cars and running my flooring business. Damn all that relationship and marriage. No woman will ever get me to do that.

[@luxboss2388]

You right these dudes be thinking they can predict the future it’s the dumbest shit you can do 🤣

[@SilkySmooth02]

Self reflection is the best teacher...just dont look away 🤔

[@tooneov]

I understand having to have all these things for women, but what is it that they are supposed to have for me? Something that they aren't just born with? What risk are they taking to get this stuff in return?

[@tooneov]

@@jakemccoy unfortunately you're right and this is why at best we have co parenting relationships. If the law doesn't change American families in bulk are doomed

[@genxsports8486]

In the hood we call it driving the car. If you let her drive she will drive you crazy.

[@robertalston6013]

Not quite as simple as that good brother : most of the time : you'll get this back and forth power play in every relationship the more you allow her to mark her territory the better ( with in reason ) women like to be in charge , at least that's what we think .I've learned in my personal experience ( the woman I've dealt with in my life ) they like to feel like they're in charge , they also like knowing you are the one in charge ,but How much you defer authority to them is the real test . Love safety security protection loyalty are the things they look for. !" We as men are born to lead ,fight hunt , provide and protect !" Those are the qualities they also hope you don't lose . The point of conflict is to test your level of maturity, and were your boundaries lie as well as how strong is your resolve ...those are the personal dynamics of relationships between men and women !" How they play out depends on the maturity, accountability, readiness, , desire and value of the relationship as well as your commitment to each other . But if you don't have sanity, issues or problems that will arise in your relationship can't be resolved !""

[@JohnWilliams-qi4dp]

😎 Talk Blackman

[@fraimework]

you are not meant to put anyone on a pedestal

[@IRISHMAN9199]

Great commentary.

[@funieman1]

Dope shyt 🔥🔥💪🏾💪🏾✊🏾

[@ChishaZed]

💯🙏🏾

[@jessekaringombe1555]

Inspirational, tho sometimes the simp in us wants to come out...but u need to check urself at all times. Hard as heck to be a man🤣

[@Jryoko]

Fresh and fit said it themselves not to do what they do, they are doing it to teach men on how women behave. So i recommend watching fresh and fit

[@themealeyfamily]

The more I hear these various podcasts about men and women it becomes clear it’s seemingly men and women acting as if they’re each other’s arch nemesis when in reality people are walking around carrying on generational curses from their mother’s and father’s not knowing how to love or reciprocate love or even basic human kindness and respect. You are what YOU attract, and what company you choose to keep. All women are not bad in their “true” nature nor are men. People need to understand there’s a LOT of undiagnosed mental health issues out here in men and women in how they think, and how they carry themselves and treat people.

[@williamtucker4749]

Real talk my brother

[@STAR_LIGHT.2213]

As a woman I like this message for men🥰💖

[@zelvanyan]

Doesn't matter if you like it or hate it, the only thing that matters is that he speaks truth.

[@loganblack4885]

@@zelvanyan LoL

[@kid9046]

@@zelvanyan 🤣🤣yall let the woman live plzz

[@slyowusu99]

Just been watching the women's world cup, all those women with masculine energy and thinking - maybe that ship has sailed. Maybe biologically our women are so masculine now that it is too late. 🤔

[@victimsofthe3784]

You just went round in circles on this topic.

[@ralphie8443]

Looking forward to the alpha mentality

[@johnathanwest2017]

Cmon bruh no man is letting anybody call them out of their name 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@antoniomcmahon3499]

I'm old AF and I gotta say I dont know when Being a Man and legitimately knowing who you are and what you absolutely wont put up with..suddenly stopped! I'm not saying being an asshole, player, etc but a man sure of himself, period! Theres been plenty of times my exes would say stuff like you don't act like my girlfriends man do! I politely said to her because I'm not a Sucker! Don't get me wrong, I know I was the best guy they ever dated and treated them all with respect. Theres certain things im not arguing about, etc. One tried to get me to go to a burlesque brunch with the other couples,wtf!! Long story short guys, stay true to yourselves first, set the boundaries and have respect for the relationship. Now as a business owner, home owner and buying overseas property as I type..im perfectly content by myself. By yourself and Alone are 2 different things people. This advice goes both ways!

[@Boomer-ce7lj]

Staying true to yourself and boundaries are something most don’t do. Hopefully others read your comment and understand what you mean and apply it.

[@rwwdzzm5608]

That’s why black women are staying independent because the pendulum swings both ways

[@jag2666]

I needed to read this. In a place now where I'm realizing I fell into the she loves me trap and began ignoring signs that are indicative of her true female nature. I know I need to improve on things financially and what not so I can't fault her for feeling that way. But your message hit home. Great point you made.

[@GeneratorOperatorDestroyer]

Wow, he’s trying to “flip the script”. If he gonna do that IMO he’ll have no choice to make the decision for himself to “kill the beta”. She gonna challenged that to the fullest. It’s not like TV where it last 30 mins an episode. This gonna take time, discipline, and energy to build (or rebuild) your masculinity to the point where she subconsciously respect you as a man. The change has to be for yourself and only for yourself. I wish that dude the best because my goodness that’s a situation I’ve seen multiple times.

[@GeneratorOperatorDestroyer]

Men needs to understand that Masculinity brings order in the woman lives.....

[@williamallen1981]

Going thur this right now its hard!

[@redstick5008]

Rule #1 Sweet NO Woman....None... throw a li bait here & there. But allow them to work for your attention.

[@isaacbillingsley4966]

Very enlightening

[@halfmanhalfamazing9812]

Love this content of video! You hit the nail 👌🏿💫. Just subscribed

[@deadlypoet3514]

You know damn well everybody wanna know who is in the thumbnail and where to find, wanna drink some of that coffee 😲

[@HolyGhostBabyTV1]

Put em in they place or kick em out.

[@Goku_Kiyosaki]

i can't get over the fact i wasted 3 years of my life on one girl just off me putting her on a pedestal🤦🏾‍♂

[@Thisistheway2050]

Men are beginning to realize(again) that women are a resource. That’s all just a resource to use as supplemental support to whatever your purpose as a man is. And the icing on the cake is they can have a sexual intimate relationship with us. They can bear children(love them) and help raise them to productive adulthood. Women fulfill every need and want a man has if you deal with them in the right perspective. Do not put women on a pedestal. Once you do that she gets in her head and forgets her true purpose. She becomes like another rival male basically! Always challenging and resisting your authority. In the ancient world and 50 years ago men knew this but this generation of men has lost their way. Find the way back gentlemen..just the opinion of this 52 year old.

[@keylacmckemp1309]

There can be only one- Highlander

[@cripz1436]

Interesting story!

[@ChishaZed]

💯🙏🏾

[@crutchripperfraser]

I understand your points and agree 👍. I consider myself a old Alfa for I don't play no feminine female "bs". But from seeing some men (males) around me I can safely say that some males just don't have the Alfa (juice) mentality 😉. This kid might try to act Alfa and it might be a disastrous situation.

[@rayraygarcia8435]

This is the best video for me

[@babycrillz]

They will never, it’s superficial. I got this bad dark skin 20 year old and I mean bad, beautiful face, slim waste and natural fat butt(gym girl). She infatuated with me, she say love but it’s how she view me ⬆ here. She attracted to my good looks, sex her crazy good, treat her right etc.trust the moments one of those things start to decline or all of those things do sue to life circumstances. Her feelings will change… lol they don’t really love you, they just love the status of you and their perception of you. You might appear to be a REAL KING to some women but once that perception change, the love change.

[@Que772]

The fact you brought up her age tells me your older. I do agree that once you break her heart, her perception will change of you. You don't believe a woman will love you anyway. It's just superficial right?

[@theAlphatron]

Men, if you are in this type of situation and you are moving forward in purpose as a man, I strongly suggest that you find an older man, married or not, that is not connected to your wife, he is not a mutual friend, but he is YOUR friend. Confide in him, vent, get angry about what your wife does or doesn't do, get all of the irritations, frustrations, etc. out to him. Not necessarily for advice but just to have the opportunity to get out your own thoughts and grievances. Do this as often as he allows and you are able to or need to. DO NOT EVER do this with your wife. She simply does not care, no matter what she says. It is rare that a wife is mature enough to have an intelligent conversation with you about her own behavior. Especially without turning the convo around and making it about your behavior. Never vent to your wife. Just move forward, make moves, decisions, etc. towards your goal, doing it with stoicism. When she questions you or resists, whether passive-aggressively, or blatantly, check her and keep going. If she leaves, she has done you a favor. If she stays, you will gradually witness her behavior change for the better towards you. Lastly, don't be afraid to walk away yourself if nothing changes for the better with her. This is something she should sense in you always, that you are willing, and able, to just walk away. Be great fellas.