Why Women Choose Men Who DON'T CARE!!

[@alwaysgreatusa223]

Women crave male attention from men they feel attracted to in the first place. So, this is why just ignoring women doesn't always work. You first have to be the kind of guy she is attracted to in the first place. Of course, not focusing entirely on women tends to make you attractive to some degree to women because you become more of a challenge. But you also need looks and/or personality that she finds attractive to some extent. Indeed, it is your looks and personality that is in all honesty what she finds either attractive or unattractive in the first place. And by personality, I mean to include your body-language, the way you carry yourself, your masculinity, your demeanor, the way you interact and socialize with others, the way you talk, your conversation, your sense of humor, your emotional intelligence, etc. However, if you check enough of her boxes, you can increase the attraction level she has for you by not focusing too much on her, being somewhat aloof and indifferent, and strategically ignoring her. Of course, this too can be overdone, so you don't want to ignore her completely -- if she is trying to get your attention. You definitely want to give her your attention, but only after she works for it. The bottom-line is Make Her Work for It -- just not so hard that she gives-up and goes after another guy instead.

[@youngmeezy7635]

U ever ate the candy now and later or cry baby? Even if u win there heart now u will Cry later I promise u.

[@PastorOlengStephano]

Well said.

[@GabrielXDrums]

Shouldn’t. Be. This. Fucking. Complex. Fr

[@mangomight7938]

There is a simple analogy for what availability means psychologically. You would feel pretty darn good having a heap of diamonds lying next to your bed when you wake up every morning. Pretty soon, though, you’re gonna take them for granted. But if they were to disappear from time to time, you would start to miss them and long for them. When they finally return, you’re going to value them much more than you did before they disappeared. The moral of the story is that you should try to be that heap of diamonds.

[@breakpack]

I don't even bother to leave the house to socialize with women. Could I care any less than that?

[@jaydrollins6875]

just curious, what do you get from these videos?

[@bulldogsnewleaf-m7g]

@@jaydrollins6875 learns about female nature and modern dating. He determined he doesn't wanna play those games from these videos...Who wants a life partner you have to play games with and not care about while knowing they only care about you because you dont care about them?

[@forgetaboutit192]

haha

[@UniquePanther4life]

You know deep down you wish you had a girlfriend you wish you could go out and socialize with girls and it’d be easy Peezy but it’s not that easy, it’s not that you don’t care about them because you do it’s just that you’re scared of rejection

[@UniquePanther4life]

You do care about women you’re just scared of rejection. That’s why you don’t go out.

[@YoungIceMgk]

Why cant woman just be more simple my god 😒

[@SuperBlackandtan]

Christine always gives it straight, no chaser

[@Steve-mk6rq]

Nope. Women DO want men who treat them badly. No, if you are a man you should not be concerned with women nor what they think. That is what they truly want and nothing else.

[@alwaysgreatusa223]

First, you need to make an important distinction between the various kinds of men. The kind of man women normally chase after are 'High-Value Men' who do not chase women nor put them on a pedestal, but who instead are mainly focused-on improving their own lives, and who tend to strive for independence and achievement in all their actions. There are two other types of men in the dating market: these are 'the blue-pill guys' and the 'thirsty guys'. Blue-Pill guys fall in love too easily and put women on a pedestal, whereas thirsty guys just want to get laid as much as possible. Blue-Pill guys are not enough of a challenge for most women, and these guys tend to be needy and clingy, focusing solely on fulfilling the needs and desires of the One woman (their Queen) whom they have decided to devote themselves to and bow down to in the hopes they will win her over by their overwhelming amount of caring, love, and affection. A few women actually prefer these Blue-Pill guys because they can easily control them, and have no fear of being cheated-on or used by these men. At the end of the day, most women want to be loved and shown affection. But for most women, these Blue-Pill guys OVER DO IT ! By putting women on a Pedestal, these Blue-Pill guys make their world revolve around their chosen Queen, and besides not being a challenge for these women, they do not leave any room or chance for the women to give back and contribute to the relationship. Moreover, by focusing on her, these men tend to lose focus on their own lives as independent men who should be focused on achieving something in life, not simply pleasing this One woman. As for the 'thirsty guys', well, they obviously don't care about any one woman, but place the punanny in general on a Pedestal. Their whole focus is just on getting laid, and on their next female conquest. Of course, some women like these kinds of men -- usually women with low self-esteem, or women who just want sex without any emotional connection, or who don't mind being used. Not all women want a serious relationship, just as all guys do not want one -- this is especially true of young people in their 20s when young people are just experimenting with sex and relationships, but it is also true of a few older people too. However, even those women (and men) who do want a serious relationship sometimes just want to sleep-around or to have an affair. So, yes, most women prefer to be in a relationship with a High-Value Man who is focused on His Own Life, Ambition, Achievement, and Independence, but not all women are exactly the same, and just because a woman is chasing after you, it doesn't mean she will always be loyal to you -- or even that she will still want you after she finally catches you. The bottom-line is, You Have to Know What You Want, and You have to Be Selective and Careful whom YOU choose to let into Your Life.

[@stevieflyineasy]

id argue at 2:38 , it isnt the immaturity that turns u off, but the desperation , its like they are not able to get that easily so why would u want it. Cause theres def dudes those chicks have been with who they slept with on the first date/meet up

[@saif.restifer.khomain]

This is correct that woman avoid correct man who really love her, and later remorse lost everything. But when woman lost a correct man, then she never find again anybody who'd real care her. Woman believe bad people are perfect.

[@KJL-music]

Doing divine work for us guys, thank you

[@jae8960]

There's this girl I met a couple of months ago at an event! We've been chatting via whatsapp since she lives far away. But I noticed she takes too looong to respond my messages which means she's not much interested about talking to me. So I stopped caring about her and then I noticed 2 things: 1 - she posts a whatsapp Status (it's like instagram stories) if I don't open it, she leaves it for 24 hours. BUT when I open it, and she notices I saw it, it takes a few minutes for her to delete it. (Is it a sign she is looking for validation?) 2 - whenever she notices I'm active online, she posts something and it feels like she really wants me to interect with it. Is it just my brain fooling me or she really misses when I was giving her validation every day? How does girls mentality works?

[@kolorkonexion]

Simp🤡🤡🤡

[@Universalspunk]

Block her from your life, focus on yourself it will be the most rewarding thing you ever did. She lives far away not a chance in hell anything is possible, she just wants your attention.

[@herethere5637]

if you have to think deeply about it, chances are it is all in your head. I know a girl who lives in a different city from me, but she always makes the effort to interact with me whenever she is hear, with her family. Does that mean she wants me? I don't know, but she makes the effort to give me attention. That just means she likes me, but we can't be together. Very simple

[@NickP16]

Agreed Christine, I met somebody this past summer while I was traveling around the world, and to make a long story short, we agreed I could book a flight to come visit her and her home country in the spring of 2025. I don’t hear from her much, but I follow the advice from the great. Corey Wayne. Courting is like a proverbial tennis match, once you hit it over to the other side. You gotta wait for her to hit it back. She knows when my plane is gonna be landing in April, so I’m not worried. She saw my message and she’ll reply when she feels like it. Sticking to my grind and not blowing up her phone will pay off in the end. Totally agree, women must wonder about you and that helps build the attraction level. Keep up your great videos as well, you give great advice yourself.

[@knut124andre]

Sadly you are talking about the male Narcissist , if you are in love you put her first , if you dont care your not in to her .. what men should learn is to act like the narcissist to get the girl , do not show your true interest untill you have her , and never show her any weaknes

[@huseyinhuseyin8042]

Bedankt

[@leejee88]

great video with great advice especially the part about making to where women are more so in love with you .from my experience this is very accurate way of doing things

[@alwaysgreatusa223]

But the truth is some women want to be controlled by bad guys. I'm not saying it's right. I'm just saying it's a fact for some women. Some women actually want to be cheated on simply because they crave the drama and the competition. Again, not saying it's right, it's just a fact. The bottom-line is not all women and men are the same, or want the same things, and a lot of them are emotionally unstable and/or messed-up in their heads.

[@teacherrefat2259]

You're very passionate about giving advice.

[@bulldogsnewleaf-m7g]

were absoutely destroying mens futures. Imagine what our sons will have to put up with? W'ere literally playing the dumbest games to attract women.

[@Trazynn]

Men who don't play games won't have any sons to begin with.

[@CoralReefkid]

As far as men go, Working, having a solid hobby, and being social is really all it takes. As for women, there is a serious entitlement problem. Even unattractive girls are this way. Someone lied to them (f3minism)

[@Punny1234]

This video is on point 💯%

[@glicmathan1771]

Excellent points. However, many American women do want to be treated like princesses. There are plenty of videos of these entitled women’s confessionals. Would love to hear your analysis of this growing demographic!

[@yvesgysel9834]

I totally agree with her. "Don't put her on a pedestal." You have your own life, business, sports... So basically, women are not our priority. You guys don't know how powerful and attractive this is to any woman. Yes, indeed, including the natural beautiful féminine women. Anyway, I don't find women with plastic, long plastic fingernails, too much mak-up, and behaving masculine attractive at all. Not in the slightest. Feminity and the more natural, the better!!! For women reading this, but what about a boobjob or dressing like a porn star? Men find this attractive, for sure!!! No ladies, men pre-select. So if you dress up like a P-star, having a boobjob done, you will be perceived as one!!! So, no commitment. Women won't believe me, but it's 100% true. Go ask any P-star if she has any commitment to a masculine man?

[@Anamnesia]

"It screams immaturity"... Really? Because young women are SO mature? I'd say it's a mixture of maturities, it's just that the young men don't "offer" anything to what the young women "want" - which is status, resources, or what a Man has to "offer" a Woman. But yet an older man may be seen as "more mature", not because of his age, but because of his lifestyle; Cars, Clothes, House(s), Restaurants, Dining, Luxury, Events, Socialising... In the end, the older man will still "Just want sex" from a younger woman - the only difference is what provisions she can obtain from the older man... That's what makes him "mature".

[@Normy0000]

Correction of behaviour doesnt work like that, it goes both ways.

[@rallykalle8852]

4:08 Great, i can decide what clothes she shall wear after my preferences

[@Luis2077-xj2fq]

Why is it always business, how about a man who has a stable job, not everyone has the same "business rat race" goals but most girls only think about men like that

[@roberttruman8444]

Now what if a woman uses push and pull manipulation to become addictive to their partner, play them for a time and then slow fade out of there, blaming the guy for making her the centre of his world?

[@caylarabdk8389]

women want the men who will make them single moms

[@forgetaboutit192]

WHY ARE MOST WOMEN UNWILLING TO ADMIT OR ARTICULATE THIS??

[@youngmeezy7635]

I deflect these ki blast 😅 go away