Why Women Come Back After Pulling Away To Test You: What To Do When She Comes Back

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[@oscargonza2748]

They come back because they thought the grass was greener on the other side but they were sadly mistaken

[@Flokix4]

💯💯

[@Oceanviewcoffeeshop]

When she leaves never talk to her again, life is too short.

[@thebravespirit439]

agree

[@allangamet604]

Agree

[@sirg-had8821]

Indeed

[@christopherkidd3401]

Absolutely

[@Flokix4]

Those who discard/reject you in the first place, deserve the streets. Never forget what they did to you, move on.

[@trieudinh9169]

Doesn’t matter if she hot or average. They all play those games

[@cyberpunkgrappling6447]

Absolutly

[@briandiggs3508]

And just not the young ones

[@RuthAndMax]

The measure of our success is how we cope with disappointment.

[@humanengineer812]

Only thing I’ve ever disagreed with you on TJJ, they don’t mature out of it, they get worse I’m 40

[@giothakidd]

This is extremely accurate.

[@dennisraney9043]

But an older woman doing that is very stupid!!

[@gam85191]

Agreed, I'm 39 and chicks my age still be doing this

[@iamnotaprophet8261]

True, it’s in their nature. That said, they do it for less periods of time and less frequent because their clock is ticking and they now compete against a bunch of young little hotties.

[@Innatelydone]

They come back when they remember they need daddy!😏😉🤣

[@innavision1920]

Let’s be real, they don’t come back these days

[@Youngsparky95]

I was just about to comment this. I’ve never had a girl come back. I must be ugly and unworthy

[@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395]

I’ve had a girl I broke up with come back after 5 years just to be rejected again.

[@riodbz]

I respectfully disagree with the both of y’all. I’ve had a lot of women come back. It all comes down to who you are as a man and human being.

[@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395]

@@riodbzthey aren’t the chosen ones.

[@innavision1920]

@@riodbz nah bro just because you’re a great human with integrity and purpose doesn’t mean she will return to you

[@scholar1014]

Don't get me wrong. Looks fade away over time, and eventually, people will break up if they don't actually like the other person for who they are.

[@dancostello6465]

She for the streets. She been running around. Then she shows up again like a raccoon. She getting old. Not care. 😴

[@GMOSALMON69]

😂💯

[@NanaTheSoul]

Speaking facts bro😂‼️ this why we gotta focus On GOD and our grind they will come around stay stoic🔥

[@larvancioramos9748]

Simply: NOT be THERE GONE from everything: debt, stupidity, people, places, harmful vices. You will be GONE by then

[@christopherberg2689]

The world is doomed.

[@Heavyeyes22]

It's ok most of the world will soon be narcisists. Atleast they will be surrounded by unlovable people so they won't be able to get supply

[@dillo5881]

She wanted to run off, cause a scene, mess with another dude (possibly multiple) and now she’s calling restricted. Oh yea I’m gonna make her watch this come up. Youre gonna feel this one

[@danielleinad88]

Think of you and her as two people attached to a rope. When things are good the rope has slack. When she pulls away the rope has tension. If you go after while she creates tension, you diffuse the tension. The key is to be comfortable with the tension, bask in it, be glad she created the tension because the game has started. When she comes back remain cool, not jaded, dont mention it, but make sure she earns her spot back.

[@ffijamletsjam]

It’s really refreshing to listen as a woman and learn from a masculine perspective. Thank you

[@johngolden8549]

Older guy here. In my younger years I was dumped a few times & each time the girl would ask me to take her back. I would then tell them, “NO WAY”, view them as repulsive sexually contaminated bodies, and then say nice guys don’t play games with supposedly good trustworthy girls who they know are actually bad girls in disguise.

[@candicehughes4233]

Not all women are the same, a godly and Christian woman is just hard to find these days

[@RADHIKAAAAA-n2q]

" I'm A Believer,I Wudn't Leave Her,If I Tried " The Monkeys

[@johnnycampbell7691]

No hymen no diamond popped cherry don't marry.

[@oscargonza2748]

Yes, there are good Christain girls who love the Lord and are truly faithful to their partners because they obey the command to respect and seek the highest good of the one the good Lord has joined them together with,,, wives submit to your husbands as on to the Lord, for the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ is the head of the Church, Epheasians 5:22-33

[@hsamzsd]

depends where in the world you are. For example, christian girls in my home country Nigeria are most likely to be professional 304's. They'll be hoeing all night and then show up Sunday morning with their family as if they are pious. Seriously not exaggerating at all that i've met more upstanding women that don't show up to weekly mass

[@FrancoLiftz]

WE BEEN DIPPINNNN WE BEEN DODGING…. But Guess What… WERE BACK! 😂😂 💯

[@4669Mikehines]

You know the gig is up when they avoid attractive men, and just start settling for Anybody of a non caliber,to the point their lying themselves for a boost of ego. 😆

[@josephhawkins5750]

So much knowledge, I love being reminded of this shit.

[@amyg995]

Anything worth having wont come easy, and if its easy its not worth having to begin with 💯🙌🏻👍🏻

[@ClydeH777]

Anything worth having doesnt make your life more miserable. it makes it more worth living. Coming home to recharge in order to get back out in the world but instead having your battery drained even further: not worth it.

[@vegeta1818]

You speak nothing but facts 💯

[@mauricebelcher9374]

No bro it’s really women in their 30’s playing these games as well. Ghosting you and trying to get you to chase them. I left my ex girlfriend of 7 years because she was playing those games. She was passive aggressive and use the push and pull tactic on me. She would be evil towards me and I would pull back then she would suck me right back in by being nice and sweet just to hurt me again by treating me like shit. It was driving me crazy. Now I don’t deal with her anymore. A few months she texted me trying to suck me back in again and I just ignored her. I don’t have time for the manipulation games anymore.

[@n.m.3760]

She sounds like a narcissist. Wow, 7 years of that? Yikes.

[@n.m.3760]

Yep. Extra pathetic when women in their 30s play these games.

[@Flokix4]

Same here, 4 years of hot and cold, lies and no closure. Blocked📵

[@jasonc1996]

Congrats, you passed the test

[@czechnhl]

DON'T BE EVIL LIKE THEM, BE GOOD PERSON, CHOSEN ONE ;)

[@SebastienLatortue]

Yeah I myself as chosen one it gets nothing but harder for me with women at 22 years old

[@WalkingMeatSuit]

They’re not attracted to good men we’re deemed boring and the best we’d get is the settlement treatment that’s not going to happen with me because I choose to remain single and on my path to Semen Retention

[@SebastienLatortue]

I took my retirement on dating market is been 3 years after ​being with my narcissist ex of 3 years of relationship @@WalkingMeatSuit

[@ClydeH777]

@@SebastienLatortue Just smile and wave, focus on the prospects the lord has given you.

[@SebastienLatortue]

​@@ClydeH777alrightt then let's get it :)

[@aizakku8399]

Damn I got ghosted for being romantic and she's posting about cutting her hair short because "summer coming up."

[@Tokolos]

Yup, it's extremely limited in dimension and depth. One step down from talking to my cats )

[@DilipKumar-ou6pg]

Cutting her hair like a man😂😂that's a turn off.she will become lesbian .such is the fate of this type of woman at the end.

[@aizakku8399]

@@Tokolos she dedass tried licking her lips when I saw them chapped as hell. Nah nah nah, I see what you did there. Truth is, these girls would have an aneurysm when confronted with 80s/90s style romance or true romance because that requires maturity from both parties.

[@aizakku8399]

@@Tokolos yup true romance is too much for these ppl, it requires maturity. Which is something none of these people have.

[@Heavyeyes22]

​@aizakku8399 they are addicted to feelin good all the time

[@ClairvoyantEntertainment]

Thank you for the insight chosen brother 🙏👏

[@dropas4136]

Its cutthroath like hell out there..even in sweden😢

[@user-ju6zx3rm8d]

it's even worse in the nordics tbh. it's be Chad (top 3% of men in looks) or gtfo

[@survivingthestreetss.t.s7391]

I love this guy! He tells it how it really is!

[@ArchiveChamber]

My ex wife who screwed my best friend after she left and had two kids with him…yeah she started texting me again. 6 years later. Monkey branching bulls$&@. I can assure I will not be taking care of her or those kids. This stuff is so predictable.

[@bvhia]

Thats so fucked up my guy. May God have mercy on you

[@ArchiveChamber]

@@bvhia I appreciate that brother. No more women for me for along time. I got stuff to do. Starting my own channel. Bout to launch a video on prayer the end of this week, my last girl couldn't stand that I prayed, so this one is for her. I'd love to have you or anybody aboard for some likes and subscribes.

[@pauljohnson6019]

@@bvhia Please don't be a hypocrite talking about God, with a potty mouth- reported.

[@Heavyeyes22]

@@ArchiveChamberplz tell me you ignored her, not like it's going to do anything but answering her after that is just terrible

[@ArchiveChamber]

@@Heavyeyes22 she sent me a long email apologizing for everything. I sent her an email back accepting it and clearing the air. But that’s all man. That’s the only way I ever would talk to her is if she apologized. However, I’ll never get back with her again. Nor raise my ex best friends children. Not happenin fam.

[@bvhia]

"Let the children play 😂😂😂"

[@Lem-onees]

Hell nah

[@BDogs10]

Oh yeah, 😂that was a good line

[@drewbruns2895]

Love ur content man, ur spot on with everything but one thing I would challenge you on is okay so remain stoic emotionless and don’t care and play along with their game, but how can a man be content with that not knowing if he was a backup choice or second choice because they already had something going with another person, then you’re just sloppy seconds, I have a rule, and that rule is, the girl I meet, has to be untouched from the first day I ever met her, and if she’s not, she ain’t it, because if ur just a backup or sloppy seconds what makes you think if it starts going south or having issues with her that she won’t have another dude on the backup and do the same thing to you. These women are ruthless man. I think better choice would be to be hard on them while maintaining that state of not caring, but I’ve played that game so many times of not caring and I’ve had married women and girls with whole ass boyfriends they were hiding the whole time. It’s a fucked game, and it’s hard to play it right if your actually a good dude who has some morals and doesn’t believe in hurting people. It’s sad it’s like this.

[@drewbruns2895]

I think best move honestly is find girls mature enough that done play games. Younger girls too immature, yeah maybe hotter, but looks ain’t everything.

[@pauljohnson6019]

You swore- don't embarrass yourself here brother.

[@briandiggs3508]

Even the older ones still playing this game. I came across a few of them

[@Largeandincharge22]

I’m a 6’7 muscular handsome guy with a good job and life in order and my girlfriend broke up with me last week. I said I hope she’s okay and went straight into no contact. She said I gave her anxiety by not replying to her messages lol. Remove them from all social media, that will make things a lot easier. I’m at a point of not caring if she comes back or not. Even if she did I literally do not care lol. She’s got some emotional shit she needs to deal within in herself. Be a man of integrity. Listen up fellas ….Never let a woman disrespect you. As soon as they do like that. Walk away like I have.

[@oscargonza2748]

I agree, but even if she comes back don't bother taking her back, she will test you even more, taking her back it's putting up with her toxic behaviour, bruh

[@Largeandincharge22]

@@oscargonza2748 thanks man. And absolute not. I noticed she blocked me on instagram after I blocked her so can’t even see her profile now. She’s obviously starting to crack and we are only on day 5. 😂

[@SteveDobbs-hj7fc]

@@oscargonza2748 You don't take her back because she left you for another man.

[@drmahidhar1876]

Just mute them instead - don’t delete or block If she comes back at the back of the rotation or nothing

[@scholar1014]

Let's be real. For men and women, they both care about looks a lot more. If you're a good-looking person, you're going to be wanted.

[@user-ju6zx3rm8d]

legit. it's all about looks

[@johnnycampbell7691]

Then explain why im an incel and I see soyjacks and overweight dudes with beautiful women, I get compliments on my looks often and rejected by those same women for ugly chad.

[@GL0DE3N]

If u have a disability dont even bother looking for a women for me im not even gonna bother cause I have a disability

[@scholar1014]

Yeah, but you shouldn't have to suffer not getting a woman just because you have a disability. Damn life is just not fair. Imagine going your whole life never being able to know how it feels to touch or kiss a woman. Most people don't know how it feels

[@Heavyeyes22]

Im sure most people know how it feels. Now for people like me with avpd. Yes were doomed​

[@realist7239]

u make the most sense

[@kludgedude]

It’s almost like..”love is a battlefield”

[@scholar1014]

This is good advice, but it doesn't always work. There are girls I've talked to in the past who have ignored me on text. I took this advice. I did nothing. She never spoke to me again. That's because she had no interest in me, but I didn't know that because me and her we were talking for a while. This advice only works if the girl is interested in you.

[@Melbester9]

And couldn't she at least be friends with you. She sounds like a dick no offense. Even if she don't like you anymore

[@vitoloiacono9350]

Keep practicing. You'll get there. It takes time to not give a f**k. You can't fake it...stay focused and keep investing in you. People can feel other people's energy...this energy is not something you can fake. They will feel it. Just keep practicing and one day it will all come together. This feeling your gonna feel is amazing but it takes time and practice to get there.

[@vitoloiacono9350]

And yes the attraction has to be mutual.

[@SHADOWTALKS92]

Hit me baby one more time 🎶😂

[@ΚωνσταντινοςΜπονης-ο5ν]

Hate and envy is real people wake up

[@Seventh_Sorrow]

Here we go 😂 this is the video I needed, since I got ghosted recently thx bro 👊

[@corneliopropio9721]

Hang in there. This too, shall pass.

[@King.Mathias.Chosen1]

Good to see u smile brother! Truth on truth 🙏🏽💪🏽

[@hardstyle4life888]

They come back when she failed with the other dude supply 😉

[@n.m.3760]

Actually, women well into their 30s play these games. It's extra pathetic at that point.

[@drmahidhar1876]

It’s not early 20s agreed

[@maryfowler7507]

Please please become president. You preach hundred percent truth. Love ❤️ you and your channel. Your hilarious 🤣 too making fun of these people.

[@xxxsully420]

I'm seeing 37-year-old females with these kind of traits

[@n.m.3760]

Yep. It's extra pathetic when women in their 30s play these childish games.

[@CHARISMA808]

60

[@allangamet604]

Exactly boys don’t do anything for a women who thinks she can just control early age mentality thanks brother for real you helped me confirm my field was right 💯💯💯🔜🙌👑👑 you a king fr brother

[@roro2511]

This is 100% accurate

[@gam85191]

Bro, one thing I can tell you, they never stop doing that. I've dated women well into their 40s that still do this shit

[@charbelakl8133]

The pink panthers 😂

[@Max-jp5dm]

She blocked for no reason over a month now. She blocked me March 21 2024, and still no answers, no closer. Today, April 26 2024, still nothing. I don’t think she’s coming back

[@CHARISMA808]

My motto is, get head from a new girl forget about the old girl

[@Flokix4]

She will not commit, the no closure is the game just to f#ck with you, and the rest of her supply.

[@drmahidhar1876]

Why did she block - that’s a very emotional response.

[@drmahidhar1876]

Probably another guy

[@C4pnAhab]

Thx for the vid man just what i needed

[@tooropcasimir367]

You sir, have spoken!

[@DanielAcostadaca661]

IT ALL HAD TO HAPPEN❤ I'VE IMPROVED SO MUCH😊 ALL GLORY TO GOD THE FATHER 🙏

[@stevenwistort9903]

😂 Your funny chosen one.

[@kludgedude]

You get what you don’t want

[@jerryc5743]

9:38 - until I learned this lesson, I used to have a male problem-solving mentality, I.e. why do have to play these games? Let’s just cut to the chase be together and enjoy. In retrospect, bad idea. Like he said, they do not want anything so easy to obtain.

[@shanehess3801]

Pretty much otherwise it'll keep depressed and gotta think about god first

[@sirg-had8821]

I must have done something right. She's been gone for over a year with not a peep out of her.

[@Stigma7845]

Every girl that left from my life they never came back

[@czechnhl]

PEOPLE DON'T KNOW GOOD AND EVIL.. SOCIETY WILL GET WORSE

[@vell80]

You speak real sh__ no matter the race 🔥🔥🔥

[@brudesim5673]

If her games get too silly just block her a$$. I had to do it today :/

[@CHARISMA808]

My motto is block her and get some new pvssy

[@aaronwhitehall8729]

Super accurate man!

[@SemenRetention4God]

🐐🗣️

[@MetapaloozaShow]

I made a Video reaction on big brother Terry’s rant on todays video! Good things 👍

[@vitoloiacono9350]

Whatever your chasing will run 10x faster away from you. One of the laws of the universe. It's not about the destination it's about the journey! Why are you in a hurry? Where are you going? What's the rush? Anybody that chases anything is a damn fool who wants what they want! Spoiled entitled and pathetic and if your doing this ....stop!That's what you look like to the one your chasing. Terri Joe is speaking truth! It's becouse you don't know your worth and you haven't gone through the fire! Becouse if you knew your worth and have gone through the fire, you would be looking down at her with an eyebrow raised and would just walk away from this nonsense and craziness. And when you elevate to that level... that's the switch that turns her on! You in your secure place that knows your worth! Now your both at an equal balanced place where you can build a real connection, share world views and have mutuality. This is the energy they trust and want becouse it's consistent. Anything unbalanced is unbalanced and erratic. This energy doesn't sit well with the her. When she feels this energy she will just run games on your spoiled entitled, I want what I want ass! So level up and get balanced if you want her. Practice detachment and get unemotional you emotional wreck! I can say this becouse I've been there Terri Joe... and as usual I very much enjoyed this am's sermon. You are truly doing God's work and you are a compass to myself and so many out there.

[@BostonMike68]

I have been seeing this girl and things were really good she was telling me she loves me. then she started with the bullshit and she is older so I thought she wouldn't act like that. She was asking me to move in . She is still hot so maybe that's her game. I didn't let it effect me but I messed up and asked her what is up. I knew it was the wrong thing to do but I was just having a bad day. But that night a younger hotter girl I have known texted me she wants to meet up with me. So I felt instantly better but I still have feelings for the other one but I don't want to be playing games and I already fucked up so I don't know if I can turn it around after showing that it bothers me

[@sweatytryhard9891]

out of all of them that have, only one has ever came back, which whom left again and never came back.

[@onetailgunner]

Prince - Nicki .

[@MattCool007]

I'm tired.

[@decadeyt5891]

no one worth a shit wants to be around someone who is tired. figure it out

[@MattCool007]

@@decadeyt5891 😴

[@pauljohnson6019]

@@decadeyt5891 Don't swear please.

[@decadeyt5891]

@@pauljohnson6019grown man telling someone not to use words. unreal

[@pauljohnson6019]

@@decadeyt5891 Well not exactly, but you can't claim to be a Christian and swear- make your mind up.

[@morresortiz]

6:13 👀 😂 that was SUS 😂😂😂😂

[@ideasandtrucking]

Good timing brotha!

[@roreo1612]

I wish I could date a guy like you

[@MusicLvr81281]

Lol. Got a number from my gym crush who has a bf. I used to text her hello etc.. she told me to please stop texting so i did. A week later she was at gym.. i ignored initially and she starred hard at me the whole time. I ended up approaching and apologized for basically coming onto her despite her being in a rela. I no longer care about the outcome

[@drmahidhar1876]

She gave you her number - no need to apologize

[@MusicLvr81281]

@@drmahidhar1876 i suck with women. I was married for 8 years to a trad. Because of that i have no luck with this new modern women

[@DanielRicany]

Literally two girls came back to me today. And I don’t give a fuck what happens with either of them

[@APsGTG]

God bless you brother

[@pauljohnson6019]

@@APsGTG Don't demean yourself, by saying God bless you, he's no Christian- he swore!

[@pauljohnson6019]

Wow, call yourself a man of God- I should report that for swearing.

[@DanielRicany]

@@pauljohnson6019 do it

[@APsGTG]

@@pauljohnson6019 you’re meant to bless all people, Christian or not. Bible says it brother

[@K1ZZy__]

Facts 💯

[@allangamet604]

Thank you

[@Bigkahunatype100]

Nah seems like the older women act like little kids and the younger ones are mature

[@johnnycampbell7691]

Non hymen no diamond popped cherry don't marry.

[@Lem-onees]

I’m so great at clapping cheeks that’s why

[@yohnnitozvhiesla8426]

U sound hurt bro lol

[@Un_known_User1]

Putting women who are 18 to 25 on a pedestal is definitely new... it's you guys giving them all this "power".... although it's not power it's a low self-esteem... like as soon as women start hitting a certain age if they have this belief they are no longer "of value".... This whole thing all these new idea being drilled because you guys keep watching and intraining the "war"... All involved are of low value and low esteem.

[@user-ju6zx3rm8d]

cope. it's about fertility.

[@RADHIKAAAAA-n2q]

Dog Gone,Back To Crack

[@ahmadkaien]

This is horrible advice. Women don't really come back these days if youre just the typical guy on your grind. Like you have to have been in a serious relationship, have some money, have a decent build, or a unique personality (or a combination of these things,) and even then--generally speaking, dont expect them to come back. You'd think a guy who wants to educate young men would avoid the same pitfalls that "get your ex back channels" keep falling into. It's borderline detrimental to tell young guys this sort of thing because it was probably true before social media but it's certainly a crap shoot now and should NOT be an expectation we keep pushing for men and boys. its already hard enough if you get dumped, your ex has the next guy waiting, and you yourself just cry and wallow waiting for her to come back "because they always come back" Do better, Terry.

[@ahmadkaien]

technically, i guess it would help keep your channel growing if you fed them this nonsense. Carry on 👍

[@rorycalhoun1126]

FJB 💩

[@SteveJohnson-uu9ew]

No women problem here.lol

[@forwhatitsworthwithHolli]

I was under testing not the other way around? Why the Generalizing women I find that Generalizing is a huge mistake because your always going to find that one opposite and it's usually rooted in a person's broken 💔. Don't go gay

[@aarongarcia5667]

It’s not generalizing . When most of you act this way

[@RADHIKAAAAA-n2q]

​@lordofdarkness8330Lust Is Cheap Cheap Birdy

[@APsGTG]

lol trying to shame him “don’t go gay” just unsub from him talking like that. feminist Jezebel spirit woman.

[@decadeyt5891]

Hello. I am happy to help the men who see this comment. “I was under testing, not the other way around?” Woman can’t believe she has lower market value. “Why the generalizing” very sneaky negative connotation, but the answer is because it is generally true, 99% of the time. “Always going to find that one” Literally insane, the only constant is change. “Rooted in a persons broken” If this woman can’t control you, then you must be broken is the logic here. “Don’t go gay” why make a sound and reasonable point to your argument when you can just throw one of these in. also gay can mean happy, frudiean slip don’t go happy🤣😮‍💨

[@joeb5578]

Thanks dude.