They Ghosted you and now they're back.Why? Do this now!

[@JessicaOS]

Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

[@refusetolose7528]

Never ever get back with someone who ghosted you They did it once they will do it twice. If someone wanted to be with you they will never ghost you in the first place.

[@Mike-yg2ru]

Yeah ex did this to me now 6 times. The last time she did it while leading me on when diagnosed with a serious health issue.

[@chrismoemohammed4584]

Not alwaaaays. Maybe it was YOU who messed up the energy at first. Now that you fixed your mistake and she’s back she can see you’ve changed. And she won’t want to ghost again. The first ghost isint the end all be all

[@montanamontana2776]

@@chrismoemohammed4584 respect IS everything...If she disrespecting U by ghosting you she has No value (in my eyes)

[@jasonblizzy3667]

She ghosted me I forgave her and now she's doing the same thing

[@courtlandwilliams2275]

Makes sense to me

[@Frank_D7]

This is what i do when been ghosted: Never try to contact the ghoster again, delete her number and our convos. If in a future they try to contact again i do not answer, dont care about any excuses (been busy, a lot of work, didnt know what i wanted, etc...) Working pretty well so far. There is nothing more rude than talking to someone regulary and out of the blue that person dissapears. Respect yourself and move on.

[@zacharymitchell3986]

They ghosted, they didn’t want you, so you focused on yourself and life got better whereas for them their life isn’t going so well now the person wants you back I’d say it’s a no because I’m moving forward and not backwards

[@Kingbob217]

You said it all my G nothing more to add 👌

[@zacharymitchell3986]

@@Kingbob217 💯😎 appreciate it

[@lawansonolalekan3964]

My ghost is very disrespectful she and consistent like Nigeria Nepa, whenever getting myself together and moving forward she would pop up bam, after a short while she is gone again. We talked about it on countless occasions still same repeat.

[@zacharymitchell3986]

@@lawansonolalekan3964 gotta leave her alone bro and stop going backwards while moving forward, you’re a king and the prize, know your worth and stop letting her disrespect you

[@andcarbiochemistry]

For me once a person ghost me, you can never come back. No way.

[@missinlink6733]

@@andcarbiochemistry Once they pick a side they gotta stay there, and if they cross that line they gotta lay there! I don’t give second chances! Once they paint you a picture, don’t let em paint you another picture. Trust a thief to steal from you, trust a liar to lie to you, trust a snake to snake you and trust a rat to snitch on you! When folks show you who they are believe em. Don’t blindly over look a red flag. If they show you a flaw believe that flaw exist!

[@jerrodtham]

Last time I was ghosted by someone i knew 20 years ago. I felt hurt and didn't know why I was ghosted. I decided to respect her decision and I moved on. But suddenly she made an eye contact and gave me a smile seemed like she interested on me. But I just can't, I really can't. I don't know why but maybe the pain that I overcame when I was ghosted. It was hurt not to talk to her again even she showed interest. I just lost respect on her. I believe God has a plan for me.

[@thehealthbodyfitness]

Never Take Them Back No Matter What They Don’t Like it When you Move On Just Move On it’s Way Better

[@raja7197]

Dont take them back you were never a priority to them they just want something from you and will always put you down block them just remember they left you when you need them stop being nice to them they dont deserve you.

[@carolinegitonyi6962]

The best thing to do with those who ghosted you, block them such that they’ll have no channel of coming back.

[@fuzzypanda1684]

In my experience, they'll never know nor care that you blocked them because they'll never think about you or text you ever again.

[@dennisboateng6513]

When she ghosts you, become just that. A ghost

[@montanamontana2776]

Respect is everything...if they don't respect you, they should not have any value for you ...

[@tacy-annbrown2652]

I was ghosted by multiple persons and it was my blessing in disguise. When they came back I rejected them. They need to keep the same energy.

[@Miss.TJ516]

💯💯💯

[@anthonykumah6018]

Hi Tacy

[@romeodavis9957]

Ghosting someone is very disrespectful if some one did something wrong or said wrong be a man or woman pull em to da side work out the problem once you 👻 someone or people you ve lost all their respect

[@hightopfad]

THANK YOU!! Ghosting is the most rude thing ever.. this so so needed ❤️

[@nana1official]

Matured people talk so don't waste time on anyone who ain't ready to communicate but choose to ghost instead. Stay focused on you and be better ☺️💯👌

[@RafaelSilva-od4bb]

Spot on!

[@RedDragonKnighter]

@@RafaelSilva-od4bbwhat about “friendship pickup where they last left off”? Sometimes, we are in bad situations where we can’t respond to the other person.

[@RafaelSilva-od4bb]

@@RedDragonKnighter Never leave someone guessing why you've disappeared if you to a certain degree value such a bond. Picking up where you last left off healthily happens after saying 'see you next time, take care'. Ending a conversation politely and adequately will always make you feel like you last talked to each other yesterday, doesn't matter how long last time has been - a week, six months, six years, a decade. Ghosting is never nice, shows a little indifference towards the relationship, some degree of immaturity, not to mention people might suspect you hold ASPD and/or NPD traits.

[@RedDragonKnighter]

​@@RafaelSilva-od4bb There may be exceptions. Let's say you and I talk on facebook messenger for a bit. After both saying byes, and 3 years pass, I forgot about you and I switched to a new facebook account. You try to contact me but I never contact back because I didn't really expect you to contact me. That would be technically ghosting, but I do not think I should be at fault for that. There may be other times where I look at your message but will respond later. Later comes, but I forgot about your message. or there may be other times where you ask me some question but I just don't want to talk at that time or just don't want to answer that question. Let's say you try to contact me on Jan 2nd 2024, but since December 29th 2023 I was hospital or in a coma and it is now February 2026. If I was in a coma, I wouldn't be able to respond to you. I have had this happen like 2 times before and I thought the same as you but that was a bad decision. I assumed that person ghosted me but that person never ghosted me. That person says It's never that he stopped caring about me. For me, I try to not judge others for not responding to me and not take anything personally. It is very presumptuous that you are judging others just because they don't respond to you. You actually don't know every single situation.

[@RafaelSilva-od4bb]

@@RedDragonKnighter So, please don't judge me, I'm not in the mood to continue having this particular argument with you. Wish you good luck!

[@jivonstephen6677]

If dey ghost you they're already dead go haunt someone else.

[@chanonwisanmongkol2254]

If she ghosted you in the first place she's not interested in you. Then she come back to contact you. All she want is benefit.

[@ritapeters1330]

No I dissagree it is not as simple as you say

[@chanonwisanmongkol2254]

@@ritapeters1330 How is it not simple?

[@finaltouchpro648]

Currently being ghosted by someone I love deeply. Definitely applying these tips.

[@rodneysessoms8804]

My advice stay off the grid and live your best life. Her loss

[@christoffervik9997]

Sray strong, you dont need the manipulation

[@2DarkHorizon]

I ghosted someone once. I do feel bad about it Also been ghosted many times. People that ghost may have their reasons maybe due to poor communication abilities. I'll give my thought process. I knew someone for a few months over the mobile phone texting. However without knowing I realized I could be in something more than a friendship. For some reason giving the explanation of just wanting to be friends seem so overwhelming for me. The possibility they wanted something more I didn't know how to respond to it. Also the possibility if I liked them and found out I'm not attracted to them. How would I respond to that? Also the possibility if they like you but you want to remain friends should you stay friends? There are scenarios to be played out. Also this person never messaged me first so afterwards a short ghosting period a few times I did think about genuinely texting them again however I could never come up with a good idea about music to talk about. We shared interest in music. Maybe if she responded me to first at least once or sometimes it could of saved the friendship or whatever it was. Because when you haven't spoken to someone for awhile they ain't always on your mind. Sometimes you could be not even thinking about them not even once for a whole month or year. Sometimes you think about contacting them again but you are hesitant and have doubts and that thought only holds for a single moment then you go back to not remembering again. If they just initiated contact it could remind you of them. Also never talking about the awkward topic of where everything is going was another problem. I recommend to not fall into ghosting or getting ghosting. Both people should initiation the conversation to a degree. Also be upfront about the awkward topic early of were the whole experience is going. Maybe even be open about discussing about what you like and dislike about eachother. The thing is if you avoid talking about these awkward topics from the beginning it becomes a habit to avoid. It becomes more and more difficult to talk about it over time. I think that's why there is ghosting happening in some cases.

[@hushpuppies872]

What could be a "genuine " reason for ghosting? The only reason is that they are not interested.

[@Miss.TJ516]

A good reason would be if someone is abusive and mean.

[@hsamzsd]

something really serious and abrupt happened, like a death in the family or getting fired something like that. even then, a healthy person would inform you and say they're not in a good space at the moment

[@eleo_keen]

Self-Sabotage could also be a reason 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@weluvmusick]

I was ghosted given the silent treatment for 8 months by someone in the friend zone I talked to her when she finally contacted but I ghosted her too the gut tell me this I’m getting or going nowhere with this person

[@eugenedavis6792]

Life goes on without them, block their number or change your phone number...life goes on without them! "Stay Strong!"

[@diojicasmir2747]

Damn!! I just can't get over my gal of 2yrs ghosting me mehn!! Absolute wickedness

[@devilisbackk]

Pure narcissism 😢

[@bbc20231]

It's pure craziness. Sorry, they are no good. Just move on and be better.

[@kwasiadubofour6367]

Jessica,you have earned your place in the life coaching industry especially where romantic relationships are concerned. I salute your insights.

[@munaishemalcom6677]

somebody ghosted and came back she was hurt n confused and remorseful. only thing is when she did ghost it set me on a path of extreme success and self improvement ,ofcourse im emotionally detarched and feel sorry for her ,i really am sad that she might think im available when i am over it and understand that there are literallty a chunk load of better people who put in the work

[@john_connor.]

I wouldn't waste my time i would just block her and move on to next girls ...

[@Mike-yg2ru]

This happened to me 6 times now. My ex keeps doing this to me. Its my fault of course. I reach out. The last time though she lead me on about us being together again. Wanted to be there for me because I'm sick with something serious. Then ghosted me right before i was to visit her. My health condition has turned into full blown cancer now and since telling her she hasnt even said a word. She mentioned getting married, being there for me etc and now she's gone.

[@firstclassotinez5184]

Once again for this video has come at a good time since one of my friends ghosted me for months and now wants me back i guess its not worth it. But to be honest it felt bad and miserable after all the investments of time, energy and resources... this person thinks i am crazy but this time she will have a taste of her own medicine...

[@rajughosh987]

Never take back

[@ronaldotim8913]

Well researched topic, the truth is many men have fallen victims ghosting and they have remained innocent like a ball kicked towards a wall repeatedly. Oh God forbid

[@zizaoyogoa1768]

Very interesting.. I have a girlfriend that does that everytime. And the reason is because she has another guy. Anytime the guy is not available, she comes back and when he is around, she disappears.. Whenever she goes back to her boyfriend, I use the SILENCE SYNDROME and this makes her feel bad and immediately wants to come back anytime he is not around.. But i keep wondering why she does this. This video has given the right questions to ask her, when she comes back, and I know she will definitely come again when her boyfriend is out of sight... Keep the good work up. Thumbs up

[@enforcer11000]

Good luck getting back with me after ghosting me... It has happened to me as a matter of fact & I totally ignored that person no response or anything. Make a fool of me once shame on you. Twice shame on me..... Nope I'm good.

[@grahamturner1290]

I took your advice a few months ago and felt much better for it. Thanks Jessica! 😊❤️

[@JessicaOS]

Fantastic!

[@grahamturner1290]

@@JessicaOS absolutely! 👍

[@SincerelyDanielle974]

“Don’t cry over spilled milk.” It reminds us that no relationship is worth crying over once it’s in the past; better to clean it up and look ahead to avoid future messes!

[@Someoneoutthere67]

Listen to your gut! Thanks

[@JessicaOS]

Always!

[@DcdamonclarkTvLegend]

I Hope My Best Friend Eric To Comeback Soon One Day But I Don’t Like He Comeback Next 20 Years After Been Ghost Me Hope Not

[@Uwa64]

Jessy once beaten twice shy once any ghosted me that person remain a ghost forever to me, those who ghost one need not to be trusted again no need bothering oneself for such people

[@silepumulo5714]

This happen to me... I was almost dying chasing someone who use to ghost me 😭😋

[@ItzFahd]

I'm Always for Revenge. Any Day Any Time

[@sergio_sa283]

Let go of anyone who makes you their option

[@rodneysessoms8804]

I've learned in the past things didn't work(other options)out as planned, now they're coming back with egg on their faces. Thanks Jessica 😊

[@jayceegenocide4402]

Right don't ever take them back.

[@rodneysessoms8804]

@@jayceegenocide4402 I agree I told both of them I don't hear from you for months and I'm supposed to sit around and wait on you? Guess again & I'm happy in my current space. I'm better than good here 😆

[@mediationwithgoddi7853]

I wish this video came earlier enough 😭😭

[@BeBlessedBri]

I ghosted someone and we talked for like 4 to 6 months because they knew I liked them and decided to be my friend but I still caught feelings and they were in a relationship and a kid a whole family and I didn’t want to open up a can of worms or be string along I’m a full meal and a vacation not a 2for 3 at McDonald’s but now I have to see this person everyday I feel bad for ghosting but not for my decision at the time I was 18 and she was 28 now I’m 22 and she is 32 now the past is resurfacing and I was young at the time so I didn’t know any better and she was really up set she tried contacting me but I blew her off because I still didn’t know what to say I should of just said sorry now every time we walk past each other it’s nothing and she told some people she told me personal things and I ghosted that why she don’t mess with me but I really ghost her because she said something about a man and I just accepted reality and she still with him to this day I was right but it could of been something said before I left but that was the first person I went for so I felt a lil hurt and we never kissed or was sexual it was just straight vibes so to all the people that has been ghosted and feel some type of way I know you didn’t deserve it but some things is bigger than what it seems and apologize to all the people that has been ghosted and pray for you guys healing

[@BassPriest]

I really want to appreciate you for the good work you've been doing, this particular video and some others have really been helpful, you're a true counselor ❣️💯🙏🏻...

[@catherinenzungnjume7822]

He ghosted me immediately he promised to meet my parents, how he is back,am observing in a distance

[@barrykarpowich731]

I THINK I TOLD YOU THIS YOUR WONDERFUL THANK YOU REALLY THANK YOU 😊

[@JessicaOS]

You're welcome 😊

[@kevincroft9848]

Fantastic video please keep making these video four us men we desperately need them You are the best I've seen on social media Thanks once agian Jessica Kevin from UK 🇬🇧 Radcliffe Manchester

[@leopoldshambwila3053]

RIGHT TOPIC at the RIGHT TIME🥳🥳 THANK YOU JESSICA.

[@konxhenxmslang8455]

I was ghosted by my girlfriend and I kept my silent too now she is back and texting me what should I do

[@rodneysessoms8804]

Keep it moving, obviously she had another option. My ex wife and a ex girlfriend did this unexpectedly

[@jhh211]

Blow her back out an block her

[@jayceegenocide4402]

@@rodneysessoms8804 This is the only true answer. She thought someone was superior they were done with her now she wants back in.

[@rodneysessoms8804]

@@jhh211 not even worth the hassle lol

[@jaydenjones2608]

MY GF GHOSTED ME FA 7 MONTHS THEN SHE HIT ME UP TLKG ABT SHE WZ FIVE MONTHS PREGNANT & HER BABY DADDY WAS ABUSIVE, CRAZY & STALKN HER AT HER HOME & JOB.

[@kite6864]

shows a huge sign that they are immature and can't communicate when there's a conflict. unless it been many years where maybe they've had time to grow up and learned better communication skills and they can acknowledge why they ghosted in the first place, don't take them back. they will do it again.

[@ritapeters1330]

You are right, the'll do it again 💯

[@Bennett-xo6iu]

Yep this is what I went through.. been ghosted over a month definitely not giving her another shot... your right being ghosted really sucks....

[@ParlayParri24]

So..i went out on a date with this lovely lady before the date was over she confirmed a 2nd date, i invited her out she said shes interested in going out to said place. This past week to encourage one of my friends who has trouble dealing with rejection, i posted on my IG the population of Women in the city we live in (charlotte) and how you gotta keep pushing dont take rejection personal. Since than she hasnt responed to my text for going on a full week and we were supposed to hang out this weekend. Yall think she was bothered by my post😂😂it didnt apply to her

[@isaacfane94]

I always love listening to your talk and it's really a bang💣

[@luisaladsou6131]

Thank you Jessica This help me so much I been ghosted by a man who i thought the best man i ever met...i thought we're so in love.....we're had great time together , no fight, no misunderstood, all just fine and sweet...but suddenly he ghosting me...i'm so devastated, wondering where did i do wrong that made him acting like this towards me...i'm so broken hearted.....now i get up and pick my broken pieces to stay strong...

[@JessicaOS]

U got this

[@RafaelSilva-od4bb]

Rule number 1: If someone wants to contact you, they won't play games. Unless they had a car crash, broke their spine or are hospitalized, they'll get back to you as soon as they can, because they value you. Rule Number 2: If they do play games, or if it takes them a whole week to get back to you giving you hope but nothing ever happens, then maybe you're dealing with a manipulative narcissist or an uninterested match. Don't insist and move away. Rule Number 3: Nobody who cares about you will end up ghosting you. If you hold this person in high regards, maybe it's time to rethink your priorities.

[@VinothKumar18193]

Thank you so much for this. This video is really helpful. In my opinion, they are not worth responding to. Ghost the ghost

[@cazterk]

Watched the other video on what to do when you ghosted and boom she texts back and we are here

[@carmendelgado1391]

Thank you

[@georgesellu3625]

First to comment. Thanks for always dropping knowledge Jess ❤

[@KevJaques]

Love your vids Jessica :)

[@JessicaOS]

Thank you!! Appreciate you

[@stevenvereen6948]

If I'm in this far, I really don't Need any answers From her all about the 2 of us.. we've got this, thank you, Jessica😅. She is the most amazing woman in my life. No history, no answers. I don't need anything I just Want her!

[@kaddijatoudanso5311]

Current stage .thanks Jessica i now know how to handle them.

[@jonathanolutuyo1350]

I need a new life partner bcos i have been separated for over 12yrs

[@bernardbaker9451]

Can you be ghosted by a friend?

[@Miss.TJ516]

Yes.

[@visiteurvisiteur7301]

Yes

[@ritapeters1330]

Sure

[@maalisuobismark]

Very accurate Jez, I can relate to all the points. Thanks for sharing and keep it up 👍

[@silepumulo5714]

Exactly... My story 😅... I was so desperate.

[@kevincroft9848]

Thank you Jessica for your brilliant video. We men need all the help we can get You are the best on social media I only watch your video's they teach me so much about women Thanks once again Kevin from UK 🇬🇧 Radcliffe Manchester

[@JessicaOS]

Truly appreciate you Kev!

[@lomel7704]

Chia!!!! This one touch me @3:40 😅

[@bismarcknkansah9518]

Very good points to be honest. Someone l love so much ghosted me for 2 years and suddenly send a message requesting for £500. I refused and she called me to say l have failed her test

[@JessicaOS]

🤣🤣🤣 that's so ridiculous

[@johntez25mc-supercop]

Why am I laughing now🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@brendanhiggins3442]

Haha happened to me siad I was not nice to them for not giving not a chance.

[@ebermtheburn]

Subscribed. Thank you.

[@FelixJonasAdom]

So true. Thanks for sharing, lady Jess. 🤝

[@ronaldotim8913]

Good job and Thank you Jessica for saving innocent souls. You are the best

[@thebaligh6222]

Quite relative... Yes, yes, yes🙏🏿

[@brendanhiggins3442]

Your excellent at your analysis

[@Gojo_FX..4]

Damn!! Jessica you're really are a life saver thanks for this

[@kelvinmaina4357]

Mwangi wi guku??

[@womancaretaker]

You are saying there truth, AMB SINGLE from kenya

[@gabrielsanchez5635]

You’re such a master at these matters. Your advice is golden.

[@freshwaveentertainment]

I disagree with trying to find out why they ghosted you. Once they decide to ghost you it’s complete and absolutely Zero Dark 30 whenever you see them!

[@robertocervantes7268]

4 months ago a friend (who is long disntace and known eachother 2 years) ghosted me after many attempts reaching out to her i left her alone, was getting me nowhere, looked dumb and felt dumb. What hurted me most is the fact i've been their for her listening and gave advice if needed only to ghost me in the end. Now Depending on the situation if a ghoster comes back dont expect anything let them be the ones to explain themselves and if not respect yourself enough to leave

[@fabioncapmbell6177]

Y take them back

[@kennedysoko2243]

Jessy Jessy the original Jessica. Your ideas are really awesome.

[@shreyakumarigupta12]

You did a g8 research. It was really helpful. Although we knew theis thinks but you made it crystal clear. Thank you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@gabbyszn_]

Exactly! I’m done

[@carlosettienne5412]

Very reasonable approach to when you're or got ghosted, your check points made sense..thanks 👍

[@JessicaOS]

No problem 👍

[@graysaxofficial]

Hmmmm, Jessica it’s hard but she actually told me she’s no more interested and has lost interest. I knew the truth about what exactly happened that caused all these. It was hard but after giving her the no contact rule, she came back begging….What should I do? Should I pull her legs by telling her I want to move on so she also bears the pain or I should just forgive her and we should move on? @jessica

[@Rsysas]

#2. And curiousity killed the cat. And I have money and fun. Thx you’re right

[@romeroflores7576]

I have a question, Jessica.....Were you in James Cameron's "The Abyss" in 1989⁉You look like one of the Sea Diving Expedition crew members in the film‼🌊🌊🌊🌊🌊🌊

[@JessicaOS]

Lol.

[@romeroflores7576]

@@JessicaOS yes...I guess you saw the movie 🍿😆😅

[@simiyudennis161]

Superb Jessica 👍

[@royalty7694]

I admire your knowledge and expertise in this matters

[@mogausephewu3442]

Thus is why we love our Big Sister Jess

[@franklynkingz4827]

I want to know about that person that ghost when she has some personal problem sometimes pretty obvious to the other person hence you try asking her about it but never let things out or share anything personal with you. Placing you always in that position that you assume things but she's never bordered or try communicating with you unlike before. What do you think...

[@mavusodoug7774]

Wow...very relevant...this came at the right time. Thanks Jessica

[@mojoe6396]

wilder was never good face reality. money is why he was even given another chance. That AJ fight was what they were wanting. Usyk and Zhang the southpaws just ruined the fix.

[@allanmason7882]

You so good at this, keep it up

[@lovethsweetlove5601]

Jessica I really love and appreciate you can we be friends am in Nigeria.

[@KairoGlyph]

This girl I was talking to for 4 months ghosted me and still has me on IG and on her close friends also watches all my stories which is super confusing to me as to why she would keep me anyone have an idea ?

[@theblackilluminati2025]

Great Video on point

[@JessicaOS]

Glad you think so!

[@missinlink6733]

Heavens nah ain’t no mo second chance. God forgives I don’t. If we were cool and no longer not then they did both of us a favor!

[@Dechaz14]

Someone ghosted me and her blocked me everywhere social media but from FaceTime but she doesn’t reply the messages anymore and the sisters blocked also. I was doing a lot her family but she ghosted me and I don’t know what happened. I still surprised for two months ghosting me. What should I do with that . I spent of a lot time on her and money trying to get her better with her family and she ghosted me. It’s hurts but I don’t know what to do now . I need help with that please.I hoping future with her and I didn’t care about the problems she had I will to help her and find solutions to the problems always.

[@Dechaz14]

She blocked me everywhere social media. I need some help with that if you can guidance me on that Jessica please . I will be grateful

[@pearlqubaisi]

I want to listen to this woman but her background music sucksssss