Why Women File for Divorce more than men REACTION.

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

My couch theory, a man buys a couch and puts it in his living room and will not move it for 30 years. The women will need to move it every six months to feel some satisfaction around it and eventually will replace it even though it’s still good. A man can be easily satisfied a woman typically cannot remain satisfied. That explains why they become disinterested in sex/their husband and end the marriage to find themselves aka repeat the cycle (moving the couch around/replacing it).

[@jkbrown5496]

My aunt told me of a casual friend who decided she needed a new house. My aunt was practical and advised against change for change's sake. So later, after they bought the new house, the women did say, she wasn't any happier, but now had a mortgage every month.

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

@@jkbrown5496 my grandmothers were practical women, don’t see too many like that now. They were farmers wives the idea of ending a marriage wasn’t really an idea for them.

[@timizo691]

This is one of the best examples I have seen. It is so accurate

[@User-nx7rs]

Women change their mind so often that they're never happy. They're like little children they get bored real fast with what they have and have to have something new all the time and that's why they make changes all the time. Plus they also worried about other women's judgmental opinion and gossiping behind their back on them.

[@stu3705]

Similar to grocery shopping. A man has things he wants or needs, goes to the store, walks to where it is, picks it up, goes to check out, pays and leaves. Women goes to the store, wanders around for an hour or two, never finds what she supposedly went there for and either comes home with nothing or 10 things she didn't need.

[@steffen80]

Who has higher emotional intelligence? Is it the person who can't control their feelings? Or is it the person who can? Nice point. Very well said.👍 Greets from Germany.

[@User-nx7rs]

Women base all their decisions on feelings and emotions. Men base all their decisions on Common Sense logic and reasoning.

[@stu3705]

"Emotional Intelligence" is a crock. Its similar to emotional "maturity," which generally means that, as you get older, you don't run around the same stuff you used to do. Usually, its because you can't, not because you don't want to. If women had EQ, then presumably, they wouldn't keep bar hopping and jumping from one man or relationship to another as they age. They wouldn't keep begging men to want them and demanding that men stop dating 20 year olds.

[@swayp5715]

Yes this is an amazingly good point! ❤

[@oslo6661]

@@stu3705 Emotional Intelligence = reframing being dumb as being beneficial

[@blatherskyt]

Who understands the power and flow of a river better... the woman who let's the current take them anywhere or the main who stands in that river, resisting it's strength so he can be steady and available to serve? Emotional outburst, letting emotions control you is not maturity... it is immaturity. Not being able to control our muscles and movement.. physical immaturity. Not being able to control our spending, savings, money... financial immaturity. ^ I agree with @steffan80

[@hancock1475]

Women are making it that men are not getting married at all. Way to go ladies

[@User-nx7rs]

You set a statement that is absolutely true, it's not the man's job to make a woman happy, it's the woman's job to make herself happy.

[@stu3705]

True happiness is about being content in your surroundings. Women never really seem to get there.

[@nelsonhibbert5267]

That's what vibrators are for.

[@garysuarez9614]

​@@stu3705true happiness does not sell girls nights in Acapulco, though.

[@rodan2852]

My mom ended her marriage for no reason. She managed to get herself $50k in debt and will be working 3 jobs well into her 60's. This may sound cold, but I have no pity for that women. She did it to herself and everybody else.

[@shanehester5317]

well said.

[@jeffreyrichard2575]

agreed

[@timizo691]

Thank god for women like you! You are 1 in a billion.

[@djcelabretee]

that's an understatement. Talk about breaking the matrix!!! she is the one! *triumphant music*

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

Therefore there are 7 others like her globally.

[@djcelabretee]

superheroes@@Ace.0.0.0.

[@ourhouseisfull11]

No, she is not. Just because you see and admit there is a problem, this does nothing to correct it. She is a western woman and they are all the enemy without exception.

[@purplesprigs]

"Happy" is not the word. "Excited" is the word. Women (like all small children) crave excitement. They are never content with what they have. As a great man once said, "Women chase shiny things." They are forever seeking the emotional high that a new lover brings. Know this.

[@melkerner]

Sexlessness in marriage is a major factor. Women (and some men) lose libido in monogamy as habituation sets in. Once women hit Perimenopause / Menopause - they file for divorce to "find themselves" once their hormones are out of balance and lose their drive, experience the emotional and physical changes that occur. Coupled with the incentivization of the court system to award cash and prizes to women automatically along with any children- Gray divorce has exploded. Men are simply discarded emotionally, physically and sexually once their usefulness is determined to be up by a supposed loving partner.

[@Morrisfactor]

Well said.

[@andrewmackenzie325]

This is Briffault’s law to the letter.

[@rickyfargason8859]

That describes me to a T. Used and discarded at 58 after spending 27 years of my life with her. Gray divorce. No purpose, no retirement, no future, no family, no trust in others, no trust in women, no friends, no reason to live. Just memories of life experiences that I'm not sure I should think about because maybe they weren't genuine or true. Was my whole life a lie?

[@corystarkiller]

The girl is super based. I don't know what she's gone through, but she's found truth along the way.

[@adamwalker2377]

"Emotional needs" are a husband tax. Only husbands have to pay it. Boyfriends don't have to

[@geography_guy335]

Happiness is a decision that has to be made every day. Nobody can make someone else happy

[@lukenielsen8397]

Facts!

[@geography_guy335]

@@josephpchajek2685 I'll have to disagree. We can be happy in spite of negative circumstances. By realizing that happiness is an decision and not an emotion we can take full ownership of it.

[@geography_guy335]

@@josephpchajek2685 it's not manipulation. There is a spiritual aspect to happiness which is part of the decision. We need to strive to live righteous lives to be happy. A gay man "living his best life" can never be happy if he chooses to live in sin. An eternal perspective is also paramount in order to choose to be happy. We need to understand that we lived with God before we were born and have the potential to dwell with Him forever after we are resurrected. It takes much of the sting of the hardships of life away. Those hardships are only lasting for fleeting moments in comparison to an eternity of joy and happiness.

[@stu3705]

True happiness is about contentment and peace of mind. It seems very difficult for women.

[@stu3705]

Happiness isn't about religion. Atheists can be just as happy.

[@jonathanleach1050]

In 2002 my wife filed for a divorce, claiming I'd begun routinely relating to her in a "silent rage.". (So she told the counselors we saw.). I had no idea what she was talking about. I was a generally happy husband and not an angry man. Two and a half agonizing years after she filed, a divorce decree arrived in the mail. I immediately had to move out and find a new place to live. Fourteen years later, when I was being fitted by the VA with my first set of hearing aids, I learned that I'd been suffering a moderate hearing loss that first appeared in my Army medical records in 1999. (After seven years serving in field artillery units.) In retrospect, I now hypothesize that maybe I hadn't been responding to questions or comments that I simply wasn't hearing. Another precious family destroyed for lack of knowledge!

[@nobodyimportant9127]

"Communitcate". Let me run a theory by you. Communication can only deal in facts, because facts are objective. Emotions, being SUBJECTIVE, cannot be communicated because they are not objective, therefore emotions can ONLY be EXPRESSED. Expressing, and Communicating are not the same

[@SoloRenegade]

I accept your theory. That describes it well I think.

[@thedynamicsolo4232]

hah and when you "mansplain" that to women, they go to character assassination of the fact speaker. That speaks volumes.

[@jkbrown5496]

Men are "socialized" to regulate their emotions. This is often called a bad thing, but regulation of emotions is one element of becoming educated. The others are discipline of intellect and establishment of principles. Kind of curious as more people get college "educations" the fewer seem to have discipline of intellect or regulation of emotions or even established principles.

[@geography_guy335]

This is also called stability. Modern women have issues with stable men because it requires them to also regulate their emotions to a certain degree. Modern women prefer men that give them "the feels".

[@andrewmackenzie325]

We are seeing Briffault’s law play out at scale in the West. When one party is incentivised and rewarded for leaving marriage - breaking a contract - they’re going to do it most of the time.

[@yvesgysel9834]

A man on his own can genuinely be happy with simple things. A few pairs of jeans. Some shirts... Then he meets a woman who enters his life and his house. Both the man and house will get a total new decoration. In reality, the man does not care so much about these redecorations, but since he genuinely cares for this woman, he will let her, thinking as long as she's happy...

[@-sj5550]

So many women are 'finding themselves' and filing for divorce. Now, they demand to be paid 50/50 during the divorce. In reality he was NEVER her first choice, she settled for 'a nice guy' because of her desperate need for baby rabies AND financial security. Women love the wedding day and the dress, because its all about them. Daily marriage bores them however, many don't have the determination to see it through and get bored easily. Female love IS conditional always..

[@joeypchajek]

Pretty weird post.

[@biocular]

@@joeypchajek Not really.

[@steffen80]

Sad but so true.

[@stu3705]

"Finding myself" was a phrase the hippies used for dropping out and turning on. It appears that when women say it these days, they mean something like "see how many hot guys will do me this year."

[@taketheredpill1452]

too many facts...

[@davidquerry8869]

I just discovered your channel. You give me hope, peace, and happiness. God bless you.

[@philg7889]

That 'emotional intelligence' rationale is spot on. I'm currently being presented with 'I don't feel happy...' on a regular basis. Like you say though, I'm NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR HER HAPPINESS. That starts and ends with the individual. We are all accountable for our own happiness.

[@GaryBentlage]

Yes thank u

[@practicing1]

Divorce was uncommon before ww1 but once it started, women were suddenly desperate marry soldiers to get a widow pension, not expecting the poor bloke to survive the war. This a major trend in all high casualty wars, like Vietnam, they did not want the men back, they wanted that war pension

[@CobraR1993]

To supplement your knowledge in addition to this video in terms of wanting to know why women cheat and file for divorce I recommend reading the following books: 1. Womens Infidelity by Michelle Langley 2. To Love, Honor, and Betray: The Secret Life of Suburban Wives by Stephanie Gertlere In a nutshell there is a wide variety of reasons why a woman will cheat and leave her husband. Some women do it out of boredom, many for financial gain, others cross paths with old flames and want to rekindle that romance, but I was most shocked that many American women harber anger towards men and they deliberately cheat and divorce simply to hurt the men in their lives. The issue some women have with men is they feel men need to pay for all the wrongs, pain, and sufferings that men have caused women down throughout history. Women can't go against men head up so they hurt men though divorce, though draining a mans funds, and making it difficult to see his kids. If you're a good man they don't care, it's just collateral damage.

[@djprojectus]

Sufferings caused throughout history?Womens have genetic memory?Or they learn that from feminists?

[@valleja22]

We are Men. Thank you for the acknowledgment. LOL you're a breath of fresh air in need of a time for us to take a deep breath. Seriously you and women like you are our strongest support. 👏👍

[@thedynamicsolo4232]

My mom was betrayed by my father and after the fourth time, she had enough. However, I know many women who married good guys and betrayed them. I know many women who married bad boys and were stunned when they were caught cheating. I know a few women who cheated on their husbands who divorced them and then begged for them to come back. My ex wife called me 5 months after she destroyed our life, marriage, house and finances and reputations saying "I'm sorry for what happened". It STUNS me that she pulled the rug back in 2003. We were making 80K a year combined which is like 130K now, but she couldn't wait and spent us (secretly) into 10K in new debt and caused a BK and then a house foreclosure. Adding insult to injury, she went back to the lying, cheating alcoholic she left to marry me. Totally gutted. It took 12 years to walk out of the consequences and I paid every dime of it. Never again.

[@georgecurly5965]

You're a gem. It such relief to hear these things (that are constantly denied by the feminist controlled media and culture trying to make us feel bad just for being men) from the mouth of a woman.

[@lawshorizon]

20:20 Married men live longer because wives choose healthier and wealthier men. That's all there is to it.

[@robsexton9247]

I ❤ you too!! Its extremely refreshing hearing what needs to be said about modern women in their current state of delusion..😅 your doing a fine job explaining it. Thanks for all your time and effort, its very much appreciated!

[@franksalidivar7342]

When you said "Women are the Great Communicators....yeah....they just won't shut up!" ...ROTFLMFAO!

[@simonleclercq4554]

TLDR just because you’re emotional doesn’t mean you’re emotionally intelligent Emotional intelligence measured in EQ is not a real thing. It measures mostly the big five trait agreeableness. If we use the definition that it’s the ability to clearly define what you are feeling and to recognise that in others maybe women are better but if we use the definition of staying calm and collected despite what you are feeling then men are definitely better at it. There has recently been a fad where everything has to be a kind of intelligence but intelligence is actually psychometrically defined it’s the ability to solve problems and is measured in IQ or intelligence Quotient.

[@MRBACKHAND]

well your talking common sense.... and its refreshing to hear it...... so thank you. im Jazz from Auckland New Zealand

[@ggmiethe]

Hey FFE, one of your better content shares, in my humble own. Fantastic. You hit every point so well. I have recently come to a theory. Could one factor be that when the modern woman’s wedding fantasy hits hard upon the confrontation of marriage reality, the moment of her character is sorely tested. The man has few illusions about marriage, at least for the first decade. When women are fawned upon, are treated like the princess of myth, she begins to believe it of herself. No, not believe it - she becomes intoxicated with it. She becomes the “Top-up Drunk” of Romance - i.e. when she begins to feel sobriety in the form of a hangover, she seeks to have another “hit” to “Top-up” her drunkenness. She stays in the fantasy. But like all drunks, self-centredness is the root of their problem. So she leaves a place with no “emotional” booze, to seek a new field of dreams. And before you know it, she’s no Princess no more, and she’s hit the wall. And, again like all drunks not in recovery, she will take no responsibility for this. It will be man’s fault. Thanks again, from Geoff of Fremantle Western Australia🇦🇺

[@davidquerry8869]

Women have control over the most important job on this planet. The ability to give birth, and nurture her family to be the best it can be, so the world can be the best it can be. If this cannot make her happy, I don't know what could.

[@clintwestwood1895]

Connecting with people and obtaining positive feedback appears to be benefiting you in profound ways, your eyes face and presence actually seem to be increasing in brightness and positive energy and overall radiant Beauty. I never had a sister, but I always wanted one because I felt as though I could have been a top-notch brother to her, and I feel if I had a sister, I would have wanted her to be Just Like You.

[@willcruz3198]

Marriage laws + 3rd wave feminism + no-fault divorce = the high divorce rates we see today.

[@Rafael-rn6hn]

All goes back to feminism.

[@loganray3503]

"A woman marries a man hoping he'll change, and he doesn't. A man marries a woman hoping she won't change, and she does."

[@User-nx7rs]

The other day my boss said something that I overheard, and it was oh that's your problem well nobody cares. And he's exactly right if a woman has an emotional problem it's her job to either solve that problem or live with it nobody else's but her job.

[@clodismccuien8082]

Women need to be married... For reasons that they may not understand at present.

[@clodismccuien8082]

Regulation of emotion... Not make them happy... No matter what the emotion is ,they have a problem regulating that emotion... That's why they need men so fervently.

[@lockyp204]

We all know the reasons. A divorce settlement down the track

[@stevedeweysmith]

So is the purpose of marriage for modern women only a way for them to get pregnant? after which they are finished with their husbands and dump them?

[@jackdeniston59]

For the shiny wedding.

[@craigslitzer4857]

@@jackdeniston59 and the alimony/child support income

[@troydunn8463]

The emotional benefit women get from marriage are things like security & stability. Appearantly that is 'boring', and thus oppression.

[@Cayuse2009]

The wife is rewarded for filing for divorce by the governments antimale laws that reward women financially and with custody going to them. IF the laws were reversed, you would see the statics would reverse. To make divorce fair each partner would only receive what items they paid for with no alimony or child support., Joint custody being the norm etc. Men are currently on strike and avoiding relationships and especially marriage until divorce laws change.

[@limpetcarre1139]

Women don't need to be economically independent to file for divorce as the courts will give them half his assets and they will leave with all the cash and prizes.

[@zzkeokizz]

In my family my dad and my mom were teachers. They are very good parents. My dad was in industrial arts. I have cerebral palsy so my dad built things that would help me learn to walk. And mom worked at a private school. Mom didn’t divorce my dad because they NEEDED each other.

[@dinahnicest6525]

I'll return to dating when fish ride bicycles.

[@garrett621]

Ha!!!

[@WatchfulHunter]

Say no to engagement rings and government marriage contacts. Avoid petty, childish women who just want shiny expensive things and security. Let them stay with their parents.

[@gerardbommarito4668]

I love all videos from far from Eden

[@t-dogg115]

My gardening business is called Eden and when I came across this Channel I thought I’d give it a watch. Im very glad I did.

[@michel333100]

I by chance stumbled upon your channel and after listening to dozens of your videos, there's something so captivating about your videos. You are an amazing woman the way you speak and your vast knowledge on just about every subject. I am a Canadian that just wanted to give you a thumbs up on your videos. Too bad the majority of women are nit like you and have your view points.

[@jankowalski6691]

You have a very nice way of presenting and commenting. Funny personality as well.

[@anamericanman]

Because they can do better! She deserves better! Who are you to stand in her way? You can't keep her happy anyway! The REALITY is that when a woman pushes you away IT IS OVER, there is no way back, instantly move on, don't look back, don't feel sorry for yourself, and especially don't feel sorry for her. She'll figure it out one day.

[@1walicki]

There’s 1 way to mitigate the take-half-your-stuff Divorce.. get privately married without involving the State.

[@bantau88]

..."better search FOR your soul" well said!

[@DanLovesBooks]

You sound like a professor, but unlike professors what you say is actually connected to reality.

[@FarfromEden]

I dropped out as a JR at college. Grades were good but it was not for me…

[@jamesd1505]

I met my ex when we were both 18. Before we aquired a home 🏡 i said "if we ever split up and try to make me homeless, ill burn 🔥 down any houses 🏘 we have AND NEITHER OF US WILL HAVE A HOME 🏡 😤 So we separated 6 yrs ago and had 2 homes. Lets say i wasnt dragged to court AND WE BOTH HAVE A HOUSE. I KEPT MY WORD😤

[@Dana31965]

Now one can make a person happy, they can only be happy with themselves.

[@Robert-ik7yk]

Any man who signs of marriage contract and gets involved in this no fault divorce crap Is playing a dangerous game.

[@Pikwhip]

"Nuance" means "I'm about to hold up an exception to the rule and use that as evidence".

[@FarfromEden]

Exactly!!

[@vl4394]

My parents divorced when I was 3 (and my mother conceived at 33). I learned to dislike both sexes equally. With women in particular I can remember several occasions where I'm right there and they're going on about how all men are so awful etc, then they catch themselves "oh but not you". Consciously you reconcile this by thinking they're split minded labile creatures that say things they don't even mean, because obviously they go after a man shortly after. But issue is, and fact is, the unconscious mind works differently, it can't actually do this. So instead what it believes is that all women actually hate men, they hate to be desired by men, they hate themselves for wanting to be wanted, and they probably only interact with men for their own benefit and due to biological programming they can't override. Furthermore it communicates to the child "all men are evil" and also "but not you", and that must be because you are not a real man. And if you become a man, you will be rejected by the mother and hated by women. You see how this works. No one talks about this but it's actually very simple at the core, simple tricks for simple creatures. I have known this for many years but it's so layered over, and there are so many aspects of sunk costs and I'm too old now and so on, that I don't bother to override it. Too much pressure and I basically regress into solipsism, but either way remaining apart and neither conceiving of what it is to be truly alone, nor needing others whatsoever, has.... eh, worked. I have no friends, never dated, etc. It just takes too long to realize and break down the doublethink. I saw without seeing, knew without knowing, and did without truly realizing. And it just takes way too long to emerge from the quasi brain damaged state that this type of thing induces.

[@bertmunoz7100]

About this article, it was probably written by the same type of "modern woman" who has the same reasons and excuses to make her irrational decisions. I'm 59 never been married and don't have any kids and after experiencing some of my own nightmare relationships I consider my self very lucky, not to end up like so many man who married, divorced and now are alone.

[@fromgermany271]

My ex had to file, because I only was able to stay „at home“ until the last kid was out. The fact that she cheated regularly was not even a thing for me anymore. But when I separated, she had to file for divorce. Yeah, she worked around 25y to get me that far.

[@greyowl750]

Same.

[@Somerville431]

Thanks!

[@lebenstraum666]

Love the way she attacks the Alexandra Kollontai type!😂

[@knowsstuff988]

I can remember when I was about to propose to my wife, I had to go ask her father for permission first. That was more nerve racking and white knuckle causing than the actual proposal was.

[@dhickey5919]

Thank you, Erin. Some women seem to thrive in the emotional upset of fresh dating, relationship arguing, or just having the attention on them. Maybe this is called "emotional intelligence?". I could imagine these same women are excited by breaking marriage vows, wrecking families, etc. I've known a few women who had minor mental issues and were mildly self-sabotaging. Sounds to me like some people are unhealthy to start with. Get help. Take responsibility. Get your life on track.

[@hardasnails64]

Any man in your life would be blessed to have you. With your understanding of why things are the way that they are. I believe any problem that would come up in the relationship could be solved. Kudos to you. In this case you truly are the prize.

[@JT-rx1eo]

"...when you pull women out of their intended roll..." (conflict will arise.) And thats the crux of the issue. Modern feminism makes women more masculine, which pulls them out of their evolved biological and psychological role.

[@TRUTHandLIGHT4809]

99% of the time, men focus on helping his family, wife and children. There is no emotional abuse. Men are not emotional creatures. If there is EMOTIONAL abuse, that is from his wife. Think of teenage high-school girls. They use emotional tactics for power and control. Men dont

[@darkoilic22]

You’re spot on. God bless you on your path.

[@whatdoiputhere1694]

Here in Australia lesbian marriges actually have a higher divorce rate than same sex ones in Australia, - which seems to be the norm in most of the world where such data is collected.

[@whatdoiputhere1694]

Should also add, the opposite sex applications on divorce over the last two years avaiable in Australia (2021 and 2022) are 25,811 male and 26,836 Female, so a 49/51% split.

[@jasonbiernat2944]

I appreciate your content! Thank You!

[@Hanna5859]

15:38 It's called "bait and switch." Tell you anything you want to hear just to get the ring and the big wedding day. After that, who cares, the true color comes out, pounds put on...

[@orangeandslinky]

Your boomer here Erin. I know for sure men are far far more touchy feely and try to listen to female vents than we were before feminism. You know why? We thought it would actually help our wives to be more happy and like what they wanted to do. Which was get married. Now, I will tell you, listening to a woman vent and try to figure it all out was like roofing a house with no studs, but we did try. Well now we know it didn't work at all so what do we do now? I don't know, we're working on it. We have to UNlearn and UNdo a lot of crap we tried to do for women over the last 50 years and then...........and then.......and then. Well I don't know what we will do then. It seems like women would have to want to come back to us, but they don't. So it's not like you can just put a new roof on it and everyone agree the weird roof Idea we collaborated with women was a bad idea and just do it right this time. We can fix and replace a good well tested roof. We cannot fix a woman who has no interest in pre feminist marriage at all. Also, I know for sure men will, and are changing from family men to MGTOW. The longer women take to come back to marriage, the more changes will happen in men and it ain't gonna be good. What I mean is, if women do want to come back to marriage someday, there will be no men who will want to risk it. When everyone sees everyone as temporary, we have no reason to think life long at all.

[@clodismccuien8082]

I think the main reason men of the past made such a bad decision because we were under the impression that women could love unconditionally... There is always a condition ,it's just their nature... I just hate it took us so long to understand that.... Men and women are not the same.

[@orangeandslinky]

@@clodismccuien8082 If God doesn't love with no conditions at all, then there is no unconditional love. I have never known or even heard of a man that didn't expect to meet some conditions for love ever. What I do see as a common thing is women saying that their dogs and cats love them Unconditionally. My family has fur. My family has paws. If my dog don't like you, I won't either. I am a dog mom, and so many more. Why do women reject humans and choose animals that would leave them the minute the door is left open? I don't know , but they do and boast of it. Kevin Samuels noticed this over and over again when women would call him. Once it was clear the woman hated men and loved themselves, he would just say, "buy a dog and die alone."

[@genemuhammad7280]

The problem is in the leadership. How do you make laws that don’t support the family. That reward women even if there’s bad behaviour. With such a high divorce rate you can’t tell me these people who make these laws don’t know what they are doing.

[@johnfaulk7775]

Emotional intelligence: oxymoron! Compare to: multitasking

[@steeleheroesmedia4699]

DAMN!!! You are good!!!! Looking forward to the comments from the 🤡🤡🤡🤡 posse!!!

[@Jjj53214]

An unhappy wife in a marriage does not automatically mean that the wife is being abused. The unhappiness may be because of internal psychological issues of the woman, not external abuse from the man.

[@geekhillbilly2636]

I know, by experience. 1 MONEY 2.MONEY. 3. MONEY. IT'S PURE GREED. IT LANDED 1 EX IN PRISON AND NOW THE OTHER IS DEAD BECAUSE OF HER OWN STUPIDITY. MARRIAGE IS A BAD DEAL FOR MEN. GUYS DON'T DO IT

[@Somerville431]

"If you have to search your soul about your marriage, you should be searching for your soul."

[@patriot1182]

You are a Unicorn young lady!

[@michaelpalumbo2416]

Because they win prizes for doing it.

[@SA-vz7qi]

"Emotional labour" Do they mean producing more emotions...?

[@MasticinaAkicta]

Cash and Prices, Cash and Prices.

[@stu3705]

If it was about economic independence, then women wouldn't demand alimony and child support all the time. Sometime last year, I saw a post from a recently divorced woman, who had just found out that she couldn't get lifelong alimony.

[@allenjohnstone9945]

I left my then 19 year marriage because i'd had enough. That was almost 7 years ago but we only divorced in 2021 because she wanted it. I didn't care so told her if she paid for it she can have it. I waited far longer than I should have to leave because I wanted the kids to be old enough to understand. Me and my daughters have a great relationship and thurday evenings is our time.(I've taken my thursday nightshift off every month for the last 3 years). As a brit i can confirm that the BBC has gone downhill in the 22 years since I moved to Canada but it's still better than the trash American ones.

[@rickyfargason8859]

Wow! A woman who gets it! My wife filed for divorce after 27 years. I was blindsided. I spent over half of my life a woman who just gave up and walked away. I learned about the harsh reality of female solipsism at 58, a time when I was preparing for retirement. Now retirement is not in my future. I will have to work until I die while my wife gets to enjoy the fruits of my labor on a beach in Puerto Rico. I have no idea what my purpose is now. I feel used and discarded. My life is over. I don't see a reason or purpose to live.

[@DanLovesBooks]

Stay strong, man. I never had love at all. Also not sure why I exist. I create art and love my friends/family. No career, no hope, but not letting a terrible world win so easily.

[@FarfromEden]

Ugh. She was so stupid and selfish. You must wonder what was ever real. I pray you find some kind of peace. I know you have a purpose because you are still here. Like me- I have wondered what purpose my life has & what I could possibly contribute… but God knew so I just kept breathing in and out. Seeking truth & goodness… and here I am talking to you. God bless you & keep you

[@greyowl750]

SAME EXACT EXPERINACE FOR ME....I did t just give up on western feminized women...I gave up on the west entirely. Now, I'm living in the Philippines on a measly 1000 to 1250 US a month an have the sweetest woman I will ever know right beside me. THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX. Beat your ex at her own game...spend your time here as much as you can and then..retire here at 65. You can do this. Research it on KZbin. I did...and I'm GLAD she left me. My life is so much better now.

[@jaxxbohol6475]

Simple they find out how much work and responsibilities goes into a marriage then decide it’s not for them.

[@ctfireinsky9554]

Emotional Labor Demanding that Someone Compensate You for Things That you NEVER Asked for in The First PLACE !!! Strange that the same people that Carp over this are Utterly Indignant if... oh say,,, a male "friend" thinks that he's Due SEX for all his "help" and "friendship" that he gave them. At least the guy gave her things she even Asked for!!

[@jamesd1505]

I wonder why dogs 🐕 chose men? Loyalty n protection! IM PROUD AS A MAN TO BE COMPARED TO A DOG 🐕!

[@markymarknj]

I Cor. 14:40 says, "Let everything be done in decency and in order."

[@abraynor84]

She files for divorce because she doesn't respect her husband. Since she doesn't respect him, she doesn't love him. When she was in the dating stage, she had butterflies and the emotional highs. Now she doesn't have it, she wants it again. That's why she'll divorce, cheat, or both. The reason why the marriage failed is because the foundation is weak. Feelings aren't a reason to get married. There has to be love. Love is different from feelings. Love is an action. Notice love is a verb and a noun. Feelings are all nouns. However, lust is the same as love in that aspect of language. No one says, "I happy you, or I sad you." Real love is actions one does for someone else that can be emotional, but it's mostly an action. What do wives do nowadays to show how much they love their husbands? Nothing. They just show up. They dress pretty and show up. They don't dress up for you, though. At home, she's in sweats and an old t shirt. She's remembering when she was approached by men in droves. When a woman actually loves you by her actions, she'll do anything for you. That's why i married my wife. She takes our union seriously. She lets me lead. She feeds me. She lusts after me after 13 years without holding back. She vents to me. That's important. Wives immediately put up walls. A woman can't be happy without being vulnerable. That's what gives them security and the ability to trust you as a man. She doesn't want you to fix anything. The second she's done, she feels weight falling off of her. Women are emotional creatures. That's also why i don't engage in arguments when it goes personal. You can't use logic against emotion. You have to disengage and wait for her to calm down. You also can't engage with her when she's being disrespectful, either. I had to learn this. This is how I used to do things. We'd start off debating, but somewhere, it went to her name calling. I would counter with my own insult that she hates. It would then become a yelling fest for an hour where she's crying and i am upset. We don't talk for days until one of us talks to one another. It became emotional. Overall, no one won even though we competed over who can hurt one of us worse. That's why I have to keep my emotions in check and disengage. I have to shutdown the argument before it gets worse. She'll try to continue it, but i will put my hand up and stop it. After about 2 hours, she'll calm down, but talking about it will have to wait until morning. It's a lot easier to fix an issue when things are calm and peaceful. That's the wisdom i learned, and it works well. Relationships aren't chaos. There has to be order and peace. As the man, you keep chaos at bay. If my wife decided to leave me, i would wish her luck and help her pack. I refuse to compete for her affection and to fight for something that's dead. Inside, i would be devastated, but I refuse to show it. I told her this also. Her response was, "You wouldn't fight for me?" My response, "Why would i fight for someone that doesn't want to stay with me? I only fight for someone that is in trouble. At that moment, you're not mine anymore. So why fight? If a man was on you, i would fight him off of you, but if you invited him, I would tell you to be with him because you don't want to be with me. It's over and there's nothing you can do or say to change that. You obviously don't respect me if you do that. That also means you don't love me either." She understood when I explained that to her. I also explained, "It seems wives take their husband's love for granted. Then some realize too late they lost it and can't get it back. It happens with men also, but on a smaller scale."

[@dalamar2196]

Men still try for family initially because they don't realise how feminist and dishonest the family law judges are, so dont realise ir believe how far judges will go to help women take the children and money from the guy.

[@orbital97]

Would ivermectin help the little girl with possible brain cancer? I’ve heard it’s had results in reducing cancers in humans.

[@JustSomeGuy2727]

I wish I could "like" this video twice.

[@thehowlingmisogynist9871]

The UK recently introduced 'No-Fault' Divorce?? No, they simply renamed what was already going on. Concepts such as 'Unreasonable Behaviour' ie what the divorcing spouse considered to be unreasonable - eg, he kept trying to kiss me!!

[@JohnWhite-lj9gz]

I hope women watch your content and process what you're saying objectively.

[@dalewesp4653]

Most women can try to search for their soul.

[@USViper]

There is no such thing as EQ. The idea was popularized by a journalist, Daniel Goleman, not a psychologist. You can't just invent a trait. You have to define it and measure it and distinguish it from other traits and use it to predict the important ways that people vary."

[@garysuarez9614]

This will continue until the system breaks. J/s.

[@FarfromEden]

Agreed

[@lsporter88]

You're quite right. Quite right.....

[@williamkeogh710]

Good evening FFE.

[@nexttimeism]

Great video (as always)

[@Lawrence-cs8mw]

She should post a link to these articles she references.