Why Women Must Control Their Desire to Look Beautiful | Nouman Ali Khan

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@sanabaig5
@sanabaig5 2 ай бұрын
This is soo true. We women fight this desire to look beautiful every single day
@misbahailia3345
@misbahailia3345 2 ай бұрын
Yes, but it’s not always to attract random perves on the street.
@snowecaddel9454
@snowecaddel9454 2 ай бұрын
@@misbahailia3345 Yes! taking care of yourself and being put together versus trying to look hot and attract someone’s gaze are so different.
@asadzeethree2726
@asadzeethree2726 2 ай бұрын
@@misbahailia3345. If you are attracting pervs, then you are also doing something to attract them.
@JoJo-pn2cl
@JoJo-pn2cl Ай бұрын
​@misbahailia3345 yes is literally we women want attention more then men
@deedee2455
@deedee2455 Ай бұрын
I think there's a kind of satisfaction if you can pull your best outfit. You feel happier, your day go smoothly, etc. Thats why we have bad hair day or even bad hijab day 😂
@faizaabbasi302
@faizaabbasi302 2 ай бұрын
The fact it's already mentioned in Quran makes me feel so good and touched. And I'm so blessed being a muslimah Alhumdullilah for everything Allah blessed me with..
@wajihaansari4933
@wajihaansari4933 2 ай бұрын
Which ayat??
@World-T35
@World-T35 Ай бұрын
@@wajihaansari4933 ‏So is one brought up in ornaments while being during conflict unevident [attributed to Allāh]? Allah means [the little girl]
@natasha23950
@natasha23950 2 ай бұрын
As a woman, this is so true.
@dzalikalyaumulhaqq
@dzalikalyaumulhaqq 2 ай бұрын
Yea sometimes the idea comes..to not wear hijab and see how people react 😂
@AfridiZindabad
@AfridiZindabad 2 ай бұрын
Not entirely. He says about us wanting to look good to prove we can look better than another, thats not true for majority of us we do it for our own selves. I almost never go out and do my hair nice clothes makeup etc whereas if I have to be around ppl I tone it down. Why because my real inner self wants to look good for my own satisfaction and this I true even for elderly women and women on their deathbed like my aunt. She did her Hai and lipstick as be she could to keep her spirit up same with my grandma but she put flowers I her Hai not makeup but saris etc at home when she didn't have to b around outsiders. We do it for our own satisfaction so the struggle is in that.
@khadi818
@khadi818 2 ай бұрын
@@AfridiZindabad what’s wrong with taking care of your appearance for yourself…? Taking care of yourself shows that you value the body Allah (swt) has entrusted you with and that you have self-respect.
@Cinisterxsynik
@Cinisterxsynik 2 ай бұрын
@@AfridiZindabad liberal af response
@avdojusufbegovic1783
@avdojusufbegovic1783 2 ай бұрын
@@khadi818 its about controling desires...
@Kashachel
@Kashachel 2 ай бұрын
finally someone said this, people think that hijab is made for men, like so that they don't give in to desires, but no, first of all hijab saves a woman from not giving in to her desires
@sweetpaprika7
@sweetpaprika7 13 күн бұрын
💯
@keitomue
@keitomue 9 күн бұрын
Your comment just clicked something in my brain. Thank you alhamdulillah
@renwar71
@renwar71 5 күн бұрын
Why should a woman not give into her desires ? She should do as she pleases…nobody has the right to make a women feel that it is a sin to desire whatever she wants…that’s called control
@profesorarumeysa462
@profesorarumeysa462 2 ай бұрын
I'm dumbfounded by the accuracy of his words, and I'm really happy that someone, especially a man finally saw what was happening and talked about it. I've been a hijabi woman for years and I've always been in love with looking beautiful and attracting attention. It's important that we recognize these things, and as he said, everytime i see a beautiful woman (i appreciate her beauty elhamdülillah I'm not always dying of jealousy) i think the same thing: I'm so much prettier, like if i wasnt wearing hijab (sorry for my wording but that's how i feel) i would be such a hottie, i would wrap every man in this room around my finger. I have so many assets, beautiful hair beautiful body etc etc but I'm not showing it as much. And im proud of that. And I'm happy that after years of isolation and loneliness i found a man that valued me above all and Allah granted him to me as my husband. I'm so grateful that my beauty is special to him and only him, who valued me as a person first and didnt try to take advantage of me, bc I've been there also. Some men seem interested and then when they understand youre not going to bend your standards/ rules, they take a U turn and disappear, and it's rather heartbreaking, really. You see what they were actually after. I pray that every saliha woman is rewarded with a good pious husband and also infinite gifts from Allah
@rightouserightouse-wh6rw
@rightouserightouse-wh6rw 2 ай бұрын
Hey my pfp and u pfp is th same girll
@hirazafar
@hirazafar Ай бұрын
Ma Sha' Allah
@genevieveohara5360
@genevieveohara5360 Ай бұрын
Subhan'Allah this is the first time I hear another girl describe *exactly* the same struggle I go through all the time. I felt like it made me really bad to feel this way so hearing another muslimah say it so transparently seriously means a lot. It's hard expecially if you have crushes and you know exactly how you could "get" him but that you shouldn't engage with a)him at all lol and b) use your beauty😭
@MaryamArshad-ws9up
@MaryamArshad-ws9up Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@minamoorie4746
@minamoorie4746 Ай бұрын
@@genevieveohara5360exactly! But I don't know, if there is someone who i am interested in, how can I talk to him about it?
@takemetomarz
@takemetomarz Ай бұрын
I teared up when he said “I feel so ugly” because my insecurities are so high some days it genuinely ruins my whole day and self perception, I know I’m doing it for Allah swt so sure it reassures me but deep down it’s so hard but then again every struggle will have its reward InshAllah
@betul7943
@betul7943 Ай бұрын
Ameen ❤ Don't always look in the mirror, sometimes let go! I realized that when i don't do makeup and don't even look in mirror, i feel very beautiful and free! Like i'm so light. Because i kinda know that when i look to the mirror i can focus on my acne etc. But it's actualy OK and normal. Allah gave it for a reason ❣️ Women are pretty don't fight with yourself 🌸🌸🌸🌸⚘️💝❤️🎀🌷☪️💟🤍
@Hana11645
@Hana11645 19 күн бұрын
True. I dont feel pretty in hijab much.. 😅
@bc4685
@bc4685 8 күн бұрын
You're not alone sis... May Allah reward you ❤
@fatimahalhaddad1302
@fatimahalhaddad1302 3 күн бұрын
I learned that we women are made to feel ugly by the beauty industry so that we buy all they have to offer to be ‘pretty’. There’s a lot of videos about that on youtube. Ive watched them and i feel less insecure about myself now.
@_Pretty_flowers
@_Pretty_flowers 2 күн бұрын
@@Hana11645 what about those who don't look pretty even without hijab? so shut up and be grateful for your looks
@safiibraheem2617
@safiibraheem2617 2 ай бұрын
As a woman, this is so spot on, soooo relatable and makes so much sense! Never heard it like this before. Jazaak Allah Khair.
@neelmaahmed464
@neelmaahmed464 2 ай бұрын
now as a women i finally understand why it is so hard for men. i always used to wonder how difficult it would be to control your desire about men, we women do it. but this example made it so clear that somethings are too hard to let go and it is an everyday struggle.
@snowecaddel9454
@snowecaddel9454 2 ай бұрын
Same here! I never really understood it before
@woopazipper
@woopazipper Ай бұрын
Alhamdullilah, it's nice when both genders understand the struggles of each other without undermining each other.
@anamtasnim8957
@anamtasnim8957 Ай бұрын
Being a woman, i never takes efforts to look beautiful. I just accept what i am and im happy
@sweetpaprika7
@sweetpaprika7 13 күн бұрын
💯
@htomlison12345
@htomlison12345 5 күн бұрын
you're joking right lol? controlling yourself from beautifying YOURSELF and making YOURSELF feel pretty is completely different from controlling yourself from harming and objectifying another person 💀💀 the two are not the same thing at all and we should not equate them.
@mominaqadeer5551
@mominaqadeer5551 2 ай бұрын
MA he put the feelings of women so aptly. I'm amazed at how he speaks from a place of so much understanding of human psychology. Never heard anyone drawing this analogy of desires of both genders. Mind blowing
@AfridiZindabad
@AfridiZindabad 2 ай бұрын
Do you honestly feel competitive towards other women when out and about, because imo he truly misunderstood that part. The satisfaction and artistic joy and self respect of looking good and adorned is not to do with competition as If proving we can look better than someone else.😂 great video and message but he was misunderstanding that bit.
@d.k.hapsari6030
@d.k.hapsari6030 Ай бұрын
@@AfridiZindabad He said that Allah puts the desire to all women. Just because you are not feeling it or women around you don't feel that, or you simply don't meet any women like that in your life, that doesn't mean that all women since Adam and Hawa, don't feel the competition toward another women, regarding to look beautiful. Its Women's fitrah, not only Muslim women. The difference is Muslim women are told by Allah to control the desire. But, what about another women who are non Muslim? What about women who lived before Islam came? Another women in another part of this world? I think you are the one who misunderstood here.
@hanh9707
@hanh9707 Ай бұрын
@@d.k.hapsari6030in total honesty, never in my life, as a Muslim female growing up in California and consuming the filth of western pop culture did I feel the need to “compete” with females, real life or otherwise I was hyper focused more on me and my “mind” I only felt a sense of competition later in life, once I got married in my late 20s And this only came about after hearing jokes about my husband getting a second wife Even this is natural, but such an unhealthy thing for the mind to consistently ponder and worry about
@Haneen-sq3hq
@Haneen-sq3hq 22 күн бұрын
@@AfridiZindabad Salam Alaikum, I think what youre saying might be accurate for yourself but doesn't to apply for all, im an example, I do feel competitiveness and the women that agree in the comments too. Have a beautiful day and may Allah bless you.
@sweetpaprika7
@sweetpaprika7 13 күн бұрын
💯
@chiakilovemeback46
@chiakilovemeback46 Ай бұрын
i literally started crying because this is something i struggle with every single second and its the first time im hearing it being acknowledged. nouman ali khan always gets it right, may allah give him jazzah.
@sakis763
@sakis763 2 ай бұрын
Bingo!! You were right about Hijabi women...this happens when we go to weddings or when others praise the uncovered ladies.
@afninur-e4q
@afninur-e4q Ай бұрын
As woman, this is true. i am born in family muslim in indonesia. In my experience, when i still 12 year old, i am still not wearing hijab, the food trader man watching me with hungry eyes. in 14 year i learn wearing hijab, but i don't get permitted from my family. In 21 year i am wear hijab, when my hijab is still 3 piece. My aunty got angry, but i am more afraid wrath Allah. Alhamdulillah until now 45 year old, i am wear hijab.
@moonakhan6371
@moonakhan6371 2 ай бұрын
This is totally my story😂😂😂 i laughed while watching this reel. But now Allah is happy with me coz i am controlling my desire in every second
@EV-EV-EV
@EV-EV-EV 2 ай бұрын
Are you pretty?
@damlabasak95
@damlabasak95 Ай бұрын
I am glad to hear things I have been fighting with inside of me. I have been just divorced and I felt undesirable, ugly, unwanted. Now, I embrace my beauty as a woman. I dont need someone to praise my beauty so that I can believe that I am beautiful enough. I know someday I will find a good one who will love me unconditionally.❤😊😏
@mehreenraza6939
@mehreenraza6939 Ай бұрын
insha'Allah
@ayeshaimranx
@ayeshaimranx Ай бұрын
The internal fights we gotta go through, so nice that he gave that recognition. May Allah guide us and help us with our struggles and we genuinely love people Ameen❤
@snowecaddel9454
@snowecaddel9454 2 ай бұрын
This is so true as a woman myself. ​​⁠ Taking care of yourself and being put together versus trying to look hot and attract a man’s gaze are so different. I grew up in a society where women are spending large amounts of money on makeup, clothing, expensive brands, jewelry, then getting with every guy they can get with. Before marriage they get with at LEAST 10 different dudes, it isn’t the majority, but it’s definitely normalized. I didn’t really understand it much before, but by revealing beauty and by exposing your body, the wrong type of men will be attracted. The kind that’ll take advantage of you. Allah’s words have a reason for everything.
@I_CruZ89
@I_CruZ89 2 ай бұрын
Tottally true.❤
@snowecaddel9454
@snowecaddel9454 2 ай бұрын
Before I wore hijab I noticed a big difference when I wore it versus when I had it off. Uncovered women are going to be complimented by men AND women while as a hijabi I was only complimented by women. There is a massive difference and it proves hijab and covering yourself is just trying to protect women. It was never oppressive.
@flabbytobaddie
@flabbytobaddie Ай бұрын
I got approached by men in my hijab. Both non Muslims and Muslims. People both men and women need to control themselves
@hafsahjawed.s9224
@hafsahjawed.s9224 Ай бұрын
but its not why it was ordered it was so that men dont hv desires when they see women hair and bodies
@j.w8680
@j.w8680 4 күн бұрын
​@@hafsahjawed.s9224You're right and women are not, & should not, be responsible for how a man reacts to them. It is up to a man to control his behaviour.
@Zoya-v9l
@Zoya-v9l 2 ай бұрын
That's what I'm practicing.... to cover myself May Allah help us to cover ourselves..... In sha allah❤
@Tresdrole123
@Tresdrole123 Ай бұрын
It’s very difficult:( Looking at women doesnt benefit men socially, financially, and professionally, but our looks are social currency. This is an excellent reminder. Jazakum Allah kheir for posting
@Shireenali146
@Shireenali146 2 ай бұрын
MashaAllah…Its so pretty that Allah have mentioned in Quran everything so deeply …but we people are unaware… Beautifully explained these verse…MashaAllah..SubhanAllah🤍🤍
@Seekingknowledge1116
@Seekingknowledge1116 2 ай бұрын
Great explanation. Truly, I feel so much more beautiful in hijab than without … I feel protected. Alhamdulillah for Islam , reverted August 2023.
@j.w8680
@j.w8680 4 күн бұрын
The hijab/full veil were in fact a Christian invention, worn by women of higher classes. Those people that conquered Egypt left this as a legacy of their empire. It was NOT a Muslim habit before then. The Quran states women should be modest in their attire, but ALSO states this about men. When was the last time you heard a man being criticised for his love of shoes or his looks/attire?
@hanat1313
@hanat1313 Ай бұрын
100% true. I wear the hijab and somedays I feel like I can't get it right. To anyone else it will probably look the same but my eyes can see the smallest thing like the tiny little fold that's wrong. This desire to look perfect cannot be cured but the best among us those who control it for the sake of Allah.
@sarahhaitham511
@sarahhaitham511 2 ай бұрын
This really showed how fair Allah and how he created the world with such balance SubhanAllah ❤❤ Very beautiful video jazak Allah khair ❤
@bushrafirdausi1035
@bushrafirdausi1035 Ай бұрын
So true. But the problem is when women don't get appreciation at home they start expecting it from others.
@Kashachel
@Kashachel 2 ай бұрын
yes, as a woman I will say yes, sometimes passing by shops or sitting on the internet you see beautiful dresses and want to wear them to be beautiful to show it to the whole world, but you remember that you are a Muslim
@irinaryzhova5639
@irinaryzhova5639 2 ай бұрын
SubhanAllah, the thing that we are covered outside with all that struggle, forces us to look as pretty as possible at home in front of our husbands 😅 I put perfume, nice clothes and make my hairstyles at home. And this changed our marriage to soooo much better, Alhamdulillyah.
@fakhrulislam6869
@fakhrulislam6869 Ай бұрын
Good to hear it 👍
@pumpkinpatch6085
@pumpkinpatch6085 29 күн бұрын
He explained it so well!!! So true for women it’s a daily struggle especially for those living in non Muslim environments.
@petal21
@petal21 2 ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah for being here today. We need constant reminders because we live in times of fitnah. اللهم ثبتنا على دينك
@SariaImran-s6y
@SariaImran-s6y Ай бұрын
SubhanAllah, this is truly a sign. I was JUST wondering and questioning my hijab, like most people would say that haya comes naturally but i strongly believe its just something you have to work for inorder to achieve that level of haya, or modesty that Allah be pleased with, and being in a society where u see women presenting themselves and look so pretty, you get that desire ignited asw and it just gets harder to stay modest. I certainly did believe that practicing hijab was a journey in itself and becoming better at it takes time. It wouldnt just come eventually to u, you have to work for it and this video just shows why. Allah's just made us that way 😭🩷 surely his way of testing our patience, consistency and tawakul In sha Allah Allah makes it easy for all the practicing hijabis, and people getting into modesty, you will be rewarded surely 🩷 Allah huma barik to all the hijabis out there struggling.
@prettytulip1077
@prettytulip1077 2 ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah.. I love to cover myself because this is Order of Allah.❤
@zainabsaba3716
@zainabsaba3716 2 ай бұрын
O my God, the comparison he made! this is one of the most accurate videos i've ever watched..mindblowingly true
@irinaryzhova5639
@irinaryzhova5639 2 ай бұрын
Some people say that women are making themselves beautiful to attract men. As a woman I can say, we do it for the other women 😂 I don't look what men are wearing, but I always look at women 😂
@ifazalambhuyan3066
@ifazalambhuyan3066 2 ай бұрын
Then why do woman cheat? If they dont dress to attract men?
@galadriel6613
@galadriel6613 2 ай бұрын
same lol
@snowecaddel9454
@snowecaddel9454 2 ай бұрын
Don’t try to support the idea that you are allowed to dress hot and attract others. Being put together and clean versus attracting others are VERY different. It’s possible to make mistakes while doing that too. I’ll admit I’ve dressed that way before but be careful how you dress. Even if it’s for “other women”.
@zoyaakhtar4693
@zoyaakhtar4693 Ай бұрын
It's true 😂❤
@citrine6469
@citrine6469 Ай бұрын
i totally agree with you
@user-zf6qd4wz5i
@user-zf6qd4wz5i Ай бұрын
I appreciate how he also talk about what men should do when talking about what women should do. There are a lot of people who think that Islam oppresses women because they have to cover themselves, but never say anything about men's responsibility to lower their eyes.
@MemeTeamKidos
@MemeTeamKidos 2 ай бұрын
Subhan Allah..every khutbah n bayyan of Ustad Nouman ..lights up my heart n deepens my emaan...Alhamdulillah..Allahuma barik
@fluffymountains
@fluffymountains Ай бұрын
surah "nur", translates to The Light. In short, men lower gaze and women cover to protect the light of faith in their heart (and hearts of other believers)
@mariamii7443
@mariamii7443 21 күн бұрын
I agree with his overall message. But the example he gave of women fighting the desire to be beautiful I would say generally is not correct. Maybe that’s the case for some women who feel competitive to other women. But generally I would say that it’s more so looking at a beautiful woman and wanting to be beautiful too but comparing yourself and feeling ugly. Being beautiful to women means acceptance in society and being loved. Which is what women fundamentally want in the first place is to be loved and desired. Which is why it’s so hard to fight the desire to be beautiful.
@j.w8680
@j.w8680 4 күн бұрын
No, it's that women in most societies and too many cultures are taught that their looks are more important than what is in their brains, or any other trait they have. I don't see anything wrong in looking after your body/appearance, or appreciating it. That is seperate from pure vanity and being very superficial about your judgement of yourself & others in terms of looks. Men, also have a desire to look good, to wear nice clothes, to be noticed. This is a social construct. We are only responsible for ourselves, not other's behaviour. I am not religious, but my mother taught me that the Quran stares that both men AND women should be modest in their attire. I think, as in the Bible, it is often a matter of interpretation and the Quran was DICTATED, not written by Allah, but by men. Women, even in Muslim countries are still often TAUGHT in society to pander to their looks (over the content of their brains), & then we try to spin this into religion. The hijab, or full veiling, was first worn by upper-class CHRISTIAN women. The Empire that ruled Egypt & elsewhere brought this attire with them and it was adopted by the people who lived there. The full veil was NOT a thing before then. I think what is far more important is that we teach our children to take care of, & respect, their bodies, but also not to be too vain, or judge others by their looks. There are just as many men that can overlook a beautiful woman as there are men who lust after every woman they see. It is a social construct. Men can, & SHOULD, control their own behaviour. It is not the responsibility of women to control how they are perceived. Men are taught within society, and in their culture, to perceive women a certain way, & just as no child is born vain (regardless of sex), no child is born hating other religions/races either. We are taught to do so. I'm not religious, but if I was, I would think that appreciating what you have is a virtue, whether it be for material things you have, the food you have, your family, or your body. Maintaining your body, so that it remains healthy, and striving to not over eat is not wrong in itself. Society & culture teach us otherwise, and put far more pressure on women to look a 'certain way', to always look beautiful. So, do we want daughters who can apply perfect mascara, or ones that are kind, patient, generous and behave with dignity? You can enjoy what you are without it seeping into every aspect of your life. It isn't, & SHOULDN'T be, an end in itself. My son takes care of his appearance, but from a very early age was not swayed by the looks of others, but how they treated him and those around them. It is that that matters, whether you were born pretty, or handsome, rich or poor. Women are NOT responsible for the bad behaviour of men (or boys...) & should not be judged by their looks alone, regardless of how they choose to dress.
@46-shabnambashir50
@46-shabnambashir50 2 ай бұрын
As a women this is soooo true
@ordinary786
@ordinary786 Ай бұрын
Don't know why I do burry this desire since I had entered the youth and now it's decade.. Am still same. As my mother taught in childhood that woman beauty is only for husband, my life turned with lots of challenges, I buried all desires, and now am getting very old, still no desire, as am still alone, but I have no complains from Allah, I trust Allah and Akhirah.. I don't lose hope, I still make Dua for Duniya and Akhirah.
@kj8451
@kj8451 2 ай бұрын
It should be worded correctly as women must control their desire to show beauty. Looking beautiful is not haram, but showing beauty to non mahrams is.
@solacinglight7788
@solacinglight7788 Ай бұрын
The desire to look beautiful can turn into harm as you go beyond your 30s. Women my age are not worried about non mahrams especially after getting married and having kids. Not many men are going to be that attracted to you like when you’re pregnant and have two kids but the desire to look beautiful continues. You age and you don’t want to lose your looks so you feel awful. Even with Botox or cosmetic treatments unless you control it yourself it will consume you. I’ve noticed it’s hard for me to control the desire to not pluck my eyebrows, not because of non mahrams but because I myself don’t feel beautiful enough.
@rjameel.
@rjameel. Ай бұрын
Lets be honest here. Women do want the affirmation from men. Thats why it is difficult. No much how much you look good alone it doesn't matter if there is no one to make you feel that way.
@Noname-lf9bl
@Noname-lf9bl Ай бұрын
​@@rjameel.I can assure you that's not the case for every woman. Even if there is no man, it is still the same.
@kashhshez6570
@kashhshez6570 2 ай бұрын
Very well explained. So much of accuracy..Loved the video and the way he explained ❤
@sciencechamp3726
@sciencechamp3726 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much sir I have never seen such kind of explanation and this level of understanding. Allah taala has given you some devine understanding. Subhanallah May Allah taala gives you highest place here and hereafter..❤
@josephsierra2760
@josephsierra2760 2 ай бұрын
Masyaallah... it is totally true. I wish I could only looks beauty in front of my husband eyes. InsyaALLAH one day soon 😊
@321_justjust
@321_justjust 10 күн бұрын
I'm grateful this video found me ❤
@amirahx
@amirahx 2 ай бұрын
May Allah make it easier for our muslim sisters including me, Ameen 💗
@peonypink7943
@peonypink7943 2 ай бұрын
Women also have a strong desire to look at beautiful things - so much that they also want to see that in their reflection. Men like to look at beautiful women, and beautify themselves (described as handsome) to attract the woman, more than beautiful things in general.
@snowecaddel9454
@snowecaddel9454 2 ай бұрын
Okay well it’s a fact from the Quran which muslims believe in or they aren’t Muslim obviously. Women and men are so different in their biology. So both science and the Quran prove that it’s true. Women desire to be looked at AND they can look at beautiful things, but not as much as men LOOK. As explained in the video.
@fluffymountains
@fluffymountains Ай бұрын
Aha, you are right, But of course, there's exceptions to everything. not all men, not all women can be applied to everything. God addresses the majority problem and that is best for all of humanity.
@jaciemokidm2287
@jaciemokidm2287 Ай бұрын
Checking to make sure you’re beautiful to others in the mirror is not the same as viewing the reflection simply to look at beauty. The desire to be beautiful is attached to a desire to please others.
@lioness5549
@lioness5549 28 күн бұрын
Beautifully said!!
@asnawajid
@asnawajid 5 күн бұрын
How beautifully described..subhan Allah. He is truly Blessed by Allah indeed.
@nilufer6638
@nilufer6638 Ай бұрын
For women this topic is not only about how they look, but also how they behave. Through the way we act, laugh and interact with men, we can also appeal to them.
@virginiaboone9503
@virginiaboone9503 3 күн бұрын
Wisdom! The understanding of human nature here is so accurate.
@OsmanHassan-y2s
@OsmanHassan-y2s Ай бұрын
Indeed May ALLAH SWT guide us all male and female ALLAHUMMA AMEEN 🤲
@KHASHIASAJID
@KHASHIASAJID 2 ай бұрын
Exceptional explanation
@mb5787
@mb5787 4 күн бұрын
So accurately described, I have tears in my eyes, yes it is difficult for women, not because they want men to look at them but sometimes they are ridiculed for their hijab and simple dressing and they are cast out of groups because they are considered rigid, stubborn and backward. But with the help and mercy of Allah, we overcome these insults and deprivations. The hardest part which becomes torturous is when your husband looks at those women who are in full make up and showing their beauty and keeps looking at them as if intoxicated, or as if he has forgotten everything else. This thing just cuts the heart of the wife letting the heart bleed. 😢
@ima-i2k
@ima-i2k Ай бұрын
Soooooo True soubhaanAllah ! JazaakAllahou khayran
@dandelion942
@dandelion942 Ай бұрын
As a girl i m literally saying this is so true. And i was literally struggling with this situation and then this video appeared
@mariamthemaqdisiya5413
@mariamthemaqdisiya5413 17 күн бұрын
The right way to recite the aya : أَوَمَن يُنَشَّأُ فِي الْحِلْيَةِ Barak Allah feek
@tahirahparacha9392
@tahirahparacha9392 8 күн бұрын
In my early days, I attracted a lot of attention, and it was fun. There is no point to my telling a lie because Allah (swt) knows what is in my heart. I became a Muslim and wore hijab when I married my husband 25 years ago. From that point to current day I absolutely only want to share my external beauty with my husband and immediate family. I do not want to be desired by any men. Through my journey I have discovered that being seen as someone who can have intelligent thoughts and conversations, is another form of beauty, and one that I absolutely love!! Being seen as an individual means much more to me than the latest shade of lipstick, and hijab brings an enormous amount of freedom, rather than trying to conform to societies idea of beauty. I trust in God. Peace and Blessings Insh'Allah to everyone 🙏
@EternalEmbraceJourneys
@EternalEmbraceJourneys 10 күн бұрын
This hits home just too accurately.
@AdibaAkhtar-sl7gh
@AdibaAkhtar-sl7gh 7 күн бұрын
Alhamdulillah....u explained it so well...
@ferdousimiah6843
@ferdousimiah6843 12 күн бұрын
As a woman most of this is true, apart from when i see another beautiful woman i am not envy of her nor do i compare myself to her. I praise Allah becuase he made all things beautiful. I never think i can be more beautiful then someone else this is crazy. But as a woman i do want to look nice and pretty. I just have to remember that i should do it for him and not the world.
@erwin5731
@erwin5731 Ай бұрын
100% accurate. Yes women should not publicly display their beauty, but we should understand the hardships that come with women sacrificing the privileges they would gain from doing so
@zakiyaali123
@zakiyaali123 2 ай бұрын
Sooo true i totally agree
@tehseensaeed5285
@tehseensaeed5285 22 күн бұрын
soooo true... and the way he explains.... incredible
@letitallhangout4353
@letitallhangout4353 Ай бұрын
this is my exact inner struggle
@aminabadraoui4506
@aminabadraoui4506 Ай бұрын
Facts , may Allah keep the light in our hearts females and males , ameen 🤍
@farhanaparvinarzu3379
@farhanaparvinarzu3379 2 ай бұрын
The words are so true
@kulsoomidrees8588
@kulsoomidrees8588 2 ай бұрын
SUBHAN ALLAH BEAUTIFUL BAYAN TO EXPLAIN A MOST IMPORTANT POINT
@ZainabChauhan66
@ZainabChauhan66 2 ай бұрын
Imagine the ajar of the women who cover themselves for the sake of Allah swt 😢❤❤
@Humaira0403
@Humaira0403 2 күн бұрын
Each and every word is relatable 💯💯
@nooral-rajab5947
@nooral-rajab5947 16 күн бұрын
That was so accurate I wanna cry. I didn't think any man would know about this.
@asifaansari3629
@asifaansari3629 Ай бұрын
Indeed Allah swt knows us better than us...that's y this test...May we all pass this and protect our hearts to retain the light inside..always
@BlueBubble-fr4yn
@BlueBubble-fr4yn Ай бұрын
Allah put inside the male the desire to look at beauty. On the other hand, he put inside the female the desire to look beautiful. Those lines ❤❤❤❤❤ Mashaallah
@aaseeeeacid
@aaseeeeacid 2 ай бұрын
so so true as a woman wallahi wow our Rabb is truly all knowing in that he gave men and women the tasks that they are best suited to
@imanestics
@imanestics 25 күн бұрын
I think this was such a beautiful video , beautifully explained and well said❤
@aaqibj2947
@aaqibj2947 2 ай бұрын
so well explained
@erum6654
@erum6654 Ай бұрын
Jazak allah jazka allah for this this is so baneficial for me inshaa allah, Because as a hijabi girl first when i start hijab i am simple but now slowly i'm turning to look beautiful with my hijab..
@mushrannn1612
@mushrannn1612 Ай бұрын
This makes me more motivated to wear less makeup and work on my modesty
@mseries2621
@mseries2621 17 күн бұрын
SubhanAllah SubhanAllah....✨🙏what an explanation....
@mariahanas6976
@mariahanas6976 Ай бұрын
Crystal clear fact Barakallah feek
@firuzaomonova324
@firuzaomonova324 18 күн бұрын
Assalamu aleykum from Uzbekistan ❤❤
@drlaibazubair6094
@drlaibazubair6094 Ай бұрын
I haven't found anyone explaining the concept of Pardah ( for both men and women ) this logically! This is so profound, accurate, and convincing! Amazing!
@user-qx3yd6nk4n
@user-qx3yd6nk4n 2 ай бұрын
So true, i couldn't agree more.
@hoor5827
@hoor5827 2 ай бұрын
Mindblowingly explained... It was so much needed..
@maleekahira6779
@maleekahira6779 2 ай бұрын
That's why men are envious when U get ready for him. And when U don't they search another more beautiful.
@b36.9
@b36.9 Ай бұрын
That: 'she even not that pretty, i can show u much better than she can' hits hard😂😢
@praiseworthy
@praiseworthy Ай бұрын
As a Muslim guy, very true. سبحان الله SOBHAN ALLAH
@saniyauroojsheikh32
@saniyauroojsheikh32 Ай бұрын
To keep the light in our heart ❤
@RockinAfeefa
@RockinAfeefa 2 ай бұрын
As a woman, it’s not just about I look way prettier than her but I have to hide it. It’s more of “I wish I can be as pretty as her and show it but ugh I’m hiding it instead”
@elephantintheroom5678
@elephantintheroom5678 3 күн бұрын
If Allah put inside of men the desire to look at beauty, and if Allah put inside of women the desire to look beautiful, then it is obviously because Allah felt it was right for women to look beautiful and for men to admire their beauty. Allah doesn't make mistakes; why are you second-guessing Allah? Do not doubt Allah knew what is right and good.
@ammaramaheen601
@ammaramaheen601 Ай бұрын
Actually, every single word was soo on point. MashaAllah
@AA-df2iz
@AA-df2iz 2 ай бұрын
Beautifully explained.
@AhmadDanHamidu
@AhmadDanHamidu 2 ай бұрын
@Nouman Ali Khan, you are incredibly awesome, may Allah reward you infinitely for your videos. Jazakallah khairan 🙏🏾
@MayaHendersonKina18357
@MayaHendersonKina18357 Ай бұрын
In conclusion, the beauty industry preys om out insecurities as women, it's time for us to wake and stop giving them our money
@nurinwonderland
@nurinwonderland 7 күн бұрын
Amazing explanation mashallah
@fatimaabba4338
@fatimaabba4338 Ай бұрын
SubhanAllah! Beautifully explained.
@AbbasSandhu-v8h
@AbbasSandhu-v8h 2 ай бұрын
Great , Brother you are right .
@Mustafabin111mmmm
@Mustafabin111mmmm 2 ай бұрын
Eye opener.
@adralia23
@adralia23 2 ай бұрын
Ustad Nouman is famous because the way he presented issues are on point.
@saladdressing2176
@saladdressing2176 4 күн бұрын
That was beautifully put. You grasped that so well.
@TheMoonLife
@TheMoonLife 3 күн бұрын
Well said and explained
@_Pretty_flowers
@_Pretty_flowers 2 күн бұрын
those girls who aren't pretty what should they do? they cry about it alot sometimes when they see a girl 10x prettier than her. Every girl wants to look pretty, where should they go??whats her fault to not look like others
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