Why Women Need to Talk | Marriage Today | Jimmy Evans

[@kellyanne7225]

My husband and I are both talkers but I Iove to listen to him and he will deliver! His talkative nature was the first thing that I fell in love with on our first date. BUT after a time, it got to the point where he talked over me, and my opinions and thoughts were always wrong -if I was allowed to finish speaking them. I got interrupted constantly. I let it go until one day, I finally got really angry and I let him have it at that point and I was mad at myself for allowing it for so long without realizing it. We still work at it but we both still love our talks together!

[@alenaadamkova5322]

People feel most connected whe they feel heard. They feel most loved, when they feel connected. If she feels heard she will want commited longterm relationsip and also offer him listening. The same is with customers. If they feel heard, they always come back. They see a genuine interest. Woman feels loved the most, when she feels heard, therefore she is inspired to listen.....because she realizes on the other side of phone isnt just some "artificial robot" If man feels heard he feels loved the most. If their kids feel heard, they will listen because they feel loved and it inspires them to share ideas. "fake nice men" seek short term pleasure, or approval, from customers or wife, without listening. They probably are not bad men but they are most likely addicted to dopamine hit because "short term" pleasure gives much more dopamine and much faster, than "love and intimacy".... .because love and intimacy in sex connection" gives except dopamine also other hormones, like serotonin, oxytocin...there are much more pleasure happy chemicals during genuine sex love and intimacy. Plus genuine loving sex is better, because when woman is in love with a man, she wants to cook for her husband.....so the dopamine is very slow, but from different sources as hobbies, connection sports, so he gets slowly the dopamine, because he isnt "hustling" so much but its actually better, because he gets healthy connection with people. and he may go on picnic with kids so he gets the dopamine slowly not so fast, but from differents sources as playing footbal or playing with kids. "genuine nice men" offer listening and communication and mutual respect. You seek a genuine partner but make sure when they offer genuine listening, or genuine texts that you are able to share a genuine ideas, so they see your true personality, so they react to your genuine personality, not to "a fantasy" self. (the fantasy of some tv show) only then you realize you have connection, because they react to your true personality, and you react to their true personality. Maybe humor is also a good indicator that the person is genuinelly interested, that isnt looking for a perfect answer all the time. So first listen to your thoughts, without judgment. It gives you love and empathy from yourself and to change some habits. because when you dont judge yourself you change habits much more easily. and then you are able to listen other people, so they feel heard, loved and happy and maybe they notice not just their flaws but also the good qualities about themselves. they see that you dont judge their flaws, or that they dont judge your falws because often flaws can be short term thing and people learn new things.

[@rosiparker5770]

I love Jimmy Evans' instructions on marriage. Whether "On THE Rock," "Every Great," "Indestructible," their "One" devotional, "Fig Leaf" or other ... all these teachings have been instrumental for our own walk (my beloved's and mine) and our service to our Lord in our church's marriage ministry. I praise God for giving us such good mentors as Jimmy and Karen. God bless you, both. AMEN!

[@GodsChosenMekAmoR]

This is so hilarious and true. Went through it with my husband and I thank God he is becoming that soft STRONG man of God the Lord created him to be. The man yet sensitive to the feelings of his wife. Grateful for him and your ministry.

[@justinwelch6240]

Good message, I need to open up to my wife more

[@sheenawinfrey3133]

I could so seriously listen to this guy talk about this stuff all day.... he makes it seem so simple... meanwhile I about did a spit take when he said "at 6:37 I came I to consciousness...." lol!!! Too funny!!! Meanwhile, he is right...we as women want the details...lol!!

[@MlleOluwaseun]

Waouh ! This was really good :) God bless you and you ministry ^^

[@CornerTalker]

He is correct: Information divulged can be used against you.

[@robertrosser4355]

I am a man but I need that too!

[@InT3graTi-Of-Pur3InH3arT]

TRUE 💯

[@eboniking4860]

Quote: Truth shall outlast everyone lies

[@kanemakasongo8185]

Say it again please, we just want details...

[@easy-as-eats]

There's two things my wife told me the other day that really upset her about me... One, that I never pay any attention to anything she says and.... I can't remember the second thing, I wasn't listening...!??

[@debbiewilder4738]

😆

[@eboniking4860]

Women can fix men if they let em.

[@carolynfischer2809]

At times he uses humor and people laugh. I didn't laugh at any of those times. There can be a fine line between humor and making fun of something. It can come across as if to say "I still think this need is ridiculous so I'm going to make fun of it." There goes the trust a wife might have had for a husband. However, I do like his preaching. I just don't laugh when it's really not funny because what he's talking about is serious.

[@debbiewilder4738]

Serious can be funny, you don't choose to deal with it like that others do♡

[@MadameGerardineSephora]

🙌😂🙌

[@shesaid19]

Trying to funny about the detail that woman want..... is the part at which is going to turn a lot of men off. Ten to one the video got click off right there and the information that men need to know will not get heard.

[@eboniking4860]

I live sin and evil free

[@eboniking4860]

Bible: Jesus shall persist until justice prevails

[@pamelawilliams1302]

Men don't listen, thats why women talk... in hopes one day he will listen.

[@mogenerosity1750]

If you push it, then it becomes nagging. When you nag, he shuts down completely

[@eboniking4860]

My thoughts are Satan free

[@eboniking4860]

Quote: Satan has nothing new or nothing true

[@forrestputman7617]

Men don't need "fixing" by a woman. That's pretty gynocentric thinking

[@mogenerosity1750]

Remember the curse given to the woman "your desire will be for your husband

[@misspriss2482]

I don't like that statement either, but for different reasons. That's a heavy burden to put on a wife. A wife is not a therapist. If her husband suffers from depression or major trauma in his past, he needs to talk to a professional. Sometimes people need more than talking to move on from something. Also, a husband can become an emotional burden if he thinks that it's his wife's job to listen to him rant/rehearse something over and over until he gets over it.

[@CrystaTiBoha]

Not very informative. And also too sweet.